CHAPTER 2 The Self as Cognitive Construct Lesson Objectives: 1. Identify the different ideas in psychology about the “self”. 2. Create your own definition of the “self” based on the definitions from psychology, and 3. Analyze the effects of various factors identified in psychology in the formation of the “self”. SELF? “The sense of personal identity and who we are as individuals” (Jhangiani and Tarry 2014) One’s own person DISTINCT from all others. COGNITIVE CONSTRUCT What does it mean? People construct their own understanding and knowledge of the world through their experiences and their reflections about experiences in life. Class: Give your own cognitive construct. What is COGNITIVE in Pyschology These pychology focuses on how internal thoughts and feelings influence one’s behavior . The cognitive approach emphasizes the importance of memory, perception and attention, language, decision-making and problem solving. IT IS A MENTAL PROCESS INVOLVED KNOWING LEARNING & UNDERSTANDING. example: As a children grow older, their cognitive level processes become sharper. SELF AS COGNITIVE CONSTRUCT There are various definitions of the self and other similar or interchangeable concepts in psychology. Simply put, the self in psychology is the sense of personal identity and of who we are as individuals. - William James(1890) as one of the earliest psychologists to study the self, he conceptualized the self as having two aspects: the “I” and “Me”. “I” - thinking, acting and feeling self. “Me” -physical characteristics as well as psychological capabilities that make who you are. Carl Rogers(1959) used the same terms, “I” - who acts and decides. “Me” - is what you think or feel about yourself. Other concepts similar to SELF are identity and self-concept: Identity - one’s personal characteristics, social roles and responsibilities that defined who you are. Self-concept - what basically comes to your mind when you are asked about who you are. 3 Components of self concept/self schema(Carl Rogers) SELF – SCHEMA (Carl Rogers) Our organized system collection of knowledge about who we are. SELF – SCHEMA (Carl Rogers) - It may also include your interest, work, course, age, name, and physical characteristics among others. - As you grow and adopt changes around you, they also change. - They actively shaped and affect how you see, think and feel about things. (Pick in the class to give example) Sigmund Freud -He proposed that the mind is divided into three components: id, ego, and superego, and that the interactions and conflicts among the components create personality. - we use defense mechanisms to cope with anxiety and maintain a positive self-image. • The ego is between the id and the superego. The id is trying to get you to do things like eat cakes and not go jogging, and the superego is trying to get you to make good decisions and be an upstanding person. 3 reasons why self & identity are social products: 1. We do not create ourselves out of nothing. 2. Whether we like to admit it or not, we actually need others. 3. What we think is important to us may also have been influenced by what is important in our social and historical context. SELF AWARENESS - Can keep you from doing something dangerous. - Can be POSITIVE or NEGATIVE. - Our self - consciousness. - Sometimes self awareness can be to much. that we are concerned about being observed and criticized by others. vitals factors creating our self concept: Social interaction and Group affiliation 2 types of self – awareness. 1. Private self is a moment of realization that only involves yourself. Example: This could look like realizing you have feelings for someone when you return home from a date. 1. Public self a state which occurs when people focus on the impressions they make on others. “Self awareness is our ability to take honest look at your life without any attachment to it being right or wrong, Good or Bad”. SOCIAL COMPARISON - We learn about ourselves, behaviors, social status by comparing aspect of ourselves with other people. - downward of social comparison is the more common type of comparing ourselves with others. - sometimes we create a positive self-concept by comparing ourselves with those who are worse than us. ( it can be form of motivation to some, a lot actually love to this as a hobby who felt lower self-esteem as they highlight their insecurities.) Have you ever experienced a friend or someone make you feel this way? - In these case we actually react in 3 ways. First, we distance ourselves from that person, we may also consider silent treatment and re-think the friendship you have. Second, we may also consider our skill, time, emotionally, peace or mind our own business. Lastly, we may also strengthen our resolve to improve certain aspect in ourselves and keep going in life without being like those who hurt us. NARCISISSM - trait which is “overly high self-esteem, self admiration, self centeredness”. - They are often charismatic because of how they take care of their image. - Wants attention 24/7, want people to praise them. - It is a Mental disorder. - Arrogant, manipulative and sees everyone as competition instead of being happy to others. (will often bring you down to their level) - bad partner/friends since they want the relationships only serves them. SELF- ESTEEM - Honest to themselves and others. Accept their wrong and willing to take change. They are adventurous but also an ambivert. Good partner or friend, they have empathy to other people. - Knows how to deal with their own and when to get help with others. - But OTHERS may also be bullies and experiment on abusive behaviors in drugs, alcohol and sex. Due to peer pressure.