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You say a guy will avoid touching a girl if he does not fancy her but he will touch a
friend
Contributed by joan jett
You say a guy will avoid touching a girl if he does not fancy her but he will touch a friend
Hi Sam, I luv reading each and every one of your letters, they're brilliant! Im confused about touching. You say a guy will
avoid touching a girl if he does not fancy her but then you also say he will touch a girl if he considers her a friend. How to
tell the difference?
A friendship is built up over time. If he goes out with a woman and talks about all sorts with that woman in a laid back
manner, then the chances are he just sees her as a friend.
If a guy meets a woman he fancies, he usually can’t resist touching her as soon as possible. He will try and make
sure it is an accidental touch, like a brush of the hand at first, then he will move to more blatant touches. Whereas when a
guy sees the woman as just a friend, he will more than likely not bother with light brushes. He will do hugs, touches on the
back, it won’t be the kind of touch of a scared man, but the kind of touch of a man that doesn’t see any
harm in touching that friend.
Whereas if he doesn’t fancy a woman at all and doesn’t see her as a friend, then he will avoid all forms of
touching and will in fact do his best to stand and sit well outside her intimate zone.
I fancy the pants off one of my male colleagues, have known him for 2 years so I guess u could say we are friends! He
touches me every time I see him and gets more touchy as time goes by, today he hugged me for the first time. So does it
mean he fancies me or is he just growing more comfortable with me as a friend?
He’s growing more comfortable of you as a friend. You have become more familiar to him and he knows he can
hug you and you know there is nothing sinister going on. If he’d have seen you as more than a friend, he would
have started off with light touching, pretend accidental touching just to test the water, in fear that you thought he was
getting down to touching too soon. What you’ve explained is the sort of touching you do with familiar friends or
familiar relatives. Once they become familiar he’s more confident to think, she wouldn’t mind being hugged
and wouldn’t take it personally. You can’t rule out sexual desire, but overall, I think it’s unlikely that
any long term relationship will happen even if he has developed some sexual desire. Usually you would get an indication
from the start that he’s interested in you, he wouldn’t just appear interested all of a sudden after 2 years.
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