UNDERSTANDING VIOLENCE PARTIES TO VIOLENCE • Victim: a person harmed, injured, or killed as a result of violence, crime, accident, or other event or action • Survivor: a person who withstands, remains standing especially a person remaining after an occurrence and/ or omission of an event in which others have not. • A perpetrator: is a person, group, or institution that inflicts, supports, or condones violence or other abuse against a person or group of persons CATEGORIES OF VIOLENCE • Sexual violence: occurs when a person is forced to unwillingly take part in sexual activity and entails non-consensual sexual act or behaviour. It includes rape, marital rape, gang rape, attempted rape, and defilement Physical violence: occurs when someone uses a part of their body or an object to control a person’s actions and causes harm. It includes plucking out hair, biting, choking, kicking, slapping, burning and shoving. CATEGORIES OF VIOLENCE • Economic violence: occurs when someone controls a person’s financial resources without the person’s consent. Examples include limiting a person’s access to money, not allowing a woman to work, unequal wages, and a woman’s salary being held by her husband. • Psychological/emotional violence: any threat to do bodily harm to a partner, a child, a family member, friends, or oneself. It involves not only injury and anger but also fear and degradation. TYPES OF VIOLENCE • • • • • • • • • Physical Violence: occurs when someone uses a part of their body or an object to control a person’s actions. Sexual Violence: occurs when a person is forced to unwillingly take part in sexual activity. Emotional Violence: occurs when someone says or does something to make a person feel stupid or worthless Psychological Violence: occurs when someone uses threats and causes fear in an individual to gain control. Spiritual/ Religious Violence: occurs when someone uses an individual’s spiritual beliefs to manipulate, dominate or control that person. Cultural Violence: occurs when an individual is harmed as a result of practices that are part of her or his culture, religion or tradition. Verbal Abuse: occurs when someone uses language, whether spoken or written, to cause harm to an individual. Financial Abuse: occurs when someone controls an individual’s financial resources without the person’s consent or misuses those resources. Neglect: occurs when someone has the responsibility to provide care or assistance for an individual but does not. PERPETRATORS OF VIOLENCE CAUSES OF VIOLENCE CAUSES OF VIOLENCE • violence is an outcome of society’s attitudes towards and practices of gender discrimination, which place one in a subordinate position to the other • In general, the overriding causes are • gender inequity (unfairness) • abuse of power • lack of respect for human rights • cultural/social norms CAUSES OF VIOLENCE- CONTRIBUTING FACTORS • Contributing factors perpetuate violence or increase risk of violence, and influence the type and extent of violence in any setting: • poverty • Punitive and unsupportive laws and policies • alcohol/drug abuse • collapse of traditional society and family supports • religious, cultural, and/or family beliefs and practices • geographical location/environment (high-crime area) • lack of knowledge about human rights and women rights Attitudes toward Gender-Based Violence • Notion that men have the right to control wives’ behavior and to ‘discipline’ them: “If it is a great mistake, then the husband is justified in beating his wife. Why not? A cow will not be obedient without beatings.” (husband in India) • Notion that there are ‘just’ causes for violence “If I have done something wrong…, nobody should defend me. But if I haven’t done something wrong, I have a right to be defended.” (woman in Mexico) • Blaming the victim for the violence received Saying that girls and women who are raped “asked for it” because of they way they were dressed. Violence Cycle Myths and Realities about Violence MYTHS REALITIES Violence happens only to the poor and marginalized. Violence happens among people of all socioeconomic, educational and racial profiles. Violence is not common in industrialized countries. Even in developed countries, such as the US, 1 in 3 women report being physically sexually abused by their partner. Perpetrators cannot control themselves. Violence is simply a part of their nature. Violence is not genetically-based; it is perpetuated by a model of masculinity that permits and even encourages men to be aggressive. Myths and Realities about Violence MYTHS REALITIES Victims of violence provoke the abuse through their inappropriate behavior. Blaming the victim is precisely the kind of attitude that has the potential to cause harm to a survivor of violence. Most victims are abused by strangers. They are safe when they are home. Studies consistently show that most victims are abused by people they know; often the perpetrators are those they trust and love. CONSEQUENCE OF VIOLENCE Source: learning brief; international women day 2012 • Violence has negative psychological and physical health implications. • Among the many consequences: • increased percentage of suicide attempts. • Unintended pregnancy doubles. • Abortion has a 3-fold increase, • Increase in risk of stillbirth or miscarriage • Increase in pregnancy loss HEALTH CONSEQUENCE OF VIOLENCE Inter-Generational & Socio-Economic Violence consequences of Violence RESPONDING TO VIOLENCE • Successful interventions to address violence against key populations include: • Violence response mechanism: (Team, platform and Communication system) • education on rights, • community mobilization to respond to violence and discrimination, • practical warning systems, • sensitization workshops with stakeholders law enforcement authorities, and community- and policy-level • advocacy to promote human rights RESPONDING TO VIOLENCE Assessment Establish VPR System Responding to Violence Establish Advocacy Forums Map Stakeholders Educate on Human Rights RESPONDING TO VIOLENCE SECURITY TIPS • Always carry your identification card. • Carry emergency phone numbers. • Be familiar with your environment. Be aware. Walk tall, act confident and be assertive. • Avoid walking and idling in unsafe environments and in areas with no easy escape routes . • Do not always give your personal unnecessary information to unknown and untrusted persons including peers since this is what most blackmail perpetrators use against you. Information like your residential place. • When dealing with any law enforcement agent, be humble, try to get his/her name , badge number, type and or colour of uniform and any other unique identifier. SECURITY TIPS 1. Avoid idling in groups and around places where you can raise suspicion from the general public. 2. Take care and look out for each other, treat each other equally, socialise with each other so as to prevent groupings which graduate to curtails. 3. Always trust your instinct/gut feelings. If you feel uncertain about someone, then there is a good reason for it. It’s not worth ignoring your instinct and later wishing you hadn’t. 4. Keep at least one arm free, and always be ready, mentally and physically, to protect yourself. 5. Always accept unopened drinks and/ or well pre-packed foods ( or the one you have seen being prepared) from clients. 6. Agree a signal to give each other in case you sense any danger or you are in one. Asante