Your child’s development: What to expect | Caring for kids Search this site Information for parents from Canada's paediatricians Pregnancy & Babies Safety & Injury Prevention Healthy Living Behaviour & Development Mental Health Health Conditions & Treatments Immunization Preteens & Teens Who We Are Contact Us Français Your child’s development: What to expect Watching your child grow and develop is one of the mos exciting parts of being a parent, especially in the early months when it seems every day brings a new skill. Knowing what to expect from your child will help you in many ways. If you’re worried that they are not reaching some milesones, you can mention it to your doctor. As well, if you know what skills to expect at a specifc age, you can be sure to take seps to keep your child safe (for example, keeping dangerous objects well out of reach before your baby sarts crawling). Children develop skills in several diferent areas: https://caringforkids.cps.ca/handouts/behavior-and-development/your_childs_development[2023-06-14 2:56:12 PM] Your child’s development: What to expect | Caring for kids Gross motor: These are movements using the body’s large muscles and include sitting, standing, walking, running, keeping balance, and changing positions. Fine motor: These skills use the small muscles in the hands and fingers. Fine motor skills include using hands to eat, draw, dress, play, and write. They develop over time and also involve hand-eye coordination. Language: Speaking, using body language and gestures, and understanding what others say. Social: Connecting and having relationships with others, cooperating, and responding to others' feelings. Cognitive: These are thinking skills—learning, understanding, problem-solving, reasoning, and remembering. The table below is a general guide for development from birth to age 4. Remember, all children are diferent and develop skills at diferent times. It is normal for a child to be behind in some areas and ahead in others. For babies born prematurely, milesones are based on their corrected age (your baby's actual age minus the number of weeks or months they were born early). If you have any concerns about your child’s development, or if they seem to be behind in more than one of the areas lised below, speak with your doctor. Age Gross motor Fine motor Social/Language At the end of 3 months, most infants can… roll from front to bring their hands smile when you back together smile and on control head and open and shut their neck movement hands when sitting raise their head and chest when lying on their stomach stretch out and kick their legs bring their hands to their mouth take swipes at a hanging object their own be expressive and communicate with their face and body copy some body movements and facial expressions https://caringforkids.cps.ca/handouts/behavior-and-development/your_childs_development[2023-06-14 2:56:12 PM] Cognitive watch faces closely follow moving objects recognize objects and people they know Your child’s development: What to expect | Caring for kids when lying on their stomach or back push down with their legs when feet are on a firm surface At the end of 8 months, most babies can… roll both ways hold and shake a reach for a track a moving (front to back, back hand toy person they object, and find know one that is partially to front) move an object sit on their own from hand to hand support their whole use their hands to weight on their explore an object legs control their upper body and arms smile at hidden themselves in a explore with hands mirror and mouth respond when struggle to get others express objects that are out emotion of reach copy speech look from one sounds object to another watch a falling object At 12 to 14 months, most babies can… reach a sitting finger-feed using be shy or explore objects in position without thumb and fore- anxious with different ways help finger (pincer strangers (shaking, banging, crawl on hands grasp) and knees, or put objects into a scoot around on container (and take their bum them out again) get from a sitting to release objects a crawling or prone voluntarily (on their stomach) position pull up to a standing position cruise, holding onto furniture stand briefly without support poke with an index finger push a toy begin to drink from copy during play have favourite toys and people test limits to know the names of familiar objects respond to music actions and begin to explore behaviours cause and effect put out an arm or leg to help when being dressed a cup take off socks scribble with a come when crayon called (respond begin to use a throwing, dropping) to name) https://caringforkids.cps.ca/handouts/behavior-and-development/your_childs_development[2023-06-14 2:56:12 PM] Your child’s development: What to expect | Caring for kids walk holding an adult’s hand, and spoon say “mama” or “dada” with at maybe take 2 or 3 least one other steps on their own word with meaning start to climb stairs with help communicate a need without crying stop an action if you say “no” At 18 months, most babies can… climb into chairs walk without help climb stairs one at a time with help build a 3-block say 20 or use objects as tower more words tools use a spoon well follow a simple fit related objects instruction together (e.g., in a turn a few boardbook pages at a remove some time clothing on their turn over a shape sorter) own container to pour point to a named out the contents body part drink easily from a point to familiar cup objects when asked help with simple tasks At 24 months, most toddlers can… pull a toy while build a tower of 4 start to put 2 begin “make- walking blocks or more words together believe” play carry a large toy or complete a simple copy the more than one toy shape-matching behaviour of while walking puzzle adults and other begin to run turn board-book kick or throw a ball climb into and get down from chairs without help walk up and down children pages easily, one get excited at a time about being with other children play alongside other children show increasing https://caringforkids.cps.ca/handouts/behavior-and-development/your_childs_development[2023-06-14 2:56:12 PM] Your child’s development: What to expect | Caring for kids stairs with help independence show defiant behaviour At 3 years, most toddlers can… walk up and down make up-and-down, show match an object in stairs, alternating side-to-side and spontaneous their hand or the feet (one foot per circular lines with a affection for room to a picture in stair) pencil or crayon playmates they a book run easily build a tower of jump in place throw a ball overhead more than 6 blocks hold a pencil in a writing position screw and unscrew jar lids or big nuts and bolts string big beads know include animals, begin to take dolls and people in turns make-believe play understand the sort easily by concept of shape and colour “mine” vs. “someone else’s” object to work latches and changes in hooks routine snip with children’s anticipate daily scissors activities complete a puzzle with 3 or 4 pieces understand the difference between 1 and 2 name body parts and colours speak in sentences and ask a lot of questions put toys away ask for help know their full name At 4 years, most preschoolers can… hop and stand on 1 draw a person with look forward to understand foot for up to 4 2 to 4 body parts new experiences counting use children’s cooperate with follow a 3-part kick a ball forward scissors other children instruction catch a draw circles and play “Mom” or recall parts of a bouncing ball squares “Dad” story twiddle thumbs be very inventive make up and tell seconds https://caringforkids.cps.ca/handouts/behavior-and-development/your_childs_development[2023-06-14 2:56:12 PM] Your child’s development: What to expect | Caring for kids do a finger-to- dress and thumb sequence undress (e.g., Itsy-Bitsy Spider) imagine simple stories understand “same” and “different” monsters enjoy fantasy play negotiate know their address solutions to conflicts Source: Well Beings: A Guide to Health in Child Care , 3rd edition More information from the CPS Additional resources Read, speak, sing to your baby: How parents Looksee Checklist by nnds can promote literacy from birth Importance of Early Childhood Your baby’s brain: How parents can support Development: From the Encyclopedia on healthy development Early Childhood Development Reviewed by the following CPS committees Public Education Advisory Committee Las updated: October 2019 Helpful Links Find a Doctor Join our Parent Community https://caringforkids.cps.ca/handouts/behavior-and-development/your_childs_development[2023-06-14 2:56:12 PM] Your child’s development: What to expect | Caring for kids © 2023 – Canadian Paediatric Society cps.ca/en/ – info@cps.ca https://caringforkids.cps.ca/handouts/behavior-and-development/your_childs_development[2023-06-14 2:56:12 PM]