FALL 2014 Southern Illinois University Carbondale Avoid Don’tthe Ruin Embarrassing Your Reputation Posts Most problems happen in group settings. Fundamentals You WILL be in a situation in which you can help in the future. Friends are usually in a better position to do something. DO SOMETHING! WHAT WOULD IT TAKE FOR YOU TO DO SOMETHING? Click on the picture to watch the video Which do you think is most important in determining whether someone will help? Individual Situational Victim The Step UP! Model 1. Notice the event 2. Interpret it as a problem 3. Assume personal responsibility 4. Know how to help 5. Step UP! Latane and Darley, 1970 1 – Notice the event Awareness Test Click on the picture to watch the video 2 – Interpret it as a problem Ambiguity Conformity Click on the picture to watch the video 3 – Assume personal responsibility Diffusion of Responsibility Bystanders assume someone else will do something The Bystander Effect The phenomenon in which the greater the number of people present, the less likely people are to help a person in distress. When an emergency situation occurs, observers are more likely to take action if there are few or no other witnesses. I always wondered why somebody didn’t do something about it, then I realized I’m that somebody. Bystanders Lift Car Click on the picture to watch the video 4 – Know how to help Strategies 1. Learn direct and indirect skills. 2. Be prepared. 3. Know resources. Snack Man Click on the picture to watch the video Strategies 1. Carefully consider the situation before taking any action. 2. BE THE FIRST! 3. Create shared and agreed upon standards of behavior & expectations within any group or organization. Consider the costs of NOT intervening Perspective Taking What would you want someone to do for you or for someone you care about? Obedience to Perceived Authority The Milgram Experiment Obedience to Perceived Authority FAMU Hazing Death The S.E.E. Model SAFE Responding EARLY Intervention EFFECTIVE Helping Emergency Helping Stay calm Evaluate the situation Consider options – direct and/or indirect Offer support but don’t be part of the problem Know your limits – walk away if it’s unsafe! Non-Emergency Helping Consider frequency, duration and severity Define the problem and the barriers Determine the goal; Develop a game plan Set boundaries – don’t enable Maintain respect Consider options; Know resources Value-Based Decisions Is it worth it? Why People Intervene It was the right thing to do. I would want someone to help me in that situation. Someone needed help. Friends should look out for each other. So the situation wouldn’t escalate. 5 – Step UP! DO SOMETHING! Scenario You are at a party. During the past hour you notice one of your male friends has been talking to a young woman. They seem to be having a good time, but it is clear that the woman has had too much to drink. You see your friend step away and come back with drinks for both of them. A few minutes later you see him put his arm around the young woman and start to lead her upstairs. What do you do? Dating/Domestic Violence What it Can Look Like How to Step UP! Stalking What it Can Look Like How to Step UP! Alcohol What it Can Look Like How to Step UP! {