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SECTION 1: COPY + PASTE PICKUP LINES
So many men are finding that their conversations with girls are dry/boring and lead to getting
friend-zoned, flaked, and ghosted. It’s essential to avoid messages that lead to these types of
conversations from the start, which is why your opening line is so important.
An effective opener must:
1- be playful, and
2- demand a response
25 Dating App Pickup Lines That Actually Work
Here are 25 pickup lines that will help you initiate playful, flirty conversations that build tension
and interest from the start:
1. I can’t tell if you’re innocent or an absolute baddie
2. Don’t tell anyone, but my mom’s son thinks you’re super cute
3. I’m no weatherman, but you can expect a few inches tonight
4. Ruin my life. Respectfully.
5. I want to meet your dog/ I want to be your dog’s dad
6. I might have to call the cops, it should be illegal to look that good
7. You give me kinky librarian vibes (use this on girls with glasses)
8. You: “b32” her “what??” you: “oh my bad, I thought this was a vending machine cause
you look like an absolute snack”
9. I’d crush you at Mario Kart (follow up with “there’s no way you can handle my banana
game”)
10. you: “I guess I can stop using google now” her: “why??” you: “now that you’re here, the
search is over”
11. You tryna save a horse? (use this on horse girls)
12. If someone robbed your bank account and the amount of money you had was the same
as your phone number, how much would you lose? (easy way to get her number and
chat off the dating app)
13. Which Shrek movie is your favorite and why?
14. You: “Are you a toaster?” her: “no why?” you: “cause I want to take a bath with you”
15. You’re a 9 and I’m the 1 you need
16. Wanna play Legos at my house? (follow up with “but no cuddles until we finish a
complete set”)
17. Do you like blueberry or chocolate chip pancakes? (wait for her to respond) Perfect,
now I know what to make you in the morning.
18. I’m stealing your puppy
19. You: “have you ever been kicked out of a movie theatre?” her: “no, why?” You: “weird,
where I’m from you can’t bring snacks inside”
20. Wanna 1-v-1 me at spin the bottle?
21. Are you a chicken farmer? Cause you’re raising this
22. Bet I have more tattoos than you
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23. Who hurt you.. (use this on girls who clearly have daddy issues)
24. Let’s skip the small talk. You down to grab a drink?
25. Marry one, fuck one, kill one. (name 3 local bars, coffee spots, etc., and then set up a
date there)
SECTION 2: ADVANCED PICKUP LINES
How to Write Custom Pickup Lines Based on Her
Profile
These canned pickup lines should help you initiate playful conversations with your matches. But
if you really want to bring your openers to the next level, you should use custom lines that are
tailored to her profile. That’s why we’ve created:
1. Overpowered Openers
OP Openers are “types” of first messages that are battle tested and get responses. Here are two
examples:
● Teases - “Damn, you didn’t strike me as the type of girl who’s into golf.”
● Challenge - “Says her music taste is unique - but listens to T Swift.”
There are a number of OP Openers, each with its own template where you can plug in an
observation from her profile.
2. Overpowered Opener Templates
● Challenge - playfully challenge her to make her reply back with confidence.
○ I hate to break it to ya *name*, but I would probably beat you at XYZ ;)
○ I just hope you have/can/are XYZ…
○ My mom told me not to talk to girls who XYZ
○ What are the odds you don’t like XYZ but thought it’d be a good pic lol
● Disqualification - Find something you dislike and lean into it playfully.
○ Damn, you're into XYZ. We'll have to work on that.
○ Cute, [hair color], but into XYZ… I knew you were too good to be true.
○ Into XYZ… hopefully you’re open to converting.
○ Into XYZ? Don’t worry, we’ll make an ABC of you eventually
● Tease - Playfully poke fun at her. But don’t be insulting.
○ It's not basic at all that you like XYZ... ;)
○ I didn’t know people were into XYZ anymore…
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○ I would’ve known you were XYZ even if you didn’t put it on your profile
Relating to her - Find commonality and create an “us against the world” vibe.
○ And I thought I was the only one who cared about XYZ.
○ Thank God, finally someone I can XYZ with
○ Are you actually into XYZ? That’s gotta be too good to be true.
Assumption - Assume what her overall vibe is and then make a stereotype.
○ I bet you spend most of your free time doing XYZ.
○ You didn’t strike me as the type of girl who’d be into XYZ
○ Tell me you’re into XYZ without telling me you’re into XYZ
Leading question - Ask a question that creates curiosity and demands a response.
○ Is it true what they say about girls who are XYZ?
○ You're cute, [hair color], and XYZ... But what's the catch?
○ Ahhh, a girl who XYZ. I know your type.
Buyer frame - Establish a frame where she has to prove herself to you.
○ Are you a fake fan or are you actually into XYZ?
○ I’m kinda impressed you’re XYZ... Green flag, [Name].
○ The fact that you XYZ is kinda a red flag ngl
Innuendo - Use a cheeky innuendo that leaves the door open for her to sexualize.
○ If you were going for the kinky XYZ vibe in that one pic, it worked
○ I heard that girls who XYZ are pretty freaky… Are the rumors true?
○ Into XYZ…? You’re going to be trouble
These next OP Openers are a bit more advanced and hard to make a general template. But
this should give you an idea of how you can use them:
● Funny hypothetical - Come up with a funny activity or theory based on her profile.
○ "Let's recreate that third picture, but I'm the ATV."
● Playful Misinterpretation - Intentionally misinterpret something in her profile playfully.
○ "Your profile says you love dogs - hopefully you'll date tall blondes too."
KEEP IN MIND - ideally every OP Opener can be 100% made from scratch, but some lend
themselves more to templates than others. So while these templates are a good starting point,
feel free to get creative and create your own openers with the underlying principles.
For example, you could also use a Challenge opener by saying “Bet I have more tattoos than
you” if she talks about loving tattoos in her bio. Get creative and have fun with it!
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What makes these openers OP is that they’re custom to each girl, but at the same time you’re
not coming up with them from scratch completely - you’re making genuine observations but
then plugging them into types of openers we already know work.
3. The Overpowered Openers Framework (OOPS)
Coming up with a creative opener that is custom to her profile can be hard. That’s why we’ve
broken this framework into a simple 4 step process:
1. Observation
2. Overpowered Opener
3. Pair
4. Send
When I try to craft a lethal opener, these are the steps I follow:
● 1. OBSERVATION - I start by scanning through her profile to see what stands out to me.
● The things I usually look for are subjective interests like music, TV shows, food
choices, and hobbies. Since they’re subjective, they’re safe to be playful about.
● What is she wearing? What activities does she enjoy? What vibe does she give
off? I dead-ass write down a few things if I need to. This doesn’t take me that
long.
● 2. OVERPOWERED OPENERS - I then write out (but don’t send) a few Overpowerered
Openers. I want to see which OP Openers I can pair with one of my observations to craft
that perfect first message.
● A simple Overpowered Opener is “disqualification” where you take an
observation and then shit-test her on it. The first OP Opener I try to pair an
observation with is always disqualification.
● Disqualification Openers use the following format:
● “XYZ? Hopefully we can change that.”
● “You like XYZ… think we might have to break up.”
● “Damn, fan of XYZ… we need to have a talk.”
● But experiment with other OP opener types so you have a few solid options to
work with
● 3. PAIR - Now that I have a solid selection of opening lines to work with, I choose the
observation + OP Opener pairing that is the best fit, and plug the observation into the
general structure of the OP Opener.
● 4. SEND - Lastly, I just send the damn message.
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Infield Example:
● OBSERVATIONS - I notice she’s got a YETI water bottle in a hiking pic
● OP OPENERS - I like hiking too, and I only use hydro flasks, so I can easily pair this
observation with a disqualification OP Opener template. For example:
● A yeti girl? This won't work... I'm a hydro flask guy.
(DISQUALIFICATION)
● And I thought I was the only one who enjoyed hiking
(RELATING TO HER)
● Is it true what they say about girls who like nature?
(LEADING QUESTION)
● PAIR - I find the best observation + OP opener pair that fits
perfectly. In this case, I plug my observation (bolded below) into
a disqualification OP Opener:
● A yeti girl? This won’t work… I’m a hydro flask guy
● SEND - send that message over and enjoy the playful chat
you’ve just started.
Once you have a toolbox of OP Openers to use, all you need are
observations to plug and play - most guys can’t come up with a list of
OP Openers types from scratch, but any guy can look at a profile, make
observations and then plug and play. And it’s simple when you follow
the OOPS Framework.
Ready to Level Up on Dating Apps?
This free guide should give you a huge head start - especially since most
guys open with “Hey”, “What’s up”, or ‘job interview questions’ as
described above.
With that said, no pickup line is going to give you a 100% response rate. The fact is, the majority
of women use Dating Apps for attention, validation, and to alleviate boredom.
You could have the most mind-blowing pickup line ever, and only 50% of girls may respond to it.
From there, even fewer of them will carry on a conversation and fewer will share your
intentions to date. Dating Apps are a numbers game. The larger your initial pool of matches, the
more qualified dates you’ll secure.
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The best way to maximize that pool of matches is to optimize your profile. Tinder will try to sell
you Boosts and Tinder Gold, but neither of those services can fix a profile that is turning girls
away.
The fact is, most men are making common mistakes that women view as Red Flags. And
because girls are so picky, they aren’t looking for the good things in your profile. They’re
looking for one reason to swipe left.
Every photo on your profile and line in your bio is an opportunity for rejection. If you want to
remove rejection from the equation and start getting matches overnight, you can download my
Ultimate Dating Profile Guide here.
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