The TBR Tablet April 2013 TBR Mitzvah Day Sunday, April 28th Murray Prawer Memorial Walk AND Multi-Family Yard Sale We will be collecting household items, including housewares, furniture, toys and clothes to sell at the sale. Our success is dependent on your contribution. See page 21 for complete details and collection dates. 8:30 am 9:00 am 9:30 am 10:00 am 2:00 pm Yard Sale Opens Registration Opening Ceremony Walk Yard Sale Closes See page 22 to pre-register for the walk or visit the Temple website at www.bethrishon.org Proceeds to benefit Holocaust Survivor Services, a program of Jewish Family Service of North Jersey Nisan / Iyar 5773 Inside this issue Click on a title to go to that section. Shabbat Service Schedule....................2 Rabbi’s Message....................................3-4 Cantor’s Message......................................5 Building Project.....................................6-7 Adult Education.................................. 8-11 Special Services................................12-13 Preschool News....................................... 14 Religious School...............................15-17 B’nei Mitzvah.................................16-17 Youth Group News...........................18-19 Around the Temple..........................20-25 Community Programs....................26-29 Tribute Cards............................................ 30 Yahrzeits..................................................... 31 TBR CongreGational Trip The Museum of Jewish Heritage, New York City Tuesday, April 30th See page 20 for more details. 585 Russell Avenue, Wyckoff, NJ 07481 Tel: (201) 891-4466 • Fax: (201) 891-0508 • Education: (201) 891-6074 templeoffice@bethrishon.org • www.bethrishon.org April 2013 Service Schedule Upcoming Shabbat, Festival & Holiday Service Schedule Date Monday, April 1 Friday, April 5 TimeService **10:30 am** 7:00 pm **6:00 pm** Special Time for Service Pesach 7th Day Service and Yizkor with Festival Lunch Evening Service and Yizkor Family Service Featuring the 3 year olds and Dinner Candle lighting: 7:07 pm Saturday, April 6 9:00 am Nosh & Drash 10:00 am Shabbat Service - Shemini Bat Mitzvah: Alison Erani Friday, April 12 8:00 pm Evening Service Candle lighting: 7:14 pm Saturday, April 13 10:00 am Shabbat Service - Tazriah - Metzora B’not Mitzvah: Allison Denenberg and Kelly Yadoff 10:00 am Alternative Shabbat Service Friday, April 19 8:00 pm Evening Service - Celebrate Israel Shabbat with TBR Choirs Candle lighting: 7:22 pm Saturday, April 20 9:00 am Prayer Class 9:00 am Nosh & Drash 10:00 am Shabbat Service - Acharei Mot - Kedoshim Bar Mitzvah: Andrew Mester 10:15 am Family Education Friday, April 26 8:00 pm Evening Service Candle lighting: 7:29 pm Saturday, April 27 9:00 am Prayer Class 10:00 am Shabbat Service - Emor B’nei Mitzvah: Rebecca Frenkel and Austin Holder Friday, May 3 **6:00 pm** Special Time for Service Youth Group Family Service and Dinner Candle lighting: 7:37 pm Saturday, May 4 9:00 am Prayer Class 9:00 am Nosh & Drash 10:00 am Shabbat Service - Behar - Bechukkottai Bar Mitzvah: David Klinenberg 10:15 am Junior Congregation Friday, May 10 8:00 pm Evening Service - Volunteer Recognition Shabbat Candle lighting: 7:44 pm Page 2 April 2013 Rabbi’s Message From the Rabbi’s Desk... Welcome Pope Francis! Habemus Papam! “We Have a Pope!” was the announcement given in Latin by the senior Cardinal Deacon, upon the election of a new Pope at 2:00 pm Wednesday afternoon. The white smoke billowed from the Vatican chimney and the crowd went crazy! All throughout the week, prognosticators were placing bets on who the next Pope would be. There were lists of the most likely candidates to be selected--but one person, in particular, was betting against one specific cardinal whose chance of being selected looked really promising. This person wasn’t a theologian, not even a church official, but one of the cardinals’ mothers who made a public statement: “THE WHOLE FAMILY IS AFRAID THAT CHRISTOPH WILL BE ELECTED POPE, AND THAT WOULD MEAN—it’s all over for me!” Most mothers would kill to have their son selected to be the next POPE—NOT THIS ONE! Eleonore Schoenborn, age 92, told the newspaper, if that happens, “I WILL NOT SEE MY SON EVER AGAIN because I will NO LONGER HAVE THE STRENGTH TO TRAVEL TO ROME!” When I read her statement, I had to laugh. I kept wondering, is this lady really a Catholic or a closeted Jew! Who else but a mother could say such a thing? Austrian Cardinal Christoph Schoenborn’s elderly mother was praying that her son would not get the job as that would mean the end of their meetings in Vienna for a couple of weeks every year and the end of her son’s weekly calls to her every Saturday! She understood that leading the world’s 1.2 billion Catholics would be an arduous task that would leave no time for keeping in touch with family and especially his dear 92 year old ailing mother! Well, I am sure that Eleonore Schoenborn breathed a sigh of relief when the new Pope emerged from the central balcony of St. Peter’s Basilica at the Vatican on Wednesday and it was NOT HER SON! Pope Francis becomes the 266th pontiff in the Church’s 2,000-year history, succeeding Benedict XVI who retired last month. His election came on the fifth ballot taken by the 115 Roman Catholic Cardinals assembled in Rome to select a new Pope. He is the first Jesuit Pope and the first from Latin America; from Argentina in particular. Of course, many of us are asking:—WILL THIS POPE BE GOOD FOR THE JEWS? According to Rabbi Alfredo Borodowski, an Argentine native and executive director of the Skirball Center for Jewish Learning at Temple Emanu-el, the new Pope “is known in Argentina as somebody with integrity who has stood strong against the excesses of the current administration [of President Cristina Fernandez Kirchner] and has been good to the poor and needy…” “He is very close to the current rector of the Seminario Rabinico Latinoamericano, Rabbi Abraham Skorka, and Rabbi Sergio Bergman, who is now part of the Buenos Aires legislature.” The new Pope and Rabbi Skorka co-wrote a 2010 book on interfaith dialogue, titled “On Heaven and Earth.” We know that Pope Francis reached out on Thursday to Rome’s Jewish community, saying he hoped he would be able to contribute to furthering good relations between Catholics and Jews. The new Pope sent a message to Rome’s chief rabbi, Riccardo Di Segni, inviting him to his inaugural Mass at the Vatican on March 19. “I sincerely hope to be able to contribute to the progress that relations between Jews and Catholics have enjoyed since the Second Continued on next page. Page 3 April 2013 Rabbi’s Message Continued from previous page. Vatican Council,” he said, according to a statement on Vatican Radio. Some of you will recall that the Relations between Catholics and Jews improved greatly after the 1962-1965 Second Vatican Council, which issued a landmark statement repudiating the concept of collective Jewish guilt for Jesus’ death and urged dialogue with all religions. Both of Francis’s immediate predecessors, Benedict XVI and John Paul II, visited Rome’s main synagogue. Israeli leaders are welcoming the selection of Pope Francis and calling him a friend of the Jewish people. President Shimon Peres invited the new Pope to follow the lead of his two predecessors and visit Israel. “There is much in his record that reassures us about the future,” said Abe Foxman, national director of the Anti-Defamation League in the United States. When Islamic militants, widely thought to be from Iranianbacked Hezbollah, attacked the Jewish center, Cardinal Bergoglio “was forthright not only in his condemnation of the act but in his solidarity with the Jewish community,” said Rosen. It may indicate that the Pope has been influenced by Latin American Liberation theology with its “preferential option for the poor.” He could be friendly to the Argentine Jewish community and unsympathetic to Israel because of its alleged treatment of the “poor, displaced Palestinians.” More symbolically, liberation theology argues that God identifies with the oppressed, and that Christianity should take upon itself the lens of the poor. Both theologies are also often derided as “Marxist” by conservatives. So we in the Jewish community wish the new Pope well. We pray for his success as the new spiritual leader of the Catholic Church. We pray for him to be a moral voice in a world which is going through upheaval and great change. We need voices of reason and of love, but voices which are not afraid to condemn evil, evil which threatens the sacredness of all humanity and that which desecrates the name of God. May God give Pope Francis the strength to meet the formidable challenges which await him and to that let us say—Amen. But what concerns some in the Jewish community about the new Pope is the choice of his name Francis, after St. Francis Asisi, and the Franciscans, who were not exactly friendly to the Jews. Page 4 Rabbi Dr. Kenneth A. Emert KAE9999@aol.com April 2013 Cantor’s Message From the Cantor’s Desk... THE SUNSHINE STATE A few weeks ago, I had the pleasure of spending close to a week in Florida. Carol and I stayed at my mother-in-law’s home in Boca Raton. The weather was mostly warm and comfortable, except for the end of the week when it rained incessantly for two days, typical South Florida weather. We were so busy catching up with old friends that we never even had the opportunity to just relax at the pool. That is the hazard of going to South Florida. However, this trip stimulated some things to think about. Many friends have recently, and not so recently, moved to Florida, and we are finding out that many others are presently contemplating a southern move. Gone are the hassles with snow, cold, and with potholes. The price of housing is more reasonable, roads are easier to navigate than in the Northeast, and clothing remains on the light side for most of the year. A younger population is moving into certain areas, and there seems to be growth in culture. While the Jewish population is still older than back home, there are some positive changes taking place, and there are certainly more people that we know down there whether “snowbirds” or otherwise. We had the opportunity to connect with the Javers and Eva Kleeman, and even some childhood friends. So, is there cultural life in Florida? Is there Jewish life? Florida has always had a cultural life that mostly catered to the elderly. Each community center in every housing development has a plethora of performances and events throughout the year, and everyone raves about the quality. The major venues feature top contemporary singers and bands. Any place that features Eric Clapton can’t be all bad. What is happening now is that people of our generation are approaching the age: the older generation. What seems to have turned us off twenty or thirty years ago, is now geared towards us. There are hip downtown areas in West Palm Beach and Delray Beach. There is avant-garde theatre. Culture is finally coming to South Florida. Many of our member families from the Beth Rishon founding generation claim they have found paradise. Whenever I go to Florida, I sample some of the congregations to see what they are like, and check if there is something I can bring back to Beth Rishon. Two years ago, I went to a rock Shabbat evening service at a reform congregation in Boca Raton. While the female cantor was dynamic with three choirs and a full rock band, the congregation was elderly and had a problem relating to the music and participating. This time, I attended Shabbat evening and morning services at a conservative congregation in Delray Beach. The sanctuary was packed. There was an outstanding scholar-in-residence who spoke at both services. The cantor kept the service quite traditional, and the elderly crowd participated with him. It was inspiring, but this congregation has no young families. I spoke with the cantor. He has zero Bar Mitzvahs per year. He teaches some adult education early in the day. The adult choir meets on Thursday morning. They meet during the morning, unheard of in Wyckoff. He is done with most of his responsibilities by the early afternoon. He is quite content with the lifestyle and the quality of life this offers him. There is a growing community of retired cantors from the Northeast who have found some part time work to keep them busy and active. Is this a valid Jewish community? Here is a Jewish community that comes together for religious services as well as social and cultural events. Yet, there is no future, since the young families with children are missing. What is so awesome about Beth Rishon is the intermingling of generations. We have members whose children are members, and their grandchildren are part of our Religious School. That is what I always thought makes for a vibrant Jewish community, because there is a future. It also makes it more difficult to cater religious services and cultural programs to such a diverse group. It is much easier to program for a homogenous age group like the one in Delray Beach. So, is there a valid cultural and Jewish life in Florida? I don’t necessarily have the answer for myself, but I can certainly see the other side. I am getting there myself. BeShira (In Song), Page 5 Cantor Ilan Mamber, cantor@bethrishon.org April 2013 Building Project The congregation has approved moving forward with the renovation of our Education Wing Project. The excitement over the modernization of our building can be heard in every conversation and meeting that’s taken place at TBR over the last month. IMPORTANT INFORMATION ABOUT THE EDUCATION WING PROJECT WHO IS RESPONSIBLE FOR THE PROJECT? WHY DO WE NEED IT? In order to meet the needs of all members of our community not only with our programs but with our facility as well. Our aging facility is currently the oldest of our major competitors. We lack many amenities and technological advances that will catapult our programs into the future. WHAT IS CHANGING? We all are! This is a $2.25 million community effort that can only succeed with the financial support of all of our members. But on a day-to-day basis, an Education Wing Committee headed by Laura Freeman is responsible for moving the project along. We have hired the architectural firm Studio 5 Partnership who worked with us when we built our beautiful lobby and sanctuary. We are undergoing a complete internal renovation of our education space to create a building that provides the WHEN WE ARE DONE… best learning opportunities for all of our congregants—of Our building will offer: any age. When complete, it will be a modern functioning •Larger classrooms with sinks and other widely space with an aesthetic that matches the beauty of the accepted amenities including attached bathrooms to front of our building. better accommodate our preschoolers. WHEN IS THIS HAPPENING? NOW! And with everyone’s help and support, the project should proceed swiftly and be completed in a relatively short timeframe. With 50% of the money necessary to break ground already pledged, we are hopeful that the schedule will be: Late Spring 2013, pack up and move out Summer 2013, complete a major portion of the work Late Fall 2013, move back in WHERE WILL OUR CLASSES BE HELD? During the effected months, our preschool and Hebrew school classes will be held at the Bergen Christian Testimony Church just across from us on Russell Avenue. We have toured their spacious facility and will have a tremendous area to conduct our classes. The Church has been incredibly welcoming and we are lucky to have them as our neighbors. •New room design, lighting, furniture and layouts to create learning spaces that will better stimulate our Hebrew school students. •A technology overhaul that will include smartboards, computers in the classrooms, and wiring throughout the building that will enable us to enter the new millennium and move into the future. •A security system that will work to ensure our safety while enjoying the facilities. •An upper level in the current Blau Chapel with additional learning spaces for adult education and gatherings, as well as a place for teens to meet. and much, much more! We welcome any questions you may have, and we would love to have as many community members as possible participate on the committee. Please feel free to contact us via Laura Freeman at ljfassoc@aol.com. Page 6 April 2013 Building Project Laura Freeman, Chairperson Robert Cahn Lou D’Avanzo Steven Dressler David Edelson Rabbi Ken Emert Ken Esterow Michael Frenkel Diane Gess Elena Greene Rob Grossman Scott Kahn Arthur Kramer Eric Levy Mark Neiderman David Opper Mel Opper Jeffrey Polevoy Howard Schoenfeld Jon Taubin Lee Tesser Alan Yacavone Lydia Zakim Jack Zakim Ian Zimmerman We are collecting cardboard boxes for packing up the school. Boxes should be small enough for one person to carry. We also need packing material – tape, filler, etc. Any donations are greatly appreciated. Contact the temple office at 201-891-4466. Page 7 April 2013 Adult Education SPRING 2013 RABBI EMERT’S ADULT EDUCATION ROUNDTABLE Does Everything Happen For a Reason? The Book of Job Through the Eyes of Rabbi Harold Kushner One of the statements I often hear after a tragedy is that things happen for a reason. For some, that answer is comforting, yet for others, it leaves them cold and spiritually bereft. “The story of Job is one of unjust things happening to a good man. Yet after losing everything, Job - though confused, angry, and questioning God - refuses to reject his faith, although he challenges some central aspects of it.” Rabbi Harold Kushner, in his new book, The Book of Job: When Bad Things Happened to a Good Person, examines some of the questions which people have been asking for centuries: 1) What kind of God permits such bad things to happen to good people? 2) Why does God test loyal followers? 3) Can a truly good God be all-powerful? We will examine the book of Job through the eyes of Rabbi Harold Kushner, asking our own questions as well as exploring some of the traditional questions which this powerful book presents. Tuesday evenings from 7:00 - 8:00 pm Tuesday, April 2nd and Tuesday, April 9th Come and Learn! Page 8 April 2013 Adult Education Visit the “Adult Education” tab at www.bethrishon.org for more information about these programs. Reader’s Circle Book Club: Come Read with Us! 13 5th Annual Food for Thought Due to Passover we will not meet in April. A DISTINGUISHED SPEAKER SERIES May 2: Jerusalem Maiden Talia Carner The poignant, colorful and unforgettable story of a young woman in early 20th-century Jerusalem who must choose between her faith and her passion. TBR’s Distinguished Speaker Series Please consider joining us as we read together and share ideas, impressions, and anecdotes. Rabbi Eli Kaunfer Save the Date! Sunday, May 5, 2013 Co-Founder, Dean and Executive Director of Mechon Hadar, New York, New York We meet the first Thursday of each month at 7:30 pm. You will be very glad you did! “How Can I Pray What I Don’t Believe?” For more information, contact Diane Gess: gessagain16@aol.com or 845-357-5366. Progam: Sunday Breakfast Buffet served at 9:45 AM Presentation followed by Q & A at 10:30 AM Cost to Members: $15, Cost to Non-Members: $20 RSVP: Temple Office (201) 891-4466 Adult Bar/Bat Mitzvah Program at TBR We Welcome Patron Sponsorship: Please contact Sharon Rubin at shar6on@aol.com, for details For more information, contact Cantor Ilan Mamber at: cantor@bethrishon.orgor call 201-891-4669. Nosh & Drash with Rabbi Olshansky Bible, bagels, coffee and commentary... DateParsha Topic April 6 April 20 May 4 May 18 20 12 20 Shemini Kedoshim Behar-Behukotai Naso Defined by What We Eat? How to Lead a Holy Life Consecration and Redemption Suspicion of Adultery Every other Saturday at 9:00 am, we will explore the Torah portion together to build familiarity with our sacred text and to get acquainted with some of its most provocative commentators, ancient and modern. Page 9 Attn: Members Please help us find missing siddurim... The sanctuary is missing many siddurim. Please check at home to see if there are any extras that have been taken by mistake. If found, please return them immediately. Thank you! April 2013 Adult Education Sunday, April 21, 2013 2:00pm performance Group ticket price: $30 per ticket Based on Manger’s radical retelling of The Book of Esther, returns to the stage in a stellar newly adapted modern production loaded with thrills, action and laughter, fancies of delight for all ages rolled up in a compelling story you may know, but have never experienced like this! THE NATIONAL YIDDISH THEATRE FOLKSBIENE Music by Dov Seltzer Book and lyrics by Shmuel Bunim, Haim Hefer, Itzik Manger, Dov Seltzer Directed by Motl Didner Musical Direction by Zalmen Mlotek Baruch Performing Arts Center 55 Lexington Ave, New York, NY For reservations contact Cantor Ilan Mamber cantor@bethrishon.org or call 201-891-4669 Temple Beth Rishon 585 Russell Avenue Wyckoff, NJ 07481 201-891-4466 Page 10 April 2013 Adult Education Visit the “Adult Education” tab at www.bethrishon.org for more information about these programs. 2 1 20 20 13 5th Annual Food for Thought A DISTINGUISHED SPEAKER SERIES TBR’s Distinguished Speaker Series Sunday, March 10th Prof. Richard Freund presented to more than 60 attendees. Our thanks to the adult education committee: Rabbi Emert, Rabbi Olshansky, Ruth Friedland, Sharon Glassman, Maddy Lakritz, Bruce Leeb, Sharon Rubin, Phyllis Schreier and their helpers, Noel Friedland, David Rubin, Karen Sackstein, Harold Schreier, for a fun and provocative morning of breakfast and learning. We are indebted to our professional staff, Kris, Lisa, Nancy, Victor, and Dennis, for all their efforts on behalf of our programs. Thank you Bob Glassman for being our resident photographer. We appreciate the support from the Fred Emert Adult Education Fund and the many patrons and sponsors who enable us to be a community of life long learners. Page 11 April 2013 Special Services Visit the “Observance” tab at www.bethrishon.org for more information about these programs. Celebrate Israel Shabbat Israel’s 65th Anniversary Friday, April 19 at 8:00 pm Alternative Shabbat Service Saturday, April 13 at 10:00 AM Celebrate Israel’s 65th Anniversary at Temple Beth Rishon. See flyer on the next page. Youth Group Family Service Friday, May 3 at 6:00 PM Services will be led by Rabbi Ziona Zelazo. Please come experience this unique, contempletive prayer service. The next service will be held on May 18th. Come join us for a congregational dinner and family friendly Shabbat worship service led by the TBR youth group. For more information, contact Louis Milowsky at milo613@aol.com. Volunteer REcognition Shabbat Service Friday, May 10 at 8:00 pm Join us in acknowledging all the volunteers that make TBR run so smoothly; with Kol Rishon and Zemer Rishon. Join Us for SHavuot Confirmation Service: May 14 at 7:30 pm Shavuot Services & Luncheon: May 15 10:30 am Services & Yizkor 12:00 pm Luncheon 7:00 pm Yizkor Page 12 Save the DAte Friday, May 17 at 8:00 pm Worship with us as we mark Cantor Faryn Kates’ ordination from Hebrew Union College. April 2013 Special Services CELEBRATE ISRAEL SHABBAT SERVICE Friday evening, April 19 at 8:00 pm Join us for a music-filled “Celebrate Israel” Shabbat service featuring choral pieces and folk songs in honor of Yom Ha’Atzma’ut (Israeli Independence Day) and the State of Israel’s 65th anniversary. Participants in the service include Kol Rishon, the Temple’s adult choir Zemer Rishon, the Temple’s teen choir Cantor Ilan Mamber, Cantor Jenna Daniels, soloist Jo-Ann Skiena Garey; The Rishon Trio Itay Goren on piano; Jimmy Cohen on percussion; and Sylvia Rubin on violin. Refreshments will follow the service For more information, please call the office: 201-891-4466 Temple Beth Rishon 585 Russell Avenue Wyckoff, NJ 07481 Page 13 April 2013 Preschool News Visit the “Youth Education” tab at www.bethrishon.org for more information about these programs and to view additional preschool photos. Andrew Friedland Preschool News Temple Beth Rishon is about to embark on an exciting reconstruction of its education wing. The reconfigured space will bring essentials for a strong early childhood program – some, like bathrooms in the classrooms and running water in the rooms are basics, while others, like smartboards, will add to the quality of our programming. For almost thirty years the Jewish Federation of Northern New Jersey has provided the Bergen County Jewish Early Childhood educators with professional developmental workshops and opportunities to meet other professionals in the area. The learning and camaraderie made for wonderful days of growing professionally. Together we have learned and bonded as only Early Childhood people can! This year, due to financial constraints, Federation found it necessary to put this conference on hiatus. Twelve area directors, believing that their teachers deserved the finest quality of in-service education, decided to step up to the plate and implement a conference on our own. And so, this year’s “first” Jewish Early Childhood Cooperative Conference, entitled, Communication in Today’s Changing World, was held on March 4th at Temple Emeth in Teaneck. As proactive, strong women, the directors worked collaboratively, solving problems, choosing speakers, writing workshop descriptions and presenter bios, registering staff, stuffing folders, proving that “Together We’re Better”, and ensuring a worthwhile conference with the highest quality workshop leaders for the over 200 attendees. Psychologist Jeff Segal, gave the keynote address, Technology and the Developing Brain. He taught us that the tiny fingers on very young children often make manipulating a mouse or operating a video console difficult, but the tablet touchscreen of an iPad brings technology to the early childhood classroom. While children need real-life experiences to truly benefit from the technologies available to us, these technologies will enhance the children’s experiences while elevating our curriculum. Following the keynote speech each teacher attended two additional workshops with topics ranging from nature to Jewish music to communicating with young children. Of course it is the hope of every Early Childhood Director that the teachers return to their classrooms enthusiastic about their day and now we look to our new state of the art classrooms and implementing our new ideas. B’Shalom, Debby Landesman, Preschool Principal preschool@bethrishon.org Special Preschool Shabbat Friday, April 5 at 6:00 pm Shabbat Family Service Featuring the 3 Year Olds Come join us for a family friendly Shabbat worship service and congregational dinner. Page 14 April 2013 Religious School News Addison M. & Elizabeth Opper Religious School Our Biggest Challenge: Getting Parents Involved Dear Friends, Recently, Behrman House, the leading publisher of Jewish textbooks for the elementary grades and the provider of our new online introductory Hebrew learning software, sent an e-mail to all of the synagogue education directors on its mailing list. The title was: “Your Biggest Challenge: Getting Parents Involved.” The e-mail invited the education directors to participate in a discussion blog on the subject – partly to vent their frustrations and partly to offer suggestions to each other in this important area. In case it isn’t obvious why parents should be involved in the Jewish education of their children, let me share some research to which I was exposed in a course that I audited as a post-graduate student of Gratz College. Researchers determined that at least 1,200 hours of in-school classes and activities are needed to firmly establish a Jewish identity in young people, without home support and reinforcement. In case you haven’t done the math, a student who attends our Religious School from 3rd through 6th grade for 4 hours per week, 27 weeks per year, will have attended 864 hours, assuming no absences for illness, sports, public school programs, etc. If the student completes 7th grade – 2 hours per week – that’s another 54 hours, for a total of 918. An additional hour per week for Rabbi Emert’s prayer class still leaves us short with only 945 hours. This objective analysis doesn’t convey the subjective value of parental involvement or non-involvement. It has been clear to me for many years, as a member and chairman of the Religious School Committee at another synagogue in the 1990’s and as a member of the professional staff at Beth Rishon since 2008, that the children of parents who model Jewish engagement are more likely to develop strong Jewish identities and to remain involved in Jewish life after bar/bat mitzvah. Conversely, the children of parents who are not jewishly engaged for their own sakes are less likely to identify strongly as Jews and less likely to remain engaged or involved in Jewish life. Rabbi Emert, our VP of Education Alyson Cohn, and I have taken steps this year to increase the role of parents in Religious School. Our first effort was a shofar program on the eve of Rosh Hashanah, in which younger students learned how a shofar is made and used, had an opportunity to try blowing a real shofar and left with a replica shofar that they used on Rosh Hashanah. Many parents attended this program as well as an associated shofar-making program for older students and found the experiences meaningful. Moreover, parents showed their children that something that was taking place in the synagogue was important enough for them to take the time to be there. Another successful program this year was our annual Torahmaking demonstration for Gimel (5th grade) students, which we moved from a Thursday afternoon to a Sunday morning, so parents could attend. Parents were engaged as well as educated by Rabbi Stephen Schneid, a certified sofer (Torah scribe) who has come to TBR for many years. Again, parents showed their children that a Jewish educational activity was important. Many parents attended a Shabbat dinner that began our offsite Hey (7th grade) retreat. We also had good parent turnout for two “legacy” TBR programs: our Dalet (6th grade) bar/bat mitzvah orientation and our Hey (7th grade) Tefilin (phylacteries) workshop. Not all of our efforts in the area of parent engagement have been as successful as these five. While a number of parents bought and prepared food and helped to set up our model Passover Seders in March, few other parents attended. Also, Alyson had ambitiously proposed to hold an Israeli culture day, as part of our overall educational theme “Getting to Know Israel,” but had to cancel it for lack of parent volunteers. One more occasion for parent participation is coming up: Mitzvah Day, during Religious School hours, on Sunday, April 28. This year Mitzvah Day will benefit Holocaust Survivor Services, a Jewish Family Service program for elderly survivors in our community. There will be a walk that parents and students can do together. See p. 18 for additional information. We hope many parents and children will participate. Rabbi Sanford (Sandy) Olshansky Rabbi/Educator, Director of Life Long Learning hebrew_school@bethrishon.org Office: 201-891-4466 x207 Mobile: 914-400-8839 Page 15 April 2013 B’nei Mitzvah Meet Our Upcoming B’nei Mitzvah Alison ERani: My name is Ali Erani, and I will become a Bat Miztvah on April 6th. I am in 7th grade at Glen Rock Middle School. I have two sisters named Carly and Dani. My hobbies include ballet, writing, reading, drawing, and playing word games. During the summer, I attend 5 week intense ballet camps, which are generally affiliated with different dance companies. For my Mitzvah project, I donated money to Oasis for a program called “Lunches with Love”, which provides meals for women and children who are in need. I would like to thank Cantor Mamber and Judy Ackerman, Rabbi Emert as well as Rabbi Olshansky, Cantor Jenna, and my parents for helping me make my Bat Mitzvah the best it can be. AlLison denenberg: Allie Denenberg will be called to the Torah as a Bat Mitzvah on April 13th. She feels lucky to be able to share the bima with a really good friend: Kelly Yadoff. Allie appreciates all the support she received to prepare for this day; she would like to thank Judy Ackerman, Cantor Mamber, Rabbi Emert, Rabbi Olshansky, Jenna Daniels, and her family. Allie loves 7th grade at Glen Rock Middle School. She plays basketball, soccer and lacrosse on many teams. One of the best parts of playing on different teams is making so many friends. Allie is looking forward to celebrating with her parents, Debbie and David, her sister Jaime, her grandparents, and all of her family and friends. Kelly Yadoff: My name is Kelly Yadoff and I will become a bat mitzvah on April 13th. I am 12 yrs old, and am a 7th grader at Eisenhower Middle School in Wyckoff. I live with my parents, Susan and Andy and my older sister Jamie. If my parents allowed it, I would spend every minute of my day playing soccer and lacrosse and hanging out with my friends. During the summer I attend both Ramapo Country Day Camp playing in the sports league, and Camp Kenwood sleep away camp. I would like to thank Rabbi Emert, Cantor Mamber, Rabbi Olshansky, Cantor Jenna, Judy Ackerman and all my teachers over the many years for their support and for preparing me for this special day. Andrew Mester: My name is Andrew Mester, and I will be called to the Torah as a Bar Mitzvah on April 20th. I am in 7th grade, and I attend Gerrard Berman Day School in Oakland. I have one brother, named Joshua, who is 8 years old. I also have a dog, named Amber. I live in West Milford. I like to play music, draw, play video games, and hang out with friends. I love my family very much, and thank my parents for supporting me in everything I do. For my Bar Mitzvah project, I performed a show with the School of Rock in Wayne, to raise money for Camp Sunshine. I would like to thank everyone that donated to, and supported Camp Sunshine. I would also like to thank Judy Ackerman, Cantor Mamber, Rabbi Olshansky, Rabbi Emert, Cantor Jenna, and all my tutors for preparing me for my Bar Mitzvah. Continued on next page. Page 16 April 2013 B’nei Mitzvah Visit the “Youth Education” tab at www.bethrishon.org for more information about these programs. B’nei Mitzvah continued from previous page. Rebecca Frenkel: Hello, my name is Rebecca Frenkel, and I will become a Bat Mitzvah on April 27th. I am a 7th grader at Eisenhower Middle School in Wyckoff. I have two brothers, Daniel and Jonah, and live with them and my parents, Stacey and Michael, in Wyckoff. My interests include reading, writing, playing violin and piano, and karate. During the summer, I attend Camp Timber Tops, in Greeley, PA. I also love to bake, and as a Bat Mitzvah project I have combined my passion for baking with giving back to the community, by creating “Baking for a Cause.” So far, I have baked dozens of batches of chocolate chip cookies, brownies and other treats, and have raised close to $500 for charities in the area, including JNF, JDRF, and Hurricane Sandy Relief. I would also like to thank Cantor Mamber, Rabbi Emert, Rabbi Olshansky and Judy Ackerman for helping me prepare for this important and happy day. Austin HOlder: My name is Austin Holder and I will be called to the Torah as a Bar Mitzvah on April 27th. I am a 7th grade student at Franklin Avenue Middle School in Franklin Lakes. My favorite subject in school is Social Studies. My hobbies include basketball, lacrosse, skiing, sailing and hanging out with friends. During the summer, I attend Camp Towanda. For my mitzvah project, I became a volunteer with the Friendship Circle of New Jersey. This organization extends a helping hand to families who have children with autism and other special needs. I volunteer on weekends and participate in social activities with these families. It is a nice way of giving back. I would like to sincerely thank Rabbi Emert, Cantor Mamber, Rabbi Olshansky, and Judy Ackerman for all their help, support and patience preparing me for this great day. I look forward to sharing this special day with my parents, Kerry and Andrew and my sister, Meaghann. I am happy to share this simcha with Rebecca Frenkel and her family. Attention All 9th-12th Graders... Attention All 9th-12th Graders... Experience BBYO! Find out about a fun and exciting high school youth group BBYO (B’nai Brith Youth Organization) Meetings held twice a month on Sunday evenings at 7:00 p.m. at TBR ➤ Attend Bergen County events and state wide conventions and activities ➤ Open to all area Jewish teens, so bring your friends! For more information, contact: Laura Freeman at ljfassoc@aol.com Page 17 April 2013 Youth Group News Visit the “TBR Youth Group” tab at www.bethrishon.org for more photos and program information. From the Youth Director... “If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, you are a leader.” Blooming flowers, spring coats, and the sounds of many kids playing outside is a beautiful sight. The youth group has been involved in many wonderful activities including candy sushi making and visits from Roni, our Shaliach. One of our annual highlights, the Chocolate Seder, was featured in the Spring edition of L’Chaim magazine. We were interviewed about our amazing Chocolate Seders and how wonderful, fun and different they are compared to others in the area. Stop by and I will be happy to give you a copy of the article. This year’s Seder was bursting at the seams with kids and laughter. Everyone had treats galore and the youth group enjoyed another successful Chocolate Seder to kick off Pesach! A big thank you to the parents for their generous Seder donations and to our favorite dentist, Dr. Michael Goldberg, for the toothbrushes. I would also like to send a special thanks to Kris Len in the main office who made 50 chocolate lollypop “shank bones” for our Seder plates. They looked and tasted delicious! Believe it or not, Youth Group is quickly coming to a close in May, so we will TRY to go outside if we can to do some events. Please try to wear sneakers with laces just in case. Save the date for May 3rd, Youth Group’s very own Shabbat. The youth group will lead the service and dinner will be served. I highly encourage the whole family to join in this special evening. Please keep a look out for more information on this and many other wonderful events. As a synagogue, we should be proud to have such a strong youth group where the participants enjoy learning, socializing, and getting to know one another. We are blessed to have a program that is so strong. Let’s always keep that in our hearts. L’hitraot, April Chai-Lights Jana Schwartz, Youth Director youth_director@bethrishon.org Making Mezuzahs April 2............................................................. Club 34 April 18........................................................... Club 56 April 23........................................................... Club 34 Youth Group Has A Tribute Card Fund Thank you for your ongoing support. Mezuzah making from Kehilah time with the fourth graders. Page 18 April 2013 Youth Group News TBR Youth Group Chocolate Seders 2013 Page 19 April 2013 TBR CongreGational Trip The Museum of Jewish Heritage, New York City Tuesday, April 30th Join your TBR Community for a private guided tour of The Museum of Jewish Heritage / A Living Memorial to the Holocaust. The trip will depart from TBR at 9 am and return at 3 pm. Please RSVP to the temple office. For questions, call Leslie Klyde 201-560-1506 or Anne Zenn 201-848-9322. TBR Gift Shop Your Source for all Gift Giving Occasions: Including.... Mother’s Day, Father’s Day, Graduations, Hostess Gifts and all Bar or Bat Mitzvah needs. Convenient appointment times available. Call Gretta Berman at 201-788-2838. Around the Temple Kol Rishon Adult Choir Kol Rishon has recently returned from its annual concerts and performed successfully for the Cedar Crest Adult Community and the Daughters of Miriam Adult Apartments Community. Open to High School students and adults. Ability to read music and Hebrew are not required. Contact Cantor Mamber cantor@bethrishon.org or 201-8914466 for more information. All are welcome to join. Upcoming Performances Monday, April 15 - 7:00 pm Yom HaAtzmaut Concert at TBR Friday, April 19 - 8:00 pm Celebrate Israel Shabbat Service Friday, May 10 - 7:00 pm Volunteer Recognition Shabbat Service Friday, May 17 - 8:00 pm Celebrating Cantor Faryn Kates’ ordination Zemer Rishon - Teen Choir We invite all 7th through 12th graders to participate. Rehearsals, under the direction of Cantorial intern Jenna Daniels, take place two Sundays a month from 12:30 - 1:30 pm. Contact Cantor Ilan Mamber at cantor@bethrishon.org (201-891-4466) or Cantor Jenna at jrd05c@gmail .com (561-762-9084). There is NO fee for this special program! Upcoming Performances April Food Drive To Social Services of Ridgewood Friday, April 19 - 8:00 pm Celebrate Israel Shabbat Service Friday, May 10 - 7:00 pm Volunteer Recognition Shabbat Service Collection baskets are located in the front lobby. Items must be non-perishable. Please check expiration dates. Find us on FACEBOOK! http://www.facebook.com/pages/ Temple-Beth-Rishon/104961512881018 Thank you for your generosity! Visit the “Our Community” tab at www.bethrishon.org for more information on all TBR clubs and activities. Page 20 April 2013 Around the Temple Mitzvah Day Sunday, April 28th Join us for A TBR Multi-Family Yard Sale The Murray Prawer Memorial Walk & Proceeds to benefit Holocaust Survivor Services, a program of Jewish Family Services of North Jersey Collection Dates: We will be collecting household items, including housewares, furniture, toys and clothes, to sell at the sale. Our success is dependent on your contributions. Friday April 19th 3pm-6pm Sunday April 21st 10am-12pm Friday April 26th 3pm-6pm. Beginning April 12, other dates available by appointment. Email tbrmembership@hotmail.com to set up an alternate drop off date. 8:30am Yard sale opens 9am Walk registration 9:30 am Opening ceremony 10 am Walk 2pm Yard Sale Closes To preregister for the walk or for more information, visit www. bethrishon.org Page 21 April 2013 Around the Temple Mitzvah Day Sunday, April 28 To Benefit Holocaust Support Services, a program of Jewish Family Service of North Jersey Join the TBR community for the Annual Murray Prawer Walk & A TBR Multi-Family Yard Sale Yard Sale Information Drop off your household items, toys, clothing and furniture at TBR on: Friday, April 19: 3-6pm Sunday, April 21: 10-12pm Friday, April 26: 3-6pm Other drop off times available starting April 1 – email tbrmembership@hotmail.com to set up an appointment. Mitzvah Day Itinerary 8:30 am - Yard sale opens 9 am - Register for Murray Prawer Walk 9:30 am - Opening ceremony 10 am - Murray Prawer Walk 2 pm - Yard sale closes Temple Beth Rishon ~ 585 Russell Avenue ~ Wyckoff ~ NJ ~ 07481 ~ 201-891-4466 MURRAY PRAWER WALK REGISTRATION FORM PLEASE RETURN TO THE TEMPLE OFFICE Suggested Minimum Donation: $18 per person/$36 per family 100% of proceeds will be donated to the Holocaust Support Services Program at Jewish Family Service of North Jersey Contributions are tax deductible – checks payable to JFS of North Jersey Name_____________________________________________________ # of participants _______ Address_________________________________________________________________________ Donation amount : o $18 o $36 o$54 o $72 o $90 I am unable to attend. Please accept my donation of $___________ Page 22 o Other $_____ April 2013 Around the Temple A Special Program at Beth Rishon! Yom Ha’atzmaut Israel Independence Day and Yom Hazikaron Day of Remembrance Monday evening, April 15, 2013 at 7:00 p.m. Location: Temple Beth Rishon 585 Russell Ave., Wyckoff Featuring: Cantor Ilan Mamber Cantor Mark Biddelman Cantor David Perper The combined choirs of: Temple Emanuel of the Pascack Valley Temple Beth Rishon, Wyckoff Temple Beth Or, Washington Township Beth Haverim Shir Shalom, Mahwah Refreshments following program. Consider making a tribute to a special event in your life by inscribing it on The Tree of Life in TBR’s beautiful lobby. call Anne Zenn 201.848.9322 Visit the “Our Community” tab at www.bethrishon.org for more information on all TBR clubs and activities. Page 23 April 2013 Around the Temple Passover Goodie Bags Once again before Passover, TBR members visited local nursing homes to share “Passover goodie bags” with the elderly Jewish residents. Many thanks to the following helpers for preparing the bags and distributing them, bringing a bit of joy during this special holiday season. They have performed a wonderful mitzvah and taught our children the importance of doing loving acts of kindness and respecting older members of the Jewish community. Bruce Ackerman Linda Cohen Anna Kasmanoff Caryn Kasmanoff Jon Kline Sally Kline Elaine Moscou Alex Moscou Jason Moscou Carrie Reed Blake Reed Grant Reed Page 24 Nancy Scanlon Amy Tesser Sara Tesser Mitchell Tesser Judy Ackerman, Chairperson April 2013 Around the Temple CHECK OUT THESE TWO LINKS on our Temple website which help with our FUNDRAISING! Each time you make a purchase from Amazon.com or buy a tree in Israel from the Jewish National Fund via our website, the temple receives a percentage towards our fundraising goals. YOU MUST ENTER THESE SITES VIA OUR SITE in order for us to receive the benefit. You may use any of their vendors to make purchases as long as you do it via the Temple website. Both links are located at the bottom of our HOME page. We hope that you will take a moment to discover these links and to explore our Temple website at the same time at www.bethrishon.org . The entire membership, staff and clergy thank you for using this painless way to help our bottom line! Planning an event? Keep Our Catering Facility in Mind! If you are planning a special occasion, consider using our spacious and elegant ballroom for your next simcha. When celebrated in the sanctity of the Temple, weddings, b’nei mitzvot, brit, baby namings, and other life cycle events take on a more spiritual significance. We have a marvelous panel of caterers from which to choose. Contact Laura Freeman at 201-847-9409 or visit the “Facilities and Catering” tab at www.bethrishon.org. Page 25 April 2013 Community Programs Visit the “Jewish Community News” tab at www.bethrishon.org for more information on these programs. 70TH ANNIVERSARY WARSAW GHETTO UPRISING YIZKOR – Remembrance Service for the 6,000,000 JEWISH MARTYRS Sunday, April 7 / 27 Nisan 5773 Jewish Community Center of Paramus East 304 Midland Avenue, Paramus, New Jersey Photo Exhibit 3:00 pm ~ Program 3:30 pm Keynote Speaker: Stuart Rabner Chief Justice, New Jersey Supreme Court For information call your synagogue or Dr. Wallace Greene at 201-873-3263 Jewish Federation OF NORTHERN NEW JERSEY Sponsored by the HOLOCAUST MEMORIAL COMMITTEE of the JEWISH FEDERATION OF NORTHERN NEW JERSEY Page 26 April 2013 Community Programs Visit the “Jewish Community News” tab at www.bethrishon.org for more information on these programs. TEMPLE COMMUNITY NETWORK (TCN) Volunteer and Get Connected! TCN is a professional networking group focused on the job search needs of our community. Everyone is welcome! Our Monday, April 8th meeting (please note: not the usual 4th Monday) will feature Abby Kohut, a.k.a. Absolutely Abby, speaking on “Maximizing Your Positioning With the Social Media Trio: LinkedIn, Facebook & Twitter.” And as always, there will be plenty of open networking time with your colleagues! All around northern New Jersey there are volunteer opportunities you and your family can get involved in that will make a positive difference in our community. Please join us at Barnert Temple (Rt. 208 S. in Franklin Lakes) on: http://www.jfnnj.org/page.aspx?id=140275 To learn more go to: Monday, April 8th • 7:00 - 9:00 pm For more information, contact Bob Roman at broman235@gmail.com. TCN is a joint project of Temple Beth Rishon, Barnert Temple, Beth Haverim Shir Shalom and Temple Beth Or. FREE COMMUNITY EVENT nt eme Announc f o 14 2013-20 Book Selection MEET THE AUTHOR Diane Ackerman Thursday, April 18 7:00 pm with dessert reception to follow RSVP to Nancy Perlman: NancyP@jfnnj.org or 201.820.3904 www.jfnnj.org/onebook taking place at Jewish Community Center of Paramus 304 East Midland Avenue, Paramus ONE BOOK ONE COMMUNITY ONE BOOK, ONE COMMUNITY is sponsored by the Synagogue Leadership Initiative, a project of the Jewish Federation of Northern New Jersey and the Henry and Marilyn Taub Foundation. SYNAGOGUE LEADERSHIP INITIATIVE Jewish Federation OF NORTHERN NEW JERSEY SYNAGOGUE LEADERSHIP INITIATIVE A project in partnership with The Henry and Marilyn Taub Foundation Page 27 April 2013 Community Programs Cantor Jenna Daniels Invites you to... Willkommen, Beinvenue, Welcome! To Cafe Shirah Presented by: The Cantorial School Student Organization Location: The Jewish Theological Seminary Time: Thursday April 11, 2013 at 8pm Featuring: THe H.L. Miller Cantorial School students and faculty Snacks and drinks provided! Honoring Cantor Nancy Abramson for her tireless work and dedication as the new director of the H.L. Miller Cantorial School RSVP to studentlife@jtsa.edu Photo I.D. Required for entry to jts Page 28 April 2013 Community Programs Page 29 April 2013 Tribute Cards Tribute Cards The congregation gratefully acknowledges the following contributions: Addison M. and Elizabeth Opper Hebrew School Fund The Grossberg Family to Michele Seligman in memory of your beloved husband. Andrew Friedland Preschool Fund The following donations were made to Cheryl Fischer in memory of her beloved mother: Phyllis & Harold Schreier Sue & Sid Federbusch The following donations were made to Michele Seligman in memory of her beloved husband: Reva Lifshey The Board of Directors of 3001 Portofina Isle Doris Brown Channa Mamber Memorial Music Fund Jeff, Dana & Ethan Berkowitz to Scott Fergang in memory of your beloved father. Carol & Jeff Ziegelheim in honor of Jamie becoming a Bat Mitzvah. Mary & Elliott Banen in honor of Margot & Simone becoming a B’not Mitzvah. Liz Cole & David Kahn in honor of Lydia becoming a Bat Mitzvah. Pam & Scott Krim in honor of Jillian becoming a Bat Mitzvah. The following donations were made to Gale Bindelglass in memory of her beloved mother: Sara & Hiam Tobias Diane & Marvin Gess Marge & Barry Ginsberg to Judy Singer in memory of your beloved father. Youth Group Fund General Fund The Lebov Family to Jana Schwartz in honor of the Youth Group. Rachelle & Jeff Pogrow to Robin Koval in honor of your Adult Bat Mitzvah. Youth Wing Fund Karen & Herb Maier to Cheryl Fischer in memory of your beloved mother. Diane & Marvin Gess to Michael & Stacey Frenkel in honor of Rebecca’s Bat Mitzvah. Gretta & Marshall Berman to Fred Newman in memory of your beloved mother. Cantor Discretionary Fund Sara Fishgof made a generous donation to this fund Jewish Council of Cedar Crest to Cantor Mamber in appreciation for the loan of the Torah scroll. Ruth & Len Stern made the following donations: Gale Bindelglass in memory of your beloved mother. Scott Fergang in memory of your beloved father. Howard & Marlene Goldberg to Estelle Needleman in memory of your beloved sister, Natalie Finkelstein. Scott Fergang & Barbra Lieberstein to Cantor Mamber in appreciation for his assistance at the funeral of Larry Fergang. Michael & Suzanne DiPiazza to Cantor Mamber in honor of their new baby, Alexander Blake. Caring Committee Fund The following donations were made to Judy Singer in memory of her beloved father: Lydia & Jack Zakim Heidi & Michael Katz Fred & Judy Steinberg to Michele Seligman in memory of your beloved husband. Rabbi Discretionary Fund Judy Goodwin & Bruce Platt to Judy Singer in memory of your beloved father. Sally & Joel Harrison to Michele Seligman in memory of your beloved husband. Lore Krug to Dave & Amy Cooper in honor of Gabe becoming a Bar Mitzvah. Ritual Fund The following donations were made to Cheryl Fischer in memory of her beloved mother: Ellen & Alan Zalkowitz Nancy & Arthur Kramer The following donations were made to Judy Singer in memory of her beloved father: Nancy & Arthur Kramer Barbara & Peter Norden The following donations were made to Michele Seligman in memory of her beloved husband: Eileen & Max Jarosky Marcia & Barry Bloomfield Sari Fromberg & Karl Eymold Vivian & Barry Newman Barbara Gerver Warshaw Ellen & Alan Zalkowitz Nancy & Arthur Kramer Karen, Marc & Sam Sackstein to Gladys Schnitzer in memory of Jerrold. Barbara, Ira & Howie Gerver to Mr. & Mrs. David Seligman in memory of your beloved brother, Morton Seligman. The Ritual Committee made donations to the following people: Marcia & Barry Bloomfield to Bea Kandell in memory of your beloved mother. TBR Tribute Cards Grey Card............................................donation of $10.00 Silver Card..........................................donation of $18.00 Gold Card...........................................donation of $36.00 and over Machzor Chadash............................donation of $36.00 per book All donations will be published in the newsletter and your donation will be applied to the TBR fund of your choice. Available through the Temple office at (201) 891-4466. Page 30 April 2013 Yahrzeits April Yahrzeits 1 June Sonson Madelon Rand Evelyn Kornberg Gittell 16 Max Gess Lillian Solomon Dorothy Schultz 2 Ethel Schwartz Philip Gerver Joseph Asch Betty Spechler 17 Henry Pflaum 3 Anna Eagle Elizabeth Warren Dorothy Jankowitz Mollie Lamster 4 Henry Koch Lillian Wertlieb 5 Gertrude Slater 7 Ethel “Rusty” Eiseman Robert M. Ross Maurice Feldman Ida Friedland 8 Laura Goldberg Ethel Taub Robin Shlien 9 Susan Niederman Evelyn Reinstein David Goodman 10 Ronald Zarnet Jane Rosenfeld Arthur D. Reinkraut, M.D. 11 Neil Auerbach 12 Diana Sorkenn Henry Dominik 13 Sarah Emont Benjamin Steinik 14 Ben Singer 15 Norman Kasmanoff Helen Slater Gertrude Singer 19 Jacques Farhi Seymour Schalman Rita Immerman Rose Morris 20 Oscar J. Krieger, M.D. Pauline Dinitz Phillip Phillips 21 Manny Herschthal Misu Solomon Morris H. Stern 22 Sophie G. Rabinowitz 23 David Lederman 24 Perry J. Singer Abram Isaac Wyrobnik 25 Irving Eisenstat Harry Solotaroff Leonard Fox Jack Wertlieb 26 Robert Frater Leo Lieberman Barbara Madoff Raizel Sandler April Yahrzeit Donations In accordance with the Jewish tradition of giving Tzedakah as a tribute of reverence and love to the memory of our departed, the following donations have been made to the Temple Beth Rishon Yahrzeit Fund: Family of:In Memory of: Ruth Newman����������������������������������������������������Isadore Rosen Ruth & Len Stern�����������������������������������������������Ken Stern Herman D. Stern Mel Morris�����������������������������������������������������������Sam Morris Edna Lewitz��������������������������������������������������������Sylvia Schwartz Sidney Gutterman��������������������������������������������Frank Gutterman Marc, Karen & Sam Sackstein�����������������������Arthur Sussman Howard Sackstein Bernard Goldstein��������������������������������������������Gaskel Goldstein Susan Mandel����������������������������������������������������Hyman Freedman Bobbie Breslove������������������������������������������������Pearl Kraus David Mait�����������������������������������������������������������Ruth Freimark Martin M. Diesenhof����������������������������������������Ellen W. Diesenhof Alan Ganzer��������������������������������������������������������Gertrude Ganzer Carolyn Ganzer��������������������������������������������������Miriam Bodner Barry & Marcia Bloomfield�����������������������������Kate Shear Ruth Greenberg������������������������������������������������Sylvia Steinik Toward our Efforts to be a Supportive Community... 27 Anita Lomberg 28 Estelle Herschthal Morey Herzog Nathan Kurz Lily Levine Barbara Shapiro Ida Chasen 29 Jack Bernstein In the event that the Clergy may not have been informed, please contact the Temple Office at 201-891-4466 with the name of any congregant who is ill at home, facing surgery, or in the hospital. 30 Gary Droutman Eta Teig We appreciate it! When a Death in Your Family Occurs, Please Let us Know. When a death in your immediate family occurs, the TBR Community would like to acknowledge your loss and support you in any and all ways possible. Please promptly notify Rabbi Emert at 201-819-5005 or Cantor Mamber at 201-914-2693. In addition, to provide pertinent information that you would like to share, call the Temple Office at 201-891-4466. Even if the service is out of town, we would like to know so that we can offer our condolences. Page 31 April 2013 585 Russell Avenue, Wyckoff, NJ 07481 Tel: (201) 891-4466 • Fax: (201) 891-0508 Education: (201) 891-6074 templeoffice@bethrishon.org • www.bethrishon.org Page 32