Origins of Marriage The expectations of this Unit • The historical and cultural changes in intimate and marital relationships o Current trends and issues affecting development of intimate relationships The influence of various social institutions on the decisions and behaviours of individuals in intimate relationships across a lifespan How to evaluate, analyze and synthesize information related to individuals and families in a diverse society. Anthropological Lens Helen Fisher, an American anthropologist, suggests that the durability of the pair-bond, a mating relationship between a male and female, is essential to the survival of humans. She explains that the only way people can ensure their continued existence is by reproducing and then protecting their children over time. She also proposes that both men and women have a biological urge to produce children. Biological Drive “Human beings almost never have to be cajoled into pairing. Instead, we [ do this naturally. We flirt. We feel infatuation. We fall in love. We marry. And the vast majority of us marry only one person at a time. Pair-bonding is the trademark of the human animal” (1992, p. 72) Helen Fisher Marriage is a Social Invention Functionalists describe marriage as a social institution that developed as an important part of the organization of society to meet humans' basic needs. The diversity of marriage reflects the various ways that societies organize to meet the functional requisites of sexual reproduction, socialization of children, and division of labour. Individuals are socialized into the appropriate roles for men and women in their societies and are expected to marry into complementary roles. Moreover, because men and women serve distinct but useful purposes for society when they are married, functionalists concluded that people are happiest if they marry. How marriage was organized Marriage as a binding relationship was regulated sexual activity so that the biological father could identify his offspring. Consequently, adults become mutually responsible for nurturing and socializing their children. Marriage has been viewed primarily as an economic unit. In fact, for most of history, love was seldom a consideration in the decision to marry, and most women had little say in their choice of partner Polygyny Polygyny, the practice of a man having more than one wife, appears to have been the preferred form of marriage in most societies historically, since 84 percent of recorded Monogamy Polygyny Polyandry cultures have allowed it Polyandry Polyandry, on the other hand, occurs when a society, such as some in rural Nepal, is so poor that several men are required to support a wife and children ( Read and Review the history of marriage • Pages 172-178 • Complete the accompanying worksheet.