African Journal of Educational Studies Vol. 4 No. 2 Sept., 2006 AFRICAN JOURNAL EDUCATIONAL STUDIES ISSN: 1116-0382 VOLUME 4, NUMBER 2, SEPTEMBER, 2006 African Journal of Educational Studies Vol. 4 No. 2 Sept., 2006 ATTITUDES AND REACTIONS OF STUDENTS TO THE OPPOSITE SEX IN SELECTED COLLEGES OF EDUCATION IN OYO, EKITI AND ONDO STATES OF NIGERIA Oyesegun O. Oyerinde, Ph.D. Abstract The study investigated the attitudes and reactions of students in selected Colleges of Education in Oyo, Ekiti and Ondo States of Nigeria to sex and cohabitation with the opposite sex. In all, 300 subjects who volunteered were used from three of such institutions. The data for the study were collected through a questionnaire designed to elicit responses on how students felt about sex and cohabitation with the opposite sex. The percentage mean and standard deviation of the scores were used to analyze all data collected. The results of the study showed that the attitudes of college students in the selected colleges towards cohabitation with the opposite sex was positive. A 59.70%positive mean score revealed this fact. Also, the 85%positive response level of the subjects showed that they saw sex as a means of recreation. Based on the findings, it was concluded that college students' attitude towards sex and cohabitation was that of permissiveness and cordiality. To a large extent their attitude towards members of the opposite sex are those of friendliness, modesty and tolerance. It was therefore suggested that the involvement of psycho-counsellors in the students' affairs department of colleges of Education will help to improve further their attitudes toward sex and members of the opposite sex. Frequent research to help determine the fluctuations in the habits of students was also suggested. It was further recommended that aspects of sex education that will equip college students with tools of meeting the rigours of complex marriage life should be introduced into the students' course curriculum. Introduction and Statement of the Problem Recent events in the society have shown that there is increasing awareness for sex education. Parliaments, churches, departments of government, and professional bodies like the Nigeria School Health Association are alive to the debate on the significance of the vital aspects of human sexuality to the total education of the individual. Loud calls are being made for legalized abortion all over the world. Also, arguments are thriving for the protection of the female species against their male counterparts because the later lack respect, responsibility and understanding for the former (Anderson 1987, and Bearinger 1990). Both male and female species of homo-sapiens are in the wonderful work of reproducing their kind, but what one finds is the male trying to shun his responsibilities, thus giving rise to numerous unmarried mothers, abandoned children, unmarried fathers and illegal abortions. This lack of responsibility on the part of the male is often traced to selfish disposition towards the female. The trend above results in a high incidence of cold war between the male and the female humans. Besides, the renowned women liberation movement is directly connected African Journal of Educational Studies Vol. 4 No. 2 Sept., 2006 with this fact. This attitude of women movement liberation and other situations mentioned are known to be pronounced in schools and colleges. Trained observation and previous works show that some people have some undesirable traits. Coles & Stokes (1985), Thomas, Paul and Walton (2001) and Hocking, Turkk and Ellinger (1999) confirm certain personality characteristics manifest themselves as indicators of socially unacceptable behaviour. Some people have pronounced short-comings that constitute discernible attitudes towards people of the opposite sex. These attitudes are displayed when both sexes mix together as in educational institutions. There are instances of sex abuse, selfishness and withdrawal Burt and Brower 1975 and Friedman (1992) maintained that while some displaced people demonstrate gross undesirable traits, others are felt confident and comfortable with the opposite sex. The study tried to identify the sexual behaviour of both male and female student teachers in the Colleges selected and what types of interpersonal relationships exist between them. The study used six variables that include confidence, anxiety, withdrawal, sex abuse, sexual feelings and ideals about the sex act. Moreover, the study ascertained the attitude types and how these are related to the subjects' background such as family type, education,, exposure, sex and ethnic group. Review of Literature Behavioural Patterns: Surveys conducted by Anderson (1994) showed desirable traits cherished by both male and female students. The females are normally attracted by masculinity while the males are attracted by femininity. Other traits that are common to both sexes are friendliness, honesty, indulgence, dependability, tolerance, hunour, and modesty. He stressed that although direct indexes are not available to predict male-female compatibility, there is a great assurance that college students with good qualities have a great deal in their favour. As far as undesirable traits are concerned, every individual has some imperfections. Some have such that are generally not good habits or attitudes for cohabitation both in single and mixed colleges. These unfavourable traits may manifest themselves in varying forms and degrees. Common in the Colleges as proved by evidence from major surveys carried out by Anderson (1987), Anderson (1994) and Kinsey (1948), (1953) are cases of aversion, tactlessness, unrestrained impulsiveness, emotional instability, boisterousness and hypersensitivity. However, no single person experiences all the above, but several of these may appear in a man. Socio-Economic Influences on Sexual Behaviour and Cohabitation There is an awareness that campus students are a plurality of persons with different socio- African Journal of Educational Studies Vol. 4 No. 2 Sept., 2006 economic statuses. These statuses have their effects on individual behaviours towards members of the opposite sex. Research has shown that male children from illiterate, Muslim and other non-Christian homes alike look on members of the opposite sex as instruments for proliferation of children and servants who should be seen and not heard. Also, it has been proved that children, especially females that live in government reservation areas, exhibit initial reservations in their attitudes towards members of the opposite sex. This attitude is however quickly replaced by overt behaviour towards sex and members of the opposite sex because of the sudden freedom and distance from home and parents on admission into college. The case is reported worse with children that have lived their lives in the central business districts (CBD) of cities. They find an atmosphere in the college that encourage their permissiveness (Elias 1969, National College Health Risk Behaviour Survey 1996 and Mervat, Nasr and Ahmed 1998). There are many such studies pointing to differences in behaviours of people as a result of their socio-economic status. However, Kinsey (1948) found that female attitudes towards members of the opposite sex do not vary significantly with social class in terms of coital experience though differences may occur as regards time of first coital experience and that females of lower socio-economic class begins coitus earlier in life than females in the high class. Reiss (1970) in his own study stated that there is no significant difference between social class levels and sexual permissiveness. A point of agreement in these studies is in the male, where socio-economic status leads to a significant difference in sex behaviour. This is true in view of the fact that male children experience less control from their parents. This difference in family ties has different influences on coital behaviours amongst male and female children. Moreover, males do engage in sex before marriage without strong parental disproval but the female is expected to be chaste. Kinsey's data showed 42% male experience to 20% female experience of sex. Educational Influences on Sexual Behaviour and Cohabitation Attitude towards sex and members of the opposite sex is greatly influenced by educational level. Ease of interaction is improved, females are seen as equals and their personalities are better understood. Also, time of first coitus is greatly affected by education especially among females where it has been found that low educated females enjoy coitus earlier than their female counterparts from highly educated homes (Kinsey 1948, Elias 1969 and Reiss 1970). Cultural Influences on sexual Behaviour and Cohabitation Much has been written about the role of the church on living together by members of both sexes. According to Thomas, Paul & Walton (2001) writers and researchers have also found that the contextual ethics centre on abstinence. It is their consensus that it is a sin to taste of sex before African Journal of Educational Studies Vol. 4 No. 2 Sept., 2006 marriage. Evidences are available to show that there is a close positive relationships between piety and sex habits. Kinsey (1953) discovered that arduous males and females especially, experience coitus later in life than inactive peers in religion. When involved in sex, their experiences are fewer. Ethnicity is another cultural factor that influences sexual habits and behaviours. Nasr, Hamed and Mervat (1998) confirms that all over the world, attraction to one's ethic group in the choice of partners is significant. He added that a relationship between sex desire and ethnicity exists. Blacks were found to have more and earlier sex than whites. There is the rush for members of the same town or state or creed to the extent that sex are seriously affected by this factor especially in the choice of friends and marital partners. In the same study, it was found that black were found to have more and earlier sex than whites on the percentile analysis made. A ratio of 49% of blacks to 20% of whites who are involved in early sex was found. Another premise for this inference is the fact that most homes are matriarchal in nature. The above clearly indicated that there exists a relationship between sex habits and cohabitation with members of the opposite sex and ethnicity. Methods and Procedure The target population of 300 students were randomly selected from the Colleges of Education in Ondo; Adeyemi College of Education (A.C.E.), Ekiti State College of Education (ODSCE) and Osun State College of Education (O.S.C.E.) These colleges were selected on the grounds that they are major colleges of education with established campuses in the areas under study. Also the colleges have mixed population of male and female students living within the same campus premises. This factor is a major parameter for the study. The sample population was made up of randomly selected students who were at the premises of the academic block areas getting ready for lectures in education which are core courses in the chosen institutions for all students. This made it possible for the author to capture the gross population of interest from which the target sample was selected. At A.C.E. and O.S.C.E., the 100 sample each comprised parts II and III students resident at the Adeyemi College and O.S.C.E. campuses respectively. While the 100 sample at E.S.C.E. comprised 100 part III students. This was necessary because E.S.C.E. runs a whole year teaching practice for the part II students which made it difficult to reach the students. The emphasis on parts II and III students of the chosen colleges was based on the thinking that this class of student can duely be considered to have "passed through their institutions" i.e. imbibed some of the social culture of their campuses. A questionnaire with 10 items developed by the researcher and validated by three African Journal of Educational Studies Vol. 4 No. 2 Sept., 2006 other professional colleagues in Health education was utilized in collecting data for the study. Items on the questionnaire were designed to elicit responses especially on how the respondent felt about cohabitation with the opposite sex. The development of the questionnaire and the investigation were guided by some underlying assumptions. It was assumed that student in the selected colleges have certain attitudes. That these attitude could pose social problems when negative or facilitate social interaction when positive. That the attitudes are influenced by certain factors and that college of education students engage in sex freely and before marriage. All data and information gathered were scored, analyzed and discussed in percentage mean scores and standard deviation (S.D.). It was implied from the percentage positive mean score of 59.7% with a S.D. of 291 that the normal score contributing to positive attitude should be four. within (59.7-29.6) to (59.7 + 29.6) range i.e. 30.10% to 89.30% while abnormal scores contributing to negative attitude should be four. within (22.66 - 22.2) to (22.66 + 22.2) range where 22.66 = percentage Negative mean and 22.2 = S.D. of percentage Negative mean. Findings and Discussion Table 1: Shows the demographic factors that may influence the attitudes of college students towards sex and cohabitation with member of the opposite sex. Table 1: ITEM FAMILY TYPE DEMOGRAPHIC FACTORS THAT MAY INFLUENCE STUDENTS' ATTITUDE TOWARDS SEX AND MEMBERS OF THE OPPOSITE SEX ON CAMPUS Monogamy Polygamy Pseudo monogamy No response Literate home FREQUENCY 24 180 90 162 PERCENTAGE 8.00 60.0 30.00 LDI ICATIONAL Illiterate home Semi literate home No response 108 30 " 36.00 BACKGROUND EXPOSURE Mixed School 240 80.0 60 186 48 20.00 02.00 16.00 SEX Single Sex School Large Families Early Sex No early Sex Male 192 64.00 Female Yoruba Others 108 256 42 36.00 86.00 14.00 FAMILY TRIBE 54.00 10.00 64% of the target group are males while 36% are females. All the samples are mainly Nigerians with only 14% of them being non-Yoruba speaking indigenes. 64% of the target group are males while 36% are females. All the samples are mainly Nigerians with 14% of them being non-Yoruba speaking indigenes. The different home backgrounds of the population of interest is typical of Nigerian indigenous homes. Sixty percentage hail from polygamous homes, thirty percent from monogamous African Journal of Educational Studies Vol. 4 No. 2 Sept., 2006 but with extra-marital affairs on the part of the fathers, while eight percent of the subjects hail from purely monogamous homes. The table also shows that the sample have ample exposure to enable them interact and relate with members of the opposite sex. 80% of them attended mixed secondary schools and 62% are from large families comprising children of mixed sexes. Also, 162 subjects (54%) come from literate homes, 108 (36%) are offspring's of semiliterate homes. An interesting finding is that only 16% of the sample as shown in Table 1 believed in early sex and actually experienced early sex. This may be related to the findings of Kinsey, (1940) that portions of the lower educational group accept premarital and early sex as natural". The correspondingly low percentage of students from illiterate homes to those of literate homes agree with the 16% of early sex to the 68% of not having sex early. This finding is interesting because the low figure of 16% early sex contradicts the initial assumption that students from polygamous homes and who are greatly exposed to interaction and intermingling with members of the opposite sex, will support early sex. It also does not corroborate the discovery of the United States National Health Risk Behaviour Survey (1996 where a 31°oof regular and early sex was found on campus probably because of cultural difference and students' type differences. Table 2: COLLEGE STUDENTS' ATTITUDE TOWARDS SEX AND COHABITATION WITH MEMBERS OF THE OPPOSITE SEX ON CAMPUS X ITEM Feel self confident Feel Comfortable Feel Anxious Feel Uneasy Feel sex is mutual Feel Sex is Recreation Feel Selfish about sex Support Sex before marriage Feel the Male is stronger Experienced Sex before marriage EXYZ Mean XYZ S.D.X.Y.Z. Frequency % "A, of of ' + attitude attitude 192 64 + v Frequency of % nf attitude -attitude attitude 54 18.0' 54 Z % of Neutral attitude 18.00 * Frequency Neutral 226 75.33 60 20.00 14 4.66 63 48 255 21.00 16.00 85.00 198 192 45 66.00 64 39 60 13.00 20.00 255 85.00 - 45 15.00 45 174 58.00 60 264 88.00 271 90.00 597 59.70 29.6 15. on -s 45 15 15.00 210 70.00 20.00 88 22.00 :-r 29 12.00 9.66 277.66 22.66 22.22 174.66 19.00 + = — Positive % = percentage Y = Negative Response —Negative X = Positive Response Z = Neutral Response The fact that attitudes of colleges of education students in the selected institutions towards members of the opposite sex is positive is shown in Table 2. This finding is similar with what African Journal of Educational Studies Vol. 4 No. 2 Sept., 2006 was found among college students in a release of the department of Education (1995) where a 45% satisfaction among boys and 60% satisfaction among girls was reported. This finding may have been influenced by the significant others. Most of the sample, infact 62% come from large families with both sexes present and 80% of them had their post primary education in mixed schools. This means that a majority of them have the occasions to interact with members of the opposite sex early in life and so have no problem when they become college students. The response pattern reflects positive attitudes towards their counterparts when asked how they feel in the midst of members of the opposite sex. 64% stated confidence, 75% said the felt comfortable while only 21% and 16% expressed the negative feelings of anxiety and unease respectively. Equally, the findings reflect that college students' attitudes and reactions toward sex and members of the opposite sex are influenced by the significant others. As to the College students' reaction to sexual relationship, 85% feel that sex should be free, mutual and enjoyed by members of both sexes with none being exploited, while 15% felt selfish about sex. This contradicts the finding of Starke and Friedrich (1984) in West Germany that girls were afraid of sex because of the terrible stories told to them about sex. This may mean that rape stories are not common to College students in the selected colleges of education. However, it upholds the assumption that College of Education Students participate in sex as a recreation especially if the 85% of agreed opinion on sex before marriage is anything to go by. In a similar survey of 1,752 students, 79% had sex daily, 31% 2-3 times a week and 13 once a month. This shows a free sporty involvement in sex. Of course, it was found that a pious group of 20% feel that sex should be delayed until after marriage while 22% expressed opinions of neutrality. 88% of the sample agreed that the male sex is the stronger sex. Only 12% of all females felt that all are equal. It is clear through these data that women liberation is not popular in the Colleges of education in Oyo, Ekiti and Ondo States of Nigeria. Summary and Conclusion The author looked at various works that have been done on habits of' campus students as they relate to sex and cohabitation. It was revealed that liberal sex is practiced because most campuses are permissive and the students have the feeling of freedom from home and they suffer no adulthood obligations to anybody. The fact that college authorities seem not bother themselves by what goes on among the students appears to encourage them to cultivate this attitude. College deans are the last to turn to or be involved in problems dealing with sexual behaviours of Campus students except it has grown to the extent of requiring disciplinary action (Kinsey 1948,1953, Kirkendel 1965, Reiss 1970). The views expressed above tally with what obtains at the Colleges of education selected for the study. Though, some groups shy away from liberal sex and uncontrolled interaction between African Journal of Educational Studies Vol. 4 No. 2 Sept., 2006 the two sexes, a larger group thinks that there is nothing wrong in this habit. Also, it was discovered that the significant others affect and influence attitudes of students towards sex habits and cohabitation with members of the opposite sex. The factors relevant to the study include: The home, the school and religion. The study concludes that college students' attitudes towards sex and cohabitation is that of permissiveness and cordiality and to a large extent, their attitudes towards members of the opposite sex are positive rather than negative. Friedman (1992) had also found a substantial level of maturity and sexual behaviour among adolescent subjects. Recommendations: Based on the findings, the following recommendations are named: 1. Students' could the be attitudes further services individual towards improved of sexual members if Health the of College the opposite heads could employ Through this.] Counsellors. Problems of students can be sex discussed and solved. 2. Frequent flunctuations research in should the habits be encouraged of students to determine and results the made known to student, staff and authority. 3. 4. College student deans 'should develop machinery's to detect sex problems among college students and come up with strategies for assuaging them. 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