Managing Change and Stress Central Washington University January 24, 2013 Tom Sweeney, CEAP Employee Assistance Program The “Too Much” Phenomenon • Too many changes • Too many unrealistic expectations • Too much responsibility • Too much information Primary issues: 1. 2. 3. 4. Responsibility & accountability Challenge or problem Chosen or imposed Control or influence Change, Stress and Distress Change: Situational: one event causing stress or distress Cumulative: additional events impacting you Traumatic: situation with magnified impact on you Stress: physical, emotional, & psychological response to a demand Eustress: everyday stress of life Distress: feeling “all stressed out” Impact of Distress Physical: increased heart rate, blood pressure & perspiration; headache & GI issues; illness & disease Mental: impaired decision-making, problem-solving, concentration, focus, attention & memory Emotional: uncertainty, fear, depression, anxiety; grief & sadness; hopeless & helpless; frustration, anger Behavioral: isolation; temper tantrums; violence; misuse of food, medication, substances, computer Workplace: performance or attendance issues & interpersonal conflicts Coping The ABC approach: 1. Activating stressor – event or situation 2. Beliefs – thoughts and perceptions about A 3. Consequences – physical, emotional, behavioral, interpersonal 4. Plan – consistent and dedicated action Another Approach Situation management: requires action to influence outcomes & cope effectively in stressful situations Self-control: requires taking personal responsibility for actions & reactions to a situation Effective Management Situation Management: • problem-solving & decision-making skills • task & time management skills • communication & conflict resolution skills Self-Control: • perceptions, attitude, & behavior • thoughts, feelings, & behavior • resilience Resilience Ability to bounce back Includes focus on responsibility and accountability Stress Management is a tool that can help you become resilient Self-care – mental, emotional & physical Resilience Five key attributes of resilience: 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. Positive Focused Flexible Organized Proactive How resilient are you? How resilient will you become? Your Life • Physical • Occupational • Environmental • Emotional • Intellectual • Social • Spiritual Coping on the Job • Bring a healthy “self” to work. • Use one another to problem-solve & reach common goals. • Act to diffuse concerns as they arise. • Practice sensitivity when communicating. • Build & practice workplace resilience. • Consult with available resources: Mgmt, HR, Union, HRC, DRS, DRC, EAP, PCP WA State EAP Pro-Health Pro-Job Pro-Performance Contact “your” EAP for assistance in dealing with life’s twists and turns Toll Free: Olympia: 877.313.4455 360.753.3260