Coping with Stress & Emotions

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Managing Stress

Ms. Sunitha Ranjan

Assistant Professor

RGNIYD

Sriperumbudur.

Email: sunita.ranjan2008@gmail.com

WHAT IS STRESS?

COMPLEX INTERACTION

ENVIRONMENTAL DEMAND

COPING ABILITY

STRESS – THE MODERN DAY PLAGUE

Stress

Our response to events that disrupt or threaten to disrupt our physical or psychological functioning.

Stress can be defined as the pattern of response as individual makes to events that disturb his or her equilibrium or exceed coping abilities.

• Stress can arise from negative as well as positive events.

• Positive events- marriage, receiving an unexpected job promotion.

Negative events- death of near and dear, conflict, unmet needs and desires, work load.

Stressors

Activators of stress

Events or situations in our environment that cause stress.

The variety of external and internal stimuli that evokes stress.

Eg. Hurricanes, fires, crashes or rude people, losing one’s car key, delays etc..

What Makes us feel stressed out?

Doing what you do not love to do

Desire/unmet needs

Poor time management.

Work stress

Strained family relationships

Types of Stress

‘EU STRESS’ - Stress has a beneficial effect. Good Stress. Stress experienced during a wedding, new job, taking a new sport that results in personal growth.

‘DI STRESS’ – When events have a harmful effect. Stress experienced during a funeral. This does more damage.

HYPER STRESS – Excessive Stress – occurs when events including positive ones pile up and stretch the limits of our adaptability

Eg: People already under stress may experience hyper stress when a terrorist attack occurs.

HYPOSTRESS – Insufficient stress – It occurs when we lack stimulation.

Eg: Monotonous jobs

General Adaptation Syndrome

3 stages in Selye’s General Adaptation Syndrome

Stage 1 – Alarm

Reaction

Stage 2- Resistance

Stage 3- Exhaustion

Positive & Negative Approach

Destructive Approach

Emotional Behaviour

Anger

Aggression

Not listening

Fixed Solution

Ego-centric

Closed/nonnegotiable

Constructive approach

Mature Behaviour

Patience

Assertion

Active Listening

Alternative solution

Problem-centered

Open/negotiable

How do I know that I am stressed?

BEHAVIORAL RESPONSES

EMOTIONAL REACTIONS

PHYSIOLOGICAL SYMPTOMS

COGNITIVE SYMPTOMS

Symptoms of stress

Behavioural Symptoms

– Nail biting, Foot or finger tapping, dieting, compulsive eating

Emotional Symptoms

– Irritability and restlessness, Aggressiveness, anxiety and nervousness, withdrawal, substance abuse, lack of concentration

Physical Symptoms

– Aches and pains, Dry mouth/throat, excessive sweating, nausea or vomiting, indigestion

COGNITIVE

Problem in concentration

Memory

Decision

Lose sense of humour

Coping with Stress

The strength to face positive or negative stressful situations

Deal with accompanying emotions and look for solutions that are most beneficial

Coping strategies are actions that people can take to master, tolerate, reduce or minimize the effects of stressors.

Activity – Stressor Scale

Prevent

Control

Manage stress

CONSEQUENCES OF

STRESS

Post Traumatic Stress Disorder

Cardiovascular diseases

Blood Pressure

Sleeping Problems

Frequent colds

Unusual Fatique

Frustration

CONSEQUENCES OF

STRESS

Anger

Irritability

Eating disorder

Problem in concentration

Memory

Improper decision

TECHNIQUES OF STRESS

MANAGEMENT

Physical Strategies

-Relaxation

-Massage

-Exercise

DEEP BREATHING EXERCISES

SIT COMFORTABLY IN YOUR CHAIR

CLOSE YOUR EYES

KEEP YOUR ARMS BY THE SIDE OF YOUR BODY

REMOVE ALL DISTRACTIONS FROM YOUR MIND

FOCUS ON INSTRUCTIONS

KEEP YOUR MIND FREE OF ANY THOUGHTS

YOU WILL SLOWLY FEEL RELAXED AND CALM

REST YOUR RIGHT HAND ON YOUR STOMACH

TAKE A DEEP BREATH IN AND FEEL YOUR STOMACH RISE

NOW BREATH OUT AND FEEL YOUR STOMACH GO DOWN

REPEAT THIS EXERCISE TO A COUNT OF FIVE (IN AND OUT)

NOW SLOWLY OPEN YOUR EYES AND FEEL RELAXED & ALERT

Cognitive Strategies

-Re-appraising the problem

-Reframing

-Learning from the problem

-Making social comparisons

Social Strategies

-Relying on friends and family

-Finding a support group

-Helping others

Coping with Stress

Yoga and deep breathing techniques

Muscle relaxation technique

Imagery –

Use your imagination to recreate the place or scene that is very relaxing.

Meditation as a Coping Mechanism

Coping with Stress

Positive Attitude –

Attitude is all about Choice.

Improve Interpersonal Relationships

Emotional Wisdom –

Understand feelings and increase emotional coping skills

Time management

Approaches to Manage stress

Modify your environment

– Be assertive

– Withdraw if necessary

– Compromise when appropriate (conformity, negotiation, substitution)

Altering your Life Style

– Build greater stress tolerance

– Change your pace of life

– Control distressful thoughts

– Acquire Problem solving skills

– Seek social support

Anger and its management

Anger is an emotional state that may range from minor irritation to intense rage.

The external expression of anger can be found in facial expressions, body language, physiological responses, and at times in public acts of aggression.

Anger is an emotion that gets out of control, leading to stress, unhealthiness and unhappiness.

Uncontrolled anger can seriously harm your personal and professional life, because it can become incredibly destructive – to yourself and the people around you.

Anger and its management

A key part of anger management courses is often to learn to recognise the thinking patterns that underlie their behaviour and how to shift these unhelpful patterns.

Strategies

Fantasize -

One safety valve is to act our hostilities toward others in your mind.

Empathize with the people who are producing the anger.

Diminish the importance of situation

Use diversionary tactics

Write about your feelings

Maintain a “Hostility Log”

Listen

Time Management

Time management is a simple and practical technique of planning and structuring a day.

This means allocation of time for different subjects, household activities, leisure, play, self-care, entertainment, sleep and other miscellaneous activities over 24 hours.

….Time Management

Planning and structuring a day helps a person to be in control of the situation and makes the person feel that he/she has played a meaningful role in life.

Outcomes of coping with stress

& Emotions

Reduce excessive worry and anxiety

Decrease bodily symptoms of stress and tension

Learn specific and practical coping strategies

Promote inner peace and contentment

Strengthen social skills and self-confidence

Improve academic and work achievement

Enhance physical well-being.

Increase body awareness and enhance daily functioning

It is true, very Often

‘Life is what you make it, and most times,

Health is what you choose,

So Choose Health TODAY

Sunitha Ranjan

Dept. of Life Skills Education, RGNIYD

Email:sunita.ranjan2008@gmail.com

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