Improving Affective Statements Using NVC Typical Response Affective Statement Example NVC Version Stop calling Sandy a pig. You made me uncomfortable when you called Sandy a pig. When I heard you call Sandy a name I felt worried because I value respect. Would you be willing to tell me what was going on? You shouldn’t do that. I feel sad when you are disrupting my class. Sit down and be quiet in my class. You make me angry when you talk in my class. I don’t want to see you fighting him. I was shocked that you hurt him while fighting. Talking during class is not allowed. I am frustrated that you are not listening. You never turn in your homework on time. I am angry that you don’t think this class is important.