I work as an Independent contractor, i am into maintenance of drilling equipment/installation of oil pipelines. Where originally are you from? And where do you live now? Well, let me start by telling you where i am from now, i was born in Munich Germany, but i spend all my life in Cleveland Ohio U.S.A. Have you ever been married, before with kid? I am a widower with one son i lost my wife at the age of 50. I was emotionally devastated and lost full focus, but I stood firm because I have to be strong my son Right now, he's the apple of my eyes and the Light of my life... I have so much delight in him I am a widower with one daughter i lost my wife at the age of 50. I was emotionally devastated and lost full focus, but I stood firm because I have to be strong my Daughter right now, she's the apple of my eyes and the Light of my life... I have so much delight in her. So tell me how long have you been here on facebook? Have you date online before and tell me about those you've met online? I am new here and to online dating, registered some days back, just decided to give it a try and I contacted you. I really do not have so many clues on how online dating is done. Do You like to re-marry again? I can also remarry again if only the woman love me and love my son so much that she care about the family been together as one big family with so much love With the Experience you have had so far do you really believe that you can find your soul mate through online dating? As for me I believe and also have the courage that I will find the woman whom I which to spend the rest of my life with. I do believe in soul mates. I have friends that have found theirs and live very happily with them, and I have decided a while ago that I would never "settle" for anyone less than my soul mate. Do you believe in distance relationship? I don't think that long distance between too committed people would be a problem, as long as I know that my partner would be faithful and when there is True love, Happiness & Trust in the relationship with smashing communication as well, And i believe communication is important in a relationship too. How do you normally spend your leisure time? Listening to music, Cuddling up reading a magazine or watching TV, Cooking.... I love walking in the Park How much do you enjoy walking in the park? I enjoy it a lot; feel the fresh air of the nature, viewing the beautiful green trees. Are you a God fearing woman? I am a God fearing man, I do have my Christian faith to credit for my life, attitude and success; however, I don't use the name of God to attract women for my character speaks for itself. I am not the type of man who is focused entirely on himself. w old are you? Do you seek for a particular age before coming into online? I do not seek for a particular age, because I feel age is numbers, you do not know where love can hit you up from. It can be someone younger than you or perhaps older than you. I i will be completing 53 years old by december How often do you like to go out; I mean going partying? I do not go out often that much ever since, I lost my late wife, because going out alone seems not enjoyable to me, so the few time that I go out must be with my son and I will be looking forward to go out with that specialwhich is you Someone someday Do you know what went wrong in your past relationship? Cheating and lies made my last relationship ended. I am a very comprehensive person. When there is something wrong with my relationship, I don’t fight, and be hysterical, I like to talk. A better conversation is always the best solution for everything, But of course with every experience you learn more how to deal, and always there is something new to you discover. What are your goals or dreams in life? My goals and dreams in life are to be with the woman of my life whom I will call my wife, who I will love and we will both live together and have a loving family forever Do you smoke cigarettes or drink What are your goals or dreams in life? My goals and dreams in life are to be with the woman of my life whom I will call my wife, who I will love and we will both live together and have a loving family forever alcohol, Well I drink socially, if I go out with some friends and they are drinking something light its okay So tell me what is your favorite food? I'm proud to be a vegan What’s your favorite drink? My favorite drinks Red Wines, but I prefer Champagne more likely. Do you have any favorite sport team you support in particular? I'm a keen golfer and I also play Tennis. Golf and Tennis are my favorite Sports to play, I'm a Big Fan of Tiger Woods and Michael Jordan.. I also watch NBA .. My Favorite Basketball team is Lakers Of Los Angeles, I also love the Miami Dolpins too. What inspires you in life? God Do you believe in true love? Yes How do you feel when someone upset you? And what will you do to calm yourself down? I do feel unhappy for that moment; go to quite place and lisening to a cool music that will calm me down. What turns you off? Anything fake, lies, deceit, cheating, quarreling and argunt turns me off. If you could change something about yourself, what would it be & why? I am who I am, accept me, reject me, but I'm still me What motivates you? I'm motivated by life itself, because life is what you made it. .................................................................................................................. What attracts you to a man? Truthfulness and respect. It really makes me get closer to a lady, Is the person inside, I do considers that more important because beauty fades with time but the person inside appreciates with time. I go for the inner beauty, it radiates and it speaks for itself over time and for women like you who are family oriented is an added advantage to me. What are your likes and dislikes? I like Faithfulness,honesty and Trustworthiness and I dislikes dramas, cheating, lies, unfaithfulness and racist. So what do you expect from me? Love, Trust And Understanding Can you drive? I have a car that I drive when I am back in town; I have a 2014 pathfinder Jeep and Porsche Hybrid car. Who is your mentor? as for me. My mentor is my late dad, he was a nice, caring and understanding dad, who loves and take good care of his family, he always speaks the truth and he is a self discipline man, my dad is ready to risk everything he has for his loved ones, but I do feel the pain because he never lived to enjoy me, he was really the best dad in the world. he always tells me that uneasy lies the head that wears the crown, so for you to be successful in life you have to face some challenges. ///////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////// So tell me; What are some of the places you have visited I have been out of the States several times on different occasion, maybe on a work trip, or vacation trip. My work has took me to places like; Italy, Spain, Malaysia, England. while on vacation trip I have been to; Ajax of Netherlands, Switzerland, Italy, Yugoslavia, Greece, Dublin of Ireland, Bermuda, Paris of France, Rio De Janeiro of Brazil, and Dubai, and I would love my next vacation trip to be with that special someone and thats you. What is your biggest fear? Losing my loved ones. What has been the best decision you've ever made? Taking the roll of a father and mother to Hannah. Describe the perfect vacation you have had! Flying to Paris, then taking a train through France, Switzerland, Italy, Yugoslavia, and Greece. Then spending 1 month on a Greek Island together with my daughter. I had the time of my life, and these are my fondest memories. I will do it again. What are the five most important things in your life God, Family, health, Living to help others without asking for anything in return. Finally living long enough to tell you that I think you are great. Remember this. I live to help and if you ever need my help, it's there for the asking Good luck and much wisdom. What do you spend most of your money on Investing on business, going shopping and spending vacation abroad with my little angle Hanna. What would you cook for a date at home? Smiles!!! That is going to be a secrete because I will be making her favorite meal...Even if I do not know how to, before then I must get instructions from good quality chefs and also read cooking books, to meet up to perfection the day I will cook the meal. What are your favorite movies The Avengers, patriot, Romeo and Juliet, Pearl Harbor, Fly Boys, Titanic, Superman so many of them but this few I have just listed are my top list. What are your favorite TV Shows Merlin, Smallville, One Trill Hill, Everybody Hates Chris, Ellen De Generes, Oprah, TSCC, Heroes, Jerry Springer, Keeping up with the Kardashians E! Online What brand of music do you like I love blues, 80s, 90s, Rnb, Jazz, Hip Hop, Gospel Jams, RocknRoll. Do you have a favorite musician in particular hmmm, Phil Collins is a nice who inspires me in terms of music for that he is my number one musician What about your favorite music band Mine is ABBA Tell me one special place you would like to take me to when I come to you We would go to Tahiti for a 2 weeks vacation, just the two of us....Tahiti is the largest island in the Windward group of French Polynesia, located in the archipelago of the Society Islands in the southern Pacific Ocean. Do you think you can be trusted by your man? Yes I can be trusted, because I am ready to open up my mind and my heart and also lay down my life for the woman I love. What positive lessons have you learned from your past relationships that will help you succeed in future relationships Love, Trust And Understanding. Marriage they say "Is For Better, For Worse" do you believe in this principle Yes I do believe in that, because that is where you have to show that you love your partner very much. On a serious note; have you ever thought of leaving your country in search of the man you want to be with in the future? Yes that is why I am here on online dating so that I can find a woman from another country I learn from her culture and also she learns from my culture. If you are at a loose end what are some of the following things you do I will have hope and never to give up. What do you think is the biggest mistake that men/women make in their relationships Not trusting, understanding and trying to find time and share things with each others. If you could wake up tomorrow with any superpower, what would it be? Hmm, that would be the power of Clark Kent also known as superman, I wanna be the one to save the day. Describe some of the most important things in your life My daughter happiness and me having a complete family is the most important thing I pray for in my life. If you are found guilty of a crime, would you admit yourself and accept your mistakes? I will admit my self, accept my mistakes, and face the consequences, because I do abide to the truth. If you see somebody who needs help, would you be of any support? Yes I would help in anyway, because it's good to help those that are in need, and God loves a cheerful giver. ................................................................................................................... In a relationship how do you see a situation whereby the woman earns more money than the man A good relationship where two lovers understand each other, they're concerned for each other and they respect one another, I don’t think that there will be problem about that, to me is no problem as far as they both love their selves. So baby tell me ! What the plan for the first night we met A room full of Rose flowers... Hot Oil and candles... I will welcome my Queen to our new World of undying Love and forever happiness, I will lay you on our bed like a Queen and take off your clothes one by one, and you do the same to me too. And we start from the Bathroom, we bath each other and make sweet love from the Bathroom to our room and then continue from where we stop all night long Are you financially stable Yes of course I am financially stable, I do receive a Valuable income and I can take good care of my family, make and keep them happy What is Your best Moment in Life My best moment was the day I went to the hospital when my wife was giving birth and I heard the voice of my daughter crying and then I knew I'm a father with so much joy in my heart. Your worse moment in life Jan 16th. 2010 When I donated my Kidney to my Wife... But she couldn't make it through alive Do you like holding hands and exchanging casual kisses with your partner Yes..Holding her close and make her feel the warmth of my body while kissing her. Have you talked about your feelings with someone else? Yes and you are the only person whom I am sharing my feelings with. ///////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////// THINGS ABOUT LOVE ........................... Love is patient, True love is unconditional, that is, it does not depend on the attributes or lack thereof of the person loved, therefore, it is willing to give as much time necessary, and as much space as necessary for that person to grow. love is kind and is not jealous; Love seeks to give others something of benefit for their welfare, and consequently, rejoices when they do benefit. love does not brag and is not arrogant, To lift one's self up in reference to others leaves no room for unconditional, graceful love. does not act unbecomingly; it does not seek its own, To act inappropriately, shamefully (morally, especially in the area of sexual purity) is not in accordance with true love. Love never seeks it's own gratificaiton but rather the interests of others. is not provoked, Selfishness seeks to manipulate others by stimulating certain selfish emotions. Love will not do this to others, nor will it let it happen to itself. does not take into account a wrong suffered, Forgiveness. Let it go. Bitterness is the acid. You are the container. Get rid of it or it will kill you. does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; Love does not somehow gloss over things that are going to be hurtful. True love originates from the truth. bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. If love really is unconditional, it will hold any weight, face any doubt, persist through hopelessness, and last any trial Love never fails... If it did, would it be love? You are a true example of Love. In Ephesians 3:17 it says: That Christ may dwell in your hearts by faith; that ye being rooted and grounded in love. Baby, may we always remember that it was through Christ that we found each other. May we live like that will honor him and show our love for him. I love you so much baby. I Love You With All My Heart, Your One and Only First email as maga pay There are treasures in life,but owners are few Of money and power to buy things brand new.Yet you can be wealthy and feel regal too,If you will just look for the treasures in you. These treasures in life are not hard to find,When you look in your heart,your soul, and your mind. For when you are willing to share what's within,Your fervent search for riches will end. The joy and the laughter,the smile that you bring;The heart unafraid to love and to sing,The hand always willing to help those in need;Ones quick to reach out,to labor and feed. So thank you for sharingthese great gifts inside,The caring, the cheering,the hug when one cried.Thanks for the energy,encouragement too,and thank you for sharing the treasures in you. Foever Lover