Quarter 4- Module 1 Interpersonal Communication: Employ variety of Strategies for Effective Interpersonal Communication for Interview Learning Targets This is self-instructional learner module in English 7. All activities provided in the lesson will help you learn and understand: Interpersonal Communication: employ a variety of strategies for effective interpersonal communication for interview. After going through this self-learning module, you are expected to: 1. Distinguish the different types of interpersonal communication; 2. Apply a variety of strategies for effective interpersonal communication for interview TASK 4.1: WHAT I KNOW Directions: Choose the letter of the best answer. 1. It is the process by which people exchange information, feelings, and meaning through verbal and non-verbal messages. A. Interpersonal Communication B. Oral Communication C. Spoken Language D. Written Language 2. It involves speaking, from the words you choose to your tone of voice when you say them. A. Interpersonal Communication B. Oral Communication C. Written Communication D. Non-Verbal 3. It includes words and symbols (e.g., emoji’s and punctuations) that are typed or marked with a pen, pencil or other writing instrument. A. Interpersonal Communication B. Written Communication C. Non-Verbal Communication D. Listening 4. It includes any communication that does not use words: hand gestures, eye contact, facial expressions, body posture, clothing and 1 even the objects on your desk are conveying a message to your audience. A. Oral Communication B. Written Communication C. Non-Verbal Communication D. Listening 5. It is the most fundamental component of interpersonal communication skills. A. Oral Communication B. Written Communication C. Non-Verbal Communication D. Listening TASK 4.2: WHAT’S NEW? Ms. Baltazar: Hello, Good afterternoon! Ms. Alcantara: Hi, Who’s this? Ms. Baltazar: Hello This Ms. Baltazar from S2Love Company, May I speak to Ms. Sola Alcantara please. Ms: Alcantara: Hi This is Sola Alcantara Ms. Baltazar: I am just wondering If you have few minutes of your time to talk about the position you are applying for. Mr. Alcantara: Sure. Ms. Baltazar: How did you prepare yourself for this interview? Ms. Alcantara: I had a short prayer before answering this call. Ms. Baltazar: I see. I think you are ready. Can you tell me something about your last job? Questions: 1. Who are the people in the conversation? 2. What do you think was the conversation about? 3. What did Ms. Alcantara feel about the conversation? 2 Interpersonal Communication The conversation is an example of an initial phone interview. The interviewer was Ms. Baltazar and the applicant was Ms. Alcantara. The applicant was prepared ahead about how to deliver answers to difficult questions. In addition, the applicant didn’t forget to have a short prayer before answering the initial phone interview even she felt a bit nervous. Today, we are going to discuss a variety of strategies for effective interpersonal communication for interview. Discussion Modelling Interpersonal Communication is the process of exchanging information, ideas and feelings between two or more people through verbal or non-verbal methods . Image1www.google.com/search Oral Communication Oral Communication is anything involving speaking, from the words you choose to your tone of voice when you say them. Oral communication is vital to your work and can even make you more likeable. Examples of oral communication • • • • • • Public speaking Phone calls Audio messages Podcasts Radio interviews Meetings 3 Image2 http://www.regenmedia.co.uk/how- toimprove-your-podcast-interviewtechnique/ Strategies for Oral Communication A. Pay Attention to IntonationIntonation, also known as pitch, means the rising and falling of your voice. Read the examples. Example 1 I have been working as school assistant for three years. Example 2 What will be my working schedule? As you notice in these statements. Example 1 the voice falls at the end of a statement to indicate that you’re done talking. While example 2 it rises at the end of a statement because it is a question. Image3http://linguisticlesson.blogspot.co m/ B. Omit or reduce verbal fillers. -Verbal fillers are vocalizations such as “um,” “uh,” “you know” and “like.” They’re useful in that they help others know that you’ve got more to say and are just trying to find the words. When verbal fillers are used too much, though, they can be annoying for the listener. Example: uhhhh…I feel so glad when uhmmm…a student writes a thank you letter using the English language before going back to his/her country. C. Change your speaking rate depending on the situation. Speech rate is how fast or slow you speak can have an effect on the person you talk with. Speaking fast is persuasive. They believe on what you say. Speaking slowly, on the other hand, could be seen as more kind. Image 4 https://chatterfox.com/reduction-ofdid-you- how-to-speak-fast-english/ 4 Example: I have been working as an English as a Second Language Teacher since 2010. I feel so glad when a student writes a thank you letter using the English language before going back to his/her country. Try to read the given example with different speech rate. Written Communication Written communication includes words and symbols (e.g., emojis and punctuations) that are typed or marked with a pen, pencil or other writing instrument. Examples of written communication • • • • • • • • Email Text messages Reports Proposals Job descriptions Performance evaluations Grammar PowerPoints Strategies for Written Communication A. Enhance written messages with emojis and GIFs. Emojis can be helpful when you try to send the tone of your written message. It is informal but a nice way of communicating. This is especially true during casual conversations, such as those between you and a work friend chatting on Slack. Emojis and GIFs can add humor and emotion. B. Know written communication’s limitations. Editing emails to get our words just right can also make our communications clearer and more concise. Nonverbal Communication Change your speaking rate depending on the situation. Speech rate is how fast or slow you speak can have an effect on the person you talk with. Speaking fast is persuasive. They believe on what you say. Speaking slowly, on the other hand, could be seen as more kind. 5 Nonverbal communication includes any communication that does not use words: hand gestures and eye contact. Image5 https://cubicleninjas.com/7-facts-about-nonverbal- communication Examples of Nonverbal communication • • • • • Video Clothing Voice pitch Facial expressions Body postures Image6 https://www.horizonsdrc.com/blog/nonverba l- communication Strategies for Nonverbal Communication A. Use that firm handshake. An initial handshake can enhance the positive effects and reduce the negative effects of a social interaction. Image7https://www.insidehighered.com/advice B. Avoid slouching. It is not only slouching bad for your back, but it could also make you feel less confident. Avoiding slouching could be a simple way to communicate to yourself. Image8 https://coachingforinspiration.com/body-language-mistakes/ C. Expressing our emotions through facial expressions. It is a difficult way of communication with others. We can say one thing with our words, but express something different through our facial expressions. You agree about something verbally but your face shows that you don’t like it. https://www.fingerprintforsuccess.com/blog/4-typesinterpersonal-communication of- 3. Listening 6 Listening is the most fundamental component of interpersonal communication skills. Listening is not something that happens (that is hearing), listening is an active process in which a conscious decision is made to listen to and understand the messages of the speaker. Strategies for Listening A. Use Active Listening. Successful applicants use active listening strategies and ask for clarification of a question they don’t understand. Active listening is to clarify the interviewer’s intention if you are not sure. Example: “Does it mean I can start working tomorrow?” Image9 https://insights.dice.com/2019/10/31/tell-meabout-yourself-intervie Practice empathy. It makes you a better listener because, instead of listening to correct or confront them, you’re listening to understand them. Example: I know you feel disappointed about it, but I will do my best to work so hard. I promise you won’t ever regret it. Image 10https://macementer.com/ Feel free to make the video chat a phone call instead. Listening becomes particularly difficult when buffering video. If a poor connection is making it difficult to listen during your video call, ask them if you can switch to a phone call instead during the interview. Example: “I am sorry I have unstable connection at the moment, would you mind I f I call your recruitment number?” Guided Practice 1 A. Directions: Read the following situations. Choose the letter that best describes the types of Interpersonal Communication in each situation. Situation 1 After the applicant has a short prayer by himself. He does firm handshake with the interviewer - not sticky or weak. He also avoids sweaty palms, so he visits the restroom, wash his hands, then run them under cool water prior to the 7 interview. What type of Interpersonal Communication is presented in situation 1? A. B. C. D. Oral Communication Written Communication Non-Verbal Communication Listening Explanation: The answer is Letter C. Based on what we discussed handshake is an example of Non-Verbal Communication Situation 2 The applicant asked two questions for clarifications to the interviewer but before she asked she had a short prayer silently. She asked on how the performance will have a monetary incentive. Second, was the definition of white collar jobs because the applicant was not familiar with it. What type of Interpersonal Communication is presented in situation 2? A. Oral Communication B. Listening C. Non-Verbal Communication D. Written Communication Explanation: The answer is Letter B. The applicant used Active listening to clarify the interviewer’s questions. Situation 3 The applicant was able to answer very well about the interviewer question which was “Why are you the best person for this job?” The applicant displayed confidence telling his success about his job experiences that made him likeable by the interviewer. What type of Interpersonal Communication is presented in situation 3? A. Oral Communication B. Written Communication C. Non-Verbal Communication D. Listening Explanation: The answer is letter A. Oral Communication. The applicant had a very good oral communication that made him likeable to be hired. TASK 4.3: WHAT’S MORE A. Directions: True or False: Write T If the sentence is True and write F If the sentence is False 1. Both hands on hips are example of non-verbal communication. 8 2. Sending a text message is another way of communicating with others through writing. 3.Oral communication is not a vital type of Interpersonal Communication in applying for a job. 4. Using too much filler is enjoyable to the listeners. 5. It is better not to ask questions for something that needs clarifications. B. Directions: Encircle the letter of the correct Typesof Interpersonal Communication in the given sentences. 1. Slouching is bad for your back, but it could also make you feel less confident. A. Oral Communication C. Non Verbal Communication B. Written Communication D. Listening 2. Feel free to make the video chat but you can do a phone call If the signal is unstable. A. Oral Communication C. Non Verbal Communication B. Written Communication D. Listening 3. The voice tone and voice pitch are as important as words when we talk to someone. A. Oral Communication C. Non Verbal Communication B. Written Communication D. Listening 4. Editing e-mails to get our words just right can also make our communications clearer and more concise A. Oral Communication C. Non Verbal Communication B. Written Communication D. Listening 5. Speaking fast is persuasive. On the other hand, speaking slowly sound like being kind. A. Oral Communication C. Non Verbal Communication B. Written Communication D. Listening There are four types of Interpersonal Communication; Oral Communication, Verbal Communication, Nonverbal Communication and Listening. Engaging in a variety of strategies for effective interpersonal communication can gain us jobs. We may not understand God's big plan, but we should trust that He has one for us. Everything in our lives happens that way for His reason. We have to put our faith in God. TASK 4.4: ASSESSMENT Directions: Choose the letter of the correct answer. 1. Handshakes, eye contacts and facial expressions are examples of______. 9 A. Oral Communication B. Written Communication C. Non- Verbal Communication D. Listening 2. It is one of verbal communication strategies that focus on the rising and falling of voice. A. Voice Pitch C. Speech Rate B. Voice Quality D Speech Volume 3. Which of the following statements make you a better listener? A. You understand them. C. You also share my story. B. You sympathize with them. D. You share my misgivings. 4. Which of the following non-verbal communication strategies enhance the positive effects and reduce the negative effects of a social interaction? A. Use the firm handshake. C. Expressing our emotions through facial expressions B. Avoid slouching. D. Body Language 5. It can be helpful when trying to convey the tone of your written message especially during casual conversation. A. sending chat messages C. writing email messages B. sending emojis through chat D. reading emails with expressions References Department of Education Image1 www.google.com/search Image2 http://www.regenmedia.co.uk/how-to-improve-your-podcast-interviewtechnique/ Image3http://linguisticlesson.blogspot.com/ Image 4 https://chatterfox.com/reduction-of-did-you-how-to-speak-fast-english/ Image5 https://cubicleninjas.com/7-facts-about-non-verbal-communication Image6 https://www.horizonsdrc.com/blog/nonverbal-communication Image7https://www.insidehighered.com/advice Image8 https://coachingforinspiration.com/body-language-mistakes/ Image 9 https://insights.dice.com/2019/10/31/tell-me-about-yourself-intervie Image 10https://macementer.com/ https://www.fingerprintforsuccess.com/blog/4-types-of-interpersonal-communication https://www.lwtech.edu/about/instruction/outcomes-assessment/docs/lwtechglobal- outcomes-communications-rubric.pdf https:/www.lwtech.edu/about/instruction/outcomes-assessment/docs/lwtechglobal- outcomes-communications-rubric.pdf 10