Parenting Conference 2013
Session Four
The Connection Between Parents
2013 Parenting Conference
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2013 Parenting Conference
Session One
- The Command To Parents
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2013 Parenting Conference
Session One
- The Command To Parents
Session Two
- The Counsel From Parents
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2013 Parenting Conference
Session One
- The Command To Parents
Session Two
- The Counsel From Parents
Session Three
- The Correction By Parents
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2013 Parenting Conference
Session One
- The Command To Parents
Session Two
- The Counsel From Parents
Session Three
- The Correction By Parents
Tonight
- The Connection Between Parents
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“My wife and I were happy for twenty years. Then we met.”
Rodney Dangerfield
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“The strength of a nation lies in the homes of it’s people.”
Abraham Lincoln
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“A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.”
Ecclesiastes 4:12
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Five Ingredients For A Blessed Marriage:
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Five Ingredients For A Blessed Marriage:
I. Affirmation
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Five Ingredients For A Blessed Marriage:
I. Affirmation - to state or assert positively or maintain
as true; to confirm as true; an assertion
of the truth or existence of something.
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Affirm Your Role
Husband
Wife
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Affirm Your Role
Husband
Wife
A. Spiritual Leadership
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Affirm Your Role
Husband
Wife
A. Spiritual Leadership
B. Sacrificial Love
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Affirm Your Role
Husband
Wife
A. Spiritual Leadership
B. Sacrificial Love
C. Steadfast Labor
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Affirm Your Role
Husband
Wife
A. Spiritual Leadership
B. Sacrificial Love
C. Steadfast Labor
“But if anyone does not provide for his own, and
especially for those of his household, he has denied
the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.”
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I Timothy 5:8
Affirm Your Role
Husband
Wife
A. Spiritual Leadership
B. Sacrificial Love
C. Steadfast Labor
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Affirm Your Role
Husband
A. Spiritual Leadership
Wife
A. Humble Submission
B. Sacrificial Love
C. Steadfast Labor
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Affirm Your Role
Husband
A. Spiritual Leadership
Wife
A. Humble Submission
B. Sacrificial Love
C. Steadfast Labor
“In the same way you wives be submissive to your own husbands
so that even if any of them are disobedient to the word, they may
be won without a word by the behavior of their wives, as they
observe your chaste and respectful behavior.”
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I Peter 3:1-2
Affirm Your Role
Husband
A. Spiritual Leadership
Wife
A. Humble Submission
B. Sacrificial Love
C. Steadfast Labor
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Affirm Your Role
Husband
Wife
A. Spiritual Leadership
A. Humble Submission
B. Sacrificial Love
B. Helpful Support
C. Steadfast Labor
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Affirm Your Role
Husband
Wife
A. Spiritual Leadership
A. Humble Submission
B. Sacrificial Love
B. Helpful Support
C. Steadfast Labor
“Then the Lord God said, ‘It is not good for man to be alone;
I will make him a helper suitable for him.’”
Genesis 2:18
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Affirm Your Role
Husband
Wife
A. Spiritual Leadership
A. Humble Submission
B. Sacrificial Love
B. Helpful Support
C. Steadfast Labor
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Affirm Your Role
Husband
Wife
A. Spiritual Leadership
A. Humble Submission
B. Sacrificial Love
B. Helpful Support
C. Steadfast Labor
C. Harmonious Service
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Affirm Your Role
Husband
Wife
A. Spiritual Leadership
A. Humble Submission
B. Sacrificial Love
B. Helpful Support
C. Steadfast Labor
C. Harmonious Service
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Affirm Your Role
Husband
Wife
A. Spiritual Leadership
A. Humble Submission
B. Sacrificial Love
B. Helpful Support
C. Steadfast Labor
C. Harmonious Service
“Your adornment must not be merely external – braiding the hair, and
wearing gold jewelry, or putting on dresses; but let it be the hidden
person of the heart, with the imperishable quality of a
gentle and quiet spirit, which is precious in the sight of God.”
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I Peter 3:3-4
Five Ingredients For A Blessed Marriage:
I. Affirmation
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Five Ingredients For A Blessed Marriage:
I. Affirmation
II. Acceptance
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Five Ingredients For A Blessed Marriage:
I. Affirmation
II. Acceptance
“Accept one another, then just as Christ accepted you,
in order to bring praise to God.”
Romans 15:7
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There Are Three Stages Of Marriage:
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There Are Three Stages Of Marriage:
1. The Honeymoon Stage
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There Are Three Stages Of Marriage:
1. The Honeymoon Stage
2. The “Party’s Over” Stage
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There Are Three Stages Of Marriage:
1. The Honeymoon Stage
2. The “Party’s Over” Stage
“A constant dripping on the day of steady rain and
a contentious woman are alike. He who would
restrain her, restrains the wind.”
Proverbs 27:15
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There Are Three Stages Of Marriage:
1. The Honeymoon Stage
2. The “Party’s Over” Stage
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There Are Three Stages Of Marriage:
1. The Honeymoon Stage
2. The “Party’s Over” Stage
3. The “Keeps Getting Better” Stage
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Five Ingredients For A Blessed Marriage:
I. Affirmation
II. Acceptance
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Five Ingredients For A Blessed Marriage:
I. Affirmation
II. Acceptance
III. Attention
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Five Ingredients For A Blessed Marriage:
I. Affirmation
II. Acceptance
III. Attention
“You husbands likewise live with your wives
in an understanding way…”
I Peter 3:7
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Five Ingredients For A Blessed Marriage:
I. Affirmation
II. Acceptance
III. Attention
“Then the Lord God said, ‘It is not good for the man to
be alone; I will make him a helper suitable for him.’”
Genesis 2:18
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“His Needs, Her Needs” - Dr. Willard Harley
Husbands
Wives
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“His Needs, Her Needs” - Dr. Willard Harley
Husbands
Wives
1. Sexual Fulfillment
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“His Needs, Her Needs” - Dr. Willard Harley
Husbands
Wives
1. Sexual Fulfillment
2. Recreational Companionship
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“His Needs, Her Needs” - Dr. Willard Harley
Husbands
Wives
1. Sexual Fulfillment
2. Recreational Companionship
3. An Attractive Spouse
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“His Needs, Her Needs” - Dr. Willard Harley
Husbands
Wives
1. Sexual Fulfillment
2. Recreational Companionship
3. An Attractive Spouse
4. Domestic Support
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“His Needs, Her Needs” - Dr. Willard Harley
Husbands
Wives
1. Sexual Fulfillment
2. Recreational Companionship
3. An Attractive Spouse
4. Domestic Support
5. Admiration
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“His Needs, Her Needs” - Dr. Willard Harley
Husbands
Wives
1. Sexual Fulfillment
2. Recreational Companionship
3. An Attractive Spouse
4. Domestic Support
5. Admiration
“Her husband praises her… there are many virtuous and
capable women in the world, but you surpass them all.”
Proverbs 31:29
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“His Needs, Her Needs” - Dr. Willard Harley
Husbands
1. Sexual Fulfillment
Wives
1. Affection
2. Recreational Companionship
3. An Attractive Spouse
4. Domestic Support
5. Admiration
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“His Needs, Her Needs” - Dr. Willard Harley
Husbands
Wives
1. Sexual Fulfillment
1. Affection
2. Recreational Companionship
2. Conversation
3. An Attractive Spouse
4. Domestic Support
5. Admiration
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“His Needs, Her Needs” - Dr. Willard Harley
Husbands
Wives
1. Sexual Fulfillment
1. Affection
2. Recreational Companionship
2. Conversation
3. An Attractive Spouse
3. Honesty & Openness
4. Domestic Support
5. Admiration
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“His Needs, Her Needs” - Dr. Willard Harley
Husbands
Wives
1. Sexual Fulfillment
1. Affection
2. Recreational Companionship
2. Conversation
3. An Attractive Spouse
3. Honesty & Openness
4. Domestic Support
4. Financial Support
5. Admiration
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“His Needs, Her Needs” - Dr. Willard Harley
Husbands
Wives
1. Sexual Fulfillment
1. Affection
2. Recreational Companionship
2. Conversation
3. An Attractive Spouse
3. Honesty & Openness
4. Domestic Support
4. Financial Support
5. Admiration
5. Family Commitment
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Five Ingredients For A Blessed Marriage:
I. Affirmation
II. Acceptance
III. Attention
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Five Ingredients For A Blessed Marriage:
I. Affirmation
II. Acceptance
III. Attention
IV. Amnesty
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Five Ingredients For A Blessed Marriage:
I. Affirmation
II. Acceptance
III. Attention
IV. Amnesty
“Be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving
each other, just as God in Christ has forgiven you.”
Ephesians 4:32
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Five Ingredients For A Blessed Marriage:
I. Affirmation
II. Acceptance
III. Attention
IV. Amnesty
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Five Ingredients For A Blessed Marriage:
I. Affirmation
II. Acceptance
III. Attention
IV. Amnesty
V. Appreciation
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Five Ingredients For A Blessed Marriage:
I. Affirmation
II. Acceptance
III. Attention
IV. Amnesty
V. Appreciation
“Therefore encourage one another and build up
one another, just as you also are doing.”
I Thessalonians 5:11
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Five Ingredients For A Blessed Marriage:
I. Affirmation
II. Acceptance
III. Attention
IV. Amnesty
V. Appreciation
“Encourage one another day after day.”
Hebrews 3:13
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Are You Missing Any Ingredients That Make A Blessed Marriage?
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Are You Missing Any Ingredients That Make A Blessed Marriage?
* Affirmation
- Know And Fulfill Your Role
* Acceptance
- Receive Spouse The Way God Made Them
* Attention
- Understand And Meet Your Spouse’s Needs
* Amnesty
- Life Of Forgiveness, Striving To Forget
* Appreciation
- Encourage And Edify
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Parenting Conference 2013
Session Four
The Connection Between Parents