KNOWING ONESELF One of the key areas in self-development is the process of knowing oneself . By reflecting on one’s life experiences and the events that happened by chance in his/her life, one is able to discover more about oneself. The learning process never ends for as long as a person lives. It may sound simple, but in order to understand other aspects of one’s life, one must first get to know who he/she truly is. Learning about one’s strengths and limitations is one of the most effective ways of knowing oneself. Teenagers have often been in a position where they do not know where they would fit in. It must be a struggle to choose between things that one really LIKES and things that will make one feel part of a PREFERRED group of friends. The knowledge of one’s own flaws and weaknesses may make one think negatively about oneself. Questions like: What are his/her unique characteristics? Does she/he have a healthy habits? There are ways by which one can get to know oneself better, for example by disclosing about oneself to a friend or family member that one TRUSTS. One may also consider making journal to express his/her thoughts and feelings and eventually share some of it. Another way is by actively participating in group experiential classroom learning activities. ACTIVITY #2: “THE TWENTY-STATEMENT SURVEY” I am ______________________________________________. KNOWING PERSONALITY OR THE SELF When one thinks of the “self” what first comes to your mind? In Western mainstream psychology, the self is generally defined as one’s personality or ego. The word “personality” came from the Greek word persona which means MASK. The term came from the Greek costume of putting up a show where actors donned masks to portray different personalities or selves. It refer to one’s public face or the self one usually shows to other people. The self constitutes an individuals personal identity with its typical ways of perceiving, thinking, feeling, and behaving as one is raised by his/her sociocultural environment through one’s family, school, and community. The self as raised by the various social agents is expected to later on be of service to needs and goals of society of which it is considered a citizen. In Asian psychology, the self or personality is but a frozen picture or concept of the self from past conditioning or how one was raised in the family and community, that may no longer be true to the evolving and wiser self in the present time. Personality refers to an individual distinctly thinks and behaves in different situations and is relatively stable across time. CATTELL’S CLASIFICATION OF TRAITS TYPE OF TRAITS Common Traits DESCRIPTION These are traits which everyone shares. Example: Everyone has some measure of intelligence or extraversion. Unique Traits These are traits that distinguish us as individuals. Example: An interest in politics or sports such as basketball. Ability Traits Skills or abilities that determine how well we can work toward our goals. Emotions or feelings that determine Temperament how we react to people and situations. Traits Example: Include assertiveness and the tendency to be fretful or easygoing. These traits underlie our motivations and Dynamic Traits drive behavior. Characteristics that are composed of source traits or behavioral elements. Surface Traits These can be unstable and impermanent and may weaken or strengthen depending on the situation. Source Traits These are the single, stable, and permanent elements of behavior. Constitutional traits Source traits that have biological origins, such as behaviors arise from too much alcohol consumption. Environmentalmold Traits Source traits that have environmental origins such as behaviors influenced by our friends, work environment, or neighborhood. Psychologists have long debated exactly how personality should be defined and described. One of these key ideas is known as the trait theory of personality. According to trait theory, human personality is composed of a number of broad traits or dispositions. According to Cattell, there is a continuum of personality traits. In other words, each person contains all of these 16 traits to a certain degree, but they might be high in some traits and low in others. • Abstractedness: Imaginative versus practical • Apprehension: Worried versus confident • Dominance: Forceful versus submissive • Emotional stability: Calm versus high-strung • Liveliness: Spontaneous versus restrained • Openness to change: Flexible versus attached to the familiar • Perfectionism: Controlled versus undisciplined • Privateness: Discreet versus open • Reasoning: Abstract versus concrete • Rule-consciousness: Conforming versus nonconforming • Self-reliance: Self-sufficient versus dependent • Sensitivity: Tender-hearted versus tough-minded • Social boldness: Uninhibited versus shy • Tension: Inpatient versus relaxed • Vigilance: Suspicious versus trusting • Warmth: Outgoing versus reserved