Asserthyc . . . . HOW TO ASK SOMEONE TO OUT A.K.A How to invite the person who you are attracted, to Have a good time with you - Choose and use your favorite phrase - Asserthyc . . e v e St t s i M . . HOW TO ASK SOMEONE TO OUT A.K.A How to invite the person who you are attracted, to Have a good time with you - Choose and use your favorite phrase - recognizing the user TO ADAPT THE CONTENT.. You can find the soccer ball between the pandas bellow? Solution next Solution Here we go and Basically what this material will make for you is just to show what are " in front of your face " and you dont use, only because dont notice. ( yet ) The thing is.. After you see, will be " unseeable " ( off topic : Down your eyes, now you will see your nose ) anw Warning To any one of those phrases work for you you must to have at least some previous conversations with the person who you wanna to ask to go out, Ok?! If you dont had any chat or never talk with the person yet.. ask your refund. because probably this phrases dont will work. So. stay warned. How to ask someone out ( To have a good time with you ) In a smart and simple way The Step by Step Before i show to you The Step by Step is really interesting you know my huge mistake who i commit when i had will to ask A girl who i liked, To out with me To you learn from this lesson Ok, so.. What happen. I started to talk with a pretty girl by text, and We was Building a cool relationship, nothing so big deal, but was great, a cute and adorable girl. Yeah, i was really " fall for her " but.. Between our conversations existed just a " nowhere vibe " like, was a conversation, but anyone who payed attention will notice im hiding, and im not even aware of that. I just had some kind of fear or " block " to call her to go out. to we spend some cool moment toghether. But i understood and Being straight to the point i had fear of rejection, of being rejected, if i ask her to go out with me And days passing and our chats continued the type of conversation that dont go anywhere. ( like me and her ) So, in our chats I just gave to her compliments, talk about normal things, actually. And no problem with that, this is actually amazing. when you do because you wanna to, not to hide what you want. And i had the idea " i will go indirect to make her ask me to out " Can work, but i did in the wrong way.. I begin to send to her pics of me in bars and places, and talking to her " here' s cool " waiting to her say "i see, lets go " but this not was what happen.. So.. After many " indirects " in a moment when probably she was very frustated with me.. she said " you know?! Lack assertiveness in you " and she stop to talk with me, yeah, just bye. And i was sad and confuse without had a clue What the f is that.. " assertiveness " but i discover.. take a look.. So, i start to want to learn How to have assertiveness to ask someone to out with me " is just talk about what i want? Ok " So i turn myself in a annoying person Who was just bother, without have any results. and i start to Think "what the problem now? im talking what i want " ok, but now without understand the other person side. and this dont helped me at all. just pass a bad image to others. Now was me the frustated.. But, in the end.. After look more and understand some things.. i found the " right spot " to ask someone to out.. And make the chances to the person say a yes and mixed with a excitement to out with me. And i will reveal to you What is the " right spot " to you use too with someone who you like. You will Discover in some moments The " right spot " step by step is valuable and doable In text or in person The right spot is being Asserthyc Translating Assertiviness + Empathy A.k.a = Say what you wanna to say but understand the other people side. ok. What the step by step Being asserthyc to ask someone out? Before i show the Step by step Will be very interesting i show to you how to use this concept And i will Use my previous mistake With the pretty girl like.. you will notice the difference Remember My mistake was send the photos, wanting her to say " i want to know this place, lets go " ( can be happen, but why wait if you can do your move ? ) how to ask to out just sending a photo of the place, but being Asserthyc? I could send the pic and say " look, this place is cool, what do you think about we have a good time here? Will be fun. " 2 - " look, i like this place, maybe you will Like too, lets go?! " 3 - " look, i found this place, and yeah, sounds unexpected but.. im calling you to out with me to we enjoy here toghether What do you think about it? " Do you see the difference? instead just send the Photos, and ( what else?! ) i could had to ask the girl to out to the place to we have a good time toghether.. This dont look needy, desperate or anything like that just means you wanna to have a good time And choosed that person to do that with you Now the step by step 3 phrases to you use for ask to out If you dont have any pictures in the place 1 - " ( name of the person ) im thinking in go to ( name of the place ) Is a cool place and maybe this looks unexpected but, lets go with me on ( day of week ) at ( hour ) ? because i suspect you will like to know ( dont ask me why ) we will discover there What do you think? Will be nice Example in real life " ( Kris ) im thinking in go to ( nights coffe ) Is a cool place, and maybe this looks unexpected, but lets go with me on ( saturday ) at ( 7pm ) ? because i suspect you will like to know ( dont ask me why ) we will discover there What do you think? Will be nice 2 - " ( name of the person ) i found this cool place and i remember your vibes Is called ( name of the place ) Maybe this is unexpected, but what do you think, lets go On ( day of week ) at ( hour ) ? " Example in real life ( Kris ) i found a cool place and i remember your vibes Is called ( the beach bar ) Maybe this is unexpected, but what do you think, lets go On ( friday ) at ( 6pm ) ? 3 - ( name of the person ) maybe this is random and it is. but i want to ask you to go on this place called ( name of the place ) with me on ( day of week ) at ( hour ) because i think we will have a good time Toghether, but anywhay, what do you think? Example in real life 3 - ( Kris ) maybe this is random and it is, but i want to ask you to go on this place called ( pizza time ) with me on ( monday ) at ( 5pm ) because i think we will have a good time Toghether, but anywhay, what do you think? That are 3 powerful phrases. Just choose one Because the 3 phrases are amazing.. Not just " amazing " Just take a look you are asking for the opinion of the person " what do you think about ? " ( showing that the other person matter ) showing proactivity ( a attractive behavior ) by setting the hour and day and choosing the place. ( on future the other person can choose the next place ) The principle is - just call the person to hang out and check the place toghether, have a cool time saying the day and hour And if the person wants to go, and have availability, on the day and hour she will. Lets suppose the person on that day are busy " im busy on that day " You can say " nice, what the best day to we know the place? Maybe matched with my time " ( showing who you value their and yours time ) Now, who you know the how to, lets go. instead waiting for the other person take action. DO YOU ! EY.. sometimes the other person who you wanna to out, that person dont take action, not because the person dont want to go out with you.. But you already thought about,thatt person.. dont know how to ask you to hang out? this is applied to man and woman. WHAT TO DO AFTER ASK / Send the message? NO PRESSION After send the message I normal feel some anxiety, regret or fear of rejection, i feel too. The best remedy is Follow your day, Do your things, take a breath feeling the air in your nose ( for anxious ) And if is meant to be, will. " i think this is unexpected but cool, lets go " regardless anything you did your part. With class and cleverness. Dont forget.. you already asks :) Lets put on this way.. your new.. " ask to out " skill are unlocked. now you have a new skill and for sure, you will get results. ;-) Enjoy that amazing time toghether have fun will be a amazing experience So.. something terrible happens.. ( ok, not terrible, but sad ) End of our meeting. ;-; hey, dont be sad, was exciting have you too. Congratulations and thanks you very much. Again Congratulations. You is beautiful like a bazzi music, GO ASK Ü "Amazing, but where i start? " Probably you will have to read that again, take your time to process.. Slowly you will get. In a KAIZEN way. Start from the begin. oh a gift for you : Test when you wake up, think or talk ( for 40 days ) " God, do your will in my life, help me trough all my day from the start to finish " do before you pick your phone ( or whatever will be the future habit to " start the day " ) This is gold. ฿฿฿฿฿฿฿ Test the bellow too When you can help someome, do. ( includ street animals ) Secretto : the majority are busy confusing kindness with weakness. :) And dont forget : - balance is fundament. , d r e h p e h s y " . m o e t s i y m r o D l o g t R d k O n c L a a r l e o h n g o D n i "T h R h e O t L h t no All the God is good and trustfull This is my personal email to you ( no, is not my team email, is the mine.. ) Emailstevemist@gmail.com - If you have some questions about any topic on this material, just click on my email and send a email to me. i will do my best, to clear your doubts, even if sounds a simple question. Untill next time and tchaooo... AGAIN - Abundance, not pression, just do your part. if is meant to be, will. Bye. Im waiting for your email on emailstevemist@gmail.com telling about your experience with this material and the differences in your life Even busy, i will personally read.
