Child Upbringing
Public awareness regarding raising children has gained more attention and vitality over the
years. Parents, who want their children to outshine others in different aspects of life, are a lot more
involved compared to the past. Notably, in some cultures, it is encouraged for close family members
(grandparents, aunts, etc.) to be involved in children’s development while others disagree. I strongly
believe that other family members along with parents should raise children since it gives parents
some time off and helps children acquire valuable life lessons given by wise grandparents.
To begin with, nowadays parents are completely busy with duties related to work and thus
they struggle to find time for their children. Although they eventually dedicate limited time for their
children, it is very likely for them to neglect their own needs and wants. When they neglect their
own needs, the possibility of anger explosions towards the kids will be higher. Consequently,
parents being exhausted will definitely harm their children’s mental and physical well-being,
whether directly or indirectly. Moreover, feeling guilty and ashamed after bursting out on their
children can bring about more emotional loads. Therefore, support from other family members will
be beneficial for them to become healthy parents since they will be able to prevent burnouts more
easily by taking care of themselves.
Another dominant argument to consider is precious life experiences of the mature family
members. Children are often naive and do not consider the consequences of their choices or the
meanings of seemingly unnecessary responsibilities in life. On the contrary, supporters claim that
grandparents are generally wise people who have gained various perspectives that help them deal
with various situations. Therefore, when children listen to their advice, they will strengthen their
ability to cope with the struggles that life throws at them. Moreover, children will feel safe by
relying on their wise family members when needed. To sum up, it can be seen that grandparents’
unique life experiences will enhance children’s perspectives.
In a nutshell, child-raising is a vital part of life journey. Parents often sacrifice everything to
take care of their children by looking after their needs. A child’s most significant needs are
unconditional love and life lessons that prepare them for life. Considering that, it can be seen that
the whole family participating in nurturing children is necessary.