LOVE SHOULD NEVER HURT KNOW THE SIGNS OF ABUSE IN ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS 57% PERCENT OF COLLEGE STUDENTS SAY IT'S DIFFICULT TO IDENTIFY DATING ABUSE ABUSE CAN COME IN MANY FORMS YOUR PARTNER MAY THREATEN TO HURT YOU OR THEMSELVES, TELL YOU HOW TO DRESS OR CONTROL YOUR APPEARANCE, RESTRICT YOUR FINANCES, PREVENT YOU FROM LEAVING THE HOME OR GOING OUT MENTAL ABUSE SIGNS THEY MAY ISOLATE YOU FROM LOVED ONES, INVALIDATE YOUR FEELINGS, REFUSE AFFECTION OR LOVE TO GET YOU TO DO SOMETHING, INSULT YOU, ACT TOTALLY DIFFERENT IN FRONT OF OTHERS , IN RESPONSE TO ABUSE YOU MAY FEEL DEPENDENT ON YOUR ABUSIVE PARTNER, DEFEND THE ABUSER IN FRONT OF LOVED ONES, INVALIDATE YOUR OWN EMOTIONS, FEAR LIVING WITHOUT YOUR PARTNER, OR DENY YOUR SITUATION WHAT CAN I DO TO HELP MYSELF OR OTHERS? IF YOU ARE EXPERIENCING THE ABUSE, CALL THE NATIONAL ABUSE HOTLINE FOR RESOURCES SUCH AS SHELTERS AT 800-799-7233. KNOW THAT YOU ARE NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR THE ACTIONS OF OTHERS IF SOMEONE YOU KNOW IS EXPERIENCING ABUSE, CALL THE NATIONAL ABUSE HOTLINE, THANK YOUR FRIEND FOR CONFIDING IN YOU, AND VERBALLY SUPPORT THEM. TAILOR A SAFETY PLAN IN CASE OF AN EMERGENCY, HELP THEM SEARCH FOR RESOURCES,