The Big Gap of Gender Equality Between Magetan Regency and The Republic of Finland Zalzabila Megan Almadina 152011813008 – BI 1 Introduction Magetan is a regency situated in the west of East Java province. This regency covers an area of 688.8 square kilometers, with a population of 670,812 people. Meanwhile the Republic of Finland is a quite large country compared to the other countries in Europe with a total area of 338,440 square kilometers and 5.5 million population. In this paper I would like to discuss several differences about gender equality in my society, Magetan, and in Finland. Magetan is known as a conservative people, they immensely hold their traditional values. Discrimination along with violation against men and women are still exist in this regency. On the contrary, Finland upholds gender equality and supports women and men rights. Perception Towards Women Who Initiated an Intercourse The first thing that is very contrast between Magetan and Finland is the attitudes toward a woman who initiated sexual activities. Most people, both men and women in Magetan are very sensitive about it. There is a paradigm in Magetan that causes this matter which is women must play hard to get. Women have to pretend that they are not interested in any sexual relationship or contact and they also need to appear to be not overly eager to do sexual activities. Oppositely, people in Finland represented an egalitarian sexual culture (Haavio‐Mannila & Kontula, 2003). Finnish people had a more positive attitude toward it than people in Magetan did. Finland men are almost as likely to support the right of women to take the sexual initiative (Haavio‐Mannila & Kontula, 2003). Skincare Belongs to Everyone Who Has Skin Gender equality is not just about women, some men are also experiencing the inequality of their gender on a daily basis. Nowadays, some younger men in Magetan are having an interest in skincare. The idea of a man using skincare is debated among people in Magetan, they are mocking men who decided to use skincare products and even questioning those men’s masculinity. This is a misconception about skincare and the users as skincare is actually genderless, men have skin that they need to maintain the healthiness as well as women do. However, most Finland people already understand this concept. For instance, the working-aged middle-class men in Finland did not express negative stands against the use of skincare products by men (Ojala et al, 2014). This is a great idea that represents support for gender equality. Predominance of Mothers Many people in Magetan talked more about their mother when asked to describe a good mother and a good father. The role of a mother has overshadowed the role of the father, because these people didn’t directly see what the father as a man has done to the family. They would describe their father as incomparable to the mother. Meanwhile in Finland, alongside describing a good mother and a good father, many people also commented on the uneasiness they felt, thus reflecting the prevailing ideology of gender equality and shared parenting (Perälä-Littunen, 2007). Conclusion The difference between views on gender equality of people in Magetan and Finland are extremely discrete as most people in Magetan are still heavily chained to traditional assessment. Moreover, it is not just women who feel the negative impact of inequality in our society, but men are also feeling the same. People who know the importance of gender equality must voice their opinions so that the others can learn to be objective and there will be no more inequality of each gender. References Haavio‐Mannila, E., & Kontula, O. (2003). Single and double sexual standards in Finland, Estonia, and St. Petersburg. Journal of Sex Research, 40(1), 36-49. doi:10.1080/00224490309552165 OJALA, H., CALASANTI, T., KING, N., & PIETILÄ, I. (2014). Natural(ly) men: Masculinity and gendered anti-ageing practices in Finland and the USA. Ageing and Society, 36(2), 356-375. doi:10.1017/s0144686x14001196 Perälä-Littunen, S. (2007). Gender equality or primacy of the mother? ambivalent descriptions of good parents. Journal of Marriage and Family, 69(2), 341-351. doi:10.1111/j.1741-3737.2007.00369.x Magetan, B. (2021, February 17). Luas Daerah dan Jumlah Pulau Menurut Kecamatan di Kabupaten Magetan. Retrieved January 05, 2022, from https://magetankab.bps.go.id/statictable/2021/02/17/833/luas-daerah-danjumlah-pulau-menurut-kecamatan-di-kabupaten-magetan-magetan-2019.html Union, E. (2020). Facts and Figures on Life in the European Union. Retrieved January 05, 2022, from https://european-union.europa.eu/principles-countrieshistory/key-facts-and-figures/life-eu_en