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FOLLOW HOT ENGLISH ON FACEBOOK www.facebook.com/LearnHotEnglish FOLLOW HOT ENGLISH ON TWITTER www.twitter.com/LearnHotEnglish BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com 3 CONTENTS Page 6 Socialising In English 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26 28 29 30 32 33 34 35 36 38 39 40 4 How To Introduce Yourself WORD BUILDING - Socialising How To Shake Hands And Introduce Yourself! Starting A Conversation PHRASAL VERBS - Chatting About Other People Chatting On A First Date How To Remember People’s Names Chatting To Work Colleagues HOW TO... Make Small Talk What To Do If You Forget Someone’s Name! How To Make Small Talk PHRASAL VERBS - Talking About Work How To Start A Conversation The Importance Of Make Eye Contact In A Conversation! Chatting About Films! How Do You Get To Work? Talking About Relationships Chatting About Parties HOW TO... Improve Your Listening How To Ask Questions In English! Building On The Conversation BODY LANGUAGE: Socialising How Body Language Can Improve Your Communication Skills! Body Language Do’s & Don’ts Meeting For The First Time Getting To Know Someone How To Read Body Language! How To Express Emotions In English! How To Respond To Comments How To Be A People Magnet Inviting Someone Out BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com Page 41 PHRASAL VERBS - Likes & Dislikes 76 Invitations How To Arrange A Meeting How To Build Rapport With Someone Asking About A City PHRASAL VERBS - Socialising Telling Jokes How To Tell Stories In English! Talking About Your Adventures WORD BUILDING - Arguing Catching Up On All The Latest News! Money Chat Giving Opinions On Hypocrisy The Business Lunch Networking How To Introduce Yourself Quickly 8 Easy Ways To Improve Your Pronunciation! PRONUNCIATION... Key Words & Word Linking 12 Important Proverbs And Sayings! PRONUNCIATION... Connected Speech & Sentence Stress How To Improve Your Spoken English Reporting Back On Events How To Give A Back-Handed Compliment Getting Into The City Asking About Someone’s Plans Catching Up On The Latest News! What Do You Think Of The Underground? How To Get Talking To Someone Four Social Dialogues Chatting About Regrets! Chatting About Sunday! Making Plans How To End A Conversation 77 Answers 81 Audio Scripts 42 44 45 46 47 48 49 50 51 52 53 54 55 56 57 58 59 60 62 63 65 66 67 68 69 70 71 72 73 74 75 BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com 5 SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Answers on page 77 Objective To learn how to start a conversation in English 1 Speech bubbles Complete the sentences (1 to 7) with the words from below. from in card address join coming welcome 1. We’re playing squash tonight. Do you fancy Think about it! When was the last time you met someone new? Where were they from? What did you talk about? Do you ever socialise with your work colleagues or friends from college / university? What do you do? Do you go out with friends very often? Where do you go? What do you like to do when you meet up with members of your family? along? 2. We’re going for a drink after work. You’re to join us if you want. 3. What’s your e-mail ? 4. We’re going to get something to eat. Do you want to us? 5. Have you got a business ? 6. So, what part of the world are you ? Where to socialise! What are some of the typical places where people socialise, chat or make small talk? Think of as many as you can. Then, compare your ideas with the ones below. Places to socialise 7. Is this your first time Shanghai? 6 in an airport waiting lounge, by the water cooler at the office, in a hotel reception, at a bus stop, in a museum, in a lift (elevator), in a hair salon, at a business lunch, waiting for a meeting, travelling in a taxi through a new city, at a party, in a football stadium, at the opening party for an art exhibition, at a pub, having a coffee in a bar. Other? BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com TRACK 01 HOW TO INTRODUCE YOURSELF Answers on page 77 Objective To learn how to introduce yourself in English Think about it When was the last time you had to introduce yourself? Who were you talking to? What are some polite ways to introduce yourself to people in your language? What do you usually say to friends when you see them after a short period of time? How do you greet them? What about friends you haven’t seen for a long time? What do you say or do? 1 Pre-listening For each of the situations below, say how you’d greet the person and what you’d say to them in the first minute of conversation. 1. A good friend you’ve just met in the street. 2. Someone you’ve met for the first time in an internet café. 3. A friend you bump into on the train who you haven’t seen for six years. 4. Someone who you’ve just been introduced to at a party. 2 Listening I You’re going to listen to four mini-conversations. Listen once to compare your ideas from the Pre-listening activity. Did they say any of the things you thought of? 3 When listening to a conversation you won’t understand every word the people say. So, listen out for the key words – the most important words in the conversation: the nouns, verbs, adjectives, etc. Then, use your intuition to guess what people are saying. Listening II Listen again. Then, answer the questions. Conversation I 1. What does Jack hope he’s done? 2. What does Ben suggest doing? Conversation II 3. How long has Jessica been there? 4. What did Alex do in the north? Conversation III 5. How long is it since they last saw each other? 6. What has Sandra just done? Conversation IV 7. When did John and Mark first meet? 8. How long did Jane work with John for in London? 4 Useful language Complete the mini-dialogues with the correct words. Brian Conrad. A: How do you do? (1) B: How do you do? Alexandra Scott. (2) meet you. to A: Good morning, I’m Jack Smith from Numan PLC. ? Pleased to meet you. B: How do you (3) A: How do you do? I’m Elliot Smith from GHT. you, Mr Smith. B: Nice to (4) is John. A: Hello, my (5) B: I’m Abbie Nichols. Pleased to meet you. A: Pleased to meet you A: So, have you been here (6) B: About six months now. long? A: So, how long have you and Pete (7) other? B: For about three years. each you for ages. A: I haven’t (8) B: Yeah, it’s been a while. BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com 7 TRACK 02 WORD BUILDING SOCIALISING Answers on page 77 Complete the sentences with the words you hear. 1 2 Go out for a drink Have a chat If you “have a chat” with someone, you talk to them in a friendly, informal way about things that aren’t really important. “We had a chat with Pete in that bar you .” 3 If you “go out for a drink” with someone, you go to a bar, café, etc. and have a drink with them. “We went out for a drink last night and didn’t get home till about three in the .” 4 5 Break the ice Look familiar (a person) Ring a bell (a name) If you “break the ice”, you do or say something to make a situation less tense and more relaxed. “I thought a funny joke might break the ice, but it only made things .” If someone “looks familiar”, you think you recognise them, but you aren’t entirely sure. “His face looks familiar, but I can’t recall where we first .” If someone’s name “rings a bell”, you think you recognise it, but you aren’t sure. “Her name rings a bell, but I can’t where we first met.” 6 7 8 Get to know someone Have a lot in common If you “have a lot in common” with someone, you’ve been to the same places, you like the same things, you know the same people, etc. “After about half-an-hour of chatting to her, I soon realised that we had quite a lot in .” 9 Mutual friend If friends A and B have a “mutual friend” (C), A and B both know C, although A, B and C have never been together at the same time. “I think we’ve got a mutual friend. You Charles, don’t you?” If you “get to know someone”, you start learning things about them and discovering what they’re like. “After spending a week together at the , we got to know each other quite well.” 10 Not have a clue who someone is If you “haven’t got a clue who someone is”, you really can’t remember who they are, and you aren’t even sure if you’ve met before. “I haven’t got a clue who she is. In fact, I don’t even think we’ve met .” 8 Put your foot in it If you “put your foot in it”, you do or say something silly. “I put my foot in it when I said I hated the restaurant – I never knew it was his mum’s restaurant and his dad was the .” BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com VIDEO 01 HOW TO SHAKE HANDS AND INTRODUCE YOURSELF! Answers on page 77 SHAKING HANDS WITH SOMEONE YOU’VE NEVER MET BEFORE 1. Step forward towards the other person. 2. Extend your right hand. 3. Take the other’s person’s right hand in your right hand. 3. Look the other person in the eyes and smile. 4. Shake the other person’s hand, moving it up and down once or twice. 5. Take your hand back, and step back. 1 Pre-viewing 2 First viewing 3 Second viewing When was the last time you introduced yourself to someone? Where were you? Who did you introduce yourself to? How did it go? How do friends introduce themselves in your country? What about in business situations? What are your top tips for introducing yourself in business situations? Make notes. Remember, “How do you do?” isn’t a question you have to answer – it’s just a form of greeting. And you answer it with “How do you do?” For example: A: How do you do? B: How do you do? Watch the video once. Were any of your ideas from the Pre-viewing task mentioned? Watch the video again. Then, put the following statements in the order in which they appear in the video. Make eye contact as you’re shaking the other person’s hand. You should be standing up when you shake hands. Make sure your body language is good; stand up straight with your shoulders back. Make sure you give a firm handshake, but not so hard that you injure the other person. As you introduce yourself, give your first and last name. Smile so you can give a really good first impression. Shake the other person’s hand for the entire time it takes you to introduce yourself. As you shake hands, make sure you touch the web of the other person’s hand. When watching a video in English, you probably won’t understand every word the people say. But don’t worry. Simply listen out for the key words – the most important words in the conversation: the nouns, verbs, adjectives, etc. Then, use your intuition to guess what the people are saying. The handshake The handshake is an extremely important aspect of non-verbal communication. It can set the mood for the entire conversation. In western culture, a firm handshake will make you appear confident and trustworthy; while a limp handshake can make you appear weak. However, be careful as a very hard handshake could make you appear to be aggressive. Also, watch out for people who try to turn your hand so their hand is on top. This is a power play and an attempt to show that they’re in charge and the dominant person. The same thing is true when people use their other hand to pat your other arm or shoulder. BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com 9 TRACK 03 STARTING A CONVERSATION Answers on page 77 Objective To learn how to start a conversation in English WAIT FOR ME! It’s important to get on with people socially as well as professionally. Research has shown that we prefer to work with people we get on with and have a good relationship with. Useful language: short answers We use short answers in response to yes/no questions. For example: A: Are you happy? B: Yes, I am. A: Is she French? B: No, she isn’t. 1 Pre-listening Think of five questions to ask someone about the school they went to as a child. For example: Where was the school? What was the name of the school? Did you have to wear a school uniform? What was the food like? Then, answer all the questions yourself. 2 Listening I 3 Listening II You’re going to listen to two people who are talking about their schools. Listen once. Did they ask any of the questions that you thought of? Listen again. Then, write T (True) or F (False) next to each statement. 1. Jessica went to a vegetarian school. 2. She had to wear a uniform. 3. There were about 350 pupils in her school. 4. Bob’s school was strict. 5. At break time, the children had to play football or basketball or join a club. 6. Bob threw some water over an older child. 7. Bob was allowed to go home to change his shirt. 10 Notice how we often repeat the auxiliary verb in the short answer. For example: A: Can you do it? B: Yes, I can. A: Does he know her? B: No, he doesn’t. Note: when using short answers, we don’t use contractions with affirmative forms of the verb to be. For example, you can’t say: Yes, I’m. / Yes, they’re, etc. You have to say, Yes, I am. / Yes, they are, etc. However, it is possible to use contractions with the negative forms. For example, you can say: No, I’m not. / No, they aren’t. 4 Exercise Answer the questions with the correct short answers. Use affirmative short answers. 1. Is she at home? = Yes, she is. 2. Are the shoes sold here? 3. Did he go to the concert? 4. Were they working on the project? 5. Had they seen it before? 6. Has she called yet? 7. Will they have completed it by next week? 8. Is she going to work over the holidays? BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com PHRASAL VERBS CHATTING ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE Answers on page 77 Complete the sentences (1 to 8) with the words from below. saw tragic job offer girlfriend seen places heard film 1 2 End up If you “end up” in a certain place, you go there eventually. “I heard that Georgia ended up in Canada, of all .” Put on If you “put on” weight, you become fatter or heavier. “Bill has put on a bit of weight since I last him.” 3 4 Go out Turn down If two people are “going out”, they’re in a relationship. “I’ve that Ben and Lauren are going out.” If you “turn down” an offer, you don’t accept it. “Did you hear? Sophie turned down the in Chicago.” 5 6 Make of If you don’t know what to “make of” something, you don’t know what to think of it. “Have you seen that that Ellis is in? I’m not quite sure what to make of it.” 7 Move in If you “move in” with someone, you start living with them. The opposite is “move out”. “Greg has moved in with his , at last.” 8 Break up / split up Find out If two people in a relationship “break up”, they stop the relationship. “Madison and Finley broke up after six years together. It’s !” If you “find out” information, you discover it or learn about it. “Did you ever find out what happened to Zoe? I haven’t or heard from her for ages.” BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com 11 TRACK 04 CHATTING ON A FIRST DATE Answers on page 77 Objective To learn how to ask basic questions about someone I HOPE HE LIKES ME! 1 Pre-listening 2 Listening I I HOPE SHE LIKES ME! Remember, most people like to talk about themselves more than anything else. So, ask them lots of questions and get them talking about themselves! What questions could you ask someone you’ve just met? Think of at least six. For example: Where did you go to school? Have you got any brothers or sisters? What type of films do you like? Etc. You’re going to listen to two people (Nigel and Erika) who are on a blind date – a romantic evening for two people who have never met before. Listen once to compare your ideas from the Prelistening activity. Were any of your questions mentioned? 3 Listening II Listen again. Then, answer the questions. 1. What’s Nigel going to have to drink? 2. What school did Nigel go to? 3. Where did Erika grow up? 4. Where did Nigel shoot a lion? 5. What did he learn to do in Thailand? 6. What does Erika say about Nigel’s photo on his diving licence? 7. What type of car has Nigel got? 8. What does Erika do? 12 4 Useful language Complete the questions with the correct question words (when, where, why, what, etc.). Then, try to answer five of the questions. are you from? 1. do you do? [to ask about someone’s job] 2. do you work? 3. does your company do? 4. long are you over here for? 5. are you studying? 6. do you think of it so far? 7. line of business are you in? 8. long have you been here? 9. did you decide to change jobs? 10. did you move over here? 11. did you get into journalism? 12. BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com VIDEO 02 HOW TO REMEMBER PEOPLE’S NAMES Answers on page 77 Never underestimate the value of small talk. Small conversations can often lead to BIG business. 1 Pre-viewing 2 Comprehension How do you remember people’s names? What are your top tips? Make notes. Then, watch the video. Rate the speaker’s advice for remembering names on a scale of 1 to 10 (10 being the highest score). Watch the video again. Then, answer the questions. 1. Why is it easy to remember a face? 2. Apart from the bun on Beatrice’s hair, what other features does he mention? 3. What does he suggest putting on top of her hair? 4. What is he going to see every time he talks to her? 5. What should you do if you get introduced to lots of people at the same time? 6. What does he picture every time he meets someone called Bill? 7. What features of Bill’s face does he mention? Which one does he choose? 8. What’s he going to put on Bill’s nose? TOP TIPS FOR REMEMBERING NAMES! Make an effort to learn and use someone’s name. This will help to make a positive impression. Here are our top tips for remembering someone’s name. 1. Focus on the person. Give them your undivided attention. And don’t allow yourself to become distracted. 2. Repeat their name aloud. This will help you remember it. 3. Ask a question to give you time to try to remember the name or repeat it in your head. It also shows that you’re interested in the person. 4. As the other person is answering your question, repeat their name silently at least ten times in your mind. 5. Make an association between their name and something else. The more bizarre and exaggerated the visualisation, the better. For example, if someone called Carol is a computer technician, you could create a picture of “Carol singing a Christmas carol with a computer on her head”. 6. End the conversation by saying the other person’s name. Then, when you’ve left, write down the name for future reference and recall. BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com 13 TRACK 05 CHATTING TO WORK COLLEAGUES Answers on page 77 Objective To learn how to chat with colleagues in English 1 Pre-listening What can you chat about at work or during a break at college? Think of as many things as you can. Then, look at the list below. What could you say about each thing? the weather, e-mails, meetings, the boss, other colleagues, lunch, the weekend, holidays, family, their house, studies, hobbies, food, drink, parties… 2 Listening I You’re going to listen to two people (James and Lily) chatting at work. Listen once. Does Lily invite James to her dinner party in the end? 3 Listening II Listen again. Then, answer the questions with short answers. 1. Did Lily get the e-mail that James forwarded to her? 2. Is Lily’s computer working properly now? 3. Does Lily have any plans for this evening? 4. Is she having a dinner party? 5. Has she moved into her new house? 6. Did she forget to invite Mike? 14 4 Useful language Avoid interrupting someone or looking around for someone else to talk to. Instead, try to learn about others as well as sharing information about yourself. Show that you’re sincerely interested in building a new relationship. Business circles are small, so you need to leave a good impression. Complete the sentences with the correct words. up to at the weekend? 1. What did you ? 2. What was your weekend to a lovely restaurant. 3. We all weekend. 4. The weather was terrible. It into the new house yet? 5. Have you some friends round on Saturday evening. 6. We most of the weekend studying for an exam. 7. I up late, had a big breakfast and spent the 8. I rest of the day in my pyjamas. BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com HOW TO... MAKE SMALL TALK Our top 11 tips on how to make small talk in English. SMALL TALK “Small talk” = casual conversation based on trivial topics (such as the weather, cinema, family, etc.) in an informal setting: while waiting for a bus, in a lift, at a business lunch, having a coffee in a café, at a party, etc. You may be able to deliver killer speeches, wonderful presentations and professional talks on topics of your choice. But can you make small talk? There are times in life when you need to make casual conversation. And in business, the social aspect of a business relationship is often as important as the professional one. Here are our top 10 tips for making small talk. 1 LISTEN 2 QUESTIONS 3 INTEREST The number-one rule when making small talk is to listen. Make a conscious effort to remember what the other person is saying. Then, you can use this information to generate more conversation. In order to keep the conversation going, ask lots of open questions with question words such as who, why, what, when and where. For example: a) What did you think of the conference? b) Where did you go for your last holidays? c) Who did you see at the party last week? While you’re talking to someone, focus exclusively on that person. And use your body language to show that you’re interested: face the person, use eye contact and nod your head at appropriate moments. Also, use conversational fillers such as “ah ha / really? / amazing!” to show that you’re interested in what they’re saying... even if you aren’t! 4 FOLLOW UP Follow up on everything that the person you’re talking to tells you. For example: a) You’re a lawyer, aren’t you? What motivated you to go into law? b) So, you like tennis, don’t you? How often do you get to play? 5 EGO CHECK Try to avoid always turning the attention of the conversation back on yourself. For example, if someone mentions that they’ve just been to Italy, don’t respond with, “Oh, I’ve been there. We went there last year.” Instead, use this information as an opportunity to ask lots of questions about the other person’s trip: Where did you go? Who did you go with? What was it like? What did you see? 6 WATCH OUT! 7 PRACTICE 8 READ! 9 WRITE IT DOWN 10 THINK “SITUATION”! 11 TOP TOPICS Practise making small talk whenever you can. When abroad, talk with cashiers, waiters, and taxi drivers, and try to get into conversation when you’re in a queue, in a lift or in the doctors’ waiting room. The more you practise, the better you’ll get. Keep up-to-date on the latest news so you’ll always have something to talk about; and try to read things on a wide variety of topics: cookery, television, music, sports, fashion, art, baseball, Russia, butter, hip-hop, shoes, poetry... anything goes! Write down any interesting stories you hear, or details of funny things that have happened to you. Later, you can use these anecdotes to brighten up a dull conversation. For example: a) I’ve had a terrible day. Just as I was leaving home… b) Something really funny happened to me the other day. Just as I got to work… c) I had a nightmare at the hotel yesterday. d) I heard this funny story on the news last night. Think carefully about where you are. For example, if you’re at a wedding, think of all the relevant things you could ask: How do you know the bride? How long have you been friends with the groom? How did you get here? Where are you staying? Or, if you’re visiting a new company, you could ask the following: What’s it like working here? How easy is it to get into the city centre? Where’s a good place to get lunch round here? Etc. If you’re ever running out of conversation, use one of these fail-safe conversation topics: the news, film, football, sport, music, the weather, fashion, literature, cars, hobbies, the weekend, videogames, the theatre, family, local topics (shops, clubs, etc.), TV, celebrities, scandals, holidays, travel, entertainment, work, your hometown, food, traditions, customs For example: a) I went to this great restaurant last night. b) What are you doing this weekend? c) I saw this incredible film last week. Avoid saying anything that could be interpreted as criticism Small talk can be a lot of fun, but you need to prepare or judgement; and above all, keep away from potentially for it and practise. And remember, small talk can lead to controversial topics such as religion and politics. big business! BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com 15 VIDEO 03 WHAT TO DO IF YOU FORGET SOMEONE’S NAME! Try to remember people’s names, and use their name in conversation. One way to do this is to associate their name with something visual: something they’re wearing, something that rhymes with their name, an animal their name sounds like, an object their name reminds you of, etc. 1 Pre-viewing 2 First viewing 3 Second viewing Have you ever forgotten someone’s name while you were talking to them? Where were you? Who were you talking to? What happened? What do you usually do if you forget someone’s name? Make notes. Watch the video once. Were any of your ideas mentioned? Match the sentences or sentence beginnings and endings. Then, watch the video again to check your answers. 1. It happens to the best of us... 2. What I always say is address it... 3. Don’t just hope that the right type of question... 4. I’m so sorry I’ve just forgotten your name,... 5. It’s been days that you’ve known them... 6. Do a little bit of homework – send a text to someone,... 7. There is that kind of social awkwardness if... 8. We’re all human. We all do it... ...would you mind telling me again? ...will prompt them to say their name. ...– it happens to all of us. ...and suddenly you’ve forgotten their name. ...you have forgotten their name and you’ve known them for some time. f. ...We all forget people’s names every now and again. g. ...– don’t skirt around the issue. h. ...do whatever you can to find out what their name is. a. b. c. d. e. 16 BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com Answers on page 77 Use their name in your first or second response, and mention their name naturally during the conversation, but don’t overdo it. Lastly, remember to repeat their name when saying goodbye. TRACK 06 HOW TO MAKE SMALL TALK Answers on page 77 Think about it When was the last time you went to a party? Whose party was it? Who did you talk to there? What did you talk about? Did you meet anyone new? What did you talk to them about? What did you eat or drink there? ARE YOU IMPRESSED? In order to generate conversation, use question words such as who, why, what, when and where. And avoid asking too many yes/no questions (such as, Do you live here? / Did you like it? etc.) as they only required a one-word answer. 1 Pre-listening Imagine you’re at a party and you’ve just met someone. What can you talk about with them? Add at least three more items to the list. the host, the food or drinks, the other guests, how you know the host, the weather, the house or flat where the party is, any mutual friends, the music… 2 Listening I NOT REALLY! You’re going to listen to a conversation between two people who have just met at a party. Listen once. Do they talk about any of the things you thought of for the Pre-listening activity? 3 Listening II Listen again. Then, choose the correct answers. 1. Who is Ellie’s flatmate? a) Steve b) Jenny 2. What is Jenny wearing? a) a blue dress b) a pair of red trousers 4 3. Which company does Ellie work in? a) Earnest Shapely b) Brooks Productions 4. What is Steve’s profession? He’s a/an… a) accountant b) teacher 5. What does Steve do in his free time? a) a bit of acting b) a lot of cycling 6. Where did Steve live once? In… a) Hong Kong b) Chicago Useful language – making small talk Complete the sentences with the correct words. you? 1. You’re Ellie, ? 2. How’s it of Sarah’s, aren’t you? 3. You’re a Jenny. 4. I don’t think I’ve together? 5. So, do you two jobs, so we aren’t in the same 6. She company any more. that? 7. So, which company any famous people? 8. Do you get to ? 9. So, what about you? What do you there for a 10. Interesting. My aunt few years. amazing. 11. It must have the ferry to work. 12. I had to BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com 17 PHRASAL VERBS TALKING ABOUT WORK Complete the sentences (1 to 8) with the words from below. help client deadlines morning toys manager 1 person end 2 Write up Phone up / call up If you “write up” a report (for example), you write the report using notes you made earlier. “Could you write up that report for me by Monday , please?” 3 If you “phone someone up”, you call them so you can speak to them. “If she isn’t responding to our e-mails, call her up or go round to her office to speak to her in .” 4 Copy in If you “copy someone in” on an e-mail, you include their e-mail address in the list of people who will receive the e-mail. “Don’t forget to copy me in on all those e-mails you send the .” 5 Back up If you “back up” material, you make a copy of it. “Don’t forget to back up your work every day at the of the day.” 6 Take over If you “take over” control of something, you become the person who controls it.” “Jennifer took over as project from Mark as things weren’t going too well under him.” 7 Get down If something is “getting you down”, it’s making you feel depressed. “All these really tight are starting to get me down.” 8 Build up / pile up Step up If work is starting to “build up” (or “pile up”), the amount you have to do is increasing. “The number of documents we have to deal with is really building up. I think we need some outside .” If you “step up” production (for example), you increase it or do it more quickly. “We need to step up production if we want to get all these made on time.” 18 BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com Answers on page 77 TRACK 07 HOW TO START A CONVERSATION Answers on page 77 Objective To learn how to introduce yourself and start a conversation Think about it Have you ever been stuck in a lift? What happened? Was there anyone else with you? What did you talk about? When was the last time you went to a conference? What was it about? Who did you meet? What did you talk about? I’M SORRY BUT I’VE RUN OUT OF THINGS TO SAY. As Dale Carnegie once said, “You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you.” So, get the other person talking as much as you can. 1 Pre-listening For each of the situations below, say how you’d introduce yourself, what you’d say to the other person to get the conversation started, and what topics of conversation you’d use to keep the conversation going. 1. You’re stuck in the lift at work with someone who works on another floor. 2. You’re at a conference and you’re ordering a coffee at the bar. You see someone you’d like to talk to. 2 Listening I You’re going to listen to two mini-conversations. Listen once to check your ideas from the Pre-listening activity. Did they say any of the things you thought of? Did they discuss any of the topics you thought of? 3 Listening II Listen again. Then, answer the questions. Call I 1. Which company does Jack work for and on which floor? 2. Which company does Beth work for and on which floor? 3. Why does Jack get out of the lift before his floor? 4. What does Beth invite Jack to do? Call II 5. What was the problem with Keith’s booking? 6. What positive things do they mention about the hotel? Things people love talking about include their jobs, achievements, family, hometown, hobbies, sports... 7. Why hasn’t Justin done much sightseeing? 8. Why was Keith’s wife able to accompany him? 4 Useful language Complete the sentences with the correct words. the way. 1. I’m Beth, meet you. 2. Pleased do you work on? 3. So, which 4. I thought we were going to be here all 5. Actually, I think I’ll get out here too and up. a coffee? 6. So, do you fancy 7. There’s a café on this floor, just round the here? 8. So, is it your first ? 9. Where are you 10. Actually, I think I saw you checking in at the other day. 11. The breakfast buffet is amazing, and the are incredible! ? 12. Have you been down to the ? 13. So, have you done much . 14. Actually, I’ve been here ? 15. So, what does she 16. She’s a dentist. Actually, that’s how we BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com . . ! 19 VIDEO 04 THE IMPORTANCE OF EYE CONTACT IN A CONVERSATION! As Dale Carnegie once said, “There are four ways, and only four ways, in which we have contact with the world. We are evaluated and classified by these four contacts: what we do, how we look, what we say, and how we say it.” 1 Pre-viewing 2 First viewing 3 Second viewing What are the pros and cons of maintaining eye contact with the person you’re talking to? Why might it be important? What could the other person think if you don’t maintain eye contact? Make notes. Watch the video once. Were any of your ideas from the Pre-viewing task mentioned? Watch the video again. Then, put the following statements in the order in which they appear in the video. A lot of people have a hard time making eye contact. If you get distracted by something, make sure you refocus your attention as soon as possible. Ask a close friend or loved one to give you feedback on your conversational style. Look at the central point between someone’s eyebrows if you have problems making eye contact. Make sure you don’t stare too much. 1 Have a conversation with yourself in front of a mirror and watch your eyes and see how often they drift off. Look off now and then when you’re speaking, but not for too long – just a second or two. Blinking too much comes across as a little bit awkward. 20 BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com Answers on page 77 TRACK 08 CHATTING ABOUT FILMS! Answers on page 77 Objective To learn how to talk about films Focus exclusively on the person you’re talking to. Use your body language to show that you’re interested in what the other person is saying. I’VE GOT A FEW PROBLEMS TO IRON OUT! 2 Pre-listening Think of four typical questions to ask about a film. For example: What’s it about? / Who’s in it? GAME ON! 1 3 Listening I 4 Listening II You’re going to listen to two conversations with people chatting about these two films: The Hunger Games and Iron Man 3. Listen once. Did you hear any of the questions you thought of for the Pre-listening activity? Movie matching Write a movie title from below next to the film descriptions (1 to 6). It’s a Wonderful Life Psycho The Shawshank Redemption Casablanca 1. Marion Crane (Janet Leigh) is on the run after stealing money from the place where she works. After driving through the night, she stops at a motel. That night, creepy motel owner Norman Bates (Anthony Perkins) pays her a visit. Directed by Alfred Hitchock. 2. A wrongfully-imprisoned banker and a fellow prisoner try to escape from jail. The film stars Tim Robbins and Morgan Freeman, and was directed by Frank Darabont. 3. This American drama is about George Bailey (James Stewart). After deciding to commit suicide on Christmas Eve, his guardian angel, Clarence Oddbody (Henry Travers), appears and makes George think twice. The film was directed by Frank Capra. 4. Rick Blaine (Humphrey Bogart) lives a lonely life as a nightclub owner in Casablanca, Morocco. But things take a turn for the better when a former love interest, Ilsa Lund (Ingrid Bergman), returns out of the blue. Set during WWII, the film was directed by Michael Curtiz. Listen again. Then, answer the questions. The Hunger Games 1. What did Josh and Megan order to eat? 2. What did Josh think of the film? 3. What genre of film does he say it is? 4. What’s the film about? Iron Man 3 5. What did Pete think of the film? 6. Who is the main character fighting against? 7. Who plays the part of the baddie? 8. What is Chloe doing while Pete is talking? 5 Useful language Notice how we often use the Present Simple when we’re telling stories. Complete the sentences with the words from below. by directed in about do takes like take set stars 1. The film place in the 1920s. in Chicago during the Depression. 2. It’s by Steven Spielberg. 3. It’s Tom Cruise and Nicole Kidman. 4. It place? 5. Where does it ? 6. What’s it ? 7. Who’s it directed it? 8. Who stars about it? 9. What did you in the box office? 10. How well did it BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com 21 TRACK 09 HOW DO YOU GET TO WORK? Answers on page 77 Objective To learn to describe how you get to work Think about it How do you get to work or school? How long does it take you? What’s the longest it’s ever taken you? What about the shortest time? What do you like or dislike about the journey? How expensive is it per month? What means of transport would you like to take in order to get to work? How practical would that be? HI, HO, HI, HO, IT’S OFF TO WORK WE GO! 1 Pre-listening 2 Listening I a. b. c. d. e. 25 minutes 50 minutes 30 minutes 20 minutes 45 minutes 3 Listening II Maintain eye contact with the person you’re talking to. Letting your eyes wander while in conversation shows that you aren’t interested. Look at the list of forms of transport below. What are the pros and cons of using each one for getting to work? train, bus, car, bike, underground, tram, taxi, motorbike, walking, helicopter… Other? You’re going to listen to five people talking about how they get to work. Listen once and match the forms of transport (1 to 5) to the times it takes them to commute (a-e). 1. Train 2. Bus and train 3. Bus 4. Bike 5. Underground Listen again. Then, answer the questions. 1. Train: How far does the speaker live from the city? 2. Bus: How long does the bus take? 3. Car: How much does it cost to leave the car in the car park? 4. Bike: How long does it take the speaker to cycle to work? 5. Underground: What time does the speaker try to leave home? 22 4 Useful language Complete the sentences with the correct words. Then, listen again to check your answers. the city where I work. 1. I live about 50 km my house. 2. Luckily, there’s a train station about 50 minutes with 3. I catch the train, which all the stops. from the 4. I use the time to catch up on any day before. near my house. 5. I walk to a bus 15 minutes. 6. The bus takes about 30 minutes. 7. The train ride to work every 8. I use the park-and-ride system to morning. the nearby 9. I leave the house at 6.30 and drive bus station. 10. My commute to work takes about 25 minutes . by 11. I can leave my bike in the garage under the office at . only 12. I have to change lines once but the whole takes about half an hour. – from about 7:30 13. It’s really busy at peak onwards. 14. There are delays sometimes but the trains are . quite BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com TRACK 10 TALKING ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS Answers on page 77 Objective To learn how to talk about your relationships Think about it When was the last time you asked someone out on a date or someone asked you out on a date? Where did you go? Where’s the best place to go out on a date? Why? What can go wrong on a date? What’s the worst date you’ve ever been on? And the best? What do people typically say on a date? THIS IS NICE! 1 YES, I ALWAYS BRING MY DATES HERE. Pre-listening If you ask someone out on a date, what could you invite them to do? Think of as many ideas as you can. For example: to go for a meal in a restaurant, to go for a walk in the park, to go to a party… 2 Be positive and optimistic and you’ll be welcome in any social setting. Smiling can help you appear to be positive. It can also make you feel good, psychologically. Listening I You’re going to listen to two people (Alfie and Lisa) who are chatting in a bar. Alfie is talking about his love life. He wants to go on a date with Jessica, but it’s proving to be difficult. Listen once. How many of your ideas from the Pre-listening task were mentioned? 3 Listening II Listen again. Then, choose the correct words. 1. Alfie asked Jessica to the cinema / theatre on Tuesday. 2. He invited her to dinner / lunch on Wednesday. 3. He invited her to the cinema / theatre on Thursday. 4. He asked her to accompany him to the theatre / opera on Friday. 5. He wants to invite her to the opening of an art gallery / arcade this evening. 6. He promises he won’t phone her again until the end of April / May. 7. She’s in mourning because her hamster / grandfather died. 4 Useful language Complete the sentences with the correct prepositions. Then, listen again to check your answers. the cinema on Tuesday. 1. We went football. 2. She isn’t that keen going away this weekend. 3. We’re thinking my place after the film. 4. I invited her back an Italian restaurant. 5. We had a lovely meal my own. 6. I guess I’ll have to go to the art gallery Jessica? 7. So, how are things yet? 8. Have you asked her now? 9. Are you guys going then? Can’t she make it? 10.What’s BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com 23 TRACK 11 CHATTING ABOUT PARTIES Answers on page 77 Objective To keep a conversation going with questions Think about it When was the last time you went to a party? What was it like? Have you ever hosted a party? How did it go? What type of party was it? What do you like/dislike about parties? What would your dream party be like? SHALL WE HAVE A PARTY? 1 Pre-listening Think of as many types of party as you can: birthday party, wedding party, going away party, surprise party, homecoming party, fancy-dress party, dinner party, engagement party, Halloween party, pyjama party, New Year’s Eve party… Try not to complain or criticise too much as this will send out negative vibes. The more positive you are with people, the more they’ll appreciate you. What does each one involve? What are your favourite types? Why? 2 Listening I You’re going to listen to two people talking about parties. Listen once. What type of parties do they mention? 3 Listening II Listen again. Then, answer the questions. 1. Whose house did Madison go to for the party? 2. What happened towards the end of the party? 3. What did the drunk guy at Oscar’s party do in the kitchen? 4. Why did he “shuffle away”? 5. What was Madison going to do for her 23rd birthday party? 6. What happened when she walked into her friend’s house? 24 4 Useful language Complete the questions with the correct question words (who, what, where, etc.). was the party like? 1. did all this happen? 2. did you do then? 3. were you staying? 4. happened in the end? 5. was the trip over there? 6. were you with at the time? 7. happened next? 8. were you when that happened? 9. did you get up to at the weekend? 10. BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com HOW TO... IMPROVE YOUR LISTENING Here are nine top tips for improving your listening skills in English. Objective To learn how to motivate the person you’re talking to Be yourself. The things that make you different are the very things that make you interesting. People with magnetic personalities are people who are comfortable in their own skin. WHY DO YOU THINK YOU’VE GOT TWO EARS AND ONE MOUTH? 1 ACCEPT THE FACTS! First of all, you need to accept the fact that you aren’t going to understand everything. Experts have shown that we only actually hear or fully understand about 40% of the words during a conversation… even in our own language. 2 6 THINK “CONTEXT”! 7 GUESS! KEEP CALM! The other really important thing is to think about the context. If you know what the main topic is, you’ll be able to guess what the people are talking about. For example, if you know the topic is “the weather”, you can be sure that they’re going to mention things about the rain, the snow, the wind, the temperature… and so on. ASK FOR HELP! If you know what the context of the conversation is, you should be able to guess a lot of what the other person is saying… even if you don’t hear or understand all the words. The trick is to use your imagination, to guess and to follow your intuition. It isn’t an exact science, but it works! While you’re listening, the most important thing is to stay calm. You won’t understand everything, so don’t let that upset you. The aim is to get a general idea of what the other person is saying. Never try to listen out for every word. Listen for the gist of the conversation – go for the main ideas. 3 SO YOU CAN HEAR TWICE AS MUCH AS YOU SAY! If you’re having problems during the conversation, ask the other person to speak more slowly. Also, ask people to repeat things if you didn’t understand. Again, the speaker is trying to have a conversation and will do what 8 IMPROVE YOUR PRONUNCIATION! Finally, you need to learn about English pronunciation, they can to help you. and above all, connected speech. This occurs when 4 DON’T TRANSLATE! sounds merge together to form new sounds – often While you’re listening, don’t try to translate. If you do, when a consonant sound at the end of a word is you’ll start concentrating on translating and not on followed by a vowel sound in the following word. For processing the information. And then you’ll lose track of example, “She lived in New York” would be “She liv din the conversation. New York” with connected speech. And we don’t usually say, “Look / out” (with separate sounds), we say, “Loo 5 KEY WORDS! kout” (with the final consonant “k” combining with the The most important thing is to listen out for the key vowel sound “ow” of the second word). words – the important, stressed words. Basically, 9 PRACTISE! English is a stress-timed language. This means that So, what can you do to improve your listening skills? when we speak, we focus on specific stressed words There are three main things: while quickly gliding over the rest. Those stressed 1. Listen to recordings that are specifically targeted at words are usually nouns (“dog / table), verbs (“sit / your level. run”), adjectives (“beautiful / wonderful”) and 2. Listen to native speaker conversations and recordings adverbs (“quickly / slowly”). Most of the other words (from films, the news, TV series, songs, etc.) in order (determiners, auxiliary verbs, pronouns, etc.) are weak to develop your ear for the language. sounds. The great thing is that you only really need 3. Listen to recorded material and read the tapescript to understand the key words in order to follow the at the same time so you can see how the words and conversation. For example, if you heard the following sounds fit together. key words, “saw / film / cinema / last night”, you’d understand that the other person is probably saying, Now go and get listening! “I saw a film at the cinema last night.” BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com 25 TRACK 12 How to ask questions in English! Making questions is simple. Just remember this: PAS (Put it At the Start). So, all you need to do is place the auxiliary verb (or modal verb or the verb to be, etc.) at the start of the question. It works with about 80% of verb tenses in English, including the passive voice. For example: SENTENCE QUESTION SENTENCE QUESTION She is hungry. Is she hungry? She has been given a new contract. Has she been given a new contract? They are running. Are they running? The windows had been cleaned. Had the windows been cleaned? He was working. Was he working? He can see it. Can he see it? They will finish it before 6pm. Will they finish it before 6pm? They should come with us. Should they come with us? She is going to study abroad. Is she going to study abroad? He would like to see it. Would he like to see it? He has been here before. Has he been here before? They could have stayed here. Could they have stayed here? They have been playing tennis. Have they been playing tennis? They will have arrived by seven. Will they have arrived by seven? They had left before she arrived. Had they left before she arrived? She will be working from home. Will she be working from home? It is produced here. Is it produced here? They were paid last week. Were they paid last week? He would have gone if he’d known about it. Would he have gone if he’d known about it? 26 BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com To form questions with the Present or Past Simple, we use do or does (with the Present Simple) and did (with the Past Simple). For example: SENTENCE QUESTION If you want to add a question word (who, what, why, where, etc.), simply add it at the start of the question. For example: SENTENCE QUESTION She likes her job. Does she like her job? She is bored. Why is she bored? They work on Saturdays. Do they work on Saturdays? They are going. Where are they going? He left last night. Did he leave last night? He was playing. What was he playing? They will finish it. When will they finish it? She is going to study abroad. Where is she going to study abroad? I have eaten. What have you eaten? They have been playing. What have they been playing? She likes it. Why does she like it? He bought a new one. What did he buy? 1 Exercise Answers on page 77 Listen to the sentences and form questions. Remember, PAS (Put it At the Start) – simply place the auxiliary verb (or modal verb or the verb to be, etc.) at the start of the question. Good luck! 1. They are tired. = Are they tired? 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9. 10. 11. 12. 13. 14. 15. 16. BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com 27 VIDEO 05 BUILDING ON THE CONVERSATION Answers on page 77 Objective To learn how to motivate the person you’re talking to Let the questions you ask naturally lead into a conversation. So, if the person you’re talking to lets you know that they like going to the theatre, use that information to move the topic onto the theatre and ask questions based on this, as well as giving your opinions about it. 1 Pre-viewing 2 First viewing 3 Second viewing What are your top tips for keeping the conversation going? Think about the topics of conversation, questions you can ask, how you can respond, the things you say, your body language, etc. Make notes. Watch the video once. Were any of your ideas mentioned? Watch the video again. Then, put the following ideas in order according to the information in the video. [Please note: the order doesn’t follow the numbering in the video.] Respond enthusiastically to comments to keep someone talking. That gives the other person an opportunity to show their knowledge of the topic. Encourage further conversation by asking who, what, why, when, where and how questions. Display an interest in a wide-range of topics. Don’t be afraid to admit your ignorance when discussing a topic. Encourage people to talk about themselves by asking questions like, What do you do for a living? 1 Keep it low key so it doesn’t sound like you’re interrogating. Listen quietly and maintain eye contact. 28 BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com BODY LANGUAGE: SOCIALISING Body language* is important when you’re socialising or chatting to people in English. It can help you transmit the right messages, and also allow you to understand what other people are saying or thinking. Answers on page 77 Body language descriptions 1 2 3 1 Write a description from below next to each example of body language (1 to 9). interested, confident listening carefully confusion, displeasure boredom, tiredness showing interest coldness, distance nervousness relaxed, positive Arms folded Yawning Smiling and laughing coldness, distance 4 5 6 questioning something, surprise *BODY LANGUAGE Body language is a non-verbal form of communication. It involves communicating what you’re feeling or thinking through your body. Different types of body language include movement (changes to the position of your eyes, hands, legs, etc.), facial expressions (happiness, sadness, fear, disgust, etc.), posture (how you stand or sit) and gestures (the movement of your hands). Some experts include the pitch, intonation, volume and tone of your voice. Studies have shown that when you’re talking to someone, your words can count for as little as 7% of the meaning of your message; however, body language can account for up to 80% of the meaning! So, it’s extremely important! Maintaining eye contact 7 8 Biting your nails Tilting your head to one side Raising your eyebrows 9 Frowning Leaning forward BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com 29 TRACK 13 HOW BODY LANGUAGE CAN IMPROVE YOUR COMMUNICATION SKILLS! Learn how to read other people’s body language. And understand what you’re doing with your body so you can communicate more effectively. Answers on page 77 1 Pre-reading Look at the paragraph titles and pictures. What do you think the writer is going to say about the topic of each paragraph? Make notes. 2 Reading I Read or listen to the article once to compare your ideas from the Pre-reading task. 3 Reading II Read the article again. Then, answer the questions. 1. What is a firm handshake a sign of? 2. How long should you maintain eye contact for? 3. What could it mean if someone turns their shoulders away from you? 4. What’s the name of the gaze that focuses on the triangular area between the eyes and the mouth? 5. At what distance do good friends stand from one another in the US? 6. What could dilated pupils mean? 7. Why should you try to keep your feet, hands and legs under control? 8. What could a quick touch to the nose when someone answers a question be a sign of? 9. What are the potential advantages of mirroring someone's movements or actions? 30 Greetings When greeting someone, smile, look them in the eye and introduce yourself in a confident voice. Also, remember that in most western countries (the UK, the USA, Australia, Canada, etc.), a firm handshake is seen as a sign of confidence and trust; and a limp handshake could make you appear weak, submissive or disinterested. Eye contact It’s important to hold the correct amount of eye contact. If you stare, the other person might feel uncomfortable; and if you don’t maintain enough eye contact, they could think you lack confidence or aren’t interested. In general, you should maintain eye contact between 70 and 80% of the time. Alignment Make sure your body is aligned with the person you’re talking to. This means that your body should be facing them, with your feet pointing towards them and your shoulders angled at them. This shows you’re interested and focused on them. On the other hand, if the person you’re talking to turns any part of their body away from you (their eyes, knees, feet, shoulders, etc.), it could mean that they aren’t interested, or they want to leave. Gaze In social situations, focus your gaze on the triangular area between your listener’s eyes and mouth. This is known as the “social gaze”. It’ll make you appear friendly and confident. Avoid dropping your gaze below the mouth as this could be misinterpreted as something more than just friendly interest! Facial expressions Try to keep a positive look on your face so it looks like you’re interested. In order to avoid a blank look, keep listening carefully to what the other person is saying, and comment on the information or ask questions. Personal body space Be careful not to stand too close to the person you’re talking to. People from certain countries expect more personal body space than others. For example, in the US, experts have calculated that good friends usually stand between 45cm and 120cm from one another; but for acquaintances or business colleagues, it’s between 120cm and 350cm. These figures may vary from country to country. BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com Barriers A bag, papers, an arm or a drink held in front of your body acts like a barrier to others and can make you appear cold, protective and distant. Keep objects away from the front of your body to project a more positive image and to appear more open. Dilated pupils According to body language experts, when we’re interested in something or someone, our pupils involuntarily dilate (become bigger). The opposite can happen when we’re disinterested (our pupils contract– become smaller). If you notice someone’s pupils dilate, it could be a sign that they like you. Fidgeting If you’re sitting down, try to keep your feet, hands and legs under control. This will make you appear calm and confident. Avoid shifting about too much, drumming your fingers or bouncing a foot up and down as they’re all signs of boredom, discomfort or nervousness. Touching Involuntarily touching a part of the body (particularly the face) is often a sign that someone is under stress or nervous. And a quick touch to the mouth, eye, ear or nose as someone answers a direct question could be a sign that they’re lying. So, if you notice the other person touch their nose, ear or neck when you ask them a question, they might not be telling the truth. Mirroring (mimicking) Mirroring involves copying what the other person is doing. For example, if the person you’re talking to folds their arms, you do too. Or, if they lean forward, you do the same. We tend to mirror people involuntarily when we trust or like them. And research has shown that subconsciously we think that people who mirror our movements are more persuasive and honest than those who don’t. So, if you notice the other person is copying the way you sit, move or talk, it could mean that they trust and like you. On the other hand, you could use mirroring to show the other person that you’re trustworthy. So, if the other person leans forward, you could lean forward too. If they place their hands on their thighs, you might do the same. However, don’t make this too obvious. And be careful – people who know about this could notice you doing it. Also, the other person might be deliberately mirroring you in an attempt to make you think that they like or trust you. Watch out! Communication is complex. But an understanding of body language can make it easier! Be confident about who you are. Let people know about any unusual hobbies or pastimes you may have. People enjoy learning about new things. GLOSSARY firm adj if your handshake is “firm”, you use a bit of pressure (but not too much) trust n if there’s a feeling of “trust”, there’s an open feeling of honesty limp adj if someone’s handshake is “limp”, they don’t use any pressure and it appears to be weak to stare vb if you “stare” at someone, you look at them continuously to align vb if you’re “aligned” with something, you’re facing it with your body directly in front of it to point towards exp if your feet are “pointing towards” someone, your feet are in the direction of that person gaze n someone’s “gaze” is the way they look at another person misinterpret vb if you “misinterpret” something, you understand it wrongly a blank look n if someone has a “blank look”, their face shows no emotion – it just looks empty personal body space n the personal distance we keep from other people. In some cultures, it’s common to stand very close to the person you’re talking to. In other cultures, this isn’t so common to project vb if you “project” any particular feelings, you show those feelings through your behaviour, words, actions, etc. involuntarily adv if you do something “involuntarily”, you do it without knowing that you’re doing it to shift vb to move to drum vb if you “drum” your fingers, you use your fingers to create a rhythm to bounce vb if your foot is “bouncing” up and down, it’s moving up and down research n scientific investigation a thigh n the top part of your leg – the upper half BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com 31 VIDEO 06 BODY LANGUAGE DO’S & DON’TS Answers on page 77 Pre-viewing 1 You’re going to watch a video about body language with social skills expert Faye de Muyshondt. Before watching it, think of all the things you could do with these parts of your body while you’re speaking. arms legs shoulders eyes hands knees feet stomach head mouth fingers 2 Comprehension Watch the video once to compare your ideas from the pre-viewing task. Then, answer the questions below. 1. At the start of the video, what does Faye say about the importance of body language? 2. What does Faye say about your shoulders? 3. What should you do if you aren’t sure what to do with your hands? 4. What examples of what you shouldn’t do with your hands does she give? 5. How does Faye suggest you find out what you actually do with your hands while you’re speaking? 6. What’s the other important element of your body language that she mentions? Why is it important? 7. What should you do with your feet during a conversation? Why is this important? If you’re alone at an event, introduce yourself to as many people as you can. Don’t just wait for someone to come up and talk to you. If you can’t think of something interesting on your own, just start with a “Hi, how’s it going?” and see where it goes from there. Top tip! The most important thing to remember when listening to a conversation is that you won’t understand every word. So, you should only listen out for the key words – the most important words in the conversation: the nouns, verbs, adjectives, etc. Then, you can use your intuition to fill in the gaps – just as you do in your own language. Knowing the context and topic of the conversation will help with this. 32 BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com TRACK 14 MEETING FOR THE FIRST TIME Answers on page 77 Objective To learn how to ask questions using question tags Think about it When was the last time you had a conversation with someone you just met? What did you talk about? What are your top tips for making conversation? What do you think of dating agencies or dating websites? How useful or effective can they be? Ask questions to keep the other person talking. But make sure you contribute by revealing things about yourself or telling stories too. 1 Pre-listening 2 Listening I Imagine you’ve just met someone and you’re chatting to them in a bar. Think of six questions to ask that will help keep the conversation going. You’re going to listen to two people who’ve just met for the first time. Listen once. What questions do they ask one another? Compare these questions to the ones you thought of for the Pre-listening activity. 3 Listening II Complete the sentences with the words from below. Then, listen again to check your answers. meat 30s cat weekend 27 film work months conference 1. You aren’t really , are you? . 2. You certainly aren’t in your early ago. 3. I gave up alcohol a few ? 4. So, have you got any plans for the 5. Yeah, I’m going to see the match with a few mates . from on vegetarianism. 6. I’m going to a 7. I work in the marketing department of a large supplier. into the 8. You can’t release a domesticated wild. . 9. We’re going to see the latest Vin Diesel Useful language Question tags Look at this extract from the transcript of the recording: “…you’ve got blonde hair in the picture you sent me, haven’t you?” The speaker has used a question tag (“haven’t you?”). Question Tags are little questions at the end of statements. They’re formed with the same verb as the one in the main statement or an auxiliary verb. For example: They’re living here, aren’t they? She likes it, doesn’t she? We often use Question Tags when we want to confirm information, or if we aren’t sure about something: “You like it, don’t you?” If the statement is affirmative, the question tag is negative: “He lives in Berlin, doesn’t he?” And if the statement is negative, the question tag is affirmative: “She isn’t from Russia, is she?” 4 Exercise Complete the statements with the correct question tags. ? 1. You’re from Birmingham, ? 2. You went out last night, ? 3. You’re coming to the party, ? 4. You’ve got a dog, ? 5. This is the answer, ? 6. We’re going to the party, ? 7. They’ve got some interesting ideas, ? 8. She did the work, ? 9. She was working at home, ? 10. You’re going away next week, ? 11. They’re angry, ? 12. She lives in New York, ? 13. Katie and Kelly go to the same gym, ? 14. There are a lot of guests here, ? 15. He’s got lots of free time, BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com 33 TRACK 15 GETTING TO KNOW SOMEONE Answers on page 77 Objective To learn how to ask basic questions in a conversation Think about it When was the last time you had to introduce yourself? Who were you talking to? What are some polite ways to introduce yourself to people in your language? What do you usually say to friends when you see them after a short period of time? How do you greet them? What about friends you haven’t seen for a long time? What do you say or do? SO, HOW OLD ARE YOU? Use interjections to show that you’re following what the other person is saying. Say things like, “Really? / Wow / I can’t believe that / No way! / How annoying!”, etc. 1 Pre-listening What questions could you ask someone who you’ve just met? Add at least three more to the list below. What’s your name? Where are you from? How long are you staying here? Where are you staying? 2 Listening I 3 Listening II You’re going to listen to a conversation between two people who are at a lunch. Listen once. How many of the questions from the Pre-listening activity did you hear? Listen again. Then, answer the questions. 1. Where has Judith just come over from? 2. When is she flying back? 3. What does Mark have to drink? What about Judith? 4. Where is Pauline from? And what about Wolfgang? 5. How many times has Mark eaten at the restaurant before? What does he recommend? 6. How old was Judith when her parents moved to Brazil? 7. Where does Mark think they once met? 8. What did Judith give a speech on? 34 4 Useful language Look at this extract from the recording: “Weren’t you at that conference in Washington back in 2013, too?” The speaker has used a negative question (weren’t you...?). We can form negative questions by placing a negative form at the start of the question. For example: Haven’t you seen this before? Weren’t they here last night? We can use negative questions to confirm information we aren’t entirely sure about. Complete the following negative questions or question tags with the correct words. you at that sales talk last year? 1. 2. They’re thinking of downsizing the (London) branch, they? you give that talk at the conference in March? 3. you? 4. You were working in Seattle last year, you? 5. You went to the conference last week, you? 6. You know Briony from accounts, 7. You’ve worked in the Chicago office before, you? the company just involved in a merger? 8. the company just opened a new office in 9. Hong Kong? you? 10. You’ve met Louise Smithers, BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com VIDEO 07 HOW TO READ BODY LANGUAGE! 1 Pre-viewing 2 First viewing 3 Second viewing Answers on page 78 What types of body language do you know about? What do the actions mean? Thing about things such as eye contact, facial expressions, body positioning, etc. Make notes. Watch the video once. Were any of the things you thought of mentioned? Watch the video again. Then, answer the questions. 1. What do people often do when they’re anxious or nervous? 2. When do they stop doing this? 3. The speaker starts talking about giving a presentation. What does he say his goal would be? 4. What do people tend to do as they get more interested in someone? 5. What do you want to see as you’re talking to someone? 6. What example does he give of a sudden change in orientation? 7. What does it mean if the other person starts to deviate back? Focus on being interested, not interesting. You can increase interest in yourself by showing how interested you are in the lives and stories of others. People love to talk about themselves, and love having others around who seem to have a genuine interest in their stories. BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com 35 TRACK 16 Ho w to express emotions in ! h s i l g En If you want to show how you feel about something, you can use an interjection. Basically, interjections are sounds or short words that can express a whole range of emotions such as surprise, anger, shock, fear, disappointment or sadness. They’re often used by native speakers, so it’s important to be able to understand them. [Read over the explanations and do the exercises. Then, listen to check your answers.] Oh, no! – to show Argh! – to show frustration or anger. disappointment. Oi! – a way of getting someone’s attention, often when they’re far away [“hey!” in US English]. Ow! – to show that you’re in pain. Whoops! – to show that you’ve made a mistake. Aha! – to show that you’re pleased because you’ve finally understood something. Ahem! – this is the sound that’s made when you clear your throat. It’s typically used to attract someone’s attention. Ah! – to show that you like something. 36 Blah, blah, blah! – to show that you’re bored with someone’s non-stop talking. Boo! – to frighten someone. Yuk! – to show your disgust at something horrible. Hey! – to show surprise or anger, Shh! – to tell someone to be quiet. Tut – a sound you make with your tongue when you do something wrong, or to show that you’re angry. Uh-huh – to show that you’re following what someone is saying. However, it doesn’t necessarily mean that you agree with them. or to get someone’s attention. Hm... to show that you aren’t sure about something and that you’re thinking about it. Whoa! – to tell someone to stop. Wow! – to express surprise. Mmm – to show pleasure. Yummy! – a way of showing Oh! – to show surprise. Phew! – to show relief because a danger has passed. Psst – to get someone’s attention in a quiet place. BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com that you like food. Answers on page 78 1 Exercise Complete the sentences with interjections. In some cases more than one answer may be possible. Then, listen to check your answers. 1. just so cute. ! That dog is 2. my turn! ! It was 3. ! Come here! We need to talk. 4. , I get that, but what about the money? When are you going to pay me back? 5. on my toe! ! You stepped 6. is my seat. , I think this 7. ! That’s amazing! I love it! 8. ! I think this is your bag, isn’t it? 9. ! I think I’ve worked out the answer! 10. . Don’t you ever stop talking? 11. sure I like this. ... I’m not 12. , I’m sorry, I didn’t realise you were there. . We’ve lost 15. parking space! ! That’s my 16. really good. … that feels 20. you! ! Scared 13. see us. ! They didn’t 14. again. 17. again. ! It’s raining 18. ! We’re trying to work in here. 19. ! There’s an insect in my salad! 22. This soup is 23. ! Hold it right there. What did you just say? 21. ! The computer’s crashed again! ! BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com 37 TRACK 17 HOW TO RESPOND TO COMMENTS Answers on page 78 Objective To learn how to respond to comments in English Think about it When was the last time you heard some surprising news? What did it involve? When was the last time a friend told you about a terrible experience they’d had? How did you respond? When was the last time you gave someone some news? What was it? How did the other person respond? Pre-listening 1 HOW BORING! You’re going to listen to two conversations with people responding to news. What sort of comments can we make when we hear news? Think of some more expressions to add to the list below. Oh, no! Really? That’s terrible! 2 Listening I 3 Listening II Listen once. Were any of the comments you thought of mentioned? Which ones? Listen again. Then, answer the questions. Conversation I 1. What broke an hour before the guests arrived at the dinner party? 2. What did Alisha use instead of her broken one? Conversation 2 3. What did Lewis phone up the shop to ask about? 4. How long did they say it would take to get the thing Lewis HOW EXCITING! wanted? Useful language: Responding to news Learn some useful expressions for responding to a piece of news someone has given you in English. You’re kidding! = you’re joking / you can’t be serious. What a nuisance! = how annoying. Typical! = that’s typical of them; that's what you’d expect from them. Well done! = congratulations / you did very well Good idea! = that’s a good idea. Tell me about it! = I know because it’s happened to me. How awful! = how terrible. Oh, no! = poor you / how terrible. What a nightmare! = what a terrible situation / how terrible. 4 Exericse Complete the responses with the correct letters. 1. A: I passed the exam! B: That’s great ne_ _! 2. A: I’m fed up of this job. B: I know how you fe_ _! 3. A: It’s just so sad – I can’t bear it any longer. B: Ch_ _ _ up! It was only a film. 4. A: I’ve booked our holiday to the States. B: How exc_ _ _ _ _! 5. A: We lost all our luggage. B: What a night_ _ _ _! 6. A: The computer crashed and I lost everything. B: How aw_ _ _! 7. A: They’ve cancelled the flight. We’ll have to take another one tomorrow morning. B: What a nuis_ _ _ _! 8. A: I think we got away with it. They didn’t see us. B: Phew! That was a cl_ _ _ one. 38 BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com HOW RUDE! VIDEO 08 HOW TO BE A PEOPLE MAGNET 1 Pre-viewing 2 First viewing 3 Second viewing Answers on page 78 When was the last time you paid someone a compliment? What did you say? When was the last time someone paid you a compliment? What did they say? What are your top tips for paying someone a compliment? Make notes. Watch the video once to compare your ideas from the Pre-viewing task. Watch the video again. Then, answer the questions. 1. If you pay someone a compliment, what do they remember about it after you’ve left the room? 2. What are the three things you can pay someone a compliment about? 3. Why does the speaker say we’re often hesitant or afraid to pay people compliments? Use the expression he uses involving “water”. 4. What’s the first point that he makes? And what particular word should you use to do this? 5. What does the woman in the audience say she likes about the tie? 6. What else should you use when you pay someone a compliment? Why? 7. What two follow-up questions did the members of the audience ask about the tie? Which one was the open-ended question? Focus exclusively on the person you’re talking to, and give them your undivided attention, listening intently. BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com 39 TRACK 18 INVITING SOMEONE OUT Answers on page 78 Objective To learn how to invite someone to something Humour can relieve stress, motivate and improve relationships. It can also relax people and allow them to be more open. As Victor Borge once said, “Laughter is the shortest distance between two people.” 4 Useful language Add these expressions below to the correct sections (a-e). I’m afraid I won’t be able to make it. = e Would you like to join us? Which pub are you going to? I’d love to go. There’s a new play at the theatre. 1 Pre-listening a) The event We’re going out for a drink after work. I’m going to the cinema later. I’ve organised a barbecue for Saturday afternoon. There’s a free concert in the city centre. Listening I b) The invitation Would you like to come along? We’re going out later if you want to come. Would you like to come too? I was wondering whether you wanted to come. Think of six places or things you could invite someone to: a restaurant, a party... What could you do at these places? Think of six more ideas: have a meal, dance... 2 You’re going to listen to three mini-dialogues in which one person invites another person to do something. Listen once. Were any of the places you thought of for the Pre-listening activity mentioned? 3 Listening II Listen again. Then, answer the questions. 1. In conversation one, what time are they meeting up? 2. Where is the pub where they’re meeting? 3. In conversation two, where does Jeff propose going? 4. Where does he suggest meeting? 5. What time does he suggest meeting there? What time does Paula say she’ll be there? 6. In the third conversation, when is the barbecue? 7. What do Mark and his friends have to bring to the barbecue? 8. What’s Poppy’s mobile phone number? 40 c) Questions Where are you meeting? What film are you going to see? What time does it start? Do we have to bring anything? d) Confirming I’ll see you there! That sounds great. See you on Saturday. e) Saying no Actually, I’m a bit busy. I’m sorry but I won’t be able to go. I’m sorry but I’ve got to study for an important exam. BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com PHRASAL VERBS LIKES & DISLIKES Answers on page 78 Complete the sentences (1 to 8) with the words from below. really helpful party keen song famous together surfing 1 2 Grow on Get on with If something “grows on” you, you start to like it. “I didn’t like that at first, but it’s starting to grow on me.” If you “get on with someone”, you have a good relationship with them. “Ben and Samantha get on really well and often go out .” 3 4 Fond of someone Be into something If you’re “fond of” someone, you like them – usually just as a friend, and not in the “romantic” sense. “I’m really fond of Jessica – she’s just so kind and .” 5 If you “are into” something, you like that thing. “He’s really into skateboarding, snowboarding and .” 6 Go off something If you “go off” something, you stop liking it. “I used to quite like the group when they were relatively unknown, but I’ve gone off them now they’re rich and .” Look forward to If you’re “looking forward to” something, you’re excited about it and can’t wait for it to happen. “I’m really looking forward to your next week.” 7 8 End up Keen on something If you’re “keen on” something, you like doing that thing. “She’s keen on tennis and skiing.” If you “end up” liking something, you like it eventually. “I wasn’t that on seeing the film, but I ended up quite liking it.” BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com 41 TRACK 19 INVITATIONS! Answers on page 78 Objective To learn how to build on the relationship 8. I’m actually free on Friday / Saturday. 1 Pre-listening Read the instructions and make questions. Ask someone… 1. … how they are. = How are you? / How’s it going? 2. …if they want to come to a café. 3. …if they would like a coffee. 4. …if they are going to the next talk. 5. …if they would like to go on an excursion. 2 Listening I You are going to listen to various people in social English contexts. Listen once to check your answers from the Pre-listening activity. 3 As the lyrics to the song go, “When you’re smiling, the whole world smiles with you.” Studies show that we’re more approachable when we smile. And when we’re more approachable, we’ll meet more people… maybe even someone who has a problem we can solve. Listening II Read over the sentences and choose the correct words. Then, listen again to check your answers. 1. I think we spoke by e-mail / telephone. 2. We’re going for lunch / a coffee. 3. Hey, do you know where the cloakroom / bathroom is? 4. I’ve been carrying this coat / jacket around all day. 5. I’m working in Vancouver / Seattle at the moment. 6. Are you going to the next conference / talk? 7. I did go to the museum of modern art / natural history... 42 4 Useful language a. b. c. d. e. Yes, that would be great. Great, thanks. Not exactly, I’m half-Italian and half-German. Yes, please. White, no sugar, please. No, I was here last year. In one of the conversations, a speaker says, “Good idea” in response to a suggestion. Match the questions (1 to 5) to the responses (a-e). 1. So, how are things going? 2. Do you want to come? 3. So, is this your first time at the conference? 4. Can I get you a coffee? 5. Are you Italian? BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com lass c l a i Tr LY! 5 9 . 5 € ON Learn English… l! eria t a m + LEARN ENGLISH OVER THE PHONE! …with Hot English Skype-phone classes! 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You may gain an audience, but it’s superficial and temporary. As they say, “To have a friend, be a friend.” 1 Pre-listening You’re going to listen to three conversations in which the speakers are trying to find a time to meet up. What reasons could someone have for not being able to meet up at a particular time? Think of five ideas. For example: you’ve got a dental appointment, you’ve got to pick someone up at the airport... 2 Listening I 3 Listening II Listen to the conversations once. Were any of your ideas from the Pre-listening activity mentioned? Listen again. Then, answer the questions. 1. In conversation 1, why can’t Lily meet up on Thursday? 2. What time and day do they finally agree to meet up? 3. In the second conversation, why does Chloe want to meet up with Jamie? 4. What time do they arrange to meet up? 5. What is Jamie’s address? 6. In the third conversation, what’s wrong with Molly’s roof? 7. What time does Jack suggest he comes round? 8. Why isn’t Molly sure that she can make it at that time? 44 4 Useful language Write the four headings below at the top of each group of useful expressions or questions (1-4). Stating your availability Expressing a reason for a meeting Confirming the time and place Asking about someone’s availability 1. We need to think of an idea for the poster. You said you’d show me how to use the new program. We need to make plans for the conference next week. 2. What about this Friday? How about tomorrow morning? Does 6pm sound all right to you? Are you free anytime this week? Could you come over to have a look at it? Do you think we could arrange a time to go over it? 3. I’m free all day on Thursday. I’ve got a meeting at 4pm. I’ll be really busy all morning. I won’t be able to make it on the 3rd. I’ve got a dental appointment in the afternoon. 4. I’ll see you then. I look forward to it. 4pm sounds perfect. Give me a call to confirm. I look forward to seeing you there. BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com VIDEO 09 HOW TO BUILD RAPPORT WITH SOMEONE 1 Pre-viewing 2 First viewing 3 Second viewing Answers on page 78 What type of questions do you ask when you meet someone for the first time? What do you talk about? Make notes. Watch the video once. What do you think of the speaker’s advice? How would you rate it on a scale of 1 to 10 (10 being the best)? Watch the video again. Then, answer the questions. 1. What’s the first thing the people see? 2. Who comes out of it? 3. What can you see written in the sky? 4. What expression does the speaker use that includes the word “home”? What do you think it means? 5. What five topics of conversation does the speaker suggest you use? 6. What do most people start by asking in a conversation? 7. What questions does he suggest asking instead? 8. What does the topic “vision” refer to? As Dale Carnegie once said, “The royal road to a man’s heart is to talk to him about the things he treasures most.” So, keep the focus of conversation on the other person, and try to avoid continually turning attention back on yourself. BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com 45 TRACK 21 ASKING ABOUT A CITY Answers on page 78 Objective To learn how to confirm information Think about it When was the last time you visited a new city? What did you do there? Where did you eat? What museums did you visit? Did you get any recommendations from anyone about what to see, where to eat, etc.? What did you think of their suggestions? Which cities would you like to visit in the future? Why? Find and discuss common interests. Learning about your new friend and sharing information about yourself should naturally lead to finding some common interests. 1 Pre-listening Imagine you’re visiting a city for the first time. What questions could you ask about it? Add at least three more to the list below. What do you think I should see? Which museums would you recommend? Where’s the best place to eat out? Which restaurants would you recommend? Other? 2 Listening I 3 Listening II You’re going to listen to a conversation between two people, Poppy and Ellis. They’re acquaintances who haven’t seen one another for a long time. They’re at a conference during a midmorning break, waiting to order a drink from the cafeteria in the conference centre. Listen once. Which questions from the Prelistening activity did you hear? Listen again. Then, answer the questions. 1. When is Ellis off to New York and why is he going there? 2. What example does Poppy give for how cheap electronics are? 3. How does Ellis describe what happened to his cousin in the States? 4. What are some of the typical things that Poppy mentions that Ellis should do? 5. What is Ellis’ e-mail address? 6. What suggestions does Poppy give for eating out? 7. What does she tell him about tipping in the States? 8. What happened to her friends when they were over there? 46 Useful language – Question tags As we’ve seen in a previous unit, Question Tags are little questions at the end of statements. For example : “You’re from Italy, aren’t you?” Question Tags can be formed with the same verb as the one in the main statement: “They’re living here, aren’t they?” Or an auxiliary verb: “She likes it, doesn’t she?” We often use Question Tags when we want to confirm information, or if we aren’t sure about something: “You like it, don’t you?” If the statement is affirmative, the question tag is negative: “He lives in Berlin, doesn’t he?” And if the statement is negative, the question tag is affirmative: “She isn’t from Russia, is she?” 4 Exercise Complete the sentences with the correct question tags. ? 1. It’s raining, ? 2. She was named after her grandmother, ? 3. It was designed by Marion, ? 4. She was at home, ? 5. There were lots of mistakes in the report, ? 6. He took it home, ? 7. It was snowing, ? 8. He’s been abroad, ? 9. You’ve been waiting for a long time, ? 10. They can ski, ? 11. You can type fast, ? 12. We’re paid at the end of the week, BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com TRACK 22 PHRASAL VERBS SOCIALISING Answers on page 78 Complete the sentences (1 to 8) with the words from below. like time restaurant weekend fun victory having 1 house 2 Come over If someone “comes over”, they come to your house. “Would you like to come over this Friday evening? We’re a little party.” Ask someone over To invite someone to come to your house. “I’d like to ask Jim over for lunch this 3 .” 4 Bring someone along If you “bring someone along” to an event, you take that person with you. “You can bring Sally along – she’s a lot of .” 5 Come round (around) / go round (around) If you “go around” to someone’s house, you visit that person’s house. “What shall I come round?” 6 Drop in / by Invite round (around) To visit someone for a short period of time, often without an invitation. “Feel free to drop by any time you – I’m always here.” If you “invite someone round”, you invite them to come to your house. “I invited her round to my .” 7 8 Invite out To ask someone to go out with you. “She invited me out last Friday and we went to the cinema and then to a .” Get together When people “get together”, they meet. “They got together to celebrate their .” BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com 47 TRACK 23 TELLING JOKES Answers on page 78 Objective To learn how to tell jokes in a conversation Think about it Are you good at telling jokes? What jokes can you remember? When was the last time you told a joke? Where were you? What are the pros and cons of telling jokes? What do you have to be careful with when telling jokes? Have you ever told a joke in English? How did it go? What are your top tips for telling jokes? 1 Pre-listening Write the correct endings from below for the jokes (1 to 6). Because they aren’t weekdays! Because it is in the middle of “fun”. Because it’s in the middle of “waTer”. Bone appétit! Short The trom-bone. 1 A: I say, I say, I say. What do skeletons say before they begin eating? B: I don’t know. What do skeletons say before they begin eating? A: 2 A: I say, I say, I say. What’s a skeleton’s favourite instrument? B: I don’t know. What is a skeleton’s favourite instrument? A: 3 A: I say, I say, I say. What five-letter word becomes shorter when you add two letters to it? B: I don’t know. What five-letter word does become shorter when you add two letters to it? . A: 4 A: I say, I say, I say. Why are Saturday and Sunday strong days? B: I don’t know. Why are Saturday and Sunday strong days? A: 5 A: I say, I say, I say. Why is “U” the happiest letter in the alphabet? B: I don’t know. Why is “U” the happiest letter in the alphabet? A: 48 6 A: I say, I say, I say. Why is the letter “T” like an island? B: I don’t know. Why is the letter “T” like an island? A: 2 Listening I You’re going to listen to two jokes with the following titles: Clever bartender Restaurant pest What do you think the jokes might be about? What do you think is going to happen? Make notes. Then, listen once to compare your ideas. Which joke did you like the best? Which one is the funniest? Why? 3 Useful language We often use the Present Simple or Present Continuous when telling a joke or story. Complete these sentences from the jokes with the correct verbs in the Present Simple. a vodka and 1. A woman rushes into a bar and orange. a 10-euro bill on the bar 2. She drinks it quickly, out. then up and 3. But just then, the bartender his boss standing in the doorway. in a restaurant, enjoying a late 4. A woman lunch. the waiter over again. 5. Minutes later, he 6. This goes on for about an hour, and the patient waiter angry. never once the waiter over. 7. Eventually, the woman the waiter with 8. “Oh, I really don’t mind,” a smile. BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com TRACK 24 HOW TO TELL STORIES IN ENGLISH! Answers on page 78 Objective To learn how to tell stories and anecdotes in English! SHALL I TELL YOU A STORY? 1 Pre-listening You’re going to listen to two people chatting in a bar. They’re telling one another stories. They tell three in total. Look at the list of words that appear in each story. What do you think happened? What were the stories about? Make notes. 1. Story I: moving house, removal firm, six crates of belongings… 2. Story II: moving house, a box of valuables, legal proceedings… 3. Story III: a flight to Frankfurt, a drunken passenger… 2 Listening I Listen once to compare your ideas from the Pre-listening activity. 3 If someone you wish to meet is engaged in a conversation, wait patiently for a break then apologise for interrupting. Say something like this, “Hi, I’m sorry to interrupt. I just wanted to introduce myself. I’m (Jennifer).” Listening II Listen again. Then, answer the questions. 1. Why wasn’t Josh’s brother keen to move back to the UK? 2. What was wrong with the crates that were delivered to his house? 3. Why did he have to phone up the manager of the removal firm? 4. What had Pete done with the box of valuables he lost temporarily? 5. What kept happening to the man on the flight to Frankfurt? 6. Why was Josh surprised at the man’s reaction to the bag falling down on him? 4 Useful language Complete the sentences and questions with the words from below. bumped end restaurant catch out story plans up guess police happened do Starting a story on the news last 1. I heard this interesting night. who I saw the other day. 2. You’ll never into yesterday. 3. You won’t believe who I to me. 4. You won’t believe what just 5. Have you heard the latest about the government’s to raise tax? last night. 6. I went to this great Asking questions about a story then? 7. What did you ? 8. Did you report it to the him? 9. Did they ever ? 10. What happened in the all right in the end? 11. Did it turn ? 12. Where did you end BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com 49 TRACK 25 TALKING ABOUT YOUR ADVENTURES Answers on page 78 Objective To learn how to use sequencing in a story Think about it What are some of the most adventurous things you’ve ever done? Have you ever been in danger? What happened? Which outdoor activities do you enjoy doing or have you done? Which ones would you like to do? Why? Are you an “outdoors” type of person, or do you prefer to be inside? Give examples. Keep up-to-date on the latest news, so you’ve got interesting things to talk about. Also, write down any funny stories or anecdotes that you can use in casual conversations. 1 Pre-listening You’re going to listen to two people talking about some adventurous things they’ve done. Look at the words below that come from the two stories. What do you think happened in each story? Story I: snowstorm, wind, mountain, snow, rain, storm, hiking… Story II: parachuting, plane, pilot, parachute, parachute instructor… 4 Useful language – sequencing Complete the sequencing expressions with the words from below. eventually preparation after first when at suddenly now once as late so end for , I didn’t realise what was going on. 1. At went hiking in the middle of winter. 2. I the first couple of days, everything seemed to 3. 2 Listening I be fine. Listen once and compare your ideas from the Pre-listening task. in the evening of the third day, there was a 4. really heavy snowstorm. 3 Listening II about three in the morning, we had to 5. So, Listen again. Then, choose the correct answers. leave. that, we decided to go back home. 1. In Story I, the incident took place in the middle of 6. , I saw what was happening. 7. summer / winter. , we just dug a hole in the snow. 8. In the 2. They were on a 50-kilometre / 100-kilometre trip. it was light, we walked down the valley. 9. As soon 3. There was a storm on the evening of the third / course, they took us out for 10. After a two-day fourth day. our first jump. 4. It took place at about three / four in the morning. the green light came on, the instructor tapped 11. 5. In Story II, the speaker was in the north of Sweden / her on the shoulder. Norway. it was my turn. By then, my heart was 6. They went on a one-day / two-day preparation course. 12. thumping really hard. 7. There were two / three of them in the back of the , the ground suddenly 13. But after a minute or plane. started coming up… 8. The pilot took the plane up to about 700 / 800 metres. , we had to move to another place. 14. 9. Sandra was the first / second person to jump out. 50 BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com TRACK 26 WORD BUILDING ARGUING Answers on page 78 Complete the sentences with the words you hear. 1 2 Do with If A has something “to do with” B, A and B are connected. “What have my parents got to do with all of this? We’re trying to work out , aren’t we?” Bring up If you “bring up” a particular topic during an argument, you mention it. “She brought up the topic of his gambling, which only .” 3 4 5 Make up If you “make up” a fact or a story, you invent it. “You just made that up, didn’t you? You’ve Go on If someone keeps “going on” about something, they keep talking about it. “I know , so just stop going on about it!” 6 Back up If facts and figures are used to “back up” your argument, they’re used to support it and help explain it. “She used the information to back up her argument.” .” 7 8 Shut up Talk into If you manage to “talk someone into” doing something, you convince them to do it. “After an hour of arguing about it, she managed to talk him into .” 9 Put up with If you say that you won’t “put up with” something any longer, you’re saying that you won’t accept it any longer. “I’m not going to put up with your mess any longer! !” If you tell someone to “shut up”, you tell them to stop talking. “Why don’t you just shut up if you haven’t got !” 10 Hang up If you “hang up”, you put the phone down and stop communicating. “She was so angry that she hung up before he could finish .” Point out If you “point something out”, you mention it in a conversation, etc. “She pointed out the fact that he’d never once .” BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com 51 TRACK 27 CATCHING UP ON ALL THE LATEST NEWS! Answers on page 78 Objective To learn how to get up-to-date with the latest news Think about where you’re going and who you’re going to be with in order to prepare questions related to the situation, place, city, town, company, venue, etc. Also, do a bit of research on any people you know might be there. You could find out about them by checking out their social media pages on Facebook, Instagram or LinkedIn. Pre-listening 1 Imagine you’ve just met a friend who you haven’t seen for 10 years. What are you going to ask him/her? Think of four ideas. Use the prompts below to help you. jobs appearance competitions school relationships mutual friends family homes personality 2 Listening I You’re going to listen to two ex-school friends who’ve just met in the street. What do they say/ask? Are any of their questions/ comments similar to the ones you thought of for the Pre-listening activity? 3 Listening II Listen again and answer the questions. 1. How long is it since they left school? 2. What did Jan beat Emma at? 3. What did Jan win a school prize for? 4. What did Jan’s mother leave Jan after she died? 5. What does Jan do for a living? 6. Where does Emma work? 7. Is Emma married now? 52 4 Useful language: getting up to date Complete the questions or statements with the words from below. out doing working to what heard up living happened still time married to? 1. So, what have you been ? 2. Where have you been working at that marketing company? 3. Are you ? 4. How’s your brother? What’s he been up with Bob? 5. Are you still going ? 6. What have you been doing all this ? 7. Where have you been have you been doing? 8. in London? 9. So, what are you ? 10. Did you ever get to Mike? 11. What from Chloe? 12. Have you BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com TRACK 28 MONEY CHAT Answers on page 78 Objective To learn how to talk in social situations Think about it What do you do to keep track of your expenses? When was the last time you spent more than £100 (more or less)? What did you buy? How careful are you with your money? IS THIS ENOUGH? Studies have shown that smiling can make you feel more positive. And, like yawning, it’s also contagious. So, put a smile on your face! 1 Pre-listening 2 Listening I What sort of questions could you ask in the following places? Think of one typical question for each place: a bank, a supermarket, a restaurant, a train station, a shop. You’re going to listen to five short dialogues involving money. Listen once and write down where each dialogue is taking place. Choose from the places in the Pre-listening activity. 1. Dialogue 1: 2. Dialogue 2: 3. Dialogue 3: 4 4. Dialogue 4: 5. Dialogue 5: 3 Listening II 6. Loan – an amount of money you borrow. 7. Monthly instalments – the amount of money you pay back every month. 8. Voucher – a piece of paper that gives you a reduction on the price of something. 9. Bill – a piece of paper that tells you how much you have to pay for something. 10. Refund – an amount of money a shop gives you if you return an item. 11. APR – the Annual Percentage Rate: a total amount of interest, including all costs and fees for the year. Some companies advertise monthly interest amounts, which is confusing. Read the definitions of the words and expressions. Then, listen again and say which dialogue they appear in. Write bank, supermarket, restaurant, train station or shop. 1. Off-peak ticket – a ticket that you can buy at a time when demand is less. 2. Discount coupon – a piece of paper that gives you a reduction in the price of something. 3. Store card – a card that you can use at a shop. It gives you points every time you buy things there. 4. Interest – money paid at a certain rate. 5. Receipt – a piece of paper with information about something you bought. Useful language Complete with correct words. Then, listen again to check your answers. 1. I’ve just been checking the bill and there seems to be . a 2. I’m afraid I can’t deal with any returns unless you’ve . got the 3. So, we’ve been looking over your request for a loan . and everything seems to be in instalments be? 4. So, erm, what would the amount you’ll have paid toward interest 5. The is £629.95. 6. So, the sum total including the loan and payments will be £6,629.95. ? 7. That’s £44 and 56 pence. Have you got a store . 8. Yes, and I’ve got these discount in, please? 9. Could you key your PIN to Kettering, please? 10. How much is a single , you can get 11. If you book over the internet in off-peak tickets for as little as £20. BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com 53 TRACK 29 GIVING OPINIONS ON HYPOCRISY Answers on page 78 Objective To learn how to express an opinion Think about it Have you heard any examples of hypocrisy lately? What happened? Have there been any examples of famous people or public figures acting hypocritically? What happened? Do you know anyone who has acted hypocritically lately? Who? How? Have you ever been guilty of hypocrisy? In what way? WHICH FACE SHALL I WEAR TODAY Before attending an event or a party, make sure you’re in a positive mood. As they say, “To have fun, you’ve got to be fun.” In order to get yourself in the mood, you could think about something that makes you laugh, remind yourself of a past success, watch funny videos... anything that makes you feel good. Pre-listening 1 Look at the list of people below. In what ways can they be hypocritical: when they say one thing but do the opposite; or when they tell you not to do something but they do it themselves, etc.? Choose three people and make notes on how they might be hypocritical. your boss, the government, your parents, a teacher, a work colleague, a government, minister, the president, a celebrity, a musician, a film star, a sports person, a millionaire, a member of the royal family, a film critic, a restaurant critic, left-wing people / socialists, etc., rightwing people / conservatives, etc. 2 Listening I You’re going to listen to three people talking about hypocrisy. They mention the following types of people: those concerned about the environment, conservative types, televangelists, leftwing politicians, millionaire left-wing politicians. In what ways could these people be hypocritical? Make notes. Then, listen once to the recording to compare your ideas. 3 Listening II Listen again. Then, write T (true) or F (false) next to each statement, according to what the speakers say in the recording. 1. Al Gore got an Oscar for his film An Inconvenient Truth. 2. The electric bill for his house is 20 times less than the national average. 3. Ted Kennedy was in favour of the wind power project. 4. The second speaker referred to a case about a minister from the 1980s. 5. The minister was throwing away most of the letters he received. 6. Tristram Hunt (the education secretary mentioned by the third speaker) would probably send his kids to a private school. 7. Extremely rich left-wing politicians are referred to as “champagne socialists”. 54 4 Word formation 5 Useful language Write the correct parts of speech as indicated in brackets. 1. Hypocrite = (adjective) 2. Private = (noun) 3. Globe = (adjective) 4. Marriage = (verb) 5. Illegitimate = (affirmative adjective) 6. Politician = (noun: the topic) Complete the sentences with the words from below. about off like way so but how such it in end when they say one thing but... 1. I think it’s funny when they tell you what to do 2. I can’t stand then... for something 3. I hate it when people tell you then... government.. 4. It’s really obvious that most people hypocritical of them when we all know that 5. It’s they’re... this one minister who... 6. I read ... 7. She promised to return the money but in the people could fall for 8. I just can’t understand that! some people... 9. It really annoys me the do another. 10. I hate it when they say one thing that, 11. They go on about equality and things but... hypocrites! 12. They’re all BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com TRACK 30 THE BUSINESS LUNCH Answers on page 78 Learn over 20 useful words to use at a business lunch! Useful words Wine glass Fork Napkin Plate Bowl Knife Spoon Tablecloth YOU ARE PAYING FOR THIS, AREN'T YOU? Laptop Waiter / waitress Business card Tablet computer 1 Pre-listening 2 Listening I 3 Listening II What do you think people might talk about over a business lunch? What sort of questions might they ask, particularly if they’ve never met in person before, or if one of them has flown over for the meeting. Make notes. Listen to the dialogue once. Sally Fields has just flown over from Dublin to speak to Peter Prescott about a development project. They’re having a business lunch. Were any of your ideas from the Pre-listening activity mentioned? Tip More words Menu – a piece of paper with the prices and list of things you can eat in the restaurant. Starter – food you eat before the main course: soup, a salad, etc. Main course – the large plate of food you order: fish and chips; steak with potatoes, etc. Dessert – a sweet dish you eat at the end of the meal: cake, yoghurt, sorbet, etc. Set menu – a fixed price for the starter, main course and dessert. There’s usually a limited choice of options. Bill – a piece of paper that tells you how much you have to pay for your meal. Making small talk Have you been here before? Where are you staying? Is it your first time here? How was the trip? What’s the hotel like? How’s the weather been? What would you recommend? I’d just like to propose a toast to our new project. / Here’s to our new project. Listen again. Then, answer the questions. 1. How often does Peter go to the restaurant? 2. What does he recommend? 3. What does Peter order to drink? 4. What does Sally have as a starter? What does Peter have? 5. What do they have for the main course? 6. Where does Sally have the figures for the proposal? 7. According to what Peter says, what do they want to do to the old cinema? 8. Towards the end, what does Peter ask the waiter to bring? 4 Useful language Add letters to complete the words in the useful phrases. 1. Pleased to m_ _ t you. 2. Have you been waiting for l_ _ _ ? 3. So, what w_ _ _ _ you recommend then? 4. We’ll h_ _ _ a bottle of Beaujolais Nouveau, please. 5. Are you ready to o_ _ _ _? 6. For st_ _ _ _ _ _, I’ll have the prawn cocktail, please. 7. I’ll be back in just a minute with your d_ _ _ _ _ and starters. 8. So, how was the t_ _ _? 9. Did you get a chance to l_ _ _ over the proposal? BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com 55 TRACK 31 NETWORKING Answers on page 78 Objective To learn how to do networking in English Think about it Have you ever done any networking? Where did you do it? Who did you talk to? How successful were you? Did you make any useful contacts? Do you ever do any social networking? Which groups are you in? NETWORKING Networking is the process of meeting new people and making contacts. People use networking to attract more business, get a better job or sell more products. Networking often takes place at social events (conferences, business fairs, talks, etc.) where you can chat to people, build relationships, ask for advice and offer to help in some way. 1 Pre-listening What sort of questions could you ask someone when you’re networking? Make a list. For example: Have you been here before? Where are you staying? What line of business are you in? 2 Listening I You’re going to listen to a dialogue between Bruce and Nigel. They’re at an international conference in London. They’re waiting in a queue to get their conference badges. Listen once. Did you hear any of the questions or statements you thought of for the Pre-listening activity? 3 Before going to a networking event, prepare a short, concise description of who you are and what you do. This is useful to prepare in advance in case you have to give a short description of yourself. Listening II Listen again. Then, answer the questions. 1. How many times has Nigel (the second speaker) been to the conference? 2. Where has he come from to attend the conference? 3. What about Bruce (the first speaker)? 4. Where are they both staying? 5. What are their surnames? 6. Why does Bruce suddenly have to leave? 7. Who is Bruce Milton? 8. When and where do they arrange to meet up? 56 4 Useful language Networking Complete the networking statements with the words from below. about of details company call touch next proposal afternoon up promote time card help . 1. I’m the head of a small online marketing themselves online. 2. We help businesses . 3. Here’s my business Milton Networks. 4. I’m the CEO . 5. I’ve got a meeting later this from 3:30 to 4pm. 6. I’ve got a bit of spare your company. 7. You could tell me all week. 8. Let’s get together sometime next time you’re in town. 9. We could meet and we’ll take a look at it. 10. Send over your with our managing director 11. I could put you in if you want. you. 12. I know someone who might be able to to the marketing manager. 13. I could pass on your sometime next week to go 14. Could I give you a over some of our options? BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com VIDEO 10 HOW TO INTRODUCE YOURSELF QUICKLY 1 Pre-viewing 2 First viewing 3 Second viewing a. b. c. d. ...people can understand you. ...talk about your most recent client? ...you’re confident. Their body language isn’t confident, and they mumble so you can’t hear them properly. ...so don’t mumble or rush through that. ...going to focus on in the little time that you have? ...different people during those 10 seconds. ...so it comes out smoothly. Answers on page 78 How would you introduce yourself? Make notes, then practise giving a quick 10-second introduction. Watch the video once. What do you think of the speaker’s advice? Rate it on a scale of 1 to 10 (10 being the best). How would you change your introduction based on the video? Watch the video again. Then, match the sentence or question halves. 1. In what way do people often mess up their introduction? 2. You can say a lot about yourself, but what part are you... 3. Are you going to give your location, are you going to... 4. Practise in front of a mirror or in front of a camera... 5. Speak loudly enough and clearly enough so... 6. It may be the first time that people are hearing your name,... 7. Take turns looking at different parts of the audience or... 8. If you have a good, strong posture it’ll show that... e. f. g. h. At any social event, always make sure you’ve got a few exit strategies as you don’t want to be stuck with the same person all the time. You could excuse yourself to go to the toilet, say you’ve got an important e-mail to deal with, wave at someone across the room that you’d like to talk to, say you’re going to get a drink... BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com 57 8 EASY WAYS TO IMPROVE YOUR PRONUNCIATION! Here are 8 things you can do to really improve your English pronunciation. 1 Set a goal! When it comes to pronunciation, the most important thing is that people can understand you. You’re never going to sound like a native speaker. But that isn’t a problem. English is a universal language with hundreds of different accents (both native and non-native ones). So, aim to make your accent as clear and understandable as possible. 2 Listen! Listening is the key to improving your pronunciation. Basically, the more you listen to English, the more you’ll understand; and the more you understand, the easier it’ll be for you to imitate sounds and improve your pronunciation. You can listen to audio novels, podcasts, audio files from language courses, the news in English, television shows, films, the radio, YouTube videos, songs... the options are limitless. Try to listen to English for at least 10 minutes at day. 3 Learn the phonetic alphabet! As part of improving your pronunciation, you’ll need to know how to pronounce individual words. However, with English this is never easy as there are 26 letters in the English alphabet, but many more sounds. So, you need to learn the International Phonetic Alphabet (the IPA). This is 58 a collection of symbols that represent the different sounds. For example the word face appears as / feɪs / in phonetic script. Learning this will really help you understand these sounds. Identify problem sounds! Among the many different sounds in English, there will be some that you find more difficult than others. For example, French and German learners of English often find it difficult to pronounce words that begin with the / ð / sound such as this, those and these. Once you’ve identified the sounds that are difficult for you, focus on improving them. 4 Listen out for connected speech! When you learn a new word, you also need to find how it’s pronounced in sentences with other words. And you’ll notice that sometimes the pronunciation of the word might change. For example, the verb forget is pronounced / fɔːgit /. However, when you put it in a sentence with other words, it changes as the last consonant sound / t / often merges with the first vowel sound of the following word. So, the phrase Don’t forget it! becomes Don’t forge tit! � This is known as connected speech. 5 IT’S SO EASY! 6 Be aware of word stress! Another important aspect of pronunciation is word stress. Every word has a different stress pattern. For example the word amazing has the stress on the second syllable: amazing. When you look up a word in the dictionary, you can see where the stress goes. This is extremely important. If you put the stress on the wrong part of the word, other people will find it hard to understand you. Learn about sentence stress! Another important aspect of pronunciation is sentence stress. English is a stress-timed language. This means that the stress falls on specific words in a sentence while quickly gliding over other non-stressed words. Stressed words mostly include nouns (dog, table, etc.), verbs (sit, run, etc.), adjectives (beautiful, wonderful, etc.) and adverbs (quickly, slowly, etc.). For example, a native speaker would probably stress these words (marked in bold) in the following sentence: I left at midday to catch the train. If you put the stress on the other words, people might not understand you. 7 8 Practise! A lot of sounds in English may be completely new for you and difficult to pronounce. So, you’re going to have to practise saying them until they feel natural and comfortable. Here are some ideas of little exercises that you can do to improve your pronunciation: Speak the language out loud. Read paragraphs from online articles, newspapers and books, or sing along BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com to your favourite songs. Transferring language from your mind to your mouth is an effective technique for improving your pronunciation. Find a recording of a conversation or article. Then, practise saying it to yourself. When you’re ready, record yourself reading it out loud. Then, compare your version with the original. When you listen to yourself speaking English, you’ll be able to identify any problem areas. Listen to people on the news, on TV shows or in films and try to copy the way they speak. Watch the position of their mouth and try to follow what they’re saying. Newsreaders are good as they speak directly to the camera. Hear how the pitch goes up and down, and try to copy the intonation. Get a recording (about three minutes long) of someone speaking in English. Listen to it a few times to get familiar with it. Then, play the first sentence again. As you listen, say the sentence out loud at the same time as the person on the recording. Try to copy the intonation, pronunciation and stress patterns. Do it several times. Then, move on to the next sentence. Keep going till you get to the end. And then start the whole process again until you can do it all by heart. Good luck improving your English pronunciation! GLOSSARY to glide over phr vb if you “glide over” words, you say them smoothly and quickly without placing any emphasis on them pitch n the “pitch” of a sound is how high or low it is TRACK 32 TRACK 33 PRONUNCIATION PRONUNCIATION KEY WORDS WORD LINKING Learning about pronunciation will really help with your listening and speaking skills. By finding out about things like connected speech and word linking, you’ll see how sounds join together to form new sounds. Objective To learn about word linking in speech Objective To learn about key words in speech When we speak naturally in English, the stress usually falls on important words in the sentence: the nouns, verbs and adjectives. These are known as the key words. For example: a) I was thinking about the holiday. b) He was talking to his brother. Most of the other words (articles, pronouns, auxiliary verbs (be, have, can, etc.), prepositions, etc.) aren’t stressed. Listen and repeat these sentences. Notice the key words (marked in bold). a) She was listening to the music. b) They were writing the letter. c) I was working on the computer. Now listen and write the sentences you hear. 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. A When we speak naturally, the final consonant sound from one word often merges (joins) with the first vowel sound of the following word. For example: a) about it = abou tit b) on it = o nit c) for it = fo rit d) eaten it = eate nit e) heard of it = hear do fit f) given it = give nit B Now listen to these sentences. Notice how the word sounds merge. Mark this on the page: a) We’ve paid for it. b) They’ve eaten it. c) She’s already sent it. C Listen and repeat these sentences. Where does the word linking occur? a) I’ve never heard of it. b) She’s given it to Ben. c) They’ve forgotten about it. D Now listen and write the sentences you hear. 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com 59 TRACK 34 12 important proverbs and sayings! Making questions is simple. Just remember this: PAS (Put it At the Start). So, all you need to do is place the auxiliary verb (or modal verb or the verb to be, etc.) at the start of the question. It works with about 80% of verb tenses in English, including the passive voice. For example: 1 2 “There’s no such thing as a free lunch.” Nothing in life is free – there’s always a condition or hidden cost. A Hey, they’re offering a free iPad to everyone who turns up. B Yeah, but then you probably have to sign up for their mobile network in order to get it. There’s no such thing as a free lunch! 3 “People who live in glass houses shouldn’t throw stones.” Don’t criticise other people if you aren’t perfect yourself. A That’s the third time she’s arrived late for the meeting! B Yeah, but you aren’t the most punctual person in the world. As they say, people in glass houses... 4 “Good things come to those who wait.” “Don’t put all your eggs in one basket.” Don’t depend on just one thing; don’t put all your money into one investment because you could lose it all. A I was thinking about investing my savings in this new tech company. B I wouldn’t put all my eggs in one basket if I were you. Be patient and something good will happen to you. A Are we there yet? We’ve been in the car for ages! B Only twenty minutes more. The view is worth it, I promise. Good things come to those who wait. 5 6 “Two heads are better than one.” “Absence makes the heart grow fonder.” When people work in a team, they can achieve better results. A Can you help me with this? I just can’t work it out. B Of course. You know what they say – two heads are better than one. 60 60 You start to love people or places more when you’re away from them. A So, do you miss your family much? B Yes, especially as I don’t see them so often! Absence really does make the heart grow fonder. BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com 7 8 “You can lead a horse to water, but you can’t make him drink.” “Too many cooks spoil the broth.” You can try to help someone, but they won’t always take your advice. A I’ve told him a hundred times about doing that course, but he just won’t listen. B Stop fretting over it. You can lead a horse to water... When there are too many people in charge of something the results won’t be good. A I don’t know how we’re ever going to get this done in time with all these people here. B Yes, too many cooks… 9 10 “Take care of the pennies and the pounds will take care of themselves.” If you’re careful with small amounts of money, those small amounts will soon grow into bigger amounts. A Why do you bother with all those supermarket coupons? B Every bit counts. Remember what they say, if you take care of the pennies... 11 “If at first you don’t succeed, try and try again.” Don’t give up if you fail the first time. Just keep trying and you’ll succeed in the end. A I give up. I just can’t do it. B Remember what they say, if at first you don’t succeed... 12 “If you want something done right, do it yourself.” “Honesty is the best policy.” The best thing is to tell the truth. A I don’t know whether I should tell her what I really think of her boyfriend. B I’ve always found that honesty is the best policy. Don’t trust other people to do something important for you – the best thing is to do it yourself. A I’m sorry but I never had time to write up that proposal, and I think I’ve lost the notes you gave me. B Are you serious? If you want something done right... BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com 61 61 TRACK 35 PRONUNCIATION TRACK 36 PRONUNCIATION CONNECTED SPEECH SENTENCE STRESS Avoid saying anything negative about other people or things. As Dale Carnegie once said, “Any fool can criticise, condemn, and complain but it takes character and self control to be understanding and forgiving.” Objective To learn about connected speech and word linking When we speak naturally, the final consonant sound from one word often merges (joins) with the first vowel sound of the following word. For example: them at = the mat is in =� i sin � � doctor at� = docto rat � buy it = bu yit � set �up = se � tup in a� = i na � � � and = discoun tand discount � � Listen to these sentences. Notice how the word sounds merge Mark this on the page: 1. If you buy it now, I’ll give you a 15% discount and free access to the Members Area. 2. This new program gives you access to all your files and stores them in a safe place. 3. It won’t take very long to set up and once completed, you won’t have to do it again. Now listen and write the sentences you hear. 1. 2. 3. 4. 62 Objective To learn about sentence stress in speech When we speak naturally in English, the stress usually falls on important words in the sentence: the nouns, verbs and adjectives. These are known as the key words. For example: He’ll be working all weekend. They won’t have started it by Friday. Most of the other words (articles, pronouns, auxiliary verbs (be, have, can, etc.), prepositions, etc.) aren’t stressed. Listen and repeat these sentences. Notice the key words (marked in bold). 1. I’ll be installing several more today. 2. She’ll be working from home. 3. I’ll have finished it by tomorrow night. Now listen and write the sentences you hear. 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com HOW TO IMPROVE YOUR SPOKEN ENGLISH LET’S TALK! OK. YOU START! Here are our top tips for improving your spoken English. Part I : Preparation As part of improving your spoken English, you need to get used to producing English sounds. Here’s what you can do. Read aloud – take a short text (preferably one with an audio file to go with it) and read parts of it out loud. Later, you can compare your version to the original. Repetition – repeat key sentences and expressions over and over again until they become automatic. Very soon, you’ll have learnt lots of useful phrases you can use in real conversations. Stories – practise telling your favourite stories or anecdotes. Write them out first. Then, make notes and practise saying them to yourself or a friend. Later, you can use these stories or anecdotes in conversations. Memory – memorise typical phrases, expressions and sentences. A lot of the language we use when speaking consists of set expressions and chunks of language. For example, “That’s interesting! / I never knew that! / That must have been scary!” Simultaneous speaking – sing along to your favourite songs, or try to speak at the same time as the character in a video clip or an audio recording you’re familiar with. Simply press play and then start speaking along with the news presenter, actors, singers, etc. Questions – practise forming questions. Take a piece of text and make questions from sentences in the article or paragraph. For example, “She’s seen it. = Has she seen it?” Asking questions is a good way of participating in a conversation without having to say much. Listening – work on improving your listening skills so you can follow what people are saying. You can do this by listening to audio files from course books, watching films or TV series, listening to music or watching videos on YouTube. Spend at least 70% of your study time listening to English. Part II : Participation Conversations are complicated as people tend to speak fast and they skip from topic to topic. Here are our top tips for speaking in a conversation. Key words – in a conversation, you won’t understand everything. In fact, you won’t even hear every word as people often speak unclearly and it’s noisy (especially if you’re in a bar or the street). So, you need to listen out for the key words – the most important words in a conversation: the verbs, nouns, adjectives, adverbs, etc. And from these, you can guess what the person is saying. For example, if you heard these key words “saw / film / friend / last night”, you could probably guess that the speaker was saying, “I saw a film with a friend last night.” Paraphrasing – if you want to check your understanding, do some paraphrasing. Simply summarise in a few words what you think the speaker said. For example, “So, you went out to the pub, did you? / Oh, right, so it was your brother who told her, was it?” Avoid translating – don’t translate while you’re speaking as it’s a waste of time. Just use the language you already know. Remember, the important thing is to be understood. Motivation – show the other speaker that you’re interested in what they’re saying. You can do this with your body language (by maintaining eye contact, smiling, having an interested look on your face, leaning in, etc.), or by using short phrases to show that you’re following things:“Oh, yeah? / Really? / Wow! / Amazing! / I can’t believe you did that! / Oh, no! / I didn’t know that / Incredible!” Keep it simple – speak slowly and clearly, and use simple English sentences with the language you know. Don’t worry about your accent. And ignore any “mistakes”. In fact, if you listen to any native speakers in casual conversations, you’ll notice that they don’t speak in perfectly-formed, grammatically-correct sentences (just listen to the recordings in the Group Talk section of the magazine and you’ll see what we mean). And native speakers often make “mistakes” themselves in fast-paced conversations. Practice – practise speaking as often as you can. Speak to English friends or a teacher on Skype, join an English club or conversation group, find a pen friend, visit an Irish or English pub or food shop and talk to people there, go shopping in tourist areas and pretend you’re a foreigner (so you can speak English), speak to a classmate in English (even if you both speak the same language)... the possibilities are limitless. Have fun speaking in English! 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(00 34) 91 543 3573 Learn hot English business@learnhotenglish.com FREE subscription if you recommend Hot English Language Services to your company. E-mail classes@learnhotenglish.com / www.learnhotenglish.com / 64 www.learnhotenglish.com TRACK 37 SOCIALISING REPORTING BACK ON EVENTS Answers on page 79 Objective To learn how to describe an event in English Try to keep the conversation positive, and avoid any potentially controversial topics such as religion and politics. 1 Pre-listening 2 Listening I 4 What can go wrong during the following events: a wedding, a meeting, a conference? You’re going to listen to three people reporting back on events they attended. Listen once and compare your ideas from the Pre-listening activity. 3 Listening II Listen again. Then, answer the questions. 1. Why was the bride late? 2. What did the priest get wrong? 3. What couldn’t the best man find? 4. In the second extract, how much was the other party demanding? 5. What helped to settle everyone down again? 6. In the third extract, how far away was the hotel from the conference centre? 7. How did he get into the conference centre? 8. Why couldn’t he do anything for the first day? Useful language Complete the extracts from the stories with the correct words. Then, listen again to check your answers. the ceremony, she still 1. About two minutes hadn’t turned up… arrived with about 30 seconds to spare! 2. She the ceremony, the priest got Mike’s 3. Then, name wrong… the best man couldn’t find 4. Oh, and the rings… then… 5. I mean, it started off all right, , they said that they… 6. To make matters , someone suggested taking a break. 7. In the again after about half-an-hour… 8. We met a 9. The only thing was that I was booked hotel that… the city centre was a nightmare… 10. …parking and really expensive. 11. Anyway, it turned up eventually and everything was that. fine BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com 65 TRACK 38 HOW TO GIVE A BACK-HANDED COMPLIMENT I JUST LOVE YOUR BACK-HANDED COMPLIMENTS. THANKS! Follow up on any conversation you have by sending a message the next day saying how great it was to meet them. You could send the message from your social media account so they can find out a bit more about you, and see what a fantastic person you are! Objective To improve your reading and listening skills. Think about it What other back-handed compliments do you know of? Has anyone ever given you a back-handed compliment? Have you ever given someone a back-handed compliment? Why do you think people give back-handed compliments? How often do you give genuine compliments? How important is it to compliment people? Answers on page 79 1 Pre-reading Read over the compliments (and ignore the “translations” for now). In what way are they insulting? What do you think they really mean? 2 Reading I Compliment: “You look like you’ve been eating well.” Translation: You’ve put on some weight. Reading II Compliment: “I didn’t recognise you! You look beautiful!” Translation: You normally look like a tramp. Now read over the “translations” to compare your ideas from the Pre-reading activity. 3 Read over the translations below. See if you can remember the corresponding back-handed compliments without referring back to the article. 1. “I didn’t recognise you! You look beautiful!” 2. “You’re so photogenic.” 3. “I love that outfit! You’re so brave.” 4. “You’re so normal compared to the last person I dated.” 5. “You’re getting better at your job every day.” 6. “I love how you’re not obsessed with personal style.” 66 S ome insults are hard to detect, and can even appear to be compliments. These hidden snubs are known as backhanded compliments. Here are a few. outfit! You’re so brave.” Translation: I wouldn’t be seen dead in something like that. Compliment: “You look great for your age.” Translation: I’d just like to remind you that you aren’t young any more. Compliment: “You’ve done quite well for someone of your educational level.” Translation: I was under the impression that you were an ignorant, uneducated fool. Compliment: “Your shoes look so comfortable.” Translation: Those shoes are so unstylish. Compliment: “You’re so normal compared to the last person I dated.” Translation: You’re boring. Compliment: “Your new haircut really makes your face look slim.” Translation: You’ve got a fat face. Compliment: “You’re getting better at your job every day.” Translation: When you started here, I thought you were a complete moron. Compliment: “You’re so photogenic.” Translation: You look a lot better in pictures than in person. Compliment: “I love that Compliment: “I’d never have guessed that you were a surgeon.” Translation: You come across as too stupid to be a professional. BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com Compliment: “I love how you’re not obsessed with personal style.” Translation: You dress like a slob. Compliment: “You’re a riot when you’ve had a bit to drink!" Translation: You’re really boring when you’re sober. Get ready to respond to those back-handed compliments! GLOSSARY a compliment n something nice that you say to someone to show that you like what they’ve done, what they’re wearing, etc. a snub n an insult; something rude that someone says a tramp n a person who lives in the street photogenic adj someone who is “photogenic” looks good in photos I wouldn’t be seen dead in... exp I would never wear... ignorant adj an “ignorant” person doesn’t know the things they should know to date vb if you're “dating” someone, you’re having a romantic relationship with them a moron n informal an idiot to come across as exp if you “come across as” intelligent (for example), you appear to be intelligent a slob n a lazy and untidy person sober adj someone who is “sober” isn’t drunk TRACK 39 GETTING INTO THE CITY IT’S YOUR TURN TO PAY! Answers on page 79 Objective To learn about some features of spoken English – part I Useful language: Conversation fillers Native English speakers often use meaningless words and sounds when they’re speaking naturally and spontaneously. These are often referred to as “conversation fillers” as they literally “fill” the conversation. They include words or sounds such as er, erm, like and you know. You don’t need to use these words and sounds yourself. However, it’s very important to be aware of them and to be able to recognise them. This will allow you to follow conversations much more easily. And learning about them will really help with your listening skills. Here are some of the common ones. 1 Pre-listening If you had to travel into the city where you live (or near where you live), what means of transport would you use? What are the pros and cons of each type? Add two more ideas to each item on the list below. Car – you have to find a parking space, it’s faster, it’s more convenient… Bus – it’s cheap, you don’t have to find a parking space… Metro / underground – it’s fast… Taxi Bicycle Walking Other? 2 It’s important to learn about these features of spoken English. They’re words and sounds that often appear in natural, spontaneous language. However, you don’t need to copy them when you’re speaking - you only need to be able to recognise them. Listening I You’re going to listen to two people chatting about getting into the city. They start talking about the congestion charge. The congestion charge is a fee drivers pay to drive into Central London between 07:00 and 18:00 on Mondays to Fridays. It costs £11.50 per car if you pay in advance. There’s a £65 fine if you drive into the zone and you haven’t paid. What are the pros and cons of such a scheme? Make notes. Then, listen once to compare your ideas. 3 Listening II Listen again. Then, choose the correct words in each sentence. 1. Karl has got some tickets for a theatre show on Saturday/ Sunday afternoon. 2. He’s got one/two spare ticket/s. 3. The play is a comedy and his nephew/cousin is in it. 4. They arrange to meet up outside the theatre at 5pm/6pm. 5. Karl thinks the congestion charge is £10/£20. 6. Dave once got fined £40/£50. 7. Karl thinks the charge could help to increase/reduce the number of cars in the centre. 8. Dave thinks that it might be good/bad for business. 9. Karl hopes they’ll pedestrianise more/less of the centre too. Feature Example like (this word is sometimes used to fill a gap or silence) There’s two, like, people, like, waiting at the side... I’ve got, like, about two minutes to, like, deal with it. you know (this is used to fill a gap in a conversation, or to check that the other person is following you) It’s great, you know, because you can do it all from home. If you want any help, just, you know, ask. Er / erm (these “sounds” are often used while people are thinking of something to say or they’re unsure of what to say) Erm, I’m not really sure. Er, what do you think? Erm, I don’t really know how to put this, but, erm, we’ve just won the lottery! I mean (this expression is used for selfcorrection or for clarifying something) It’s really good, I mean, it isn’t bad. I’m thirty six, I mean, thirty seven. 4 Exercise Look at these extracts taken from the conversation you’ve just listened to. Circle or underline any conversation fillers. 1. Not really, I think I’ll just, erm, you know, take it easy. 2. Oh, but, erm, I’ve some tickets for a theatre show on Sunday afternoon. 3. It’s in, like, this little theatre just off Marley Street. 4. We could meet up just outside the theatre at, like, 6pm. 5. It starts at, erm, 6:15, I think. 6. OK. So, erm, how will you be getting into the centre? 7. It’s like 10 pounds now, isn’t it? 8. Although I do, like, think it’s a good idea in principle. 9. There’ll be fewer cars, and, like, less pollution. BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com 67 TRACK 40 ASKING ABOUT SOMEONE’S PLANS Answers on page 79 Objective To learn about some features of spoken English – part II Useful language: Features of spoken English When native English speakers talk quickly in conversation or chat informally, they rarely speak in full sentences. And they often use non-standard English, correct themselves, repeat themselves,and even make factual or grammatical mistakes. This is because they’re speaking fast and without really thinking. It’s perfectly natural and normal, and people often do it in their own languages. Here are some examples of these things: WHAT A BUSY SCHEDULE YOU’VE GOT! Repetition This is when people repeat words: a) I never saw... saw it. b) It’s the first... first time I’ve ever seen it. Interruption This is when one speaker interrupts another. A: Well, I was just walking down the street when... B: ...which street? 1 Pre-listening Learning about these natural features of spoken conversation will really help with your listening skills. If you know how to identify these features, you’ll be able to focus on the important key words: the nouns, verbs, adjectives, etc. These will help you understand what’s being said. What information do you need if you’re going to a party? Make notes. For example: what time it is, where it is, etc. 2 Listening I 3 Listening II You’re going to listen to a conversation between two people who are talking about a party. Listen once. Did they answer any of the things you thought about for the Pre-listening activity? Listen again. Then, answer the questions. 1. When is the party? a) Friday b) Saturday 2. What type of party is it? a) a housewarming party b) a fancy-dress party 3. What’s the name of the pub where Harry’s dad works? a) the Hen and Rabbit b) the Duck and Goose 4. What time is the party? a) 7pm b) 8pm 5. What is Zoe going to take to the party? a) a bottle of wine b) some beer 6. What’s the address? a) 19 Hedgegrove Avenue b) 23 Bartleby Street 7. What is it next to? a) the bus station b) the train station 68 Hesitation This is when one of the speakers stops speaking temporarily – often because they’re nervous or unsure of what they’re saying. a) Erm, I’d just like to say that, erm, we’re, erm, really angry about it. b) Erm, I don’t know what you think, but I, erm, don’t really, erm, like it. 4 Exercise I 5 Exercise II Write R (Repetition), I (Interruption) or H (Hesitation) next to each example. 1. This is... this is the best one. 2. A: I really don’t know what you’re talking... B: ...what I meant to say was that... 3. I know what... I know what you mean. 4. A: Could you just tell me... B: ...I know what we can do. We can... 5. Erm, I think, er, well, I’m fairly sure that, erm, that, it’s, erm... Read over the conversation. Then, give a short description of each numbered expression in italics. Eating out Doug: So, (1) erm, do you eat out much? Marta: No, no, not much. It’s expensive, and, erm, besides, I quite enjoy cooking at home. Doug: Yeah, I used to go out quite a lot because, (2) you know, it’s so convenient, you know, if you get back home late and you’re hungry, it’s always easier to eat at, (3) I mean, to eat out and… Marta: (4) ...yeah, I agree. So, which restaurants did you like? Doug: I don’t know, I guess (5) I used to... I used to quite like Franelli’s, you know, that place in the high street, (6) their... their... lasagne is delicious, but, (7) you know, I used to go once a week, (8) I mean, once every two weeks, so it got a bit boring. I think I just, (9) like, just ate there too often and then I got bored of it, so now I... [fades out] For example: 1. conversational filler BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com TRACK 41 CATCHING UP ON THE LATEST NEWS! Answers on page 79 Objective To learn how to agree or disagree with someone Think about it Have you seen any old friends lately? Who? Why hadn’t you seen them for such a long time? What did you talk about? What did he/she ask you? What did you ask him/her? Where were you? When do you think you’ll see them again? IS THAT ALL? You’ll see from learning about these features of spoken English that when people speak, they don’t speak in perfect, grammatically correct phrases. Often, the speech is a bit of a mess. It’s your job to try to follow it. Useful language Agreement The use of so / neither / nor / either We can use so to agree with another speaker’s affirmative statement. For example: A: I’ve seen it before. B: So have I. 1 Pre-listening Imagine you’ve just met an old friend or acquaintance in the street. What could you say to them? What could you ask them? Add three more ideas to the list below. I’ve got a new house. I’ve changed jobs. What’s (Mike) doing these days? Where are you living? Where are you working? Other? 2 Listening I You’re going to listen to a conversation between two people who know each other, vaguely. Listen once. Which questions or statements did you hear from the Pre-listening task? 3 Listening II Listen again. Then, choose the correct answers. 1. They were at a conference in... a) Birmingham b) Leipzip 2. It was about... a) three years ago b) two years ago 3. Libby has bought a little apartment overlooking the... a) river b) castle 4. Hugo has bought a house in a little... a) village b) town 5. Hugo is in Manchester... a) on business b) visiting friends and family 6. Libby is connected with Chloe on... a) Facebook b) LinkedIn 7. They decide to go for... a) lunch b) a coffee 8. The place they go to is in a) Canal Street b) Fireplace Avenue Notice how we repeat the auxiliary verb. For example: A: I am happy. B: So am I. A: She can see it. B: So can he. When the verb is in the Present Simple, we use do or does; and when it’s in the Past Simple, we use did. For example: A: Jessica lives here. B: So does Nick. A: I loved the film. B: So did I. To agree with another speaker’s negative statement we can use neither. For example: A: I can’t see it. B: Neither can I. (Or: I can’t either / Nor can I.) A: She isn’t there. B: Neither is Bob. (Or: Bob isn’t either / Nor is Bob.) A: I didn’t think much of it. B: Neither did I. (Or: I didn’t either / Nor did I.) A: Laura isn’t coming to the party. B: Neither is Jake. (Or: Jake isn’t either / Nor is Jake.) 4 Exercise Complete the mini-dialogues with the correct words. 1. A: I saw a great documentary last night. I! B: So 2. A: I didn’t get a chance to look over the report. did I. B: 3. A: I’ve got a new car. have I! B: 4. A: My sister works in a bank. mine! B: So 5. I haven’t finished it. I! 6. Neither BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com 69 TRACK 42 WHAT DO YOU THINK OF THE UNDERGROUND? Answers on page 79 Objective To learn about some features of spoken English – part III You’ll see from these audio extracts that native speakers don’t speak in grammatically perfect sentences. Spoken communication is not an exact science - it’s a form of negotiation between two (or more) speakers who are trying to create meaning. Non-standard English There’s a lot of people there. [It should be: There are...] 1 Pre-listening 2 Listening I a. b. c. d. e. f. g. h. …nobody did anything. …getting involved in stuff. …anywhere to put my feet. …in a suit or something, you know. …for anybody anymore. …It was just terrible. …tempered in the morning. …trains on or something. What do you like or dislike about travelling on the Underground (also known as the subway, tube or metro)? What are the pros and cons? Make a list. Contradicting as a matter of fact / actually / to tell you the truth / yes, but... As a matter of fact, it was Frank who said that. Actually, I’ve never even been there. To tell you the truth, I thought it was one of her worst. Yes, but do you really understand it? You’re going to listen to two people who are talking about travelling on the Underground. Listen once. Were any of your ideas from the Pre-listening task mentioned? Changing the topic of conversation anyway / by the way... 3 Listening II Anyway, did you get a chance to speak to Clara? Match the sentence halves. Then, listen again to check your By the way, did you hear what Nigel said about it? answers. 1. I went on the Underground today… Abbreviated forms 2. This morning I didn’t even have… Gonna (going to) / wanna (want to) / dunno (dont’ know) I’m gonna go there tomorrow. = I’m going to go 3. I think they should put more, like, more… there tomorrow. 4. Everyone’s so bad… She doesn’t wanna see him again. = She doesn’t 5. Somebody fainted the other day and… want to see him again. 6. Nobody has any respect… I dunno what they want. = I don’t know what 7. I guess people are sort of frightened of… they want. 8. So, you only help people because they’re… Useful language: Features of conversational language Here are some more features of conversational English: False starts I, I, I think... I mean, I believe... Incomplete sentences I went... I took it, and then, I had... 70 Summing up So / basically... So, what shall we do about it. Basically, we need to know... So, did you see that film last night? 4 Exercise Complete the sentences with the correct words or expressions. In some cases, more than one answer may be possible. 1. A: I think Sandra’s going to work in Seattle next year. , I think she’s already gone. B: 2. A: That film was great. it wasn’t as good as her last one. B: Yeah, 3. A: Do you like it? truth, I didn’t really think much of it. B: , that’s 4. ...And then I was late for work. enough about me. What about your day? way, do you know what happened to Phoebe? 5. BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com VIDEO 11 HOW TO GET TALKING TO SOMEONE 1 Pre-viewing 2 First viewing 3 Second viewing a) b) c) d) e) f) g …a shared experience. …tricks in your back pocket. …stories you hear and the opening that’s created. …button they’re wearing or shoes they’ve got on. …strangers are coming together. …you find interesting about them. …brought you here today?” Answers on page 79 What are your top tips for starting a conversation? What questions do you ask? What do you say? What comments would you make? What would it depend on? Make notes. Watch the video. How would you rate the speaker’s ideas on a scale of 1 to 10 (10 being the best score)? Match the sentence halves. Then, watch the video again to check your answers. 1. My advice is to have a few… 2. Let’s say you’re in a new environment where a lot of… 3. Really genuinely acknowledge something that… 4. It could be commenting on a… 5. There’s something that you can connect to that is… 6. I’m always intrigued by the question, “So, what… 7. You would be amazed at the… Remember, communication is only 7% verbal but 93% body language. Keep your body language positive: uncrossed arms and legs, leaning forward, maintaining good eye contact, smiling, etc. BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com 71 TRACK 43 FOUR SOCIAL DIALOGUES Objective To learn about ellipsis (leaving out words) in speech Answers on page 79 the post office is easy to locate? 6. What does the employee think he should do? Dialogue 4 7. What evidence is there that the waiter has been ignoring them? 8. What excuse does the waiter give for not having taken their order? Useful language Here are some more features of spoken language. Changing the topic of conversation anyway / by the way... Anyway, did you get a chance to speak to Clara? By the way, did you hear what Nigel said about it? Abbreviated forms Gonna (going to) / wanna (want to) / dunno (dont’ know) I’m gonna go there tomorrow. = I’m going to go there tomorrow. She doesn’t wanna see him again. = She doesn’t want to see him again. I dunno what they want. = I don’t know what they want. Ellipsis Look at this extract from the audio script of the recording: “...You mean near the supermarket?...” The speaker has used ellipsis and omitted the auxiliary verb “do” (Do you mean...?). Keep up-to-date with the latest news so you’ve always got something to talk about. 1 Listening I 2 Listening II You’re going to listen to four short dialogues. Listen once, and say where each dialogue takes place. What do you think the relationship is between the speakers? Listen again. Then, answer the questions. Dialogue 1 1. What does one of the speakers say about the price? 2. What do they suggest doing about the decision? Dialogue 2 3. What monetary concerns does the girl’s dad have? 4. Why does he suggest she go to bed soon? Dialogue 3 5. What evidence is there that the first speaker thinks 72 We often leave out words when the meaning can be understood. Notice the eliminated text in square brackets. For example: A: How would you like your eggs? B: [I would like them] Poached, please. A: How did the meeting go? B: They asked if I wouldn’t mind taking on some more work, but I didn’t want to [take on the work]. Ellipsis is sometimes used at the start of questions, particularly in informal, spoken English. What would the full forms of these questions be? For example: a) Car giving you trouble again? b) Want to come with us? c) Looking for something? 3 Exercise Which words are omitted in the following sentences or questions? 1. You go out last night? 2. Nice dress! 3. A: Whose is it? B: Bill’s. 4. A: What shall we do? B: Not sure. 5. She say what she wanted? 6. You ever stop to wonder why? 7. Seen Ben anywhere? 8. You ready? 9. Your sister got a job? 10. Anyone want anything else to eat? BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com TRACK 44 CHATTING ABOUT REGRETS! Answers on page 79 Objective To learn how to follow a multiple person conversation! Remember, communication is only 7% verbal but 93% body language. Keep your body language positive: uncrossed arms and legs, leaning forward, good eye contact, smiling, etc. Multiple-people conversations In this unit, you’re going to listen to a multiple-person conversation – a conversation with several people speaking. These types of conversation are difficult to follow as people often speak on top of one another. Also, when people chat informally, they often use non-standard English. They may also correct themselves in mid-sentence and repeat themselves, and they rarely speak in full sentences. They use lots of conversation fillers too, and even make factual or grammatical mistakes because they’re speaking fast. The most important thing to remember when listening to a conversation like this is that you won’t understand every word. So, you should only listen out for the key words – the most important words in the conversation: the nouns, verbs, adjectives, etc. Then, you can use your intuition to guess what the people are saying – just as you do in your own language. Knowing the context and topic of the conversation will help with this. 1 Pre-listening 2 Listening I 3 Listening II You’re going to listen to some people talking about regrets in their lives. What regrets do you have in life? Make a list. For example: I should have studied harder at university; I wish I’d done some more travelling while I had the chance; I’d have loved to have studied abroad for a couple of years... Listen once and compare your ideas from the Pre-listening activity. Were any of the things you thought of mentioned in the conversation? Listen again. Then, answer the questions. 1. What’s the saying the female speaker mentions at the start of the conversation? 2. What does she think about the saying? 3. What regret does the speaker who says he was an athlete have? 4. What does the female speaker say about that? 5. Despite not being a professional athlete, how does he feel about his life? BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com 73 TRACK 45 CHATTING ABOUT SUNDAY! Answers on page 79 Objective To practise listening to multiple-person conversations I WISH IT WAS SUNDAY! The number-one rule with small talk is to listen. Don’t talk too much about yourself and your life, but ask questions and listen to what the other person has to say. However, if they don’t seem to show any interest in your life, then you might want to think about moving on. 1 Pre-listening 2 Listening I 3 Listening II What do you like to do on Sunday? Make a list. For example: Have a big breakfast. Stay in bed until late. Go for a walk in the park. Etc. Listen to the conversation once. Did they mention any of your ideas from the Pre-listening activity? Multiple-people conversations part II Here’s some more practice on listening to multiple-person conversations – conversations with several people speaking. Remember to try to listen out for the key words – the most important words in the conversation (often the nouns, verbs, adjectives, etc.). Then, use your intuition to guess what the people are saying – just as you do in your own language. Knowing the context and topic of the conversation will help with this. This is why it’s important to do the Pre-listening activity as this will activate your existing knowledge of the topic. 74 Listen again. Then, answer these questions. 1. How old was the first speaker when she started working in retail? 2. What does the second speaker like to do on Sunday? 3. Why does the male speaker think it’s difficult to shop on Sunday? 4. What does one of the speakers say about the people who have to work on Sunday? 5. What does the male speaker say that Sunday is reserved as? 6. When would he rather go shopping? BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com TRACK 46 MAKING PLANS Answers on page 79 Objective To understand slang in conversations Think about it When was the last time you made plans to go out at night? Who were you with? What did you want to do? What did you all decide to do in the end? What do you do if your friends make plans that you aren’t interested in: go anyway, or do something else? Native English speakers often use slang when they’re talking in social situations. It’s important to understand some slang terms so you can follow the conversation. However, you should avoid using any slang yourself, unless you’re sure of when and how to use it. ANY PLANS FOR TONIGHT? 1 Pre-listening 2 Listening I 3 Listening II What do you like to do when you go out in the evening or night? Make a list. For example: Go to the cinema. Meet up in a pub with friends. Etc. You’re going to listen to a conversation between two people who are trying to decide what to do. Listen once. Did they mention any of the things you thought of for the Pre-listening task? Listen again. Then, answer the questions. 1. What time did they want the cinema tickets for? 2. Whose party does Noah want to go to? 3. What did Noah sell to Greg? 4. How much did he get for it? 5. How much was it worth, according to Pete? 6. How much did Pete get charged for a pint the last time he went to the Dog and Duck pub? 7. Who does Noah get a text from while they’re talking? 8. What time are they going to pick up their friend? 4 Useful language: slang The two speakers use a lot of slang expressions in the conversation. Look at the list of slang expressions used in the conversation. See if you can write out a Standard English version or definition of each expression to show its meaning. If you’re finding it difficult, listen again and try to guess the meaning of the expression. 1. That’s thrown a spanner in the works = That’s ruined our plans 2. What a bummer! 3. Grab a bite to eat 4. We’ll never hear the end of it 5. I’m sort of in two minds 6. I just don’t feel up to it 7. You can’t bail out on me 8. I’m a bit broke 9. I’m loaded 10. I flogged 11. What a mug! 12. A quick one 13. A rip-off 14. His car’s conked out 15. We can’t leave him in the lurch 16. I’ll give him a bell BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com 75 TRACK 47 HOW TO END A CONVERSATION Answers on page 79 Objective To learn how to end a conversation in English Smile and be friendly when ending the conversation, so the other person knows you enjoyed talking – and they don’t think you’re ending it because you’re bored, etc. Before leaving, make a positive comment, give a reason for ending the conversation and say when you’ll next be in touch. If you’re finding it hard to end the chat, just give a summary of the main points or the next steps to take. This will let the other person know that you’d like to end the conversation. 4 Useful language Listen again. Then, answer the questions. There’s one question for each dialogue. sorry everything contract care miss going call again lovely trip get great Pre-listening 1 What reason or excuse can you give for ending a conversation? Add at least three more ideas to the list below. You... ...have got a train to catch. ...are going on a long journey home. ...are moving abroad permanently and you have to leave. ...have to prepare the dinner. ...have said everything you need to say so you’re just ending the conversation. 2 Listening I You’re going to listen to five conversations in which people say goodbye. Listen once and match the ideas from the Pre-listening activity to the conversations below. 1. At the pub = he/she has to prepare the dinner 2. In the street = 3. In an office = 4. In a restaurant = 5. In an office = 3 Listening II Listen again. Then, answer the questions. There’s one question for each dialogue. 1. When will the speaker’s kids be back? 2. When does the speaker’s train leave? 3. How long have the speakers been working together? 4. Where is the speaker flying back to? 5. Where do the speakers arrange to meet? 76 Wrapping up the conversation 1. Well, I really should be _______. 2. So, I’ll give you a _______ later this week. 3. I’m really _______ but I’ve got a train to catch. 4. I’d better _______ going – the last bus leaves in about 10 minutes. 5. So, I’ll send you the _______ as soon as I get back to the office. OK? Final words 6. Have a nice _______ back. 7. It was _______ talking to you. 8. I’m going to _______ you. 9. Thanks again for _______. 10. It was _______ to finally meet you. 11. It was really nice to see you _______. 12. Take _______ and send me a text message. Saying goodbye Bye. / Goodbye. See you soon. See you later. See you next week “GOOD NIGHT” Remember, we usually only say “good night” to someone who is going to bed at night. If it’s late and you want to say goodbye, just say… “bye!” or “see you later!” BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com ANSWERS PAGE 6 Speech bubbles 1. coming; 2. welcome; 3. address; 4. join; 5. card; 6. from; 7. in PAGE 7 3 Listening II 1. He hopes he’s passed his exam. 2. He suggests going to the pub. 3. She’s been there for about three weeks. 4. He went trekking. 5. It’s been about six years. 6. She’s just left for university. 7. When they were at school. 8. For about three years. Useful language 1. I’m; 2. pleased; 3. do; 4. meet; 5. name; 6. for; 7. known; 8. seen PAGE 8 1. recommended; 2. morning; 3. worse; 4. met; 5. remember; 6. common; 7. know; 8. conference; 9. before; 10. chef 4 PAGE 9 3 Second viewing • Make eye contact as you’re shaking the other person’s hand. 5 • You should be standing up when you shake hands. 1 • Make sure your body language is good; stand up straight with your shoulders back. 7 • Make sure you give a firm handshake, but not so hard that you injure the other person. 3 • As you introduce yourself, give your first and last name. 8 • Smile so you can give a really good first impression. 6 • Shake the other person’s hand for the entire time it takes you to introduce yourself. 4 • As you shake hands, make sure you touch the web of the other person’s hand. 2 PAGE 10 3 Listening II 1T 2F 3T 4T 5T 6F 7F 4 Exercise 1. Yes, she is. 2. Yes, they are. 3. Yes, he did. 4. Yes, they were. 5. Yes, they had. 6. Yes, she has. 7. Yes, they will. 8. Yes, she is. PAGE 11 1. places; 2. saw; 3. heard; 4. job offer; 5. film; 6. girlfriend; 7. tragic; 8. seen PAGE 12 3 Listening II 1. a pint; 2. St Michael’s; 3. in Hull; 4. in Tanzania; 5. he learnt how to scuba dive; 6. that he looks fatter; 7. a new Ford Fiesta; 8. she’s a doctor 4 Useful language 1. where; 2. what; 3. where; 4. what; 5. how; 6. where; 7. what; 8. what; 9. how; 10. why / when; 11. when / why; 12. how / why / when PAGE 13 2 Comprehension 1. Because we’re visual animals and we remember what we see. 2. He also mentions her lips and eyes. 3. A bee or beehive. 4. A giant bee in the bun. 5. Ask for a bit of time to speak to each person individually so you can picture something on them. 6. A dollar bill. 7. He mentions Bill’s sweep of hair and his “rather large nose”. He picks the nose. 8. The dollar bill. PAGE 14 2 Listening I Yes, she does. 3 Listening II 1. No, she didn’t; 2. Yes, it is; 3. Yes, she does; 4. Yes, she is; 5. Yes, she has; 6. No, she didn’t 4 Useful language 1. get; 2. like; 3. went; 4. rained; 5. moved; 6. had; 7. spent; 8. got PAGE 16 3 Second viewing 1c 2g 3b 4a 5d 6h 7e 8f PAGE 17 3 Listening II 1b 2a 3b 4a 5a 6a 4 Useful language – making small talk 1. aren’t; 2. going; 3. friend; 4. met; 5. work; 6. changed; 7. was; 8. meet; 9. do; 10. lived; 11. been; 12. get PAGE 18 1. morning; 2. person; 3. client; 4. end; 5. manager; 6. deadlines; 7. help; 8. toys PAGE 19 3 Listening II 1. Jack works with Mathews & Sons on the 23rd floor. 2. Beth works with Saunders & Co on the 9th floor. 3. He doesn’t want to get stuck there on her own. 4. She asks if he wants to get a coffee. 5. They had his name down as Kenneth Clarke. 6. The breakfast buffet, the views, the pool and the sauna and steam room. 7. Because he’s been there before. 8. Because she had some holiday time she had to use up before the end of the year. 4 Useful language 1. by; 2. to; 3. floor; 4. day; 5. walk; 6. getting; 7. corner; 8. time; 9. staying; 10. reception; 11. views; 12. pool; 13. sightseeing; 14. before; 15. do; 16. met PAGE 20 3 Second viewing • A lot of people have a hard time making eye contact. 3 • If you get distracted by something, make sure you refocus your attention as soon as possible. 6 • Ask a close friend or loved one to give you feedback on your conversational style. 8 • Look at the central point between someone’s eyebrows if you have problems making eye contact. 4 • Make sure you don’t stare too much. 1 • Have a conversation with yourself in front of a mirror and watch your eyes and see how often they drift off. 7 • Look off now and then when you’re speaking, but not for too long – just a second or two. 5 • Blinking too much comes across as a little bit awkward. 2 PAGE 21 1 Movie matching 1. Psycho; 2. The Shawshank Redemption; 3. It’s a Wonderful Life; 4. Casablanca 4 Listening II 1. Some pizzas. 2. He says it wasn’t bad. 3. He says it’s an action-adventure film that takes place in the future. 4. Teenagers who participate in a game in which they have to kill each other. 5. She says it wasn’t too bad. 6. A terrorist called the Mandarin. 7. Ben Kingsley. 8. She’s texting a friend. 5 Useful language 1. takes; 2. set; 3. directed; 4. stars; 5. take; 6. about; 7. by; 8. in; 9. like; 10. do PAGE 22 2 Listening I 1b 2e 3d 4a 5c 3 Listening II 1. about 50 km; 2. about 15 minutes; 3. £1 for the whole day; 4. about 25 minutes; 5. at about 7am 4 Useful language 1. from; 2. near; 3. takes; 4. work; 5. stop; 6. about; 7. lasts; 8. get; 9. to; 10. bike; 11. work; 12. journey; 13. times; 14. frequent PAGE 23 3 Listening II 1. cinema; 2. lunch; 3. theatre; 4. opera; 5. art gallery; 6. May; 7. hamster 4 Useful language 1. to; 2. on; 3. about; 4. to; 5. in; 6. on; 7. with; 8. out; 9. out; 10. up PAGE 24 3 Listening II 1. Ben’s house; 2. the police turned up; 3. he told Oscar about a cake in the fridge; 4. because he found out that it was Oscar’s cake; 5. nothing – just watch a DVD; 6. all her friends popped out of nowhere – it was a surprise party 4 Useful language 1. what; 2. when / where / why / how; 3. what; 4. where; 5. what; 6. how; 7. who; 8. what; 9. where; 10. what PAGES 26-27 1 Exercise 1. They are tired. = Are they tired? 2. She is working. = Is she working? 3. They were playing football. = Were they playing football? 4. He will be at home. = Will he be at home? BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com 77 ANSWERS 5. Pete has eaten here before. = Has Pete eaten here before? 6. Sandra has been walking. = Has Sandra been walking? 7. The film had already started. = Had the film already started? 8. They are made in Taiwan. = Are they made in Taiwan? 9. It was built in the 20th century. = Was it built in the 20th century? 10. They have been awarded a prize. = Have they been awarded a prize? 11. She can hear it. = Can she hear it? 12. He should take it. = Should he take it? 13. They would like to try it. = Would they like to try it? 14. He lives in Seattle. = Does he live in Seattle? 15. They drive to work. = Do they drive to work? 16. She left before Frank. = Did she leave before Frank? PAGE 28 3 Second viewing • Respond enthusiastically to comments to keep someone talking. 4 • That gives the other person an opportunity to show their knowledge of the subject. 8 • Encourage further conversation by asking who, what, why, when, where and how questions. 5 • Display an interest in a wide-range of topics. 2 • Don’t be afraid to admit your ignorance when discussing a topic. 7 • Encourage people to talk about themselves by asking questions like, What do you do for a living? 1 • Keep it low key so it doesn’t sound like you’re interrogating. 6 • Listen quietly and maintain eye contact. 3 PAGE 29 3 BODY LANGUAGE descriptions 1. coldness, distance; 2. boredom, tiredness; 3. relaxed, positive; 4. interested, confident; 5. questioning something, surprise; 6. listening carefully; 7. nervousness; 8. confusion, displeasure; 9. showing interest PAGE 30-31 3 Reading II 1. A firm handshake is a sign of confidence and trust. 2. Between 70 and 80% of the time. 3. That they aren’t interested any more, or that they want to leave. 4. The social gaze. 5. Between 45 and 120cm. 6. That someone is interested in us or that they like us. 7. So you appear to be calm and confident. 8. It could be a sign that someone is lying. 9. It could make them like or trust you more. PAGE 32 2 Comprehension 1. That your body speaks much more loudly than your words do. So, it’s important that as you speak you exhibit great body language. 2. The way they’re positioned can make an enormous difference. It can make you seem 78 insecure or don’t have much confidence. 3. You should put them in your lap, at your sides or folded in front of you. 4. You shouldn’t play with your bracelets or hair, or fumble with your pockets. 5. You should ask someone else to keep an eye on you and your hands as you’re speaking. 6. The fact that you need to be standing still. Because if you’re moving around during a conversation, you could come across as nervous or uncomfortable. 7. They should be stationary – you shouldn’t be moving them around or lifting up your knee. The idea is that you don’t want to distract someone or come across as insecure. PAGE 33 3 Listening II 1. 27; 2. 30s; 3. months; 4. weekend; 5. work; 6. conference; 7. meat; 8. cat; 9. film 4 Exercise 1. aren’t you; 2. didn’t you; 3. aren’t you; 4. haven’t you; 5. isn’t it; 6. aren’t we; 7. haven’t they; 8. didn’t she; 9. wasn’t she; 10. aren’t you; 11. aren’t they; 12. doesn’t she; 13. don’t they; 14. aren’t there; 15. hasn’t he PAGE 34 3 Listening II 1. Brazil; 2. next week; 3. Mark: orange juice; Judith: a glass of white wine; 4. Pauline: France; Wolfgang: Germany; 5. he has eaten there once or twice before; he recommends the lasagne; 6. sixteen; 7. at a conference in Washington; 8. marketing 4 Useful language 1. weren’t; 2. aren’t; 3. didn’t; 4. weren’t; 5. didn’t; 6. don’t; 7. haven’t; 8. wasn’t; 9. didn’t; 10. haven’t PAGE 35 3 Second viewing 1. They bounce their legs up and down. 2. When they’re more comfortable and less anxious. 3. To get the member of the audience to stop bouncing his leg up and down. 4. They tend to orient towards them and square up to them. 5. A gradual change in orientation by the person you’re talking to so they start to square up to you. 6. Where you ask where someone is from, they say Texas and the other speaker responds excitedly because they’re from Texas too. 7. Things are going badly in the conversation. PAGE 36-37 1 Exercise 1. Ah; 2. Hey; 3. Psst; 4. Uh-huh; 5. Ow; 6. Ahem; 7. Wow; 8. Whoops; 9. Aha; 10. Blah, blah, blah; 11. Hm; 12. Oh; 13. Phew; 14. Oh, no; 15. Oi; 16. Mmm; 17. Tut; 18. Shh; 19. Yuk; 20. Boo; 21. Argh; 22. yummy; 23. Whoa PAGE 38 3 Listening II 1. the oven; 2. her neighbour’s oven; 3. a replacement part; 4. four weeks BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com 4 Useful language 1. news; 2. feel; 3. cheer; 4. exciting; 5. nightmare; 6. awful; 7. nuisance; 8. close PAGE 39 3 Second viewing 1. That you’re taller, thinner and younger. 2. Their appearance, their behaviour and their possessions. 3. We’re often hesitant to pay someone a compliment in case we get a bucket of water thrown over us – meaning, we could get criticised or attacked as a result of paying the compliment. 4. Don’t tell anyone what you like unless you tell them why you like it. You should use the word “because”. 5. She says she likes the colour. 6. You should use their name. It’ll make them listen intently. 7. They asked him where he got it and why he chose it. The second question was the openended one. PAGE 40 3 Listening II 1. around 6pm; 2. just off Marley Street; 3. to the cinema; 4. in a bar nearby – the Golden Gate; 5. at six; Paula says she’ll be there around half-past six.; 6. Saturday afternoon; 7. just themselves; 8. 645 893 257 4 Useful language I’m afraid I won’t be able to make it. = e) Saying no Would you like to join us? = b) The invitation Which pub are you going to? = c) Questions I’d love to go. = d) Confirming There’s a new play at the theatre. = a) The event PAGE 41 Exercise 1. song; 2. together; 3. helpful; 4. surfing; 5. famous; 6. party; 7. really; 8. keen PAGE 42 1 Pre-listening 1. How are you? 2. Do you want to come to a café with us? / Would you like to come to a café with us? 3. Would you like a coffee? / Do you want a coffee? 4. Are you going to the next talk? 5. Would you like to go on an excursion? 3 Listening II 1. e-mail; 2. a coffee; 3. cloakroom; 4. coat; 5. Seattle; 6. talk; 7. modern art; 8. Saturday 4 Useful language 1b 2a 3e 4d 5c PAGE 44 3 Listening II 1. Because she’s got to pick up Sandra for a dental appointment. 2. They finally agree to meet up on Thursday at 4pm. 3. She wants him to show her how to use a computer program. 4. They arrange to meet up on Friday at 2pm. 5. His address is 14 Nelly Street. 6. It’s got a leak. ANSWERS 7. He suggests coming round at 6pm. 8. Because she’s got a meeting at work. 4 Useful language 1. Expressing a reason for a meeting 2. Asking about someone’s availability 3. Stating your availability 4. Confirming the time and place PAGE 45 3 Second viewing 1. A home. 2. Kids and adults. 3. The word “vision”. 4. Home is where the heart is. It means that your true home is with the person or in the place that you love most. 5. The home, family and friends, entertainment and vision. 6. What do you do? – questions about your job. 7. Why are you here? Where are you coming from? 8. Asking about the first four topics, but using a future tense. PAGE 46 3 Listening II 1. He’s going next week. He’s going for a management training course. 2. She tells him how she got a camera and tablet computer for about half the price you’d expect to pay. 3. Ellis explains how she went there about 20 years ago, met a guy in Central Park, fell in love and got married about six weeks later. 4. She says he should visit the Empire State Building, Madison Square Garden, the Rockerfeller Center and Grand Central Station. 5. e.collins@workstone.com 6. She says he has to try one of the typical hot dogs from a stand in the street, and that he should go to S’MAC, which is a hamburger restaurant. 7. She tells him that they’re big tippers in the States, and that you have to leave 15% for most things, including taxi drivers. 8. They got into an argument with a restaurant owner after leaving a bit of small change as a tip, although he calmed down when he realised they were from Europe. 4 Useful language – Question tags 1. isn’t it; 2. wasn’t she; 3. wasn’t it; 4. wasn’t she; 5. weren’t there; 6. didn’t he; 7. wasn’t it; 8. hasn’t he; 9. haven’t you; 10. can’t they; 11. can’t you; 12. aren’t we PAGE 47 Exercise 1. weekend; 2. having; 3. fun; 4. time; 5. house; 6. like; 7. restaurant; 8. victory PAGE 48 1 Pre-listening 1. Bone appétit! 2. The trom-bone. 3. Short 4. Because they aren’t weekdays! 5. Because it is in the middle of “fun”. 6. Because it’s in the middle of “waTer”. 3 Useful language 1. orders; 2. puts / runs; 3. looks / sees; 4. is; 5. calls; 6. gets; 7. calls; 8. says PAGE 49 3 Listening II 1. Because he liked it out in Canada and his kids were settled into their school. 2. They weren’t his things. 3. Because the guy in charge was determined to do what he’d been told to do. 4. He’d left it at his parents’ house. 5. People kept banging into him. 6. Because he’d expected him to get really angry, but he hardly seemed to notice it. 4 Useful language 1. story; 2. guess; 3. bumped; 4. happened; 5. plans; 6. restaurant; 7. do; 8. police; 9. catch; 10. end; 11. out; 12. up PAGE 50 3 Listening II 1. winter; 2. 100-kilometre; 3. third; 4. three; 5. Norway; 6. two-day; 7. three; 8. 700; 9. first 4 Useful language – sequencing 1. first; 2. once; 3. for; 4. late; 5. at; 6. after; 7. suddenly; 8. end; 9. as; 10. preparation; 11. when; 12. now; 13. so; 14. eventually PAGE 51 Exercise 1. made him even angrier; 2. a way to pay the bill; 3. what I’ve got to do; 4. never even been there before; 5. from the report; 6. buying the new house; 7. I’m leaving; 8. anything useful to say; 9. what he was saying; 10. offered to help PAGE 52 3 Listening II 1. fifteen years; 2. tennis; 3. French; 4. a flat in Paris and a house near Cannes; 5. She works at her husband’s advertising agency (sometimes); 6. in a PR agency; 7. not any longer (she got divorced). 4 Useful language: getting up to date 1. up; 2. working; 3. still; 4. to; 5. out; 6. time; 7. living; 8. what; 9. doing; 10. married; 11. happened; 12. heard PAGE 53 2 Listening I 1. a restaurant; 2. a shop; 3. a bank; 4. a supermarket; 5. a train station 3 Listening II 1. train station; 2. supermarket; 3. supermarket; 4. bank; 5. shop; 6. bank; 7. bank; 8. restaurant; 9. restaurant; 10. shop; 11. bank 4 Useful language 1. mistake; 2. receipt; 3. order; 4. monthly; 5. total; 6. interest; 7. card; 8. coupons; 9. number; 10. ticket; 11. advance Page 54 3 Listening II 1T 2F 3F 4F 5T 6T 7T 4 Word formation 1. hypocritical; 2. privacy; 3. global; 4. to marry; 5. legitimate; 6. politics 5 Useful language 1. when; 2. it; 3. off; 4. in; 5. so; 6. about; 7. end; 8. how; 9. way; 10. but; 11. like; 12. such PAGE 55 2 Listening II 1. He often goes there for lunch. 2. He recommends the lasagne. 3. He orders some wine. 4. She has the prawn cocktail. He has the seafood platter. 5. She has lasagne; he has lobster. 6. She has them on her laptop. 7. They want to demolish it and put up some luxury apartments. 8. He asks the waiter to bring some ketchup. 4 Useful language 1. Pleased to meet you. 2. Have you been waiting for long? 3. So, what would you recommend then? 4. We’ll have a bottle of Beaujolais Nouveau, please. 5. Are you ready to order? 6. For starters, I’ll have the prawn cocktail, please. 7. I’ll be back in just a minute with your drinks and starters. 8. So, how was the trip? 9. Did you get a chance to look over the proposal? PAGE 56 3 Listening II 1. He’s been there three times before. 2. He’s come from Manchester. 3. He’s flown in from San Francisco. 4. At the Waysgate Hotel. 5. Milton (Bruce Milton) and Masters (Nigel Masters). 6. Because he’s just remembered that he left his laptop in the main hall. 7. He’s the CEO of Milton Networks. 8. They arrange to meet up later that afternoon at 3:30 in the café. 4 Useful language: networking 1. company; 2. promote; 3. card; 4. of; 5. afternoon; 6. time; 7. about; 8. next; 9. up; 10. proposal; 11. touch; 12. help; 13. details; 14. call PAGE 57 3 Second viewing 1d 2f 3b 4h 5a 6e 7g 8c PAGE 59 Key words 1. They were running down the street. 2. He was watching the film. 3. We were trying to fix it. 4. She was working on the computer. 5. He was eating the food. 6. They were trying to finish it. Word linking B a) We’ve paid for it. b) They’ve eaten it. c) She’s already sent it. C a) I’ve never heard of it. b) She’s given it to Ben. c) They’ve forgotten about it. BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com 79 ANSWERS D 1. We’ve taken it away. 2. They’ve brought it with them. 3. She’s spoken to him about it. 4. I’ve hidden it in the house. 5. She’s spent it all already. PAGE 62 Left-hand column Pronunciation 1. I’ll only need a few minutes of your time to show you exactly how it can help you. 2. Wouldn’t you like to have the freedom to come and go as you please? 3. So, how would you like to pay us for it? 4. The product has been developed by an expert team of specialists with people like you in mind. Right-hand column 1. We’ll be lying on the beach this time next week. 2. I’ll have made the changes by Friday. 3. We’ll be having dinner by the time you arrive. 4. The work will have been completed by Thursday evening. 5. We won’t have left by the time you get here. PAGE 65 3 Listening II 1. because her dad got lost; 2. Mike’s surname; 3. the rings; 4. £20,000; 5. having a break; 6. about 10 kilometres; 7. by car; 8. because the material for the stand hadn’t arrived yet 4 Useful language 1. before; 2. eventually; 3. during; 4. then; 5. but; 6. worse; 7. end; 8. up; 9. into; 10. in; 11. after PAGE 66 3 Reading II 1. You normally look like a tramp. 2. You look a lot better in pictures than in person. 3. I wouldn’t be seen dead in something like that. 4. You’re boring. 5. When you started here, I thought you were a complete moron. 6. You dress like a slob. PAGE 67 3 Listening II 1. Sunday; 2. one; 3. cousin; 4. 6pm; 5. £10; 6. £50; 7. reduce; 8. bad; 9. more 4 Exercise 1. Not really, I think I’ll just, erm, you know, take it easy. 2. Oh, but, erm, I’ve some tickets for a theatre show on Sunday afternoon. 3. It’s in, like, this little theatre just off Marley Street. 4. We could meet up just outside the theatre at, like, 6pm. 5. It starts at, erm, 6:15, I think. 6. OK. So, erm, how will you be getting into the centre? 7. It’s, like, 10 pounds now, isn’t it? 8. Although I do, like, think it’s a good idea in principle. 9. There’ll be fewer cars, and, like, less pollution. 80 PAGE 68 3 Listening II 1b 2a 3b 4b 5a 6a 7b 4 Exercise I 1. repetition; 2. interruption; 3. repetition; 4. interruption; 5. hesitation 5 Exercise II 1. conversational filler 2. conversational filler 3. self-correction 4. interruption 5. repetition 6. repetition 7. conversational filler 8. self-correction 9. conversational filler PAGE 69 3 Listening II 1b 2b 3a 4a 5b 6a 7b 8a 4 Exercise 1. did; 2. neither; 3. so; 4. does; 5. have PAGE 70 3 Listening II 1f 2c 3h 4g 5a 6e 7b 8d 4 Exercise 1. actually; 2. but; 3. to tell you the; 4. anyway; 5. by the PAGE 71 3 Second viewing 1b 2e 3f 4d 5a 6g 7c PAGE 72 1 Listening I 1. They’re in an art gallery – a couple. 2. They’re at home – a dad and his daughter. 3. They’re at work – a boss and an employee. 4. They’re in a restaurant – a couple. 2 Listening II 1. It would be stretching it a bit for them – it’s a bit too expensive. 2. Sleeping on it. 3. That she’s wasting electricity by watching TV and having the computer on at the same time. 4. Because she’s got to go to school tomorrow. 5. He says that you can’t miss it. 6. Look it up on the map. 7. He’s walked past them twice and hasn’t even batted an eyelid. 8. They’re very busy. 3 Exercise 1. Did you go out last night? 2. That’s a nice dress! 3. A: Whose is it? B: It’s Bill’s. 4. A: What shall we do? B: I’m not sure. 5. Did she say what she wanted? 6. Did/do you ever stop to wonder why? 7. Have you seen Ben anywhere? 8. Are you ready? 9. Has your sister got a job? 10. Does anyone want anything else to eat? PAGE 73 3 Listening II 1. It’s better to regret something you have done than something you haven’t done. 2. She says that it’s better to regret something BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com that you have done. 3. That if he’d tried harder, he would have been a bit better. 4. That he could then be regretting having spent his whole life in difficult training schedules and never having had any fun. 5. Although he’s full of regret, he’s very happy. PAGE 74 3 Listening II 1. 16; 2. relax; 3. because not all the stores are open; 4. They want to relax too; 5. a family day / a time to relax / time for yourself; 6. on Friday, or something like that PAGE 75 3 Listening II 1. They wanted the cinema tickets for seven. 2. He wants to go to Mike’s party. 3. He sold his stereo to Greg. 4. He got £200 for it. 5. Pete thinks it was worth about £50. 6. He got charged £10. 7. He gets a text from Leon. 8. They’re going to pick him up in about 20 minutes. 4 Useful language 1 That’s thrown a spanner in the works = That’s ruined our plans. 2 What a bummer! = How annoying 3 Grab a bite to eat = Get something to eat 4 We’ll never hear the end of it = We’ll be reminded of it over and over again 5 I’m sort of in two minds = I can’t decide what to do 6 I just don’t feel up to it = I don’t want to do it 7 You can’t bail out on me = You can’t leave me alone 8 I’m a bit broke = I don’t have much money 9 I’m loaded = I’ve got a lot of money. 10 I flogged... = I sold... 11 What a mug! = What an idiot! 12 A quick one = A quick drink 13 A rip-off = A price far above the value of the goods 14 His car’s conked out = His car has broken down 15 We can’t leave him in the lurch = We can’t leave him all alone 16 I’ll give him a bell = I’ll call him PAGE 76 2 Listening I 1. He/She has to prepare the dinner. 2. He/She has got a train to catch. 3. He/She is moving abroad permanently. 4. He/She is going on a long journey home. 5. He/She has said everything that needs to be said so they’re just ending the conversation. 3 Listening II 1. In about half an hour. 2. In about 10 minutes. 3. For about six years. 4. Sydney (Australia). 5. At about 6pm at the Fox & Hounds (a pub). 4 Useful language 1. going; 2. call; 3. sorry; 4. get; 5. contract; 6. trip; 7. lovely; 8. miss; 9. everything; 10. great; 11. again; 12. care AUDIO SCRIPTS TRACK 1 – INTRODUCING YOURSELF In the street Ben: All right? Jack: How’s it going? Ben: Not too bad. And you? Jack: Just had an exam. Ben: Oh, right. How did it go? Jack: Not too bad I think. Ben: Do you reckon you passed? Jack: I hope so. Ben: Fancy going to the pub? Jack: Yeah, good idea. Ben: Come on then. Jessica: Bob: Jessica: Bob: Jessica: Bob: Jessica: Bob: Jessica: At the internet café Alex: Hi, I’m Alex. Jessica: Jessica. Nice to meet you. Alex: Nice to meet you. So, have you been here for long? Jessica: About three weeks now. And you? Alex: About a month. Great country, isn’t it? Jessica: Fantastic. Have you been to the north? Alex: Yeah. I went trekking there. Jessica: So did I! I’m heading down south now. Alex: I went there last week. The beaches are incredible, and the accommodation is so cheap. Jessica: Yes, I’ve heard. So, what... [fades out] On the train Mike: Julie! Julie: Mike! Fancy meeting you here! How’s it going? Mike: Not too bad! And you? Julie: Just great. I haven’t seen you for ages. Mike: Yeah, it’s been a while. Julie: About six years. Mike: Something like that. You don’t look a day older. Julie: Thanks. So, how’s Zoe and the kids? Mike: They’re fine, thanks. Sam’s still at school, but Sandra’s just left for university. Julie: Wow! Doesn’t time fly! Mike: Tell me about it. So, what... [fades out] At a party John: Jane, this is Mark. Mark, Jane. Mark: Hi Jane. Nice to meet you. Jane: Nice to meet you too. So, how long have you and John known each other? Mark: Oh, we go back a long way. We were at school together, then, after university, we spent a bit of time together in a shared flat. What about you? Jane: Oh, I worked with John for about three years in a company in London. Lovely place you’ve got here. Mark: Thanks. We moved in about six months ago, so there’s still a lot to do. So, where do you live? Jane: Well, I’ve been living... [fades out] TRACK 3 – STARTING A CONVERSATION Jessica: So, erm, busy at work? Bob: Yeah, a bit. Jessica: Did you go to the conference last week? Bob: No, I didn’t. Jessica: Oh, right. Erm, have you seen anything good on TV lately? Bob: Not really. Bob: Jessica: Bob: Jessica: Bob: Jessica: Bob: Jessica: Bob: Where, where did you go to school? What? School? Erm, where did you go? That was a long time ago. I know. Erm, Well, I went to this really unusual school. It was vegetarian. Vegetarian? You mean, like, you couldn’t eat meat? Yes. And we didn’t have to wear a uniform or go to class either. You didn’t have to go to class? What was the name of the school? St Christopher’s. It was in Letchworth – a small city just north of London. Have you heard of it? No. Was it big? Not really – about 350 pupils. No meat! That is weird. My school was pretty strict. There were rules for just about everything! For example, at break time you weren’t allowed to just stand around doing nothing, you had to play football or basketball or you had to join one of the clubs – the chess club, the drawing club or something like that. And if you didn’t want to do any of these things you had to walk along a yellow line around the edge of the playground. Like prisoners. Yeah, and they were really strict about fighting. Once, this older kid in year 12 threw some water over me. My shirt got soaked and I was cold, so I went to the teacher and asked if I could call someone to bring me another shirt, and you know what happened? What? I got suspended for fighting. Suspended? That isn’t fair. Yeah, and then... [fades out] TRACK 4 – THE BLIND DATE Nigel: Erika, isn’t it? Erika: Yes, that’s right. Nigel? Nigel: Nigel Goodman. [They shake hands.] Erika: Nice to meet you. Nigel: Nice to meet you too. So, did you find the pub all right? Erika: Yes, it’s quite close to where I live. Nigel: Great. Can I get you a drink? Erika: Oh, I’ve already got one, thanks. Nigel: I’ll go and get a pint then. [He leaves, then comes back.] So, are you from round here? Erika: Sort of, I went to school just down the road... Nigel: I went to St Michael’s. Great school. I played in the first 11* football team and I was the captain of the cricket team. Erika: Impressive. Nigel: I was also in the Rubik’s Cube Club, the Drama Society and the Engineering Club. Erika: You certainly kept yourself busy. Nigel: I certainly did. So, did you grow up round here? Erika: No, actually, I lived in Hull... Nigel: Hull! That’s where my grandparents used to live. We went there every summer. Amazing place. Lots of great memories. Erika: So, have you, erm, travelled much? Nigel: Oh, yes. I’ve been to France, Germany, America, Australia, Tanzania... Erika: Tanzania? What was that like? Nigel: Incredible, we went on this safari and I shot a lion and BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com 81 AUDIO SCRIPTS Erika: Nigel: Erika: Nigel: Erika: Nigel: Erika: Nigel: Erika: Nigel: Erika: Nigel: Erika: Nigel: Erika: Nigel: Erika: Nigel: Erika: Nigel: Erika: Nigel: Erika: Nigel: Erika: Nigel: three buffalo. I’ve got the lion’s head on the living room wall. Oh, right. So, what about you? Have you done much travelling? Yes, quite a bit, mostly in Asia. I’ve been to Thailand... Thailand? I’ve been there. Incredible place. I stayed there for three months. It’s where I did my PADI diving course. What’s that? It’s this course you do so you can go scuba diving. Look, I’ve got my diving licence. [He takes it out of his wallet.] Do you always carry that around with you? You never know when you might need it. Is that you in the photo? Yes, just last year. Looks like you’ve put on a bit of weight since then. No, I haven’t. So, where do you work? Hargreaves Cleaning Products. I’m the regional sales manager. Just been promoted, actually! And I’ve got a company car. There’s a brand new Ford Fiesta parked outside at this very moment. Very nice. And you? I’m a doctor. I... So, if I start choking on my crisps you’ll give me the kiss of life. Erm, more like the Heimlich manoeuvre. What? Oh, nothing. Erm, so what film are we going to see? Well, I thought about going to see... [He continues talking for 10 minutes.] ...which is why I thought it’d probably be the best film to see. Oh, look, is that the time? I’m sorry but I’ve got to go. But what about the film? I’m not feeling too good. Bye. Oh, right. Bye. [to himself ] What a strange woman! *First 11 – the best eleven players in a football team. TRACK 05 – CHATTING AT WORK: THE DINNER PARTY! It’s Friday and James is at work. He’s just popped over to talk to Lily. James: Lily: James: Lily: James: Lily: James: Lily: James: Lily: James: 82 Hi, did you get that e-mail I forwarded on to you? No. When did you send it? This morning. Oh, right, my computer has been playing up all day and some of my e-mails didn’t get through, but it seems to be all right now. Send it again. Oh, and could you also attach the sales figures for last month. There’s something I need to check. OK. So, any plans for this evening? I’ve invited a few people from work over to my place for a dinner party. Oh, right. So, erm, what are you cooking? Salad for starters, salmon for the main course and a delicious ice-cream cake for dessert. Sounds great. So, have you moved into the new house then? Yes. This is a kind of house-warming party. Ah huh. So, is, erm, Shirley from accounts going? Lily: James: Lily: James: Lily: James: Lily: James: Lily: James: Lily: James: Lily: James: Lily: James: Lily: Yes, she is. And will Bob from marketing be there? Yes, he will. And Chloe in sales – is she going to be there? Yes, she is. What about Mike? Have you invited him? Yes, I have. Oh, right, so just about everyone from the office... except me. That’s right. [silence]. [smiling] Would you like to come to my dinner party? I thought you’d never ask! Well, then, you’re invited. Thank you. By the way, I sent you an invite. You obviously didn’t get it? No. E -mails! Yeah! Send a text next time. Mmm... Good idea. TRACK 06 – MEETING SOMEONE Steve: Hi, I’m Steve. You’re Ellie, aren’t you? Ellie: Yes, that’s right. How’s it going? [They shake hands.] Steve: Not too bad. You’re a friend of Sarah’s, aren’t you? Ellie: Well, sort of – she’s a friend of a friend. Steve: Oh, who’s that then? Ellie: Jenny, my flatmate. She knows Sarah from way back. Steve: I don’t think I’ve met Jenny. Ellie: She’s that girl over there in the blue dress holding a bottle of beer. Steve: Oh, right. So, do you two work together? Ellie: Not exactly. I mean, we used to, but she changed jobs, so we aren’t in the same company any more. Steve: Oh, right, so which company was that? Ellie: Brooks Productions – it’s a film company. I’m in the finance department. Steve: That’s interesting. Do you get to meet any famous people? Ellie: Not really, although Martin Coolway passed through the other day. Steve: Who? Ellie: Yeah, exactly. I’d never heard of him either. So, what about you? What do you do? Steve: I’m in accounting, but I do a bit of acting in my free time too. Ellie: Oh, right. Steve: We’re rehearsing for a play right now – The Importance of Being Earnest. Ellie: Oh, Oscar Wilde. Very nice. Have you got a big part? Steve: I’m Merriman – the butler. Ellie: Great! Steve: I was in a couple of films a few years ago too. Ellie: Amazing. Anything I might have seen? Steve: Not really. They were mostly local movies in Hong Kong – I was living there at the time. I got a few parts as an extra in TV series and films. Ellie: Interesting. My aunt lived there for a few years. It must have been amazing. Steve: Oh, yes, it was. I was living on this island about 40 minutes from Hong Kong island. I had to get the ferry to work every day. Ellie: Incredible. So, what did you do... [fades out] BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com AUDIO SCRIPTS TRACK 07 – HOW TO START A CONVERSATION In a lift Beth and Jack are stuck in a lift. They both work in the same office building. They’ve never met before. Beth: Taking forever, isn’t it? Jack: Yeah, it is pretty slow. [The lift stops.] Oh, no. It’s stopped again. Beth: Typical! [She holds out her hand.] I’m Beth, by the way. Jack: Jack. Pleased to meet you. Beth: Pleased to meet you. So, which floor do you work on? Jack: The 23rd. I’m with Mathews & Sons. Beth: Oh, right. I don’t think I’ve ever been up that high before. I’m on the 9th floor. Saunders & Co. [The lift starts.] Oh, the lift’s started again. Jack: I thought we were going to be here all day. Beth: Me too. [The lift door opens.] Oh, look, this is my floor. Jack: Actually, I think I’ll get out here too and walk up. I don’t fancy getting stuck in here on my own. Beth: Good idea. So, do you fancy getting a coffee? There’s a café on this floor, just round the corner. Jack: Oh, yes, I’ll need one if I’m going to walk up all those stairs. Beth: You certainly will. So, have you... [fades out] At a conference Justin and Keith are at a conference. They’ve never met before. Justin: Keith: Justin: Keith: Justin: Keith: Justin: Keith: Justin: Keith: Justin: Keith: Justin: Keith: Justin: Keith: Justin: Keith: Justin: Keith: Good talk, wasn’t it? Very interesting. I’m Justin Barnett by the way. Pleased to meet you. Keith Carter. Pleased to meet you. So, is it your first time here? Yeah, and I just love the city. Isn’t it great? Where are you staying? The Happy Star Hotel. Oh, we’re there too. Actually, I think I saw you checking in at reception the other day. You were just in front of us – there was a problem with the booking? Oh, yes, they had no record of the booking. They had me down as “Kenneth Clarke”, of all people. That’s hilarious. No wonder they couldn’t find you. Great hotel though, isn’t it? Oh, yes, the breakfast buffet is amazing, and the views are incredible! Have you been down to the pool? There’s a sauna and steam room. Not yet, but I’m planning to have a swim this evening. So, have you done much sightseeing? Actually, I’ve been here before. Oh, really? It’s my first time. My wife’s here too. She took a couple of days off work so we could do a bit of sightseeing. That’s nice. Yeah, she had some holiday time she had to use up before the end of the year. Lucky her. So, what does she do? She’s a dentist. Actually, that’s how we met! [fades out] TRACK 08 The Hunger Games Kate: So, what did you do last night? Josh: I was at Megan’s place. We got some pizzas and rented a film. Kate: Josh: Kate: Josh: Kate: Josh: Kate: Josh: Kate: Josh: What did you see? The Hunger Games. Any good? Yeah, it isn’t bad. It’s this sort of action-adventure film that takes place in the future. Every year, teenagers are chosen to participate in this game – the Hunger Games – that’s shown on TV. It’s a bit like a sort of reality show, but the big difference is that the participants have to kill each other. The last one still alive is the winner. Nice! The main character is this girl called Katniss. Her younger sister gets chosen, but Katniss volunteers to take her place. “There’s 24 of us and only one comes out!” she tells her friend. Anyone famous in it? Jennifer Lawrence. Have you heard of her? No. No, I hadn’t either. Iron Man 3 Chloe: Do anything fun last night? Pete: Yeah, we went to see Iron Man 3. Chloe: I’m not really into these sorts of superhero films. Pete: Me neither, but this one wasn’t too bad. It’s about this guy, Tony Stark (Iron Man), who has this suit of armour that he uses to fight the baddies. He’s up against this terrorist called the Mandarin, who destroyed Iron Man’s house with helicopters. Anyway, soon after that… hey, are you listening? Chloe: Yeah. I was just texting a friend. Go on. Pete: Robert Downey Jr and Gwyneth Paltrow are in it, and Ben Kingsley plays the part of the Mandarin. The Mandarin has got some great lines. [imitating the Mandarin] “Some people call me a terrorist. I consider myself a teacher.” [laughing] “Lesson number one. Heroes. There is no such thing.” And… Hey, are you listening? Chloe: Wait a sec. Let me just send this text. [She sends the message] So, what were you saying? Pete: Nothing! TRACK 09 – HOW DO YOU GET TO WORK? Train I have quite a long commute on the train every day as I live about 50 km from the city where I work. Luckily, there’s a train station near my house so I can walk there in about 10 minutes. Then I catch the train, which takes about 50 minutes with all the stops. I use the time to catch up on any work from the day before. Bus & train I leave for work at 7 in the morning, and I walk to a bus stop near my house. I usually catch one that comes past at about 7.15. The bus isn’t very crowded when I get on, but it fills up during the journey. The bus takes about 15 minutes. Then, I get off and catch a train that goes into the city centre. The train ride lasts about 30 minutes, and normally there aren’t any free seats. Car & bus I use the park-and-ride system to get to work every morning. I leave the house at 6.30 and drive to the nearby bus station. Then, I leave my car in the car park, which only costs £1 for the whole day. Then, I catch the bus, which passes every 10 minutes and it takes me right to the city centre in about 20 minutes. It’s a lot cheaper than driving and paying to park the car in the centre. BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com 83 AUDIO SCRIPTS Bike My commute to work takes about 25 minutes by bike. I live on one side of town and work on the other so I have to cycle through it. When it’s raining I sometimes take the bus but I prefer cycling. I’ve bought an umbrella I can attach to my bike so I can cycle in the rain without getting wet. I can leave my bike in the garage under the office at work so I don’t have to worry about it. Underground I live in the city so I get the underground to work. I have to change lines once but the whole journey only takes about half an hour. It’s really busy at peak times – from about 7:30 onwards – so I try to leave home at about 7 so I can get an earlier train and find a seat. There are delays sometimes but the trains are quite frequent so it isn’t really a problem. I’ve got a monthly travel pass. So, I think I save quite a lot of money by using public transportation instead of the car. TRACK 10 – ASKING SOMEONE OUT ON A DATE Lisa: So, how are things with Jessica? Alfie: Not too good. We haven’t been out once yet. Lisa: Oh, no. Alfie: I asked her to the cinema on Tuesday, but she had a doctor’s appointment. Lisa: That’s unfortunate. Alfie: Then, I invited her to lunch on Wednesday, but she had a meeting to go to. Lisa: Terrible. Alfie: I invited her to the theatre on Thursday but her mum was ill. On Friday I asked her to accompany me to the opera, but she had to stay late at work. And on Saturday, her car was stolen so she couldn’t come with me to the park. Lisa: Very unlucky. Alfie: Yes, so, anyway, I’m thinking of asking her to come along to the opening of a modern art gallery this evening. Lisa: That sounds nice. I love modern art. Alfie: Yeah, right, anyway, I thought I’d phone her now, so wish me luck. Lisa: Oh, yes, right, good luck! Alfie: [He dials her number.] Hi, is that Jessica? Well, I was just calling to ask you... Oh no. How terrible... I am so sorry... Oh, no... Yes, yes, I understand. OK. Yes, you’ll be in mourning. I entirely understand... No, no, I won’t phone again for at least six weeks. So, round about 14th of... the end, the end of May. OK, yes, yes, I understand... Please pass on my condolences to your family at this very difficult time... [He hangs up.] Lisa: What’s up then? Can’t she make it? Alfie: No, no, her hamster died. Lisa: Oh, right, well, next time then. So, who are you going to ask to the art gallery? I know someone who really wants to go, who really likes art and who is quite fond of you, actually. Alfie: Really? Lisa: Yes. Alfie: Oh, right. Lisa: It’s someone who isn’t that far away from you right now. In fact, they’re pretty close. Alfie: Of course! How could I be so stupid? Mandy! Have you got her number? Lisa: I think so. Here you are. Alfie: Thanks! 84 Lisa: My pleasure. Alfie: [He dials the number.] Hey, Mandy. How’s it going?... Oh, no. Really?... Oh, I am sorry.... Yes, yes, I understand. I’ll call back later... in a week or so. Yes, yes, OK. [He hangs up.] [to Lisa] Typical. She can’t go either. I guess I’ll have to go to the art gallery on my own... unless... unless you want to come along. Lisa: No, it’s all right. I think I’ll go home and watch some TV. Alfie: Oh, OK. Bye. Lisa: Bye. TRACK 11 – CHATTING ABOUT PARTIES It’s Monday lunchtime and Oscar and Madison are chatting in a coffee shop. Oscar is asking about Madison’s weekend. Oscar: So, what did you get up to at the weekend? Madison: Not much... oh, well, I went over to Ben’s house on Saturday – he was having a party. Oscar: Was it any good? Madison: Not too bad, but the neighbours complained – they came down a couple of times to tell us to keep the noise down, then they called the police at about one in the morning. Oscar: Oh, no. Madison: Yeah, but nothing happened because it was all sort of over by then anyway. Oscar: Last time I had a house party I swore I’d never do it again. It took me days to clean up afterwards, and the smell of alcohol and cigarette smoke didn’t go away for weeks after that. I had to chuck out the carpet from the living room as it was impossible to get the stains out. Madison: Terrible! Oscar: I remember this one guy who was there – I didn’t have a clue who he was – he was really drunk in the kitchen and he goes, “Hey, come and have a look at this,” and he opens the fridge door and shows me a cake that’s inside it, which was actually mine! “Look what I found,” he says all pleased with himself, “Want some?” And I go, “Well, actually, it’s my fridge and my cake, so maybe later.” He just shuffled off after that. I saw him on the couch later – he’d passed out. Madison: Did the neighbours complain? Oscar: No, but I got some pretty nasty looks for a few weeks after that in the corridor. Madison: One of the best parties I ever had was for my 23rd. No one was around, so I’d sort of resigned myself to having a quiet night in on my own. Anyway, I was just about to start watching a DVD when there was a ring at the doorbell. It was one of my friends, and he’d popped over to see if I wanted to go to the pub. Yeah, sure, I said and we set off in his car. On the way, he stopped off at his house to pick up a jacket, and asked me to come in as he wanted to show me a new painting he’d bought. So, I went with him and just as soon as I walked in, all my friends popped out of nowhere and shouted “Surprise!” It was great – they’d organised this surprise party for me with a huge birthday cake. I thought they’d forgotten all about me. Oscar: Nice! Madison: So, has anyone ever organised a surprise party for you? Oscar: No, they haven’t, but I did … [fades out] BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com AUDIO SCRIPTS TRACK 14 – MEETING FOR THE FIRST TIME AFTER AN ONLINE RELATIONSHIP. Benny and Julia met six months ago on an online dating site. This is their first face-to-face meeting. Julia: Hi, Benny. It’s great to finally meet you. Benny: You too, Julia. Wow! You look, erm, different. I mean, you’ve got blonde hair in the picture you sent me, haven’t you? Julia: Well, you know, that was a long time ago. Benny: A few years, I’d say. You aren’t really 27, are you? Julia: Give or take a few years. You certainly aren’t in your early 30s. Early 40s more like. Benny: [angry] No, I’m still in my 30s. Right, I’ll get the first round. You like beer, don’t you? Julia: Erm, actually, I gave up alcohol a few months ago. I think I’ll have a lemonade. Benny: Oh, OK. One lemonade coming up. Julia: It’s nice here. Benny: Yes. Julia: So, have you got any plans for the weekend? Benny: Yeah, I’m going to see the match with a few mates from work. Julia: The match? Benny: Yeah, Chelsea are playing at home. Julia: Oh, right, football. I’m not really a big fan. Benny: [silence] So, erm, what about you? What are you up to this weekend? Julia: I’m going to a conference on vegetarianism. It’s going to be really interesting. Benny: Vegetarianism? You’re a vegetarian! Julia: Yes, I hate meat. Benny: Oh, well, actually I work in the marketing department of a large meat supplier. We’re the number-one producer of ham. Julia: Oh, you were working in an advertising agency, weren’t you? Benny: I was, but I left. Julia: But you do like animals, don’t you? Benny: Oh, yes. [pause] I often go to the zoo. Julia: The zoo! I can’t stand zoos. They’re so cruel. [silence] You have got a pet cat, haven’t you? Benny: Oh, right, Tibbles. Yes, erm, I found out that I was allergic to cat hair, so, unfortunately I had to get rid of him. Julia: Get rid of him? What did you do? Benny: I released him into the wild. Julia: You can’t release a domesticated cat into the wild. Please tell me you didn’t do that. Benny: He was perfectly happy. I left him in the local woods. I’m sure he’s having a great time. Julia: [shaking her head] Incredible! Perhaps we should change the topic. Benny: Hey, I’m going to the cinema tonight. We’re going to see the latest Vin Diesel film. You should come along. You have heard of Vin Diesel, haven’t you? Julia: Yes, but I’m not a big fan of Hollywood action films. Benny: Oh. [awkward silence] Erm, we aren’t really getting off to a great start, are we? Julia: Not really. Benny: And we don’t seem to have much in common, do we? Julia: No. Benny: Shall we end this now, before it gets any worse? Julia: Benny: Julia: Benny: Julia: Good idea. I’ll walk you to the station. No, it’s OK. I’ll get a taxi. OK. Bye. Goodbye. TRACK 15 – GETTING TO KNOW SOMEONE Mark is at a lunch with some overseas visitors. He has just sat down next to one of the guests, Judith. Hi, I’m Mark Schilling. Pleased to meet you. Judith Peterson. Pleased to meet you. You’ve just come over from Brazil, haven’t you? Yes, that’s right. I fly back next week. [silence] Hi, can I get you anything to drink while you’re waiting? I’ll have an orange juice, please. And I’ll have a glass of white wine, please. So, let me introduce you to Pauline. She’s from France. Pleased to meet you. And you. And this is Wolfgang from Germany, I think you’ve both met before, haven’t you? Judith: Yes, we have. [speaking to Wolfgang] Good to see you again. Wolfgang: And you! Judith: [speaking to Mark] Nice restaurant. Have you been here before? Mark: Once or twice. It’s quite close to the office. Judith: So, what would you recommend? Mark: The lasagne is great. Judith: OK. Mark: You aren’t actually from Brazil, are you? Judith: No, not exactly. My parents moved there when I was sixteen. I’m originally from the States. Mark: Oh, right. That explains your perfect English! [silence] You worked in the Seattle office once, didn’t you? Judith: That’s right! How did you know? Mark: I think we met there several years ago – just briefly in a meeting one morning. Judith: Oh, really? Mark: Erm, weren’t you at that conference in Washington back in 2013, too? Judith: Yes, that’s right. Mark: You gave a speech on marketing, didn’t you? Judith: Yes, that’s right. How did I do? Mark: It was really interesting. In fact, it was one of the few talks I had time to go to. Judith: Oh, wait a minute, didn’t you come up to me afterwards and ask for my business card? Mark: Yes, that’s it, and I’ve still got it. Waiter: Here are your drinks. The white wine? Judith: Yes, that’s for me. Waiter: And the orange juice for you. Are you ready to order now? Judith: Yes, I think so. I’ll have the... [fades out] Mark: Judith: Mark: Judith: Waiter: Mark: Judith: Mark: Judith: Pauline: Mark: TRACK 17 At the pub Jeremy and Alisha are at the pub. 1 Jeremy: So, how did the dinner party go last night? Alisha: It was a bit of a disaster, actually. BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com 85 AUDIO SCRIPTS Jeremy: Oh, no . What happened? Alisha: Well, about an hour before the guests arrived, the oven broke down – it just switched itself off and wouldn’t come on again. Jeremy: What a nightmare! So, what did you do? Alisha: Well, I went round to my neighbour’s place. Luckily she was in and said I could use her oven. Jeremy: Phew! Alisha: Yeah, anyway, next, I... [fades out] At the coffee shop Lewis and Jessica are in a coffee shop. 2 Lewis: [fade in] ...so, I phoned up the shop and they told me that they had the replacement part in stock, but when I got there, the guy behind the counter didn’t know anything about it. Jessica: Typical! So, what did you do? Lewis: Well, when I got home, I phoned them up again and they put me on hold. Jessica: That’s so annoying! Lewis: Yeah. Well, in the end, I managed to speak to someone, but they said they wouldn’t have the part for another four weeks. Jessica: What a nightmare! Lewis: Yeah, tell me about it. But then, you’ll never guess what happened... [fades out] TRACK 18 1 Conversation 1 Anna: Hey, we’re going out for a drink after work if you want to come along. Pete: That would be great. What time are you meeting up? Anna: Around 6pm in the Horse and Hounds. It’s just off Marley Street. Pete: Oh, I know it. So, I’ll see you there. Anna: OK. See you there. Poppy: No, just yourselves! Mark: OK. Sounds good. You live in Shepley Road, don’t you? Poppy: Yes, that’s it. Have you got my mobile number in case you get lost or something? Mark: Oh, no. Poppy: Oh, right, it’s 645 893 257. Mark: OK. Great. See you on Saturday. Poppy: See you then. TRACK 19 The Coffee Betty: Hey, I met you at that conference last year, didn’t I? Simon: That’s right. You’re Betty Snape, aren’t you? Betty: Yes, and you were...? Simon: Simon Fenster. I think we spoke by e-mail too. Betty: Oh, yes. So, how are things going? Simon: Great, thanks. Betty: We’re going for a coffee just down the road – there’s a nice café. Do you want to come? Simon: Yes, that would be great. I’ll just go and get my coat. Betty: OK. We’ll meet you just outside the entrance in about five minutes. Simon: Great. See you there. Betty: Bye. 1 2 The Cloakroom Macy: Hi, I’m Macy Stone. Pleased to meet you. Steve: Hi, I’m Steve Barker. Pleased to meet you too. Macy: So, is this your first time at the conference? Steve: No, I was here last year. Macy: Oh, me too. Hey, do you know where the cloakroom is? Steve: Yes, I think it’s just down the stairs on the left. Macy: Oh, great. I’ve been carrying this coat around all day and it’s so hot here. I’ll be back in a minute. Steve: Can I get you a coffee? Macy: Yes, please. White, no sugar, please. Steve: See you in a minute. 2 Conversation 2 Jeff: Are you doing anything this evening? Paula: I don’t think so. Jeff: It’s just that I’m going to the cinema with some friends. Would you like to come too? Paula: That sounds good. What are you going to see? Jeff: A film with Tom Hanks. I’ve heard it’s quite good. Paula: OK. Which cinema are you going to? Jeff: The one in St Peter’s Square. Paula: Oh, I know. Jeff: The film starts at seven, but we’re meeting up at six in a bar nearby – the Golden Gate. It’s in the same square. I’ll get the tickets if you want. Paula: OK, great. I’ll see you in the bar around half past six. Jeff: See you there. Paula: Bye. 3 Nationality Simon: Good talk, wasn’t it? Barbara: Oh, yes, I’m a big fan. I saw him at last year’s sales conference – fascinating. I’m Barbara Tivelli, by the way. Simon: Simon Jones. Are you Italian? Barbara: Half-Italian and half-German, but I was brought up in the States. Simon: Interesting. Barbara: You’re English, I guess. Simon: Yes, that’s it, but I’m working in Seattle at the moment. Great place. Barbara: Yes, as long as you don’t mind the rain. Simon: It just reminds me of sunny old England. Barbara: Very funny. Are you going to the next talk? Simon: Yes, shall we go and get a seat? Barbara: Good idea. 3 Conversation 3 Poppy: So, I’ve, erm, I’ve organised a barbecue for Saturday afternoon, and I was wondering whether you wanted to come. Mark: Sure! Oh, erm, the only thing is that I’ve got some friends over. Poppy: Bring them along too! Mark: Great! Do you want us to bring anything? 86 4 Sightseeing Gordon: So, have you had a chance to do much sightseeing? Regis: No, not much. I’m tied up at the conference all day. Gordon: The museums are fantastic. Regis: Yes, I’ve heard. I did go to the museum of modern art on my first afternoon here, but I’ve just been too busy since then. BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com AUDIO SCRIPTS Gordon: Oh, that’s my favourite. You should try to visit the castle before you go. It’s beautiful. Regis: Yes, I will. Gordon: Hey, there’s an excursion on Saturday morning to an old Roman amphitheatre. Would you like to come along? Regis: Yes, that would be great. I’m actually free on Saturday – it’s my day off! Gordon: OK. I’ll bring in the details later this afternoon. Apparently, it’s really interesting. Regis: Great. TRACK 20 THE POSTER [fade in] Lily: Anyway, thanks so much for helping me with all this. Paul: No problem, hey, by the way, are you free anytime this week? We need to think of an idea for a poster for the play. Lily: Well, tomorrow isn’t looking good, but I’m free all day on Thursday. Paul: OK, how about 1pm? We could meet at the coffee shop on the high street and brainstorm a few ideas. Lily: Sounds good. Oh, no wait a minute, I’ve got to pick up Sandra for a dental appointment at 1:30. How about sometime in the afternoon? 4pm? Paul: 4pm sounds perfect. Lily: Great, then I’ll see you then. Paul: OK. Bye. Lily: Bye. 1 2 THE COMPUTER PROGRAM [fade in] Jamie: So, I’d better get going – I’ve got to prepare dinner tonight and I still haven’t done the shopping. Chloe: Oh, before you go, do you think we could arrange a time for me to pop over – you said you’d be able to show me how to use that computer program. Jamie: Sure, whenever you want. What about this Friday? I could make lunch. Chloe: Sounds great. 2pm? Jamie: Perfect. Then, afterwards, we could have a look at the program. It’s really easy to use. Chloe: That would be fantastic. Oh, erm, what’s your address again? Jamie: It’s 14 Nelly Street. Chloe: OK, I’ll see you then. Jamie: Perfect. I look forward to it. Bye. Chloe: Bye. HOME REPAIRS [fade in] Molly: OK, great. Thanks so much for that. We’ve been meaning to get the toilet fixed for ages. Jack: Well, if there’s anything else, just give me a call. Molly: Oh, actually there was just one other thing. Do you think you could come over sometime to look at the roof? There’s a leak in the upstairs bedroom. Jack: Erm, how about tomorrow morning? Molly: Oh, I’m sorry but I’ve got an appointment with the doctor in the morning. Could you come sometime in the afternoon? Jack: Erm, let me see, erm, does 6pm sound all right to you? Molly: I think so. The thing is, I’ve got a meeting at work and I’m not sure how long it’s going to take. 3 Jack: I know, just give me a call around half past five and let me know how you’re getting along. Molly: That sounds great. Jack: OK, bye. Molly: Bye. TRACK 21 – ASKING ABOUT A CITY Ellis: Poppy? Poppy: That’s right. Erm, Ellis? Ellis: Yes, that’s it! Poppy: How’s it going? Ellis: Not bad, thanks. And you? Poppy: Great. So, how long has it been? Ellis: About three years, I think. It was at the sales conference in Woking, wasn’t it? Poppy: That’s right. We had a bit of a chat during one of the breaks, if I remember rightly. Ellis: Yes, yes. [silence] Poppy: Hey, I like those new paintings they’ve put up here. There were some old black and white ones from Florida in the 1930s before, weren’t there? Ellis: I think so, although I can’t really say I noticed. Hey, talking about the States, I’m off to New York next week – a five-day management training course. Poppy: That’s great! Have you been before? Ellis: No, never. You’re from New York, aren’t you? Poppy: Boston, actually, but I’ve been there several times. It’s a fantastic city and the food’s amazing. How many days are you staying for? Ellis: About a week. Poppy: It’s great for shopping. Electronics are really cheap. I picked up this really incredible camera and tablet computer last time I was there for about half the price you’d expect to pay over here. Ellis: I’m so looking forward to it. Poppy: You’ve got a cousin or something over there, haven’t you? Ellis: That’s right. She went there about 20 years ago, met a guy in Central Park, fell in love and got married about six weeks later. Poppy: How romantic! Ellis: Very! So, any top tips on what I should see? Poppy: Well, for the first couple of days, you’ll want to do all the typical things: the Empire State Building, Madison Square Garden, the Rockerfeller Center, Grand Central Station... I could send you a list if you want. Ellis: Oh, yes, that would be great! Poppy: Is your e-mail the same as before? Ellis: Yes, e.collins@workstone.com Here, it’s on my card. [He hands her his card.] Poppy: Great. Ellis: So, what about eating out? Poppy: Well, you have to try one of the typical hot dogs from a stand in the street. Then, there are just so many great places. I love S’MAC – it’s this hamburger place. Their 4-Cheese hamburger is amazing. I’ll add some restaurants to the list too. Ellis: Oh, thanks so much. Poppy: You have to be careful with tipping though. You’ve heard about tipping in the States, haven’t you? Ellis: No. Poppy: Basically, we’re big tippers, so you have to leave 15% for most things, including taxi drivers. I know this couple who BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com 87 AUDIO SCRIPTS went over there and got into an argument with a restaurant owner after leaving a bit of small change as a tip. He got really angry and wanted to know what the problem was. Ellis: Oh, no. Poppy: Yeah, well, he calmed down when he realised they were from Europe. Ellis: That was lucky. Cashier: Hi, can I take your order, please? Poppy: Oh, yes, I’ll have a latte and one of those cookies, please. [fades out] TRACK 23 Clever Bartender A woman rushes into a bar and orders a vodka and orange. She drinks it quickly, puts a 10-euro bill on the bar then runs out. Immediately, the bartender picks up the money, folds it carefully and puts it in his shirt pocket. But just then, the bartender looks up and sees his boss standing in the doorway, watching him. Doing a bit of fast thinking, he says, “Did you see that woman? She came in, ordered a vodka and orange, gave me a 10-euro tip, and then left without paying. Some people!” Restaurant Pest A woman is in a restaurant, enjoying a late lunch. Sitting near her is a really annoying man. “Waiter!” the man shouts. “Could you turn the air-conditioning up? It’s very hot,” he says. Minutes later, he calls the waiter over again. “Waiter! Could you turn it down? It’s too cold,” he says. This goes on for about an hour, and the patient waiter never once gets angry. Eventually, the woman calls the waiter over and says, “Excuse me, but I couldn’t help noticing that man. Why don’t you just throw him out?” “Oh, I really don’t mind,” says the waiter with a smile. “We don’t even have any air-conditioning.” TRACK 24 – TELLING STORIES Pete and Josh are having a chat in the bar. They’re telling one another stories. Pete: Your brother’s working in Canada, isn’t he? Josh: He was – he got sent back to the UK. Pete: I bet he was pleased about that. He quite liked it out there, didn’t he? Josh: Yeah, loved it and all the kids were all settled into their schools. Oh, he told me this funny story. Pete: Yeah? Josh: Well, he was in his new house back in the UK a few days ago when the removal guys turned up with six crates of his stuff from Canada. Pete: Yeah? Josh: Anyway, they start unpacking the crates, and they’re taking out all this really weird stuff: a grand piano, an antique chair, a stuffed lion, a harp, three lawnmowers... “Erm, excuse me,” my brother says, “but this isn’t my stuff.” But the guy in charge was a real jobsworth, “We’ve been told to deliver these things here and that’s what we’re doing.” In the end, my brother had to call up the manager of the removal firm. Pete: So, what happened? Josh: Well, they’d brought the wrong crates, so they had to pack it all up again, and take it back. Pete: Oh, I’m sure they were well pleased about that! Josh: Oh, yes! Pete: Oh, something similar happened to us when we moved 88 Josh: Pete: Josh: Pete: Josh: Pete: Josh: Pete: Josh: Pete: Josh: Pete: Josh: house just recently . We got all the stuff transported over to the new place, but after unpacking everything, we couldn’t find this box full of valuables: silver plates, jewellery, antique coins, cutlery, and so on. I remember packing it all up and putting it somewhere safe, but we just couldn’t find it anywhere. In the end, we spoke to the guys from the removal firm but they swore that they didn’t know anything about it. So, what did you do? We filed a complaint against the company – we thought that perhaps one of the guys from the van had taken it. Anyway, we were just about to start legal proceedings when the box turned up at my parents’ house. Apparently, we’d taken it there a few weeks before the move for safekeeping then completely forgotten about it. Oh, I’m sure you had a great time explaining all that to the removal firm. Oh, yes, it wasn’t at all embarrassing! I can imagine. Hey, you’re flying to Frankfurt next week for some conference, aren’t you? Already been. Hilarious trip. There was this really drunk guy sitting in the row in front of me. He was trying to sleep off his hangover, I guess, and his head kept falling over into the aisle and people kept banging into him, waking him up, and he kept mumbling and muttering and getting angrier and angrier. Anyway, at one point, someone opened the overhead locker above him and this big bag came crashing down on top of him. Nice! So, what did he do? Well, it was weird – he just sort of opened his eyes, swore a bit, then went back to sleep – as if he’d hardly noticed it. Probably cured his headache! Yeah. Another drink? Go on then. TRACK 25 – TALKING ABOUT YOUR ADVENTURES We asked two people about some of the adventurous things they’ve done in their lives. The snowstorm I once went hiking in the middle of winter and got caught up in a snowstorm. I was with a friend and we were on a 100-kilometre trip in the mountains. The idea was to walk for four days, covering about 25 kilometres a day. For the first couple of days, everything seemed to be fine, but late in the evening of the third day, there was a really heavy snowstorm. The worst bit was the wind – it was so strong that it ripped our tent to pieces. So, at about three in the morning, we had to pack up everything and leave as quickly as we could. The problem was that it was really hard to see, and I was worried that we were going to fall down the side of the mountain. In the end, we just dug a hole in the snow and waited for the storm to die down. It was freezing and probably the worst night I’ve ever spent outdoors. As soon as it was light, we walked down the valley to a little village where we got a bus back home. Parachuting The most adventurous thing I’ve ever done? It was probably when I went parachuting in the north of Norway. After a two-day preparation course, they took us out for our first jump. There were three of us in the back of the plane: Sandra (another beginner), me BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com AUDIO SCRIPTS and the parachute instructor. The pilot climbed up to about 700 metres, and then the instructor opened a little door at the side of the plane. Sandra was first out, so she hooked up her parachute and then stood in the doorway. When the green light came on, the instructor tapped her on the shoulder and she jumped out. Now it was my turn. By then, my heart was thumping really hard. The red light was on again and the plane was circling round to the same spot so I could jump out. Waiting was definitely the worst part of it. Then, all of a sudden, I felt a tap on my shoulder and I jumped. There was a cold rush of air, then a sudden jerk as the parachute opened out. I remember floating there, looking up and down and thinking how small everything looked below and how quiet it was, apart from the distant buzz of the plane. But after a minute or so, the ground suddenly started coming up towards me really fast, so I got ready to land, and within a few seconds I was down. I just lay there taking it all in – not believing what I’d just done. It was incredible. TRACK 27 Emma: Taxi! (car pulls up. Sound of door opening) Can you take me to…. Jan: Hello! It’s Emma, isn’t it? Emma: Jan Masterman! Wow, I don’t believe it! How are you? Jan: Emma Palmer! I thought it was you under all that, erm, grey hair. How long has it been, darling? Emma: Well, it’s fifteen years since we left school. So, you know, I suppose it must be fifteen years. Jan: Gosh, fifteen years. It seems like only yesterday that I beat you in the final of the school tennis championships. Emma: What? Jan: You remember, darling. I, you know, I beat you in straight sets and you cried and cried. You were so disappointed. Emma: Well, we were…. Jan: And then there was the time I won the school French prize and you didn’t. Do you remember? You were furious. Emma: But your mother’s French, Jan. Everyone knew you’d win the prize. Erm, how is your mother, by the way? Jan: Actually, she died years ago. Emma: Oh, I’m sorry. Jan: Don’t be, darling. She left me the flat in Paris and a house near Cannes. Emma: So, what do you do in London? Jan: I live here, sweetheart. Married with two kids, and three au pairs. (laughs at her own joke). Emma: And do you work? Jan: Work? Well, not really, darling. Officially I do three days a week at my husband’s advertising agency but I don’t really go in very often. To tell you the truth, we don’t need the money. But what about you? You look as if you’ve been working very hard. Emma: Well, erm, I run my own public relations agency actually. It’s a lot of work but I enjoy it. Jan: A PR agency? Who’d have thought little Emma would work in PR. You were always so, you know, shy and awkward at school. Emma: No, I wasn’t. Jan: Of course you were, darling. And what about relationships? Did you ever manage to get married? Emma: Yes, I did, actually. Unfortunately it didn’t work out and we got divorced last year. It was all very friendly. Jan: Oh, poor you. Still, I remember you never could keep a boyfriend, could you? [fades out] TRACK 28 Customer: Erm, I’ve just been checking the bill and there seems to be a mistake. We never ordered this item, and we only had one of these. Waiter: Oh, I’m sorry. I’ll just go and print it off for you again. Customer: And I’ve got this “buy one get one free” voucher for a meal here. Waiter: I’m afraid those are only valid during the week. I’ll be back in a minute with the new bill. Customer: Oh, hi, erm, I bought these trousers last week, but they don’t fit properly. Could I get a refund, please? Assistant: I’m sorry we don’t give refunds, but I can give you some vouchers to use at the store. Customer: OK. Assistant: Have you got the receipt? Customer: Erm, no, I think I’ve left it at home. Assistant: I’m afraid I can’t deal with any returns unless you’ve got the receipt. Customer: Oh, it’s just that I’ve come all the way from Barking and I won’t be coming back for... [fades out] So, we’ve been looking over your request for a loan and everything seems to be in order. Customer: That’s great. So, erm, what would the monthly instalments be? Manager: Well, for a loan of £6,000 over a period of 60 months, you’ll be paying £110.50 per month on an APR of 4%. The total amount you’ll have paid toward interest is £629.95, so the sum total including the loan and interest payments will be £6,629.95. Customer: Perfect. Manager: Assistant: Customer: Assistant: Customer: Assistant: That’s £44 and 56 pence. Have you got a store card? Yes, and I’ve got these discount coupons. OK. That’s £42.67 pence, please? Here you are. [He gives the shop assistant his credit card.] Could you key your PIN number in, please? How much is a single ticket to Kettering, please? Are you travelling today? Yes. That’ll be £85. £85! It’d be cheaper to go by plane. If you book over the internet in advance, you can get off-peak tickets for as little as £20. Customer: Well, I need to go today. I think I’ll rent a car. Clerk: OK, have a nice day. Customer: Clerk: Customer: Clerk: Customer: Clerk: TRACK 29 – TALKING ABOUT HYPOCRISY The environment I think it’s funny when all these celebrities go on about saving the planet and being green, but then they fly all over the world in their private jets. And then there’s Al Gore – he got an Oscar for his film An Inconvenient Truth which was all about global warming, but the electric bills for his massive house are apparently more than 20 times the national average. And then there’s Ted Kennedy – a senator who spent a lot of his political life promoting solar, hydrogen and wind power, but he opposed the Cape Wind Project as it involved building wind turbines in a place where his family likes to go sailing! What a bunch of hypocrites! 1 BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com 89 AUDIO SCRIPTS Money I can’t stand all those conservative types who go on about family life and marriage and all that, but then you read about how they’ve been having affairs and they’ve got illegitimate children. Oh, and those televangelists who preach on TV about living a good life, but it’s just so obvious that the only thing they’re interested in is money, and they’re often not so perfect themselves. I read about this one minister from the 90s who got people to send in cheques for $1,000. And in return, he promised to personally “lobby” God on their behalf. It turns out that he was throwing away most of the letters anyway. I just can’t understand how people could fall for that! 2 3 Health and education It really annoys me the way all these politicians talk about protecting the state health care system, but as soon as there’s a problem, they check into a private clinic. Or when they go on about government-funded schools but put their own kids in the private system! The Labour shadow education secretary Tristram Hunt is a prime example. He recently said he’d probably send his three children to private school, and he was educated at a private school himself. Then there are those multi-millionaire left-wing politicians – champagne socialists they call them – who go on about equality and all that, but they all live in mansions and haven’t got a clue what life is like for ordinary people – they’re far more interested in building up their property portfolios and helping their banker friends. They’re all such hypocrites! TRACK 30 Sally: Mr Prescott, isn’t it? Peter: Yes, that’s right. Pleased to meet you. Sally: Pleased to meet you. I’m Sally Fields. Sorry, I’m late. I got a taxi from the airport, but the traffic was terrible. Have you been waiting for long? Peter: No, I’ve only just got here myself. Sally: Oh, good. [looking around the restaurant] This is nice. Peter: It’s my regular. I often come here for lunch. I’ll get the waiter over. Sally: [looking at the menu] So, what would you recommend then? Peter: The lasagne is really nice. Sally: OK. So, I hear you moved offices. Peter: Yes, we relocated to a big building downtown. Waiter: Good afternoon. Can I get you anything to drink? Peter: [to Sally] Shall I order some wine? Sally: Yes, go ahead. Peter: We’ll have a bottle of Beaujolais Nouveau, please. Waiter: Very well, sir. And are you ready to order? Sally: I think so. Peter: Go ahead. Sally: For starters, I’ll have the prawn cocktail, please. Peter: And I’ll have the seafood platter. Waiter: Very well. And for the main course? Sally: I’ll go for the lasagne. Peter: And I’ll have the lobster. Waiter: Very well. I’ll be back in just a minute with your drinks and starters. Peter: So, how was the trip? Sally: Fine, thanks. The flight got in a bit early, actually. Peter: Great. Sally: So, erm, did you get a chance to look over the proposal? 90 I’ve got the figures here on my laptop if you need to check over them again. Peter: Yes, it all looks good. So, you want to demolish the old cinema and put up some luxury apartments, right? Sally: Yes, that’s it, and we’re prepared to pay the asking price for the land. Peter: Development for the area. That’s great. Sally: I knew we could rely on you. Waiter: Here are your drinks and starters. If you need anything else, please let me know. Enjoy your meal. Peter: Thanks. Oh, could you bring the ketchup, please? Waiter: Certainly, sir. Sally: So, what do you think of our idea to... [fades out] a toast n if you propose a “toast” to something (a new deal, for example), you ask people to drink together as a way of showing appreciation for that thing or hoping that it’ll be successful TRACK 31 Bruce: They’re taking their time, aren’t they? Nigel: Yeah, they are. Bruce: Have you been here before? Nigel: This is my third time. Bruce: My first. So, have you come far? Nigel: Manchester. What about you? Bruce: San Francisco. Nigel: Wow! Bruce: I flew in just yesterday. Actually, it isn’t too bad coming over – it’s going back that’s the killer. Nigel: I can imagine. So, are you staying close by? Bruce: The Waysgate Hotel, I think it’s called. Nigel: Oh, right, I’m there too. Bruce: Bruce Milton, by the way. Pleased to meet you. Nigel: Nigel Masters. Pleased to meet you. Bruce: So, have you been to any of the talks? Nigel: Yeah, a couple. One of them was really good. It was all about this... Bruce: Oh, no. Sorry to interrupt. You know what? I’ve left my laptop in the main hall. Would you mind if I just went to get it? Nigel: Sure. I’ll save your place in the queue. Bruce: Great. See you in a minute. Nigel: [He comes back.] Did you find it? Bruce: Yes, thanks. Nigel: Hey, before I forget, here’s my card. I’m the head of a small online marketing company. We help businesses promote themselves online. Bruce: Sounds interesting. Here’s my card. Nigel: [reading the card] Oh, the Bruce Milton... the CEO of Milton Networks. Bruce: That’s me. Nigel: Wow! I was hoping to talk to you today. Bruce: Look, I’ve got a meeting later this afternoon, but I’ve got a bit of spare time from 3:30 to 4pm. Why don’t we meet up for a coffee in the café? You could tell me all about your company. Nigel: That sounds great. Thanks so much. Bruce: My pleasure. See you at 3:30. Nigel: See you. Bye. Bruce: Bye. BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com AUDIO SCRIPTS TRACK 37 – DESCRIBING AN EVENT Three people report back on events they attended. The wedding My cousin’s wedding? It was great, although there were a few hiccups. For a start the bride was late because her dad got a bit lost as he was driving her to the church. About two minutes before the ceremony, she still hadn’t turned up so Mike was getting pretty nervous. She eventually arrived with about 30 seconds to spare! Then, during the ceremony, the priest got Mike’s name wrong while they were exchanging vows. He said, “Do you, Mike Long, take this woman to be your lawful wedded wife…” but his surname is actually “Smart”. Oh, and then the best man couldn’t find the rings when he was supposed to hand them over. It was a bit like something out of Four Weddings and a Funeral! 1 The meeting The meeting? A complete disaster. I mean, it started off all right, but then we got onto the topic of payment. As far as we were concerned, we were all up-to-date on the payments, but the other party was insisting there was still an outstanding bill of £20,000 for some extra work they’d had to do on it that wasn’t in the original spec. This was all completely new to us and wasn’t anything that we’d calculated for. To make matters worse, they said that they wouldn’t hand over the final files until they received the payment. Margaret, my boss just hit the roof, and at one stage, both sides were screaming at one another, and Margaret nearly stormed out but I managed to calm her down. In the end, someone suggested taking a break. We met up again after about half-an-hour and both sides seemed to have settled down by then, luckily. Karl: Dave: Karl: Dave: Karl: Dave: Karl: Dave: Karl: Dave: 2 3 The conference The conference? Not too bad. I mean, I met a lot of people, made some good contacts and even managed to secure a few deals. The only thing was that I was booked into a hotel that was about 10km away from the conference centre , so I had to drive in every day. There was a train, but it was really slow and there were only three a day, so it was easier to go by car, although parking in the city centre was a nightmare… and really expensive. Then, for the first day I couldn’t really do anything because they hadn’t delivered the material for our stand. They’d said they’d have it there for us when we arrived, but they sent it to the wrong place and it took another 48 hours to sort that out. Anyway, it turned up eventually and everything was fine after that. TRACK 39 Karl and Dave are having a chat in a pub. They’re talking about the congestion charge – an amount of money you pay if you want to drive into London. Dave: So, you got any plans for the weekend? Karl: Not really, I think I’ll just, erm, you know, take it easy. It’s been a bit of a busy week. Dave: Yeah, I know what you mean. Karl: Oh, but, erm, I’ve some tickets for a theatre show on Sunday afternoon. I’ve got a spare ticket if you fancy coming along. Dave: That sounds good. What’s the show? Karl: It’s some sort of comedy – nothing special. It’s in, like, this little theatre just off Marley Street. My cousin’s in it – that’s how I got the tickets. Dave: Oh, right, that sounds great. Karl: Dave: Karl: Dave: We could meet up just outside the theatre at, like, 6pm. It starts at, erm, 6:15, I think. Great. I’ll send you the details by text. OK. So, erm, how will you be getting into the centre? Well, I was gonna drive, but, like, with the congestion charge plus parking, it’s just too expensive. Yeah, tell me about it. I heard that they’re planning to increase the rates too. It’s like 10 pounds now, isn’t it? Something like that, but I got fined last time for not paying in advance – it cost me 50 pounds! Fifty pounds! That’s outrageous. Although I do, like, think it’s a good idea in principle. I mean, it’s gonna reduce the number of cars in the centre and cut down on pollution. Yeah, but some people who work there need to drive in. So, it’s bad for business, isn’t it? Well, I don’t know about that – I mean, the public transport system is pretty good, but what I like is that there’ll be fewer cars, and, like, less pollution. Hopefully, they’ll pedestrianise more areas too, and make it more, erm, people-friendly. Yeah, but lots of small business owners need to get their goods to the shops. You know, shops need to have deliveries. I guess so, but I think they’ve got, like, a reduced rate for people with businesses in the centre. Yeah, maybe, so what time... [fades out] TRACK 40 Zoe: ...so, I was just wondering whether you were, erm, whether you were going to the party this Saturday? Harry: You mean, erm, Jody’s, Jody’s housewarming? Zoe: Yeah, I think she said she’d invited you but you hadn’t replied and... Harry: ...the problem is I’m still not sure whether I can go. Zoe: Why’s that? Harry: My dad runs a pub and... Zoe: ...you never told me that. Which one? Harry: The Duck and Goose – it’s in Marley Lane just by... Zoe: ...Oh, yeah, I know it. I’ve been before. Harry: But anyway, three’s three, three of the bar staff are off sick, and he’s, erm, he’s asked me to go and help out. Zoe: Oh, right. Harry: Yeah, well, he said he was gonna tell me for sure by Saturday afternoon whether I had to go or not. What time is the party? Zoe: She said to be there for around 8pm – dinner’s at 9pm and... Harry: ...do we have to bring anything? Zoe: Not really. I’ll probably take a bottle of wine as she’s preparing dinner. Harry: Sounds good. I’ve heard she’s a great cook. Oh, yes. You wouldn’t want to miss it. So, have you got her address, just in case? Zoe: Yeah, wait a sec, I’ve got it on my mobile. Oh, yes, here it is, it’s, erm, 19, 19 Hedgegrove Avenue, it’s just next to the train station. Harry: Oh, right, I know the street. So, I might see you there then. Zoe: OK, well, let me know before and we can go together. Harry: OK. Will do. BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com 91 AUDIO SCRIPTS TRACK 41 – CATCHING UP Hugo: Libby, isn’t it? Libby: That’s right. And you are...? Hugo. Hugo. Hugo Smith. We were at that Leipzip conference together. That was about two years ago, wasn’t it? Libby: Oh, yes, Hugo. That’s right! Wow! Doesn’t time fly? Hugo: It sure does. You were in the process of getting a flat in London last time we spoke, weren’t you? Libby: That’s right. I ended up getting a little apartment overlooking the river. Just as well, really, as house prices have shot up since then. Hugo: So I’ve heard. Congratulations! Libby: And you? Hugo: Actually, I moved to the country. Libby: Very nice. Hugo: I bought a house in a little village. It’s very peaceful, but I miss the city. It’s just a little bit too quiet at times. Libby: I can imagine. So, what are you doing here in Manchester? Hugo: I’m just back here for the weekend. I’m visiting friends and family. Libby: So am I! Hugo: Oh, great. Do you remember that guy who was in charge of the meetings? Libby: Erm, yes, but I can’t remember his name. Hugo: No, neither can I. Libby: Anyway, what about the other guys? I’m friends with Chloe on Facebook. Hugo: So I am! But we haven’t seen each other since the last meeting. Libby: No, me neither. Hey, have you got time for a coffee? Hugo: Yeah, sure! Libby: There used to be a really nice café in Canal Street. Hugo: I know the one you mean. I used to go there quite a lot. Libby: So did I! It’s got a lovely old fireplace. Hugo: That’s it. Libby: I’m so glad I bumped into you. Hugo: Me too. I’ve been meaning to get in touch. So, tell me, what did you... [fades out] TRACK 42 – THE UNDERGROUND Andy: I went on the Underground today. It was just terrible. It was, just so many people around. I can’t… Katherine: It’s terrible. [Yeah.] This morning I didn’t even have anywhere to put my feet. Pushing, shoving, pushing, shoving. Andy: Yeah, I don’t know. I think they should put more like more trains on or something. I don’t know. I don’t know. There’s enough people going on them, you know, the Underground to make it worth their while. And it’s just…everyone’s, everyone’s so bad tempered in the morning. You get such… I don’t know. I hate… I hate people in the Underground. Katherine: It’s too hot. There’s no air conditioning. Somebody fainted the other day and nobody did anything. Andy: Nothing? What they just [Nope] like watched? Katherine: Nope. They just watched. They called the security, security pull him over. Then, more people get on the train, more people get off. Push, shove. Nobody has any respect for anybody anymore. Andy: Yeah, I guess people are sort of frightened of getting involved in stuff and having to go and make police statements. I don’t know. 92 Katherine: Frightened of helping someone? Andy: I don’t know like he could’ve been a druggie. He could’ve been a drunk person. Katherine: He was in a suit. Andy: Yeah? That’s a bit unfair though, isn’t it? So, you only help people because they’re in a suit or something, you know. [Well.] What … would you’ve…what…did you do anything? Katherine: I…I couldn’t. Andy: Yeah. There you go. There. Wait a minute, you’re criticising other people. Katherine: There was a lot of people in my way. TRACK 43 – FOUR DIALOGUES 1 Mark: So, do you think the painting would look good in the living room? Dave: I don’t know. I’m not entirely convinced. It’s all right, but I’m not sure the colours go well with our furniture. And besides, it’s pretty expensive. Mark: Yeah, $23,000 would be stretching it a bit. I’m in two minds too. Dave: Maybe we should sleep on it. Mark: Yes, we can always come back tomorrow. Dave: Good idea. Let’s do that. 2 Jeff: I’m going to bed. Shall I switch off the computer? Alice: No, leave it on – I need to check something on Facebook. Don’t worry, I’ll turn it off before I go to bed. Jeff: You can’t have the computer on and the TV – it’s a waste of electricity. Alice: I just want to see the end of this, then I’ll turn the TV off – it’ll be over in about 10 minutes. Jeff: OK, but don’t be too late – you’ve got to get up for school tomorrow. Alice: I know, I know. 3 Colin: When you pop out to get the paper for the photocopier, I need you to take these letters down to the post office too. They’re for a client we’re working with. Otis: OK. Sure. Erm, where’s the post office? Colin: It’s just on the corner of Wakesfield and Marley Street – you can’t miss it. Otis: You mean near the supermarket? Colin: No, you go down the main street then turn right at the park. It’s right there in front of you. Otis: Wait a minute, are you talking about the park in Spitalfields Road? Colin: No. Otis: Oh, I’d better look it up on the map. Colin: Good idea. 4 Ellie: He’s walked past us twice now and hasn’t even batted an eyelid. Paul: Here, let’s get him when he comes back. Ellie: Excuse me. Is anyone going to take our order? We’ve been waiting here for about 20 minutes now. Staff: I’m sorry, we’re a bit busy. Can I get you something to drink? Ellie: We ordered drinks about 10 minutes ago, but there’s been no sign of them. Staff: I’ll go and see what’s happening. Ellie: And can you give us some menus so we can start thinking about what we want to order? BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com AUDIO SCRIPTS TRACK 44 – CHATTING ABOUT REGRETS! Luisa: OK. So, I heard this saying once that it’s better to regret something you have done than something you haven’t done. What do you think? Jackson: Mmm… Depends on what you’ve done. Andre: Is it something bad? Is it something evil? Luisa: Well… I don’t know. I’m asking the question. I mean… I… Personally, I think it’s a bit… it’s better to regret something… erm… that you have done. Yeah. Because I think it means you’ve lived life. Jackson: What if you’ve done something really stupid? Luisa: Well… Yeah, that’s true. That’s true. It does depend on what you’ve done. That’s true. Jackson: Exactly. [Well…] Have you guys done anything really stupid? Andre: Well, of course. I’ve done lots of stupid things. But I agree with Luisa. Maybe it’s good to regret something that you’ve done and maybe you haven’t put 100 percent of your effort into. Luisa: Mmm… Jackson: Yeah. Andre: For example, I was an athlete when I was very, very young, [Yeah] and maybe if I had tried harder [Mmm] I would have been a little bit better at what I had done. Jackson: And maybe you’d now be competing in the Olympics [Exactly!] this year! Andre: I’d be training right now! Jackson: Really? Luisa: Yes, but then you could be regretting spending the whole of your life just in difficult training schedules and never having any fun and never just… you know… eating an ice cream on the beach. Andre: This is true! Jackson: Exactly! Now you have a better life. You have more fun. You don’t… you don’t, you know… Do you sit around regretting that you’re… you know… that you’re not a professional athlete? Andre: No, absolutely not. I think things have turned out very, very well. Jackson: Well, you look happy. Andre: I’m a very happy guy. And you? Jackson: Yeah, I’m happy! I mean, I’m full of regret, but I’m still happy. Andre: Do you have anything you wish you would have tried harder at? Jackson: Absolutely nothing. Andre: Absolutely nothing? TRACK 45 – CHATTING ABOUT SUNDAY! Megan: Well, I’ve worked in retail since I was sixteen years old, and I’ve always worked on a Sunday, never the Saturdays like everyone else, I’ve always just worked Sundays. But the Sunday shoppers, the people that shop on Sundays, I don’t know if I agree with it. I think, weekends you can enjoy it, be at home... But everyone goes shopping on a Sunday, what do you think, good or bad idea? Sara: For me, Sundays are definitely the days I need to just relax. [exactly] Like, shopping can be relaxing but for me it’s not, so for me, shopping on Sunday is a major like... [no, no] No, no, I don’t want to do that. Tim: Yeah, definitely and also I think that shopping on, on Sundays in particular, let alone weekends, is kind of difficult to do because all the stores that I want to go to are closed. Megan: Exactly. But a lot of places now, everywhere’s open on a Sunday until so late at night. [That’s true.] And it’s just, I think it’s ruining the fun of the weekend. For me, for me working on Sundays, it ruins the fun of the weekend, it’s so busy and there’s... Sara: Yeah, you do have to think about, yeah, you have that perspective of the person who’s actually doing the work. [exactly] And the people who are working want to relax too. Megan: I know! Tim: And in my, in my personal opinion, Sunday’s always been reserved as a, as a family day. [That’s true.] And you spend six, you spend almost seven days out of seven days in a week working, working, working and you just need some time to, to relax. [some time to yourself ] Some time to yourself. Sara: Yeah and with your family and to yourself. Tim: Yeah, I would have to say that, it’s not my choice day to go shopping. I’d rather go shopping on, like, a Friday or something like that. Megan: Definitely, me too. TRACK 46 – MAKING PLANS Pete: [to the ticket seller] Two tickets for Straight Guys at seven, please. Ticket seller: I’m sorry but there aren’t any seats left. Pete: [to Noah] Well, that’s thrown a spanner in the works. Noah: What a bummer! I was really looking forward to it. Pete: Me too! I guess we could go and grab a bite to eat then come back for the next session. Noah: Yeah, but what about Mike’s party? We’ll never hear the end of it if we don’t show up. Pete: Well, I’m sort of in two minds about going anyway. Noah: What? Pete: Yes, I just don’t feel up to it. Noah: You can’t bail out on me now. Pete: I’m a bit broke too. Noah: I can lend you something. I’m loaded right now. I flogged my stereo to Greg. Pete: How much did you get for it? Noah: Two hundred. Pete: Nice! It was only worth about 50. Noah: Yeah, I know. What a mug! Look, I know, let’s go to the pub down the road, the Dog and Duck, and have a quick one. Then, we can head off to the party. Pete: The Dog and Duck? That place is a rip-off. I got charged £10 for a pint last time I went there. Noah: [beep from text message] Hey, I just got a text from Leon. He wants to know whether we can pick him up – his car’s conked out so he needs a lift. Pete: But he lives miles away. Noah: We can’t leave him in the lurch. Look, I know, let’s go and pick him up, then head off to Mike’s place and have a drink in a pub near there, then go to the party. Come on – you know you want to. Pete: Oh, all right then. Noah: Great. I’ll give Leon a bell and tell him that we’ll be there in about 20 minutes. Pete: All right. I’ll go and get the car. BUSINESS SKILLS SOCIALISING IN ENGLISH Copyright Hot English Publishing SL 2016 www.learnhotenglish.com 93 AUDIO SCRIPTS TRACK 47 – HOW TO END A CONVERSATION At the pub Henry: ...and then he asked me to work at the weekend. Abbie: That’s so annoying. Henry: Tell me about it. [silence] Abbie: Well, look, I’d better get going. I’ve got to get dinner ready and the kids will be back in about half an hour. Henry: OK. Of course. Abbie: Right, so, I’ll see you on Friday. Henry: Yes, at three o’clock. Abbie: Perfect! See you then. Henry: OK. Bye. Abbie: Bye. 1 2 In the street George: ...a...and that’s why I decided to leave. Megan: Good decision. George: Best I’ve ever made. Megan: Well, it was lovely talking to you, but I’ve got to run. My train leaves in about 10 minutes. George:No problem. Have a good one! Megan: Yeah, sure. Hey, why don’t we get together sometime this week for a coffee or something? George: Good idea. I’ll give you a call. Megan: OK. Speak later. Take care. George: Bye. Megan: Bye. 5 In an office Harvey: I can’t believe you’re actually going. It’s been, what, like six years, hasn’t it? Mandy: That’s right. It’s just flown by. Harvey: I know. It feels like only yesterday when we started here. I’m really gonna miss you. 94 I’ll miss you too. Keep in touch. I will. It was wonderful to finally meet your family and everything. Thanks. So, goodbye then. Bye. Take care and send me a text message when you get to Chicago. Mandy: I will! Good luck. Harvey: And you. Bye. Mandy: Bye. Mandy: Harvey: Mandy: Harvey: 4 In a restaurant Morgan:OK, so I’ll call the distributors while you prepare the contract, and we’ll talk again next week. Poppy: Sounds good! Morgan:Great! So, have a nice trip back to Sydney. Poppy: I will. Morgan:And don’t forget to e-mail me that information. Poppy: Of course! Morgan:Thanks again for everything. Poppy: No problem. Bye. Morgan:Bye. 5 In an office Nicol So, I’ll send you over that proposal and you can tell me what you think of it sometime next week. Luke: Sounds good. Nicole: And I’ll let you know when the report comes out. Luke: Perfect! Nicole: Oh, before I go, I just remembered, we’re going for a drink after work tomorrow if you fancy coming along. Luke: That sounds good. Nicole: We’re meeting up at the Fox & Hounds at about 6pm. Luke: Oh, great. I’ll see you there. Nicole: OK. See you later then. Bye. Luke: Bye. 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