THE PRE-MUNDANE CREATIONS OF GOD In discussing the issue of preparing to get married to one’s life partner, it becomes pertinent that we look at the procedure the God Almighty used to create things needful for the peaceful, nonbreaking process of the world system since the inception of life on earth. I have seen many who desire and ignorantly so, covert the success of others who have made it big before them without minding what they did, or did not do in their walk towards their success. Zebedee’s wife, the mother of two of Jesus’ disciples wanted the glory of the Messiah and boldly went to the Master to request for a special place in the kingdom of Jesus Christ. She specifically asked that her two sons should occupy 1 both the left and right hands of Christ in His kingdom. But Jesus answered and said, “Ye know not what ye ask. Are ye able to drink the cup that I am about to drink?” (Matt. 20:20 -22) Many desired the power of the throne, without being prepared to pay the price associated with that exalted position. Peter said to Jesus before He was arrested in a moment of carelessness and reckless abandon, ‘we can, we are ready to follow you till the end’, yet before the cock crows they have denied their Master three times like Peter. If they had arrested Peter alongside Jesus, Peter would most probably have been made the true rock on which the Church would gladly have rested on his little shoulders. His desire to maintain his leadership status quo as the number one disciple was punctuated because of ignorance, poor intelligence and faulty reasoning made it possible for him to deny his Master when it mattered most. 2 It is not sufficient to desire to have a great relationship, we need to know the deep workings of God’s creative strategy and be ready to mirror His model. Only then can we lay claim to God’s victory and boldly affirm, “we will not fail in this honourable cause!” The key to eliciting God’s strategy in creating relationship is to be in association with Him. It is in this associated communion we can get clear, unmistakable cues about the workings of the mind of God as exposed in the word of God and what sort of strategies He used to sustain the world since creation till now. The earth population is growing and still counting yet the earth is not shaking as a result of the weight of its matter. The simplest way to find out is to ask the right questions. You will agree with me that there is nothing we ask Him that He would not do for us, that our joy may be full. I am going to run through some of the things He showed me with you. If you 3 meet a great cook, you cannot learn from him by asking him to explain to you orally how he prepares his delicacies. Most times they don’t know exactly how they make those tasty dishes. They do them unconsciously. By following the cook into the kitchen through the process, taking note of the ingredients and the quantity of such ingredients that is added to the meal, you will then have a recipe you can duplicate later in future. The best way to learn is not to observe only, but in doing the learned. I believe that when we do, we shall experience God’s success in our relationships. Every great achievement in life follows this pattern. We shall try the pattern God used to create the earth. First, He created some things, persons, elements, processes before he began to issue the creative order for other things we read in the first few chapters in the book of Genesis. What does it mean that He created things before the world was made? Yes, the Bible has records of 4 things that God created or caused to exist before even the heavens and the earth were called into existence. Let us look at the following and see how we can recreate them in our little world of marital relationships. It does not make sense to do these things but wise people knew that God’s foolishness is wiser than the wisdom of the wisest man. 1. The Word (Logos) Genesis 1:1 says, “In the Beginning…” The word ‘in’ connotes a point within an area or space. It means within the shape of something; into something; contained within or inside something. Anyhow you look at the word; you will see that it has to do with an already existing entity or containing physical surroundings. Who was this pre-existing entity? A very simple answer is found in the book of Rev 3:14, “And to the angel of the church in Laodicea write: These things saith the Amen, the faithful and true 5 witness, the beginning of the creation of God.” He was referred to directly as THE BEGINNING. It means whoever this passage refers to is the first cause made available before the world was created. It means that which is first; the first state; the commencement of all things; the only entrance into being. Mighty things from that small beginning grew the rudiments, the raw materials for everything you see and you will still see long after we are all gone. It means that before He created the heavens and the earth, the Almighty God was in contact with The Beginning. It was inside the Beginning that he began to create all other things. With this understanding, we can rephrase the first sentence in the book of Genesis to read thus, “Inside the Beginning God created the heavens and the earth.” Certainly, the above statement made sense. It is easier to understand why God will say, “Let there be…” and it came to be because that which God 6 calls out already existed inside the Word. The Word need only answer to God’s command by pushing out the creations. “I am the beginning and the end.”1 The challenge with the natural man generally is that we do not know the truth about ourselves, and do not want to know; and we are equally ignorant of the rich stores of blessedness that God has bestowed on all those who will find it worthwhile not only to hear but to do what the Word bids them. The Beginning introduced Himself more clearly when His earthly forerunner, John the Baptist, wrote in his book John 1:1 – 3. “In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. The same was in the beginning with God. All things were made by him; and without him was not anything made that was 1 Rev. 21:6, 22:13 7 made. In him was life; and the life was the light of men.” As speech reveals the hidden thoughts of men, so does The Word speak into existence the unseen power of the Almighty creative God. God said and it was done by The Word. Christ was the Word that created. The Spoken Word, Jesus Christ, was made flesh. The Jesus Christ we preach was the beginning in Him was all created. He alone created time which defined man’s dating system, and thereafter He stepped out of time, and that makes Him who is before time eternal and divine. Christ is the medium or channel by which God goes forth in creating divine intervention and redemption. The Word preceded the process of creation of human nature. The life of God deposited in the human nature of Jesus, was made manifest when the Word became flesh, that we might readily copy its pattern into our lives. The light in Christ illuminates our pathway to meaningful relationships. When we receive Christ’s life, we shine. No man can create a heaven and earth in 8 his marriage without first having a life in The Beginning, Jesus Christ. A marriage consummated without making Jesus Christ the beginning of that relationship will experience death. There are two possible ways of getting married. A wife is either found by you or somebody finds the wife out for you. Samson found his wife. Esau found his wife. Isaac’s wife was brought into being by his father. Jacob found Rebecca while Leah was given to him by his father in law. He exemplified the two scenarios. Exodus 21:1-6 1 Now these are the judgments which thou shalt set before them. 2 If thou buy an Hebrew servant, six years he shall serve: and in the seventh he shall go out free for nothing. 3 If he came in by himself, he shall go out by himself: if he were married, then his wife shall go out with him. (First Scenario) 4 If his master have given him a wife, and she have born him sons or daughters; the wife and her children shall be her master's, and he shall go out by himself. (Second Scenario) 9 5 And if the servant shall plainly say, I love my master, my wife, and my children; I will not go out free: 6 Then his master shall bring him unto the judges; he shall also bring him to the door, or unto the door post; and his master shall bore his ear through with an aul; and he shall serve him forever. Does it not make sense that whosoever has the responsibility of finding and marrying your wife for you have the authority over your wife and subsequently your family? If your finding was influenced by God like in the case of Adam, God has the burden of justifying, protecting, preserving and providing for your family. He will fight your battles and clean your mess. Psalm 33:12 says “Blessed is the nation whose God is the LORD; and the people whom he hath chosen for his own inheritance.” You will most assuredly find a good inheritance in God. But if your finding was influenced by carnality and human knowledge, 10 the rule of flesh will bear. Because any union birthed in darkness will be exposed to the devil,2 the master of darkness and his agents who came to steal kill and destroy will bear rule in your family until you cry to God to change your name and adopt you in the beloved as His own. Only in the light of God’s Word can you find the path to lasting relationships. I have seen covenant carrying people marry outside the perfect will of God and expect their marriages not to have unplanned challenges. If it is not in the will of God, it is in the will of the devil. Remember that the master calls the shots. The Bible says what has light and darkness in common? Nothing! “Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness and what communion hath light with darkness?”3 2 3 John 1:5 2Cor. 6:14 11 Can two walk together except they be agreed? There can never be an agreement between you as the light and an unbeliever who is in darkness. “For ye were sometimes darkness, but now are ye light in the Lord: walk as children of light”4 Whoever walks contrary to the truism of the Word will have unprecedented crisis lurking at the corner of his pathway. Let Christ in, and you have instantly the right to call the rest things in life to fall in line with the Father as the Master. Your life will be a testimony and your marriage a-praiseprovoking offering to God. We are a chosen generation, a royal priesthood, an holy nation, a peculiar people; that we should shew forth the praises of him who hath called you out of darkness into his marvellous light”5 The Creative Word Pre-existed. The words of Genesis, "God said," initiated the energetic divine 4 5 Eph. 5:8 1Pet. 2:9 12 command responsible for the magnificent events of the six days of Creation found in Genesis chapter one. Each command came charged with a creative energy that transformed a planet without form, and void into a paradise. If your marriage is without form and void, speak the Word, and it shall be done; let the Lamb command, and it shall stand fast.6 Truly, the worlds of outstanding relationships were framed by the unchanging word of God. This creative Word was not dependent upon your family background, your level of education or any other preexisting matter. "By faith we understand that the universe was formed at God's command, so that what is seen was not made out of what was visible."7 To create a long lasting relationship, do it inside the beginning who is Jesus Christ, the Word made flesh. 6 7 Ps. 33:9 Heb. 11:3, NIV 13