The Dr Doug Lee Paradigm for diagnosing Depression Stress & Anxiety Definition: It is a state of mind caused by having…. Patient feels… Depression Loss of hope & interest Anxiety Fear of injury, harm or death despair, Stress Unavoidable pain (physical or emotional, real or perceived, immediate or forthcoming) Unachievable desires insufficient means to achieve what one desires (or to avoid what one does not desire) nothing to look forward to, Hopeless Unable to find relief, Surrounded by possibilities of injury or harm to himself or loved ones no desire, Disinterested Patient asks… (This is the main diagnostic feature) Pt says… Couldn’t be bothered no question, but, instead, make negative statements (see below) Unable to do anything about the situation and Unable to escape What should I do? Excessive amount of questions What more can I do? What if…? What about …? (seek guidance) (seek reassurance) *If you talk to a person for 15 minutes and he hasn’t asked a single question, he IS depressed. I can’t cope anymore What’s the point/use… I can’t take this anymore (these are the “diagnostic phrases”) fear of losing what one desires (e.g. good health, happiness) I can’t see any point… I can’t bear this It won’t work…. It’s too much… What if… What about… I feel trapped Suicide risk Reason Medium Can’t be bothered I’m stuck with … Highest Can’t stand the pain (physical or psychological) because: low Life is too precious What he desires is unattainable or Think of Caused by Treatment principle Eyore (lost of Hope, or inability to perceive & appreciate joy) Bestow Hope If you can just hang on, there is light at the end of the tunnel What he cherishes will soon be taken from him Romeo & Juliet Inability to escape or withstand Pain & suffering (mental or physical, real or perceived) Piglet Inability to overcome fear Introduce victim to Love (universally & broadly) Help victim to find Faith, acquire skill, & belief in destiny Look beyond your own pain, find someone else (e.g. a foster child in a 3rd world country), something else (e.g. a hobby, a noble course) to love e.g. Believe in the love of God, believe what will be will be, acquire knowledge & skill to deal with what one fears most e.g. learning to fly to overcome fear of flying.