ESSAY 1
It is better to have one close friend than a lot of ''friends''
It's good to know there's someone you can trust. It's also good to
know there's someone who places their trust in you. But is it really to
have a relationship that can also cause so much pain and misery? And
does that mean that having a lot of superficial and meaningless
''friendships'' is somehow better?
Having a very close friend means having that one special person you
can tell everything to. Someone you can trust completely, knowing that
there is always a shoulder to cry on in times of great sadness and trouble
is an amazing feeling, and knowing that someone thinks of you the same
way possibly an even better one.
However, with great trust comes great responsibility, and keeping
other people's secrets is never easy. True friendships are often simply
too complicated. It also hurts a great deal if it should ever come to an
end. Therefore it may seem that keeping meaningless and superficial
relationships is much simpler.
Friendships are indeed complicated, and every close relationship
can potentially be very painful. However, knowing that there's someone
you can open up to completely is such a good feeling, and a true
friendship might possibly be lifelong. I'm not really sure what my opinion
is on this topic. I do believe it feels good to open up to someone, but then
again I don't really know much about opening up. I've never really bared
my soul to anyone, and I'm rather sceptical when it comes to people in
general. I honestly don't believe there is anyone I could ever truly open
up to.
ESSAY 2
It is better to have one close friend than a lot of ''friends''
Man is social creature. We need to have friends, but how many? Is
one enough, if not, how many is to many?
To start with, close friend is one who is always there for you, the
one who will never betray you, the one who laughs to your jokes no
matter how stupid they are because he/she has the same ''sick'' mind like
yours. Real friend is a person you can really open your heart and be sure
you won't be judged.
On the other hand, if you loose that close friend, you won't be able
to fill that gap he/she left behind, at least not for a long time.
Furthermore, sometimes you can feel realy bored because you feel like
you two have already said everything, and done everything you could
possibly do. In that moment you feel lonely even with your ''besty'' by
your side. You need to have ''disposable'' friends , friends you can hang
with just to hear their story, friends you don't really care about.
To conclude, close friends will always be there for you to share your
feelings with. Those are keepers, but if you split up with them, you will
never find the real replacement. I think everyone needs to have at least
one close friend but also to have the fake friends, just to be entertained.
ESSAY 3
It is better to have one close friend than a lot of ''friends''
Friendship is very important to every human being. Stability of that
friendship depend of do we have one close friend or a lot of false friend.
On the positive side you know that one real friend will always be
with you. For example when you are in trouble the real friend will always
help you despite a situation. Furthermore he will never judge you. For
example if you want coloured your hair in pink he will have agree with
your dessision. However hi is always with you.
On the bad side when he is sick you are alone. In addition to this,
every time when he can't meet with you, you will stay alone. Another
disadvantage is that you can't have a good fun when you go out.
However it is better when you go out with a lot of friends, because you
have more fun, people and ideas.
To summarize, one friend is enaf to keep your secret and help
you in trouble. But if we want to have a good fun and company then we
will have more then one friend. In my view it is better to have one real
friend than a lot of fals friend. I think the real friend is person who is
always with you, who keep your secrets and never judge you despite
anything.
ESSAY 4
It is better to have one close friend than a lot of ''friends''
One person's life include more than that one person. We all have
families or relatives that, in general, have to love us. But also, there are
people who are our second family that we choose for our selfs – friends.
We can have one true friend or many ''friends''. It depends only on us.
On the plus side of having one close friend is securicy that he will
know you better than five others of ''friends''. For example, if you're
retelling the same story all the time to other person, every time you lose
more details. In fact, no one will know you as good as your one close
friend. Furthermore, one person can't lie to you because it's too hard to
pretend all the time. But in bigger social groups they have each other so
they can easier take your behaviour.
One disadvantage of having one close friend, instead of many, is
staying all by yourself if that friendship brakes. You have nobody to rely
on and you stay lost in misery. In addition to this, in bigger groups of
friends you can get more opinions for your life problems or dillemas, so
you can solve it more easily.
To summarise, on the one hand, close friend offers you the best
friendship you can have, but on the other hand, humans are social
creatures that love company. Before I thought you can have more close
friends, but in todays world, no one is your friend and only person you
can really rely on is yourself.