WEDDING CEREMONY
PROGRAM
(NAME OF COUPLE)
PROGRAME
I.
PHOTO SHOOT: Groom & Bride & Mizpah -
Witness - Abay
II .
CANDLES
III.
ENTOURAGE instrumental Rev . Nilo A.
Buiser , Groom , Witnesse, Secondary witness,
Flower Girls , Brides Maide , Bride
IV.
SONG : Rev. Alfredo D. Leneses - “ You are
so Beautiful to me “ minus one
V.
VI.
OPRAYER : Jhona Sarmiento
MESSAGE : Rev. Nilo Buiser
VII. SYMBOLS : Ring - Bible - Candles W/ Song
Forever more Camille Robellos , Vail - Cord - Gift
( W/ Song Mula noon Hanggan ngayon Azur Da
) -
Money Tree W / Song Azur Da , Camille Robelos
VII. PRAYER DECLARATION w/ Witnes & Congregation
VIII. PICTORIAL : Bride Groom w/ Mizpah - Parents
- Witneses , Abay , Freinds , Church ,
*EXIT
SECOND PART
I.
MODELING / DANCE :
II. Photo shoot
1. Grom Bridal w/ Rev. Nilo Buiser
2. Groom Bridal
& witnesses
3. Secondary sponsors
4. Parents
5. Relatives
6. Friends
7. Church
III. CAKES & WINEIntro
Today is a day to celebrate. We are
celebrating the love, commitment, and
friendship of two people who love each other
and wish to spend the rest of their lives
together.
The marriage ceremony is a significant part
of nearly every culture, religion, generation,
and society. Despite all of our differences,
we all share the love. Love is the great
unifier, regardless of who we are, where
we’ve come from or what we believe in.
We can all describe love in many ways and
love can look different from one person to
the other, but we all know love when we see
it. And we can see love right here.
1.
Prelude:
Music
1.
Processional
Entourage
III Minister’s Introduction (No music)
Pastor: Mga minamahal, tayo ay
nangagkakatipon ngayon upang
ipagdiwang ang isang pagtatalaga ng
pag-ibig, isang tipan na pinaniniwalaan
nina CHRISTOPHER TEJADA at
JACQUELINE OCDAMIA na mula sa
patnubay ng Banal na Espirito.
IV Opening Prayer / Scripture Reading
Pastor: Sino ang nagbibigay pahintulot
kay JANICA BENITEZ upang maging
asawa ni DANILO SIBUG
Prayer by Pastor
Emcee: Please remain standing for the
reading of the Holy Scriptures.
Scripture Reading: (name of scripture
reading)
Ecclesiastes 4:9-10
9Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their toil. 10 For if they fall , one will lift up his fellow. But woe to him who is alone when falls and has not another to lift him up.
11Again, if two lie together, they keep warm, but how can one keep warm alone? 12 And though a man might prevail against one who is alone, two will withstand him—a threefold cord is not quickly broken.
Genesis 2:18 ..it is not good for man to be alone..
Synergy (productive)
Sleep (sound) (warmth)
Strength (protection)
Benison & April, it seemed like yesterday when the two of you met each other. Now, you are going to
be joined together in this divine mystery called marriage.
I’d like to tell you that marriage is an action word. You have to act on it. You have to work on it for the
rest of your lives.
I’d like to share with you three acts of marriage based on the Word of God.
First, Marriage is Giving Sacrificial Love.
In Eph. 5:25, Paul said, “Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church.” He then
explained how Christ showed this love. Paul said that Christ “gave himself for” the church. He
sacrificed himself on the cross.
This love therefore is a self-sacrificial love. It is a self-sacrificial love that is rooted on the cross. Love
then is a self-giving love patterned after the cross.
Paul does not define love as a rush of romantic hormones. Instead, love here is the self-sacrifice of
yourself for your beloved. It is a decision to nail your selfishness to the cross, so to speak, while giving
your love to the one you love. It is a decision to give up your selfishness for the sake of the one you
love. This is the kind of love that you should love each other.
Notice that love here is not conditional or situational. You should love each other, not because he or she gives you pleasure, but because you want to give yourself up to
each other. I’ve been reading about a woman with Alzheimer’s disease. She does not recognize her husband. She can give no romance, no sex, no laughter, no tears, and no
companionship to her husband.
But that is the point of marriage. The point of marriage is not to love each other because each is useful to the other. The point of marriage is to love each other with
self-sacrificial love unconditionally.
The time may come when he no longer excites you, when her manners offend you, when she is not the person of your dreams. But then you will love each other, not
because she is useful to you, but because you want to sacrifice yourself for her.
Love is giving yourself up for each other. That is how Christ loved the church. And that is how you should love each other.
Second, Marriage is Keeping Covenant.
In Eph. 5:31, Paul quotes Gen. 2:24, “For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined
unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh.” Then he interprets it in v. 32, “This is a great mystery: but I speak
concerning Christ and the church.” In the marriage of Christ and the church, Christ is spiritually united with the
church as His bride and body.
But what kind of relationship is the union of Christ and the church? It is a covenant relationship. It is a covenant
relationship sealed with blood—His own blood. Christ said, “This cup that is poured out for you is the new
covenant in my blood” (Lk. 22:20).
That is what Paul is saying in Eph. 5:32. Marriage is based on that covenant relationship between Christ and the
church. It is a covenant sealed in blood.
This means that the marriage covenant is unbreakable, as John Piper points out. As Christ’s covenant with the
church is unbreakable, so is the marriage covenant also unbreakable.
Marriage, therefore, is keeping covenant, to use Piper’s words. Marriage is not just about keeping the fire of love
burning. It is about keeping covenant.
Therefore, when the day comes when you will fight each other, and it will come, remember that your marriage is
keeping covenant. Benison, when you look at another woman, remember that marriage is keeping covenant. April
when you look at another man, remember that marriage is keeping covenant. When the day comes when he is not
as exciting as he used to be, or she is not as sexy as she used to be, remember, marriage is about keeping covenant.
Never allow anyone or anything to break that covenant. Your purpose in marriage is to keep the covenant.
Third, and last, Marriage is Seeking Your Happiness in Your Partner’s Happiness.
Eph. 5:26-27, Paul said that Christ gave Himself for the church, so that He can sanctify her and present her spotless. In other words, Christ sought His satisfaction in the sanctification of His bride, the church.
He was most satisfied in the spotlessness of His beloved. Practically speaking, you should seek your joy in the joy of your beloved.
Benison you will find your happiness when April is happiest. So find your happiness by trying to make her happy! The problem with so many marriages today is that the husband seeks his own
happiness, but he does not seek it in the happiness of his wife. The wife seeks her own happiness, but not in the happiness of her husband. But love seeks its happiness in the happiness of the beloved.
Yet the key to seeking her happiness is the sacrifice of your selfishness. When you sacrifice your selfishness, you will seek her happiness. When you seek her happiness, you will be happy. You will be most
happy when your beloved is most happy.
I share your joy on your special day today. Wedding days are always joyful days. God has made it so.
Beloved, let us all rejoice, then, as we join this loving couple on their day of marriage.
This reading is from the book of Genesis 2:18-24
The Lord God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.” Now the Lord God had formed out of the ground all the wild animals and all
the birds in the sky. He brought them to the man to see what he would name them; and whatever the man called each living creature, that was its name.20 So the man gave
names to all the livestock, the birds in the sky and all the wild animals. But for Adam[a] no suitable helper was found. 21 So the Lord God caused the man to fall into a deep
sleep; and while he was sleeping, he took one of the man’s ribs[b] and then closed up the place with flesh. 22 Then the Lord God made a woman from the rib[c] he had taken
out of the man, and he brought her to the man.
23 The man said, “This is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called ‘woman,’
for she was taken out of man.” 24 That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh.
Father forgive them…
Emcee: Please be seated
Wedding Address: Pastor (preaching
5-10min)
1.
VI Exchange of Vows
Pastor: DANY at JANICA kung
paanong pinagbuklod ng pag-ibig ang
inyong mga puso, maaaring pagdaupin
ninyo ang inyong mga kamay.
? These are the hands of your best friend.
They are strong and vibrant with love these hands, which are resting in yours
on this wedding day, are the hands of the
one whom is promising to love you for all
the remaining days of your life. These
are the hands, which will work along
side you and will build your future, as
you laugh and cry as you share your
innermost secrets and dreams. These are
the hands, which will passionately love
and cherish you throughout the years the same hands will wipe away tears of
sorrow and tears of joy from your eyes.
These are the hands which will comfort
you in times of illness and which will
hold you when grief intrudes your home.
These are the hands, which will tenderly
lift your chin and brush your cheek as
they raise your face to look into his eyes eyes that will be filled with passion for
you.
I dos
Officiant: Jeff/ "Will you have Abby/Jeff this (woman/man) to
be your (wife/husband), to live together in holy marriage? Will
you love (her/him), comfort (her/him), honor, and keep (her/him)
in sickness and in health, and forsaking all others, be faithful to
(her/him) as long as you both shall live?"
Having affirmed your love for each other, please say this vow..
Vows
I, ROBERT ENDOZ/Jania Mendoza______ , take you, to be my
(wife/husband), and these things I promise you: I will be faithful
to you and honest with you; I will respect, trust, help, and care for
you; I will share my life with you; I will forgive you as we have
been forgiven; and I will try with you better to understand
ourselves, the world, and God; through the best and worst of what
is to come, and as long as we live.
(Name of Groom), DANILO SIBUG
taimtim ka bang nangangako sa harap
ng Dios at nitong mga saksi, na iibigin
mo si JANICA BENITEZ (Name of
Bride), igagalang siya, aaliwin at
pakamamahalin habang ikaw ay
nabubuhay?
Groom: Opo Pastor
Pastor : JANICA BENITEZ (Name of
bride), taimtim ka bang nangangako ka
sa harap ng Dios at nitong mga saksi, na
iibigin mo si DANILO SIBUG (Name
of groom), igagalang siya, aaliwin at
pakamamahalin habang ikaw ay
nabubuhay?
Bride: Opo pastor
Pastor:
Groom: ________________.
Noong araw ng ating kasal, sumumpa ako na ikaw lang ang aking mamahalin, sa hirap at ginhawa, sa sakit at kalusugan. Ang mga nagdaang taon ang sumubok at naging saksi rin kung paanong nabigo at pinilit
kong tuparun ang mga pangakong iyon…sa huli, ang ating nananatiling pag-ibig ang nagdala sa atin sa oras na ito. Tumatayo ako ngayon para sa panibagong simula ang muling sikapin na tuparin ang pangakong
imaw lang ang mamahalin magpakailanman.
Tinatanggap kita upang maging
aking asawa., Upang
mahawakan ka mula sa araw na
ito at magpakailanman. Sa hirap
o ginhawa, sa sakit o kalusugan,
upang aliwin ka ng aking hindi
nagmamaliw na pag-ibig at
katapatan , hangang sa tayo ay
papaghiwalayin ng ng
kamatayan.
Bride: ________________.
Pinagpala ako na maging kabiyak mo, sa Dios ang lahat na pasalamat na sa loob ng maraming taon magkasama tayong humarap sa lahat ng tagumpay at minsa’y
kabiguan na kasama ang Maykapal. Muli ang aking pangako, kasama ng buo kung pagkatao…ikaw at ikaw lamqng ang mamahalin at iibigin sa buong buhay ko.
Tinatanggap kita upang maging
aking asawa., Upang mahawakan ka
mula sa araw na ito at
magpakailanman. Sa hirap o ginhawa,
sa sakit o kalusugan, upang aliwin ka
ng aking hindi nagmamaliw na
pag-ibig at katapatan , hangang sa
tayo ay papaghiwalayin ng
kamatayan.
VII Personal Vows
Pastor: You may now share your
personal vows with each other.
Groom: (say vow to bride)
Bride: (say vow to groom)
VIII Ring Ceremony
Pastor: May we have the rings
please. (ring bearer gives rings)
Pastor: The rings are symbols of the
covenant that groom and bride are
entering into and establishing this day.
In many Western cultures, the ring finger
is designated as the fourth finger on the
left hand. The tradition of wearing a
wedding ring on this digit originated from
the belief that this finger has a vein
running directly to the heart.
KASAMA NG SINGSING NA ITO
ANG AKING ( PINAGTIBAY NA)
PANGAKO NA HINDI KANA
MAG-IISA. WALA AKONG
MARANGYANG KALOOB NA
MAIBIBIGAY KUNDI ANG AKING
PUSO NA MAGING TAHANAN MO
NAWA AT ANG AKING MGA
KAMAY NA IYONG KANLUNGAN.
LUMAKAD NAWA TAYONG
MAGKASAMA SA LAHAT NG
PANAHON
MARAMDAMAN MONG IKAW AY
INIIBIG, PAGKAT IYON ANG
TOTOO.
NAGPAPAKASAL AKO SA YO, SA
NGALAN NG AMA, NG ANAK AT
ESPIRITO SANTO. AMEN
IX Coin Ceremony (Coin bearer gives
the coins to groom)
Groom: Bride, I give you these coins as
a pledge of my dedication to kour
welfare in the name of the Father and of
the Son and of the Holy Spirit.
Veil & Cord Ceremony
Song: Cherish the Treasure
VEIL
(Sponsors place veil on Groom’s right
shoulder and over Bride’s veil)
CORD
Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 (NKJV) 9 Two are better than
one, Because they have a good reward for their labor.
10 For if they fall, one will lift up his companion.
But woe to him who is alone when he falls, For he
has no one to help him up. 11 Again, if two lie down
together, they will keep warm; But how can one be
warm alone? 12 Though one may be overpowered
by another, two can withstand him. And a threefold
cord is not quickly broken.
(Sponsors place the cord over (Name of
Couple’s) shoulder)
The cord symbolizes that marriage is a
lifelong and unbreakable bond. By tying
these two people together, we are
affirming the Biblical teaching that God
intended marriage to last a lifetime.
(End Music)
XI Presentation of the Bible (Bible
bearer give the Bible to Ptr.)
Pastor:
Danilo Sibug at Janica Benitez matapos
ninyong ihayag ang mga pangako at
pag ibig sa isat isa, at ang pangako na
magmamahalan ng tapat, sa
kapangyarihang ibinigay sa akin ng
Dios bilang ministro ng kanyang Salita
at sa kapangyarihan ng batas ng
Republika ng Pilipinas, sa pamamagitan
ng Assembly of the Redeemed Church,
ipinahahayag ko ngayon na si DANILO
SIBUG at JANICA BENITEZ ay mag
asawa na..
Jeff and Abby..now that we have heard your pledges of affection, and you vows of
fidelity, by the authority conferred upon me by God as His minister through the
Assembly of the Redeemed Church, and by the laws of the Republic of the
Philippines, I pronounce you husband and wife. You are no longer two but one, in
the Name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit.
Brothers and siSTers, I now present to
you Mr. aND MRS. DANILO SIBUG
DANY AND JANI
Numbers 6:24-26
24 “‘“The Lord bless you
and keep you;
25 the Lord make his face shine on you
and be gracious to you;
26 the Lord turn his face toward you
and give you peace.”’
Pagpalain at ingatan nawa kayo
ng Panginoon
Paliwanagin nawa ng
Panginoon ang mukha niya sa
inyo at mahabag sa inyo
Ilingap nawa ng Dios ang
kanyang mukha sa inyo at
bigyan kayo ng kapayapaan
groom, you may now kiss your bride!
Start Music, until end of picture taking
XXI Picture Taking