R E S U LT S F R O M A C O M P R E H E N S I V E I N D U S T R Y- W I D E S U R V E Y PERSONALITIES ANDOFBEHAVIORS SUCCESSFUL HEALTH AND FITNESS PROFESSIONALS John Berardi, PhD • Camille DePutter • Andrea Hayes • Alex Lithopoulos, PhD • Alex Picot-Annand, RHN, PN2-MHC Presented by: WHAT MAKES A COACH WILDLY SUCCESSFUL? Abstract Reasoning Ability 94 Accommodation 6 Aggressiveness 92 Assertiveness Cautiousness 58 Ego-Drive 94 Ego-Strength 15 Empathy 93 Energy External Structure Flexibility 13 Gregariousness 26 80 Idea Orientation 89 In 2021, we teamed up with John Berardi, PhD, at Change Maker Academy to create a large-scale survey of health and fitness professionals. Skepticism 7 38 25 We gathered demographic data—location, level of education, and income level—from over five thousand health and fitness professionals. scientifically validated Caliper Profile. Stress Tolerance The Caliper Profile is an in-depth personality assessment that measures both behavioral traits and intellectual abilities. In its current iteration, it measures a total of 22 traits that have been shown to be relatively stable over time. Thoroughness Want to get started with Caliper—for yourself or for your team? Apply for the assessment here. The following resource includes a summary of our findings, plus a deeper dive into each of the “Five Characteristics of Success,” where you’ll find some of our best practices, tools, and worksheets to help coaches (and the people who hire coaches) develop these characteristics. 30 Sociability • What characteristics should employers seek when hiring, and/or help cultivate in their staff? • What skills should coaches build in order to increase their chances of success? Risk-Taking Our goal: To understand the factors most likely to help a coach succeed. 2 • What personality traits and characteristics are helping coaches get ahead? Level-Headedness Self-Structure We assessed the personalities and aptitudes of participants using the highly respected and In the following resource—through insights gained from our survey as well as our extensive experience working with coaches— we’ve attempted to answer: 10 No one is more invested in your success than we are. The Caliper Profile has assessed over 4.5 million individuals over the past 60 years, and ranks as one of the most advanced tools for matching personality to job performance. How this helps you 54 Openness Then we took it further: Today, it continues to help employees find meaningful careers, employers hire the best applicants, and even sports teams select players with the highest likelihood of success. 72 Since 2005, Precision Nutrition has been certifying professionals—over 150,000 of them, in over 150 countries worldwide—to do the transformative work of nutrition, fitness, and health coaching. Originally, Caliper was developed as a “job matching” tool to help people find work that aligned with their unique strengths, limitations, motivations, work styles, and potential. 17 62 5 Urgency 91 A sample Caliper profile graph that includes ratings for all traits measured. Our hope is that this report leaves you feeling inspired, confident, and empowered—and of course, contributes to your ongoing success. —Precision Nutrition and Change Maker Academy Interested in becoming a certified health coach? Check out our suite of certifications. 3 5 CHARACTERISTICS OF SUCCESSFUL HEALTH AND FITNESS PROFESSIONALS From 2021 to 2022, we invited health and fitness professionals from across the globe to participate in our survey, which included the Caliper assessment, plus a variety of demographic questions. The engagement was astounding: 5,704 health professionals completed the survey—which is an enormous study population, by most research standards. 4 Want to get started with Caliper—for yourself or for your team? Apply for the assessment here. Here’s what the survey respondents looked like: 17.3% 13.2% Canada USA 9.1% Asia Pacific Europe 49.8 LOCATION % Africa 7.3% Other 1.6% Latin America 1.7% 6.2% +20 10-20 5-10 <1 YEARS IN THE INDUSTRY OTHER (acupuncturist, athletic coach, exercise physiologist, medical doctor, etc) 42.5% DIETITIAN/NUTRITIONIST 6% 21% GROUP EXERCISE INSTRUCTOR 6% PERSONAL TRAINER (online) 7% GYM, FITNESS, OR STUDIO MANAGER/OWNER 7% 35-44 36.4% 5.2% 57.1% 48% 25-34 0.3% 19% 5% PRIMARY ROLE 18-24 14.7% 13.4% 15.5% 10.6% 3-5 1-3 GENDER HOLISTIC HEALTH/WELLNESS COACH PERSONAL TRAINER (in person) 45-54 32.3% 55-64 19.1% AGE 65-75+ 5.9% 1.1% Interested in becoming a certified health coach? Check out our suite of certifications. 5 After collecting data from these health professionals, behavior change scientist Alex Lithopoulos, PhD, performed indepth statistical analyses to find the most significant results. Through these analyses, we uncovered some fascinating things. 77 % agreed that their work feels meaningful 75 % agreed that their work brings them real enjoyment 73 % agreed that they could see working in this field for the next decade or more The results were overwhelmingly positive, giving us the impression that the majority of health professionals in our survey consider their work to be a “calling.” A “calling” is where work is an extension— and expression—of one’s identity, a rich source of purpose and fulfillment, and an 6 First, health and fitness pros love their work. Six questions on our survey related to how personally rewarding their work was. (We’ll refer to these as the “Love of work” questions going forward.) The results showed… 75 % agreed that their work feels satisfying 74 % agreed that their work uses their unique abilities 70 % agreed that they would recommend working in this field Any orientation is a valid way to approach your professional life, as long as it’s aligned with your personality, preferences, and values. Traits exist on a continuum. Also, these work orientations aren’t necessarily exclusive categories. For example, someone with a “calling” orientation might also want a good salary and benefits. However, people with a “calling” orientation are more likely to say they would do their job even if they weren’t paid. The 22 personality traits in the assessment are found in every person, just in varying degrees. (Discover your work orientation with this 2-minute quiz from Change Maker Academy.) This brings us to our next impactful finding… Certain traits are linked to higher earnings. We found five characteristics that are positively correlated with financial success. They are: • Assertiveness • Level-headedness • Empathy • Urgency • Investment in ongoing education Of course, money isn’t the only thing that makes a career successful. However, making a good living wage often enhances the chances that a career will be sustainable and secure. In the following pages, we’ll focus on these five characteristics of success. (Contrast that with those who see their work as a “job”—simply, a way to pay the bills—or a “career”—a means to achieve professional growth and higher status.) We’ll also show how each of those characteristics interact with the “Love of work” questions. For example, if higher levels of Assertiveness or Level-headedness makes it more likely that a person not only experiences financial success, but also truly enjoys their work. To be clear though, there’s no “right” way to view work. Lastly, before we dive in, a few things to keep in mind: essential part of life. Want to get started with Caliper—for yourself or for your team? Apply for the assessment here. The personality traits measured in the Caliper assessment aren’t “all or nothing.” They exist on a spectrum of 1 to 100, with 1 being very low, and 100 being very high. You may not have your own personal Caliper results to compare, but for context, a score of 60 or above on any given trait is scored as “high,” and is considered a dominant personality characteristic. Traits are not “bad” or “good.” They are context-dependent. While we’ve identified some traits that are positively correlated with success, this doesn’t mean certain traits are “better” than others. Rather, some traits may be more (or less) beneficial in certain roles, careers, or contexts. And, there is no “good score” on a Caliper test. The goal is simply to get a better understanding of what traits are dominant for you, so you can make the most of them. Characteristics can be cultivated. If you or a potential employee already exhibit these five characteristics—great. According to our survey, you’ll be well positioned to have a profitable career. But that may not be the case for some people. Nor does it have to be. Characteristics (including Caliper traits) can be developed and enhanced through practices and building skills—like the ones we’ll share in this report. Our hope is that these findings will be used as a jumping off point for further learning, training, and growth. Interested in becoming a certified health coach? Check out our suite of certifications. 7 A note about correlations We found five characteristics that correlate with financial success. A correlation means that one variable (for example, a certain personality trait) is associated with another variable (say, income). 1 ASSERTIVENESS Caliper definition: Assertiveness is the potential to communicate information and ideas in a direct manner. Individuals scoring high on this quality tend to be willing to communicate their ideas and opinions. People with low scores may be uncomfortable expressing their viewpoints. Why this characteristic might help a coach get ahead In any client-facing career, assertive communication is essential. Assertive communication is neither passive, nor aggressive. AGGRESSIVE A positive correlation means that as one variable increases, another does too. For example, as the level of assertiveness a person has increases, income increases too. A negative correlation means that as one variable increases, another variable decreases. For example, as the level of accommodation a person has increases, income decreases. For instance, we can’t say higher levels of assertiveness cause higher levels of income. We also can’t say higher levels of accommodation cause lower levels of income. These associations could be coincidental, or a third (possibly unknown) variable might be causing both variables to change. For example, maybe higher overall confidence could be causing both assertiveness and income to increase. For this reason, we can’t promise that developing the five characteristics will directly 8 However, even if there’s a correlation between two variables, we can’t say one variable causes the other variable to change. lead to more financial success. Causality hasn’t been proven. To our knowledge, no survey of this size has ever examined markers of success in the health and fitness industry, or who might be a “best fit” for this rewarding career. Further research is needed to help us determine with more confidence which specific controllable factors can help a coach get ahead. But if you’re looking to succeed in the industry—whether as an individual or as a business—these five characteristics are likely a good place to start. Want to get started with Caliper—for yourself or for your team? Apply for the assessment here. You compromise others’ needs/rights; your needs are the priority ASSERTIVE You consider and respect both your own and other’s needs/rights PASSIVE Your prioritize others’ needs; your needs/rights are compromised If you communicate passively, you might wind up feeling resentful, “pent-up,” and/or depleted by client interactions. If you communicate aggressively, your clients might feel intimidated, discredited, or even demeaned. As you can imagine, neither passive nor aggressive communication styles make for a sustainable career as a client-facing health professional. However, if you can communicate assertively, you can effectively convey knowledge, advice, feedback, boundaries, and expectations— while also making room for your clients’ preferences, opinions, and limits. Assertive communication can help you prevent misunderstandings, set boundaries, and navigate tricky conversations (such as discussing unpaid fees or delivering some tough but necessary feedback)—all while preserving good rapport and mutual respect. Research shows assertiveness can be learned. If you want to develop your skills in this domain, see our Skill Builder Section on Assertiveness. Influence of Assertiveness on Love of Work* Meaningful Satisfying Enjoyment Uses abilities Future intent Recommend *Overall, people with higher levels of Assertiveness were very likely to also have a strong love of work. Interested in becoming a certified health coach? Check out our suite of certifications. 9 2 3 LEVELHEADEDNESS URGENCY Caliper definition: Level-headedness is the potential to remain calm and to maintain a steady disposition in everyday situations. People scoring high on this scale should be capable of remaining composed. Those who score low are inclined to respond emotionally. Caliper definition: Urgency is the motivation to take quick action in order to obtain immediate results. High scorers on this attribute tend to be driven to act quickly. Individuals with low levels of urgency are inclined to take their time when handling tasks. Why this characteristic might help a coach get ahead Why this characteristic might help a coach get ahead Maintaining a calm demeanor can be helpful in coaching, and in business. If you tend to have a more volatile disposition, you might get overly emotional or defensive when faced with critical feedback, such as concerns from a client. You also might… • Interrupt or speak when it’s more beneficial to ask questions or listen • Make hasty judgements or assumptions about what a client needs, or what to do next • Feel tempted to pivot your entire business or switch jobs without adequate consideration every time a “bright shiny opportunity” comes around, or when your business goes through a lull • Panic when a client shares a concern, feeling like “I have to figure this out RIGHT NOW” On the other hand, if you’re level-headed, you can maintain professionalism and composure, even in stressful situations; be more receptive to feedback and constructive criticism; and make wise, measured decisions rather than impulsive (and potentially regrettable) ones. However, level-headedness isn’t about being an emotionless robot. Many people get into health and fitness because they are passionate and caring—and that’s a good thing. Our advice: Direct your passion. Channel your enthusiasm and energy towards things you want to get better at. Like a motor in a car, your passion can propel you forward. (Just keep level-headedness in the driver’s seat to make the important decisions.) If you want to develop your skills in this domain, see our Skill Builder Section on Level-Headedness. As coaches know, a client’s ability to make decisions and take action is essential to progress. Clients who achieve their goals are often highly motivated, and take consistent action to make it happen. In other words: They feel a strong sense of urgency. Satisfying Enjoyment Uses abilities Future intent Urgency is especially useful when paired with level-headedness, thoughtfulness, and clear intentions. For example, urgency can be leveraged to improve a coach’s: Unbridled urgency—acting too fast, without consideration—can lead to poor decision making and actually set us farther back from where we started. (Think of the good old turtle versus the hare.) • Planning and time management: You’re more likely to schedule your time and plan ahead to fit in future goals, like business ideas or education opportunities. • Productivity: When you take decisive action and get things done without delay, you improve efficiency and do more with your time. To learn how to develop this kind of conscientious urgency, see our Skill Builder Section on Urgency. Influence of Urgency on Love of Work* Recommend *Overall, people with higher levels of Level-Headedness were moderately likely to also have a strong love of work. 10 • Reputation: When you respond promptly and reliably, clients feel like they matter and can count on you. This builds client loyalty (and referrals!) over time. When it comes to a coach’s career growth, a strong, yet measured level of urgency may be beneficial too. Influence of Level-Headedness on Love of Work* Meaningful • Problem-solving abilities: You’re more likely to identify potential client or business issues quickly—and come up with solutions. Want to get started with Caliper—for yourself or for your team? Apply for the assessment here. Meaningful Satisfying Enjoyment Uses abilities Future intent Recommend *Overall, people with higher levels of Urgency were less likely to also have a strong love of work. Interested in becoming a certified health coach? Check out our suite of certifications. 11 4 5 EMPATHY Caliper definition: Empathy is the potential to perceive others’ feelings and read social cues. An empathic individual is likely to be perceptive of people’s feelings and capable of reading social cues. Low scorers may misinterpret or be inattentive to others’ needs or feelings. Why this characteristic might help a coach get ahead Research shows that up to 80 percent of a positive outcome in coaching and therapy is due to good rapport between the client and the practitioner. Good relationships are essential to coaching, and empathy is essential to good relationships. Empathy fosters trust, understanding, and lowers people’s defenses so they’re more willing to open up. BENEFITS TO COACHING When empathy is a strength, you’re better able to understand the perspectives, needs, and intentions of your clients. Trouble relating to/connecting with clients Low In order to do this though, you must attune yourself to how a client is feeling and thinking, and have a good sense of what might help them move forward. That said, the benefits of empathy likely exist on a bell curve: Having really low levels of empathy isn’t great. But as empathy gets higher, returns might diminish, especially in the extreme end. Healthy compassion, connection and rapport with clients Balanced Overwhelmed by emotion, trouble detaching from clients’ experiences High There, empathy becomes overwhelming, counterproductive, and can contribute to compassion fatigue, a form of psychological “burnout” that occurs when someone is repeatedly exposed to the suffering of others. LEVEL OF EMPATHY Empathy is also baked The key: Develop a roster of effective coping into client-centered coaching, a style of mechanisms (good boundaries, social support, coaching we emphasize at PN. creative outlets) so you can continue to In client-centered coaching, you don’t push an connect with clients—without compromising “agenda,” or assume you know what’s best for your own wellbeing. your client. Instead, you’re there to listen, To learn how to develop the kind of empathy occasionally re-frame setbacks or “failures,” that benefits your clients and you, see our anticipate obstacles, reinforce successes, and Skill Builder Section on Empathy. gently guide when feedback is requested. One of the most powerful correlations we observed—although not a Caliper trait—was this: Coaches who spent more money annually on their continuing education also made more money. Data from our own internal research supports this: • Certified nutrition coaches earn 3x more than the median hourly rate in the US. Satisfying Enjoyment Uses abilities Future intent There are a few reasons why continuing one’s education might help your career. There’s the knowledge, of course. And likely the increased scope of what you can offer Invest in Education in your practice. Plus the added credibility. But we suspect there’s more to it. Increased Income Based on what we’ve observed from our students and grads, investing in ongoing education might create a virtuous cycle: If you invest in (quality) education, you likely achieve better results and a bit more income. Reinvest some of that money into more education, and you further develop your skills, getting even better results and more income. And so on. • On average, PN Level 2 Coaches get and retain up to 10X more clients versus the average Level 1 Coach. (They also get better client results, and report more career satisfaction.) The other not-so-obvious advantage? Learning doesn’t just make you a better coach. It makes you a better learner. A better thinker. A better time manager, if you continue to work while you pursue your studies. Improve Skills Investing in your own education helps you grow as a human, which sets you up for a more successful career—and life. Seek out a variety of perspectives and courses in order to build a robust skillset and knowledge base. (In other words: Try not to just learn more of what you already know, from people who are exactly like you.) Treat learning like a lifetime opportunity. No matter your skill level, you can always grow. To learn how choose and leverage the best learning opportunities for your career, see our Skill Builder Section on Investing in Ongoing Education. Influence of Investment in Education on Love of Work* Recommend *Overall, people with higher levels of Empathy were slightly more likely to also have a strong love of work. 12 • PN Certified Coaches earn 11% more income than those with other nutrition certifications. Why this characteristic might help a coach get ahead Influence of Empathy on Love of Work* Meaningful INVESTMENT IN ONGOING EDUCATION Want to get started with Caliper—for yourself or for your team? Apply for the assessment here. Meaningful Satisfying Enjoyment Uses abilities Future intent Recommend *Overall, people who invested more in ongoing education were moderately likely to also have a strong love of work. Interested in becoming a certified health coach? Check out our suite of certifications. 13 meaningful, motivating, and easier to commit to long-term. That means better results for your clients—and your business. (There’s no better marketing than a happy client.) late, I still charge for the full session.” Or, “Clients who don’t use respectful language or treat our facility with care will have their membership terminated.”) Learn to set boundaries. Then, be sure to uphold the boundaries you set for yourself and your business. Boundaries are not about telling another person what they can or can’t do. Boundaries are about what YOU need to uphold to protect your time, energy, and basic needs. SKILL-BUILDER SECTION How to Cultivate Assertiveness Many people struggle with assertiveness. For some, assertive communication can feel awkward and vulnerable. (At least at first.) But, assertiveness—while it may come naturally to some more than others—is a learned skill. Even if it’s not currently your strength, you can get better. Here are some practices to develop it. Be direct and collaborative. what they need from you to support them. Assertiveness isn’t domineering; it’s honest, but still leaves room for feedback and compromise. This kind of communication generates a relationship where each person feels safe to speak for themselves. Share your expertise and ideas with your clients with confidence, but also ask them for their input: What do they think of these ideas? What options appeal to them? What actions do they feel ready and able to take? Clearly communicate with clients how you expect them to show up (open-minded, solution-focused, persistent) and ask them When clients either suggest or at least confidently sign off on proposed behavior modifications, they’re more likely to find them 14 Want to get started with Caliper—for yourself or for your team? Apply for the assessment here. For example, tell your clients when and where they can expect to communicate with you. You might be clear, for example, that they can email you at any time, but you only respond to emails on Mondays and Wednesdays. (If you reply immediately to a client who’s emailed you on Saturday, you’ve broken your boundary, not them.) Make the consequences of breaching boundaries clear. (“If you’re over 20 minutes Although some coaches worry that firm boundaries will make them seem stern and unapproachable, they’re actually more likely to inspire trust and foster a healthy relationship. Give effective feedback. Without honest feedback, clients don’t learn how to improve. However, feedback—even the constructive kind—can make some clients feel defensive, ashamed, or even attacked. Here’s how to give assertive, effective feedback while also ensuring your client still feels like you’re “on their side”: 1. Start with your shared purpose. Clearly state how you’re “in this together” and what you hope to get out of the discussion. (“Your health is important to both of us. Given that, let’s go over some things that might be getting in the way of your goals…”) Creating a “team” with your client makes it less likely that they’ll feel threatened, so they can receive and apply your observations without feeling defensive. 2. Describe, don’t judge. Most clients are afraid of “failing” or disappointing you. So, when you give feedback, avoid making personal judgments; just list the facts. (“Here’s what I’m noticing in terms of your workout consistency. My records show that you missed two out of the last three sessions…”) 3. Call out changes in direction. If applicable, identify any discrepancies between your client’s stated goals and their behavior. (“I’m noticing that you haven’t been doing the habit we agreed on. That’s fine—I just want to make sure this is still something you want to do. Is it still a priority?”) 4. Allow and accept emotions. Consider and validate your clients’ unstated needs and feelings. Change is hard and stirs up a lot of stuff. (“I know it’s frustrating when there’s no progress. You’re working so hard with no apparent results. Do you want to take a few minutes to get that stuff off your chest? Then we can see what to do about it.”) 5. Develop strategies together. Once you’ve agreed on a shared purpose—even if it’s only partial—work together to decide on next steps. (“Here are a few ideas I’ve got. What are some ideas that come to your mind?”) Interested in becoming a certified health coach? Check out our suite of certifications. 15 How to Cultivate Level-Headedness Practice WAIT. You can practice level-headedness even if you’re a passionate person with strong emotional responses. order to reach thoughtful guidance for your client. WAIT stands for “Why Am I Talking?” At PN, we teach coaches a six step process, illustrated below. It serves as a reminder to pause, take a breath, and hear what the other person has to say. Box breathing is a specific breathing pattern that can help you achieve this. Sometimes it’s a relief to find out that there are several steps that come before making decisions in coaching—you don’t have to panic if you don’t know the “next move” right away. This is particularly important when receiving feedback. Don’t argue, defend, justify, or react. Just receive it. Here’s how it works: Later on, you can review the feedback to see how you might address it. Especially if it’s feedback you’ve received multiple times in the • Slowly breathe out for another 4 seconds. Here are some tools to try. Coaches who struggle with level-headedness may find themselves making guesses, assumptions, or even panicking when it comes to tough client issues. While coaching can be somewhat intuitive, there is a process involved. And that process gives even the jumpiest brain a reliable track to follow in 0 Plan and prepare Focus, prioritize, and remove distractions before session 0 Note: Step 0 happens before the session with your client begins. Once you reach Step 6, use what you discover to collaboratively choose another action to keep making progress, and return to Step 3. 16 1 Assess and gather data Collect information; identify your client’s current goals, needs, and skills Follow the process, and you’ll make thoughtful, strategic, results-oriented decisions. 2 6 Analyze and evaluate Use outcomebased decision making to choose what to do next 5 Observe and monitor Record what happens • Then, hold that breath for 4 seconds. • Hold your breath for 4 seconds more. Repeat as many times as you like. To help your clients achieve their goals, you need to help them: • Set realistic and relevant goals 3 6 • Inhale, breathing in for 4 seconds. How to Cultivate Urgency 2 Understand and explore Deepen your comprehension of your client’s story and situation 1 Take a breath. If you find yourself getting worked up, or your judgment clouding, try taking a calming breath. Better yet, practice breathwork on a regular basis to calm your nervous system, so you can respond in a level-headed manner— and not say anything you’ll regret! If you tend to get caught up in the moment, processes are your friend. They can help you stay grounded and focused, no matter what’s going on around you. Practice the 6 Phases of the Coaching Process. If you tend to jump in and talk before a client is finished telling you about a concern or issue they have, come up with solutions before you’ve fully investigated the issue, or react defensively or angrily to feedback, try practicing the WAIT method, developed by Dr. John Berardi at Change Maker Academy. past, it’s likely to your benefit to look more closely at it. 3 Strategize and plan Draft an initial action plan and possible “next steps” • Determine how ready, willing, and able they are to change • Identify their values and deeper reasons for change • Work through ambivalence and resistance • Prioritize competing demands • And more 4 5 4 Choose and test Pick one next action to try, and try it Want to get started with Caliper—for yourself or for your team? Apply for the assessment here. These are known as change facilitation skills. When you put the above into action, your client is far more likely to make progress. (If you don’t, they’re more likely to hesitate, procrastinate, or give up.) The same is true for you. Get better at facilitating your own change, and you’ll be more able to take swift action. Here are a few methods to help you do that. Interested in becoming a certified health coach? Check out our suite of certifications. 17 Consider your identity, values, and goals. When we’re not sure what we want or why we want it, we can find ourselves hesitating before making decisions, wavering on our choices, or spiraling down a black hole of overthinking. Conversely, when we know who we are, what we want, and why it’s important to us, we can move forward quickly and decisively. Here’s a simple exercise to do that: • To get a better sense of your identity, complete the statement: “I’m the kind of person who…” • To clarify your values, complete the statement: “It’s important to me to…” • To identify your goals, complete the statement: “I’d feel good about accomplishing…” You can complete these statements multiple times until you feel like you have a deeper sense of the kind of person you are, and what’s really meaningful to you. Ask yourself two surprising questions. • What’s GOOD about your desired behavior / action / project? In other words, what purpose does this thing serve? How does it help you? • What’s BAD about your desired behavior / action / project? In other words, what would you lose or give up if you do this thing? What are some reasons not to do it? When you understand both your motivations and your fears about a particular task, you might realize that your desired goal really is worth it, and you’re able to move forward. Or, you may realize you DON’T want to do it. Perhaps it’s simply not a priority right now, or you’re just not willing to give up the things that would be required for you to be able to do it. Whatever insight you gain, you can make a better informed (and likely quicker) decision. Clarify your priorities. It’s hard to act quickly and confidently when we aren’t sure what to do. Or in what order. So, before you attack a new goal, ask yourself: If you find yourself hesitating, delaying, or unable to make progress with a particular task, you may be encountering ambivalence or resistance. Of all the things I have on my plate right now, which one will I prioritize? Resistance and ambivalence are normal parts of the change process. Experienced coaches know that pushing against them is almost always unhelpful; getting curious about and allowing them is almost always a better approach. (Once you complete the most important thing, then ask yourself the question again to determine the next most important thing.) To explore your ambivalence or resistance, consider these two prompts: 18 Be ruthless here. Focus on the one thing that’s most important. When you’re clear about your priorities, you can channel your energy and urgency into taking action, without distractions or uncertainties getting in your way. Want to get started with Caliper—for yourself or for your team? Apply for the assessment here. How to Cultivate Empathy Empathy can be separated into two categories: • Cognitive empathy, also known as empathic accuracy, means being able to take another person’s perspective, as well as predict or reason why a person might feel a certain way. It’s almost like having a window into someone’s thoughts and feelings. • Affective empathy—sometimes called emotional empathy—is when you can quite literally feel another person’s emotions. It’s almost as if emotions are contagious; you can “catch” them just by being near them. Although there’s a genetic component to empathy (as in, you’re more likely to have similar empathy levels as your close family members), empathy is also learned. We learn empathy by watching others display empathy, by being the recipient of empathic responses, and just by being in relationships with people we care about and practice relating to. However, there are also a few specific skills and strategies that you can work on to accelerate your learned empathy, if you want to develop it. Practice active listening. Being able to understand another person’s point of view starts with good listening. Really listening. So, be fully present and engaged. (Put away your phone, or maybe even your clipboard.) Look people in the eye when they talk (but don’t stare creepily—occasionally look away). Turn your whole body to face the other person. Really take in what they’re saying. Don’t sit there watching their lips move while thinking about the weather or what you’re going to say next. Observe other cues like facial expressions, body language, and tone of voice. Avoid saying “yeah but…” or getting defensive. Don’t jump to solve the problem they’re describing. Nod. Say um-hm. Once they’re done, test your grasp of what they just said by reiterating it in your own words. Check for accuracy, either by asking directly, phrasing your response tentatively, or implying inquisitiveness in your tone of voice. “I just want to make sure I heard this correctly. You’re saying…?” “OK, I understand that… Is that right?” Interested in becoming a certified health coach? Check out our suite of certifications. 19 “It sounds like…” When you accurately paraphrase your client’s story, it helps them feel like you “get” them. If you didn’t get it; no sweat, they’ll just correct you. Notice your similarities; notice your differences. Every human is a blend of the unique and the universal. The trick to understanding and connecting with someone is to relate to them where your experiences might overlap, while also not making too many assumptions about them. For example, maybe you can relate to your client because you both grew up being picked on because of your body. You might be able to understand the specific pain of not “fitting in” and how shame around that can persist well into adulthood. But maybe you also come from different generations, or are different genders, or one of you had loving, accepting parents while the other had critical, controlling parents. Although you can relate to someone—on some level—who has gone through a similar event, you’ll never be able to fully understand their unique experience of it. And that’s okay. With every client or patient, simply ask yourself: • How can I relate to this person? What experiences might we both share, even if it’s just the experience of being human? But also: • What assumptions might I be making about this person? Do I feel like I have them “all figured out” or “know their type”? 20 • What are they actually telling and showing me? Does it line up with the story I have of them in my head? These questions can help you better connect with your clients, but also help you stay open enough to see who they really are. Try not to “fix.” When a client comes to you with a problem, it’s natural to want to resolve it. That’s why they’re paying you, right? This instinct is likely doubly strong when you score high on empathy. Not only might you feel responsible for your client, you also truly feel for them, and want to ease their struggle. However, in coaching, sometimes it’s productive to allow clients to sit in the muck for a bit. Although it’s uncomfortable, if you jump to “fixing” too quickly, you might rob your clients of important realizations they might make on their own. The next time your client feels stuck, hope-less, or out of control… just be with them in the discomfort. Stay checked in. Breathe. Let the moment unfold. Often, simply staying present and aware of yourself and your client is the most supportive and effective thing you can do. Interestingly, although it was a small correlation, our research showed that coaches who were less accommodating (i.e. had a lower compulsion to help) had higher rates of financial success. This implies that while empathy is essential to good coaching, a certain level of healthy detachment might be beneficial for both you, your clients, and your business. Want to get started with Caliper—for yourself or for your team? Apply for the assessment here. How to Continue to Invest (Wisely) in Your Education At both Precision Nutrition and Change Maker Academy, we encourage people to adopt a “beginner’s mind.” Having a beginner’s mind means that you show up to life with an open mind and heart. You drop your assumptions, predictions, or the idea that you might know it all. You show up to experiences being flexible, coachable, and ready to be surprised. When you embrace a beginner’s mind, you’re less likely to feel like you have to defend your authority or be a flawless example of someone who knows everything and has it all together. (Which, honestly, can be a pretty stressful, lonely place to live.) Instead, you can feel confident about what you do know, while also feeling endlessly curious about what you don’t know. In our survey, we determined how much coaches were investing in learning by looking at how much they spent on continuing education. But we’d argue that the most important factor in determining how much you learn is that, more generally, you simply commit to growth. If you’re ready to grow your coaching skills—and maybe even your life—here are a few things to consider. Learn how to choose the right education opportunity. In his seminal book, Change Maker, Dr. John Berardi outlines a four step process for selecting which learning opportunities are most likely to benefit you. Here’s a summary: Interested in becoming a certified health coach? Check out our suite of certifications. 21 1. Begin where you are today. Be honest about your current skill level, and what kind of education you need and want in order to grow. 2. Do an inventory of your gaps. Look for weaknesses or blind spots you’d like to build on. If you’re unsure, ask colleagues, clients (if you have them), or a trusted mentor. 3. Do a limiting factor analysis. Identify your biggest weak point—of all the things you’d like to improve upon, which factor is most limiting for your personal and professional growth? 4. Choose one opportunity that feels like the best fit right now, based on the above. You can’t do everything at once, so you must prioritize. Repeat the process again when you’re ready for the next thing. Practice your skills. Some coaches feel like they have to perfect their knowledge and skills before they’re “allowed” to go out and practice what they’ve learned on real, live people. There’s something to be said about being humble, and waiting until you have a certain level of validated expertise before you advise others. (In fact, we’d just call that being responsible.) But some coaches—even those who are highly qualified and credentialed—fall into the trap of feeling like the next certification will finally “fix” their imposter syndrome. In reality, we learn both by consuming (reading, listening to lectures, taking courses) and by doing (doing the hard, sometimes awkward work of practicing our skills on actual humans). In our courses, we emphasize learning and practicing in tandem. Even if coaches don’t have paying clients yet, we encourage them to test their coaching chops on friends, family members, and of course themselves. With this model, you’ll not only grow your confidence in what you know; you’ll also grow 22 your confidence in your ability to change people’s lives. Share what you learn. Some people see their peers as competition. Perhaps subconsciously, they tend to hoard their knowledge, hoping it will give them— and no one else—an edge. WHAT TO DO NEXT After reading about the characteristics of thriving health and fitness professionals, you might wonder: “How do I improve my own chances of success?” There are a couple of directions you might pursue: 1. Develop self-awareness. You have to know what you’re working with before you leverage your unique gifts. So get to know yourself. Pay attention to what behaviors and tasks come easily to you. (Often, the stuff we’re best at is stuff we take for granted: “Oh, everyone can do that!”) But from our years in the industry, we know that the most successful coaches do the opposite: One way to assess yourself is to take Precision Nutrition’s Coaching Skills quiz. It measures your coaching skills in 14 specific domains, and shows you where your strengths and weaknesses lie. They share their knowledge. 2. Lean into your strengths. They go out of their way to teach and (constructively) challenge each other. Every person has unique aptitudes—we call them “superpowers.” They are skills that: They take time to help each other learn, innovate, and improve. • You are, or have potential to be, world-class at Whether you’re a solo coach, a business owner, an employee, or some combination, look for opportunities to collaborate and share knowledge with your colleagues and peers. Think: lunch and learns, Slack groups, meet-ups, mini Masterminds, or even informal conversations. • You can make a big difference with, if you use them You’ll develop a reputation for being smart, ambitious, collaborative, and generous— which is the kind of edge you really want. Want to get started with Caliper—for yourself or for your team? Apply for the assessment here. • You really enjoy doing We’d all love to excel at everything, but there isn’t enough time or energy to “do it all.” • What will “break” if I focus on these skills, rather than something else? • Am I okay with the tradeoff? If you decide you’d love to improve these skills, use what we shared to get better. Put in your reps, extend yourself beyond your comfort zone, and in time, you’ll surprise yourself with your progress. If you decide you don’t, that’s cool. Get clear about what you’re uniquely good at and find more ways to focus on that instead. To uncover your unique abilities, check out Change Maker Academy’s 4-step process. 3. Keep Learning. If you discover a behavior trait, knowledge gap, or professional skill that you feel is really limiting your ability to succeed—and you also have the time and interest to work on it— consider getting coached yourself. • Are these traits things that I can—or want to be— great at? Whether through therapy, mentorship, or a high-quality certification (Precision Nutrition has an array of educational opportunities), receiving targeted coaching can accelerate your progress exponentially. • Do I have the time—and the desire—to dedicate deliberate practice towards improving these traits? Whatever your next step, we wish you deep fulfillment—and wild success. So, before you start improving the characteristics we just covered, ask yourself: Interested in becoming a certified health coach? Check out our suite of certifications. 23