Psychology Of Submission
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Why We Love Your Leadership
Why We Love Pleasurable Pain
Why We Want You To Make All Of The Decision Making
Why The Man Must Be The Dominant And Not The Woman
Why We Enjoy "Humiliation"
What It Feels Like For Us When We Carry Out Your Crazy Ideas
Why We Love Your Leadership
Sometimes our minds go up and down and all over the place. This isn’t bad, it’s just the
way we are.
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This isn’t very good when it comes to leading! Men have much more stable emotions
and make much better leaders.
When you lead us, it means that whatever feelings we’re having that day won’t affect us
as much as they would without you there.
Your masculine leadership creates a comfortable environment for us to express our
femininity inside of.
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When we don’t have to act masculine at all, we are free to be your super feminine
submissive, without having to worry about “man jobs” and other stresses.
Why We Love Pleasurable Pain
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In one sentence I think the reason is because it’s so exciting to feel a super wide range
of emotions and sensations.
On top of that, pain means discipline and discipline means leadership!
When someone is inflicting pain upon somebody else, in that moment they are in
charge and they are dominating the other.
One more thing is that it lets us know that you’re a really strong guy. We know that you
would never truly harm us and you’re only using a tiny bit of your force… but we’re still
in pleasurable pain!
Why We Want To Leave All Of The Decision Making To
You
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If you promise to make all of the big decisions in our relationship, then we can focus on
being of service to you and doing your background jobs.
I think this makes us a much better team!
You can go out into the world and focus on success and we can make sure that you
have nothing to worry about at home.
It also means that we don’t have to go back and forth wondering whether we have
chosen the right kind of car or insurance policy. Those are man jobs!
Why The Man Must Be Dominant And Not The Woman
Women are attracted to masculine men and men are attracted to feminine women! ☯
If we try to upset this balance, eventually we will have BIG relationship problems and
lots of wasted time and energy.
If you have ever been in a relationship like this you will know how unusual and
uncomfortable it feels.
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You won’t feel like expressing yourself truly and there will be very little sex as the
chemistry just isn’t there!
Let’s not carry out our roles in reverse!
Why We Enjoy “Humiliation”
A woman is happiest when she is “beneath” her man. I know that expression might
make a lot of people angry but I'll explain it.
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It’s not that women are inferior to men, it’s that men are leaders and they need
somebody beneath them to lead.
“Humiliation” during sex is about totally controlling our mind and having us obey all sorts
of crazy and sometimes silly orders.
We want to be physically reminded that we are “beneath” you.
Make sure you read the 45 humiliation ideas section in Complete Submission for some
lovely ideas.
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You “degrade” us to build us back up to be more obedient and a much better follower.
When you make us do unspeakable things together, it creates a bond for life and we will
follow you for life.
I have to put “Humiliation” in quotes so that hopefully you can stop seeing it as a
negative thing. When used carefully and playfully, it is a relationship life saver!
What It Feels Like For Us When We Carry Out Your Crazy
Ideas
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I want to break down some of the craziest things we can get up to together and tell you
exactly what kind of things go through our minds when you have us do them!
1. Deep and messy blowjobs
The choking feeling is actually painful but it’s fun to watch the look on your face the
further we can go.
Then when we are sometimes nearly sick or our eyes start to water, it’s proof that lets
you know how hard it must be to do it and how crazy you’ve made us.
The reason we like to make a blowjob messy is just because it feels way better to hold
you when you’re all slippery! But also it looks wonderful for you and it makes your eyes
light up again!
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2. Anal sex
This is also pleasurably painful and it’s much more about dominance than sensuality.
When we first start doing it, it’s crazily intense and it makes me bite the pillow and close
my eyes!
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Once we get started and everything is nice and relaxed, it becomes magical and
actually more pleasurable than painful!
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But if you go on for too long, it gets painful again. So the middle is where you want it to
be for us both.
Some people say that nobody is designed for anal sex and that could be true, but I think
it’s one of those crazy “humiliating” things that bond you strongly together. So it has its
place.
Anal sex is also a nice way to have us thinking about sex the next day when things are
still a little bit sore down there.
It’s very emotional sex and super useful if you really want to dominate us!
3. Threesomes
People always assume that we must get jealous during a threesome and we kind of do
but not exactly how you would think.
It’s more of a healthy competition to please you, but not in an immature way.
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As long as we’re having a threesome for the right reasons and not for your ego’s sake,
then there won’t be any dangerous or negative jealousy.
And on the other end of the spectrum we get to feel like we are showing you off to our
friend.
For me, I am not a person who identifies with my own ego very much. I don’t need to
protect my feelings the same way some people might, but I learned how to do this
through seeing my life as an experience and not a really serious thing.
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I wouldn’t like to have threesomes every single day of course, and I like having my man
to myself almost all of the time, but I understand that he has much more sexual energy
than I do and for me this is ok.
Also, I enjoy playing with my girlfriend a little bit too. I wouldn’t call it being bisexual but
if somebody wanted to call me that it’s ok. I just see it as something innocent as I would
never want a loving relationship with my friend!
4. Bondage
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Being restrained by you is actually like a meditation because there is nothing we can do
but relax and trust you to fully lead us.
When you tie us up we have no choice but to do whatever you make us to and by
agreeing to the bondage, we agreed to let you do this!
It’s also a lovely dangerous feeling when you’re doing crazy things with us and we have
to helplessly lay back and watch.
The pins and needle in our arms and legs is also nice when it’s just the right amount
and we get that tingly feeling.
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This is also the best way to introduce us to new and crazy ideas because we have to be
in the mood once we’re restrained by you!
What You Should Gain From Your New Dominant Role
An energy boost!!
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Once we both know our place within the relationship, things get super easy!
These are the greatest benefits to creating a dominant/submissive relationship:
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Clear intentions for the relationship
Supercharged and polarised
Have nothing lacking sexually
Have all of your background jobs taken care of
Focus on your success outside of our home
When we follow our natural instincts, everything works for us effortlessly!
I hope you enjoyed this and have a lovely day.
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