What is most important to you in romantic/sexual relationships? Essential: What are the essential qualities you need in your relationships? - e.g., open communication Bonus: What are the bonuses - qualities you don’t need, but it’s good to have - e.g. career drive Tolerable: What can you tolerate in a relationship?: e.g. a partner who is busy Deal Breaker: What are the deal breakers that will make you walk away? Remember that there are no right or wrong answers, since we all have different boundaries. Compare your answers with your breakout room partner and see how many quadrants you have in common. For example, if both of you wrote “disrespectful to others” in the deal breakers quadrant, you have one quadrant in common.