Keeping Mum: Caring for Someone with Dementia Marianne Talbot Understanding the Person with Dementia: Study Day Oxford Brookes University 11th June 2013 This is my Mum and Dad, Philip and Lesley Talbot, on their wedding day in November 1939 My parents had been married for 61 years 19 days when my Dad died in 2000 Caring for Dad would have been a lot easier if he had had an Enduring Power of Attorney (Now called Lasting Powers of Attorney) In 1999 Mum was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s rdash.nhs.uk In 2003 Mum came to live with me Social Services became involved wlga.gov.uk Things became more difficult as Mum’s mind fragmented actionforageing.com I was exhausted lifeischange.wordpress.com A time came when I couldn’t care for Mum at home any more carehome.co.uk Mum was in the home until, in April 2009, she died Caring is not all doom and gloom… www.keepingmum.org.u k Twitter: @keeping_mum Facebook:keeping mum book I am delighted to talk to you today You have chosen an honourable profession and I wish you all the best I should be delighted to take questions