The Art of Being Still
BY SILAS HOUSE
DECEMBER 1, 2012 3:11 PM – The New York Times
(1) Many of the aspiring writers I know talk about writing more than they actually write. Instead
of setting free the novel or short story or essay that is sizzling at the ends of their fingers,
desperate to set fire to the world, they fret about writer’s block or about never having the time
to write.
(2) Yet as they complain, they spend a whole lot of that precious time posting cartoons about
writing on Facebook or putting up statuses about how if they only had more free time they just
know they could get their novels written. They read books about writing and attend
conferences, workshops and classes where they talk ad nauseam about writing. However, they
spend very little time alone, thinking, much less hunkering down somewhere and actually
putting words on the page.
(3) The problem is, too many writers today are afraid to be still.
(4) The people who see me out in the world might scoff at this since I am nearly always in
motion, but those who know me best realize that I am being still even in my most active
moments. This is because I’m not talking about the kind of stillness that involves locking
yourself in a room with a laptop, while you wait for the words to come. We writers must learn
how to become still in our heads, to achieve the sort of stillness that allows our senses to
become heightened. The wonderful nonfiction writer Joyce Dyer refers to this as seeing like an
animal.
(5) Most writers today have jobs or families or responsibilities, and most often, all three. We
don’t have time to sit in the woods for a few hours every day, staring at the leaves, pondering
life’s mysteries and miracles and the ways we can articulate them for the reading masses.
We writers must become multitaskers who can be still in our heads while also driving safely to
work, while waiting to be called “next” at the D.M.V., while riding the subway or doing the
grocery shopping or walking the dogs or cooking supper or mowing our lawns.
(6) We are a people who are forever moving, who do not have enough hours in the day, but
while we are trying our best to be parents and partners, employees and caregivers, we must
also remain writers.
(7) There is no way to learn how to do this except by simply doing it. We must use every
moment we can to think about the piece of writing at hand, to see the world through the point
of view of our characters, to learn everything we can that serves the writing. We must notice
details around us, while also blocking diversions and keeping our thought processes focused on
our current poem, essay or book.
(8) This way of being must be something that we have to turn off instead of actively turn on. It
must be the way we live our lives.
(9) The No. 1 question I get at readings is: “How many hours a day do you write?” I used to
stumble on this question. I don’t write every day, but when I first started going on book tours I
was afraid I’d be revealed as a true fraud if I admitted that. Sometimes I write for 20 minutes.
Other times I don’t stop writing for six hours, falling over at the end like an emotional, wrung-
out mess, simultaneously exhausted and exhilarated. Sometimes I go months without putting a
word on the page.
(10) One night, however, I was asked that question and the right answer just popped out,
unknown to me before it found solidity on the air: “I write every waking minute,” I said. I
meant, of course, that I am always writing in my head.
(11) I live a few blocks from the campus where I teach. Every morning, I ride my bicycle to work.
Along the way, I’m focusing on the cars speeding by me, seemingly intent on making the life of
a bicyclist as miserable as possible. But I am also thinking about the main character in the novel
I’m writing now.
(12) The book is set in Key West, so naturally he rides his bicycle all over the Florida island.
When pumping those pedals toward my office, I am not myself on an orange-leaf-strewed
campus. I am my character, pedaling down to the beach after a long day of working as a hotel
housekeeper. I see the world through his eyes. I imagine what he is thinking. I use that brief
time to become him.
(13) I transform the mundane task of grocery shopping into a writing exercise by studying my
fellow shoppers through the eyes of my character, a man who is on the run from the law.
I eye each one with suspicion and dodge any cop who might be trotting along with a grocery
basket in hand. I sometimes steal a quirk from a woman nearby to apply to one of my female
characters in the book. I am multitasking, but there is stillness at work here.
(14) I found myself as a writer at a gathering deep in the mountains of eastern Kentucky. I often
encourage burgeoning novelists, poets and essayists to seek out conferences where they can be
exposed to established authors, agents, editors and — most important — other folks like them
who are struggling and hoping their writing dreams will come true. But I discourage people
from going to too many of these, because if a writer isn’t careful, she will end up packing and
traveling and workshopping far more than she writes.
(15) Writers have been meeting at the Appalachian Writers Workshop for 35 years, and in that
time the gathering has produced many award-winning, best-selling authors. One of its most
beloved centerpieces, until his death in 2001, was James Still, a novelist and poet known for his
keen insights into the natural world. Shortly before he died I met him.
(16) I was a young, naïve, foolish writer who was searching for my way. I swallowed hard and
asked him if he had any advice on how to be a better writer. He didn’t answer for a long
minute, gazing off at the hills as if ignoring me.
(17) But then he spoke, and I realized that he had taken that moment for quiet thought.
“Discover something new every day,” he said. That advice changed me as a writer and as a
person.
(18) I give it to you now and hope that you will take it out into the waiting world, pushing forth
through all of your daily work and joys and struggles with a bit of your mind focused on reality
and the larger part of it quiet, still, and always thinking like a writer.
Silas House, the author of five novels, a work of nonfiction and three plays, teaches at Berea
College and Spalding University’s M.F.A. program in creative writing.