Portland Community Resource Guide

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C O M M U N I T Y

R E S O U R C E G U I D E

A ra n s a s & S a n Pa t r i c i o C o u n t i e s

F R E E

Empowering Youth

Connecting Families

Building Futures

In this Issue:

Information on child abuse prevention, children's welfare, Laurel Ridge and other useful resources and tips.

Sponsored by the Universal Child Abuse Prevention efforts of the Texas Dept. of Family and

Protective Services and the Department of Health and Human Services.

Compliments of:

Stress Relievers for Parents

Take a long walk

Listen to music

Call a friend

Watch TV

Sing out loud

Read a book

Lift weights

Bake a cake

Water the plants

Start dancing

Go for a drive

Wash the car

Mow the lawn

Count to 20

Work in the garden

Meditate

Do Yoga

Pray

Laugh out loud

Get a massage

Listen to some jokes

Ride a bike

Color in a coloring book

Make cookies

Walk the dog

Take deep breaths

Do a puzzle

Take a nap

UCAP Funded by DFPS

Crisis Hotline: 800-532-8192

TX Child Abuse Hotline: 800-252-5400

Table of Contents

Stress Relievers for Parents - Article............................................Inside Cover

South Texas Children's Home Ministries ....................................................... 3

Cass Real Estate .......................................................................................... 4

MADD .... Power of Parents - Article ............................................................. 4

Bullying is Serious - Article ...................................................................... 5 & 6

Keeping Your Kids Safe and Connected - Article ................................... 7 & 8

Shweiki Media .............................................................................................. 8

Put Yourself in Your Children's Shoes - Article ............................................. 9

Dealing with Anger - Article ......................................................................... 10

Coastal Bend AIDS Foundation ...................................................................11

Teen Cutting - Article ................................................................................... 12

Helping to Strengthen Texas Families .........................................................13

Connecting With Your Teen - Article .............................................................14

Building Collaborations & Informing Communities - Article ......................... 15

Child Care Checklist - Article ....................................................................... 16

Teen Pressure Stress and Suicide - Article ................................................. 17

Five Ways to Foster Communication with Your Kids.............................................18

SafePlace ................................................................................................... 18

Maximus ......................................................................................................19

Habitat for Humanity ................................................................................... 20

Texas Dept. of Family and Protective Services ...Prevent Injuries - Article .. 21

Healthy Discipline Tips for Parents - Article ................................................ 22

Does The Battle Have To Be So Fierce? - Article ........................................ 23

Dealing With Temper Tantrums - Article ...................................................... 24

Texas Department of State Health Services ................................................ 25

Family Fun .................................................................................................. 26

Helpful Resources ...............................................................................27 & 28

County / City Resources ..................................................................... 29 & 30

Connections Individual and Family Services ................................. Back Cover

Enjoy the Simple Pleasures of Life...

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401 US Hwy 181, Portland, TX 78374

Mothers Against Drunk Driving® has launched a community-based parent program, "Power of Parents, It's Your

Influence®", in partnership with Dr.

Robert Turrisi from Pennsylvania State

University, and sponsored by Nationwide

Insurance. This program is researchbased, and provides parents with a parent handbook that has been shown to significantly reduce underage drinking and associated risks when parents use it to talk with their teens about alcohol.

MADD South Texas’ offices are working together with community partners to mobilize and equip parents with the parent handbook, through 30-minute parent workshops. If you are interested in becoming involved, contact

MADD South Texas, and together reach parents in order to influence teens, especially around strategic events, such as prom, holidays, graduation, homecoming, and spring break. You can give families in your community a potentially life-saving gift: the tools to start the crucial conversations together about alcohol.

To schedule a parent workshop in your area, contact

MADD South Texas at 888-686-6233 or South.TX@madd.org.

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RECENT STATISTICS SHOW THAT:

* 1 out of 4 kids is Bullied. The American Justice Department says that this month

1 out of every 4 kids will be abused by another youth.

* Surveys Show That 77% of students are Bullied mentally, verbally, & physically

* In a recent study, 77% of the students said they had been Bullied.

* 1 out of 5 kids admits to being a Bully, or doing some "Bullying."

* 8% of students miss 1 day of class per month for fear of Bullies.

* 43% fear harassment in the bathroom at school.

* 100,000 students carry a gun to school.

* 282,000 students are physically attacked in secondary schools each month

Information found at bullyhelp.org

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Types of Bullying:

• Verbal bullying (name calling)

• Bullying through social exclusion or

isolation

• Physical bullying (hitting, kicking, shoving)

• Bullying through lies and false rumors

• Having money or other things taken by

students who bully

• Being threatened or being forced to do things

by students who bully

• Racial bullying

• Sexual bullying

• Cyber bullying (via cell phone or internet)

Signs of Being Bullied:

• Not wanting to go/skipping school

• Acting out at school or home

• Depression

• Suicidal thoughts

• Poor grades

• Low self-esteem

• Health problems and having physical

marks like bruises or scratches

• Losing possessions (money, books,

toys)

• Losing interest in activities

previously enjoyed by the child

• Not wanting to play with or be

around classmates

What to do if your child is being bullied:

• Make sure your child knows being

bullied is not his/her fault.

• Focus on your child and listen

carefully to what he/she tells you

about bullying.

• Let your child know that he/she

does not have to face bullying alone.

• Do not tell your child to fight back.

• Expect bullying to stop.

What to do if your child is bullying others:

• Make it clear to your child that you

take bullying seriously and it’s not

okay.

• Develop clear rules within your family

for your child’s behavior. Praise your

child for following the rules and use

non-physical and logical consequences

when rules are broken.

• Spend lots of time with your child and

carefully supervise and monitor his/

her activities.

• Build on your child’s talents by trying

to get him/her involved in positive

activities.

• Work together with your child’s

teacher to send a clear message to your

child that his/her bullying must stop.

According to the Olweus

Bullying Prevention Program:

• Statistics show that 23 percent of

students in grades 4-6 had been bullied

“several times” or more; 20 percent

had bullied others.

• Statistics show that 17 percent of

students in grades 6-10 reported

having been bullied “sometimes” or

more, with 8 percent said they had

been a bully to others “sometimes” or

more.

• Nearly one in five students in an

average classroom experience bullying

in some way.

Bullying Prevention

• Encourage your children to make

friends and provide opportunities for

them to do so.

• Provide opportunities for your child

to be assertive and build self-esteem.

• Tell your child to ignore bullies

because they feed on attention.

• Help your child practice responses

that would discourage teasing.

• Contact the school and speak with

your child’s teachers.

• Explain to your children they have the

right to be safe at school.

• Encourage your children to tell an

adult if someone hurts them.

• If you think your child is a bully, stop

the behavior and try to understand

why he/she is acting out.

• Make your child aware of the kind of

body language that encourages

bullying.

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Keeping Your Kids Safe and Connected

By Stephanie Hataway, M. A., LPC

Technology marches on; and we, as parents and educators, are often running to catch up with the latest trends in this area. The use of technology offers many ways for students to enrich and extend upon their school studies and interests. There are also endless opportunities for social networking with friends and acquaintances. It’s important to recognize and prepare for the potential pitfalls of technology.

First, there’s good news. A recent study by the Pew Internet and American Life Project found that although families are busier than ever, the flurry of cell phone calls, e-mails, text messages and even Facebook postings can keep families connected and aware of what is going on with each other; and these families generally viewed technology as a positive for their family. The flip side, revealed by the Pew study, is that families with multiple communication devices were less likely to eat dinner together daily and to feel satisfied that they had enough family time. Another study by Case Western Reserve

School of Medicine in Cleveland, showed that when teens “text” excessively (defined as sending more than 120 messages per school day), they may be more likely to engage in risky behaviors such as experimentation with alcohol, drugs, tobacco, and sex.

According to cybersafefamily.com, these are the top ten mistakes that kids make online:

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Sharing private information

Cyber-bullying

Accepting friend requests from strangers

Not using privacy settings on social networks

Allowing location access on a cell phone

Sharing personal videos/pictures

Pretending to be someone else

Sharing accounts or passwords

Not following age restrictions

Believing that they are anonymous

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Many experts recommend that families use a technology contract that outlines do’s and don’ts for on-line behavior and specifies consequences for violating the contract.

Parents can find sample contracts at cybersafefamily.com and safekids.com. According to the parentsedge.com, the number one rule of Internet safety for families is to “get the computer out of the bedroom and into a centralized area like the living room or kitchen."

A central location for the computer helps parents more easily supervise what is going on online.

" Keeping Your Kids Safe and Connected"

Continued

Above all, it is important for families to find balance between technology and their other activities. Kids who are online excessively may be neglecting homework, exercise and other activities. Here are a few technology-free ideas for families:

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Take a walk together

Family reading time

Game night with “old-fashioned” board games

Play in the park

Do volunteer work as a family

Learn something together like a new language

Try a new recipe together

Go to a museum

Learn a sport that the family can play together

Plant a garden

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Put Yourself in Your Children's Shoes

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Do you ever wonder what your child is thinking about you?

“My Mom turned into a monster because

I spilled soda on the sofa.”

“Mom and Dad are drinking again—that means we are going to get it tonight.”

“I can’t let any of my friends come to my house because I am ashamed of how poor we are.”

“All my Mom ever does is yell at me.”

“Why didn’t Mom believe me when I told her that her boyfriend is coming into my bedroom and touching me.”

“Oh, boy! Mom and Dad are gone tonight—we can watch anything we want on TV.”

“Football is fun, but I wish Dad wouldn’t always treat me so bad when we lose.”

“My boyfriend is pressuring me to have sex. I’m confused, and I don’t know who to talk to.”

“Running away seems like my only escape!”

“All I hear is what I do wrong.”

“I think I am pregnant. I am really scared, but cannot tell anyone.”

A Resource Kit for Communities

Dealing With Anger

Everyone gets angry.

Anger is a normal human feeling.

The ways we express our anger may be unhealthy.

Some ways to handle anger without hurting yourself or anyone else are:

Stop take time out to calm down, reflect.

Go for a walk or run. Work off your frustration through exercise.

Get away...go outside, go in another room, give yourself a little time alone.

Turn negative energy into something productive...clean.

house, do yard work, tackle some other job you've been putting off.

Tune out...turn on some music, watch TV, or read a book until you are ready to deal with the problem.

Talk with someone else about your feelings...call a friend or a helpline.

Don't let anger build and build.

If your feelings don't go away, get help. Write your feelings down on paper.

Texas Department of Family and Protective Services

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Client Services:

Funding is provided by DSHS through an Administrative

Agency – Bexar County Housing and Human Services

(BCHHS) for Ryan White-Title II, State Health

Social Services, and Housing Opportunities for Persons with

AIDS (HOPWA) and through the University of Texas, Health

Science Center – San Antonio for Ryan White Title IV services.

Our case management team is a group of caring and knowledgeable professionals who are trained to offer a comprehensive referral program which includes financial assistance with:

• Medications

• Physicians specializing in HIV/AIDS

• Outpatient ambulatory care services

• Insurance co-payments & premiums

• Emergency & long-term rental assistance

• Emergency utility assistance

• Mental health and counseling options

• Substance abuse treatment

• Transportation

• Dental Care

• Emergency food distribution

• Substance Abuse Treatment

Outreach & Prevention Services:

Funding is provided by DSHS and SAMHSA. Outreach/prevention services are designed to integrate HIV and substance abuse services to immediate risk due to substance abuse and unprotected sex. Our outreach/prevention team is trained phlebotomists and offer upto-date testing & counseling in the following services:

• Street Outreach Services

• Pre and Post Test Counseling

• Confidential and Anonymous Testing for

HIV and Syphilis

• Risk Reduction Planning Services

• Referral to other services needed

• Individual, Confidential Counseling

• Risk Behavior Analysis

• Client –Centered Risk Reduction

Planning Services

• Educational Presentations for HIV/AIDS

• FREE Condoms

*Open Monday thru Friday: 9 a.m. - 4 p.m. Testing and/or results are not available on

Fridays.

Education Services:

Funding is provided by DSHS. The mission of Project Turnaround (PT) is to provide prevention services to adolescents who are at risk for substance abuse and participate in other risky behaviors. The program promotes active participation to enhance factors that protect and bolster the resilience of vulnerable youth. The program staff is trained in all areas required by the Texas Department of State Health Service and as Certified

Prevention Specialists.

• The Too Good For Drugs and Violence curriculum are implemented in one hour

sessions over 10 weeks or twice a week for 5 weeks.

• The Strengthening Families curriculum is implemented in two and half hour sessions

once a week for 14 weeks or twice a week for 7 weeks.

• Alternative activities that promote a sense of belonging to peers, family and community.

• Referral services for faculty, students, and parents.

• Distribution of valuable drug prevention information at schools and community events.

• Single topic presentations and public speakers.

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For more information, please visit www.cbaf.org or call 1-800-982-9629. CBAF is located at 400 Mann St., Suite 800, Corpus Christi, TX 78401

TEEN CUTTING

By: Brenda Martinez M.A. LPC Intern - Connections Individual and Family Services, Inc.

Self harm is an act where a teen intentionally harms his/her body, typically with no intention of committing suicide.

A teen's mode of harm varies, cutting through the skin with sharp substances, scratching through beyond the first layer of skin, burning using an eraser or branding with a hot instrument, ripping of skin, or self bruising. The act of self harm is not situated to a specific area of the body; however, injuries are typically found on the hands, wrists, stomach or thighs. It begins in early childhood with banging of the head and picking of skin. Self injury is a maladaptive coping skill; these teens are incapable of expressing intense feelings of frustration, anxiety, or numbness in a healthy way and use this technique to release these undesired feelings. If not treated, self-harming behaviors can continue into adulthood.

There are several different ideas of what contributes to teens using self harm as a coping skill. Teens across the country play cutting games. The earliest written book published about self harm was by Karl Menninger in 1938; however, researching self harm did not become popular until the 1980s. Research has shown teens who exhibit self injurious behaviors have come from abusive families or have been sexually abused. Self injury is also linked to other mental disorders, such as, anxiety disorders, substance abuse, post- traumatic disorder, depression or personality disorders. Some possible signs that you may want to look out for are inappropriate use of long sleeved clothing, unexplainable injuries such as cuts or burns, finding razors, lighters, or sharp objects on the teen.

Assessment and early intervention are important factors in getting teens the help they need. Teaching teens appropriate coping skills is critical in getting teens to stop the cycle of self abuse; they can learn to recognize emotional triggers, regulate and verbalize emotions, and learn different coping strategies. If you are concerned about a loved one, please contact a school counselor or a health professional.

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Helping to Strengthen Texas Families

Child Abuse and Neglect: Protection and Prevention

Child abuse and neglect affect the lives of nearly 50,000 Texas children each year. Childhood should be a time of happiness and security, but for too many children, it is a time of tragedy and suffering. Unfortunately, home is not always the safe place it should be. The Texas Department of

Family and Protective Services encourages you to advocate for children and help us make communities safe for all children.

If You Suspect Child Abuse or Neglect:

DO believe the child—Don’t walk away.

DON’T try to investigate.

DO report reasonable suspicions by calling the 24-hour Abuse Hotline,

1-800-252-5400, or your local law enforcement agency—Don’t walk away.

What is Child Abuse?

There are four major types of child maltreatment:

Neglect, Physical Abuse, Sexual Abuse, and Emotional Abuse.

Neglect is failure to provide for a child’s basic needs.

Suspect Neglect When You See:

• Obvious malnutrition

• Lack of personal cleanliness

• Torn or dirty clothing

• Stealing or begging for food

• Need for glasses, dental care, or other

medical attention

• Frequent tardiness or absence from school

Physical Abuse is physical injury (ranging from minor bruises to severe fractures or death) as a result of punching, beating, shaking, kicking, biting, throwing, stabbing, hitting, burning, choking, or otherwise harming a child. Such injury is considered abuse regardless of whether the caregiver intended to hurt the child.

Suspect Physical Abuse When You See:

 Frequent injuries such as bruises, cuts, black

eyes, or burns without adequate explanations

 Frequent complaints of pain without obvious

injury

 Burns or bruises in unusual patterns that may

indicate the use of an instrument or human

bite; cigarette burns on any part of the body

 Lack of reaction to pain

 Aggressive, disruptive, and destructive

behavior

 Passive, withdrawn, and emotionless behavior

 Fear of going home or seeing parents; injuries

that appear after a child has not been seen for

several days

 Unreasonable clothing that may hide injuries

to arms or legs

Sexual Abuse includes activities by a parent or caregiver such as fondling a child’s genitals, penetration, incest, rape, sodomy, indecent exposure, and commercial exploitation through prostitution or the production of pornographic materials.

Suspect Sexual Abuse When You See:

 Physical signs of sexually transmitted disease

 Evidence of injury to the genital area

 Pregnancy in a young girl

 Difficulty in sitting or walking

 Frequent expressions of sexual activity

between adult and child

 Extreme fear of being alone with adults of a

certain sex

 Sexually suggestive, inappropriate, or

promiscuous behavior

 Knowledge of sexual relations beyond what is

expected for a child’s age

 Sexual victimization of other children

Emotional Abuse is mental or emotional injury that results in an observable and material impairment in a child’s growth, development, or psychological functioning. It includes extreme forms of punishment such as confining a child in a dark closet, habitual scapegoating, belittling, and rejecting treatment for a child.

Suspect Emotional Abuse When You See:

 Over compliance

 Low self-esteem

 Severe depression, anxiety, or aggression

 Difficulty making friends or doing things with other children

 Lagging in physical, emotional, and intellectual development

 Caregiver who belittles child, withholds love, and seems unconcerned about child’s problems

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CONNECTING WITH

YOUR TEEN

What’s Happening

Many teens spend less time with their families than they did as younger children. As they become more independent and learn to think for themselves, relationships with friends become very important. Sometimes it may feel like your teen doesn’t need you anymore. But teens still need their parents’ love, support, and guidance.

What You Can Do

Simple, everyday activities can reinforce the connection between you and your teen. Make room in your schedule for special times when you can, but also take advantage of routine activities to show that you care.

What You Might Be Seeing

Normal teens …

* Crave independence

* Question rules and authority

* Test limits

* Can be impulsive

* Make mature decisions at

times, and childish ones at

others

Tips to keep in mind:

Have family meals.• If it's impossible to do every night, schedule a regular weekly family dinner night that accommodates your child's schedule.

Share “ordinary” time.• Look for everyday opportunities to bond with your teen. Even times spent driving or walking the dog together offer chances for your teen to talk about what's on his or her mind.

Get involved, be involved, and stay involved.• Go to games and practices when you can. Ask about homework and school projects. Look for chances to learn about your teen’s latest hobby.

Be interested. • Make it clear that you care about your teen's ideas, feelings, and experiences. If you listen to what he or she is saying, you'll get a better sense of the guidance and support needed. Get to know your teen’s friends and their parents, too, when possible.

Set clear limits. • Teens still need your guidance, but you can involve your teen in setting rules and consequences. Make sure consequences are related to the behavior, and be consistent in following through. Choose your battles. Try to provide choices in the matters that are less important.

Your words and actions help your teen feel secure. Don’t forget to say and show how much you love your teen!

Strengthening Families and Communities www.childwelfare.gov/preventing

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Building Collaborations &

Informing Communities

The Prevention Resource Center of Region 11 is a program of the

Rio Grande Valley Council, Inc. Region 11 PRC provides support to communities by increasing effectiveness and visibility in the prevention of alcohol, tobacco and other drug use and/or misuse.

Through the dissemination of information and identification of training resources, Region 11 PRC works to build collaborations and inform communities.

To achieve our goals we coordinate with the Texas Department of State Health

Services prevention staff, local media, and providers of substance abuse prevention, intervention, and treatment services within our region.

The Texas Department of State Health Services has established eleven Prevention

Resource Centers in the State of Texas. Region 11 is coordinating its efforts with

TDSHS and other entities focused on providing services related to alcohol, tobacco, and other drugs.

Region 11 serves 19 counties which are Webb, Zapata, Hidalgo, Cameron,

Willacy, Kennedy, Brooks, Jim Hogg, Duval, McMullen, Live Oak, Kleberg,

Nueces, San Patricio, Aransas, Refugio, Bee, Starr, and Jim Wells.

The Prevention Resource Center provides support and information to:

• Professionals, community leaders, and volunteers working in prevention

• School personnel

• Parents

• Youth

• Others interested in receiving information

Region 11 PRC provides support to communities throughout the region by connecting parents, families, professionals, and other community members with resources.

Through the Prevention Resource Center individuals and groups are offered assistance with presentations, workshops, as well as, community and regional projects related to substance abuse prevention.

Prevention materials are also provided free of charge to individuals and groups within Region 11. Request for materials can be made via e-mail, telephone, fax or in person. The main office is located in Pharr with satellite offices in

Brownsville and Corpus Christi.

1-888-772-8399 www.rgvcouncil.org

When searching for a compatible caregiver for your child, leave no stone unturned. Refer to this checklist when visiting child care centers and interviewing other child care providers to help you ask all the right questions about all the critical issues.

Approach

• Treats child with respect

• Gets on the child’s level physically when speaking to her

• Speaks and listens with respect

• Accepts child’s feelings and differences

• Encourages exploration while setting appropriate limits

• Every child with own place for sleeping and storing belongings

• Incorporates families through regular communication

Safety

• Has experience caring for young children

• Keeps all equipment in good condition

• Has supervision as well as education and training

• Removes potential hazards from reach: cleaning supplies, sharp objects, medications, etc.

• Understands and respects different parenting styles, Provides a clean and comfortable environment

• Encourages and models good hygiene — hand washing, etc

Appropriateness

• Provides age-appropriate equipment and activities

• Provides age-appropriate and culturally appropriate toys

• Sets appropriate limits

• Helps children learn how to interact with each other

• Helps children learn how to take care of themselves

Background

• Has training in child development, first aid and CPR

• Has had criminal background check

• Has valid and current child care license

Born LearningSM is a public engagement campaign helping parents, caregivers and communities create early learning opportunities for young children. Designed to support you in your critical role as a child’s first teacher, Born Learning educational materials are made available through the efforts of United Way, United Way Success By 6 and Civitas. For more information, visit us online at www.bornlearning.org.

Dial 2-1-1 for Child Care Information and Referral

Call specialists available in many languages, including Spanish.

Civitas thanks Parents as Teachers, an international early childhood parent education and family support program, for their ongoing support. This Civitas tool was adapted for the Born Learning campaign. © 2006 Civitas PT/E/0506

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TEEN PRESSURE,

STRESS AND SUICIDE

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Teens are under enormous pressure and stress. They are competing in school for good grades, top of their sport, with college applications, job hunting and peer pressure.

Teen suicide is an unfortunate result of all the pressures and stresses. Knowing how to help with teen suicide prevention can save lives because it focuses on helping teens realize that life is too special to commit suicide. Many adults are in denial that teen suicide is a real problem. It is important to acknowledge that teens are at risk for depression, anxiety and other emotional disorders. Adults cannot take the attitude that part of being a teen is feeling pressures and stresses. Some teens will have a difficult time handling the feelings that are bottled up inside of them. Accepting that each teen is different and copes differently to situations will make helping teens easier for everyone.

Many times, there are warning signs that someone is seriously depressed and may be thinking about or planning a suicide attempt. Here are some of them:

• pulling away from friends or family and losing desire to go out

• trouble concentrating or thinking clearly

• changes in eating or sleeping habits

• major changes in appearance (for example, if a normally neat person looks

very sloppy - as if they're not taking the usual care of themselves )

• talk about feeling hopeless or feeling guilty

• talk about suicide

• talk about death

• talk about "going away"

• self-destructive behavior (drinking alcohol, taking drugs, or driving too fast)

• no desire to take part in favorite things or activities

• the giving away of favorite possessions (like offering to give away a favorite

piece of jewelry)

• suddenly very happy and cheerful moods after being depressed or sad for a

long time (this may mean that a person has decided to attempt suicide and

feels relieved to have found a "solution")

Don't Blow Off the Warning Signs of Suicide

Paying attention to and responding to these clues can sometimes save a life and prevent a tragedy. Most of the time, teens who are considering suicide are willing to discuss it if someone asks them out of concern and care. Some people (teens and adults) are reluctant to ask teens if they have been thinking about suicide or hurting themselves for fear that, by asking, they may plant the idea of suicide. This is a myth.

It is always a good thing to ask and to initiate the conversation with someone you think may be considering suicide.

Resource: http://www.surfnetparents.com

http://www.lifescript.com http://www.healthyplace.com

Five Ways to Foster Communication with Your Kids

LISTEN

Listening builds a stronger connection. It is sometimes hard to find the balance between listening and validating our children's feelings versus quickly solving a problem.

SET CLEAR BOUNDARIES

Studies show that parents who communicate their beliefs and expectations regarding high risk activity such as sex and drugs tend to have children who are less likely to engage in high risk behavior.

TALK TO YOUR KIDS

"Talk to your kids ... before someone else does." Parents are assured that children want and need moral guidance from their parents.

SHARE MEALS TOGETHER

The family dinner hour is the traditional family communicating time and studies show that kids who regularly eat meals with their parents are less likely to engage in high-risk behavior such as drug use.

HAVE NON-TV TIME

Try this interesting experiment if the television is practically another member of the family: have an occasional TV-free (or technology free) evening and discuss the results with the kids. (How was tonight different? What did you do that you would not have done if the TV had been on?)

EVERYBODY NEEDS A SAFE PLACE

SafePlace connects youth to immediate help and safety while offering supportive services to both youth and families.

For more information or to become a SafePlace site, please contact Susan DeLano at 830-629-6571 ext. 215 or sdelano@connectionsnonprofit.org

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Texas Health Steps is a preventive health program for Medicaid recipients under age 21. Texas Health Steps outreach staff educate the parents about the preventive health benefits their children have through Medicaid which include periodic medical and dental check-ups, appointment scheduling assistance, transportation assistance, and Case Management services for Children and

Pregnant Women. 1-877-847-8377

The STAR Program is the Texas Medicaid managed care program. Medicaid recipients who live in Aransas, Bee, Calhoun, Jim Wells, Kleberg, Nueces,

Refugio, San Patricio and Victoria Counties must get their health care through the STAR Program . Medicaid recipients get to choose their own health plan

(Amerigroup Health Plan, Superior Health Plan and Driscoll Children’s Health

Plan) and primary care doctor or clinic within the plan. The primary doctor/clinic will provide them with all their health care needs. 1-800-964-2777

The STAR+PLUS Program provides all regular Medicaid health care services and long-term services and supports for people who receive supplemental security income (SSI). For people who also have Medicare health coverage, STAR+PLUS provides only long-term support services and supports. STAR+PLUS services are provided or coordinated by health maintenance organizations called health plans

(Ever Care of Texas and Superior Health Plan). 1-800-964-2777

It is the job of our Outreach staff to educate recipients and community agencies about Texas Health Steps and enroll Medicaid clients in the STAR / STAR+PLUS

Program. If you serve Medicaid recipients, please remember to include us in your community events, health fairs, meetings or presentations.

Martha G. Garcia, MPA

Regional Manager

5402 S. Staples #207

Corpus Christi, TX 78411

361-980-9733

361-980-9742 (fax)

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San Patricio County

For More Information or to apply please call: 361-643-4224 or visit our web site at: www.habitatsanpatricio.org

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TEXAS DEPARTMENT OF FAMILY AND PROTECTIVE SERVICES

To Report Abuse please contact our Hotline

1-800-252-5400 or txabusehotline.org

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COMMISSIONER

Anne Heiligenstein

It's up to you to prevent child abuse and neglect. Take it personally.

Child abuse is a community issue. Every person can help make sure the children of

Texas have a brighter future. And preventing child abuse is up to all of us. Child abuse prevention means stopping child abuse and neglect before it happens. The best strategies to prevent child abuse and neglect are to:

• Support families and provide parents with the skills and resources they need.

• Support providers who are serving families by providing tools and resources.

• Create communities that have supportive services in place and a shared goal of safety and stability for families.

Keeping kids safe

Some Helpful Steps to

Prevent Injuries

Choking

• Keep drapery, blind, electrical, and telephone cords out of reach with wallhooks.

• For children younger than 1 year, avoid foods like hotdogs, hard candies, grapes, raisins, and raw vegetables that can lodge in the child's throat.

• Keep small objects that can be swallowed off floors, tables, and other areas.

• Store cleaning supplies in original containers and use cabinet and drawer latches and locks.

• Secure all prescription and nonprescription medicines and use child resistant bottles.

• Store cosmetics away.

• Check the garage and storage for hazards. Keep all household chemicals in original containers and in a secure area.

• Keep toxic plants out of reach.

• Secure purses carrying cosmetics, medications, and small objects.

Suffocation

• Place infants on their backs to sleep.

• In cribs, avoid soft bedding, pillows, and stuffed animals.

• Keep plastic bags away from children.

• Keep children from playing around parked cars and all appliances.

Most people regard their homes as safe. However, most injuries involving children occur in the child's home. Using common safeguards can reduce the risk of injuries. When checking your home, begin by looking in each room at your child's eye level and reach.

Burns/Fires

• Set hot water heater thermostats to

120º or less.

• Baby's bath water should be nor warmer than 100º.

Additional resources: www.itsuptoyou.org * The National Safety Council (www.nsc.org) * The National Safe Kids Campaign (www.safekids.org)

Healthy Discipline Tips for Parents

By: Brenda Martinez M.A. LPC Intern - Connections Individual and Family Services, Inc.

Setting firm limits and boundaries at home can be challenging at times, but can actually help your family function more smoothly.

We all have different ideas of appropriate discipline. When you apply consistent effort based on respect and fairness, you will find that disciplining is much easier. The yelling, the tantrums and the disobedience can stop. It just takes some simple steps to help children succeed at being cooperative.

Begin using the vocabulary of respect- instead of yelling, ask your child to stop and listen. A child can’t listen when they are crying, yelling, whining, or covering their ears. If they don’t stop right away, give them a minute or ask that they go to their room or a neutral area to calm down. From my experience, a child only hears the first 2 sentences of a yelling parent.

You can excuse yourself- if you are angry and don’t know exactly what to do, excuse yourself and let you child know that you have to calm down and think about the consequence. This helps you calm down and helps you NOT say anything you may regret later. This also allows your child to calm down and gives them the idea that it is OK to take a time out when they’re angry, as modeled by mom/ dad.

Make it consistent- whatever consequence you choose, make sure you stick to your plan and that all the children in the household are held to the same standard. Of course, keep in mind age development, but the idea behind the consequence is fairness and respect. Consequences are more effective when they are closely related to the negative behavior and when they hold meaning for the child. Also, it is important that the time limit of the consequence is long enough for the child to reflect and change their actions but not so long that the child forgets the meaning of the consequence or loses the time or hope to practice and demonstrate the desired behavior.

Children are not growing up the way we did. They are growing up in a time when they know they have rights, that feelings are OK to express, and they have a voice. When you don’t recognize these few realities, you will find an uncooperative child.

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Recognize that your child has a voice and has their own ideas of how things should be. Recognizing doesn’t mean you have to do what they say or always give in, but merely that they have an opinion and you can respect that. You will teach them a much more valuable lesson by respecting them, providing them a moment to appropriately and politely voice their thoughts and teaching them to listen to feedback, and accept the opinions and decisions of yourself and others, than any consequence you can give.

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The Teen Years -

Does The Battle Have To Be So Fierce?

By: Betty Provost, LCSW - Counseling Services Administrator - Connections Individual & Family Services, Inc.

During the years of raising children, it sometimes seems like they will be in charge of our lives forever. The physical dependency of infancy and early childhood – that time when we think we might never get a whole night’s sleep again – gradually alters into a different kind of care taking, School aged children require less and less of our physical care and more emotional and behavioral work. Finally we arrive at those teen years, when they seem to alternate between hanging around the house doing absolutely nothing, and wanting to be out with their friends every possible minute.

Somewhere around 12 or 13 years of age, our ‘little kids’ start to have minds of their own; and to complicate matters, they develop ideas of their own and then –

Attitude! How often have you heard a parent lament, “It’s like overnight someone replaced my sweet child with a rebel!” They have opinions! They know things! And in their eyes, we seem to know less and less!

We blame many of the trials and tribulations of the teen years on a variety of factors

- Peer Pressure, Society, and the Media. Of course, all these things do play a role, but a lot of what is really happening is programmed in, purely developmental, The

Grand Plan. If children don’t become more independent, then the result will be

– you guessed it, they will remain dependent. So their last phase of childhood is set up as a time for learning and practicing, while still in the hopefully safe care of their parents. Their brains are developing the wiring necessary to make decisions.

Unfortunately, their capacity for judgment often lags behind their newly developed ability to form opinions and make choices. Sometimes they make poor decisions, not because they don’t think, but because they still tend to act first. All this is, of course, practice for the not so far off future when they will be on their own. Our job as parents involves guiding them through this stormy time of uncertainty, in spite of their constant cries that they know what to do. We have to maintain the balance of expanding the boundaries so they can test their new found skills, not as fast as they want to, but often faster than we are ready for.

Many find this the most challenging phase of parenting. Sometimes we’re tempted to let them grow up too fast, succumbing to the justification that “everyone is doing this.” Other times, we don’t trust them to go out without the training wheels. But if we can look around the challenges, we might be able to see that this is our time to prepare our children for adulthood. They need to be learning to take care of themselves, and practice often involves learning from mistakes. We can’t shelter them, nor should we berate them (too much) for making poor choices. This doesn’t mean no consequences, but it means appropriate, logical ones. Take the opportunity to grasp the “teachable moment” whenever it arises. This can be as simple as involving them in planning and preparing meals, doing their own laundry, watching you pay bills. In a larger sense, it means using their experiences to explore good or poor decision making. It also means letting them fail. Successful adults are those who can make good decisions based on examining options and anticipating realistic results, and who take responsibility for their actions and learn to do better next time. And isn’t that our goal as parents – raising our children to become successful adults? One other consideration – maybe the point of all this rebellion is so that they, and we, will separate, because if home is too comfortable, they might never leave!

What’s Happening

Two and three-year-olds have many skills, but controlling their tempers is not one of them. Tantrums are common at this age because toddlers are becoming independent and developing their own wants, needs and ideas. However they are not yet able to express their wants and feelings with words. Take comfort in the fact that most children outgrow tantrums by age 4.

What You Might Be Seeing

Normal toddlers:

• Love to say “no!” “mine!” and “do it myself”

• Test rules over and over to see how parents will react

• Are not yet ready to share

• Need lots of fun activities, play time, and opportunities to explore the world

• Respond well to a routine for sleeping and eating (a regular schedule)

• Like to imitate grownups and to “help” mom and dad

What You Can Do

It is often easier to prevent tantrums than to deal with them once they get going. Try these tips:

• Direct your child’s attention to something else. (“WOW, look at that fire engine!”)

• Give your child a choice in small matters. (“Do you want to eat peas or carrots?”)

• Stick to a daily routine that balances fun activities with enough rest and healthy food.

• Anticipate when your child will be disappointed. (“We are going to buy groceries for

dinner. We won’t be buying cookies, but you can help me pick out some fruit for later.”)

• Praise your child when he or she shows self-control and expresses feelings with words.

If you cannot prevent the tantrum, here are some tips for dealing with it:

• Say what you expect from your child and have confidence that your child will behave.

• Remain calm. You are a role model for your child.

• Holding your child during a tantrum may help a younger child feel more secure and calm

down more quickly.

• Take your child to a quiet place where he or she can calm down safely. Speak softly or play

soft music.

• Some children throw tantrums to seek attention. Try ignoring the tantrum, but pay

attention to your child after he or she calms down.

When your child is having a floor-thumping tantrum, the most important thing you can do is remain calm and wait it out. Do not let your child’s behavior cause you to lose control too.

Resist overreacting to tantrums, and try to keep your sense of humor.

Strengthening Families and Communities www.childwelfare.gov/preventing

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Texas Department of State Health Services

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Community Based Program

Preventive Health Education and Outreach

Cadena de madres Prenatal Wellness Project

Information Referrals

Environmental Health

Animal Control

Code Enforcement

Septic Inspections

Food Handlers' Classes

Foster Home inspections

Restaurant Inspections and Consultations

WIC

Nutritional Education for Women, Infants and

Children

Breast-feeding Education and Support

Healthy Food Benefits

Referrals for Health Care Services

Immunization Outreach

Texas Vaccines for Children & Adults

Seasonal and H1N1 Flu Vaccines

IMMTRAC Registry

Family Planning Clinics

Annual Exams

Birth Control

Referral for Free Mammogram & More

Public Health Preparedness

Emergency Preparedness (hurricanes, bioterrorism, other disasters)

Pandemic and Disease Outbreak

Preparedness

Surveillance and Investigation of Infectious

Diseases

Indigent Health Care Program

Inpatient and Outpatient Care

Office Visits

Prescription Assistance

Lab and X-ray

Referrals

For More Info: http://www.dshs.state.tx.us

Alice

408 Flournoy Rd.. Suite C

Alice, TX 78332

361-668-1954

Beeville

1701 N. West Frontage Rd.

Beeville, TX 78102

361-358-2241

Corpus Christi

1233 Agnes St.

Corpus Christi, TX 78401

361-888-7837

George West

301 Houston St.

George West, TX 78022

361-449-2733

Kingsville

1414 S. 14th St.

Kingsville, TX 78363

361-516-0943

McAllen

4501 W. Business Hwy 83

McAllen, TX 78501

956-971-1373

Rockport

2718 Hwy 35 N.

Rockport, TX 78382

361-790-0312

Sinton

313 N. Rachal St.

Sinton, TX 78387

361-364-6208

Other Numbers

Ingleside

361- 776-3591

Mathis

361-547-3328

FAMILY FUN

Art Center of Corpus Christi

100 N. Shoreline Blvd.

Corpus Christi, TX 78401

Phone: 361-884-6406 www.artcentercc.org

Art Museum of South Texas

1902 N. Shoreline Blvd.

Corpus Christi, TX 78401

Phone: 361-825-3500 www.artmuseumofsouthtexas.org

Texas Surf Museum

Water Street Market

309 North Water Street

Corpus Christi, TX 78401

Phone: 361-888-7873 www.texassurfmuseum.com

USS Lexington Museum on the Bay

2914 N. Shoreline

Corpus Christi, TX 78402

Phone: 361-888-4873 www.usslexington.com

Capt. Clark’s Flagship

People’s Street T-Head

Corpus Christi, TX 78401

Phone: 361-884-8306 www.captclarksflagship.com

J.E. Conner Museum

905 W. Santa Gerrudis

Kingsville, TX 78363

Phone: 361-593-2810

Corpus Christi Museum of Science

And History and Ships of

Christopher Columbus

1900 N. Chaparral

Corpus Christi, TX 78401

Phone: 361-826-4467 www.ccmuseum.com

The Depot Train Museum

102 Kleburg Ave.

Kingsville, TX 78363

Phone: 361-592-8516 www.kingsvilletexas.com

South Texas Botanical Gardens

And Nature Center

8545 South Staples

Corpus Christi, TX 78413

Phone: 361-852-2100 www.stxbot.org

King Ranch Museum

405 N. Sixth Street

Kingsville, TX 78363

Phone: 361-595-1881 www.king-ranch.com

Portland Aquatics Center

2002 Billy G. Webb Dr.

Portland, TX 78374

Phone: 361-777-0792 www.portlandtx.com

Horses on the Beach

16562 S. Padre Island Drive

Corpus Christi, TX 78418

Park Rd. 22 South of

Bob Hall Pier

Phone: 361-949-4944 www.horsesonthebeach.com

Portland Skate Park

2004 Billy G. Webb Drive

Portland, TX 78374

Phone: 361-777-3301 www.portlandtx.com

Texas State Aquarium

2710 N. Shoreline Blvd.

Corpus Christi, TX 78402

Phone: 361-881-1200 www.texasstateaquarium.org

Woody's Sport Center

136 W. Cotter Avenue

Port Aransas, TX 78373

361-749-5252 www.woodysonline.com

Natural Bridge Caverns

26495 Natural Bridge Caverns

San Antonio, TX 78266

210-651-6101 www.naturalbridgecaverns.com

Natural Bridge Wildlife Ranch

26515 Natural Bridge Caverns

San Antonio, TX 78266

830-438-7400 www.wildliferanchtexas.com

Texas Maritime Museum –

Rockport

1202 Navigation Circle

Rockport, TX 78382

1-866-729-2469 http://www.texasmaritimemuseum.org/

Fulton Mansion State Historic Site

317 Fulton Beach Road

Rockport, TX 78382

Phone: 361-729-0386 fulton-mansion@thc.state.tx.us

Goose Island State Park

202 S. Palmetto Street

Rockport, TX 78382-7922

361-729-2858

Aquatic and Skate Park

Contact Information

Lindy Madill, Aquatics Manager aqua1@cityofrockport.com

Pool Location:

2001 Stadium Drive

Rockport, TX 78382

361-727-9989

City of Aransas Pass

Aquatics Center

400 E. Johnson

Aransas Pass, Texas 78336

361-758-7770

For more information and other fun family ideas contact the local community Chamber of Commerce offices.

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DRUG & ALCOHOL RESOURCES

Alcoholics Anonymous

11425 Leopard Street

Corpus Christi, TX 78410

361-242-2685

Coastal Bend Alcohol and Drug

Rehabilitation Center

(Charlie’s Place)

5501 IH 37 (@ McBride Lane)

Corpus Christi, TX 78469

361-882-9302

877-267-8110 Toll-free:

361-883-8109 24 HR Help Line

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1702 Highway 181 North, Ste A-11

Portland, TX 78374

361-761-2273

American Red Cross

1721 South Brownlee Boulevard

Corpus Christi, TX 78463

361-887-9991

COUNSELING SERVICES

Connections Individual and

Family Services, Inc.

209 Cedar Dr., Ste. B

Portland, TX 78374

361-643-7631

830-629-6571

1-800-532-8192 24-HR

CRISISHOTLINE

Family Services, Inc.

810 Henderson, Ste. 6-C

Rockport, TX 78382

361-729-4774

1-800-532-8192 24-HR

CRISISHOTLINE

Family Services, Inc.

705 E. San Patricio

Mathis, TX 78368

361-547-9888

1-800-532-8192 24-HR

CRISISHOTLINE

HELPFUL RESOURCES

Coastal Bend Council on Drug and Alcohol Abuse

Substance Abuse Services

1801 S. Alameda Street, Suite 150

Corpus Christi, TX 78404

361- 854-9199

800-364-3976 Hotline

Palmer Drug Abuse Program

3104 South Alameda Street

Corpus Christi, TX 78404-2506

361-887-8900

Recovery Services

907 Antelope Street

Corpus Christi, TX 78401

361-882-9979

EMPLOYMENT TRAINING

ECI Project Ninos - Ben Lane

301 S. San Patricio Street

Sinton, TX 78387

361-364-9131

801 E. Main Street

Rockport, TX 78382

(361) 729-0883

Head Start

602 E. Market Street

Rockport, TX 78382

361-727-0712

1133 E. Sinton Street

Sinton, TX 78387

361-364-0505

361-993-1154 Vocie.TTY

www.deaf-hh.org

Counseling

3833 South Staples

Corpus Christi, Texas 78411

361-852-9665

CRISIS & EMERGENCY

313 North Rachal Avenue, Suite 201

Sinton, TX 78387

361-364-2310

Goodwill Industries

1012 US Highway 181

Portland, TX 78374-1734

361- 643-8446

Grandchildren

2910 Leopard Street

Corpus Christi, TX 78408

361-883-3935

800-817-5743 www.aaacoastalbend.org

3141 Farm to Market Road 3512

Aransas Pass, TX 78336

361-758-6303

The Salvation Army – Portland

205 Seventh Street

Portland, TX 78374

361-777-3355

5510 N. Cage Blvd., Suite C

Pharr, TX 78577

956-787-7111

414 North Alamo Street, Suite B

Refugio, TX 78377

361-526-9211

FAMILY SERVICES

Batterer Intervention &

Prevention Program

361-884-9874 www.thewomensshelter.org

1701 N.W. Frontage Road

Beeville, TX 78104

361-358-5530

800- 358-5534 of the Coastal Bend

615 N. Upper Broadway Street,

Suite 626

Corpus Christi, TX 78401

361-888-8500

Communities In Schools

Rockport-Fulton High School

1801 Omohundro Street

Rockport, TX 78382

361-790-2220

1701 Colorado Avenue

Rockport, TX 78382

361-790-2230

Sinton High School

400 North Pirate Boulevard

Sinton, TX 78387-2799

361-364-6679

123 S. Doughty Street

Rockport, TX 78382

(361) 727-9969

Health Corporation

2874 Hwy. 35 N.

Rockport, TX 78382

361-729-7512

3001 S. San Patricio Street, Suite C

Sinton, TX 78387

361-364-3306

1400 W. Corpus Chirsiti Street,

Suite 4

Beeville, TX 78102

361-358-2974

515 Pat Shutter Street, Suite 121

Robstown, TX 78380

361-387-6996

FOOD RESOURCES

Beeville Vineyard

210 North Monroe Street

Beeville, TX 78102-4430

361-358-7500

826 Krill Street

Corpus Christi, TX 78408-2515

361-887-6291 www.foodbankcc.org

Dept. of Health

313 North Rachal Street

Sinton, TX 78387

361-364-6208

VETERAN'S SERVICES

901 Leopard Street

Corpus Christi, TX 78401

361-888-0820

V620 East Concho Street

Rockport, TX 78382

HOTLINE NUMBERS:

Alcohol/Drug Abuse Hotline

800-832-9623

HELPFUL RESOURCES

TEXAS HEALTH AND HUMAN

SERVICES

Child Care Information Hotline

800-862-5252

Child Find Hotline

800-426-5678

Assault Prevention Center of

South Texas,

Foster Care and Adoption

800-233-3405

Grief Recovery Help line

1-818-907-9600 www.grief-recovery.com

www.grief.net

4401 Dillon Ln., Ste. #28

Corpus Christi, TX

361-857-0878 (last name A – L)

361-855-2451 (last name M - Z)

361-758-7631 (Aransas Pass)

361-358-9790 (Beeville)

361-325-5621 (Falfurrias)

361-449-1823 (George West)

361-592-9351 (Kingsville)

361-547-3216 (Mathis)

361-387-8051 (Robstown)

361-729-5784 (Rockport)

361-279-3301 (San Diego)

Child Protective Services

1115 East Sinton Street

Sinton, TX 78387

361-364-5089

Children Hotline

800-547-4435

Hotline

800-799-7233

Runaway Hotline

888-580-4357

San Patricio County Mental

800-543-5750

Suicide Prevention – Emergency

361-814-8633

Texas Abuse/Neglect Hotline

800-252-5400

4401 Dillon Ln., Ste. #28

Corpus Christi, TX

361-857-0878 (last name A – L)

361-855-2451 (last name M - Z)

361-758-7631 (Aransas Pass)

361-358-9790 (Beeville)

361-325-5621 (Falfurrias)

361-449-1823 (George West)

361-592-9351 (Kingsville)

361-547-3216 (Mathis)

361-387-8051 (Robstown)

361-729-5784 (Rockport)

361-279-3301 (San Diego)

Medicare & Medicaid

Customer Service Center

800-633-4227 www.medicare.gov

208 San Saba Drive

Portland, TX 78374

361-643-8073

877-847-8377

Coastal Plains MHMR

620 E. Concho Street

Rockport, TX 78382

361-727-0988

200 Marriott Drive

Portland, TX 78374

361-777-3991

201 Roots Avenue

Taft, TX 78390

361-528-4516

SHELTERS

Family Services, Inc.

209 Lang Road

Portland, TX 78374

361-643-4130

1-800-532-8192 24-HR

CRISIS HOTLINE

513 Sam Rankin Street

Corpus Christi, TX 78401

361-883-7372

Women’s Shelter of South Texas

813 Buford Street

Corpus Christi, TX 78404

361-881-8888

800-580-4878 www.thewomensshelter.org

Social Security Administration

3801 S. Port Avenue

Corpus Christi, TX 78415

866-613-2859

YOUTH SUMMER PROGRAMS

Summer Camp for Youth

361-758-2750

800-633-3028

Humble Youth Center

2850 Main Street

Ingleside, TX 78362

361-776-0780

Texas Healthy Kids Corporation

800-943-5437

The Women’s Shelter (Corpus

800-580-4878

Texas Department of State Health

361- 729-0312 (Rockport ) and Protective Services

524 S. Commercial Street

Aransas Pass, TX 78336.

361-758-7631

800-252-5400

1115 E. Sinton Street

Sinton, TX 78387-0166

361-364-1240

1800 S. Washington, Suite 2

Beeville, TX 78102

361-358-9790

524 S. Commercial Street

Aransas Pass, TX 78336

361-758-7631

Taft Housing Authority

223 Avenue C

Taft, TX 78390

361-528-3000

2000 Billy G. Webb Drive

Portland, TX 78374

361-777-3301

Sinton for Youth Corporation

111 N. Odem Street, Suite 2

Sinton, TX 78387

361-364-5567

24-Hour Crisis

Intervention

1-800-758-3344

Texas Runaway Helpline

1-888-580-4357

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Portland Area Contacts:

Utilities ……………………………………………………..................…(361) 777-4500

Electricity www.powertochoose.org …………………................(866) PWR-4-TEX

Natural Gas—Center Point Energy ……………………................…(800) 427-7142

Cable Communications—Charter Communications ….............…(877) 728-3814

Telephone—Verizon ………………………………………...................(800) 483-4000

Automobile Registration …………………………………..................(361) 643-4011

Driver’s Licensing …………………………………………..................(361) 758-8680

Portland Chamber of Commerce ………………………....................(361) 643-2475

Portland Aquatic Center …………………………………...................(361) 777-0792

Portland Community Center ………………………………................(361) 777-3301

Portland Police (non-emergency) …………………………...............(361) 777-4444

Portland Public Library …………………………………….................(361) 777-0921

Public Works …………………………………………………................(361) 777-2943

U.S. Post Office ………………………………………………...............(361) 777-0845

Portland City Hall ……………………………………………................(361) 777-4500

Emergency—Ambulance, Fire, Police……………………...,,,,,,,,,,,,,911

Ambulance—non emergency ………………………………..............(361) 777-4444

Fire—non emergency ………………………………………................(361) 643-0155

Police—non emergency ……………………………………................(361) 777-4444

Animal Control ……………………………………………….................(361) 643-2546

Northshore Cinema 8 ……………………………………….................(361) 643-3456

Portland Newspaper ………………………………………...................(361) 643-1566

Portland Senior Citizen Center ……………………………................(361) 643-9461

City of Rockport Parks and Recreation ..........................................(361) 729-2213

Wind Info ……………………………………………………...................(361) 992-9463

San Pat. County Non-Profit Agencies and Clubs:

American Cancer Society ……………………………….....................(361) 857-0136

CASA of the Coastal Bend …………………………….......................(361) 884-2272

Chatwork Civic Club …………………………………..........................(361) 643-6240

Connections Individual and Family Services, Inc. ….....................(361) 643-7631

Kiwanis Club of Portland ……………………………..........................(361) 364-6225

Portland Garden Club …………………………………........................(361) 777-3221

Portland Lions Club …………………………………….......................(361) 643-6312

Portland Masonic Lodge #1411 ……………………….......................(361) 643-1770

Portland North Bay Lions Club ……………………….......................(361) 215-2908

Portland Rotary Club ………………………………….........................(361) 643-1494

USO of South Texas …………………………………….......................(361) 776-4779

United Way of the Coastal Bend ……………………….....................(361) 882-2582

Volunteer Center of the Coastal Bend …………………...................(361) 887-8282

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Children make you want to start life all over.

Muhammad Ali

Rockport-Fulton Area Contacts:

Utilities - Aransas Natural Gas Co. ....................……..................…(361) 729-5465

Electricity www.powertochoose.org ………………….................(866) PWR-4-TEX

Natural Gas—City of Rockport .......……………………...........(361) 729-2213 x137

Aransas County Transfer Station ...................................................(361) 790-0162

Directv ...........................................................................….............…(361) 727-0004

Mission Satellite ......………………………………………...................(361) 461-1920

Team Satellite ...................................................................................(361) 790-8151

Automobile Registration …………………………………..................(361) 758-3020

Driver’s Licensing …………………………………………..................(361) 758-8680

Rockport-Fulton Chamber of Commerce ……………………........(361) 729-6445

Aquatic Center …................………………………………...................(361) 727-9989

Rockport Community Recycle Center …………..…………….........(361) 729-4455

Rockport-Fulton Police (non-emergency) ………………................(361) 792-1100

Aransas County Public Library …………………..……….................(361) 790-0153

Public Works …………………………………………………................(361) 729-2213

U.S. Post Office ………………………………………………...............(361) 729-2642

Rockport City Hall ………………………………......………................(361) 729-2213

Emergency—Ambulance, Fire, Police……………………...,,,,,,,,,,,,,911

Rockport EMS ...................................................................................(361) 729-2112

Ambulance—non emergency ………………………………...............(361) 729-8007

Fire—volunteer non emergency ………………………………….......(361) 729-5392

Rockport-Fulton Police—non emergency ..………………................(361) 729-1111

Aransas County Sheriff ...................................................................(361) 729-2222

Aransas County Courthouse ...........................................................(361) 790-0100

Animal Control ……………………………………………….................(361) 790-0151

Crime Stoppers Hotline……………………………………..................(361) 729-8477

Coastal Bend Herald Newspaper.....................................................(361) 729-1828

Rockport Pilot Newspaper ………………………………...................(361) 729-9900

Portland Senior Services Center …………………...........................(361) 729-8007

Wind Info ……………………………………………………...................(361) 992-9463

Rockport-Fulton Non-Profit Agencies and Clubs:

Aransas Citizens Against Drugs Coalition .... aransascitizensagainstdrugs.org

American Cancer Society ……………………………….....................(361) 857-0136

CASA of the Coastal Bend …………………………….......................(361) 884-2272

Women's Club ……..........……………………………..........................(361) 727-0927

Connections Individual and Family Services, Inc. (Rockport)......(361) 729-4774

Connections Individual and Family Services, Inc. (Portland).......(361) 643-7631

AIM Hospice .....................……………………………..........................(361) 729-0507

ACCESS ......................…………………………………........................(361) 729-0633

Corpus Christi Lions Club ………………………..............................(361) 881-6120

Good Samaritans, Inc. .....................................................................(361) 790-9828

USO of South Texas …………………………………….......................(361) 776-4779

United Way of the Coastal Bend ……………………….....................(361) 882-2582

Volunteer Center of the Coastal Bend …………………...................(361) 887-8282

Compliments of: Connections Individual and Family Services, Inc.

209 Cedar Dr., Ste. B, TX 78374 * 361-643-7631 * April 2011

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Empowering Youth.

Connecting Families.

Building Futures.

Encourage Your Children To Succeed

Inspire Your Children To Their Full Potential

Take Time To Talk To Your Children

Connections Individual and Family Services, Inc. offers:

Emergency Youth Shelter • Family Counseling • Individual Counseling

Life Skills Training • Crisis Intervention • Referral Services

14209 Cedar Dr., Ste. B

Portland, TX 78374

361-643-7631 www.connectionsnonprofittorg

24-Hour Crisis Hotline

1-800-532-8192

810 Henderson, Ste. 6-C

Rockport, TX 78382

361-729-4774 www.connectionsnonprofit.org

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