Introduction:
Within this book are laws.
Laws that are universal and eternal.
Laws that you can pass onto your son and grandson(s).
With these laws, you have an unfair advantage in the modern world.
You will be able to see the nuances that 99.9% of men have no idea
about.
The aim of this book?
To help you understand how the modern woman operates, so you can
avoid heartbreak, confusion or frustration.
Getting frustrated or finessed with women after reading these laws?
IMPOSSIBLE.
Understanding the truth to be able to get virtually any woman you
want? LIKE A WALK IN THE PARK.
This book is not for the average man,
I will reveal truths that will likely piss you off. Don’t get mad, sit
down and rationalise the points that are being said.
After reading this book, you will possess the knowledge and game to
operate in the ruthless game that is the dating market in 2022.
You ready?
Law 1: Don’t listen to what a woman says, look at
her actions. What a woman says and what a
woman does are very different
Women are innately emotional. Men are innately rational. Therefore,
when a woman speaks, it’s typically from an emotional standpoint,
whereas when a man speaks it’s typically from a rational standpoint.
A woman’s words mean virtually nothing. It’s all emotions. One
minute she can say she loves you, the next she will say she hates you.
Her emotions at that particular point in time time, control the vast
majority of the words she says.
Instead of listening to her words, look at her actions. Her actions
reveal her true nature. A woman could say that she hates you, then 30
minutes later you’re getting head. Actions > words. This applies with
men aswell. But is more prominent in women due to their emotional
mindset.
For example:
A woman says ‘I love you’ then the next day she leaves you on read.
At *that* time, she loved you, but once her emotions returned to the
‘default’, she couldn’t care less.
Law 2: Women throw many tests at men (shit tests)
Women always have and always will throw ‘shit tests’ at men.
Women shit test men in order to assesses his character as a man. Due
to the number of men who are faking it, women test to see if a man is
who he says he is or if he’s a fraud.
Also, women are innately looking for a man who can protect and
provide for her. If she is able to get a reaction out of you, she
instinctively knows that you don’t have what it takes to look after her.
Will you pass the test and increase your attraction? Or will you fail
the test and get left on seen?
You pass a woman’s tests by remaining in your masculine frame.
Remain logical, don’t show any emotions. Be cool, calm and
collected and you will pass every test with ease.
For example:
She leaves you on read. Will you get emotional and double text?
If you do, she will lose respect for you. Instead, move on with your
life. The likelihood is that she’ll hit you back up.
Law 3. Disrespect is never to be tolerated
This applies to both men and women. If someone disrespects you, you
check them immediately. You tell them that you’re not cool with what
they did.
If they continue and it is a man, do what you must do to ensure they
understand that you won’t tolerate disrespect.
If they continue and it is a woman, show her where the door is.
You’re a grown man, demand your respect everywhere you go.
For example:
A woman makes a snide remark, tell her you don’t play the games
and she must watch how she talks to you. If she continues? She’s
gone instantly.
Law 4: Never lie to a woman. If you lie, you’re a
simp
Lying boosts her ego as it indicates that you believe she’s better than
you. This is what happens when you put a woman on a pedestal. To
remove women from this pedestal, develop an abundance mindset and
get more options for yourself.
The fundamental aspect of a relationship is respect. How can a
woman respect you if she knows that you’re lying to her? Keep it real
with a woman; not only will she respect you more, but her attraction
towards you will increase, as you’ve shown that you haven’t put her
on a pedestal.
Additionally, you never have to lie to a woman. If she has enough
interest in you, she will lie to herself.
For example:
A woman asks you if you’re speaking to other women and you say
no. Not only does it show a lack of options, but it shows you’re lying
in the hopes of impressing her.
Don’t be a square.
Law 5: Women want what they can’t have
Imagine you tell a toddler ‘Here’s your favourite piece of candy, you
can look at it, but you can’t touch or eat it.’ The toddler will go crazy,
because they deeply desire having their favourite candy.
This is how women act for a man they desire, but they can’t have.
Because women innately want to chase a man, particularly a man that
they can’t get a hold of; it’s a part of the game. If she can get the
candy with ease, the chase is over, she will get bored quickly and
move on. Whereas if it’s hard for her to get the candy, she will be
constantly staring and desiring it.
Be hard to get, have other options and don’t be constantly available to
women. All of this should come through working on your purpose,
don’t fake it.
For example:
Make your attention scarce and make it known that she’s not the only
option you have (you don’t have to say it, she will be able to tell by
your energy).
Law 6: ‘Getting mad at women for doing what they
do, is like getting mad at a snake for biting you if
you hold it’ – Patrice O’Neal
Women are going to do what women are going to do. It’s innate for
them. You can’t get mad at it, sit down and decipher it. Female nature
will NEVER change, therefore it’s in your best interests to understand
it.
As understanding will give you an unfair advantage against millions,
if not billions, of other men out there.
For example:
Most men are complaining that women are so hard to understand,
whilst you’re laughing at them picking women with ease.
Understanding female nature is a life hack.
TAKE NOTES ON THE LAWS THAT ARE WITHELD WITHIN
THIS BOOK.
Law 7: Never come across as having no options
Due to women being emotional, they’re more in alignment with their
senses, meaning they have an understanding of energy that most men
are oblivious to.
When you have options, you exude the energy of a man that doesn’t
give a fuck. Because you don’t. You know you have options, so don’t
care if one leaves and women desire this in men (LAW 5).
On the contrary, when you have no options, you give off desperate
energy. She will be able to tell by the way you talk and act, as you
will try and rush things and she will be repulsed by this.
For example:
You reply instantly or double text if she’s taking ‘too long’. It signals
a scarcity mindset, aswell as no options, because men who have other
women (even if they’re not necessarily entertaining them) will never
do these sorts of things.
Even if you have no options, it shouldn’t show.
Law 8: Eye contact is key
Eye contact is so powerful that, you can get into a woman’s pants
without saying a single word.
You’ve seen it in movies where the main character looks at a woman
a certain way and she starts biting her lips. It may not be as
exaggerated in real life, but eye contact is just as powerful.
When speaking a woman, make solid eye contact. Look into her soul.
It indicates your confidence and masculine prowess.
We are living in times full of effeminate men. Most men can’t
maintain eye contact with women, which is precisely why you should.
Instantly, she views you as ‘different’ because you’re able to hold eye
contact without shying away.
For example:
You’re in the gym and a woman constantly looks over at you. Make
eye contact with her and hold it, 99% of the time she will look down
and smile. She can feel your energy, she loves it.
Law 9: Never ask a woman about who they are
talking to
This is up there with one of the worst things that you can ask a
woman. Simply because it screams “I’m insecure”.
As a man, you should have a deep routed belief that you’re the best
man she has ever talked to. With this mindset, you couldn’t care less
if she’s speaking to other men, because internally, you know you’re
the best option.
Women always have options. Unless you’re exclusive with a woman,
the likelihood of her speaking to other men is high, but this shouldn’t
phase you.
Why try to control things you can’t control? Focus on yourself, not
the other men that she may or may not have.
For example:
She hints that you’ve got “competition”, don’t react, just laugh
knowing that your game and understanding of female nature is
superior to 99% of men, so you’ll be able to get her with ease.
Law 10: Women don’t do anything by accident
The tight shorts she’s wearing? It’s deliberate. The subtle pulling up
of her leggings? It’s deliberate. The pose that she’s doing? It’s
deliberate. When she brushes past you in a certain way in the club?
It’s deliberate.
Everything a woman does is premeditated in some way, shape or
form. Women have this aura of ‘Oops, I accidently did x’, when in
reality, it’s 100% deliberate.
As a man, you must pick up on these signs that she will leave you
(choosing signals) and then approach her.
For example:
You’re in the gym and a woman comes into your proximity and starts
squatting. She knows EXACTLY what she’s doing. It’s your cue to
approach her. Go do your thing G.
Law 11: Women can’t say what they mean, because
they would be labelled a ‘hoe’
This is linked to Law 10. When speaking with women, you must read
between the lines of the things she says. A woman will rarely ever tell
you ‘I want to fuck’. Even if you’re chilling next to her, she’s waiting
for you to make the first move.
Why? Partly because she doesn’t want to be seen as a hoe and partly
because women can’t deal with rejection (Law 87). Therefore, if she
is interested, she will leave clues for you in the things that she says, in
the hope that you pick up and them and make a move.
It is imperative that you become aware and receptive to these clues,
otherwise you will be left with blue balls.
For example:
You’re in bed with her and she ties her hair up or when you ask to
link up she says ‘I hope you know we’re not doing to be doing
anything’ (this example ties in with Law 1).
Hair being tied up translation: She’s ready to give you the gawk gawk
3000.
‘I hope you know we’re not doing to be doing anything’ translation:
I’m ready for you to blow my back out.
Law 12: Women don’t have any game
Women understand the game of manipulation, they don’t understand
the game of seduction.
Due to a woman being physically inferior to men, from an early age,
they learn how to manipulate people into getting what they want. But
when it comes to getting a man, women have no idea whatsoever.
Which is precisely why you should NEVER ask women for advice on
how to get other women, because they’re clueless.
Do you ask a deer how to catch a deer, or do you ask the hunter how
to catch a deer? Do you ask the fisherman who’s never caught fish,
how to catch fish? Or do you ask the experienced fisherman how to
catch fish?
For example:
Ask a woman for dating advice and she will say ‘treat her nice and
buy her gifts’, when the guy she’s with does neither of these. I’ve
been there, tried it out and failed. Never ask women for dating advice.
Law 13: Don’t talk to women about irrelevant
things
There’s a lot of things you can be with a woman, being boring is not
one of them. Have you ever heard of the song ‘Girls just want to have
fun’? If you have, you will now how passionately women sing this
song, because it is 100% true.
Women just want to have fun. If she views you as ‘fun’, she will
always want to be around you. If she views you as ‘boring’, she will
make excuses to avoid you.
Talk to women with a purpose, if your aim is to seduce her, talking
about the weather or how her week has been isn’t going to get you
anywhere. But you must also understand that there’s no ‘specific’
topic you have to talk about.
Remember this: It doesn’t matter what you say, it’s how you say it.
Focus more on the energy and tonality of what you say, rather than
the words you say.
For example:
This is an example of precisely what
you shouldn’t say to women (Taken
from twitter). Observe how boring the
texts are, it’s impossible to get some
coochie if you’re talking about favourite
colours.
Law 14: Never a woman for her body count
Initially, never ask a woman her body count, because she will lie.
Whatever number she tells you that her body count is, times by 3.
Women innately know that their body count is important, so they will
say a far lower number than it actually is.
How to *roughly* tell a woman’s body count (Bear in mind this is
just a guess, not an exact science):
1. Observe her eyes – The eyes are window’s to the soul. Women
with high body counts look dead inside, women with low body
counts look full of ‘life’
2. Look at her Instagram profile – If you can see her half-naked
body on Instagram, the chances are she has a high body count
3. Is she religious? – A lot of women who are religious keep their
body counts either low or at 0 (However, there’s also some who
are ran through)
4. Look at her friend group – Women are copies of their friends. If
her friends are hoes, she will be a hoe. If her friends are
innocent, she will be innocent
5. Build rapport with her – Be genuinely interstered in her, as a
woman, and overtime you will begin to build trust. The more
she trusts you, the more she will reveal about herself
For example:
Woman A: Has pictures of herself and her family on IG, a bible quote
in her bio and most of her friends are married.
Woman B: Has pictures of herself in a bikini and short dresses, her
Cash-app in her bio and most of her friends are single and post similar
types of posts.
Which women do you think will have the lower body count?
Woman A.
Again, let me preference this by saying that it’s just a general
guideline. Some women who have bible quotes in their bio are ran
through, whilst some women who are in bikini’s are virgins.
Law 15: If a woman does you wrong, charge it to
the game and keep it pushing
The truth is that at least once in your life, a woman will do you dirty.
You likely believed all the good stuff she was telling you, only to find
out she was cheating on you (hence why Law 1 is the most important
law to understand when it comes to female nature).
If this happens, don’t get in your feelings. Heartbreaks is one of the
best things that can happen to a man. Your emotions will be all over
the place; use this to your advantage. Hit the gym HARD, work on
your purpose RELENTLESSLY, become a monster.
Very quickly you will begin to improve your physique, your looks
and your bank account. This same woman will see you doing well and
try to come back into your life, don’t give her that chance. Laugh and
move onto better.
For example:
You found out she cheated. Don’t get mad, erase her entire existence
(unfollow on social media, delete pictures, return her clothes to her),
and move on with your life.
Go crazy in the gym and making money, I GUARANTEE she will
eventually try to come back into your life once she sees you winning.
Laugh and leave her on read.
Law 16: Have a purpose – Something you’re
constantly working towards
One of the most sought after traits that women desire in men is
ambition. Because an ambitious man is a man with a plan and a
destination for his future.
From a female nature standpoint, this indicates to the woman that he
will be able to provide for her, which is attractive, due to innate need
for a man in her life.
As a man, it is imperative that you have a purpose (your life mission).
Not only will it help you keep and/or attract women, but it also allows
you to have something to focus on.
Men without purpose distract themselves with pleasure. Keep your
purpose firmly imprinted on your mind and ahead of any woman that
will ever come into your life.
For example:
Once you get comfortable with a woman, she will try and persuade
you to stay with her long, that ‘work can weight’. You must make her
understand that your purpose is at the forefront of your life, even
ahead of her.
Law 17: Women don’t know what they want
Women go with either the common notion (group thinking) or their
feelings at the time. If everyone goes left, she will go left. If everyone
goes right, she will go right.
Don’t give a woman what you think she ‘wants’, give her what she
needs. You’re a man, you’re the leader. Short term, she may not agree
with your plan of action, but long term, she will be indebted to you.
For example:
A woman say, ‘I want to go to the cinemas’. You take her to the
cinema, she’s happy for a few days then she says ‘You don’t love me
anymore, you used to give me back rubs’. So you give her back rubs,
but whilst you’re doing that, she says ‘I miss when you bought me
flowers every week’.
Notice how irrational it is? You can’t win if you give a woman what
she wants, because as soon as you do it, there will be something else.
As a man, you must work out what it is that she NEEDS.
This will vary from woman to woman, but essentially what she needs
is excitement, drama or romance. Have all of these aspects in your
game and she will be satisfied.
Law 18: Stop giving a fuck
If:
a) They don’t pay your bills
b) They don’t add significant value to your life
c) They won’t be in your life in 1 years’ time
Then there are 0 reasons for you to care. Don’t get caught up in giving
a fuck about a woman that you have no future with. You will only add
unnecessary burdens onto your life.
With this mindset, not only will you detach from women, but from
things that are preventing you from levelling up in life. A lot of the
laws within this book pertain to life, not just women.
The game of life is energy. The people with the most energy always
win. To become a man that exudes energy, you must protect your
energy.
Once you stop caring about irrelevant things and people (including:
The news, politics, someone’s opinion of you etc), you’re protecting
your energy, so you can direct it towards things that will improve
your life (your purpose).
For example:
A woman who you’ve just met leaves you on read. She doesn’t pay
your bills, add value and likely won’t be in your life in a years’ time,
so you shouldn’t give a fuck.
Law 19: The better looking she is, the more insecure
she is
Why do you think women cake their face in makeup? Why do you
think women use apps to make their ass look fatter and their waist to
look thinner? Why do you think women post half-naked on social
media?
It’s because she’s insecure. Especially in the social media age that
we’re living in, most women are incredibly insecure, which is sad, but
it is what it is.
Women believe they have to live up to a certain standards, whilst
constantly comparing themselves to others on social media, which
turns into a shit show of mental health problems and worrying about
what everyone’s opinion.
With all this being said, a woman’s insecure nature is exactly why
you don’t need to validate her (give compliments) because she’s
being showered with compliments by all the beta’s on social media.
When you don’t (or rarely) validate women, they begin chasing your
validation. She thinks to herself “Wow, this guy rarely gives me
validation, I’m going to try harder to get his attention”.
For example:
A woman says ‘Do I look good in this?’. Downplay it. If she
genuinely looks good, tell her ‘yeah you’re looking decent’, but don’t
be goofy and say something like ‘yeah, I’m so lucky to have you”.
Law 20: If you don’t sexually satisfy her, another
man will
There’s the common notion that ‘women aren’t as horny as men’, and
this couldn’t be further from the truth. Especially with modern
women, they desire sex just as much, if not more than men.
I remember when I was younger, I used to also agree with this notion,
then I started deeply evoking emotions in a woman and they’d be
trying to get their back blown out on the regular.
If you’re not hitting it right, she will go to someone else that will.
Whether you like it or not, you must satisfy her (focus on the mentals
before the physical).
One thing to note on this, if you own her mind, you will own her
body. If you own her body, you own nothing.
You own her mind (through evoking emotions and being a man she
desires), you will forever have a piece of her soul, if you own her
body, you’re just like all the other guys who she has previously
conversed with.
With women, if you want to satisfy her, be good at fucking and
evoking emotions. Master both and she will feel forever indebted to
you.
For example:
If a woman cheats on her man, the likelihood that he wasn’t hitting it
right or evoking enough emotions is very high.
Law 21: Be covert. Subtle, not always direct
Seduction is a big game. There’s certain things that are apart the
game, being covert is one of them.
In seduction, if you’re direct too early, you lose the game. Because
she now knows (or thinks) that you only want her for her body. Even
if it is the only thing you want her for, never directly say it.
Instead, be subtle and smooth when you’re speaking to women.
Insinuate, be a mystery, leave little hints in the things that you say etc.
If she begins picking up on the things you say. You can either deflect
or keep a little smile on your face, the energy is different and plays
into the game.
For example:
A woman says ‘What are your plans for us?’, don’t say you just want
to fuck or you don’t know. Get into her head, ‘Only God knows what
the future holds’ or ‘I guess we’ll find out’. Be chill, be covert.
Law 22: Women are hive minded, they follow
trends
You ever noticed women go through stages where they say the same
things? (For example: saying ‘period’ after every sentence). You also
noticed women tend to dress very similarly? (Especially those within
the same friendship circle).
This is because most women don’t think for themselves, they go with
whatever the common notion of the group is. If everyone wears green,
she will wear green. If everyone likes that one guy, she will also like
that one guy.
Like with everything within FN101, this can be used to your
advantage.
When speaking to a woman, if you make a good impression on her,
she will go tell all of her friends, resulting in you making a good
impression on all of them (this is how some men are able to be with
multiple women within the same friendship group. They gave one a
good experience, she told her friends, then the others wanted to
experience it aswell).
For example:
(Picture on the right)
Law 23: Semen = your energy, retain it.
As a man, your seed is your life force. With your seed, you can create
a human being. When you retain your seed, you possess an abundance
of testosterone, which gives you an aura which intrigues women.
In a world full of men that jerk off every night, a man that retains his
semen stands out like a sore thumb.
Never forget: women can sense energy. When you retain your semen,
you’re bolder, more focused and exude authentic confidence.
This is not to say you should never bust a
nut. If you’ve got a girl, have your fun.
This law more pertains to men that are
single; don’t waste your seed with a hoe
or into a tissue.
For example:
(Picture on the right)
Law 24: Be assertive
This applies to every aspect of your life. You should be assertive
when talking, in business, when correcting women, when addressing
disrespect etc.
With women, one of the reasons they prefer the ‘asshole’ over the
‘nice guy’ is because they’re assertive. They don’t ask a woman what
to do, they tell her (not in a creepy way, in an authoritative way).
They don’t tolerate disrespect in any way, shape or form.
Women deeply crave this, because respect is the foundation of the
relationship between a man and a woman. If she doesn’t respect you,
the relationship is destined to fail.
Along with this, it shows your competence and leadership skills as a
man. Be assertive and watch how both men and women instantly
begin to respect you.
For example:
A woman is being out of line. Rather than brushing it off, you directly
correct the behaviour and tell her you won’t tolerate her being goofy.
Law 25: You must always come across as a high
value man and the woman is lucky to be with you.
As a man, you must have a deep routed belief you are the PRIZE.
You must genuinely believe that you are the best man that she will
ever have.
You achieve this through competence and confidence. Competence
comes from your experiences, confidence comes from your tangible
results.
Is this cocky? Somewhat, but this energy is what keeps a woman
deeply invested in you. No one respects a man that is timid, everyone
respects a man that exudes confidence.
Linked to all of this, NEVER PUT WOMEN ON A PEDESTAL.
There is no woman in this world who is worthy of being put on a
pedestal. It doesn’t matter how much ass she has or how good looking
she is, she doesn’t deserve to be pedestalised.
Never forget: YOU’RE A KING. You have the capabilities to change
a woman’s life, she will never be able to change your life. She comes
into your kingdom, you don’t go into her ‘queendom’.
Why? Because that’s the way God designed it. Men lead, women
follow.
If she doesn’t view you as high value, don’t negotiate with her, just
leave.
For example:
When conversing with a woman, you should give off the impression
that you’re a king. You don’t have to be ‘in your face’ about it, but it
should be evident in your aura that you’re confident.
If she asks ‘What are your thoughts on a 50/50 relationship’, you
immediately throw the idea out of the window.
Law 26: Women are more in the moment, they
remember everything
There’s 2 ways in which this is applicable. 1) When you’re chilling
with a woman 2) Never lie, because you’ll get caught out
When you’re chilling with a woman, she will remember everything.
The clothes you wear, the cologne you’re wearing, the things that you
say, the way you make her feel.
Be sure to dress well (wear clothes that fit you and your style), wear a
good cologne (I’d recommend YSL Y eau de Parfum, Bleu De
Chanel, Versace Eros or Dior sauvage), speak slower when you’re
talking (she should be grasping onto every word you say) and more
than anything, have fun.
It’s not a job interview, it’s a conversation with a woman, be relaxed
and enjoy the moment. If it goes well? Sweet. If it doesn’t? Move on.
In terms of the second aspect, as stated in Law 4, don’t lie to women.
She will respect you a whole lot more when you keep it real with her.
For example:
Say you lie to her and you accidently reveal the truth later on, she will
bring you up on this. “But didn’t you say that”. Even if it’s months
later, she will remember it.
Trust me, women remember EVERYTHING.
Law 27: When asking a woman to link up, never
bring up sex
Here’s the thing that you must understand about women. They don’t
want to feel like they’re being used like a toy, because this makes her
feel like an ‘object’.
Imagine a woman only wanting you because you have money, that’s
how a woman feels if it appears like you only want her for sex. She
wants the sex to be meaningful and passionate (assuming that this is a
woman that you’re chill with, rather than a one-night stand).
Even if you only want to sleep with her, don’t say or act like it. No,
you shouldn’t lie and give her false dreams, but let her know that you
don’t want anything serious.
If she likes you, she will stay, if she doesn’t like you, she will leave.
Whichever option she chooses, you keep doing you.
For example:
You’ve asked her to come over and she says ‘Are you just wanting to
have sex?’. Say something like, ‘Nah, we’re just going to be chilling’.
90% of the time, if she’s coming over, she already knows what the
vibe is, but you can fumble the bag on yourself if you answer ‘yeah’.
Perception is more important than reality. This applies to everything
in life.
Law 28: Attention and validation matter more to
women than love
Attention to women is like power to men, they will do virtually
anything to get it.
This includes: Crying, posting half-naked, being annoying, arguing
for no reason, sending a message then unsending it, blowing up your
phone, even as extreme as claiming they’re suicidal etc.
Let me preference this by saying, not every woman is like this. It’s a
particular type of women. Those who are prevalent on social media,
those who are overtly extroverted and those who attention seek.
Social media women: Either those that are influencers or those who
are trying to be influencers. You likely know exactly what I’m talking
about.
Overtly extroverted/attention seeking: These are essentially the same
type. They’re overtly extroverted because they want to seek attention
and they seek attention which makes them overtly extroverted.
As a general guide, avoid these types of women. They’ll cause you
headaches and stress that you don’t need.
For example:
She posts a provocative picture on social media, whilst in a
relationship. She doesn’t respect her man and would rather feel good
about herself through all the comments and likes she gets on social
media.
Law 29: If you follow her rules = the friend-zone
You’re a man, you must lead. This isn’t optional.
Earlier, I said that respect is fundamental between a man and a
woman. How can she respect you if you follow her rules? She may try
to implement them; if she tries, look at her like she’s got 10 heads and
keep leading.
Do you know who follows a woman’s rules? Effeminate, castrated
men. These types of men have women so high up on a pedestal, that
they believe that they should follow a woman’s rules, in order to keep
her around. When in reality, she will inevitably leave because:
1. He fears losing her
2. Women hate leading
Here’s how to avoid the friendzone:
1. Don’t follow her rules: Create your own rules and expect her to
follow them. If she doesn’t want to follow your rules? You
move on and find someone who will.
2. Subtly make your intentions known: She plays the role that you
give her. If you’re friendly and playful, she will want to be your
friend. If you let your intentions be known, she will either like
you or she will reject you. Both of these are better than being in
the friendzone.
3. Adopt an abundance mindset: There’s 3 billion women in this
world, if you lose one, you can get another one. There’s no
woman out there who is worthy of being on a pedestal
For example:
Don’t be like this square.
Law 30: Women can never be the prize
Society has made men believe that women are the prize. It’s been
indoctrinated since the day you came into this world.
Your mother has told you ‘treat women nicely’, Disney movies have
always portrayed the man on a quest full of trials and tribulations in
order to find his queen, YOU MUST UNLEARN ALL THIS BS.
Let’s think about it for a second, what does a woman provide that
would make her the prize?
I don’t know about you, but I can’t think of one reason why a woman
would be the prize. Yes, she’s caring, compassionate, feminine etc,
how does any of that entitle her to be the prize?
A man must protect. A man must provide. A man must sacrifice. A
man must suffer. A man must go through hell and back, in order to
build himself into a top 1-5% man.
This is paraphrasing a philosophy of Patrice O’Neal:
As a king, you can find a woman in McDonald’s, marry her and she
instantly becomes the queen. If a queen marries a random man, he
doesn’t become a king, he’s just the queen’s husband.
Because a woman can’t build you into the best version of yourself (a
king), but a man can build a woman into the highest version of herself
(a queen). She doesn’t have the capability to make you into your
highest version of yourself, therefore women can NEVER be the
prize.
For example:
A woman expects you to put her first. You must let her understand,
that she never can and never will be the prize.
Law 31: Don’t overreact
This applies to every aspect of life. Don’t bend, break or fold
regardless of the situation.
A woman is being emotional? Don’t react. A man is being overly
aggressive? Don’t react.
Remain level-headed, maintain your masculine frame.
One trait that is repulsive within a man is volatility. One minute he’s
calm, the next he wants to fight everyone. Volatility is repulsive
because it’s emotional; and an emotional man is a useless man.
Never forget: Women are looking for a man that can lead her.
How can she trust in your leadership if you’re emotional? Ultimately,
this will result in emotional decisions, which is exactly the opposite of
what a ‘good leader’ is required to have.
Before saying or doing anything, take a step back, observe the
options, then take the appropriate action.
For example:
A woman tests your manhood. Don’t scream or hit her, remain calm
and check her. Or someone cuts you off in traffic, don’t get mad, it is
what it is, charge it to the game and keep it pushing.
Law 32: Women like watching reality shows/movies
Ever noticed the type of shows that women watch?
Keeping up with the Kardashians, The Bachelor, Love Island,
Stranger things etc.
All these shows have one thing in common, there’s drama. In some
way, shape or form, drama is present. What does drama do? Evoke
her emotions.
That’s the blueprint right there, evoke her emotions and she will be
hooked onto you like she is into TV shows. I go deeper with the
concept within ‘The Game’ (Drama, romance and Excitement are the
3 ways to keep a woman invested into you).
For example:
Ask a woman what her favourite TV show is, guaranteed that it’s a
show that has an element of drama within.
Drama doesn’t mean you have to go out of your way to create
something, it can be as simple as being mysterious.
Law 33: She doesn’t like you; she just loves the
attention that you give her
The cold truth is that a lot of women have no interest in you, they care
about the validation and attention that you give her.
This sums up dating apps in a nutshell. The majority of the woman on
dating apps have no intention of replying to your messages.
She uses the app as a self-esteem boost. All the matches she gets?
Boosts her ego. All the heart eye emojis she receives? Boosts her ego.
All the guys spamming her with messages? Boosts her ego.
Are there good women on dating apps? For sure, when I used them in
the past, I’ve met up with some chill women, but it’s like trying to
find a needle in a haystack; it’s a waste of your time.
For example:
Your ex hits you up. She doesn’t want you, because if she did, you
wouldn’t have broke up in the first place. She came back because she
wants your attention and to make her feel validated.
Don’t give it to her, move on.
Law 34: Women can’t stand being alone
As a man, you must understand that being ‘lonely’ is apart of the
game. Because the times when you’re alone, are the times when
you’re building yourself up.
But a woman doesn’t have to build herself up, she’s born with her
value, whereas a man has to create his. Therefore, she detests being
lonely, because it makes her feel somewhat ‘useless’.
Think back to the caveman days. Women stayed with other women at
the hut, cooking sabretooth tigers and nurtured their kids, whilst the
men went out to risk his life, in order to get food to bring back to the
hut and feed the entire family/tribe.
It’s innate for women to desire having company of some sort.
Additionally, this is why many single women have pets. Rather than
remaining alone, they seek comfort from their pets, hence the
common notion of ‘cat ladies’ or ‘dog mums’.
This aspect of female nature is to help you detach. Women are never
really ‘single’, they’re always entertaining a guy at some level. She
will claim she’s ‘lonely’, then hit up her ex to get her back blown out.
Unless you’re exclusive with a woman, expect her to be entertaining
another guy, meaning, don’t get too attached too early.
For example:
She talks shit behind her friends back and complains that her friend is
a [redacted], yet will comment ‘Slay girlll’ underneath her pictures.
Law 35: If she’s always drinking or smoking, she
hates herself
Recreational drugs are an escape for women who don’t like who they
are. They use them as a coping mechanism because they don’t like
who themselves when they’re sober.
Horrible energy to be around and especially because sex is a sacred
act (SEX means sacred energy exchange), she will be transferring that
negative energy onto you.
I’m telling you this from experience, avoid these types of women at
all costs.
For example:
She constantly: Vapes, smokes or drinks, don’t even bother.
Law 36: Kings bring women into their life to benefit
them: Physically and spiritually.
One lesson my mentor taught me: Everything boils down to value.
If all her value is placed upon what is in-between her legs, you don’t
need her. There’s far too many women in this world who will be a
blessing in your life, for you to settle for one that adds nothing outside
of sex.
However, sex is important, but it’s not a valid reason for being with a
woman.
As a man, a woman must add value to your life in 2 ways:
1. Physically: This includes: Cooking and nurturing you. Yes, she
must provide sex and all that good stuff, but it also involves
high quality meals, massages, and peace.
As a man, you have to go out in the world and do what you have
to do, if she can’t do the bare minimum of supplying you with a
meal after you’ve been hustling for hours, she’s not the one.
A woman who genuinely desires you, will go out of her way to
add value to your life, because she gets enjoyment out of seeing
you satisfied. However, a woman who is using you, will
complain when it comes to adding value, because she wants all
the benefits, without any of the work.
2. Spiritually: Women are spiritual beings. They can sense energy
better than the majority of men, due to their emotional nature. A
woman should be protecting you spiritually. Whether it’s letting
you know when your energy levels seem off, or giving you
insights on a certain person who could potentially harm you in
the future.
A woman that adds value to your life physically and spiritually, is a
woman that you should keep around.
A woman that only adds value through sex, is a woman you should
avoid.
For example:
Woman A: She’s a 10, but is useless at everything (Can’t care for
your basic needs).
Woman B: She’s a 8, but adds value to your life (She can care for
your basic needs).
Woman B > Woman A, every day of the week.
Law 37: Never show weakness around a woman
I know society has told you to ‘vulnerable’ with women, but the men
who are vulnerable are the men who are single, why?
Because a man isn’t built to be vulnerable. Vulnerability implies
weakness, and a fundamental aspect of being a man requires strength.
How can she respect and look up to you, if you present yourself as
weak? She can’t.
This doesn’t mean that you should be a robot and never reveal
anything that makes you somewhat ‘susceptible’, it means that you
should let her know what she needs to know. I.e. Downplay it.
If you’re going through hell, let her know that you have some
situations that you need to fix. If you’re pissed off, tell her you need
to go to the gym to let off some ‘steam’. At the end of the day, you’re
a human, just be very wary of the things you reveal.
Because showing weakness around women is like bleeding next to a
shark. If the shark can smell blood, it attacks. If a woman can smell
weakness, she will abuse you. Meaning, she will leverage that
weakness against you, in order for her to control you.
For example:
You’re short and you’re insecure about it. A woman can make a sly
remark at your expense, you get defensive (showing weakness) and
she loses respect and attraction towards you. Or, you could laugh
about being short and not let her goofiness annoy you.
Never show weakness, this goes for every facet of life, not just with
women.
Law 38: Never let a woman waste your time.
Understand this: Your time is the most valuable asset that you own.
No matter how much power you have, how much money is in your
bank account or how many followers you have on social media, you
only have a limited amount of time on this earth.
You can’t buy or rent time; the day you were born, is the day the
timer started ticking.
You must protect your time like your life depends on it, because it
does. This involves time that you spend with women. If she’s wasting
your time, in any way, shape or form, cut her off.
Your time is far too valuable to allow a woman to waste it.
For example:
How to know if she’s wasting your time?
1.
2.
3.
4.
5.
Never asks you questions, always talks about herself
Her words and her actions don’t match up
Always takes a long time to reply back
Is coincidently always ‘busy’
Constant Short replies
If she does any of these, charge it to the game and keep it pushing.
Law 39: For a woman to submit, you must have
more status, more confidence and be willing to
leave
For a woman to submit to you, she has to believe that you’re
BETTER than her.
This means that she views you as the ‘alpha’, the ‘king’, the ‘boss’.
This dynamic can only be achieved by a man that is competent and
admirable.
Competence stems from your results and your status.
Being admired stems from your confidence and your willingness to
leave.
If a man is broke, shy and has nothing going for him, why would a
woman submit to him? He has nothing that is worthy of being
submitted to. It boils down to the basic role for men; protect and
provide.
If you don’t have the ability to protect or provide, don’t expect a
woman to be with you. Instead, focus on yourself and work until you
have tangible results of your own.
For example:
Observe this picture.
Of course it’s only a picture, so only certain conclusions can be
drawn, but which man does it appear that Jada Pinkett Smith has
submitted to?
Tupac, not Will. As you’ve likely seen in recent years, Jada doesn’t
respect Will in the slightest, bringing up that she misses Tupac even
though he’s been dead for decades, publicly embarrassing Will on
podcasts etc.
Competence and being admirable. As a man, you must have both.
(This doesn’t mean that Will doesn’t have these, but Jada doesn’t
view him in the same light as Tupac).
Law 40: She doesn’t go for the nice guy until she’s
tired
In every realm of life, nice guys finish last. If you’ve ever been told
that you’re ‘nice’ you’re doing something very wrong. This doesn’t
mean you have to be a dick, but at the bare minimum, you must stick
up for yourself, check disrespect and be willing to move on from
anyone.
In terms of female nature, women will live their ‘best life’ in their 20s
(i.e. taking back shots on a weekly basis), then want to settle down
with someone when she’s in her 30s/40s.
What a lot of women fail to understand, is that high value men value
purity, when it comes to long-term commitment. In her 20s, she may
have been with multiple high value men, but they never took her
seriously due to her history, because a woman who has a high body
count is the opposite of pure.
But the ‘nice guy’ is oblivious and believes that body count doesn’t
matter, which results with him being stuck with a woman that is
ridden with mental health problems and abuses and/or finesses him.
Avoid promiscuous women G.
For example:
Don’t be a simp bro, have standards
and never lower them.
Law 41: Women are looking for a guy they believe
in
A woman’s biggest flex is her man. She innately competitive and
wants to show other women ‘Hey, look at my man, he’s the Top G’. It
gives her status and validation, knowing that she has secured a truly
high value man.
Since the dawn of mankind, women have been hypergamous.
Hypergamous means that they’re looking to attain the highest value
man possible, because the higher his value, the better he will be able
to protect and provide for her.
Use hypergamy to your advantage; work on yourself to become as
high value as possible. Not for women, but for yourself and your
legacy.
Never forget: Women are compliments to your life, not the focus. If
you’re working to improve your value in the hopes to attract more
women, you’re a loser.
Traits of a man that she’s looking for?
1.
2.
3.
4.
5.
He’s a leader, not a follower
He has a future ahead of him
He puts his purpose ahead of her
He puts his happiness ahead of hers
He is willing to leave if she’s being goofy
Have all 5 of these traits and the likelihood of her submitting and
believing in you is very high, because they indicate competence,
assertiveness and the ability to guide.
For example:
Man A: He’s not where he wants to be, but he works hard on his
purpose, doesn’t tolerate disrespect and has a clear vision for his life
Man B: He’s not where he wants to be and makes excuses for why
he’s there. He chases women more than he chases getting his money
up and follows whatever the common notion is at the time.
10/10 times, she will pick Man A. You don’t have to have everything
in your life 100% figured out in order to attract women, but you must
be working towards it.
Ambition is key. Ambition = drive. Drive = Works hard. Works hard
= Attain results. Attain results = increase your value.
Law 42: Women make rules for beta’s, but break
rules for alpha’s
I have my own personal story of this during my wylin’ out days (No,
I’m not calling myself an Alpha, but the story is relevant).
I went to link up with this one chick. I picked her up at the train
station, brought her home, fucked her, dropped her off at the station.
She went to a different city to go on a date with another guy 1 hour
after my balls were quite literally in her mouth.
He had to take her out, pay for her food, and he likely didn’t hit,
whilst I hit with minimal effort.
The game is the game. If she views you as a G, she will break all her
personal rules to be with you. If she views you as a square, she will
make up rules in order to finesse you.
For example:
She will tell one guy that she doesn’t sleep on the first date, whilst
she’s getting her back blown out by someone else.
She will tell one guy that she’s ‘busy’, whilst putting on makeup to
link up with another.
She will tell one guy, ‘My parents said I have to be home by 10’,
whilst she sneaks into her house at 3am after being with another guy.
If she’s making excuses, she doesn’t like you, move on G.
Law 43: Men are judged on what they do; women
are judged on their past.
A man’s value stems from his achievements. The more achievements
he has, the higher his value.
A woman’s value stems from her chaste; the fewer the number of men
she’s been with, the higher her value.
Which is why, as a man, your primary focus should be on getting
more results, whilst a woman’s primary focus should be on preserving
her purity.
For example:
Conor McGregor is deemed high value, because he has amassed a
large number of achievements.
A woman that is a virgin (particulary in today’s day and age), is
deemed high value, because she hasn’t been corrupted by the media’s
agenda that promotes promiscuity in women.
Law 44: Don’t ask where she wants to eat, make a
decision where you’re going to eat
Women are emotional, what they want changes on a regular basis.
One minute she wants pizza, the next minute she wants Chinese. One
minute she wants to settle down, the next she wants to ‘live her best
life’.
If you’re with a woman, don’t ask her what she wants, tell her what
she wants.
On the other hand, if you ask her what she wants, she will have a long
list of demands which change depending on the time of day. She will
treat you like her lap dog, constantly changing her mind, whilst you
blindly follow.
DON’T GET CAUGHT IN THIS TRAP.
For example:
Be a leader and she will follow your lead. If you’re going on a date,
don’t ask her where she wants to go, tell her “We’re going to ‘x’
restaurant, at ‘x’ time, I’ll come get you. This is concise and direct,
the way a man operate when it comes to women.
Law 45: Never argue with a woman
The relationship between a man and his woman is similar to that of a
parent and their child (Law 61).
Does a parent argue with their child? No. What does the parent do?
They tell the child how it is and move on. Because it doesn’t make
sense to argue with a child.
Hence why you don’t argue with a woman (no, a woman isn’t a child,
it’s an analogy to make it easier to understand). There is NOTHING
to gain from arguing with a woman, nothing.
In fact, when you argue, you lose. Because it shows that you’ve fallen
into her frame. She will lose respect for you, as she’s thinking “Wow,
this guy is falling for my petty games, how can he protect me if he
argues over minuscule things with me’.
If she attempts to start an argument, don’t get emotional or respond,
walk away. For whatever reason, she’s being emotional. Don’t play
into her games, talk to her once she’s done being goofy.
For example:
She says ‘You’re controlling’, don’t argue, she wants you to be in
control, smile and kiss her on the forehead.
Law 46: Pursuing vs Chasing
Pursuing = She reciprocates your energy
Chasing = You’re the one putting all the energy in
There is nothing wrong with pursuing a woman, there is everything
wrong with chasing a woman.
Chasing implies that you’re inferior to her, and as I’ve already said,
women can never be the prize.
Pursuing implies that there is mutual interest (although she should be
more interested) so a relationship could potentially happen.
For example:
She’s double texting? Pursue. She rarely text? Don’t chase, keep it
pushing.
She makes time for you? Pursue. She’s always busy? Don’t chase,
keep it pushing.
Law 47: For a woman to like you, she has to invest
in you
You’ve been told to invest into women. “Buy her flowers”, “Change
your plans to be with her”, “Constantly hit her up first to show your
interest” etc.
YOU’VE BEEN LIED TO.
For a woman to like you, she has to invest either her: Time, money or
attention in you. The more that she invests one of these aspects into
you, the more she likes you. A woman’s investment is a direct
correlation of her intentions.
She invests heavily in the guy she wants. She will never invest in the
guy she doesn’t want (he invests into her, which is where he gets the
game wrong).
Time: She’s actively pursuing and asking to be around you. When
she’s around you, she’s genuinely invested in the conversation and
enjoys your company.
Money: She spends money on you in some way, shape or form. It
could be in the form of transport in order to meet up with you, or it
could be buying you food.
Attention: When a woman is giving you intention, it implies that
you’re the main person she’s talking to. Women are always
entertaining other men, at various levels, until she’s exclusive (some
even entertain even once she’s meant to be exclusive). Attention can
come in the form of fast replies, double texts, continuous eye contact
etc.
For example:
She cooks for you. This would be an example of her using her time
(the process of cooking) and money (the ingredients that she had to
buy), therefore she likes you because she invested in you.
Law 48: If a woman doesn’t post you on social
media, she doesn’t like you
Women love showing off their man, not only for the validation that
her friends and family will give her, but to make her ‘haters’ jealous.
Women are innately bitter, if she can show off how good her man is,
she knows it will piss other women off, hence why women are
hypergamous.
A woman showing off her man is the equivalent to a man showing off
his cars or jewellery. It’s an indicator of status and prestige. She
should be wanting to show you off, if she isn’t, it’s because she’s
settling by being with you.
Keep it pushing G.
For example:
If you’re with her and she posts pictures of the dashboard or the plate
of food, without you in it, she’s lowkey embarrassed and she’s
finessing you. Move on.
Law 49: Women enjoy a chase
Never forget: Seduction is a game.
Women will chase (or pursue) a man that they’re interested in. This
can involve multiple texts, always wanting to call or meet up, adding
value (outside of what is in between her legs), cooking for him etc.
Be mysterious, always say less than necessary, keep her on her toes
(be spontaneous), all of these make the game exciting for her.
She wants to chase, because a man is the prize. Subconsciously, she
knows that if she is able to catch this man, she could potentially be
taken care of for the rest of her life (hence why ‘gold diggers’ do what
they do).
Every woman, in a sense, is a gold digger, some are more overt than
others. Contrary to the common beliefs nowadays, I don’t blame gold
diggers. Let me explain.
What are gold diggers after? Money. Why? Because a man with
money, is a man that will be able to afford her a ‘certain’ lifestyle,
which will involve being provided and protected. Is this shallow?
Yes. But men are just as shallow. We want a good-looking woman
with ass. Do you go after women that are ugly? No, which is why
‘gold diggers’ don’t go after men that are broke.
The Game is the game G; complaining about it won’t get you
anywhere.
For example:
Leave a woman on read and see how she responds. As long as she has
genuine interest in you, she will double text. Now that she knows
there’s a chase to be had, she gets excited, which is the reason why
she double texts. It places you in the position of power, meaning she’s
chasing your validation, rather than the majority of men who chase
hers.
Law 50: Her eyes will never lie
Picture yourself in a car dealership.
You’re in a car dealership. You’re walking around looking at cars,
glancing over at one then quickly moving on, but suddenly there’s
one of the cars catches your eye. You notice that you spend a
considerable amount of time looking at this one particular car. You
continue walking around the dealership, but constantly glance over at
the car which you really like.
This is how women ‘shoot their shot’. The chances of a woman
coming upto you are slim, she will glance at you, in the hopes that
you approach her. She’s choosing.
When you’re in the car dealership, you’re focused on the car that you
like. When a woman is constantly looking at you, she’s focused on
the man she likes (YOU).
On the other hand, if she isn’t looking at you, she isn’t interested,
keep it pushing. Cold approaching is gay, only choose women who
choose YOU.
For example:
https://youtu.be/Dx3pbnCf3AY
Watch from 8:03. She’s choosing him HARD, he goes and approach.
It’s that simple. If she’s choosing, it’s game time G.
Law 51: Conquer with logic
The only way to conquer a woman’s emotions, is to be logical.
You might think this is counter intuitive, but for a woman to
understand the point that you’re trying to make, you must break it
down so that she realises what she’s doing.
For example:
She is trying to argue with you. She’s in an emotional state, therefore
you go away and do your own thing. She will later come to you, still
in an emotional state, saying something like “I was trying to
communicate something with you and you just walked away”.
Rather than being emotional, you explain, using your logic, why
you’re not going to argue with her. “I’m not going to go back and
forth with you, it solves nothing, hence why I walked away”.
Particularly with a woman who you’re exclusive with, after some
time, she will begin to rationalise her emotions, before she actually
reveals them. Resulting in her becoming a higher quality woman. This
all stems from you (the mad, the leader) putting her on game.
For example:
Observe this exchange.
https://twitter.com/AvdullahYousef/status/1534007328227438592
She’s emotional, he’s logical. She very quickly realises that she’s
being goofy.
Law 52: Women crave boldness
{Extract from The Game}. The average man is timid when it comes to
speaking with women and then will wonder why he ends up in the
friendzone. It is impossible to be friend-zoned by a woman when you
make your intentions known (be covert when you do this).
When you’re bold, she will either reject you, in that case, move on, or
she’ll love you. Be honest with women, say what’s on your mind.
Don’t be scared to throw slight insults at women (My favourite being
‘you’ve got a big head’).
This subliminally indicates to her that you’re willing to insult her,
meaning you don’t care if she leaves or stays, which results in her
being significantly more attracted to you.
Compare this to how the average man converses with women. He
walks on eggshells because he believes he has to say the ‘perfect
line’.
This is deeper than just women, be bold in everything you do in life.
For example:
You’re chilling next to a woman.
Don’t make the mistake of hoping she makes the first move, because
she won’t. Grab your balls and be bold.
Majority of the time, it’ll go smooth. If it doesn’t? Go back to chilling
and then try again. If it doesn’t work a second time, keep it pushing.
Law 53: Women show love through sexual
exclusivity
The only way to know that a woman truly loves you is through who
she sleeps with. If she sleeps with other men, she doesn’t love you. If
she’s exclusive to you, she’s deeply in love.
Only modern, goofy women want to sleep around with many men.
From a biological standpoint, it goes against a woman’s nature to
sleep around. She only has the capability to provide one kid every 9
months (if she was to get pregnant), whereas a man can have
essentially unlimited kids, if he so chooses.
It boils down to Law 1. Actions > Words. A woman can say she loves
you with all her heart, but if her actions don’t indicate this, she’s
lying.
If you’re chilling with a woman and you’re not bothered that she’s got
a little roster, fair enough, but keep this law in mind if you’re wanting
to taking things seriously with her. This will save you from being
heartbroken.
For example:
A woman says she wants to marry you, but you know she’s chilling
with other men. You would know that she is trying to butter you up,
because her actions are doing all the talking
Law 54: Happy women don’t talk
It’s simple. If she’s constantly blabbing on, she’s miserable. She’s
either desperate for attention or she feels like she’s the victim, so has
to vocalise this to anyone and everyone.
In this game, you’ll quickly realise that happy women are content.
They mind their business and know when to talk, whereas miserable
women literally can’t stop talking.
For example:
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Feminists
Social media warriors
Women named ‘Karen’
If she’s an activist of some sort (human rights, global warming
etc)
For the sake of your sanity, avoid these types of women.
Law 55: Women will always come with resistance
We’re living in times where a lot of men are putting on an act in the
hopes that they will attract a woman, this is why women will always
sometimes seem slightly hesitant.
It’s to test you character. If you pass, she will realise that you’re a G,
so will be attracted to you. If you fail, she will realise that you’re a
square, so will ghost you.
Don’t get emotional or frustrated if she’s being resistant, remain stoic.
For example:
You’re chilling with a woman, you make a move but she resists it.
Don’t get emotional or leave. She’s just not ‘warm’ enough yet. Go
back to talking your talk, until she’s ‘warmed’ up, then make your
move again.
(Warming up i.e. wet).
Law 56: Women come correct once they know that
they’re replaceable
Understand: The way you keep a woman is by being willing to lose
her.
How can she respect you if you fear losing her? If anything, she
should fear losing you, because YOU’RE THE PRIZE.
This is abundance mindset in a nutshell. NEVER fear losing a woman
(or anything that is tangible, loved ones being an exception). Once
you adopt this mindset, you will move with a freedom and aura that
makes you stick out from all the squares.
Because you couldn’t care less if she leaves, you speak your mind and
check her BS. In a woman’s mind, this is exactly what she’s looking
for in a man.
She doesn’t want a man that NEEDS her, she wants a man that
ENJOYS having her around. The former is a man that has a scarcity
mindset, the latter is a man that has an abundance mindset
Linked to this, women don’t play any funny games when they know
they’re replaceable. They know they must be on behaviour, otherwise
they’ll get cut her off (high value men are ruthless with cutting
women off, because they understand that they’re the prize, so will
have an abundance of options).
For example:
If she says “I’m the best you’ll ever have”, look at her and laugh.
Or she asks “Am I the only female you speak to?”, either directly say
“No” or just smirk, she knows exactly what the smirk means.
Law 57: If you have to question if she’s interested,
she’s not
Women make it clear and obvious when they like you. She will go out
of her way to add peace and value to your life, aswell as investing
heavily into you.
Genuine desire can NEVER be negotiated. Within seconds of meeting
you, she knows whether she likes you or not.
If you have even the slightest of doubts as to whether she likes you or
not, she doesn’t, keep it pushing G.
For example:
She’s always asking to meet up? She’s interested.
She’s conveniently always busy? She’s not interested.
She replies fast? She’s interested.
She takes hours to reply? She’s not interested.
Law 58: Men must become, women just are.
This is something that you must understand, in order to put both your
son and daughter on game.
Tell your son: He enters the world with NOTHING. No one owes him
anything and no one will give him anything. He must earn everything,
whether it’s: Money, respect, power, status etc. The only way to earn
any of these, is to work hard. Without hard work, it’s impossible to
amount to any form of success as a man.
Tell your daughter: She enters the world with EVERYTHING. She
must do protect her value like her life depends on it, because it does.
Tell her to only submit to a man that has the ability to protect and
provide for her.
Fundamentally, men must create their value, women are born with
value. Hence why men build and women preserve.
For example:
If people don’t respect you, put your head down and hustle. Come
back with results and watch how they treat you different. Results
translates into respect.
Law 59: When women don’t respect you, they
constantly test your manhood.
Throughout this book, I have mention tests. As you now know,
women test in order to determine your character, however, if she’s
constantly testing, she doesn’t respect you.
Think of a ‘bad kid’. They always test their parent’s boundaries, to
see how much they can get away with. This sort of behaviour stems
from the parent allowing the kid to get away with similar behaviour
beforehand, so the kid escalates and begins to believe they can treat
their parent however they want.
With men and women, this dynamic occurs once the man is scared to
lose the woman, or he doesn’t check her when she’s being goofy. She
realises that he doesn’t respect himself, so she doesn’t respect him
either (men who do respect themselves will always tell women when
they’ve crossed a boundary).
For example:
If she treats you like shit or as inferior to her, she doesn’t respect you.
If she always throws tests at you, she doesn’t respect you.
If she constantly wants to argue, she doesn’t respect you.
Law 60: Women don’t care about your struggles
The cold truth of life:
As a man, no one gives a fuck about you. No one. People may make it
appear like they care, but they couldn’t care less. This isn’t something
to be sad about, use it as motivation to become a better man.
When conversing with a woman (especially if you’re just getting to
know her), never talk about your struggles or your life story. I
promise, they don’t care. She wants to have fun, how is she going to
have fun if you’re talking about how down bad you were?
Women wait at the finish line and go with the winners. It doesn’t
matter how good looking you are, how funny you are, how much
personality you have, are you a winner? (i.e. a successful man).
If the answer is yes, you will attract women with ease. If the answer is
no, you will struggle with women. Leave them alone for a while and
focus on your hustle.
The modern woman would rather be by herself (or with a dog or a
cat), than to be with an average man. Focus on WINNING.
For example:
Watch this video of Tupac speaking the truth.
https://www.tiktok.com/@billionairehustlers/video/710360098624930
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Law 61: Women are not your co-pilot, they are the
flight attendant
The relationship between a man and woman should be like that of:
- A parent to their child
- A mentor to their mentee
- A pilot to their flight attendant
This isn’t optional. You must lead, she must follow.
If she’s unwilling to follow? You show her the door and find yourself
someone that will follow.
However, this doesn’t mean that you completely disregard women’s
opinions. Acknowledge them, make them feel valued, but you must
make the final decision, not her.
Also, a woman can become your co-pilot, but this is exclusively for a
woman you’re married to, and even still, you must make the decisions
and lead.
This is the natural order of the world and it will NEVER change. It is
your role, as a man, to lead yourself and your woman to a better life.
It’s your girl’s job to add peace and protect you spiritually.
I’ll explain the protect spiritually aspect:
Due to women’s emotional nature, they’re more in tune with their
senses and the spiritual world. She can sense things that men are
completely oblivious to.
Your mother or grandmother ever saying “This person isn’t good for
you”, is a perfect example of this.
Another example is they see something in their dreams. I’ve had
multiple times whilst I was in America and my mother was in
England, she’d call me saying she had a dream and that I should be
careful.
A woman that can protect you spiritually is God sent, look after her.
For example:
She will test your leadership ability. She will say things like “Why
does it always have to be your way, just once can’t I get what I
want?”.
Explain and make it very clear, that you’re a man and you lead. She
knows this, but she has to test to make sure you’ll remain assertive.
Law 62: It’s very easy for women to cry, don’t be
fooled
Women will literally cry at anything.
They will cry when:
-
Seeing a baby
Seeing a cute dog
Watching a TV program
Scrolling through TikTok
After a man has checked her goofiness
Don’t take a woman’s tears seriously, she’s being emotional.
For most women, when they don’t get their way, they cry and it
usually works because the average guy is a square. If you’re reading
this, you’re levels above the average guy.
Don’t fall for the tears, maintain your masculine frame, let the tears
pass and double down on whatever it is that you said or did. Never
fold just because she started crying.
For example:
Your girl crossed a boundary and you cussed her out. She will cry and
say something emotional, “You don’t love me”, “Why do you hate
me” etc.
Disregard it and go about your business. If she’s still crying or
kicking up a fuss, kiss her on the forehead. She’ll survive her stream
of tears, trust me.
Law 63: Most men are invisible to women
For the average guy, when he’s walking around, he sees a woman
that’s a 9 and he can’t contain his excitement. He’s in awe of her.
For the average woman, when she’s walking around, she doesn’t even
acknowledge the majority of men. The only men she acknowledges?
Those that exude confidence (through the way they walk and their
body) and those that appear successful.
The truth is most men have nothing of value to offer a woman,
therefore she couldn’t care less about them. This coupled with the fact
that most men aim to blend in, is the reason so many men struggle
with women.
You must have something that differentiates you from the pack.
Whether it’s your money, your style, your hair, your humour, your
energy or whatever else. You must be different. If you look like the
average joe, she’s disinterested.
Why would she show someone off who looks like everyone else?
For example:
Things that differentiate you:
-
Your hair
The car you drive
The way you walk, talk and act
Your style (the clothes you wear)
Your ability to maintain eye contact
The accessories you wear (watches, chains etc)
Law 64: Women care more about how you say it,
than the context of which you say it
Understand; IT DOESN’T MATTER WHAT YOU SAY, IT’S HOW
YOU SAY IT.
Read that again and internalise it.
The words that come out of your mouth are irrelevant. If you speak
with energy, confidence and conviction, she will love what you say.
On the other hand, if you speak with timidity and no bass in your
voice, she will look at you like you’ve got 10 heads.
This is where most people get the game wrong. They come up with
elaborate pickup lines and things to say, when it is nonsensical.
Energy: This is dependent on the type of person you are. Some people
are naturally bubbly, others are naturally nonchalant. Be authentic to
who you are, never fake or put on an act when speaking to women.
Conviction: You must believe every word that comes out of your
mouth. I’d recommend you watch some Mike Tyson or Conor
McGregor interviews, listen to how much conviction they speak with.
In essence, brainwash yourself to genuinely believe everything you
say.
Confidence: This is a combination of energy and conviction. When
you believe everything you say, whilst saying it with your authentic
energy, everything you say is music to a woman’s ears.
For example:
If she thinks you’re a G, she will love
anything and everything you say.
If she thinks you’re a square, she will cringe
at anything and everything you say.
The game is the game.
Law 65: Look at her friends and you’ll know exactly
who she is
Women are a direct reflection of their friends.
If she’s friends with women that party, she will party. If she’s friends
with women that read books, she will read books. If she’s friends with
women that are hoes, she will be a hoe.
There’s no exceptions to this rule and it is one of the best ways to vet
the character of a woman.
Women are like this due to their need for validation. She wants to feel
validated that she’s doing the right thing, she doesn’t want to be alone
or to stand out.
For example:
You’re speaking to a woman, she’s exactly the type of girl you
typically go for, green flags everywhere, but you find out her friends
all go clubbing.
The type of women that go clubbing are the type to get their back
blown out on a regular basis. She may say “she’s different”, she isn’t.
Law 66: Women don’t know what satisfies them
This applies to life and in the bedroom.
In life, one day, pizza could satisfy her, the next day, chocolate could
satisfy her. I’ve said it and I will say it again (in order to make the
concept concrete in your mind):
Don’t ask her what she wants, tell her what she wants.
When you operate from this standpoint, she will instantly respect you,
because you’re asserting your dominance, which is exactly what
women want you to do.
In terms of the bedroom, NEVER ask her what she likes in bed. You
may think that it’s an innocent question, but it will fuck you over.
Why? Because if you ask, she’s going to describe how the last guy
did it. This will lead to her thinking about him, which will ruin both
the experience and likely the relationship.
Develop your own “style” and double down on it. As long as you
exude confidence while doing your thing, she will love it.
For example:
She says she likes a certain thing. Don’t completely disregard it, but
don’t copy exactly what she wants you to do, add your own sauce and
give her an unforgettable experience.
Law 67: Never say ‘I love you’ first
The fastest way to make a woman leave you is to reveal that you love
her first. Instantly, she views you as a square.
You must understand, the natural progression is for the woman to
love you first. Because as a man, we have the tangibles which lead to
love. We display our competence, confidence, leadership skills,
charisma, humour etc. They’re the things that she falls in love with.
Whereas you don’t love a woman for her funny jokes or her
personality, because deep down we know that she’s not funny (you’re
laughing in the hopes to get some coochie) and you don’t care about
her personality. You care about her looks (in the initial stage).
The only men that ‘fall in love’ first are insecure men. They have
deep-lying insecurities, which they hope that a woman will fill for
them, but it never will be enough.
Additionally, if you tell her that you love her first, you’ve revealed
your cards. She now knows she’s in the dominant position and will
use this to her advantage, i.e. she will finesse you.
For example:
She asks “Do you love me?”. Say “You already know how I feel
about you” or “You’re alright b”.
Law 68: Women are the gatekeepers to sex, men
are the gatekeepers to marriage
Women sleep with who they want, men sleep with who they can.
Meaning, women get to decide who they want to sleep with
(assuming a man’s approached her), whereas a man is able to sleep
with the woman who accept his approach. The higher your value, the
more likely a woman want to sleep with you. (Celebrities have no
trouble with women, average men do).
In terms of marriage, men marry who they want. In this case, men are
in control of who gets a ring, whereas women can only marry a man
who has a desire to marry her. There’s a reason that a lot of women
either pressure their boyfriend into marriage or end up single, because
she knows that the only way to marriage is through a man.
I say all that to say, never allow a woman to pressure you into
marriage. You must be 100% certain and if you’re not, don’t rush into
it. The short-term emotions are not worth the potential long-term grief
(divorce).
Think with your brain, not with your dick.
For example:
You’re with a woman and you know she wants you to propose. She
will constantly bring it up if she sees a wedding on TV or if her
friends post it their ring on Facebook (remember I stated that women
don’t want to be left out). You must never crumble.
Law 69: Relationships are lessons
Listen bro, in this game, you will win some, you will lose some.
There’s lessons to be learnt from everything. This is far deeper than
just women, you must learn from all the: Pain, suffering, hard times,
rejection, embarrassment etc that you go will inevitably experience.
Don’t take it personally, don’t “seek revenge”, charge it to the game
and keep it pushing. Use everything as fuel to motivate you to be
better and to prove people wrong.
There is no better “revenge” than success.
For example:
Your ex cheated on you. I know, you likely want to dropkick her.
Keep your emotions in check and direct it all towards the gym and
your purpose.
You will get the craziest pumps and will have insane focus whilst
hustlin’. Will it hurt? Yes, but there’s nothing you can do to change
the situation, so use it to your advantage.
Law 70: Women who say they like dadbods are the
most insecure
There’s this new age trend that women ‘like dadbods’. As mentioned
throughout this book, women copy each other, so whatever is the
common notion at the time, they agree.
Women don’t like dadbods, they like the fact that they can manipulate
men that have dadbods, due to their insecurities (This is not to say
that every man that has a dad bod is insecure, but the truth is, the vast
majority are squares).
There’s a certain aura/ego that men that are in shape have. They know
that they’re attractive, meaning they have an abundance of options,
and don’t tolerate BS, whereas men that have dadbods, typically don’t
have many options and put women on pedestals, so are treated like
shit.
If a woman says she likes a dadbod, just know that she’s lying and
really she wants a man that will feed her with constant validation for
her insecure ego. Avoid these types of women.
For example:
Source: https://manofmany.com/lifestyle/fitness/new-surveyconfirms-women-prefer-dad-bods-over-six-packs
Understand: Society is trying to normalise and make it ‘acceptable’ to
be fat, because it will create nations of people that are reliant on
drugs/support by hospitals which means more money in the top 1%
pockets, but that’s a conversation few are ready to have.
Law 71: Women are repulsed by neediness
One of the fundamental principles to understand from this book:
RESPECT.
If you treat yourself with respect, she will treat you will respect. If
you treat yourself like shit, she will treat you like shit.
When you’re needy with a woman, how can she respect you as a
man? Because neediness is the exact opposite of what a leader should
be, instantly, she’ll lose respect for you.
There’s a common saying “Needing nothing, attracts everything”.
When you’re chilling, focusing on your purpose #, that’s when you’ll
attract the most women. Because your energy is that of a man who
doesn’t care, because you don’t. Whereas when you chase women and
make it seem like you ‘need’ her, she’s freaked out by it, or she’ll use
your desperation to her advantage to finesse you.
How to avoid this?
Adopt an abundance mindset, always have other options, stop giving
a fuck.
For example:
You reply to her fast, you always ask to meet up, you always ask to
call. If she’s making it hard for you, keep it pushing bro.
Law 72: The less you care, the more she cares
A man who shows he doesn’t care about her, is usually a man who
she chases. When you’re married to the game and you’re hustling,
she’s attracted to the fact that you’re unavailable (especially when
most guys reply instantly).
This signals to women that he is independent and powerful, which are
both desirable traits that they look for in a man. Again, it goes back to
viewing her man as a leader. If he’s independent, that’s a trait of a
leader. If he cares more about his purpose, than he does his woman, it
shows he has his priorities right.
The reason that women prefer the ‘asshole’ over the ‘nice guy’, is
because the ‘asshole’ doesn’t care about her, whereas the ‘nice guy’
makes her the centre of his life. You must understand that women
don’t want to be the centre of your life and any woman who says she
wants this, is miserable.
For example:
Women are innately competitive. It’s a game and a chase. When you
don’t care, she will try her best to make you care. She will dress well,
act correct, add value etc.
If you care too much, there’s no chase, so there’s no game, which
results in boredom for her, which will result in her moving on to the
next guy.
Law 73: For some women, their aim is to steal your
[Extract from The Game] There are women out there whose sole
purpose is to steal your masculine energy (Jezebels and Succubi).
These types of women are masters of The Game. They’re typically
very attractive women who are experts at seduction. They lure men
under their spell and drain them of all their energy. I can’t stress this
enough AVOID THESE TYPES OF WOMEN AT ALL COSTS. No
woman is worth losing your energy and peace of mind.
For example:
Law 74: The more a woman likes you, the less she
wants from you
The only thing a woman with GENUINE DESIRE will ask for from
you is your time and your attention, because she pictures a future with
you, so she will not mess that up by asking for an arm and a leg from
you.
Whereas a woman who is faking her interest in you, will want to
finesse you. She will ask for money, food, ubers, her nails to be done
etc. She doesn’t respect you and views you as a trick. If she’s asking
for the world keep it pushing.
For example:
She will make it seem like it’s not a big deal
and “You don’t have to” etc. Save yourself the
trouble and say “NO” to any requests she
makes.
This is especially pertinent if you’ve just met
her and she’s asking for something, give her
back to the streets.
Law 75: Women play the role that you give them
Women are mirrors.
If you treat her like a friend, she’ll treat you like a friend. If you put
her on a pedestal, she will put herself on a pedestal. If you say you’re
just trying to chill, she will either chill or keep it pushing (It’s better if
she keeps it pushing, than to be finessed or in the friend-zone). If you
keep it real with her, she will keep it real with you (This is how you
ask for a woman’s body count. Build up trust, to the point where she
believes you won’t judge her, and she will tell you virtually anything
about her life).
Linked to this, women treat you the way you allow them to treat you.
If you treat yourself like a king, she will do the same. If you treat
yourself like a peasant, she will do the same. If you check them as
soon as they start being goofy, she will act right most of the time (of
course she’ll still occasionally test), whereas if you let her get away
with things, the relationship is destined to fail.
For example:
If a woman says “You’re like a brother to me”, you have to
understand that it is 100% your fault if she views you like this.
Refer back to LAW 29, to know how to avoid the friend-zone.
Law 76: Women will chase if she fears losing you
Multiple times throughout this book, I’ve referred to hypergamy.
If she views you as the prize, she knows that other women will also
view you as the prize. This will result in her chasing you as she hopes
that you will choose her, over the other women that you have.
You must also have an element of mystery surrouding yourself. (Law
4 in 48 Laws of power: Always say less than necessary). Don’t tell
her your life story, she doesn’t care. Make her laugh, evoke her
emotions and ask her questions about herself.
Also, rarely validate her. Let me preference this by saying, everyone’s
game is different. Some are more flirty, more are some nonchalant.
But if possible keep the validation to a minimum. Especially if she’s a
9/10, she has an abundance of beta orbiters who are constantly
validating in person and on social media. You stand out by not giving
her validation, she begins asking herself “He’s different, but does he
even like me”, which will result in her chasing your validation (she
will dress to impress).
Ultimately, if she views you as a G, she will chase you like a mouse
chases cheese. But for her to view your like this, YOU MUST VIEW
YOURSELF LIKE THIS FIRST.
For example:
If you always take hours between replies to her, she’s in her head
thinking that you don’t like her anymore, you’re speaking to other
women etc. (Don’t fake being unavailable. You should be so focused
on your purpose that you naturally don’t be on your phone).
This will lead to her trying her best to impress you, and this is the way
it should be. She should be trying to impress you, not the other way
around.
Law 77: To get a woman attached to you, evoke her
emotions
[Extract from The Game].
You can do virtually anything with a woman, but you can’t be boring.
This is the basis of The Game. And this is why nice guys always have
and always will finish last.
A ‘thug’ evokes significant emotions in a woman, which excites her,
and this creates a mental attraction to him. On the other hand, the nice
guy does nothing to evoke her emotions, meaning there’s no mental
attraction to him, leading to her moving on quickly from him.
Fundamentally, once you’re able to evoke strong emotions in a
woman, she is yours.
Remember this: Men run on logic. Women run on emotions.
99% of the reasons why women do what they do is because of
emotions, they don’t consider the long-term outcome of what may
happen, they instinctively think short-term and consider how they will
‘feel’ after said thing is done.
For example:
Make her laugh, make her angry, make her sad, do SOMETHING that
will get her emotions riled up in some way, shape or form.
Tell her she has a big head, tell her that her dress looks funny, let her
know that today, she is looking like a snack. Anything is better than
nothing.
Law 78: Be willing to take a “L”
In the game of life and with women, you must be willing to take a L
(loss), otherwise you’ll find yourself in unfavourable situations.
If you’re unwilling to take an L in life (for example, a business
move), you will lose money and time. If you’re unwilling to take an L
with women, she will finesse you.
It doesn’t matter how long you’ve known the person or how
‘promising’ the business deal is, if you have to take a L, do it. Short
term will it suck? Yeah. But long term, you will be thankful.
For example:
A woman rejects you? Charge it to the game and keep it pushing.
Missed an opportunity? Charge it to the game and keep it pushing.
Got embarrassed? Charge it to the game and keep it pushing.
Law 79: For a relationship to work, the woman
must like the man more
This is a concept from the late great Patrice O’Neal. He states:
“If the queen runs the relationship, for her to be above me means that
she has to pull me down (If I'm a king and she's a queen).
That's the natural order of it. But if I'm running shit and she's the
queen then it's natural for her to be under me. She's happier. We're
going up together, I'm bringing you up.
But, you're constantly trying to pull me the fuck down, because you
think you're ready to be the king and you're not”
Essentially, she has to view you as THE man. She has to be more
invested into you, than you are into her. This doesn’t mean that you
don’t show her some love, but it must be far more prevalent from her
side, rather than yours.
For example:
Michael B. Jordan found this out the
hard way. He liked her, more than she
liked him, hence why they broke up.
I don’t make the rules, I just give you
the game.
Law 80: No woman is too ‘busy’ to respond
The cold truth is if a woman says “I’m busy” or “Sorry, just seeing
this now, I’ve been busy”, she isn’t interested.
Women in 2022 have their phones in their hands virtually 24/7. They
go on little trips with their phone. Snapchat, to Instagram, to TikTok,
to iMessage, REPEAT.
And you might contest this by saying “Maybe she’s working”, which
is fair enough. However, when a woman has genuine interest in you,
even if she’s working, she’ll go hide in the toilet or a closet and reply
to your message. In fact, she’ll call in sick, if it means that she gets to
meet up with a man she admires.
Women are incredibly irrational when they are in love. She will drop
everything she’s doing to meet up with a man she genuinely likes. It
is impossible to negotiate with genuine desire. If she never makes
compromises for you, charge it to the game and keep it pushing.
For example:
You ask to link up with a woman and she says “I’m busy”.
There’s 2 steps to this:
1. Ask for a different time. “Oh cool, is Saturday better?”. If she
responds and says she’s busy then, go to step 2.
2. Charge it to the game and keep it pushing
Law 81: Never try to fix her problems
The fastest way to lose a woman is to fix all her problems. In 2022,
women want a sense of ‘independence’. Through all this new age BS,
she’s been told growing up that she’s a ‘strong woman’, meaning, if
you attempt to solve her problems, she feels belittled.
Remember: Relationships between a man and a woman are like that
of a pilot and a flight attendant.
If there’s a quarrel on the plane, the pilot isn’t meant to leave his
cockpit to sort it out, he reassures the flight attendant (letting them
know that she has the capabilities to sort it out), and she will proceed
to calm everyone down and restore order. This is the same with
women and their problems.
Don’t try and be Bob the builder. Reassure her and tell her that
everything will be okay. This will allow her to keep her sense of
‘independence’, whilst knowing that you, as her man, will support and
be there for her.
For example:
She lets you know that she had a very bad day at work because her
manager shouted at her and her co-worker was making snide marks.
Let her know that she’ll be fine and it’s just a small blip, also she
should disregard the co-worker, because they’re jealous of her. Make
her feel better about herself, but don’t try to solve any of her
‘problems’, particularly when it comes to work-related issues.
Law 82: How submissive a woman is, is more a
reflection of you, than of the woman
What you must understand:
Everything in your life is your own doing. If you attract women,
you’ve done something right. If you attract shitty women, you’ve
done something wrong. If you make a lot of money, you’ve done
something right. If you make no money, you’ve done something
wrong.
If never seem to have women submit to you, it’s 100% your fault and
until you can accept this, nothing will change.
Fundamentally, she has to view you as a leader and as a man that is
worthy of submission.
If you live with your parents, you’re not worth of submission. If
you’re fat, you’re not worthy of submission. If you’re a follower
(rather than leader), you’re not worthy of submission. If you’re
skinny, you’re not worthy of submission. If you’re insecure, you’re
not worthy of submission. Get the gist?
Every woman will submit to the ‘right’ man, BE THAT MAN.
For example:
When you’re at the bottom and have no game, no woman will submit
to you. But as you begin to hustle, get to the bag, improve your game
and your physique, women will be crawling to be with you.
Law 83: Don’t chase, replace
Do you know how many women there are in the world?
Over 3,907, 727, 342. You didn’t care to read all those numbers, in
the same way, you shouldn’t care if a woman leaves you.
There’s far too many fish in the sea to be tripping over or chasing
ONE.
“But she’s special”. Yes, there many be some nuances within a
particular woman that you’re deeply attracted to, but fundamentally,
you can make any woman ‘special’. Because as a man, you mold your
woman to your liking.
And if you can’t change her, change her.
Understand? If she’s not willing to be molded, it indicates that she
hasn’t completely submitted to you. Keep it pushing until you find a
woman that submits, so you can mold her.
For example:
She leaves you? Don’t get in your feelings. Hustle on your purpose
and find a new chick. EVERY WOMAN IS REPLACEABLE.
Law 84: Say her name in conversations
Women want attention, but they also want to feel ‘special’. From an
early age, she’s watched all the Disney princess movies, and she
envisions herself in a similar light.
When conversing with a woman, use her name, or even better, create
a nickname for her. Not only does it make her feel special, but it
makes the message or conversation more meaningful. She knows that
you’re specifically addressing the message or conversation in her
direction, which makes whatever is said much more powerful.
It can be used in a variety of scenarios.
Being playful: “You’re goofy AF {insert name}.”
Checking her: “{Insert name}, stop playing”.
Introduction: “So {insert name}, tell me a little bit about yourself”.
DON’T OVERUSE IT THOUGH.
If you use it after every sentence, it loses it’s power. You will learn
when you’re in the game, when and where to use it. It takes practise
(like everything), but once you master it, the game completely
changes.
For example:
https://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/the-power-of-usingsomeones-name-ldvs/
Read this. It will take less than 5 minutes, but it touches on the
psychology of calling someone by their name.
Law 85: You’re not the only guy she’s talking to
This is the tough reality which a lot of men either don’t want to face
or they’re oblivious to. Unless you’ve established that you and are a
woman are exclusive, she’s got other guys on the side.
The game is the game. How do you win in any facet of life? By being
the best. Be the best version of yourself, add value to her life (put her
on game) and be yourself.
On the flip side, you should also be talking to other women on the
side. Never forget: Law 5: Women want what they can’t get. If
you’ve also have other options, she will view you as a higher value
man, which could potentially lead to her cutting off any guy she’s
talking to.
For example:
She made plans with you, then last minute she cancelled. The chances
are a different guy hit her up. It is what it is, charge it to the game and
keep it pushing.
Law 86: Women simp harder than men
The whole notion of ‘simping’ has been prevalent on social media in
the past few years, but few ever talk about is how much women simp
for a man that they desire.
They’re emotional, when they like a man and view him as a boss, she
literally goes crazy over him, as she knows that she has got herself
‘The prize’. (A successful man is scarcer then a beautiful woman).
For example:
How to know if she’s simping for you:
-
Buys you food
Incredibly clingy
Gives you massages
Says how lucky she is
Makes you a priority in her life
Always wants to link up with you
Blows up your phone you take long to reply
Goes out of her way to add value to your life
Talks about having kids (shows you her list of kids names)
Has told her parents about you (and wants you to meet them)
If she isn’t simping for you, keep it pushing bro.
Law 87: Women can’t handle rejection
Throughout a woman’s life, she’s got virtually anything she’s ever
wanted. Whether it’s attention from their parents (as a child) or a
sweet from a candy store.
Women are innately manipulative because they’re the ‘weaker’
gender. (No, this isn’t a reason to hate women, it’s teaching you their
true nature).
From a young age, women have learnt how to leverage their emotions
in order to get what they want. Crying, screaming, kicking, moaning
etc, until she got what she wanted.
This carries over into the dating world. She uses her emotions to get
what she wants out of men, whether it’s: Money, clothes, tuition paid
for, her nails done or even sex.
With all that being said, she’s essentially NEVER been rejected in her
life. This is precisely why telling a woman literally makes a woman
go crazy.
She’s never heard a man tell her ‘No’. She will cry and kick up a fuss
(Law 62), but subconsciously, her respect for you will increase,
aswell as her propensity to chase you.
She’s wondering to herself, “Wow, this man has the balls to decline
the thing that most men would give me with ease”.
For example:
Leave a woman on read (assuming she’s interested in you) and watch
her response. Most women have never been left on read before, she’s
familiar with squares constantly spamming her with messages.
Try it out. Leave her on read. The flurry of messages you’ll receive
will make you laugh.
Law 88: If she calls herself a ‘boss bitch’ or a ‘city
girl’, leave
If a woman ever utters these words out of your mouth, you must
understand you’re not speaking to a woman, you’re speaking to a
sheep.
She follows the narrative of whichever goofy celebrity originally
made a saying and has attached it to her personality.
“I’m a boss bitch”. Translation: I like to think that I’m an independent
woman, but in reality, I’m screaming for attention and the need to feel
a part of the group.
“I’m a city girl”. Translation: My favourite celebrity always talks
about how liberating sleeping around is, therefore I’ll do the same.
Seen as female promiscuity is deemed ‘normal’, I will partake and
give my body to any man who has more than £100 in his bank
account.
For example:
See how demonic this album cover is?
This is precisely why you avoid women
who call themselves a ‘city girl’, because
it’s code word for being a certified 304.
Law 89: Women love talking about themselves
{Extract from ‘The Game’}.
“A part of The Game is being good at communicating, this means
allowing the other person (but especially women) to talk far more
than you talk.
There is nothing more frustrating to women than a man who never
allows her to talk, because women love talking. Linked to this, the
more you talk about yourself, the more you reveal.
You must always have some aspect of mystery when talking to
woman, stop revealing your entire life story. Instead, listen to her
story and ask follow-up questions regarding the things/information
she revealed.”
I can’t stress this enough, LET HER TALK. Especially when you are
first getting to know her, give her the floor to talk as much as she
wants, but listen attentively.
When she’s talking, she’s revealing information about herself (which
you can use to better understand who she is, as a woman and to know
of any potential red flags).
For example:
She’s asked you a question about yourself. You answer, but you can
sense she’s getting a little bored.
Flip the conversation, “I’ve done enough talking, I’m trying to get to
know you better, tell me a lil something about yourself {insert name}.
Law 90: Avoid women with daddy issues
A woman’s father is her first point of reference when it comes to a
‘man’ in her life.
A common trait of ‘high quality women’ is that their father was very
present in their childhood. They taught her morals and the way to act,
as a woman. Whereas a common trait of ‘low quality women’ is that
their fathers were rarely in their life. This brings about a resentment
towards men, aswell as trust issues.
It isn’t the woman’s fault that her father wasn’t there for her, but
unfortunately, the psychological damage that is left behind is beyond
repair.
Let me preference all this by saying: Not every woman who doesn’t
have a dad will have issues, similar to the fact they not every woman
who does have a dad will be ‘high quality’. There’s many different
factors involved which determine how she responds to a man in her
life, you must judge very quickly, what type of woman she is.
For example:
Some common traits of women with daddy issues.
-
Very clingy
Struggles to respect men
Has many friends that are men
Doesn’t like taking instructions from a man
Many sexual partners (she fears getting attached
Incredibly insecure (will often ask if you actually like her or
not)
Again, none of this is her fault. But the game is the game. Avoid these
types of women.
Final words
“The game is the game”
Let me make this clear:
YOU’RE NOT GOING TO INSTANTLY KNOW AND
UNDERSTAND FEMALE NATURE JUST FROM READING THIS
BOOK.
You must apply the things that are stated throughout.
Knowledge isn’t power. APPLIED knowledge is power.
Read this book as many times as you need. Write down your favourite
laws and memorise them. If you’re ever stuck or confused with what
to do, turn back to this book.
You have everything you need to become cold with women, go be
great king.
More than anything, continue to grind and stay focused on your
purpose.
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Stay blessed G,
YAK