RESPONDER – LANGUAGE OF THE HEART (name of text)
The correlation between the behavior of the human cardiovascular system and the
human act of engaging in dialogue is the focus of James J. Lynch's essay and book
titled "The Language of the Heart". (student name) writes about his own newly realized
awareness of this mind body connection. It is a fascinating premise and one that seems
plausible, possible and practical to me also.
When Lynch makes the case for "the link between language and the heart" (612), his
evidence reminds me of my own experiences. When I feel cared for, and that I have a
connection to the people around me – I feel better. I can realize this sense of well being
when I communicate with others – verbally or non-verbally, with words or with gestures.
When others respond in kind this cycle of positive experiences has a physiological
impact on all of the participants.
Mr. Lynch describes the implications of those isolated from positive communication
encounters and the detrimental effect that this absence can have on medical conditions
such as hypertension. I would contend that the converse of his argument may be
equally true – the more positive and fulfilling the quality of your communications, the
more health benefits will be obtained.
For example, have you ever noticed an encounter between a small child and an adult –
when the adults eyes light up the moment they see the child? There is an almost
tangible sense of joy in the face of the child – a picture of satisfaction. A smile as broad
as can be comes across the youngsters face – and any woes or worries are
immediately forgotten. This type of connection produces an energy, an aura of well
being for anyone who views it. There are beaming faces all around – can that be
attributed to a chemical reaction? The release of endorphins? A neurolytic response to
the visual stimuli created when the child sees someone who cares about him?
The mind – body connection is a powerful one, undeniable and ever present. It seems
that our understanding of the components of the connection is still limited – but not the
connection itself.