lOMoARcPSD|15928116 Undestanding the Self Understanding the self- Introduction to self-awareness Blaw 2001, Psyc241 (Bernardo College) StuDocu is not sponsored or endorsed by any college or university Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 Understanding The Self Mr. Vidal Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 TABLE OF CONTENTS Introduction to Course…………………………………………………. 3 Part 1: The Self from Various Perspectives ……………………….. 4 Lesson 1- Philosophy …………………………………………………… 4 Lesson 2 - Sociology ……………………………………………………. 9 Lesson 3 - Anthropology ………………………………………………… 14 Lesson 4 - Psychology ………………………………………………….. 16 Lesson 5 - The Self in Western and Oriental/Eastern Thought ……. 22 Part 2: Unpacking the Self ……………………………………………. 2 Lesson 6 - The Physical Self …………………………………………… 24 Lesson 7 - The Sexual Self …………………………………………….. 28 MIDTERMASSESSMENT 37 Lesson 8 - The Material and Economic Self ………………………….. 39 Lesson 9 - The Spiritual Self……………………………………………. 42 Lesson 10 - The Political Self ………………………………………….. 49 Lesson 11 - The Digital Self ……………………………………………. 56 Part 3: Managing and Caring for the Self …………………………. 59 Lesson 12 - Learning to be a better student …………………………. 59 Lesson 13 - Setting goals for Success ……………………………….. 62 Lesson 14 - Taking charge of one's health …………………………... 66 FINALASSESSMENT References………………………………………………………………… o ▪ ▪ ▪ ▪ o Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) 70 73 lOMoARcPSD|15928116 INTRODUCTION The course deals with the nature of identity, as well as the factors and forces that affect the development and maintenance of personality identity. The directive to Know Oneself has inspired countless and varied ways to comply. Among the questions that everyone has had to grapple with at one time or other is “Who am I?” At no other period is this question asked more urgently than in adolescence – traditionally believed to be a time of vulnerability and great possibilities. Issues of self and identity are among the most critical for the young. This course is intended to facilitate the exploration of the issues and concerns regarding self and identity to arrive at a better understanding of one’s self. It strives to meet this goal by stressing the integration of the personal with the academic – contextualizing matters discussed in the classroom and in the everyday experience of students – making for better learning, generating a new appreciation for the learning process, and developing a more critical and reflective attitude while enabling them to manage and improve their selves to attain a better quality of life. The course is divided into three major parts: The first seeks to understand the construct of the self from various disciplinal perspectives: philosophy, sociology, anthropology, and psychology – as well as the more traditional division between the East and West – each seeking to provide answers to the difficult but essential question of “What is the self?” And raising, among others, the question: “Is there even such a construct as the self?” The second part explores some of the various aspects that make up the self, such as the biological, material and the more recent Digital Self. The third and the final part identifies three areas of concern for young students: learning, goal setting, and managing stress. It also provides for the more practical application of the concepts discussed in this course and enables them the hands-on experience of developing self- help plans for self-regulated learning, goal setting, and self-care. This course includes the mandatory topics on Family Planning and Population Education. Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 THE SELF FROM VARIOUS PHILOSOPHICAL PERSPECTIVES LEARNING OUTCOMES: At the end of this section, you are expected to: 1. Discuss the different representations and conceptualizations of the self from various disciplinal perspectives. 2. Examine the different influences, factors and forces that shape the self. 3. Compare and contrast how the self has been represented across the different disciplines and perspectives. 4. Demonstrate critical and reflective thought in analyzing the development of one's self and identity by developing a theory of the self. PHILOSOPHY Philosophy is a training guide for your mind, showing how you think in clear, analytic, and powerful ways. INTRODUCTION Studying philosophy in a serious and reflective way will change you as a person. Learning to think philosophically will inspire you to be more thoughtful, more open-minded, more attuned to the complexities and subtleties of life, more willing to think critically about yourself and all of life’s important issues, and less willing to accept superficial interpretations and simplistic answers. And will help you develop the understanding and insight you will need to make intelligent choices and fulfill your potential as an individual. This is the special power of philosophy: to provide the conceptual tools required to craft a life inspiring in its challenges and rich in its fulfillment. Philosophy is not intended to limit your options or dictate your choices. Your responsibility as a student is to explore, to reflect, to think critically- and then to create yourself in the image you have envisioned. PHILOSOPHY OF THE SELF LESSON PROPER Philosophy is often called the mother of all disciplines simply because all fields of study began as philosophical discourses. What is Philosophy? study of acquiring knowledge through rational thinking and inquiries that involves in answering questions regarding the nature and existence of man and the world we live in. What is Self? It is defined as “a unified being, essentially connected to consciousness, awareness and agency (or, at least, with the faculty of rational choice). Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 PHILOSOPHERS A. SOCRATES - First martyr of education, knowledge, and philosophy. His philosophy underlies in the importance of the notion "knowing oneself". A person's acceptance of ignorance is the beginning of acquisition of knowledge. But, possession of knowledge is a virtue; ignorance is a depravity (evil, corruption, wickedness). Knowing ourselves, lies in our own abilities, and wisdom. Understanding ourselves is through internal questioning or introspection (understanding our strengths and weaknesses, like vs. Dislike) His way of teaching called Socratic Method or Socratic conversation (role of both the teacher and the student is known to the world; asking and answering questions to stimulate critical thinking and to draw out ideas and underlying presumptions). However, he was charged with corruption of minors and died as a martyr that fought against ignorance and narrow-mindedness. But for him, men's goal in life is to obtain happiness. It motivates us to act towards or avoid things that could have negative effects in our lives. As such, by fully knowing oneself a person will be able to achieve happiness. B. PLATO – He is a student of Socrates that is the reason he followed the idea of Socrates in knowing thyself. He was called the Father of academy (a place where learning and sharing of knowledge happens; Later became one of the pillars and basis of what schools and education is now in the present). He also wrote several literatures that tackles politics, human nature and established the idea of virtue and intelligence. According to Plato, a person who is a follower of truth and wisdom will not be tempted by vices and will always be correct/moral/ethical. He believed in the division of a person's body and soul which forms the person as a whole aside from the material things and that could be observed and associated with a person. He believed that the soul is divided into 3 different parts that has different views, leading to different behaviors 1. Appetitive soul - the part of the person that is driven by desire and need to satisfy oneself. This satisfaction involves physical needs, pleasures and desires, objects, and situations 2. Spirited soul- courageous part of a person. One who wants to do something or to right the wrongs that they observe. This is very competitive and is very active. Competitiveness drives one to expect positive results and winning. 3. Rational soul- the drive of our lives. The part that thinks and plan for the future (the conscious mind). It decides what to do, when to do it and the possible results one could have depending on their actions. C. ST. AUGUSTINE - A saint and a philosopher of the church. He follows the idea that God encompasses us all, that everything will be better if we are with God. He believed that God and his teachings affects various aspects in life (that everything is better if we devote ourselves in mending our relationship with God). His idea of a man and how to understand who we are as a person is related to our understanding of who we are and how we question ourselves. He also relates our existence to God being modelled in his likeness though being alive means that we are still far from god and has yet to be truly with him. But he rejected the doubtfulness of the academy in which one cannot or should not accept ideas from others. St. Augustine emphasized that we may not be able to give our agreement to everything other people tell us, but we can still agree to those who we are from our own perception. His believes that teaching the church and establishing our sense of self with God identifies the essence of our existence and role in the world (the reason for this is because our bodies are limited). Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 D. RENE DESCARTES – a French philosopher known to be the father of modern philosophy because of his radical use of systematic and early scientific method to aid his ideas and assumptions. He believed in modern dualism or the existence of body and mind and its importance to on e's existence were presented with the evidences from experiments as well as philosophical reasoning. Descartes is known to be the proponent of the "methodical doubt" (continuous process of questioning) doubting, asking questions are part of one's existence. He defined the roles of the mind and body to the notion of one's existence and sense of self. He is known for the statement "cogito ergo sum" (I think therefore I am) and according to him, a person is comprised of mind (thinks and questions what the body has experienced) and body (perceives from the different senses). The body and its perceptions cannot fully be trusted or can easily be deceived (for example: there are times that we feel that a dream is real before actually waking up or having different perception of size based on an objects distance from the viewer). Descartes believes that we should focus on the mind in order to perceive as who we are or the essence of our existence because we cannot always trust our senses. He explained that the more we think and doubt what we perceived from our senses and the answer that came from such thin king or doubting leads to better understanding of ourselves. He also emphasizes that being in constant doubt regarding one's existence is proof that a person exists. E. JOHN LOCKE – An English philosopher and physician. He is the Father of Classical Liberation. His works paved the way to several revolutions to fight the absolute powers of monarchs and rulers of his time that led to the development of governance, politics, and economic system that we now know. He works on the self is most represented by the concept "tabula rasa" (blank slate). The experiences and perceptions of a person is important in the establishment of who that person can become. Locke does not disregard the experiences of the person in the identification and establishment of who we are as a person. He stated that a person is born with knowing nothing and that is susceptible to stimulation and accumulation of learning from the experiences, failures, references, and observations of the person F. DAVID HUME – A Scottish philosopher. He focused his work in the field of empiricism, skepticism, and naturalism. He explained that the Self is the accumulation of different impressions and does not exceed the physical realm. For him, there is no permanent self because impressions of things are based from our experiences where we can create our ideas and knowledge. Thus, it may improve or totally be replaced G. IMMANUEL KANT – A German philosopher that is known for his works on empiricism and rationalism. He established that the collection of impressions and different contents is what it only takes to define a person. He believes that the awareness of different emotions that we have, impressions and behavior is only a part of ourselves. He emphasizes that a person who fully understand the self has a certain level of consciousness or sense that uses our intuition which synthesizes all the experiences, impressions and perceptions of ourselves will pave the way to define and know who we are really are. But he argued that the sense called "transcendental apperception" is an essence of our consciousness that provides basis for understanding and establishing the notion of self by synthesizing one's accumulation of experiences, intuition, and imagination H. SIGMUND FREUD – An Austrian psychologist and physician. The Father of psychoanalysis. Freud is well known for his work on human nature and the unconscious. He believed that man Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 has different constructs of personality. He conceptualized about the different levels of consciousness that provides an idea how a person develops a sense of self: Man has 3 aspects of personality 1. Id- the child aspect of a person; attention is on satisfaction of one's needs and selfgratification. Driven by pleasure principle. 2. Super ego- the conscience of one's personality. Has the inclination to uphold justice and do what is morally right and socially acceptable actions. Involved in the notion of right or wrong that is imparted to us by our parents or people that took care for us during childhood 3. Ego - police or the mediator between id and super ego. Operates within the boundaries of reality, primary function is to maintain the impulses of the id to an acceptable degree. Introduced the Levels of Consciousness: 1. Conscious- where minority of our memories are being stored and the memories that are in the conscious is easier to be to be tapped or accessed 2. Pre-conscious - the middle part of the entirety of our consciousness; the memories stored in this area can still be accessed but with a little difficulty 3. Unconscious- this area is where majority of our memories since childhood are deeply stored. It is very difficult to tap the memories. It would need a trained professional and several special techniques in order to make some memories resurface He believed that we are a by-product of our experiences in the past and that are actions are driven by the idea of resisting or avoiding pain, and are molded from our need for pleasure or being happy I. GILBERT RYLE – He used behavioristic approach to self. According to him, self is the behavior presented by the person. The behavior that we show, emotions, and actions are the reflection of our mind and as such is the manifestation of who we are. He does not believe that the mind and body are two separate entities which is said to be evident in the unexplainable phenomenon or abilities of the mind where the soul is considered; however, to some they can co-exist. He explained that the self is exemplified in his "ghost in the machine" view (man is a complex machine with different functioning parts, and the intelligence, and other characteristic or behavior of man is represented by the ghost in the said machine. His idea is saying that the things that we do, how we behave and react and all other components like the way we talk, walk and look is generally who we are as a person J. PAUL CHURCHLAND - A Canadian philosopher whose focus is on the idea that people should improve our association and use of worth in identifying the self. The self is defined by the movement of our brain. A constant movement of the brain can be the basis of who the person is (emphasized by Churchland and his wife in the statement "the brain as the self"). He focuses on the philosophy of "eliminative materialism" and understanding the different neural pathways, how they work, and what implications are those movement to people is a measurable classification on one's behavior K. MAURICE JEAN JACQUES MERLEAU-PONTY – A French philosopher. He is known for his works on existentialism and phenomenology. He coined the idea of phenomenology of perception (unity of the function of the mind and the body) which is divided into three division. Merleau-Ponty regarded that the body and mind are not separate entities but rather those two components is Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 one and the same. His idea of perception follows the idea of Gestalt psychology (gives importance on the whole rather than the sum of its parts). The perception guides our action based from our experiences. The body perceives while our consciousness provides the meaning or interprets the various perception we have in the world and the self could be established by the perceptions we have in the world. One's actions, behavior and language used could be said to be the reflection of our united perception of the world. L. THOMAS AQUINAS - The most eminent 13th century scholar and stalwart of the medieval philosophy, appended something to this Christian view. He explained that Man is composed of two parts: Matter or hyle in Greek, refers to the “common stuff that makes up everything in the universe.” and Form or morphe in Greek refers to the “essence of a substance or thing”. In the case of human person, the body of the human person is something that he shares even with animals. The cells in man's body are akin to the cells of any other living, organic being in the world. However, what makes a human person a human person and not a dog, or a tiger is his soul, his essence. To Aquinas, the soul is what animates the body; it is what makes us humans. SUMMARY ACTIVITY The philosophical framework for understanding the self was first introduced by the ancient Greek philosophers Socrates, Plato, and Aristotle. In particular, Socrates: “Know thyself”. But what exactly does “know thyself” mean that is self and the qualities that define it. The different views of prominent philosophers regarding the nature of the self are discussed and while there are disagreements in how philosophers view of the self, most of them agree that self-knowledge is a prerequisite to a happy and meaningful life Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 SOCIOLOGY How do you see yourself in the social world? Do you need to just observe or are you oblige to interact with them just to get the definition of your self? These are just two questions that will be answered by different proponents in sociological perspective of self. Read more below and check how these ideas can be related to you. INTRODUCTION GEORGE HERBERT MEAD LESSON PROPER ✓ ✓ Sociologist from University of Chicago Symbolic Interactions Perspective THEORY OF SELF Two parts of Self: Self-awareness and Self-image Our bodies age biologically, but the self is something that emerges thorough social interaction Self is developed as we age, as we grow Self develops through interacting with others, through reflecting on that interaction, to thinking about how others are perceiving you, and that helps you generate an image of yourself Our self is mirrored in the reaction of the other Self-image was developed in recognizing how others are perceiving us, we are constantly trying to put ourselves in the shoes of another and think about how they are seeing this event or situation or this action transpiring – this is imitation When you have internalized the widespread cultural norms, mores, and expectations of behaviors – this is generalized others By taking the role of other, we can become self-aware THE “I” and “ME” of the SELF “I” – what is out there, acting, being spontaneous, doing things in the world ”me” – an object, the aggregate combined image of yourself that has been given to you from interacting with society HENRI de SAINT-SIMON (1760-1825) Historic founder of French Socialism Origin of many ideas elaborated into Comtism His idea of the reconstruction of society were conditioned by the French Revolution and by feudal and military system He insisted on the necessity of new and positive reorganization of society Industrial chiefs should control society In medieval church, spiritual direction of society should fall to the men of science Industrial state directed by modern science, in which universal association should suppress war Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 Men who are successfully able to organize society for productive labor are entitled to govern it The social aim was to produce things useful to life Call for “society of science” – influenced his disciple Auguste Comte HERBERT SPENCER (1820-1903) Synthetic Philosophy - Encompasses realms of physical, psychological, biological, sociological, and ethical Moral Philosophy Social Statistics o Human happiness can be achieved only when individuals can satisfy their needs and desires without infringing on the right of others to do the same o In obtaining full satisfaction, one must derive pleasure from seeing pleasure in others Principles of Ethics – basic law of ethics and morality o Extension of laws in the natural world, and much of his scientific justification for his moral position o Moral dictum: Once physical and biological realms are discovered, humans should obey them and cease trying to construct, through political legislation, social forms that violate these laws o Scientific position: The laws of social organization can no more be violated than can those of the physical universe, and to seek to do so will create, in the long run, more severe problems o Humans should be as free from external regulation as possible – “implicitly obey them!” Social Statistics o Moral laws and laws of laissez-faire capitalism converge and how they reflect biological laws of unfettered competition and struggle among species o In the union of many men into one community – the law of individuation o While decrying war as destructive, it allows more organized “races” to conquer the ”less organized and inferior races,” increasing thereby, the level and complexity of social organization DAVID EMILE DURKHEIM (1858-1917) French sociologist, cited as the principal architect of modern social sciences Established academic discipline with Marx and Weber How societies could maintain their integrity and coherence in modernity, an era in which a traditional social and religious tie are no longer assumed, and in which new social institutions have come into being Acceptance of sociology as a legitimate science Sociology of Knowledge How concepts and categories of logical thought could arise out of social life Certain aspects of logical thought common to all human did exist, but they were products of collective life and that they were not universal a priori since the content of categories differed from society to society Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 Collective representations The symbols and images that come to represent the ideas, beliefs, and values elaborated by a collectivity and are not reducible to individual constituents Created through intense social interaction and are products of collective activity Controlled by society (as a whole) yet simultaneously by virtue of that individual’s participation within the society A language product of collective action, language contains within it a history accumulated knowledge and experience that no individual would be capable of creating on their own Language – a social product that structures and shapes our experience of reality ALBERT BANDURA (1925) Social Learning Theory Theory that attempts to explain socialization and its effect on the development of the self It looks at the individual learning process, the formation of self, and influence of society in socializing individual Formation of one’s identity is a learned response to social stimuli An individual’s identity is not the product of the unconscious, but instead is the result of modeling oneself in response to the expectations of others Behaviors and attitudes develop in response to reinforcement and encouragement from people around us Self-Efficacy People’s belief about their capabilities to produce designated levels of performance that exercise influence over events that affect their lives This belief determines how people feel, think, motivate themselves, and behave People with high assurance in their capabilities approach difficult tasks as challenges to be mastered rather than as threats to be avoided They set themselves challenging goals and maintain strong commitment to them despite series of failures They attribute failure to insufficient effort or deficient knowledge and skills which are acquirable o Not on their personal deficiencies, on the obstacles they will encounter, and all kinds of adverse outcomes They approach threatening situations with assurance that they can exercise control over them Four Main Sources of Self-Efficacy 1. Mastery Experience Successes build a robust belief in one’s personal efficacy A resilient sense of efficacy requires experience in overcoming obstacles through perseverant effort 2. Vicarious Experience Provided by social models Seeing people similar to oneself succeed by sustained effort raises observers’ beliefs that they too, possess the capabilities to master comparable activities required to succeed People seek proficient models who possess the competencies to which they aspire Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 3. Social Persuasion People who are persuaded verbally that they possess the capabilities to master given activities are likely to mobilize greater effort and sustain it than if they harbor self-doubts and dwell on personal deficiencies when problem arises People who have persuaded that they lack capabilities tend to avoid challenging activities that cultivate potentials and give up in the face of difficulty 4. Psychological Responses People rely partly on their somatic and emotional states in judging their capabilities They interpret their stress reactions and tensions as signs of vulnerability to poor performance KARL MARX (1818 – 1881) Theory of Self-Estrangement or Self-Alienation “the alienation of man’s essence, man’s loss of objectivity and his loss of realness as self-discovery, manifestation of his nature, objectification and realization” When a person feels alienated from others and society as a whole A person may feel alienated by his work by not feeling like he has meaning to his work, therefore losing their sense of self at the workplace MAX WEBER (1864 – 1920) German sociologist and political economist Capitalism developed out of a Protestant ethic, a religious calling “iron cage” – as the religion became peripheral, capitalism decoupled from its roots and established itself as the dominant force in society Exercise Self-Help Imagination ✓ ✓ ✓ ✓ ✓ ✓ “Personality” makes little sense in its modern usage “an inner devotion to the subject and only to the subject” which raises one “to the height and dignity of the subject” You gain personality within a field only by stepping out of your own self Teach the subject, not your interpretation of the subject Make your students interested in the subject itself, rather than in the person teaching it LEWIS MORGAN The Leasguge of the Ho-de-no-sau-nee or Iroquois (1851) This presented the complexity of Iroquois society in a path-breaking ethnography that was a model for future anthropologists He wanted to provide evidence for monogenesis, the theory that all human beings descended from a common source The structure of the family and social institutions develops and change according to a specific sequence Theory of Social Evolution Kinship relations as a basic part of society Critical link between social progress and technological progress Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 Interplay between the evolution of technology, of family relations, of property relations, of the larger social structure, and systems of governance, and intellectual development. SUMMARY ✓ George Mead – Symbolic Interactions Perspective; two parts of Self: Self-awareness and Self-image ✓ Henri de Saint-Simon – French Socialism; synthetic and moral philosophies ✓ David Emile Durkheim – Sociology of Knowledge ✓ Albert Bandura – Social Learning Theory ✓ Karl Marx – Theory of Self-Estrangement or Self-Alienation ✓ Max Weber – Self-help Imagination ✓ Lewis Morgan – Theory of Social Evolution Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 A N T INTRO H R O P O L O GY Anthropology is a relative newcomer to the debate on selfhood. It emerged as a subject from the imperial ambitions of European states during the eighteenth and nineteenth centuries and was initially an effort to identify the weaknesses and failings of other cultures so that they could be exploited and subjugated. It was only in the late-nineteenth and early-twentieth centuries that anthropology threw off its intimate links with the national and religious organisations it had been serving, and began to ask the big question that has informed its research ever since:‘ What does it mean to be human? INTRODUCTION Anthropology does express a unique view on the issue of selfhood: the anthropological approach both starts and finishes with the group. The self needs to be seen as a socially defined phenomenon, created by both the impression of the group upon the individual and the expression of the individual upon the group. Humans have a unique relationship with other members of their species, both communicatively and socially. Our capacity for group living and group institutions exceeds that of every other animal on the planet. Anthropology therefore has an important voice in the discussion of selfhood. LESSON PROPER MARCEL MAUSS - Remaining the same person and turning chameleon by adapting to one’s context seems paradoxical. However, French anthropologist Marcel Mauss has an explanation for this phenomenon. According to Mauss, every self has two faces: personne and moi. Moi refers to a person’s sense of who he is, his body, and his basic identity, his biological givenness. Moi is a person’s basic identity. Personne, on the other hand, is composed of the social concepts of what it means to be who he is. Personne has much to do with what it means to live in a particular institution, a particular family, a particular religion, a particular nati onality, and how to behave given expectations and influences from others. He studied non-Western societies all over the world and proposed the “Total Social Phenomenon”, which tackles that every sector in a community or society should cooperate to have a well-balanced living. LANGUAGE Has something to do with culture. It is a salient part of culture and ultimately, has a tremendous effect in our crafting of the self. This might also be one of the reasons why cultural divide spells out differences in how one regards oneself. If a self is born into a particular society or culture, the self will have to adjust according to its exposure. Language and culture are intertwined. A particular language usually points out to a specific group of people. when you interact with another language, it means that you are also interacting with the culture that speaks the language. you cannot understand one’s culture without accessing its language directly. When you learn a new language, it not only involves learning its alphabet, Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 the word arrangement and the rules of grammar, but also learning about the specific society’s customs and behavior. when learning or teaching a language, it is important that the culture where the language belongs be referenced, because language is very much ingrained in the culture. CLIFFORD GEERTZ An American cultural anthropologist who defined culture as “a system of inherited conceptions expressed in symbolic forms by means of which men communicate, perpetuate, and develop their knowledge about and attitudes towards life. Basic premises of his work, "The Impact of the Concept of Culture on the Concept of Man," The Interpretation of Cultures. (1966), include the following: Look for what makes people/cultures different, not the same; it is more effective to analyze human nature by noting the differences between cultures that arise over time and space than to try to form vague notions of universals Culture reveals the link between what man is capable of and how he actually behaves, which in turn helps define human nature. Culture is the "accumulated totality" of symbolic patterns that appear in different societies. it? ACTIVITY III SUMMARY ✓ According to the anthropological perspective, the self is embedded in our culture. ✓ Personne is composed of the social concepts of what it means to be who he is. ✓ Moi refers to a person’s sense of who he is, his body, and his basic identity, his biological givenness. ✓ Language is a salient part of culture and ultimately, has a tremendous effect in our crafting of the self. ✓ Culture is a system of inherited conceptions expressed in symbolic forms by means of which men communicate, perpetuate, and develop their knowledge about and attitudes towards life. Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 PSY CHOLOGY INTRO The next perspective to be tackled is the Psychological View of the Self. The following ideas and principles are derived from the theories of different psychologists who theorized about the concept of Self. Let us see how you will be able interpret your own experiences through Psychology. INTRODUCTION Psychology delves in the Physiological having to with an organism’s physical processes and the Cognitive having to do with an organism’s thinking. Learning psychology can help you gain better understanding of your own behavior and give useful insight thereof said behaviors. LESSON PROPER It is derived from two Greek words, psyche meaning soul/mind; and logos meaning study”. Literally, psychology means the study of souls but now it is study of mind. Psychology primarily studies WHO and WHAT we are, WHY we act and think in a particular manner and what is our potential as an individual. Study of psychology is concerned with specific study of behavior and mental process. Psychology focus on the individual, cognitive functions and other possible factors that affect the individual. Who am I? o A lot of people say, “I am who I am”, yet this statement still begs the quest ion “if you are who you are, then who are you that makes who you are?” “SELF” is the “sense of personal identity and of who we are as individuals (Jhangiani and Tarry 2014).” Identity- concept of an individual about himself and often referred to as “self-identity” “Self-identity” - is the belief of what the individuals thinks and feels about him. And can also be influenced by how others perceive an individual Self-development is a continuous process throughout the lifespan; one’s sense of self may change, at least somewhat, throughout one’s life. Self-representation has important implications for socio-emotional functioning throughout the lifespan. WILLIAM JAMES (1890) William James was one of the earliest psychologists to study the self and conceptualized the self as having 2 aspects – the “I” and the “me”. Both “me” and “I” are 1st person singular pronouns, which means that they are used by one person to refer to himself or herself. Difference is: ... While “me” is the object pronoun, which means that it is used as the object of the verb. The "Me" is the social self and the "I" is the response to the "Me." In other words, the "I" is the response of an individual to the attitudes of others, while the "me" is the organized set of attitudes of others which an individual assumes. Mead develops William James' distinction between the "I" and the "me.” E.g. “Don’t wait for ME, I will be gone for long time. Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 Furthermore, according to James, the “I” is the thinking, acting, feeling self. While the “me” is the physical characteristics as well psychological capabilities that makes who you are. James’s further assumptions on the self: “I” (the self in action) - Self in process, in the moment - The impulsive, spontaneous, and indeterminate part of the self - Non-reflective - Part of the self that produces individuality Me” (the self as an object in the world) - The structured and determinate part of the self - A product of interaction and conscious reflection - We know the “I” only through the “me” Attitudinal Change Quoting William James himself “The greatest discovery of my generation is that human beings can alter their lives by altering their attitudes of the mind”. He meant that with just the simple change of attitude anyone even you can change your life for better or for worse. CARL ROGERS “When I look at the world I'm pessimistic, but when I look at people I am optimistic.” - Carl Rogers Carl Rogers’s theory of personality also used the same terms like William James. According to his theory, the “I” as the one who acts and decides while the “me” is what you think or feel about yourself as an object. The I Self reflects what people see or perceive themselves doing in the physical world (e.g., recognizing that one is walking, eating, writing), in other words, the one who acts and decides. Meanwhile, the Me Self is a more subjective and psychological phenomenon, referring to individuals’ reflections about themselves (e.g. characterizing oneself as athletic, smart, cooperative). Therefore, it is what you think or feel about yourself. Self-schema – is our organized system or collection of knowledge about who we are. It may also include our interests, work, course, age, name, and physical characteristics. As you grow and adapt to the changes around you, self-schema also changes. Example: a. When someone states your first name even if they are not talking about you, your attention is drawn to them. b. If you have provincial language and you hear someone using it, it catches your attention. c. If you consider yourself a book-lover, a bookstore may always entice you out of all other stores in a mall. Unconditional Positive Regard Unconditional positive regard, sometimes referred to as “UPR”, is a term attributed to Carl Rogers, the creator of person-centered counseling and one of the founders of humanistic therapy. UPR refers to accepting and supporting another exactly as they are, without evaluating or judging them. Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 Identity and Self concept Overview Identity is composed of personal characteristics, social roles and responsibilities, as well as affiliations that define who one is. SELF-CONCEPT - how someone thinks about or perceives themselves. “the individual’s belief about himself or herself, including the person’s attributes and who and what the self is." Identity- concept of an individual about himself and often referred to as “self-identity” or the selfbelief of what the individuals thinks and feels about himself. And can also be influenced by how others perceive an individual Roles- are also part of his identity. (E.g. birth order in the family, nature of work, occupation or title, academic and social standing) SELF, IDENTITY, and SELF-CONCEPT are NOT FIXED in one-time frame. For example, when you are asked about who you are, you can say “ I was a varsity player in 5th grade” which pertains to the past, “ a college student” which may be the present, and “a future politician” which is the future. They are not also fixed for life nor are they ever-changing at every moment. Think of a malleable metal, strong and hard but can be bent and molded in other shapes. Think about water. It can take any shape of the container, but at its core, it is still the same element. Experiences of the Self The Self-concept includes two different experiences of the self: 1. The existential self - The concept that you are unique/different from others (Persian poet RUMI pondered, “Who am I in the midst of all this thought traffic?”), Subjective (I). 2. The Categorical self -concept (and the concept of others) tends to focus on his or her own visible characteristics, Objective (ME). Self-Concept The real self is WHO WE ACTUALLY ARE. It is HOW WE THINK, HOW WE FEEL, LOOK, AND ACT. The real self can be seen by others, but because we have no way of truly knowing how others view us, the real self is our self-image. Self-Concept/Self-Schema Composed of 3 Things: 1. Self-Image(Real Self) – who you are at the moment (e.g. – as a student you are interested in basketball but academically challenge in most of your subjects), Self image includes: Physical description, Social Roles, Personal traits, existential statements 2. Ideal Self – who you like to be (e.g.- to practice more and play with the varsity team) is how we want to be. It is an idealized image that we have developed over time, based on what we have learned and experienced. Could include components of what our parents have taught us, what we admire in others, what our society promotes, and what we think is in our best interest. Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 3. Ought Self ( Self-Esteem/Self-worth) – who you think you should be (e.g. – to pass your subjects as a responsible student) Our group identity and self-awareness also has a great impact on our SELF-ESTEEM, one of the common concepts associated with the “self. It is defined as our own positive and negative perception or evaluation of ourselves. A person’s ideal self may not be consistent with their actual experience (real self), or what is even possible. This is called incongruence. One has to find solution to such discrepancies to avoid agitation, dejection, or other negative emotions. In some instances, however, all 3 may be in line with one another. Self-actualization refers to the need for personal growth and development throughout one's life. It is the highest level of Maslow's hierarchy of needs, which was developed by psychologist Abraham Maslow. Once you are self-actualized, you've met your full potential as an individual. Self-Esteem and Self-Worth refers to the extent to which we like, accept, or approve of ourselves; or how much we value ourselves. Self-esteem always involves a degree of evaluation, and we may have either a positive or a negative view of ourselves Social Comparison Theory One of the ways in which our social relationship affects our self-esteem is through social comparison. According to the Social Comparison Theory, we learn about ourselves, the appropriateness of our behaviors, as well as our social status by comparing aspects of ourselves with other people. There are types of social comparison: 1. Downward Social Comparison - is the more common type of comparing ourselves with others. We create a positive self-concept by comparing ourselves with those who are worse off than us. By having the advantage, we can raise our self-esteem. 2. Upward Social Comparison - comparing ourselves with those who are better off than us. While it can be a form of motivation for some, a lot of those who do this actually felt lower self-esteem as they highlight more of their weakness or inequities. SOCIAL COMPARISON also entails what is called Self-Evaluation Maintenance Theory. In this theory, we can feel threatened when someone out-performs us, especially when that person is close to us (i.e, a family or a friend). In this case, we usually react in 3 ways: • • • We distance ourselves from that person or redefine our relationship with them. Some will resort to the silent treatment, change of friends, while some may also redefine by being closer to that person, hoping that some association may give him some kind of acknowledgment also. Reconsider the importance of the aspect or skill in which you were outperformed. If you got beaten in a drawing competition, you might think drawing is not really for you and you will find a hobby where you could excel, thus, preserving self-esteem. Strengthen or resolve to improve that certain aspect of ourselves. Instead of quitting drawing, you might join seminars, practice more often, read books about it, and add some elements in your drawings that makes it unique, among others. Achieving your goal through hardwork may increase your self-esteem, too. CARVER AND SCHEIER (1981) Carver and Scheier have identified 2 types of self that we can be aware of: 1. The Private self – your internal standards and private thoughts and feelings Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 2. The Public self – public image commonly geared toward having a good presentation of yourself to others. One must find solution to such discrepancies to avoid agitation, dejection, or other negative emotions. In some instances, however, all 3 may be in line with one another. Self-consciousness Self-consciousness is when self – awareness can be too much that we are concerned about being observed and criticized by others. At other times, especially with large crowds, we may experience deindividuation or the “loss of individual self-awareness and individual accountability in groups” when we attuned ourselves with the emotions of our group and because the large crowd also provides some kind of anonymity, we may lessen our self-control and act in ways that we will not do when we are alone (e.g. mass demonstration erupting into a riot). • • Looking outside – e.g. seeing other people who are better and dreaming to become the same. Looking inside – reflecting on what the heart desires SIGMUND FREUD Sigmund Freud was an Austrian neurologist and the founder of psychoanalysis, the clinical method for treating psychopathology through dialogue between a patient and a psychoanalyst. Psychoanalysis is a method through which an analyst unpacks unconscious conflicts based on the free associations, dreams and fantasies of the patient. Psychoanalysis and Sigmund Freud Sigmund Freud, the influential German psychologist of the early 20th century, provided not only a revolutionary way of understanding human personality but also how society affects our psychology. Freud's theory of human personality revealed another facet of society. Based on Freud's formulation, the individual human mind—the source of our subjectivity—is created by social and cultural forces that operate beneath the level of the unconscious self. It is like saying that even in our minds, there are facets of ourselves. In Freudian perspective, “socialization”, the lifelong process of learning the ways and behaviors appropriate to particular society, is not only an external or structural process but also an internal, mental process. There, in the inner psyche the individual—the unconscious and conscious self—societal presence is constantly being engaged with by the person. This is what makes up the totality of the person; and society is very much part of it. Freud further concluded that mental disorder might be caused purely by psychological factor rather than organic factors. He also proposed that dreams are the disguised expressions of unconscious wishes and emphasized libidinal (sex) urges of a person. Freud’s view of human nature Freud’s view of human nature is that human beings are biological organisms motivated by the satisfaction of bodily needs and with motivating forces that drive behavior. His theory suggests that personality (mind) is composed of the id, the ego, and the superego. True Self Vs False Self The concept of true self and false self can be found in many psychological and spiritual circles, and it can mean different things in each. Inside each of us are 2 wolves: One is evil and one is good. Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 Which wolf wins? The one you feed most. The true self is the core of you who are, the original you, unshaped by upbringing or society. This is the state you were born in and it is a state that still exists inside you. Your false self can also be called your adapted self. This is the parts of you that have altered behavior, repressed feelings and pushed your needs aside to fit in with others. 1. . SUMMARY Study of psychology is concerned with specific study of behavior and mental process. Psychology focus on the individual, cognitive functions and other possible factors that affect the individual ✓ William James was one of the earliest psychologists to study the self and conceptualized the self as having 2 aspects – the “I” and the “me”. the “I” is the thinking, acting, feeling self. While the “me” is the physical characteristics as well psychological capabilities that makes who you are. Carl Rogers’s theory of personality also used the same terms “I” and “me”. The “I” as the one who acts and decides while the “me” is what you think or feel about yourself as an object. ✓ Carver and Scheier have identified 2 types of self that we can be aware of: The Private self – your internal standards and private thoughts and feelings and the Public self – public image commonly geared toward having a good presentation of yourself to others. In the concept of True Self vs. False Self, the true self is the core of you who are, the original you, unshaped by upbringing or society. This is the state you were born in and it is a state that still exists inside you. Your false self can also be called your adapted self. This is the parts of you that have altered behavior, repressed feelings, and pushed your needs aside to fit in with others. Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 THE SELF IN WESTERN AND INTRO ORIENTAL/EASTERN THOUGHT Nowadays, the Western people are quite concerned with how to make the dharma authentically Western. But caution please, folks. Before we start inventing a new flavor of Buddhism to suit Western palettes, it is important to look closely at the implicit assumptions we are bringing to this project. INTRODUCTION To start, we might examine more closely our underlying picture about the nature of cultural difference. It looks something like this: Westerners tend to think of Asians as people basically like us who just have different customs—they hold different beliefs and have different ways of doing things. We tend to assume that Asians experience self-identity in the same way as the Westerners do—that they are the same equation, if you will, just with different values for the variables. But what if in fact Asians aren’t basically like the Westerners at all? What if the structure of the self— or call it the ego or the personality—is essentially different across cultures? Wouldn’t this give us pause? And if we are fundamentally different in this sense, how could we even know? These are just some of the ideas that would run in the mind when we talk about Eastern and Western culture. In this chapter, we will be discussing how the Self is seen based on some Western and Eastern beliefs. “One of the most effective ways to learn about oneself is by taking seriously the cultures of others. It forces you to pay LESSON PROPER attention to those details of life which differentiate them from you.” - Edward T. Hall CONCEPT OF SELF - There are a lot of sources in which we can analyze the perspective of each culture and country about the concept of the “self.” Literature - like how one depicts a hero or villain in their stories in different countries, like USA, China, Korea, etc. Socialization - like how they see their boss or their subordinate. Artworks, Dances, Even Clothing - This thing may show us clues about the Self. Cultural Diversity ▪ Put themselves first ▪ Dedicated to independent thinking and self-reliance ▪ Distant to the feelings of others ▪ Preserving, and success of the group is more important ▪ Paying attention to the needs and feelings of each member of the group ▪ Sensitive with the feelings of the members of the group to each other WESTERN THOUGHTS ▪ They give higher value with their personal rights. ▪ The western society is trying to find and prove the "truth." EASTERN THOUGHTS ▪ Giving more value to social responsibility and accepting the reality of life (fact) and interested in maintaining the balance of life Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 WESTERN EASTERN VALUES Westerners emphasize more on the value of Eastern with their collectivistic culture, put equality even if they see that the individual can more emphasis on hierarchy as the culture rise above everything else. Because everyone wants to keep things in harmony and order is on their own competition, one can say that (Qingxue, 2003). they also promote ideals that create “fair” Ex: For Asians, we have respectful terms for our competition and protect the individual. Ex: Westerners would most likely to call their bosses, parents, or other seniors by their first name. The boss can also be approached head-on when conflicts or problems about him arises. seniors and a lot of workers would not dare go against the high-ranking officials. SELF-DESCRIPTIONS Talk more about their personal attributes In general talk about their social roles or the when describing themselves; social situations that invoked certain traits that they deem positive for their selves. SELF-EVALUATIONS personal They would rather keep a low profile as promoting the self can be seen as boastfulness that disrupts social relationships INDIVIDUALISTIC COLLECTIVIST Focus is on the person The group and social relations is given more importance than individual needs and wants Talk more about their personal attributes Talk about their social roles or the social situations that invoked certain traits that they when describing themselves. deem positive for their selves. Highlight their personal achievements Keep a low profile as promoting the self can be seen as boastfulness that disrupts social relationships They would achievements highlight their Looks at the world in DUALITIES wherein you are distinct from the other person, the creator is separate from the object he created. Sees the other person as part of yourself as well as the things you may create, a drama in which everyone is interconnected with their specific roles WESTERN VS. EASTERN PHILOSOPHERS CONFUCIANISM Also known as RUISM, is described as tradition, a philosophy, a humanistic or rationalistic religion which was developed from the teachings of the Chinese philosopher CONFUCIUS (1551-479 BCE) who considered himself a re-codifier and re-transmitter of the theology and values inherited from the Shang and Zhou dynasty. It is focused on having a harmonious social life. Identity and self-concept of the individual are interwoven with the identity and status of his/her community or culture, sharing its pride as well as its failures. Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 Subdued Self’ – personal needs are repressed (subdued) for the good of many, making Confucian society also hierarchical for the purpose of maintaining order and balance in society. (Ho, 1995). 3 Essential Core Values of Confucianism: Filial Piety – respect for elders Humaneness- goodness Ritual - proper conduct 5 Basic Virtues of Confucianism: Ren – benevolence, humaneness Yi – righteous, justice Li – proper, rite Zhi – knowledge Xin - integrity TAOISM Also known as Daoism. A Chinese philosophy based on the writings of Lao-tzu (6th century BC) advocating humility and religious piety. Is living in the way of the TAO or the UNIVERSE. It is a simple lifestyle and its teachings. It aims to describe how to attain life. The self is part of the universe. It is living a balanced life with society and nature, being open and accepting to change, forgetting about prejudices and egocentric ideas and thinking about equality as well as complementarity among humans as well as other beings. (Ho, 1995) The self is in harmony with everything. The 3 Treasures or 3 Jewels - (3 ESSENTIAL ENERGIES SUSTAINING HUMAN LIFE): Jing – “essence” Qi – “energy” Shen – “spirit” Concept of Harmony - A central feature of Taoism is harmony between people and their environment, Nature, or Tao. The Tao Chi (Yin-Yang diagram) is an example of the value of harmony with the environment. It is also applied to the concept of health for energy (qi/chi), balance for disease prevention, healing, and the development of human potential. BUDDHISM It is the world’s 4th-largest religion, with over 520M followers or over 7% of the global population are Buddhists. It is an Indian religion. All Buddhist traditions share the GOAL OF OVERCOMING SUFFERING AND THE CYCLE OF DEATH & REBIRTH, either by the attainment of Nirvana or through the path of Buddhahood. 3 Marks of Existence: 1. Impermanence (anicca) - all things are in constant state of flux; nothing lasts, and everything decays 2. Suffering (dukkha) - all things are not experienced; everything is conditioned and conditioning 3. Non-Self (anatta) - denies that there is anything called a “SELF” Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 It is our quest to forget about the SELF, forget about the cravings of the self, break the attachments you have with the world, and to renounce the self which is the cause of all suffering and in doing so, attain the state of NIRVANA. Gautama Buddha taught that all beings conditioned by causes (sankhara) are impermanent (anicca) and suffering (dukhha), and that not-self(anatta) characterizes all dhammas, meaning THERE IS NO “I”, “ME” or “MINE” in either the conditioned or the unconditioned (i.e. nibbana). Unsatisfactoriness and suffering exist and are universally experienced. Desire and attachment are the causes of unsatisfactoriness and suffering. ACTIVITY V SUMMARY ✓ Western thought favors a rational-empirical approach over magical and superstitious explanation of things, including the self. ✓ The law of Karma is the most important doctrine of Hinduism which implies that individual actions will lead to either good or bad outcomes in one’s life. ✓ According to the teachings of Buddhism, every person has the seed of enlightenment, hence, potential to be a Buddha. ✓ In Confucian thought, moral character is perfected by continuously taking every opportunity to improve oneself in thought and action. ✓ To Taoists, the self is an extension of the cosmos, not of social relationships. The self is described as one of the limitless forms of the Tao (nature). Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 UNPACKING THE SELF LEARNING OUTCOMES: At the end of this section, you are expected to: 1. Explore the different aspects of self and identity 2. Demonstrate critical, reflective thought in integrating the various aspects of self and identity 3. Identify the different forces and institutions that impact the development of various aspects of self and identity 4. Examine one's self against the different aspects of self-discussed in class. PHYSICAL SELF People now a days are too conscious how they look. How they see themselves in the mirror, how people will look at them and what will people say about them. Our concept of our self an d the perception of people around us will always have big effect on how we deal in a situation, cultural or not. INTRODUCTION LESSON PROPER PHYSICAL SELF- refers to the body which we interface with our environment and fellow being. It is a tangible of the person that can be directly observed examined. Arthur Marwick (1988) defends the view that physical beauty is no more than what it is: only “skin deep”. It is a fact of life that some people are physically beautiful while others are not. Physical beauty is defined as a feature of a person’s body. This feature can be valued, it seems, independent of others that make a person valuable, such as intellect, character, or humor. However physical beauty was also considered suspect and dangerous, due to its link to sexuality and its “merely carnal”, power and seductive side. The modern view that acknowledges the autonomous status of physical beauty, although widespread nowadays, is still contested by both feminists (beauty as a suspect concept, as a male construct of feminine looks) as well a religious conservatives (only inner beauty counts). Physical Beauty in its own right The culture in which we are surrounded by has a significant impact on how we feel about ourselves and the manner in which we think about our body. Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 A person’s attractiveness depends on many features. We can value a person at different levels with respect to his or her: a. Physical looks (body, face, figure) b. Artistic looks (clothes, make-up, perfume, hair) c. Personal looks (Appearance, impressions, aura) d. Performance (voice, attitude, behavior) e. Personality (charisma, charm, appeal, allure) f. Relational capacities (contractual skills, communication competence) g. Friendship abilities (reliable, nice, offbeat, loveable, companionable) Judgements can be made at each level. A person may have good looks, but nevertheless be a faithless friend or a very poor dresser. A person may be fat and ugly but extremely charming, with a pleasant attitude and a great personality. This is how we evaluate a person’s appearance in everyday life. These distinctive evaluations clearly appreciate the levels as independent dimensions. By this we could already say that evaluating someone’s beauty is difficult because we need to see the person as a whole and not just criticizing him/her because the way of his/her dress or because of his/her skin color. Beauty is Beauty. If we then accept the conclusion that physical beauty can be valued, an important implication follows. Intervention in the body itself is often the only way out for those who want to be physically beautiful, and cosmetic or aesthetic surgery can be, at least for some people and to some extent, the option par excellence. Before considering the norms of physical beauty (‘What are we to conceive of as physically beautiful or not beautiful?’), it may be helpful to consider for a moment the levels of artistic beauty and personal looks, as mentioned above. These refer to a broader context than the narrow, bodily one, reflecting views on the importance of make-up, clothes, fashion and individual selfexpression. Beauty is Culture Bound In different countries, not all feel the same way about the concept of beauty. In fact, cultures around the world have different ideas of what is beautiful Africa – they do not celebrate thinness the way other countries do. Famously the country of Mauritania has come to be known as one that idolizes overweight women. This is most often seen as a sign of wealth and fertility Brazil – women want to appear fit and toned, and things like waxing, sculpting massages and manicures are everyday treatment, not only reserved for the spa Asia & Africa – skin lightening has risen in popularity. In order to understand their inherent beauty norms, we should study today’s trends and tastes, and their functions and meanings in our lives. In this broader context ‘a beautiful appearance’ refers to a beauty that is man-made. It is artistic in two respects: (1) it is clearly achieved by ‘cultural’ means and reflects our present culture, and (2) it expresses someone’s personal choice and intentions. Its result is an intentional structuring from an artistic point of view: in short, artistic beauty. Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 Physical beauty in which one has an interest In an article on Immanuel Kant’s aesthetics, Hannah Ginsborg (1997) shows that – according to Kant – beauty can be attached to living things (organisms) as well as to artificial things (works of art). The character of the judgement of beauty is the same in both cases. Moreover, central to Kant’s idea of beauty is that beauty gives the observer a feeling of disinterested pleasure or liking. By ‘disinterested’ he means that the object does not fulfill an aim or satisfy a need. There is, for instance, no ‘wish to possess’, regardless of whether it is a work of art or a natural object being observed. Finally, according to Kant’s view, beauty judgements are not objective, but are nevertheless universal. Physical beauty and Personal Identity By assuming an attitude towards our bodily looks we more or less integrate our appearance-related experiences in our lives, and thereby make these experiences part of our personal ‘identity’. This notion must be grasped in order to fully understand the concept of physical beauty. Physical beauty is understood as experienced beauty in primarily a relational perspective. Implied is that not just that ugly nose or plain face concerns us, but the story that a person tells about his nose or face or other bodily parts, as experienced by him and others. Stories about reactions from friends and the attitudes of parents; stories about an inherited ethnic nose, or the color of one’s skin; stories about one’s feelings, perhaps one’s suffering, and about expectations for one’s future (Freedman, 1986, pp. 49–54). The characterization of a person therefore includes experiences, values and beliefs, desires and psychological qualities, which together constitute someone as a person (Schechtman,1996). Changing a person’s physical looks, e.g. by aesthetic surgery, does not necessarily make someone a different person, no matter how drastic the change. A new sense of identity has to fit the reconstructed image and leave the old self behind: “Altering appearance also changes the way we see ourselves, and this is a crucial consequence of cosmetic surgery” (Freedman, pp. 54, 56). But although ‘deep’ connections do exist between the physical (biological) and the psychological (existential) realm of life, each undeniably represents a different perspective: “Bodies constrain, but do not determine” (Schechtman, pp. 67–70). Bodily changes may undoubtedly change a person, but these changes do not necessarily imply a denial or loss of his identity. As our physical self, dictates how we act in front of other it also defines how we will manage our self-esteem. Yet this self-esteem is vital on how we form positive and healthy relationships with people around us. We have different kinds of self-esteem. Self- esteem – is used to describes a person’s overall sense of self-worth or personal value. In other words, how much you appreciate and like yourself. It involves a variety of belief about yourself, such as the appraisal of your own appearance, beliefs, emotions, and behaviors. Inflated Self-Esteem – this people holds high regards of themselves. Better than the other to the point of underestimating them. High Self-Esteem – This is a positive esteem, which make the person be satisfied of themselves Low Self-Esteem – This person does not value themselves and do not trust their possibilities. Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 Why Self-Esteem is Important Self-esteem can play a significant role in your motivation and success throughout your life. Low self-esteem may hold you from succeeding at school or work because you don’t believe to be capable of success. By Contrast, having a healthy self-esteem can help you achieve because you navigate life with a positive, assertive attitude and believe you can accomplish your goals. Sign of Healthy Self-Esteem Signs of Low Self-Esteem You probably have healthy self-esteem if you You tend to experience these common are more likely to: problems caused by low self-esteem: ✓ Avoid dwelling on past, negative ✓ You believe that others are better than experiences you ✓ Express your needs ✓ You find it difficult expressing your ✓ Feel confident needs ✓ Have a positive outlook on life ✓ You focus on your weaknesses ✓ Say “no” when you want to ✓ You frequently experience feelings such as shame, depressions, or ✓ See overall strengths and weaknesses anxiety and accept them ✓ You have intense fear of failure ✓ You have trouble accepting positive feedback ✓ You have trouble saying “no” ✓ You put other people’s needs before your own ✓ You struggle with confidence 1. https://youtu.be/wkri1NUq9ro SUMMARY Physical beauty is an important human value and can be evaluated on its own. The fact, however, that our beauty judgements concern human physical beauty makes all the difference. This human perspective presumes an idea of personhood and personal identity. Evaluations include an inner perspective that is fundamentally relational in character. For this reason, physical beauty is not just skin deep. Stories, in which context and contrast are expressed, provide the sense needed for a full understanding of the concept of bodily beauty. S E INTRO XUAL SELF Sex makes the world go around: It makes babies bond, children giggle, adolescents flirt, and adults have babies. It is addressed in the holy books of the world’s great religions, and it infiltrates every part of society. It influences the way we dress, joke, and talk. In many ways, sex defines who we are. It is so important, the eminent neuropsychologist Karl Pribram described sex INTRODUCTION Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 as one of four basic human drive states. Drive states motivate us to accomplish goals. They are linked to our survival. According to Pribram, feeding, fighting, fleeing, and sex are the four drives behind every thought, feeling, and behavior. Since these drives are so closely associated with our psychological and physical health, you might assume people would study, understand, and discuss them openly. Your assumption would be generally correct for three of the four drives (Malacane & Beckmeyer, 2016). Can you guess which drive is the least understood and openly discussed? This module presents an opportunity for you to think openly and objectively about sex. Without shame or taboo, using science as a lens, we examine fundamental aspects of human sexuality—including gender, sexual orientation, sexually transmitted diseases, and behaviors. DEVELOPMENT OF THE SEXUAL ORGANS IN THE EMBRYO AND FETUS Females are considered the “fundamental” sex—that is, without much chemical prompting, all fertilized eggs would develop into females. To become a male, an individual must be exposed to the cascade of factors initiated by a single gene on the male Y chromosome. This is called the SRY (Sex-determining Region of the Y chromosome). Because females do not have a Y chromosome, they do not have the SRY gene. Without a functional SRY gene, an individual will be female. LESSON PROPER In both male and female embryos, the same group of cells has the potential to develop into either the male or female gonads; this tissue is considered bipotential. The SRY gene actively recruits other genes that begin to develop the testes and suppresses genes that are important in female development. As part of this SRY-prompted cascade, germ cells in the bipotential gonads differentiate into spermatogonia. Without SRY, different genes are expressed, oogonia form, and primordial follicles develop in the primitive ovary. Soon after the formation of the testis, the Leydig cells begin to secrete testosterone. Testosterone can influence tissues that are bipotential to become male reproductive structures. For example, with exposure to testosterone, cells that could become either the glans penis or the glans clitoris form the glans penis. Without testosterone, these same cells differentiate into the clitoris. A baby’s gender is determined at conception, and the different genitalia of male and female fetuses develop from the same tissues in the embryo. View the video linked to below to see a comparison of the development of structures of the female and male reproductive systems in a growing fetus. Where are the testes located for most of gestational time? Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 Further Sexual Development occurs at Puberty Puberty is the stage of development at which individuals become sexually mature. Though the outcomes of puberty for boys and girls are very different, the hormonal control of the process is very similar. In addition, though the timing of these events varies between individuals, the sequence of changes that occur is predictable for male and female adolescents. As shown in Figure 1, a concerted release of hormones from the hypothalamus (GnRH), the anterior pituitary (LH and FSH), and the gonads (either testosterone or estrogen) is responsible for the maturation of the reproductive systems and the development of secondary sex characteristics, which are physical changes that serve auxiliary roles in reproduction. The first changes begin around the age of eight or nine when the production of LH becomes detectable. The release of LH occurs primarily at night during sleep and precedes the physical changes of puberty by several years. In pre-pubertal children, the sensitivity of the negative feedback system in the hypothalamus and pituitary is very high. This means that very low concentrations of androgens or estrogens will negatively feed back onto the hypothalamus and pituitary, keeping the production of GnRH, LH, and FSH low. As an individual approaches’ puberty, two changes in sensitivity occur. The first is a decrease of sensitivity in the hypothalamus and pituitary to negative feedback, meaning that it takes increasingly larger concentrations of sex steroid hormones to stop the production of LH and FSH. The second change in sensitivity is an increase in sensitivity of the gonads to the FSH and LH signals, meaning the gonads of adults are more responsive to gonadotropins than are the gonads of children. As a result of these two changes, the levels of LH and FSH slowly increase and lead to the enlargement and maturation of the gonads, which in turn leads to secretion of higher levels of sex hormones and the initiation of spermatogenesis and folliculogenesis. Signs of Puberty Different sex steroid hormone concentrations between the sexes also contribute to the development and function of secondary sexual characteristics. Examples of secondary sexual characteristics are listed in Table 1. Development of the Secondary Sexual Characteristics Male Female Increased larynx size and deepening of the voice Increased muscular development Growth of facial, axillary, and pubic hair, and increased growth of body hair Deposition of fat, predominantly in breasts and hips Breast development Broadening of the pelvis and growth of axillary and pubic hair As a girl reaches puberty, typically the first change that is visible is the development of the breast tissue. This is followed by the growth of axillary and pubic hair. A growth spurt normally starts at approximately age 9 to 11 and may last two years or more. During this time, a girl’s height can increase 3 inches a year. The next step in puberty is menarche, the start of menstruation. In boys, the growth of the testes is typically the first physical sign of the beginning of puberty, which is followed by growth and pigmentation of the scrotum and growth of the penis. The next step is the growth of hair, including armpit, pubic, chest, and facial hair. Testosterone stimulates the growth of the larynx and thickening and lengthening of the vocal folds, which causes the voice to drop in pitch. The first fertile ejaculations typically appear at approximately 15 years of age, but this age can vary widely across individual boys. Unlike the early growth spurt observed in females, Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 the male growth spurt occurs toward the end of puberty, at approximately age 11 to 13, and a boy’s height can increase as much as 4 inches a year. In some males, pubertal development can continue through the early 20s. I. SEXUAL MOTIVATIONS - are vital for the continuation of any species. One of the primary tasks for most living organisms is reproduction. Since humans are one of the most complex living organisms, our sexual motivations are correspondingly complex. Like hunger, sex is motivated by both biological and psychological factors. Erogenous Zones Breast and Nipples - Female breasts can obviously play an important role in breastfeeding, but breast and nipple play on anyone can also set off the fireworks of sexual excitement. Using MRI technology, a landmark 2011 study found that nipple stimulation in women activated the genital sensory cortex, the same part of the brain revved by the clitoris, vagina, and cervix. People with a penis have a genital sensory cortex, too, and the penis sends its signals there. Mouth and Lips Science says we kiss because it floods the body with natural feelgood chemicals like dopamine, oxytocin, and serotonin. These chemicals can fuel desire for our partner by juicing our excitement. Neck - We sometimes refer to the hairs on the back of our neck standing up, and there’s a reason for that. It’s a highly sensitive region. A 2018 study found it to be a pleasure provoking part across genders, although a bit more arousing in women. Ears - The ear bone is connected to the neck bone… In a 2016 study, females ranked non-genital erogenous zones. The ears came in fourth — behind breasts, lips, and neck. Sexual Response Cycle The famous lab studies done by William Masters and Virginia Johnson documented the sexual response cycle in men and women. Our sexual response progresses through four stages: Stage I Stage II Stage III Stage IV Initial excitement Plateau phase Orgasm Resolution phase Genital areas become engorged with blood, penis becomes erect, clitoris swells, respiration, and heart rate increase. Respiration and heart rate continue at an elevated level, genitals secrete fluids in preparation for coitus. Rhythmic genital contractions that may help conception, respiration, and heart rate increase further, males ejaculate, often accompanied by a pleasurable euphoria. Respiration and heart rate return to normal resting states, men experience a refractory period—a time period that must elapse before another orgasm, women do not have a similar refractory period and can repeat the cycle immediately. Psychological Factors in Sexual Motivation Unlike many animals, our sexual desire is not motivated strictly by hormones. Many studies demonstrate that sexual motivation is controlled to a great extent by Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 psychological rather than biological sources. Sexual desire can be present even when the capability to have sex is lost. Accident victims who lose the ability to have sex still have sexual desires. Erotic material can inspire sexual feelings and physiological responses in men and women, including elevated levels of hormones. The interaction between our physiology and psychology creates the myriad of sexual desires we see in society and ourselves. II. SEXUAL ORIENTATION - As attention and controversy about sexual-orientation issues increase, so does research about homosexuality. Researchers (like Alfred Kinsey, who documented the variety of human sexual behaviors in the famous Kinsey Reports) have been able to dispel some common myths about what it means to be homosexual. Studies show that homosexuality is not related to traumatic childhood experiences, parenting styles, the quality of relationships with parents, masculinity or femininity, or whether we are raised by heterosexual or homosexual parents. Although some researchers believe environmental influences probably affect sexual orientation, these factors have not yet been identified. Researchers have identified possible biological influences, however. Some studies indicate that specific brain structures might differ in size in brains of homosexuals when compared with the same structures in heterosexuals. Twin studies indicate a genetic influence on sexual orientation since a twin is much more likely to be gay if his or her identical twin is gay. Some researchers theorize that hormones in the womb might change brain structure and influence sexual orientation. Since 3 to 10 percent (estimates vary) of the population worldwide is homosexual, research in this area will certainly continue, and the causes of sexual orientations will become clearer. What do the terms sexual orientation, gender identity, gender expression, sexual health, sexual behaviour, and sexuality mean? Sexual orientation refers to a person’s physical, romantic, and/or emotional attraction towards other people. Sexual orientation is distinct from gender identity. Sexual orientation is comprised of three elements: sexual attraction, sexual behaviour, and sexual identity. Sexual orientation is most often defined in terms of heterosexuality to identify those who are attracted to individuals of a different sex from themselves, and homosexuality to identify those who are attracted to individuals of the same sex from themselves. Gender identity is understood to refer to each person’s deeply felt internal and individual experience of gender, which may or may not correspond with the sex assigned at birth, including the personal sense of the body (which may involve, if freely chosen, modification of bodily appearance or function by medical, surgical or other means) and other expressions of gender, including dress, speech, and mannerisms. Gender identity exists on a spectrum. This means that an individual’s gender identity is not necessarily confined to an identity that is completely male or completely female. When an individual’s gender identity differs from their assigned sex, they are commonly considered to be transgender, gender fluid, and/or gender queer. Whereas when an individual’s gender identity aligns with their assigned sex, they are commonly considered cisgender. Gender expression refers to the way in which an individual outwardly presents their gender. These expressions of gender are typically through the way one chooses to dress, speak, or generally conduct themselves socially. Our perceptions of gender typically align with the socially constructed binary of masculine and feminine forms of expression. The way an individual expresses their gender is not always indicative of their gender identity. Sexual health is a state of physical, emotional, mental and social wellbeing in relation to sexuality; it is not merely the absence of disease, dysfunction or infirmity. Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 Sexual health requires a positive and respectful approach to the possibility of having pleasurable and safe sexual experiences, free of coercion, discrimination, and violence. For sexual health to be attained and maintained, the sexual rights of all persons must be respected, protected and fulfilled. Sexual behavior is used to describe the way in which an individual sexually engages with others. Sexual behavior is not always determined by an individual’s sexual orientation. For instance, an individual can be identified as MSM (men who have sex with men) regardless of whether or not they have sex with women or have a personal or social gay or bisexual identity. This concept is useful because it also includes men who self-identify as heterosexual but have sex with other men and would not otherwise be reached through public health interventions. The term MSM is also useful in identifying male sex workers whose clients include other men. Sexuality is a central aspect of being human throughout life [that] encompasses sex, gender identities and roles, sexual orientation, eroticism, pleasure, intimacy and reproduction. Sexuality is influenced by the intersection of biological, psychological, social, economic, political, cultural, legal, historical, religious, and spiritual factors. What do the terms lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, cisgender, queer, and intersex mean? Lesbian women and gay men are attracted to individuals of the same sex and/or gender identity as themselves. Lesbian women and gay men were once commonly grouped as homosexual, but this term is no longer used as it has a history in the wrongful pathologization of people with non-heterosexual orientations as a mental health disorder. Bisexual people may be attracted to individuals of the same or different sex and/or gender identity. Cisgender means having a gender identity that matches one’s assigned sex, Queer is an umbrella term which is commonly used to define lesbian, gay, bi, trans, and other people and institutions on the margins of mainstream culture. Historically, the term has been used to denigrate sexual and gender minorities, but more recently it has been reclaimed by these groups and is increasingly used as an expression of pride and to reject narrow reductive labels. Intersex people are born with physical or biological sex characteristics (including sexual anatomy, reproductive organs, and/or chromosomal patterns) that do not fit the traditional definitions of male or female. These characteristics may be apparent at birth or emerge later in life, often at puberty. Intersex people may be subjected to gender assignment interventions at birth or in early life with the consent of parents through this practice is largely contested by intersex persons and has been the subject of a number of recommendations by human rights experts and bodies. III. SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED DISEASES (STDS) — or sexually transmitted infections (STIs) — are generally acquired by sexual contact. The organisms (bacteria, viruses or parasites) that cause sexually transmitted diseases may pass from person to person in blood, semen, or vaginal and other bodily fluids. Sometimes these infections can be transmitted non-sexually, such as from mother to infant during pregnancy or childbirth, or through blood transfusions or shared needles. STDs don't always cause symptoms. It's possible to contract sexually transmitted diseases from people who seem perfectly healthy and may not even know they have an infection. Symptoms - Sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) or sexually transmitted infections (STIs) can have a range of signs and symptoms, including no symptoms. That's why they may go unnoticed Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 until complications occur or a partner is diagnosed. Signs and symptoms that might indicate an STI include: Sores or bumps on the genitals or in the oral or rectal area Painful or burning urination Discharge from the penis Unusual or odd-smelling vaginal discharge Unusual vaginal bleeding Pain during sex Sore, swollen lymph nodes, particularly in the groin but sometimes more widespread Lower abdominal pain Fever Rash over the trunk, hands, or feet Signs and symptoms may appear a few days after exposure, or it may take years before you have any noticeable problems, depending on the organism. IV. BIRTH CONTROL METHODS - In choosing a method of contraception, dual protection from the simultaneous risk for HIV and other STDs also should be considered. Although hormonal contraceptives and IUDs are highly effective at preventing pregnancy, they do not protect against STDs, including HIV. Consistent and correct use of the male latex condom reduces the risk for HIV infection and other STDs, including chlamydial infection, gonococcal infection, and trichomoniasis. Reversible Methods of Birth Control ➢ Intrauterine Contraception Levonorgestrel intrauterine system (LNG IUD)—The LNG IUD is a small T-shaped device like the Copper T IUD. It is placed inside the uterus by a doctor. It releases a small amount of progestin each day to keep you from getting pregnant. The LNG IUD stays in your uterus for up to 3 to 6 years, depending on the device. Typical use failure rate: 0.10.4%.1 Copper T intrauterine device (IUD)—This IUD is a small device that is shaped in the form of a “T.” Your doctor places it inside the uterus to prevent pregnancy. It can stay in your uterus for up to 10 years. Typical use failure rate: 0.8%. ➢ Hormonal Methods Implant—The implant is a single, thin rod that is inserted under the skin of a women’s upper arm. The rod contains a progestin that is released into the body over 3 years. Typical use failure rate: 0.1%. Injection or “shot”—Women get shots of the hormone progestin in the buttocks or arm every three months from their doctor. Typical use failure rate: 4%. Combined oral contraceptives—Also called “the pill,” combined oral contraceptives contain the hormones estrogen and progestin. It is prescribed by a doctor. A pill is taken at the same time each day. If you are older than 35 years and smoke, have a history of blood clots or breast cancer, your doctor may advise you not to take the pill. Typical use failure rate: 7%. Progestin only pill—Unlike the combined pill, the progestin-only pill (sometimes called the mini-pill) only has one hormone, progestin, instead of both estrogen and progestin. It Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 is prescribed by a doctor. It is taken at the same time each day. It may be a good option for women who can’t take estrogen. Typical use failure rate: 7%. Patch—This skin patch is worn on the lower abdomen, buttocks, or upper body (but not on the breasts). This method is prescribed by a doctor. It releases hormones progestin and estrogen into the bloodstream. You put on a new patch once a week for three weeks. During the fourth week, you do not wear a patch, so you can have a menstrual period. Typical use failure rate: 7%. Hormonal vaginal contraceptive ring—The ring releases the hormones progestin and estrogen. You place the ring inside your vagina. You wear the ring for three weeks, take it out for the week you have your period, and then put in a new ring. Typical use failure rate: 7%. ➢ Barrier Methods Diaphragm or cervical cap—Each of these barrier methods are placed inside the vagina to cover the cervix to block sperm. The diaphragm is shaped like a shallow cup. The cervical cap is a thimble-shaped cup. Before sexual intercourse, you insert them with spermicide to block or kill sperm. Visit your doctor for a proper fitting because diaphragms and cervical caps come in different sizes. Typical use failure rate for the diaphragm: 17%. Sponge—The contraceptive sponge contains spermicide and is placed in the vagina where it fits over the cervix. The sponge works for up to 24 hours, and must be left in the vagina for at least 6 hours after the last act of intercourse, at which time it is removed and discarded. Typical use failure rate: 14% for women who have never had a baby and 27% for women who have had a baby. Male condom—Worn by the man, a male condom keeps sperm from getting into a woman’s body. Latex condoms, the most common type, help prevent pregnancy, and HIV and other STDs, as do the newer synthetic condoms. “Natural” or “lambskin” condoms also help prevent pregnancy, but may not provide protection against STDs, including HIV. Typical use failure rate: 13%.1 Condoms can only be used once. You can buy condoms, KY jelly, or water-based lubricants at a drug store. Do not use oil-based lubricants such as massage oils, baby oil, lotions, or petroleum jelly with latex condoms. They will weaken the condom, causing it to tear or break. Female condom—Worn by the woman, the female condom helps keeps sperm from getting into her body. It is packaged with a lubricant and is available at drug stores. It can be inserted up to eight hours before sexual intercourse. Typical use failure rate: 21%,1 and also may help prevent STDs. Spermicides—These products work by killing sperm and come in several forms—foam, gel, cream, film, suppository, or tablet. They are placed in the vagina no more than one hour before intercourse. You leave them in place at least six to eight hours after intercourse. You can use a spermicide in addition to a male condom, diaphragm, or cervical cap. They can be purchased at drug stores. Typical use failure rate: 21%. Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 ➢ Fertility Awareness-Based Methods Fertility awareness-based methods—Understanding your monthly fertility pattern external icon external icon can help you plan to get pregnant or avoid getting pregnant. Your fertility pattern is the number of days in the month when you are fertile (able to get pregnant), days when you are infertile, and days when fertility is unlikely, but possible. If you have a regular menstrual cycle, you have about nine or more fertile days each month. If you do not want to get pregnant, you do not have sex on the days you are fertile, or you use a barrier method of birth control on those days. Failure rates vary across these methods. Range of typical use failure rates: 2-23%. ➢ Lactational Amenorrhea Method For women who have recently had a baby and are breastfeeding, the Lactational Amenorrhea Method (LAM) can be used as birth control when three conditions are met: 1) amenorrhea (not having any menstrual periods after delivering a baby), 2) fully or nearly fully breastfeeding, and 3) less than 6 months after delivering a baby. LAM is a temporary method of birth control, and another birth control method must be used when any of the three conditions are not met. ➢ Emergency Contraception Emergency contraception is NOT a regular method of birth control. Emergency contraception can be used after no birth control was used during sex, or if the birth control method failed, such as if a condom broke. Copper IUD—Women can have the copper T IUD inserted within five days of unprotected sex. Emergency contraceptive pills—Women can take emergency contraceptive pills up to 5 days after unprotected sex, but the sooner the pills are taken, the better they will work. Some emergency contraceptive pills are available over the counter. ➢ Permanent Methods of Birth Control Female Sterilization—Tubal ligation or “tying tubes”— A woman can have her fallopian tubes tied (or closed) so that sperm and eggs cannot meet for fertilization. The procedure can be done in a hospital or in an outpatient surgical center. You can go home the same day of the surgery and resume your normal activities within a few days. This method is effective immediately. Typical use failure rate: 0.5%. Male Sterilization–Vasectomy—This operation is done to keep a man’s sperm from going to his penis, so his ejaculate never has any sperm in it that can fertilize an egg. The procedure is typically done at an outpatient surgical center. The man can go home the same day. Recovery time is less than one week. After the operation, a man visits his doctor for tests to count his sperm and to make sure the sperm count has dropped to zero; this takes about 12 weeks. Another form of birth control should be used until the man’s sperm count has dropped to zero. Typical use failure rate: 0.15%. Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 M A TINTRO ERIAL SELF We are living in a world of sale and shopping spree. We are given a wide array of products to purchase from a simple set of spoon and fork to owning a restaurant. Almost everywhere, including the digital space, we can find promotions of product purchase. Product advertisements are suggestive of making us feel better or look good. Part of us wants to have that product. What makes us want to have those products are connected with who we are. What we want to have and already possess is related to our self. INTRODUCTION Belk (1988) stated that “we regard our possessions as parts of ourselves. We are what we have and what we possess.” There is a direct link between self-identity with what we have and possess. Our wanting to have and possess has a connection with another aspect of the self, the material self. A Harvard psychologist in the late nineteenth century, William James, wrote in his book, The Principles of LESSON PROPER Psychology in 1890 that understanding the self can be examined through its different components. James described these components as: ✓ Its constituents ✓ The feelings and emotions they arouse – self-feelings; ✓ The actions to which they prompt – self-seeking and self-preservation. The constituents of self are composed of the material self, the social self, the spiritual self and the pure ego. (Trentmann 2016; Green 1997) The material self, according to James primarily is about our bodies, clothes, immediate family and home. We are deeply affected by these things because we have put much investment of our self to them. The innermost part of our material self is our body. Intentionally, we are investing in our body. We are directly attached to this commodity that we cannot live without. We strive hard to make sure that this body functions well and good. Any ailment or disorder directly affects us. We do have certain preferential attachment or intimate closeness to certain body parts because of its value to us. There were people who get their certain body parts insured. Celebrities, like Mariah Carey who was reported to have placed a huge amount for the insurance of her vocal cords and legs (Sukman 2016). Next to our body are the clothes we use. Influenced by the “Philosophy of Dress” by Herman Lotze, James believed that clothing is an essential part of the material self. Lotze in his book, Microcosmus, stipulates that “any time we bring an object into the surface of our body, we invest that object into the consciousness of our personal existence taking in tis contours to be our own and making it part of the self.” (Watson 2014). The fabric and style of the clothes we wear Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 bring sensations to the body to which directly affect our attitudes and behavior. Thus, clothes are placed in the second hierarchy of material self. Clothing is a form of self-expression. We choose and wear clothes that reflect our self (Watson 2014). Third in the hierarchy is our immediate family. Our parents and siblings hold another great important part of our self. What they do or become affect us. When an immediate family member dies, part of our self dies, too. When their lives are in success, we feel their victories as if we are the one holding the trophy. In their failures, we are put to shame or guilt. When they are in disadvantage situation, there is an urgent urge to help like a voluntary instinct of saving one’s self from danger. We place huge investment in our immediate family when we see them as the nearest replica of our self. The fourth component of material self is our home. Home is where our heart is. It is the earliest nest of our selfhood. Our experiences inside the home were recorded and marked on particular parts and things in our home. There was an old cliché about rooms: “if only walls can speak.” The home thus is an extension of self, because in it, we can directly connect our self. Having investment of self to things, made us attached to those things. The more investment of self-given to the particular thing, the more we identify ourselves to it. We also tended to collect and possess properties. The collections in different degree of investment of self, becomes part of the self. As James (1890) described self: “a man’s self is the sum total of all what he CAN call his.” Possessions then become a part or an extension of the self. We are What We Have Russel Belk (1988) posits that “…we regard our possessions as part of ourselves. We are what we have and what we possess.” The identification of the self to things started in our infancy stage when we make a distinction among self and environment and others who may desire our possessions. As we grow older, putting importance to material possession decreases. However, material possession gains higher value in our lifetime if we use material possession to find happiness, associate these things with significant events, accomplishments, and people in our lives. There are even times, when material possession of a person that is closely identified to the person, gains acknowledgment with high regard even if the person already passed away. Examples of these are the chair in the dining room on which the person is always seated, the chair will be the constant reminder of the person seated there; a well-loved and kept vehicle of the person, which some of the bereaved family members have a difficulty to sell or let go of because that vehicle is very much identified with the owner who passed away; the favorite pet or book, among others that the owner placed a high value, these favorite things are symbols of the owner. ACTIVITY VIII SUMMARY The possessions that we dearly have tell something about who we are, our self-concept, our past, and even our future. Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 SPIRITUAL SELF Spiritual self is one of the four constituents of the "self" according to William James in his book, The Principles of Psychology in 1890. The spiritual self is the most intimate, inner subjective part of self. It is the most intimate version of the self because of the satisfaction experienced when thinking of one's ability to argue and discriminate, of one's moral sensibility and conscience, and of our unconquerable will ( James 1890) is purer than all other sentiments of satisfaction(Green 1997). The ability to use moral sensibility and conscience may be seen through the expressions of religion, its beliefs and practices. In the same manner, cultural rituals and ceremonies are some manifestations what people believe in. Moreover, seeking the meaning of life is a journey that the spiritual self is on. INTRODUCTION What Is the Difference between the Soul and the Spirit? LESSON PROPER The terms soul and spirit have been discussed at length throughout philosophy, literature, and religion. Even scientists have ventured remarks about the soul. Often, though, soul and spirit are interpreted to mean the same thing and end up being used interchangeably. This can lead to the question, “Is there a difference between the soul and the spirit, and does it really matter if there is?” Regardless of what philosophy, literature, religion, or some scientists say, we have to ask, “What does the Bible say?” The Bible clearly makes many references to both. So what does God’s Word say about our soul and our spirit? And why can knowing this be a crucial factor in our spiritual progress and relationship with God? Are they the same thing? 1 Thessalonians 5:23 says, “And the God of peace Himself sanctify you wholly, and may your spirit and soul and body be preserved complete, without blame, at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ.” This verse clearly tells us that human beings are made up of three parts—the spirit, soul, and body. In the original Greek language, the conjunction “and” in “spirit and soul and body” indicates the three are different from one another. So just as the body is separate and distinct from the soul, the soul is also separate and distinct from the spirit, as illustrated in the diagram below: Hebrews 4:12 makes an even finer distinction, saying, “For the word of God is living and operative and sharper than any two-edged sword, and piercing even to the dividing of soul and spirit and of joints and marrow, and able to discern the thoughts and intentions of the heart.” From this verse, we can understand that the soul and the spirit are so close to one another that the two require the word of God to divide them, to separate them from each other. Based on these two verses alone, we can conclude that our soul and our spirit are not the same thing. In fact, it is evidently not only important for us to see that they are distinct components, but also to discern one from the other. Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 Religion - Rebecca Stein (Stein 2011) works on the definition of religion "as set of cultural beliefs and practices that usually includes some or all of basic characteristics. These characteristics are: 1. A belief in anthropomorphic supernatural being, such as spirit and gods. 2. A focus on the sacred supernatural, where sacred refers to a feeling of reverence and awe. 3. Supernatural power or energy that is found on supernatural beings as well as physical beings and objects. 4. The performance of ritual activities that involves the manipulation of sacred object to communicate to supernatural beings and/or influence or control events. 5. The articulation of worldview and moral codes through narratives and other means. 6. Provide the creation and maintenance of social bonds and mechanism of social control within a community; provide explanation for unknown and a sense of control for individuals. An individual lives in a society where there are many practices of religion. The choice of religious belief lies within the spiritual self. Although the choice maybe influenced by the society and its culture. Ritual - is the performance of ceremonial acts prescribed by a tradition or sacred law (Britannica 2017). Ritual is a specific, observable mode of behavior exhibited by all known societies. It is thus possible to view ritual as a way of defining or describing humans. There are three fundamental characteristics of rituals according to Penner (Britannica 2017). Ritual has the characteristics of: 1. A feeling or emotion of respect, awe, fascination, or dread in relation to the sacred. 2. Dependence upon a belief system that is usually expressed in the language of myth. 3. Is symbolic in relation to its reference. The self can be described as a ritual being who exhibits a striking parallel between their ritual and verbal behavior. Just as language is a system of symbols that is based upon arbitrary rules, ritual may be viewed as a system of symbolic acts that is based upon arbitrary rules. Participation to rituals is expressions of religious beliefs. SOME WORLD RELIGIOUS BELIEFS AND PRACTICES There are different religions with different beliefs and practices. Some major world religions are Buddhism, Christianity, Hinduism, Islam, and Judaism. Excerpt of some religious beliefs and practices are found in the University of London’s Religion and Belief Guide 2017. Buddhism Beliefs - Buddhism believes that life is not a bed of roses. Instead, there are suffering, pain, and frustrations. When people suffer, they want to experience the goodness of life and avoid disappointments. It becomes a habit known as the reactive cycle of wanting and hating, like and dislike, and craving and aversion. This reactive cycle can be broken through the practice of mediation, acquiring more wisdom and deeper understanding, and acceptance of things as they are. Customs and Practices - There are two types of meditation practices: samatha and vipassana. Samatha is practiced as mindfulness of breathing and development of loving- kindness (Metta Bhavana). Vipassana practices aim at developing into reality. Acquiring wisdom is by studying Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 Buddha's teaching, the Dharma. Through the reflection of Dharma, Buddhists can achieve a deeper understanding of life. Buddhist believe in non-violence principle - Some of the major Buddhist celebrations are Parinirvana Day in February; Buddha Day (Wesak) in May; Dharma Day in July: Padmasambhava Day in October; and Sangha Day in November. Christianity Beliefs - Christians believe in Trinitarian God. One God in three personas: God the Father (Creator), God the Son (Savior), and God the Holy - Spirit. Eternal life after death will be achieved through faith in Jesus Christ. Jesus Christ is, God the Son, who came into flesh, to spread the Good News of Salvation. He died on the cross for the sin of the humanity but resurrected from the death, so that anyone who believes in Him will be saved and have eternal life. The Holy Bible is a selection of books, which is divided into two, the Old Testament and New Testament Customs and Practices - Sacrament of Baptism and Sacrament of Communion are practiced by Christian churches. The Sacrament of Baptism symbolizes the birth in Christian World, while the Sacrament of Communion is an act of remembrance of Jesus Christ's sacrificial love. Jesus Christ teaching in unconditional love that is expressed in loving the poor, oppressed, and outcast of the society. Christmas and Resurrection (Easter) are the two major celebrations in Christianity. Christmas, usually on December 25, commemorates the birth of Jesus Christ while Resurrection Sunday (depends on the lunar calendar, sometime in March or April) celebrates the resurrection of Jesus Christ from death. Hinduism Beliefs - Hinduism covers a wide range of traditional beliefs and religious groups; thus, there is no single founder or leader. Hindus believe that existence is a cycle of birth, death and rebirth, governed by Karma. Karma is a concept where the reincarnated life will depend on how the past life was spent. Hindus believe that the soul passes through a cycle of successive lives and its next incarnation is always dependent on how the previous life was lived. Vedas are sacred scriptures of Hindus. Mahabharata and Ramayana are two other important texts of the Hindus. Customs and Practices - Diwali, and Navrati are the most celebrated festivals of the Hindus. Diwali is the Festival of Lights while Navrati is the festival of nine nights, which celebrate the triumph of good over evil. Hindus have set dates to honor particular manifestations of God. Islam Beliefs - Muslims believe in Allah, who is their "One God." They believed in the unity and universality of God. Muslims also have a strong sense of community or "ummah" and an awareness of their solidarity with all Muslims worldwide. Islam means 'willing submission to God." Muslims believe that Mohammed is the last and final prophet sent by God. Mohammed was born in Mecca in 570 CE and received revelations from God through the Angel Gabriel over a period of 23 years. The Holy Book of Islam is called the Quran, which was taught to be recited in Arabic because any translation is seen as inadequate. Customs and Practices Muslims believe in the five pillars of Islam, which are the foundation of Muslim life: Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 1. Shahadah - statement of faith: "There is no God but the one true God and Mohammed is his messenger." 2. Salat - the prayer that is practiced five times a day. 3. Zakat - the monetary offering for the benefit of the poor. It comprises the 2.5% of a Muslim's assets. 4. Hajj - the yearly pilgrimage to Mecca. Muslims who can afford are asked to do the pilgrimage at least once in their lifetime. 5. Sawm - the fasting. Muslims do fasting from food, drink, and sexual act, during the celebration of Ramadan. Ramadan is the ninth month of the Islamic lunar calendar. The fast is from dawn to sunset. Two of the major festivals in Islam are Eidul-Fitr and Eidul-Adha. Eidul-Fitr is the celebration at the end of Ramadan, while Eidul-Adha is celebrated within the completion of the Pilgrimage, the Hajj. Judaism Beliefs - The Jews believe in the God of Abraham, the same God that liberated the Hebrew slaves from Egypt to Canaan, the Promised Land through the leadership of Moses and later, Joshua. Jews believe in the coming of Messiah, the Savior. The sacred scripture of the Jews is called the Torah or the Law. The Torah is the guide of the Jewish living. The study and interpretation of Torah is part of the Jewish culture. Custom and Practices Five major festivals observed by Jews: 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. Rosh Hashanah – New Year Yom Kippur – Day of Atonement Pesach – Passover Shavuot – Pentecost Sukkot – Tabernacles. The Jewish Sabbath begins on Friday evening at sunset and is an important time when families gather for the Shabbat meal. Religious beliefs, rituals, practices, and customs are all part of the expression of the spiritual self. What to believe and how to manifest the belief is entirely dependent on the individual, to the self. Religious beliefs and practices, therefore, are formed relative to its context and culture. Finding and Creating Meaning of Life Another extensive study of self can be found in the works of Dr. Viktor E. Frankl. The Viktor Frankl Institute in Vienna was created in 1992. Dr. Viktor E. Frankl was born on March 26, 1905 in Vienna, Australia where famous psychiatrists Sigmund Freud and Alfred Adler lived. At a young age, he wrote a short paper to Freud which was published after three years. He graduated with a medical degree from the University of Vienna in 1930. Was assigned in Vienna Hospital suicide ward and headed the Rothschild Hospital, eight years later. A survivor of the Holocaust, Dr. Frankl published a book about logotherapy. In 1959, the book was translated to English and was revised in 1963 as The Doctor and the Soul: An Introduction to Logotherapy. His book, Man’s Search for Meaning has been used as a textbook in high school and college courses. Dr. Frankl died in 1997. Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 Logotherapy Logotherapy is a psychotherapy introduced by Dr. Viktor Frankl, the Father of Logotherapy. Main belief of this is that “man’s primary motivational force is search for meaning.” Which aids individuals to find personal meaning of life, whatever life situation they may be. In logotherapy, meaning can be discovered by creating a work or doing a deed, experiencing something, or encountering someone and the attitude toward unavoidable suffering. According to the Viktor Frankl institute of Logotherapy, it uses the philosophy of optimism in the face of tragedy, where people are capable of “fuming suffering into human achievement and accomplishment; deriving from guilt the opportunity to change oneself for the better; and deriving from life’s transistorizes an incentive to take responsible action.” Basic Concepts of Franklin Psychology Life has meaning under all circumstances. Main motivation for living is our will to find meaning in life. Freedom to find meaning. Furthermore, it aims to: (1) become aware of spiritual resources, (2) make conscious spiritual resources, and (3) use “defiant power of the human spirit” and stand up against adversity. Logotherapy Assumptions All psychotherapies make philosophical assumptions about the human persons that cannot be proved with certainty. Viktor Frankl Institute of Logotherapy states the assumptions of logotherapy, which include the following: 1. The human being is an entity consisting of body, mind, and spirit. First assumption deals with body (soma), mind (psyche), and spirit (noos). 2. Life has meaning under all circumstances, even the most miserable. Assumption two is “ultimate meaning” 3. People have a will to meaning. The third assumption is seen as our main motivation for living and acting. 4. People have freedom under all circumstances to activate the will to find meaning. Assumption four is that we are free to activate our will to find meaning, and this can be done under any circumstances. 5. Life has a demand quality to which people must respond if decisions are to be meaningful. The meaning of the moment is more practical in daily living than ultimate meaning. 6. The individual is unique. Deals with one’s sense of meaning. Enhanced by the realization that we are irreplaceable. In essence, all humans are unique with an entity of body, mind, and spirit. We all go through unique situations and are constantly looking to find meaning. We are always free to do these in response to certain demands. Frankl’s Sources of Meaning Popova (2017) discussed Viktor Frankl’s work. There are three possible sources of the meaning of the purposeful work, courage in the face of difficulty, and love. 1. Purposeful Work. To find the meaning of life starts with holding a future goal. 2. Courage in the Face of Difficulty. A meaningful life is a life with suffering. Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 3. Love. Popova (2017) quoted Dr. Frankl’s notes about his experience in the Nazi Camp: “For hours I stood hacking at the icy ground. The guard passed by, insulting me, and once again, I communed with my beloved. More and more I felt that she was present, that she was with me; I had the feeling that I was able to touch her, able to stretch out my hand and grasp hers. The feeling was very strong: she was there. Then, at that very moment, a bird flew down silently and perched just in front of me, on the heap of soil which I had dug up from the ditch, and looked steadily at me” Dr. Frankl’s wife, parents, and some relatives were victims of gas chambers. His love for his wife kept him fight for his life. Popova (2017) also quoted Dr. Frankl’s definition of love: “Love is the only way to grasp another human being in the innermost core of his personality. No one can become fully aware of the very essence of another human being unless he loves him. by his love, he is enabled even more, he sees that which is potential in him. Furthermore, by his love, the loving person enables the beloved person to actualize these potentialities. By making him aware of what he can be and of what he should become, he makes these potentialities come true” Castello (2015) captured Frankl’s message: “The ultimate secret on the spiritual foundation of life is that love is salvation and joy eternity.” The ultimate factor to find the meaning of life is love. ACTIVITY IX Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 SUMMARY Spiritual self is one of the four constituents of the "self" according to William James in his book, The Principles of Psychology in 1890. The spiritual self is the most intimate, inner subjective part of self. It is the most intimate version of the self because of the satisfaction experienced when thinking of one's ability to argue and discriminate, of one's moral sensibility and conscience, and of our unconquerable will ( James 1890) is purer than all other sentiments of satisfaction(Green 1997). The ability to use moral sensibility and conscience may be seen through the expressions of religion, its beliefs, and practices. In the same manner, cultural rituals and ceremonies are some manifestations what people believe in. Moreover, seeking the meaning of life is a journey that the spiritual self is on. Rebecca Stein (Stein 2011) works on the definition of religion "as set of cultural beliefs and practices that usually includes some or all of basic characteristics. Ritual is the performance of ceremonial acts prescribed by a tradition or sacred law (Britannica 2017). There are different religions with different beliefs and practices. Some major world religions are Buddhism, Christianity, Hinduism, Islam, and Judaism. Excerpt of some religious beliefs and practices are found in the University of London’s Religion and Belief Guide 2017. Buddhism believes that life is not a bed of roses. Instead, there are suffering, pain, and frustrations. Christians believe in Trinitarian God. One God in three personas: God the Father (Creator), God the Son (Savior), and God the Holy - Spirit. Eternal life after death will be achieved through faith in Jesus Christ. Hinduism covers a wide range of traditional beliefs and religious groups; thus, there is no single founder or leader. Hindus believe that existence is a cycle of birth, death and rebirth, governed by Karma. Muslims believe in Allah, who is their "One God." They believed in the unity and universality of God. The Jews believe in the God of Abraham, the same God that liberated the Hebrew slaves from Egypt to Canaan, the Promised Land through the leadership of Moses and later, Joshua. Logotherapy is a psychotherapy introduced by Dr. Viktor Frankl, the Father of Logotherapy. Main belief of this is that “man’s primary motivational force is search for meaning.” Which aids individuals to find personal meaning of life, whatever life situation they may be. Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 POLITICAL SELF What makes a Filipino, a Filipino? We have all been asked this at one point. How did you answer? Are you a Filipino because of your physical characteristics, your language, or your birthplace? How do we separate the Filipino identity from cultural influences during the colonization era? INTRODUCTION ETHYMOLOGY AND DEFINITION POLITICS - The English word "politics" derives from the Greek word and the title of Aristotle's classic work politiká (Πολιτικά; affairs of the cities). It is defined as (1) the science of government; and (2) the activities of a political party. The word politics is a noun, while the word political is an adjective which pertains to governmental affairs or to politics. LESSON PROPER Simply, politics is a set of activities that are associated with making decisions in groups, or other forms of power relations between individuals. Filipino - The word Filipino has roots from the Spanish colonization, more specifically from “las Islas Filipinas” or "the Philippine Islands". Filipino means (1) a native or national of the Philippines, or a person of Filipino descent; and (2) the national language of the Philippines WHO IS A FILIPINO? The 1987 Constitution of the Philippines tells us who the citizens of the Philippines are. ▪ According to the Constitution, Filipino citizens are: (1) Those who are citizens of the Philippines at the time of the adoption of this Constitution; (2) Those whose fathers or mothers are citizens of the Philippines; (3) Those born before January 17, 1973, of Filipino mothers, who elect Philippine citizenship upon reaching the age of majority; and (4) Those who are naturalized in accordance with law. To understand that better, let’s look at the modes of acquiring Philippine citizenship. ▪ There are two (2) generally recognized forms of acquiring Philippine citizenship: 1. Filipino by birth a. Jus soli (right of soil) which is the legal principle that a person’s nationality at birth is determined by the place of birth (e.g. the territory of a given state) Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 b. Jus sanguinis (right of blood) which is the legal principle that, at birth, an individual acquires the nationality of his/her natural parent/s. The Philippine adheres to this principle. 2. Filipino by naturalization which is the judicial act of adopting a foreigner and clothing him with the privileges of a native-born citizen. It implies the renunciation of a former nationality and the fact of entrance into a similar relation towards a new body politic (2Am.Jur.561, par.188). However, citizenship is not the only element we need to consider in identifying who a Filipino is. ▪ History, culture, traits, and values are also part of what makes one a Filipino. FILIPINO TRAITS AND VALUES Any geographical unit has common traits and values. For Filipinos, the following are what we are most known for (some of them are positive traits, while some are negative traits, can you tell which is which?): 1. The Filipino Hospitality A true trademark of Filipinos It involves; ▪ welcoming guests and tourists as if they are blood related ▪ making their guests “feel at home” ▪ bringing out their best sets of plates and utensils for honored guests and would even go as far as spending a lot of money and going into debt. 2. Respect for Elders Filipinos greet and address their elders in distinct ways to show respect. ▪ Mano culture, po at opo ▪ Ate for older sister, Kuya for older brother, Tito for uncle, Tita for aunt, Lola for grandmother and Lolo for grandfather, Manong and Aling for older people outside the family. 3. Respect for Elders Filipinos greet and address their elders in distinct ways to show respect. ▪ Mano culture, po at opo ▪ Ate for older sister, Kuya for older brother, Tito for uncle, Tita for aunt, Lola for grandmother and Lolo for grandfather, Manong and Aling for older people outside the family. 4. Cheerful Personality (Joy and Humor) Filipinos have cheerful and fun-loving approach to life. We have a pleasant, happy disposition. ▪ Contributes not only to Filipino charm, but also to the indomitability of spirit. - It has been said that smiling is a coping strategy for many Filipinos especially during trying times and calamities. - Filipinos always try to maintain a positive outlook in life which makes them resilient. Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 5. Self-Sacrifice • the giving up of one's own interests or wishes in order to help others • Filipinos often wish comfort and better lives for their loved ones and would even go to the extent of working abroad hundreds of miles away to earn more money and save up for them (OFW). 6. Bayanihan • Derived from the word Bayan which means town, nation, or a community in general. • Bayanihan literally means “being a bayan” and is thus used to refer to the spirit of communal unity and cooperation of Filipinos. • A traditional system of mutual assistance in which the members of a community work together to accomplish a difficult task. In later use also: a spirit of civic unity and cooperation among Filipinos. • Usually observed during calamities, but best exemplified by the old tradition of neighbors helping to relocate a family by carrying the whole house (bahay kubo). 7. “Bahala Na” Culture • “Bahala na” is the Filipino version of the famous line “Hakuna Matata” meaning no worries. • The phrase is said to have originated from “Bathala na,” where Bathala means God. 8. Colonial Mentality • Colonial mentality is regarded as the lack of patriotism and the attitude where Filipinos favor foreign products more than their own. o It does not only concern goods, but also the desire to look more foreign than local and keep up with foreign beauty trends. • Attributed from the centuries of colonization Filipinos had experienced under the Spanish, American, and Japanese rule. 9. Manana Habit • Filipino term for procrastination. • Derived from longer Filipino phrase “Mamaya na”. • Poor habit of laziness that results in heavier workloads 10. Ningas Kugon “Ningas” is a Filipino term for flame and “kugon” is a term for Cogon grass that easily burns out after it is put into flames. Refers to the attitude of eagerly starting things but quickly losing eagerness soon after experiencing difficulty, just like how fast fire burns Cogon grass. 11. Pride A high or inordinate opinion of one's own dignity, importance, merit, or superiority, whether as cherished in the mind or as displayed in bearing, conduct, etc. Filipinos are known for being prideful (e.g. holding on to their pride as if they are more precious than keeping a good relationship with family and loved ones) Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 A lot of Filipinos find it hard to apologize first. 12. Crab Mentality Resents the achievement of another, instead of feeling happy for that person. ▪ Just like crabs in a container, they pull each other down and ruin each other’s reputation rather than bringing them up, resulting to no progress. 13. Filipino Time Arriving late at commitments, class, dinner or parties especially if they are meeting someone close to them. FILIPINO MAKERS - The hallmarks of being a Filipino, a constant reminder of our nationality. 1. Proverbs or Salawikain These are sayings that convey lesson and reflections on Filipino practices, beliefs and traditions. ▪ An example of a Filipino proverb are the sayings “Kung may tiyaga, may nilaga” and “Kung ano ang itinanim, siyang aanihin”. 2. Superstitions A belief or notion, not based on reason or knowledge, in or of the ominous significance of a particular thing, circumstance, occurrence, proceeding, or the like. Some of Filipino superstitions are passed down from generation to generation. ▪ Some of these maybe influenced by beliefs from other cultures but Filipinos have retold these superstitions according to their own experiences. ▪ Some examples are: - Serve pancit (noodles) at birthdays - believed to represent long life. - Referred to as either “usog” or “bati”, this superstition says that when a person with strong energy greets a child, the child may soon after suffering from unexplainable discomfort. 2. Myths and Legends These stories are aimed to explain the origin of things, at the same time, teach a valuable lesson. Alamat ng Pinya is one example of myth. 3. Heroes and Icons Heroes serve as a reminder of true patriotism and nationalism as they have sacrificed their lives for the sake of their country’s freedom and progress. Icons have made the Filipinos known worldwide through their abilities and expertise. Now that you have a more concrete sense of who you are as a Filipino, let us talk about the politics side of things. The political self is shaped and enhanced through active citizenship. Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 THE POLITICAL SELF AND DEVELOPING ACTIVE CITIZENSHIP Politics function based on a particular social economic and cultural context. The nature of politics and political systems is dependent on the culture of the state. ▪ Political claims made by any person are influenced by their geographical location and ideology (i.e. Being a Filipino Citizen living in the Philippines influences your political claims). ▪ Politics is concerned with power. Power inequalities can be observed within societies. The one who holds power holds influence. Politics goes hand in hand with the society. ▪ Politics pervades the structure of society, and thus influences inhabitants in their beliefs, ethics, and behavior. Political Identity ▪ Identity is the story that we tell ourselves and others about who we are, who we were, and who we foresee ourselves to be. Identity shapes many of aspects of life, from how we see the world to how we behave. ▪ The concept of a political identity can best be understood as an inner narrative of one’s political self. - Orientation of political self o National identity o Various forms of specific knowledge, feelings, beliefs about political institutions o More transient views about specific policies, issues, programs, personalities and events ▪ Much of the literature on identity admits that a political identity is a vague concept inherently difficult to measure (Valde 1996). As members of the society, people are naturally obligated to participate in a political system. ▪ As Aristotle stated, “Man is, by nature, a political animal.” This is because man is a social being and are naturally drawn to various political involvements in order to satisfy their social needs. ▪ The political self is not only shaped by one’s political affiliation or beliefs. One’s sense of accountability should be manifested in promoting certain advocacies through healthy political engagement. This is aligned with the concept of active citizenship. - Active citizenship refers to the structured forms of engagement with political processes and everyday forms of participation in society. - It is also defined as the process of sharing decisions which affect one’s life and the life of a community in which one lives. Participation is the fundamental right of citizenship. - Active citizenship is anchored on one’s cognitive and behavioral engagement to participate in formal and informal political activities. - Different people manifest different levels of active citizenship; some they take a more active approach in making their voices heard, while some, less so. Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 - - - Active citizenship is a practice of democracy. o Democracy should not only be thought of as a form of government. It is a communal system that allows freedom of citizens to make informed choices that allow them to be heard. Active citizenship is a social construct. o It fosters social relatedness and belongingness. The most important goal of active citizenship is to instill change and influence society at large. Active citizenship is also associated with the “sense of community.” o People, including adolescents, participate in communal activities because it gives a sense of belonging in a particular group. For the younger generation, active citizenship can contribute to their social development. o Engaging in such activities can also enhance efficacy and competence of the younger generation, as they are considered to be the “future leaders” of the society. o The participation of the youth in nation-building activities enhances their value orientation and fosters integrity, compassion, and the sense of justice, which are crucial to the holistic development of a citizen of a nation. o The participation of the youth in political discourse and social activities can result in cultural and political paradigm shifts that may be felt even by future generations. HOW TO BE A GOOD FILIPINO Be an active and responsible Filipino citizen. ▪ Keep abreast of current events and participate in government programs aimed at the country’s progress and development. ▪ Exercise your right to vote; choose a representative that would serve the interests of the people and the Filipino nation. ▪ Exercise your rights responsibly and with due regard for the rights of others. ▪ Uphold the Constitution and obey the laws. Study the Philippine history. ▪ By learning the Philippine history, you will hopefully develop a sense of nationalism and patriotism. ▪ This will help you recognize abuse of political power, and how to contribute into making a better country. ▪ This will put you in perspective, not to take for granted the sacrifices of our ancestors. Support local products. ▪ Help strengthen the local economy. ▪ A strong economy means there is stable work for more Filipinos, and more investments within and from outside the country. Speak the Filipino language. Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 ▪ To love of our own language is to show pride at being a Filipino, it is a way of displaying love for one’s own country. Do not spread fake news and be democratic in engaging with dissent. ▪ Verify your resources, be responsible in your postings and arguments. Remember that you also have the duty to be a role model to the younger generations. Do not litter. Dispose of your garbage properly. Segregate. Recycle. Conserve. ▪ Take care of our home, the land that feeds us and sustains us. There are other ways and other things you can do, to be a good Filipino, but remember first and foremost your duty as a human, and that is to be respectful and kind, not just to your fellow Filipinos, but to your fellow humans. SUMMARY ✓ The whole Filipino identity does not only include cultural traits and values, but also active citizen participation and is influenced by political identity. ✓ Politics function based on a particular social economic and cultural context. The nature of politics and political systems is dependent on the culture of the state. Active citizenship, on the other hand, refers to the structured forms of engagement with political processes and everyday forms of participation in society. ✓ The Filipino value system or Filipino values refers to the set of values that a majority of the Filipino have historically held important in their lives. ✓ There are many ways you can do to be a “good Filipino”, but the best one is by being an active and responsible citizen. Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 DIGI T AL SEL F The Internet has been a big part of our lives especially in this generation. We use it for various purposes such as entertainment, communication, business, and academic matters. It is indeed of great help for almost every one of us. On the other hand, it has also affected our behavior and identity online and offline. INTRODUCTION LESSON PROPER DIGITAL SELF More than half of the worldwide population uses the Internet and it continues to increase. 25 years ago, Tim Berners-Lee made the World Wide Web. The Philippines is among one of the countries with the most active Internet users. Figure 1: An example of a Global Digital Snapshot in 2020 More people are becoming interested and devoted on online activities. In a survey in the Philippines (2016), the most avid users of the Internet are adolescents. Figure 2: Time Spent in using Social Media by Country Among the Filipino youth, the use of digital technology has now become part of the self— the digital self. The digital self is the aspect of the self that is expressed with others through online interactions on the internet, specifically in social networking sites. On such sites, users normally disclose personal information such as their name, age, birthdate, address, and contact details. Some users also provide very personal information about themselves such as their likes, dislikes, hobbies, favorite food, favorite movies, places they have visited, relationship status, thoughts, feelings, and important events in their lives. This sharing of personal information on social networking sites may be related to the strong desire of adolescents for social approval and acceptance. Similar can be said about adults. I. SELF-PRESENTATION & IMPRESSION MANAGEMENT Self-presentation is the process of controlling how one is perceived by other people. To construct positive images, individuals selectively provide information about them and carefully cater this information in response to other’s feedback. Personal identity is the interpersonal level Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 of self which differentiates the individual as unique from others, while social identity is the level of self whereby the individual is identified by his or her group memberships. Digital devices help us share information broadly, more than ever before. Facebook and other social media applications are now a key part of self-presentation for about 49% of humanity. As a result, researchers become concerned with actively managing identity & reputation. In addition, they also warn against the phenomenon of “oversharing.” Sometimes, people become unaware of the extent of information they share online. They forget to delineate what can be shared online and what should not. Furthermore, it provides a more complete narration of self and gives people an idealized view of how they would like to be remembered by others. One of the reasons for so much self-disclosure online is the so-called disinhibition effect. The lack of face-to-face meetings, together with feelings of anonymity & invisibility, gives people the freedom for self-disclosure but can also “flame” others and may sometimes cause conflict. The resulting disinhibition causes people to believe that they are able to express their “true self” better online than they ever could in face-to-face contexts. However, it does not mean that there is a fixed “true self.” The self is still a work in progress and we keep on improving & developing ourselves every single day. Self-revelation can be therapeutic to others especially if it goes together with selfreflection. But it does appear that we now do a large amount of our identity work online. When the internet constantly asks us: “Who are you?” and “What do you have to share?” it is up to us if we are going to provide answers to such queries every time we use the internet and to what extent we are going to share details of ourselves to others. In addition to sharing the good things we experience, many of us also share the bad, negative, and “sinful” things we experience. We also comment and react on the negative experiences of others. Sometimes, we empathize with people but we also argue with others online. Relationships may be made stronger or broken through posts online. Consequently, we should have a filtering system to whatever information we share online, as well as to what information we believe in, which are being shared or posted by others online. We should look at online information carefully whether they are valid and true before believing and promoting them. In the same way, we should also think well before we post or share anything online in order to prevent conflicts, arguments, and cyberbullying thus preserving our relationship with others. II. ONLINE GUIDELINES ✓ Stick to safer websites ✓ Guard your passwords ✓ Limit what you share ✓ Remember that anything you put online is there forever, even if you try to delete it ✓ Do not embarrass or be mean with other people online ✓ Always tell if you see strange or bad behavior online ✓ Be choosy about your online friends ✓ Be patient III. DATA PRIVACY ACT To protect the people from invasion of privacy, Republic Act 10173, otherwise known as the Data Privacy Act of 2012 was passed in the Philippines. The act states that: It is the policy of the State to protect the fundamental human right of privacy, of communication while ensuring free flow of information to promote innovation and growth. The State recognizes the vital role of information and communication technology in nationbuilding and its inherent obligation to ensure that personal information in information and communication systems in the government and in the private sector are secured and protected. Personal information in this context refers to any information, whether recorded Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 in a material form or not, from which the identity of an individual is apparent or can be reasonably and directly ascertained by the entity holding the information, or when put together with other information would directly and certainly identify an individual. SUMMARY ✓ The digital self is the aspect of the self that is expressed with others through online interactions on the internet, specifically in social networking sites. ✓ The Philippines has the fastest growing internet population in Southeast Asia. ✓ Self-presentation is the process of controlling how one is perceived by other people. ✓ Personal identity is the interpersonal level of self which differentiates the individual as unique from others. ✓ Social identity is the level of self whereby the individual is identified by his or her group memberships. ✓ The disinhibition effect causes people to believe that they are able to express their “true self” better online than they ever could in face-to-face contexts. ✓ Republic Act 10173, otherwise known as the Data Privacy Act of 2012, protects people from invasion of their privacy. Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 MANAGING AND CARING FOR THE SELF LEARNING OUTCOMES: At the end of this section, you are expected to: 1. Understand the theoretical underpinnings for how to manage and care for different aspects of the self 2. Acquire and hone new skills and learnings for better managing of one's self and behaviors 3. Apply these new skills to one's self and functioning for a better quality of life. LEARNING TO BE A BETTER STUDENT Some people say, learning is a never-ending journey, that we have to constantly instill knowledge and wisdom in order for us to grow, reach our fullest potential and to overcome life’s challenges. INTRODUCTION Learning should not just mean studying for your quizzes and exams in school. Learning could also occur outside the confines of a book or classroom, like when you want to acquire a new move in your favorite sport, or the skills for a certain hobby, among others. Furthermore, the techniques here are not the only techniques available and months or years from now, new ways on how to study better will be discovered or rediscovered. What is important at this moment is that you learn these things. (Eden Alata, et.al, 2018) Metacognition is commonly defined as “thinking about thinking” (Livingston, 1997; Papaleontiou- Louca 2003). It is the awareness of the scope and limitations of your current knowledge and skills (Meichenbaum, 1995 in American Institutes for Research 2010). Due to this awareness, metacognition enables the person to adapt their existing knowledge and skills to approach a learning task, seeking for the optimum result of the learning experience (American Institutes for Research 2010). LESSON PROPER Metacognition is also not limited to the thinking process of the individual. It also includes keeping one’s emotions and motivations while learning in check (Papaleontiou-Louca, 2003). Some people learn better when they like the subject, some when they are challenged by the topic, and others if they have a reward system each time they finish a task. The emotional state and the motivation of a person then should be in the preferred ideal state for that person in order to further facilitate his or her learning. (Alata, E. 2018) Metacognition basically has two aspects: 1. self-appraisal and; 2. self-management of cognition. Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 Self-appraisal is your personal reflection on your knowledge and capabilities while selfmanagement is the mental process you employ using what you have in planning and adapting to successfully learn or accomplish a certain task (Paris and Winnograd, 1990 in PapaleontiouLouca, 2003). Metacognition allows people to take charge of their own learning. It involves awareness of how they learn, an evaluation of their learning needs, generating strategies to meet these needs and then implementing strategies (Hacker, 2009) According to Waterloo Student Success Office, the following are skills that can help you in exercising metacognition: 1. Knowing your limits. Knowing your limits also looks at the scope and limitations of your resources so that you can work with what you have at the moment and look for ways to cope with other necessities. 2. Modifying your approach. It begins with the recognition that your strategy is not appropriate with the task and/or that you do not comprehend the learning experience successfully. For example, you are not able to understand what you are reading, you should learn to modify your strategy in comprehending your material. You might wat to read and reread a page in five-minute intervals instead of trying to finish the material in one sitting. 3. Skimming. This is basically browsing over a material and keeping an eye on keywords, phrases, or sentences. It is also about knowing where to search for such key terms. 4. Rehearsing. This is not just about repeatedly talking, writing, and/ or doing what you have learned, but also trying to make a personal interpretation or summary of the learning experience. 5. Self-test. This is trying to test your comprehension of your learning experience or the skills you have acquired during learning. For example, you can make an essay questions or definition of terms test while you are reading or watching a material. Other strategies that you need to develop include asking questions about methods, self-reflection, finding a mentor or support group if necessary, thinking out loud (though you have to be considerate of others also when doing this), and welcoming errors as learning experience. Queensland University of Technology Library, identified other guidelines or techniques that you can use in studying. 1. Make an outline of the things you want to learn, the things you are reading or doing, and/ or the things you remember. 2. Break down the task in smaller and more manageable details. 3. Integrate variation in your schedule and learning experience. Change reading material every hour and do not put similar topics together. Also include physical activities in your planning. 4. Try to incubate your ideas. First, write your draft without doing much editing. Let the ideas flow. Then leave your draft at least overnight or around 24 hours— some even don’t look at it for a week—and do something else. After a given period, go back to your draft and you might find a fresh perspective about it. Sometimes, during incubation, you suddenly have ideas coming to you. 5. Revise, summarize and take down notes, then reread them to help you minimize cramming in the last minute, especially when you have a weakness in memorizing facts and data. Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 6. Engage what you have learned. Do something about it. On a reading material for example, highlight keywords and phrases, write your opinions about the matter on a separate notebook, or create a diagram or concept map. Some people also learn best by copying the key paragraphs word for word. You may want to look for other definitions and compare or contrast materials. In summary, metacognitive strategies are methods used to help students know and understand the way they can acquire and process knowledge or in simplest term, it means processes intended for learners to “think about their “thinking”. ACTIVITY XII (5) . SUMMARY ✓ Metacognition is commonly defined as “thinking about thinking”. ✓ Metacognition allows people to take charge of their own learning. It involves awareness of how they learn, an evaluation of their learning needs, generating strategies to meet these needs and then implementing strategies (Hacker, 2009) ✓ According to Waterloo Student Success Office, the following are skills that can help you in exercising metacognition: 1. Know your limits, 2. Modifying your approach, 3. Skimming, 4. Rehearsing. 5. Self-Test ✓ Queensland University of Technology Library, identified other guidelines or techniques that you can use in studying. o Make an outline of the things you want to learn. o Breakdown the task in smaller and more manageable details. o Integrate variation in your schedule and learning experience. o Try to incubate your ideas. o Revise, summarize, and take down notes then reread. o Engage what you have learned and do something about it. Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 SETTING GOALS FOR SUCCESS Through this chapter, you would gain knowledge on new skills and learnings for better managing of one’s self and behavior. INTRODUCTION After working on this chapter, you should be able to do the following: Identify the importance of goal Understand the concept of Bandura’s Self efficacy and Dweck’s Mindset Learn Locke’s goal setting theory LESSON PROPER People at some point in their life feel as if they're adrift in the world. They work hard, but they don't seem to get anywhere worthwhile. A reason that they feel this way is that they haven't spent enough time thinking about what they want from life, and haven't set themselves formal goals. It is like having a major journey with no real idea of your destination? This would be hard and time consuming isn’t it? A renowned psychologist in the name of Albert Bandura, made a significate contribution to all branches of Psychology. One of this is Social Cognitive Theory which is a fundamental part of positive psychology, and a part of the social learning theory is the Self-Efficacy Theory. What is Self-Efficacy Theory Self-Efficacy Theory is commonly defined as the belief in one’s capabilities to achieve a goal or an outcome. It is the ability to influence events that affect one’s life and control the way these events are experienced (Bandura,1994) Students with high self-efficacy enjoy challenges and endure failure and can recover quickly with setbacks, whereas students with low self-efficacy are more likely to avoid difficult tasks and have low commitment to goals that may result to poor academic performance. Students with higher self-efficacy set higher goals and expend more effort towards their achievement. Theoretical Constructs Bandura recognized four prominent sources of self-efficacy and asserted that it is by the interplay of these factors that we grow significant belief or disbelief in ourselves. Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 Mastery Experiences Success has an on-point impact on the way we think about ourselves. Achieving in a task boosts confidence and increases the likelihood of attaining similar tasks again. We gain a sense of ‘mastery’ over it. Failure, on the other hand, does just the opposite. It breaks our confidence and leaves us in self-doubt. (Chowdhury, 2020) Building efficacy through selfmastery requires resilience to manage expectations about success and accept failure positively. People who succeed after overcoming the obstacles and recuperating from the breakdown have a strong sense of self-belief efficacy. A good example of this is workshops, seminars, on-the job training or apprenticeship these help us hone the skills we needed and be proficient to increase self-efficacy. Vicarious Experiences Another factor of efficacy roots from observing the success and failures of others around us, especially people who we can relate to. Similarity to others is a cue for gauging one’s selfefficacy (Schunck,1995), people we follow, admire, and want to replicate their actions, principles, and achievements indirectly teach and persuade us to repeat the same. We are more willing to put in efforts and work in the direction that they show us. Watching similar people succeed or hearing their success stories motivate us, however watching them fail threatens the self-efficacy. Verbal/ Social Persuasion When people are persuaded verbally that they can achieve or master a task, they are more likely to do a task. A study done by (Gonzales et.al, 2009) suggest that coaching has an impact on the athletes will to win the game. To boost their mood to be in it to win it. Emotional and Physical Experiences Our present mental and physical states influence self-efficacy to a great extent. Having feeling of tension, anxiety and weariness can lower our self-efficacy. Negative experiences and stress make us vulnerable whereas positive experiences and happiness make us feel good about ourselves. Bandura (1977) said that the cues that we receive from our mind and body at any given moment and the way we perceive these cues shape our sense of self. Carol S. Dweck, a psychologist on the faculty at Stanford University, proposed mindset theory as a way to understand the effects of the beliefs that individuals hold for the nature of intelligence. This in turn has implications for learning and education. Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 Mindset Theory: Fixed vs Growth Dweck proposed that the implicit theories that people hold for the nature and causes of intelligence have a number of implications, particularly for motivation to practice and learn. “Mindset” is a term used by Dweck to explain the assumptions, methods, or notations held by one or more people or group of people. It represents the cognitive processes activated in response to a given task. Fixed Mindset (before termed as entity mindset) is an innate or in-born personality of a person, who you are or how God made you on the other hand Growth Mindset (or the incremental mindset), where people believe that training and effort to learn can change one’s qualities and traits. Individuals with a fixed mindset tend to be interested only in feedback on their success in activities to the degree that it serves to evaluate their underlying ability. They are not using the feedback to learn, since they do not believe that their success depends on their effort to learn. Rather, they believe that success depends on the level of innate ability that they have. Therefore, they dread failure, because it suggests constraints or limits that they will not be able to overcome. A growth mindset, on the other hand, attributes success to learning. Therefore, the individual is not terrified of failure, because it only signals the need to pay attention, invest effort, apply time to practice, and master the new learning opportunity. They are confident that after such effort they will be able to learn the skill or knowledge, and then to improve their performance. GOAL SETTING THEORY Most people would probably agree that goal setting is one of the main ingredients for a person to succeed. Dr. Edwin Lock pioneers a research in 1960s about setting goals. His theory was inductively developed within industrial/work setting much from where the SMART goal oriented, he collaborated with Dr. Gary Lantham to a seminal work “A Theory of Goal Setting and Task Performance”. Goal Setting Theory states that there is a relationship between how difficult and specific a goal was and the people’s performance task. He found that specific and difficult goals led to better task performance than vague or easy goals. Five Principles of Goal Setting 1. Clarity. A goal must be specific and clear. 2. Challenge. An easy or tedious goal is demotivating. But keep a realistic balance: don’t expect anyone on your team to spin straw into gold. 3. Commitment. Your employees have to understand and buy in to the goal from the outset. 4. Feedback. Provide regular feedback throughout the whole process. This helps to keep the goal on track. 5. Task complexity. Think about realistic timescales and break down the process into subgoals with regular reviews Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 SUMMARY ✓ Self-Efficacy Theory is commonly defined as the belief in one’s capabilities to achieve a goal or an outcome. It is the ability to influence events that affect one’s life and control the way these events are experienced (Bandura,1994). ✓ Bandura recognized four prominent sources of self-efficacy and asserted that it is by the interplay of these factors that we grow significant belief or disbelief in ourselves. ✓ Dweck proposed that the implicit theories that people hold for the nature and causes of intelligence have a number of implications, particularly for motivation to practice and learn. “Mindset” is a term used by Dweck to explain the assumptions, methods, or notations held by one or more people or group of people. It represents the cognitive processes activated in response to a given task. ✓ Fixed Mindset (before termed as entity mindset) is an innate or in-born personality of a person, who you are or how God made you on the other hand Growth Mindset (or the incremental mindset), where people believe that training and effort to learn can change one’s qualities and traits. ✓ Goal Setting Theory states that there is a relationship between how difficult and specific a goal was and the people’s performance task. He found that specific and difficult goals led to better task performance than vague or easy goals. Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 TAKING CHARGE OF ONE’S HEALTH In the previous lessons, you were taught on understanding yourself by examining different areas such as how you think, where your principles (moral and political) are anchored on, exploring your physical being and the physiological aspects of it. Also, you were able to know what are the material things that can be associated with one’s self, same with what self you present in your digital world and the technology’s impact to you. INTRODUCTION After all these topics previously discussed, you are now at the last unit wherein you will be putting the pieces back together and focus on taking charge on your self holistically. Understanding one’s self is not enough, the essence of it comes to the part where you take charge and take care of yourself. In, totality, all of which is part of understanding one’s self plays a big part on one’s health. People at some point in their life feel as if they're adrift in the world. They work hard, but they don't seem to get anywhere worthwhile SELF-CARE: TAKING CHARGE LESSON PROPER Self-care is defined as engaging in activities and behaviors that have a positive effect on one’s mental and physical health (Greene, 2017). In an article by Davis (2018) about ways to take better care of yourself she mentioned the importance of taking good care of your body, mind, and soul every day, not just when one gets sick. Learning how to eat right, reduce stress, exercise regularly, and take a time-out when you need it are touchstones of self-care and can help you stay healthy, happy, and resilient. Why Do We Often Fail at Self-Care? Practicing self-care isn’t always easy. Most of us are crazy busy, have stressful jobs, or are too consumed with technology to make time for ourselves. Me-time is usually last on the agenda. Worse, we can sometimes feel guilty about taking the time required to take care of ourselves. So getting started with self-care can be challenging. How Do You Engage in Self-Care? Fortunately, there are many things you can do to engage in self-care. To start, go to the link provided on the list of references and take the quiz to know about your well-being. (refer to Assessment part of this unit) Self-care is vital for building resilience toward those stressors in life that you can’t eliminate. When you’ve taken steps to care for you mind and body, you’ll better equipped to live your best life (Scott, 2020). She has come up with five domains wherein one can look into and make sure that it is being attended to to be able to make sure one is taking charge of one’s health. Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 5 DOMAINS TO ENSURE SELF-CARE (Scott, 2020) 1. Physical Self-Care Taking care of your physical health is very important for you to function well. There is a strong connection between your body and your mind. When you are physically feeling better, your mind will function better too. Physical self-care includes eating healthy, having some physical activities, grooming and minding some physical health issues that may need medical attention. Self-assessment: What do you do to make sleep part of a self-care routine? Start by thinking about your nightly routine. Are you eating or drinking immediately before bed? Are you getting adequate rest or sleep? Is your diet balanced with proper nutrients? Are you taking charge of your health? Do you manage to get some physical activities for your body? 2. Social Self-Care Socialization is key to self-care. Close connections are important to your well-being. The best way to cultivate and maintain close relationships is to put time and energy into building relationships with others Everyone has different social needs. The key is to figure out what social needs you prefer and how to make time for it. Self-assessment: Are you getting enough face-to-face time with friends? What are the things you do to nurture your relationships with your friends and family? Can you Identify persons whom you feel comfortable with and makes you feel good about yourself? 3. Mental Self-Care The way you think and the things that you're filling your mind with greatly influence your psychological well-being. Mental self-care includes doing things that keep your mind sharp, like puzzles, or learning about a subject that fascinates you. You might find reading books or watching movies that inspire you fuels your mind. Mental self-care also involves doing things that help you stay mentally healthy. Practicing self-compassion and acceptance, for example, helps you maintain a healthier inner dialogue. Self-assessment: Are you making enough time for activities that mentally stimulate you? Are you doing proactive things to help you stay mentally healthy? Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 Do you have a list of materials that stimulates your mind? 4. Spiritual Self-Care Research shows that a lifestyle including religion or spirituality is generally a healthier lifestyle. Nurturing your spirit, however, doesn't have to involve religion. It can involve anything that helps you develop a deeper sense of meaning, understanding, or connection with the universe. Whether you enjoy meditation, attending a religious service, or praying, spiritual selfcare is important. Self-assessment: What questions do you ask yourself about your life and experience? Are you engaging in spiritual practices that you find fulfilling? How do you express your spiritual belief? 5. Emotional Self-Care It's important to have healthy coping skills to deal with uncomfortable emotions, like anger, anxiety, and sadness. Emotional self-care may include activities that help you acknowledge and express your feelings on a regular basis. Whether you talk to a partner or close friend about how you feel, or you set aside time for leisure activities that help you process your emotions, it's important to incorporate emotional self-care into your life. Self-assessment: Can you recognise emotions you experience daily? Do you have healthy ways to process and manage your emotions? Do you incorporate activities into your life that help you feel recharged? ACTIVITY XIV Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 Taking charge of your self: From the previous lessons, write down concrete ways on how you (will) take charge on the different areas of Self. 1. Physical Self 2. Sexual Self 3. Material/Economic Self 4. Spiritual Self 5. Political Self 6. Digital Self ASSESSMENT XIV Create your Commitment to Take Charge of your SELF: SUMMARY Why Self-care is necessary? ✓ ✓ ✓ ✓ It increases sense of self-love, allowing appreciation and acceptance of who a person is It promotes feelings of calm and relaxation, serving as a way to refocus and come back to daily life refreshed and ready to take on anything It improves both physical and mental health by reducing the effects of prolonged stress on mind and body Taking charge of one’s health, you have to make sure that the 5 domains are being attended to and they are physical, social, mental, spiritual and emotional. Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 FINAL ASSESSMENT Name: Course: Year and Section: Story of Amanda Taylor I’m a mixed chick born and raised in Gainesville, Florida. No one ever thought I’d be anything, no one graduated high school in my family. My mother worked at Taco Bell and my father fled the country on criminal charges when I was three. I grew up in an abusive home with my two younger brothers. By 12th grade, I had been raped, molested, abused, homeless and hungry. I remember every detail of my childhood very vividly, every man my mother brought to the house, every one she left us for, and the one who tried to drown my brother in the bathtub while she ran to the store. I remember living in a trailer with no electricity, a tarp for a wall and a piece of plywood where the floor was supposed to be. I remember moving every single year from one project to another. I remember seeing so much violence as a child that I became desensitized to it. It was just a part of life. I remember being homeless, walking miles as a child, bus after bus with my bothers, just to get to the free food lines. I remember waiting in the food stamp line for what seemed like forever just so my mother could hand us all a brown food stamp dollar to spend at the ice cream truck. I remember sneaking out of my window at night just so I could sleep in a quiet place, so I wouldn’t be tired the next day at school. I don’t know what it means to be broken or weak because growing up, survival meant I had to be strong and vigilant. They told me to drop out of school when I was 15 to learn a trade, but I didn’t. I was the first person in my family to graduate high school. Until I was accepted into the University of Florida, the teachers, the career counselor and my mother told me that I wouldn’t. They said I couldn’t be a doctor, so I said, “watch me!” I feel at home in the struggle, it motivates me like nothing else. From the mud I was formed and out of the mud I grew. I lost my best friend in 2010, I’ve been divorced twice now at 32, and I am a single parent with two toddler boys. My story isn’t sad, it’s real. This is real life! Nothing sugar coated about it just like me. I don’t need your validation. I’m not swayed by your opinion. I know who I am and the value that I possess. Every struggle that I have endured I’ve strategically mapped out so that I can share it with you. My father from Kingston and my mother from New York both grew up in poverty as I did. So, what did I become? What I always was buried deep beneath the mud. A diamond, too tough to break, too beautiful to ignore. Love — I became love — unconditional, unwavering, strong and pure. Downloaded by Carl Darcy (mrcarldarcylol@gmail.com) lOMoARcPSD|15928116 I’ve been through hell a time or two, but your hell doesn’t scare me. I am never blind. I know where I am going, and I know why when it’s dark or when there’s light. At the top of the St. George Museum on the 14th of July, I looked over the skyline in Paris, France, that little mixed girl from the hood who they said would be nothing more. One thing I am is free because I love who I am and what I am meant to be. Life isn’t always pretty, but if you keep going with purpose you will see more. I did graduate from UF, learned French, saw Paris. I graduated with my master’s degree to help people cultivate hope when they feel like giving up. I’ve faced eviction, I’ve had my things repossessed, I’ve been incarcerated without just cause, I’ve been homeless with the anger and heartache of knowing I couldn’t provide basic necessities for my children. Yet, I ask for nothing from no one because my faith is that God has a plan for me and moves people as he sees. So even as my partner put his hands on me, lied to me, cheated on me, stole from me and tried every which way to sabotage me, I still made it. Three years into my PhD, I stand here. I’ve learned a whole new career and became a mother times two. None of these are small feats. So, what I want you to learn from who I am is how powerful it is to know you who you are and what you stand for regardless of anyone else. Who do you want to be? “I am not what happened to me, I am what I choose to become” - Carl Jung Questions to ponder: 1. Give as many descriptions as you can about the personality of Amanda. 2. Which sentences in her story do you like best? Cite your reasons why you like them? 3. In Amanda’s experience in pain, how would you relate yourself dealing with your own pain? 4. Identify at least 3 unpacking the self, happened with Amanda. 5. What characteristics do you think Amanda made when she set her free from her own pain? 6. What seems to be the life goal of Amanda? 7. What do you believe to be the factors that enabled Amanda to achieve her goal? 8. If you were Amanda, how would you see yourself surviving? Are there things Amanda has done which you also have also done? 9. Create a plan on how you will improve your mental health. 10. Create a commitment plan where, when and who will be involved in your plan to boost your mental health. 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