Written by Joseph Hong BUSINESS MISSION 40 SOCIALIZING MISSION 01 Introduce Yourself BUSINESS MISSIONS 1 Introduce Yourself 2 Show Interest to others’ story MISSION 02 Entertain Visitors with Business Etiquette BUSINESS MISSIONS 1 Entertain Your Visitors! 2 Disagree with others’ opinion, but kindly! MISSION 03 Generate Small Talk BUSINESS MISSIONS 1 Generate Small Talk! 2 Describe Your Country/City! 1 SOCIALIZING MISSION 01 SPEAK OUT continue the conversation M I S SIO N 0 1 Introduce Yourself Spend a few minutes selecting the topics and gathering information. Find a partner in class and talk about the following five topics in the box below. Be sure to ask at least two related follow-up questions on the same topic. This will continue the conversation for a few more minutes. * * * * Best ever holiday Favorite means of transportation Favorite drink Favorite place to visit during holiday * Prefer weekend leisure activities * Typical working day in company * Best or worst business experience Like many Koreans, successful business relationships are very important in Korea to establish business network, create business opportunities and gain valuable business alliance. Hence, socializing is an essential business skill in Korea. EXPRESSION say yes! Complete the table by writing one of these words in each space. BUSINESS MISSIONS help 1 Introduce Yourself 2 Show Interest to others’ story Positive reply GET READY introduce yourself Find a partner in class and get the following information about your partner. Either ask all the questions first or take turns asking each question. Professional Situation Student A Student B Find out your partner’s: 1 Name 2 Company 3 Company’s activity (in one sentence) 4 Job Title 5 Department 6 Job Responsibilities (in one sentence) Personal Situation 1 Home (not exact location or address) 2 Family 3 Education 4 Favorite Sports 5 Tastes in music 6 Languages 2 7 Favorite Food Agreeing Accepting an offer of help Student A A: Hello. So when is your best ever holiday? B: For me it’s Christmas holiday. I can go hom e and meet everyone. A: Where is your home? How long will you stay with your family? B: My home is in Busan. I will stay in Pusan for a few days. Student B Giving Permission isn’t it it is kind right ahead here appreciate Is this your first visit to South Korea? Yes . I didn’t expect to see so many westerners. You speak English, don’t you? Yes, that’s , although I’m not fluent. It’s really cold today. Yes, it is . It’s is freezing. Korean is a difficult language. Yes, it’s probably one of the most difficult languages. Do you need any assistance? Oh, thanks very much. I’d that. Would you like me to carry those? Oh, that’s very of you. Can I have another cup of water? Of course. yourself. Could I take a coffee break? Certainly. Please go . Emphasis Will you let me know by next hour? Yes, of course. Passing an object Is the Korean dictionary over there? Yes, you are. 3 SOCIALIZING MISSION 01 EXPRESSION say no! COMMUNICATIVE TECHNIQUE match the expressions Complete the table by writing one of these words in each space. isn’t sure policy inconvenience actually Negative reply Disagreeing Refusing an offer of help Refusing a request Emphasis Passing an object Is this your first visit to South Korea? No, it , actually. I was here two years ago. 1 A: I’ve just come back from USA. B: Have you? USA! Where did you go? Which state? 2 A: Cathy Kim went into the hospital again. B: Again! What a shame! I should go and visit her. He seems happy in her new home. Really? I’m not so about that. 3 A: We’re thinking about getting a new car. B: Are you? Which brand? What model? Do you need any assistance? No thanks, I can . 4 A: Michael John is looking for a part-time job. B: Mhm. I’m not surprised. He can get any job. Would you like me to carry those? No, it’s all right, thanks. Can I pay in currency? I’m sorry, but it’s against company 4 * Really? That sounds interesting. * Really! Fantastic! Great! * Exactly. Of course. Sure. * How awful. What a pity. Poor you. * No! That’s strange! Good Heavens! * Mhm. I’m not surprised. Work with a new partner. Look at the example mini-dialogues and practice until you are able to converse without reading them. Your sister’s quite like you, isn’t she. Do you think ? Could you take me to the bus stop? , it’s a bit Interest Surprise No Surprise Pleasure Agreement Sympathy ROLE PLAY show interest You speak Korean, don’t you? No, I’m not. A: Tell a story about something that happened to you (or someone) recently. B: Show interest. right now. . Will there be any delay? No, of course not. Is the Korean dictionary over there? No, I’m afraid not. When listening to someone you have to be polite by showing interests. The table shows four techniques for showing interest. Showing attention Echo questions Echo words Wh-questions 1 2 3 4 5 6 afraid manage so COMMUNICATIVE TECHNIQUE show interest 1 2 3 4 Match the expressions and its type of showing interests. WRITE show interest Write a response to these comments. Use ideas from COMMUNICATIVE TECHNIQUE Section and your own ideas. 1. I saw Mr. President yesterday. 2. I like to go to Guam for my holidays. 3. I was waiting all morning for the delivery man. 4. I went to see that new action film last night. Right. / Sure. / Yes. / Yeah. / Yuh. / Mhm. / Uhuh Did you? / Are they? / Was it? Six Hundred? / Seven Months? / All over the United States? So what happened to you? / Why was that, then? / How did you feel? 5 SOCIALIZING MISSION 02 WRITE make an itinerary M I S SIO N 0 2 Entertain Visitors with Business Etiquette Please make arrangements to entertain your visitor for three days. You are on behalf of your company! You are about to receive a visitor from another country or city who has come to your home town for the first time. You telephone him or her to plan a fairy detailed entertainment package, lasting for three days. Entertainment may be formal and highly planned or personal and informal. Use the company budget for expanses. Objectives 1 2 3 4 DAY 01 Corporate entertainment is often an important part of building good relations with business partners. Receiving visitors appropriately and providing some hospitality is therefore a significant feature of many strong business relationships. should outline some ideas on how your visitor could spend the three days. find out what would interest your visitor. learn what he or she likes to do to relax. try to work out a fairly detailed itinerary with your visitor for three days. morning afternoon evening morning afternoon evening morning afternoon evening BUSINESS MISSIONS 1 Entertain Your Visitors! GET READY make a mind map Find a partner in class and get the following information about your partner. Either ask all the questions first or take turns asking each question. 1 Have you ever received any business visitors? 2 What do you want to do to entertain them? 3 What are some cultural or popular recommendations for them? DAY 03 Create a mind map with your imagination and budget limitation. While creating a mind map think about the following three questions: DAY 02 2 Disagree with others’ opinion, but kindly! Tourism 6 Cultural Entertainment 7 SOCIALIZING MISSION 02 DISCUSSION AND DEBAGTE polite business etiquette COMMUNICATIVE TECHNIQUE disagree with other’s opinions Five areas of business etiquette are listed in the box. In each situation please tell your partner what the rules or guidelines are in the company where you work. Please use the questions to guide you and discuss the similarities and differences for each. Disagreement in controversial topics must be done with care and hence must use special conversational technique to soften a strong opinion. Without offending the business partner, one can politely disagree. Read the replies about hang gliding. Please underline yes or no for each replied answer. controversial topic Business Etiquette It must be great to go bungee jumping (or any divisive topic)! Similarities or Differences? Answers 1 Shaking hands Do you shake hands with people: –when you first meet? / Every time you meet them? –when you haven’t seen them for a long time? –when you say goodbye to them? 2 Names Do you: –call people you know by their first name or by their family name (using Mr., Miss., and Ms.)? –call people you have just met their first name or by their family name (using Mr., Miss., and Ms.)? 3 Men’s dress –What do you wear to work? –Are there any rules telling men what they must wear? –Do men always have to wear a tie? –Does what they wear change according to the weather? –Would it be possible for men to wear shorts in very hot weather? 1 Well I supposed so, but isn’t it a bit dangerous? Yes/No 2 To be honest, I’d be terrified. Yes/No 3I know what you mean, but what happens if the glider breaks? Yes/No 4 What about the cost? Frankly, it’s not cheap. Yes/No 5I can see what you’re saying, but wouldn’t your family be worried? Yes/No 6 Actually, I’ve heard that it’s not very safe. Yes/No 7 Don’t you think you’re a bit old for that? Yes/No There are various techniques for disagreeing someone’s opinion without hurting the other person’s feelings. Complete the table below with the sentence numbers from the table above. Four Techniques for Disagreeing 1 Normal question (to show doubt) 4 Women’s dress –What do women wear to work? –Are there any rules telling women what they must wear? –Are women free to wear any jewelry they like? –Do women always have to wear stockings or tights? –Does what they wear change according to the weather? 5 Compliments: –Do male (or female) workers compliment each other on their dress or general appearance? –Do male and female workers compliment each other on their dress or general appearance? Rude? Sentences 3 7 2 Negative question (to show doubt) 3 Yes, but… 4 Introductory phrase (to prepare the listener) 1 4 WRITE make a mild disagreement Reply the following statement with a mild disagreement, using one of the four specialized techniques for disagreeing. 1. Our present government is very good for us. 2. Marijuana should be legalized for AIDS patients! 3. Manchester United is the best soccer team in Europe! 8 9