Mentorship: A Success Key for Graduate Students PACES Graduate Boot Camp Saturday, Sept 12th, 2015 By the end of this session you will understand… The importance of mentorship for your graduate program success The characteristics and qualities that make for a good mentor What qualities you possess/need as a mentee Your goals for graduate education The importance and role of your values and beliefs The issues that may affect the mentor/mentee relationship How to select the right mentor for you What the issues are for you as a mentee How to make mentorship work well for you What does it take to be successful as a graduate student? Motivation Perseverance Love of learning Good time management Leading a balanced life Financial support Emotional & intellectual support Encouragement Valuable, useful feedback Resilience Others? How do you access most of these? Family and friends Other students Faculty Other professionals Within yourself How about mentors? Can any or all of these be mentors for you? Mentorship – what is it? Homer’s Iliad & Odyssey (Mentor was Odysseus’ trusted friend and advisor) What is a mentor? One who is committed to help others achieve: How does that differ from a “coach” or “advisor?” A better understanding of themselves, their place in the world, and their search for meaningful living A coach is someone who helps us acquire skills An advisor is someone who may provide sound guidance but may remain removed or aloof from the individual Mentorship is a role that is more ‘a calling’ than part of one’s job description Characteristics of a Mentor Respect Commitment To excellence in process and outcome Demanding For a student’s uniqueness as well as capacity and preferred mode of learning A mentor never compromises the student’s dignity Have quality standards; push students to their potential Availability Within reason, at the disposal of their students Students feel welcome to appts; boundaries set clearly Characteristics of a Mentor Encouraging Ethical Mentor is a role model for students; behavior is beyond ethical reproach Trust occurs when students are secure in belief that they will be treated with dignity Philosophical Motivator through behavior, optimistic outlook, provides explicit encouragement Have ‘big picture’ in mind when counseling Openness Open to discovery, new ways of thinking, to new possibilities What about characteristics of the Mentee? Respectful Committed To course of study and an academic standard of excellence that exceeds the ordinary Passionate Cardinal virtue of any relationship is to respect the other’s dignity If not present relationships deteriorate into mutual use and abuse Need to have “fire in the belly”; stubbornness not to succumb to challenges Philosophical openness to discovery Needs to take chances; be open to challenges to perspectives What about characteristics of the Mentee? Ethical Conduct themselves with utmost concern for ethical scholarship & honest interaction with mentor(s) Is it surprising that the characteristics are nearly the same for both the mentor and mentee? Both parties are part of the same relationship Both parties should be ‘on the same page’ Both parties mutually benefit from the relationship What is the purpose of graduate education? Succeed in completing the degree? To receive as much funding as possible? To publish results? To develop the mentee and mentor to a higher state of cognitive awareness? To facilitate an environment in which the mentor and mentee can flourish? The ultimate goal… To flourish as individuals – better thinkers, better decisionmakers, better writers, better professors… better people.