how and where to get started
Have you ever thought about being a sugar baby? Maybe you have thought about it, but you are
not sure how to approach the idea of being a sugar baby. In this book, we will teach you how to
be a sugar baby online (or offline).
Sugar baby is a popular term referring to a person who dates someone that is financially well
off.
If you are looking to become a sugar baby, here are some tips and resources for you on how to
become a sugar baby and how much money you can make.
We will discuss how to get started as a sugar baby online and what you need to know about
being a sugar baby.
What Is A Sugar Baby?
You probably know the term sugar daddy but sugar baby is not as common.
Sugar baby is a term used in the sugar daddy dating industry that denotes an attractive young
woman who is supported financially by a sugar daddy or sugar momma.
In general, sugar baby is a term used to refer to a young, single woman who often dates a man
who is significantly older, usually in his mid-to-late-40s or older.
Money or gifts are normally exchanged in this relationship.
Many people have mixed feelings about sugar babies and sugar daddies.
Some people are against the phenomenon because it promotes an unequal relationship
between a young woman and a wealthy older man.
Others may feel that sugar baby relationships can be empowering for both parties involved.
Whatever your feelings are about sugar baby relationships, it is important to understand the
appeal of this phenomenon.
Although most of the sugar babies are young college students or single moms, there are women
of all ages and from all walks of life who are participating in this growing trend.
Lots of people view sugaring as a simple business transaction. Sugar daddies or mommies
want companionship and intimacy and are willing to pay for it.
Sugar babies need money and are willing to fulfil the needs of their sugar daddy in exchange for
financial compensation.
What Does A Sugar Baby Do?
While sugar daddy will often spend money on their sugar baby, it is important to note that a
sugar baby is not a prostitute.
In fact, many sugar relationships do not involve sexual intimacy of any kind, while others are
strictly online only.
The sugar baby gets to choose who she dates and can end the relationship if she so chooses.
Sugar babies are not looking for marriage, but some sugar babies do hope that their sugar
daddy will help them pay for college or help them financially.
While sugar daddy relationships are not always sexual in nature, many sugar babies are in the
relationship for the financial benefits.
10 Reasons Why Being A Sugar Baby Is Great
* The relationship is not just physical, but also emotional and intellectual.
* Experience something new : You get to try something you never thought you would.
* The freedom to be yourself : You can be as weird and kinky as you want.
* Make money : You will make money and have fun doing it!
* Independence: You can choose who you see, when you see them, and what you do together.
* You can explore your desires, fantasies, and curiosities.
* Lots of sugar daddies act as mentors in their sugar baby’s career or college studies
* Get the things you want, whether that’s a new car, a new wardrobe, or a new handbag.
* You get to feel special and be treated well.
* Security – you’ll never have to worry about how you’re going to pay your bills again.
* You can enjoy a luxurious lifestyle without having to work hard for it.
How Much Do Sugar Babies Make?
This is the most important thing that potential sugar babies want to know. After all, the whole
point of sugaring is to make money!
Sugar baby earning potential can range from a few hundred dollars to a couple of thousand
dollars a month. In many countries, the average monthly allowance is around $70,000. In the
US, sugar babies are paid an average of $9,000 a week.
Of course, what you earn as a sugar baby will depend on the agreement you make with your
sugar daddy.
When I asked about sugaring online, I got a bunch of responses, here is what some of the sugar
babies said about making money:
“We aren’t intimate. I provide companionship, care to him and like his personal assistant. He
has gifted me over 80k in the last 6 months, plus he has paid for plastic surgery on my boobs,
given me my own credit card and a new car. He has added me to his will and stocks. I quit my
job and am with him daily besides weekends. I recently traveled to Jamaica and Paris and
heading to Italy in a couple weeks because of his love/support. Love this man and the world he
has given me and my kids.”
“I’m sure it’s all different. I only gave mine companionship, nothing else. He paid my bills, bought
me things, and left me money whenever he was visiting. It worked great for both of us. Then he
started falling for me so I ended it.”
Types of Sugar Daddies You’ll Encounter
You have decided to start off your sugar baby life, but you’re not really sure what types of sugar
daddies and sugar relationships are out there?
This is something both sugar babies and sugar daddies encounter at the beginning of their
sugar dating lifestyle, thinking that there is only one typical sugar relationship.
Trust me, there are plenty of different sugar daddies and types of arrangements, which allow
each sugar baby to choose the type of sugaring that suits them the most.
1. Traditional Sugar Daddies
Traditional sugar relationships are those that are most frequent in the sugaring world and that
have both emotional and sexual components included.
The sugar baby arrangement description that would suit this one the best in providing a sugar
daddy with a girlfriend-like experience, providing him with emotional affection, security,
understanding, and sexual satisfaction at the same time.
Many successful young men decide to pursue this type of relationship since they don’t have
enough time to engage in traditional dating and find a woman that would understand them.
Sugar babies are the best option for them to have all their needs satisfied because they know
these women will always have enough patience for them and will not be bothered with the fact
that they work too much.
Women who engage in this type of relationship often have only one sugar daddy, but it is usually
not required of them to be loyal, so they can still do some sugaring on the side.
When websites like SeekingArrangement first appeared, this was usually the only type of sugar
arrangement you could come across since men who were getting on these dating websites
were seeking high-quality women with whom they love spending time.
However, nowadays we have dozens of different types of arrangements because the market
has grown so much and because of the fact that these websites have thousands of daily active
users.
So, what are the different types of sugar daddies who don’t look seek traditional sugar
arrangements?
There are many different arrangements and I can assure you that each one of them has enough
people who love pursuing them.
2. Meetup Arrangement (Pay-Per-Meet Sugar Daddies)
A meetup arrangement is one of the arrangements most of the newbie sugar babies start their
careers with.
This type of arrangement means that you will be paid per meet which means that you will not be
engaging in any kind of long-term relationship with your sugar daddy.
Most of them can not bother to beg younger women from their surroundings to join them so they
opt for beautiful sugar babies who will serve them as arm candy.
It is also the type of arrangement that does not require any kind of sexual activities, because
that certainly wouldn’t be sugar dating but rather sex work.
That is something you should always keep in mind in case your Pay-per-meet sugar daddy
insists on having sex with you.
When you pursue this type of dating you can meet with as many men as you want, and this is
something a lot of traditional sugar babies do in case they want to make some more money on
the side.
3. Exclusive Sugar Daddies
Exclusive sugar relationships are those relationships that are most similar to traditional dating
since they require you to stay loyal to your sugar daddy with whom you will be in a long-term
relationship.
Sugar daddies who require exclusivity also know that they have to give you a much higher
monthly allowance than regular sugar daddies.
This is the type of dating usually pursued by men who are looking for a potential wife.
You can be sure that all of your living expenses will be covered and that you will be getting
expensive gifts here and there since these men want to do everything they can in order to spoil
you.
Whether your potential sugar daddy is looking for a girl for an exclusive relationship or not is
something you can easily realize when messaging.
Men who have this kind of agreement on their mind are usually honest from the start and will not
be scared to move on to another woman in case they see you are not the right choice for them.
These types of relationships have the highest chances of ending up with a marriage, which
makes it similar to that pragmatic love type Maren Schull has defined.
4. Platonic Sugar Daddies
I have come across people on social media claiming that non-sexual sugar daddy relationships
are a myth and that this is something you will never find on sugar dating sites.
Hate to break it to them, but platonic relationships like that can be found on websites like
SeekingArrangement, even though they are not that frequent, and yes, you can have a sugar
daddy without sex.
Platonic relationships are similar to conventional relationships, except for the fact that they don’t
include having sex or engaging in any kind of sexual activity.
My experience has shown me that this is the type of relationship many older men look for since
they tend to be very lonely and sometimes just need a person they can talk with.
Young women who approach sugar dating usually believe that sex is the main component of
every sugar relationship, but trust me, men like this can be found, especially if you use dating
sites specialized for sugar dating.
I have come across many millionaires, even billionaire sugar daddies looking for a simple
platonic relationship just because they were feeling lonely and isolated and did not have much
trust in people around them.
Platonic relationships are also something that can be offered to you as a way of mentoring.
A lot of older successful men love having beautiful women as their company, but many of them
will use that occasion in order to educate them about different topics and industries.
I have met many rich daddies who were bankers, investors, or realtors who had sugar babies
they were mentoring.
Who can give you more knowledge than an expert in his industry, a man who has made millions
by doing it?
Be aware that sugar relationships of this kind can sometimes become sugar relationships with
benefits, in case you both start having feelings for each other and find that you really love
spending time together.
Are There Sugar Daddies Who Only Want Sex?
Sugar arrangements cannot be sexual arrangements only, since that is rather some type of sex
work.
Yes, there is a variety of sugar arrangements and many types of sugar babies and sugar
daddies, but none of the real sugar relationships is based only on sex.
The point of sugar relationships is establishing a beneficial relationship that will have both sides
satisfied and be very similar to traditional dating.
Sugar dating sites are places for you to meet your potential husband or a great friend, not the
place where you look for easy money.
Being a sugar baby is nothing like being a sex worker since here you have to work on yourself,
your appearance, and your education in order to become a high-quality woman who will be
loved by everyone.
It is about implementing social skills which allow you to be graceful and polite in all kinds of
situations, allowing you to climb the social ladder.
There is a common misconception that young women enter the sugar dating industry only to
make a living, but I find that most sugar babies I have met engaged in this type of lifestyle in
order to become a member of high society and meet very rich men who will help them in their
career.
Having a sugar daddy is similar to having a boyfriend, and just like every conventional
relationship is different, so are all types of mutually beneficial arrangements.
Some may include sexual activities, while some may not – it is all up to the wishes and
preferences of a sugar baby and a sugar daddy.
How Much Do Sugar Daddies Pay? (Each Type Breakdown)
Now that you are familiar with different types of arrangements, I believe you are very curious
about how much all of these sugar daddies are usually willing to spend on your company and
services and how to ask a sugar daddy for money.
All of these sugar daddy arrangement examples differ in many things – are there gifts and
vacations included or not, will you engage in some type of sexual activities or not, and whether
you will be exclusive with your sugar daddy or not.
Depending on the nature of your arrangement, every sugar daddy will offer you different
amounts of money, negotiate the amount, and whether you will have a weekly or monthly
allowance.
In case it looks like the best financial option for you, you may even engage in arrangements
where you will be paid per meeting.
In Pay-per-meet arrangements, you will get somewhere between 100 and 300 dollars per
meeting, but in case your sugar daddy wants you to accompany him on an event of a bigger
scale, you could even earn more than 500 dollars.
Alterego. Who you are as a SW/SB
Often many of us struggle to keep our mental sanity between our sugar life and our real life.
It can be overwhelming to talk to POTs, answer the 1000s of questions they will ask us,
remember the 1000s answers we gave, remember the lies we told them, the career we study,
the name of 'our' college, the city we live at, who we live with.....It's just too much for anyone.
Specially if you DO study, if you have a significant other, if you have a family, if you have kids...
So, my suggestion is (and of course it is only from my own personal experience) to have two
separate versions of you.
1. Choose a name with a last name. You need to look legit, and the worse mistake you can
make is provide your actual personal info to POTs or even Daddies, because you never know
what is going to happen. Choose a name that goes with you, sometimes your mother didn't use
her best judgment to name you, so this is your chance to shine. Pick something that represents
your strongest inside bitch, and pick a last name, that will make you look legit and real. Keep it
sensual and seductive but still classy (something like Cassandra, Viktoria (with K), Grazia,
Ivanna), no stripper names please.
2. Create social media with your alias. Keep it limited so you can control it, create a Facebook
account with the same and last name you picked and add random people as friends (no one
you know, choose people from other cities, countries etc) and make random posts at least once
or twice a week. Take nice decent pictures only for that account. Don't put those pictures in any
of your personal social media because they can easily track them back to your real self and fuck
you up. Don't fuck around with Instagram or Twitter, that's too much work and you don't want
that much exposure=risk.
3. Get a fake number. One of the WORSE mistakes we can make is to provide a POT or even
Daddy with our real number. They can find out everything about us, just like we do about them
with a phone number. I advise you to get a fake google account. Of course your google account
will be your alter-ego name of choice @gmail.com. (As we said, we want to keep it legit, also
open a paypal, cash, venmo with that email to receive money online). Download google
hangouts and google hangouts call app and set up a google voice number linked to your real
number. They will never know its a google voice number (go to voice settings in google voice
and deactivate the google voice automated msg and shit when they call).
Other useful apps are textme and textmenow. Another option is to get a new phone with a
disposable number that cannot be tracked, but that is no-cost effective and having two phones
will raise a few questions in your real life (you can always answer ''its for work'' which technically
wont be a lie).
4. Define who you want to be as your alter-ego. Sweet and sassy? a total bitch? Submissive?
Dominant? how does this new person likes to dress? what type of underwear she likes? her
favorite place to eat and dine? Favorite movie and artist? It might sound a bit awkward but
believe me, this will help you to develop a natural character which you will display in front of
your victims (keep it always sensual but classy).
5. Make a list of personal questions and answers, and STICK to them with all POTs and
Daddies, at some point you will answer with such nationality that you will be surprised.
Ex.
Q: Where do you live?
A: Downtown by x or y place (be familiarized with the area of course)
Q: Who do you live with?
A: A roommate (or two). You never live alone (unless you have a AK-47 under your pillow), ever
no matter what. A young female living alone is naturally an easy prey for those creeps predators
out there.
Q: What school you attend?
A: Lehman College
Q: What do you study?
A: Business (make sure that the school you choose DOES have a program in your career
choice)
Q: How many SDs have you had in the past?
A: Enough to have successful arrangements that I am looking forward to have again with the
right person.
Q: Can you host?
A: As I said, I have roommates and they don't feel comfortable with strangers at home, they are
very religious.
Q: How are things with your family?
A: We love each other, I speak with my mom every day, she is like my best friend and my dad is
the best dad on earth. I see them as often as I can (no matter if you don't know who df your dad
is and your mom is in jail for killing your sister, send the msg that someone CARES about you
and will come to look for you if you go missing)
And many other questions that you will be discovering and coming up with answers with time.
Use that works for you, and stick to that.
Your success will depend on how strong your game is. And having a defined and strong
character are vital to make it through.
The Top Sugar Daddy Websites To Join
If you want to make money as a sugar baby online, it is important to join about sugar baby
websites.
These websites offer a way for older men and younger women to find each other and start a
mutually agreed upon relationship.
As a sugar baby online, you will be asked for photos of you and a description of what you are
looking for. Sugar daddies will contact you or you can initiate the conversation with them.
If you don’t want to use sugar baby websites, you can simply choose to find a sugar daddy on a
regular dating website. A few of my friends have had success this way.
The Top Sugar Baby Apps
Sugar Daddy Meet –Wealth verification is what sets this sugar daddy app apart from the rest
Seeking Arrangement – One of the top sites and 100% free for sugar babies to join
Sugar Daddy For Me – Claims to be the World’s largest sugar daddy site
Sudy – This is an app only sugar daddy finder
Whats Your Price – Sugar babies set their own price on this website
Sugar Daddie – One of the oldest and most established sugar daddy sites
The Best Site to Meet A Sugar Daddy in 2022
In my opinion (and that of thousands of sugar babies), Sugar Daddy Meet is the best place to
meet a bonafide sugar daddy.
Why is Sugar Daddy Meet the best site for Sugar babies?
As the #1 upscale sugar daddy dating site, Sugar Daddy Meet vets all potential daddies and
only accepts applications from the top 20 richest countries.
As my grandma always says (hi gran!), go big or go home, right?
All sugar daddies with profiles on Sugar Daddy Meet have verified their photos and income so
you won’t waste your time with posers or men wanting a quick hook up.
How Does Sugar Daddy Meet Work?
Sugar Daddy Meet works much like a regular online dating site.
Create a profile for free (men pay in order to communicate with sugar babies) and then you will
be sent matches automatically with compatible men.
It only takes a few minutes to create a profile on Sugar Daddy Meet and you can start receiving
matches in minutes. Just fill out some details such as your height and age then add a headline
and a description about you and the kind of man you are looking for:
Sugar Daddy Meet is really good for privacy. Your photo will only be shown to potential sugar
daddies who you allow to see your private gallery.
Your public photo will be a disguised version of your profile photo so that it gives matches an
idea of what you look like while maintaining your privacy.
Once your profile has been set up, you will be able to browse potential sugar daddies and also
receive messages and matches directly.
Sign up for Sugar Daddy Meet Here
Dating Sites That Are Good For Meeting Sugar Daddies
The sites below are not strictly sugar daddy sites but they get great reviews from women who
have found a sugar daddy there:
Luxy Dating App – this app is for wealthy singles
Ashley Madison – This dating app is for attached people who want to have affairs but many
sugar babies claim it is perfect for meeting sugar daddies with no strings attached.
How To Find A Sugar Daddy On Instagram
Instagram is rife with sugar daddy scammers but it can also be a great place to become a sugar
baby for free. If you are already on Instagram and are familiar with the platform, it might be the
best place for you to start.
Tips for finding a sugar daddy on Instagram
1. Create a separate profile. You don’t want creepers seeing your life and you might not want
your family seeing your sugaring.
2. Put your best foot forward. Choose attractive photos that show the things you like to do and
portray your interests.
3. Follow potential sugar daddies and their hashtags. #golf, #investments etc are all good
places to start.
4. DM potential sugar daddies – introduce yourself and explain what you are looking for.
5. Tag potential sugar daddies in your posts. They will get notified and you will be on their radar.
6. Fill in your bio appropriately. Say what you are looking for and even include your Cashapp.
7. Use the right sugar daddy hashtags to get found. Below are a few of the best:
INSTAGRAM PAGES TO STALK
- SPORTING
- COUNTRY CLUB
- ONLYFANS MODELS FOLLOWERS LIST
- DESIGNER BRANDS ( @LOUISVUITTON @NEIMANMARCUS etc )
BIO EXAMPLE
- BUSINESS OWNER
- BIRKIN MOM
- IM A WOMEN WITH AMBITION AND A HEART OF GOLD
- ANGELS PROTECT ME , DEVILS RESPECT ME
- COME SEE WHAT THE TYPE IS ABOUT
- I WEAR CONFIDENCE ON MY SLEEVE
- ANGEL FACE , NAUGHTY THOUGHTS
- CHANEL EXPERT
Places To Meet A Sugar Daddy In Real Life
Although meeting a sugar daddy online is by far the most popular way to become a sugar
baby, the following places got honorable mentions when I asked friends where they met
their sugar daddy:
* Golf Clubs
* Yacht Clubs
* Strip Clubs
* Nursing Homes (I’m kidding)
How To Stay Safe As A Sugar Baby
One major issue with the sugar daddy industry is that a lot of catfish and scammers use
it as a way to get women to talk to them.
Most attractive women have received at least one scammer DM on Instagram or
Facebook offering proposing a sugar daddy relationship.
Bear in mind that most scammers will contact you without any initiation and offer you the
World for no reason. If it seems too good to be true, it normally is when it comes to sugar
daddy catfish.
One the websites, you also need to be careful of scammers and creepy men.
There are various safety precautions that you need to take into consideration before
signing up to be a sugar baby.
* Never reveal your last name, your address, or your school! Your safety is a priority, so
avoid revealing your contact information until you have a trustworthy connection.
* Never give out your bank card information.
* Meet potential sugar daddies in a public place.
* Stop chatting with men who are too creepy or too pushy about meeting up. If you feel
uncomfortable, abort.
Can you Be A Sugar Baby Without Meeting The Sugar Daddy?
Lots of women wonder if it is possible to be a digital sugar baby and get paid just for
chatting to their sugar daddy online.
It’s definitely possible to be a sugar baby without meeting your sugar daddy although
many sugar daddies will want to meet you at some point.
If you want to be a sugar baby online only, then consider the following websites:
OnlyFans – this guide to making money on OnlyFans will help you get started on this
lucrative online only site.
Phrendly and other sites that will pay you to sext.
Bumble
Meet Me
Wink
Snapchat
Tinder
Hoop
HILY
PLENTY OF FISH
CLOVER
OKCUPID
HUD
TAGGED
PROFILE SET UP
- these are some locations that the ballers live in! switch your profile location around to
these places and swipe right on all the men ( MIAMI , TEXAS , VEGAS , DOWNTOWN
HOUSTON , LA , COLORADO , ATLANTA , MARYLAND, NEW HAMPSHIRE )
SET THE AGE TO 30-55+ & SET YOUR INTEREST TO SHOPPING FOOD WINE
TRAVELING ETC…
Payment Methods
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CASHAPP
PAYPAL ( ONLY ACCEPT PAYMENT AS DONATION OR FAMILY/FRIENDS SO THEY CANT
REPORT IT)
VENMO
GOOGLE PAY
APPLE PAY ( use fake icloud / number )
if they ask you for your bank info , card number , ssn or to send him money ISSA
SCAM BLOCK HIM
Is there an age limit on being a sugar baby?
In most cases sugar babies are college students and young professionals under age of
30.
That being said, the main definition of a sugar daddy/sugar baby relationship seems to
be the age gap. 20-30 year age gaps are the norm and I do have friends in their late 30s
and 40s who have sugar daddies who are 70+ years old.
The main thing to remember is that you should not consider becoming a sugar baby if
you are under 18. This is an adult arrangement only and most sites will not allow you to
join if you are underage.
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How to succeed as a sugar baby offline Dos and don'ts :
Sugar baby advice: Dos for ladies looking for benefactors
Let’s start with the dos to get a benefactor’s attention, keep them interested, and get
what you want.
Be realistic and set the goals
The most common mistake that wannabe sugar babies usually make is having very
abstract dreams instead of goals. A sugar daddy will hardly be your Christian Grey,
who’d fall in love with you at first sight and take you to Monaco on the private jet. This is
an unrealistic dream for a beginner. Getting $200–$500 per date or $2,000–$3,000 of
monthly allowance is a realistic goal.
As you can see, there’s a difference. Think about your expectations, relationships that
would work for you, think about your personal boundaries and things you would agree
and wouldn’t agree to do. That’s important for every beginner.
Invest in your appearance and education
Hot sugar babies earn more and get more attention from sugar daddies. That’s true. So, a
SB shouldn’t be lazy and must be ready to invest in herself. However, a successful sugar
baby doesn't focus only on her appearance—she also knows how to talk about things
and invests in her education and self-development.
Get ready to ask direct questions and give direct answers
It’s sometimes hard to tell what you really want or ask someone direct questions about
money, intimacy, etc. However, that’s the part of a sugar baby’s work. Sugar relationships
are mutually beneficial, so they meet the expectations of both parties, and this will hardly
work if you don’t even know what these expectations are. So, discuss the rules, set them,
compromise, and more importantly, be honest and get ready to hear honest answers to
your questions.
Be patient
Let’s say you are a new sugar baby. How soon will you get your first date with a rich and
attractive sugar daddy? The truth is, you can never be sure about that. You need to be
very patient. For example, answering tons of messages from ten men and meeting only
one of them is a pretty common situation for a sugar baby. Men show their interest in
you, but you may have different expectations, interests, goals, and demands, and that’s
normal. Finding a partner on Tinder is not much easier, actually.
Show interest in your sugar daddies personality, too
You should never act like money is the only thing that interests you. It’s another mistake
some beginners make—they think that sugar dating is about getting money and
providing the service. However, it’s not true. Developing authentic feelings is an essential
part of sugar dating, too. There must be affection, there must be room for
companionship, so try to get closer. Moreover, you’ll like this relationship more too if you
date someone interesting, someone you really like.
Rules of being a sugar baby: Things you shouldn’t do
But what about don’ts? Here are the tips for sugar babies to avoid mistakes.
1. Don’t trust anyone you’ve just met on the web, especially if he gives nothing but empty
promises. There are Salt daddies who are actually scammers who want to meet a sugar
baby, get everything they want without giving anything in exchange. There are also
Splenda daddies with average income who can’t pay sugar babies as much as they
would want them to pay. Be careful—this is the Internet, so don’t blindly trust anyone.
2. Don’t go to his place on the first date. Always meet a new sugar daddy in public.
Choose a restaurant or let him invite you to a nice place. And always tell at least one
friend where you are going. Safety must come first.
3. Don’t expect too much, never ask for more attention. How to be the best sugar baby?
The answer is simple—give a sugar daddy what he wants. Some sugar babies mistakenly
believe that they only want a beautiful girl next to them and sex, of course. That’s not
exactly true. This is not the only priority in sugar dating. Benefactors choose this
relationship because they want to enjoy its benefits without any drawbacks of the
so-called vanilla relationship. Demands, blame game, obligations, regular calls, tears,
thirst for attention are what they’re trying to avoid, so never act like you are a very
demanding girlfriend.
4. Don’t fall in love. This is just a safety tip aimed at protecting you from a heartbreaking
experience. In this game, everyone knows the rules. There may be exceptions, of course,
but like any other exceptions, they happen rarely. So you’d better not wait for big love
with a rich, attractive man to change your life—that’s how you can enjoy sugar
relationships without fear of being dumped.
5. Don’t think that everyone will understand you. This is the last but not least important
thing to remember. Sugar dating is not stigmatized as much as it was decades ago, but
not all people like the idea of such a mutually beneficial relationship. Some people will
understand you, and some won’t. However, you can always be a discreet sugar baby if
you want to.
Though these are just sugar baby tips, understanding and following them can really help
you become a successful SB.
Greeting Etiquette When Sugaring
This goes for online and in person sugaring
First-date greeting etiquette is quite simple and should actually be a part of your regular
life since you are probably meeting new people every day in all types of places.
Some basic rules when introducing yourself to anyone and to your sugar daddy are to
smile, make a firm handshake and eye contact, introduce yourself by your name and
politely start asking your sugar daddy questions in order to start a conversation.
Even though you have already established some kind of connection messaging via an
online dating site like SeekingArrangement, you should always introduce yourself
because this is your first real-life date.
Make sure to always be punctual, especially when you are meeting successful men
because, for them, time is money.
What many younger women tend to do very often is to interrupt others when speaking
which is very rude, especially to your sugar daddy.
It is important to know how to talk to a potential sugar daddy to be able to establish some
ground rules.
In case you really want them to clarify something, excuse yourself for interrupting and
enter a conversation by asking questions.
Never roll your eyes and don’t look on your phone when he is talking to you, this is rude
no matter the type of relationship, serious (like Tinder or eHarmony) or hookup (like
BeNaughty or Ashley Madison).
Make sure to not use curse words or any kind of inappropriate language, especially on
your first meeting.
There is plenty of sugar baby greeting examples circulating on social media but I
recommend ignoring them since most of the people offering that advice have no
experience in sugar baby relationships.
All of this sugar daddy first date advice can be quite useful in the sugaring world and in
real life too.
Before your first date, your sugar daddy will certainly send you the location where you
will be meeting and I always recommend googling the place in order to find out how
fancy and expensive it is, so you can dress properly.
Proper dress etiquette is something that is a must for all women, not only sugar babies.
Always choose the clothes that hug your body very well and choose the materials and
shapes that make you look like a supermodel.
This doesn’t mean that you have to max out your credit card while shopping for designer
stuff, since things from shops like Zara or Aritzia will look great as long as they are the
right choice for your body type.
If you are going to a museum or a gallery never dress in clothes that reveal too much or
that are too tight, but rather choose smart and elegant outfits like maxi dresses or even
suits.
In case your first date is at an expensive restaurant or a hotel bar, you can choose an
outfit that is sexy but still smart since you don’t want to look cheap and make a bad first
impression.
What Is A Sugar Daddy Meet and Greet?
I believe this is something worth mentioning since I have encountered many men that
insist on having some type of a “meet and greet” before the first exclusive date.
Even though this is not something you will encounter often when sugaring, I believe it
can be a really good practice since this way you can decide whether this person is a
good choice for you or not over a short coffee or dinner date.
Your potential sugar daddy will probably use some regular sugar daddy pick-up lines in
order to see how experienced you are and tell you what is expected of a sugar baby when
dating him.
However, always watch out when someone offers you a meet and greet and insists on
picking you up from your place or driving you to somewhere out of the city.
Many girls ask me “What if a guy wants to pick me up on the first date?” and I always
advise them to decline, especially if it’s the first date.
How to Communicate With Your Sugar Daddy?
Establishing good communication with your potential sugar daddy can be quite tough,
especially if you go on a first date without knowing much about each other.
One thing I always suggest, no matter if you meet up for the first or the 10th time is to
make eye contact when speaking.
Your sugar daddy will feel that he is being listened to and be sure that he has your
attention.
Both of you should be honest from the beginning If you want this relationship to be a
success.
Sugar babies’ companionship is almost the same as traditional dating, so don’t do or
hide anything you wouldn’t in a conventional relationship.
What Should You Expect With A Sugar Daddy?
This is something that depends on the man you are meeting, his financial funds, and his
social status.
The purpose of the first date is usually to set up the arrangement and define your sugar
daddy requirements.
Older men who approach the sugar lifestyle are often very upfront about their
expectations and won’t waste your time, so don’t be surprised if they start talking about
the details of the arrangement just a few minutes after you have arrived.
They are usually very experienced and will realize If you are a good sugar baby
companion till the end of your meeting for sure.
However, there are many unpleasant men who don’t understand the term sugar lifestyle
very well that you may meet over a website like SeekingArrangement.com.
There are many sugar daddies that don’t get what this sugar bowl lifestyle really is who
will immediately start with their sugar daddy’s rules for dating.
They usually start talking about their sugar baby desired arrangement examples without
even listening to you, and those are the men I recommend running from If you want a
sugar baby lifestyle.
Men like this also tend to be unable to grasp the concept of sugar relationships and often
think that most women have become sugar babies in order to do regular sex work, which
is not true at all.
You should consider many things when setting up your allowance, but I recommend
relying on yourself and your knowledge of the money you need per month in order to live
comfortably.
If your sugar daddy is offering you much less money than you have asked for, you
should just politely excuse yourself and not get into this relationship.
ANONYMITY IS ESSENTIAL FOR SUGAR INFANTS AND SUGAR DADDIES — I CREATED
AN ALTER EGO JUST FOR MY ON-LINE SUGARING PRESENCE
It then goes up or down from there based mostly on the type of man she can catch and
the way emotionally close the connection is. If you count on to be compensated in your
time, then you aren’t a sugar baby, you’re an escort. A SB I had about 12 years ago is an
actress and model seeking and went on to get on some of those “Most Beautiful Women
within the World” lists. Definitely some of the beautiful women on the earth. Talk about
turning heads, I ended it because she was too well-known and I was afraid someone
would take a picture of us together.
Most sugar daddies are wealthy men, but that doesn’t mean they have unlimited
resources. Contrary to popular opinion – not each sugar daddy is a millionaire.
To keep away from falling victim to one of these, you should never provoke any intimacy
with a sugar daddy except you’ve already received your sugar. For some women, rubbing
shoulders with highly effective and profitable men is an training unto itself. But in
contrast to in the office, where mentorship could be a guise for sexual harassment, in
sugaring a young lady might need more management of the terms of engagement.
“I actually have one yr left and I’ve already paid the total tuition on one of those
semesters.” That benefactor has since passed away, however because of her other
arrangements, she’ll be graduating debt-free. The earnings are certainly lowering and
have resulted in sugar daddies investing about $13,000 less to their sugar babies,
although yearly spending nonetheless totaled over $60,000.