WOMEN EMPOWERMENT MHAYLANI O. OTANES-FLORES NAGGING POINTS: “WOMEN in POWER” “So, if it is about power, authority, and positions of leadership, why are we still talking about this? NAGGING POINTS: “EVERYTHING a man can do, a woman can too, or even do it better.” – Ultra-feminism NAGGING POINTS: “Women can entirely be able to live without MEN” “Transformation in the modern world” EQUALITY VS CHIVALRY? “Men and women can never be equals because women have always been superior to men” – Genius of 20th Century WOMEN EMPOWERMENT should focus on what we really WANT.. 1. EQUITY = EQUAL OPPORTUNITY 2. RESPECT 3. APPRECIATION “We do not need EQUAL ROLES, what we need is EQUAL OPPORTUNITY”. A feeling of deep admiration for someone or something elicited by their abilities, qualities, or achievements EMPOWERMENT means to have agency over one’s life and equal opportunity to participate in society. agency over one’s life The sense of control that you feel in your life, Your capacity to influence – thoughts and behavior Have the ability to handle a wide range of tasks and situations WOMEN EMPOWERMENT the process by which women gain influence and equal opportunity to pursue personal, social and economic endeavors, engaging in all parts of society on the same basis as men. WOMEN EMPOWERMENT promoting women's sense of selfworth, their ability to determine their own choices, and their right to influence social change for themselves and others. Empowered Women, Empower Women. ERSONALITY Latin word persona = theatrical mask worn by performers in order to either project different roles or disguise their identities. Refers to individual differences in characteristic patterns of thinking, feeling and behaving. ERSONALITY CHARACTERISTICS: Consistency Psychological & Physiological Behaviors and actions Multiple expressions STRONG PERSONALITY 1. You have strong opinions but you are not close-minded 2. Persistent 3. You don’t tolerate other people’s ignorance 4. You have a strong moral compass 5. You don’t seek the attention and validation of others STRONG PERSONALITY 6. You are decisive 7. You don’t dwell on the past 8. You don’t make or accept excuses 9. You know what you want in life VERCOMER Someone who has triumphed over adversity. Strong women have the ability to deal with obstacles and to bounce back from their setbacks. Their resilience didn’t come from the easy times they’ve had, but from the hard times. VERCOMER 5 Ways Strong Women Overcome Obstacles They embrace obstacles They learn from their mistakes They ask questions They lean on others They take care of themselves, not everyone else. VERCOMER ONDERWOMAN Woman is a warrior born; compassionate caring; stubborn; opinionated; highly competitive; etc. ONDERWOMAN MOTiONAL NTELLIGENCE The ability to identify, control and regulate one’s emotions and understand the emotions of others. The ability to understand, use, and manage your own emotions in positive ways to relieve stress, communicate effectively, empathize with others, overcome challenges and improve job satisfaction. MOTiONAL NTELLIGENCE What is good example of EI or EQ? Being able to accept criticism and responsibility. Being able to MOVE ON after making a mistakes. Being able to say NO when you need to. Being able to SHARE your feelings with others. Being able to SOLVE problems in ways that work for everyone. MOTiONAL NTELLIGENCE What is good example of EI or EQ? Having empathy for others. Having great listening SKILLS. Knowing WHY YOU DO the things you do. Not being judgemental of others. MOTiONAL NTELLIGENCE ESiLiENT has a strong belief in herself, and stays on the path she is on even in the face of discouragement; You’re able to withstand or recover from difficult situations, failures, heartbreaks and stressors. 8 THINGS RESILIENT PEOPLE DO 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. You stay flexible and open-minded. You practice patience and kindness. You’re generally optimistic. Live in the Present. You value and build good relationships. You know and consider your limits. You know how to handle rejection. You like spending time alone. Thank you for listening! HAPPY WOMEN’S MONTH…