Summery the way of the superior man
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Your purpose is your highest priority. Even higher than your relationship
You must put your purpose before your relationship
Even if your woman trying to get your attention. Let her know that you will make
time for her later. And when later comes, give her 100% attention.
A women will enjoy this time later much more than your weak devided attention
now.
Fear should be your friend. So that you are no longer uncomfortable with it. Staying
with your fear, staying on your edge allows real transformation to occur
Own your fear and lean just beyond it
Make use of other men's criticism, don't be hurt or defensive
Good friends should not tolerate mediocrity in one another.
Hesitation is mediocrity. Challenge your friends to action. Or ask your friends to
challenge you
Choose men friends who themselves are living on the edge, facing their fears and
living just beyond them
Don't seek external validation for successes you have had. Don't go looking for a pat
on the back from nobody. Be happy for your succes with yourself
If you do seek validation from Others, you are a weak man
If a women is testing you by pressing your weak points, make sure you stay strong,
humorous and happy. Don't let the critique of your women. Ch
A women will test you continuously. This is not true criticism. It is often a test of your
manhood.
A mens word is his honor. He will do what he says. A women's word is often a
reflection of her feelings at the moment.
If she says, she doesn't feel like doing a certain thing at the moment. It is often a
reflection of your relationship. Make sure you sweep her of her feet.
Don't believe the literal content of what you women is saying.
You should hear what your woman had to say, fully.But don't compromise fully. Trust
on you own judgment. Then you won't blame your women if things go wrong. The
women is often speaking of her feelings, not of logic.
Men grow by challenges and women grow by praise.
Praise your woman multiple times a day
Praise the qualities of your women which are not yet praiseworthy, so they may grow
If your women is in a dark and bitchy mood don't tolerate her. If you do you will
resent her eventually. Try to open up her mood with your skillful loving.
The best way to open up her mood is not by talking, but by humor and physical
expressed love
A feminine women's mood is like wealth patterns. There is no reason or a problem.
These are simply her feelings.
90% of a women's emotional problems stem from Feeling unloved
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Don't try to analize her, it will only piss her off more
One of the deepest feminine desires in intimacy is to relax and surrender and
knowing that here men takes care of everything.
The feminine priority is flown of love in relationship.
The masculine priority is purpose and direction
Don't tell a women to fix or analyse her own emotional problems
Most men are afraid of feminine emotions and try to fix them or run away from
them. Don't, a superior man penetrates her emotions with love
A superior man stands present of his women's emotional storm and acts in a stoic
way. Giving her love instead of letting her emotions impact you
The way you can relate to your women's chaos reflects the way you can relate to the
world
Her emotional. Tidel waves are a challenge to a men. You must conquer this
challenge
It is a superior men's job to provide his women with the gift of masculinity: clarity
and decisiveness.
Don't expect your women to make decisions, make the decisions for her. Otherwise
you rely on her masculine traits
Never say to your women, whatever you want to do is fine.
Be decisive for your women. Make decisions and stay with them.
Masculine men are attracted to feminine women
Feminine men are attracted to masculine women
Feminine energy is a beautiful beach, music, nature and relaxation
When a woman sends a thrill through your body, embrace this feeling. This is your
attraction to feminine energy
You will feel. When a women is feminine, because you will feel the feeling described
above
You don't have to act on this feeling. You can just enjoy it if you want. Off course you
can act on this feeling if you want
Feminine women: wild, undisciplined, bonkers, chaotic, changes her mind often,
lying, lots of emotions
Masculine/neutral women: steady, reasonable, trustworthy, able to say what she
means, focused on mission
80% of men are masculine in their core. But they might have depolarizzed
themselves because of the lack of understanding.
Learn to love her emotions, because those emotions are part of a feminine woman
You can learn to stand free and strong, no matter what emotions she displays. Don't
leave, don't turn away, and don't dissociate yourself with disgust. Embrace her
complete feminine power.
Make sure your sexual relationship doesn't have multiple purposes. She cannot be
your friend, business partner, and lover at the same time.. Or otherwise your sexual
polarity will deminish.
Young women radiate feminine energy, as a women gets older they take on more
masculine traits in our society. Because of tasks and responsibilities.
There is a diffence in the women's temperament. Some women are more easy,
cooler. While some are fiery hot.
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If you are quick tempered and hot yourself you might like a women who is more
cooling.
Your preferences in this can change over time, especially when your environment
changes.
When you are in a boring environment you might like a more exciting fiery women.
The oposite is true for a stressful environment
But you can handle this in diffent ways, yes by changing your sexual partner. But also
by more relax or more exiting activities.
A man should decide for himself if a women truly wants him or not. If she doesn't
want him, he should immediately cease persuing her and deal with his pain himself
The priority of a masculine man is mission, purpose, direction. When you want a
women too much, your need for love is too strong. This means, your feminine energy
is too strong. She will be repulsed by your clinginess.
Your women will try to distract you from your mission, from your moral standards
just to test you.
To test your masculinity to stay true to your values.
In this case you cannot succumb to your women's wishes
If her disire can sway you from your goal and purpose. She will be disappointed in
you
If your women is disappointed by your deepest trush, your purpose, you shouldn't be
with her
The thing your women is complaining about is rarely the true thing she is complaining
about. If is a mere reflection of her current feelings.
Her complaint because of feeling a lack in your masculine capacity to direct your life
with clarity, purpose, wisdom, integrity. Conscious,
Integrity is: the quality of being honest and having strong morals
If you say you would clean the garage, and then you don't do it for weeks. Your
women's complaint is about the fact that you didn't do what you said you would. She
can't trust what you say. Your morals are weak, because you talk but don't take
action. It shows you don't follow through with your word, with your purpose
The masculine and feminine must me polarized. The masculine is attracted to the
feminine radiance and the feminine is attracted to the masculine clarity, direction,
integrity and presence.
If you don't take charge of your masculine job, your woman will develop masculine
energy and she will take charge of the situation. She has to compensate for your
failure.
Stop kidding yourself with bullshit, your women will feel it
A women should never be the top priority of a man's life. If this is the case she will
feel her man's dependence of her for his happiness
A woman really wants a man to be totally dedicated to his purpose.
If you don't have a purpose, you might find yourself making your women the most
important thing in your life. Or you may adapt your need for direction to externally
regulated purposes, like becoming a company man.
You must live a life of absolute commitment to truth.
Don't settle for the common life of absolute commitment to work, family, intimacy
and friends. You must commit fully to your purpose.
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A man should never compromise his highest purpose in life. Not for his wife, not for
pleasures of TV, not for anything
Your track record means nothing to your women. Your last successes mean nothing
to her present feeling of your failure.
You must take charge so your women can relax in her feminine energy. Financially,
sexually, emotionally and spiritually.
A spiritual purpose is becoming ones best self (self improvement)
If your woman wants to make all the decisions all the time she has a more masculine
energy
A women must feel your loving clarity, wisdom, and certainty of direction. She must
feel you are in control
The essential masculine ecstasy is in the moment of release from constraint
all masculine goals are directed towards more freedom; at work, on the foodbal field,
(the freedom of breaking through the defences and scoring, war,
A man is at constant war with itself.
when a women doesn’t feel loved, she will seek to fill herself with ice cream,
chocolate, or conversation, shopping.
the attachment to comfort and security is what limits most men in their capacity to
make a spiritual toughdown.
it is a feminine desire to be forced to surrender. it is a masculine desire to ravish your
woman and break through her resistance so she has no choise but to surrender in
love.
Once a while you must really ravish your women, play with the true masculine and
feminine desires
You must not be affraid to yield yourself completely in the ecstacy of physical love
with your women. Or otherwise you will try to emty yourself with the conventional
masculine habits of TV, ejaculation and work
You must learn to let go, absolutely. You must be fearless with your sexual desire
the essential masculine fear, and desire is loss of self. most men do this in
controllable ways like sports or orgasm. but remain fearfull of losing themselves for
real. In loving ecstasy with your women, in adventure. Surrender in the unknowable
infinity beyond mind.
If a men truly gives up control he can reach his true spiritual self.
Fearlessness, or the capacity to transcent the fear of death for the sake of love is the
ultimate masculine gift
Your woman wants to feel your fearlessness. she wants to feel your capacity to face
her closure, anger and tenstion. She wants to feel your persistence in loving, so that
her fury cannot turn you away.
your women will test you time and time again. any of her energies that you are
ubanle to transform into love through force, clarity and humor of your consciousness
will return for you to face, again and again.
the secret is to match her energy with your consciousness demonstrated through
your body, don’t try to talk it out. Take her in your arms and show here what to do,
don’t tell her. Look her deep in the eyes.
she knows if you are not free to master her dark destructive energy, you wont be
able to conquer the dark energies of the world
She is offering you an opportunity to master this energy with your fearless loving.
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If you ignore certain energies of your women, you are running away, you have given
up!. It is like saying to the world, yes i am weak, take me.
Part 6
Feminine attractiveness
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a more mature woman is mentally stronger
She will tolerate less of your bullshit.
If you purpose is to become more free of your self-burden and give your true gift to
the world. Then a spritually mature women who won’t let you slather in your comfy
habits of security and distraction may be an excellent ally for your journey.
when a men sees a beautiful women, he feels her sexual energy. His energy levels
rise. He should use this sexual energy to work towards his purpose.
when feeling a sexual desire most men want to get rid of it as soon as possible by
ejaculation. INstead of guiding this feeling into cycles of stimulation and depletion,
you can skillfully use this sexual energy.
familiarity breeds depolarization. Your desire for eachother will deplete if you go this
route.
Every moment you treat your women simply as a childcare helper or a boddu you
neutralize your sexual differences
You will treat your women sexually neutral and she will feel rejected. and in the
proces, she becomes darker and you become less sexually attractive to her
As a masculine man you must take full responsibility for this, it is not her fault
Rather than decide to move on because you are to weak to overcome this. (if your
relationship is depolarized and becoming boring) try to take on the challenge of
manifesting love in the dreary world and in your dreary woman.
Stop coping, start taking action. You can spend decades coping at your job or coping
with your women before you realize that you have wasted much of your life.
women are never the purpose of existence. They are not the thing that will satisfy
you completely. (thats why a women should never be your ultimate purpose).
We spend so much of our time chasing women because of our desires (likes
houseflies to food). Women promise to satisfy us completely. but they don’t. Whe
must use this desire for women elsewhere.
You are least unhappy when you are relieved of the need go get anything at all. just
watching the trees, driving your car. wanting nothing.
We should use this desire to chase women, to reach our purpose and to reach our
true spiritual self!
Part 7
Body practices
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If you have a lot of tension in your daily life, ejaculation will offer you temporarily
release and relaxation. But if you life more and more true to your purpose, you will
discover that ejaculation, actually depletes and weakens you.
excess ajaculation will diminish your courage to take risks, professionaly and
spiritually. You will settle for doing enough to get by, to be comfortable.
SEMEN RETENTION; you must not always ejaculate when having sex
When having sex, it is not merely your penetration she is feeling. It is your yielding
into her, through her, with your love. It is your fullness of presence, the actual
invasion of her body by your consciousness, that most ravishes her.
After you ejaculate, you dont really want to ravish her anymore. You don’t feel mush
desire to enter your women bodily and emotionally anymore. You are content with
the emtyness and relaxation.
Most men trade a short boost of pleasure over the endless racishment of their
women.
If you hold of this short boost of pleasure you can enjoy full consciousness. most men
and women don’t realise how deep and ecstatix sexual loving can be. Surrendered
beyong a schred of closure. openness, love, radiant and alive.
A women may also be uncapable of surrendering into love. It is your job to melt
through her layers of fear with your masculine, love, humor, shock. without imposing
your own need on her. Let your love penetrate her to the deep part of her that is
ttally open to love
A Superior man chooses to ejaculate occasionally. (but the choise is made
beforehand)
When you let yourself go and ejaculate your woman knows she has control over you,
and the also knows that the world has control over you.
A superior man does not settle for less (ejaculation) than the total surrender of his
woman’s heart
if ejaculation is not completely a matter of choise, your woman knows you arent in
control. and she won’t fully surrender to you.
Release your stress by inhaling deep through your body. Inhale all the stress in the
world and then exhalen and release all contraction, leaving only relaxation and love.
masturbation is conditioning us too think of sex like a road to ejaculation, with
ejaculation being the end of the sexual act. This doensnt have to be like this.
Stop focussing on your own sexual need and desire, tension. Feel your parner more
than you feel yourself. feel her movement , het moan and het internal energy. (this
takes practice)
if your ejaculation is a sign of the end of your lovemaking before you and your
partner have opened yourself up; this is premature ejaculation.
a large part of avoiding premature ejaculation is breathing in fully, deaply and with
great force during the day, this releases tension.
By breathing too fast (also during sex) you build of too much tension wich
contributes to premature ejaculation.
By contracting your pelvis floor you can avoid yourself from ejaculation during sex.
also inhale deep though your spine.
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It first this might be hard, but you can train it. (15-20 sets) 3,4 times a day. Hold it as
long as you can. This will make you control your muscles much better.
when avoiding ejaculation with this excersize, the energy will shoot up your spina,
you can enjoy the colors, feelings and bliss that will fill your head and rain through
your body.
you will be able to have sex as long as you want, the sex will give you new energy,
instead of depleting your life force.
part 8
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intimate relationships are never the priority of a masculine man. But they are the
priority of a feminine woman
if you are not fulfulling your ultimate priority you are not truly at eaze.
Your woman and children can be loving all day, but if your career and mision is not
on track, you will feel stress. You don’t feel like being intimate with your partner.
make your women feel as if she is truly loved all parts of the day
It is self-destructive for a women to lessen the importance of her relationship with
you. this is a masculine trait (she is not in line with her feminine core)
the desire for the flow of lose is the true feminine purpose.
women these days are becoming anti-feminine, by developing masculine traits. By
decicating their purpose to a mission. by denying their feminine essense they are
setting themselves up for emtiness of heart, depression and bodily symptons of
decause.
if you want her to support you in your mission and purpose, you must support her in
her quest for love.
When your life is truly aligned with your purpose, you will become more present,
more loving and more humorous.
When your women is in a bad mood, your loving intervention is one
If it takes you more than 5 minutes to open her up, you are propably talking too
much, you are not her therapist
Your masculine gift is to know where you are, where you want to be and what you
need to do to get there. This is the gift you have to offer your woman and the world.
Your woman may reject your gift and so may the world. But keep giving your gift.
(you are doing this right know with YouTube).
You must spend your life to your purpose. If you don't cut through and take direction
of your life, your women will.
The less masculine you are, the more masculine your woman will be.
If you are lolling around in bozoland, or working hard but actually not living your true
gift, (purpose) then your woman will resent you for it.
If your woman is chronically sharp with you, it is most likely a sign you are not
aligning your life with your highest truth.
to promote polarization between you and your woman, you should spend time
appart
Your woman should re-energize herself with her female friends, and you should this
with your male friends. (male only)
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one way to bring you to your masculine egde of power (to find your purpose and to
life your true life) is to eliminate comforts and cushions of your life. eliminate
weakness. eliminate distractions and sit in solitude. this way you will have to face the
basic discomfort of your, and you will have to deal with it.
allow yourself to feel suffering by removing all destractions once in a while. (do
nothing and feel the boredom)
another way of truly finding your purpose is challenging yourself with a physical
activity or doing something you truly fear.
go to the middle of the woods by yourself, nothing to read, nothing to do. fast from
food, dont sleep for as long as possible.
you must spend time with your male friends at least once a week. cut through the
bullshit and talk with eachother straight. if you feel your friend is wasting his life, tell
him so, because you love him.
welcome such criticism from your friends
suggest challenges to your friends