Ten Empowering People Skills Jim Kocher SNSD Edison, New Jersey Ten Empowering People Skills Introduction: 1. Importance 2. Elements a. b. c. Attractions skills - Personality issues Retention skills - Character issues Development skills - Leadership issues Ten Empowering People Skills I. Power Of The Golden Rule “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.” Ten Empowering People Skills II. Power Of The Platinum Rule “Do unto others as they’d like done unto them.” Source: The Platinum Rule by Tony Allesandra & Michael J. O’Conner Ten Empowering People Skills III. Power Of Purpose “Purity of purpose will cause direct conversation to be palatable.” Ten Empowering People Skills IV. Power Of Trust “A loss of trust will destroy the relationship.” Ten Empowering People Skills IV. Power Of Trust A. Foundation of trust B. Basis of trust - Authenticity not perfection C. Illustration of trust - “Credit Box” Ten Empowering People Skills V. Power Of Servant Hood One leads by serving others Ten Empowering People Skills VI. Power Of The 80/20 Rule 20% of people do 80% of work Ten Empowering People Skills VII. Power Of Acceptance To be accepted and liked you must like and accept others Ten Empowering People Skills VIII. Power Of Value Gap To lead, one must be perceived as worthy Ten Empowering People Skills IX. Power Of Listening X. Power Of Love “Love covers a multitude of sins.”