TITLE: ENGAGING IN AN EARLY RELATIONSHIP IS ONE OF THE FACTORS WHY MOST OF THE THIRD YEAR STUDENTS PERFORMED LOW IN ACADEMICS Candice Macasero Flor Danielle Malingin Researchers A Research Proposal Presented to: Ms. Gemma P. Provida University of Cebu Lapu-Lapu & Mandaue A.C. Cortes Ave., Looc, Mandaue City, Philippines In Partial Fulfillment of the Requirements in English III March 14, 2014 ii ABSTRACT Title: Engaging in an Early Relationship is One of the Factors Why Most of the Third Year Students Performed Low in Academics Researchers: Candice Macasero and Flor Danielle Malingin School: University of Cebu Lapu-Lapu & Mandaue (UCLM) Adviser: Ms. CheriFlor Estoce Date Completed: March 14, 2014 The researchers’ study was “Engaging in an Early Relationship is One of the Factors Why Most of the Third Year Students Performed Low in Academincs”. The researchers’ respondents were the selected 3rd year students. This study was conducted at the University of Cebu Lapu-Lapu & Mandaue. The study attempted to gain insights into the perceptions and reflections of the interviews regarding teenage relationship and its consequences in one’s academic performance. Furthermore, knowing more about this young love affairs can be more successful by conducting a seminar regarding the said matter. This can be a big help to the students, for them to realize the real essence of having an early relationship at young age. TABLE OF CONTENTS Abstract……………………………………………………………............ ii CHAPTER I THE PROBLEM AND ITS SCOPE INTRODUCTION Rationale……………………………………………....1 Background of the Related Study………………......3 THE PROBLEM Statement of the problem…………………………….6 Significance of the study……………………………..8 THE RESEARCH METHODOLOGY Research Design………………………………….….9 Research Environment……………………………10 Research Procedure A. Data Gathering…………………………….12 DEFINITION OF TERMS…………………………………………13 BIBLIOGRAPHY…………………………………………………14 Chapter I The Problem and Its Scope Introduction Rationale We’ve all experienced love. We’ve loved (and been loved by) parents, brothers, sisters, friends, even pets. But romantic love is different. It’s an intense, new feeling unlike any of these other ways of loving. Our ability to feel romantic love develops during adolescence. Teens all over the world notice passionate feelings of attraction. Even in cultures where people are not allowed to act on or express these feelings, they’re still there. It’s a natural part of growing up to develop romantic feelings and sexual attractions to others. These new feelings can be exciting – or even confusing at first. During the adolescent years most individuals “fall in love” several times, although later in life they may refer to temporary affairs as infatuations rather than the “real thing”. First and foremost, teenagers are biologically immature to deal with relationships. A teenager’s brain is not fully armed with the requisite experience and knowledge to be able to distinguish between the right person for them, and the wrong. Sometimes, teenagers even 2 end up permanently damaging their career and their filial and friendly relationships, which naturally causes a lot of unhappiness and distress in the long run. Even more belittled by many parents is a teenager’s love for a boyfriend or girlfriend. Adults refer to these relationships with demeaning language, calling them “just puppy love”, and these romantic bonds are not taken seriously. One of the sign of an unhealthy teen relationship is the decreasing academic performance or grades. This study focuses on the reasons why most teens especially in third year high school performed low in academics when they engage their selves in an early relationship. Some teenage love stories are romantic, and others are lessons in what not to do when you fall in love. 3 Background of the related study The young generation nowadays is really into something sensitive. If they want something, they usually get the desire to have it and most of them gone into dating. Ideally, a teenager’s life should be spent in making good friends, having great times with them, studying hard, crushing on a lot of people and other pleasant things. A relationship at such a tender age, basically exposes them to the kind of anxiety and trauma that married people go through! Falling into a relationship erases the brighter and the more important aspects of a teenager’s life. The researchers want to find out who are the high school students who engage their selves in an early relationship specifically in third year level. And how these relationship affects them in their academic performance. The researchers want to know the students’ views, opinions, reactions, and problems about this. They choose to study this topic as it is a very controversial issue among high school students in this generation. 4 Theoretical Background For most American adolescents, romantic relationships begin as a remarkable mystery. What’s this weird feeling deep in the pit of my stomach? How do I get someone to like me? How do I know if someone I like likes me back? What should we do together? What can we talk about? How can I tell if someone really loves me or is trying to make an advantage of me? If we start having a sex, will it change the relationship? Why don’t my parents understand that my boyfriend/girlfriend and I need to spend lots of time together? These are mysteries that nearly all American adolescents must confront; they are a part of growing up. For help with such issues, adolescents may turn to friends or family members or even television shows. But at present there is little reason for them to turn to social scientists for insights because research on this topic has been surprisingly sparse. Investigators have not ignored the topic entirely. Descriptive information on dating has been gathered periodically and some ethnographers have studied peer group processes and romantic relationships. 5 A few theories of adolescent dating and romantic relationships have been proposed. In addition, a substantial amount of research has been conducted on college students, who are sometimes described as late adolescents and sometimes as young adults. Most of that work, however, was not derived from developmental theories, nor was it conducted by adolescent researchers. Instead, the research has stemmed from theories of adult relationships, and the investigators intend them to be studies of adult relationships. 6 THE PROBLEM Statement of the Problem “Engaging in an Early Relationship is One of the Factors Why Most of the Third Year Students Performed Low in Academics” This research on “Engaging in an Early Relationship is One of the Factors Why Most of the Third Year Students Performed Low in Academics” aimed to prove that early relationships are one of the reasons why Junior students cannot focus on their studies and other academic activities as well. 1. What was the profile of the respondents in terms of the following: 1.1. age 1.2. gender 1.3. section 1.4. no. of years in highschool 7 2. What were the respondent’s perceptions on early relationship in terms of: 2.1. Interest in going to school 2.2. Problem encountered in school 2.3. Teen love as a problem 2.4. Engaged in relationships 2.5. Time managements on relationships and studies 2.6. Focus on studies despite of love quarrels 3. What project, plan or recommendation in UCLM that could be proposed? 8 Significance of the Study Interviews with teenage high school students revealed one of the reasons why they perform low in class. When a teenager just broke up with her/his partner, she/he will be having a hard time to focus during discussions. That is why here are some importance on how this study helps the: 1. Students: For them to be aware of the possible effects of having a relationship while still going to school. 2. Teachers: For them to help and understand the feelings of their students. 3. Parents: For them to know how to cope with their teenagers in love and to give them guidance and protection as well. 9 THE RESEARCH METHODOLOGY Research Design This study is in a form of survey form where the researchers first get the respondent’s profile and the perceptions to be answered. The researchers then calculated for the percent and the weighted mean, and proposed a seminar. Figure 1 Research Input, Process and Output Input -Profile of the Process - Survey Method Respondents - Percentage - Perceptions - Weighted Mean Output - Seminar On Early Relationship 10 Research Environment The University of Cebu was founded in 1964. As an institution of higher learning, the university is committed to an authentic education that is founded on the principles of humanity, nationalism and academic excellence. UCLM (University of Cebu Lapu-Lapu and Mandaue) sits at the foot of the old Mactan Bridge, connecting the cites of Cebu and LapuLapu. The cities of Lapu-Lapu and Mandaue are zones for dynamic economic activities that include International industrial export processing companies – producing computer hardware, electronic wares, furniture and metal works, fashion accessories and processed food among others. Lapu- Lapu is the location of the Cebu International Airport, ones gateway to the vibrant leisure and tourism industry of Cebu. UCLM in this sense provides for its students trainings and education responsive to the bigger picture of its locale that is thriving with endless opportunities. 11 The third year high school students of the University of Cebu LapuLapu and Mandaue has a total of four sections (Diamond, Gold, Emerald, Sapphire). 12 Research Procedures A. Data Gathering 1. The research adviser asked the researchers to do a Research Proposal. 2. For the researchers to conduct a survey, they first made a letter for the respondents and for the research adviser. 3. If the respondents and their adviser accept the researchers’ request, the survey process begin. 4. The researchers will provide a survey questionnaire for the respondents to answer. 5. Then, the survey data is gathered and record. The researchers contrast the results. Through the survey results, the researchers can now calculate the general problem. 13 Definition of Terms The following terms were operationally defined for the purpose of explaining further the important concepts presented: love – is sought by everyone, everywhere. It is a constant concern; it is in constant demand. teen peer groups – a group of people who play a bigger role in a couple’s longevity than adults. teenager’s brain – is not fully armed with the requisite experience and knowledge to be able to distinguish between the right person for them, and the wrong. teenage – is an extremely sensitive territory. adolescence – kids are going through a lot of changes, and part of that is developing relationships with other people and feelings in intimate relationships. 14 BIBLIOGRAPHY Printed Books Canfield , Jack; Hansen, Mark Victor; Clapps, Madeline; Howlett, Valerie, Chicken Soup for the Soul: Teens Talk Middle School. New York: Chicken Soup for the Soul Publishing, LLC, 2008. 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