REBEL AGAINST DEFEAT Bitter Truths for a Better Life R.A.D. Introduction I am a divorced man and have learned a shit ton about life, relationships and the reality of what we have been programmed with from birth through the media, government, education and society’s bamboozle. I have been through my spouse’s infidelity, custody issues, child alienation, lies, false allegations, bitter divorce proceedings, and cops showing up more than once. (I was never arrested or led away) I understand the pain, rejection, fear and sadness of what it’s like to have your family ripped apart and away from you. I understand the lonely nights laying on your bed and not knowing what tomorrow will bring and if your kids are being turned against you. I understand what it’s like to have your own children not speak to you or want to see you. I understand the feelings of despair, hurt and betrayal. This book is for all men. Men who have never been married to those who are married or are now divorced. This book is my experience and what I have learned which is a bitter pill to swallow, but in the end the awareness of these principles will become a super power in your life if you accept them. You have the ingredients to live an amazing life, but most important you will have REBELLED AGAINST DEFEAT. Chase Excellence, Masculinity and MEN FIRST RAD’s Principles 1. Never seek external validation, it always leads to disaster. There is no person in this life that will validate you, except yourself. 2. You are the operant power in your universe. You are in control of your destiny. Quit being someone else’s pawn. No longer allow anyone else jurisdiction on what your dreams should be. 3. The only thing you should chase is your purpose (not women). 4. Your Favorite WORD is NO. 5. Never give your power away. It leads to a town called Suffering, in a State called Misery. 6. Do not give away free validation or attention. Your Attention is on your purpose. 7. Once you’re in an argument with a woman, you’ve already lost. 8. Breakup Tips a. Accept the reality “Suzie Q does not love me anymore” b. Write down the pros/cons list . . . cons will outweigh pros, guaranteed c. Understand that the fantasy of her is not the reality. 9. There are no emotional bank accounts You can withdraw from. (Briffault’s Law) 10. Never adopt a victim mentality. Strong Men Take 100% Responsibility 11. No one can fix you, but you. 12. She is not your better half. 13. Learn to be alone. Loneliness is seeking “external” validation. 14. Being a Nice Guy will get you hurt. (in every way) 15. You cannot make anyone love you or want to be with you. 16. The only person that can defeat you is yourself. 17. Move your Red Pill Rage by physically moving your body. (hike, bike, gym, walk, etc) 18. Your MIND can be a super power or kryptonite. Choose where your attention goes and don’t give her anymore free rent in your MIND. See Principle #8 to get over her. 19. Travel and experience life alone. 20. You are the Captain of your Plane. You choose the passengers, the destinations and when you want to fly your plane. That is a man going his own way. 21. No Marriage, No Cohabitation and No kids. It is NOT Recommended in today’s environment. 22. We Navigate Life by UNDERSTANDING Women and choose our peace, quiet and freedom accordingly. 23. Acceptance is the only way to move forward. 24. Physically improve through diet, exercise, fasting and healthy habits. Conclusion This booklet is short for a reason. It’s something you can read in less than 3 minutes. Less is MORE in my world. My channel on YOUTUBE (Rebel Against Defeat) was intended for direct and concise content with no BS. I wanted to help guys experiencing female relationships issues since I too was helped by many good content creators back in 2015. I believe these channels have helped many many men and more are finding out about the Red Pill. I encourage all men to create channels and share their stories and experiences with men around the world. Men are waking up to the reality in the 21st Century and THIS knowledge and experience can literally save their lives. I ask that you share this booklet with everyone. If you need any help, I’m happy to help out. I have spoken to many men and women who have reached out. Contact me at rebelagainstdefeat@gmail.com. I will respond as soon as I can. My purpose is to help men chase excellence and reinforce our god given masculinity. Thanks for reading. -R.A.D.