Safety, Acceptance, Inclusion The Not In Our Town Story Power of Story Ancient Fear Arises Anew What are the current narratives? • Stories of past conflict fuel present hatred and division • Blame others to create a sense of worth for yourself Pretty crazy… • If being born ________ (white, male, Hungarian, American etc.) is the best thing you have ever done, that’s pretty sad. • Isn’t it more important what you DO with your heritage? • Others have also experienced pain, not just your country/family/group. Norway Core Principles of Not In Our Town Narrative SAFETY, ACCEPTANCE, INCLUSION • HIGHLIGHT SOLUTIONS / POSITIVE ACTION • ENGAGE ORDINARY PEOPLE • FOCUS ON SHARED VALUES Hate Groups US 1990’s Hate Groups US 1990’s • Large number of hate groups • Few hate crime laws in state • Anti government extremism plus antiSemitism and Racism • White supremacist youth activity escalates in communities The Billings Story : A New Narrative for Communities How NIOT Turned Into a Movement Finding better narratives • Hatred? “Not in Our Town.” • Looking for the positive stories. • Helping people listen to each other and know each other better • Everyone can do something. It can be just a little thing, like erasing graffiti. Ordinary People Stand Up Audrey Arnold/ Liz Halbert Lesson 1 – Silence is Acceptance “If a Police Chief doesn't take a visible and active role, then there is an assumption that everything is alright. And these hate groups have learned though experience that if a community doesn't respond, then the community accepts. Silence is acceptance to them.” – Wayne Inman, Billings Police Chief Lesson 2 – Make Your Values Visible Lesson 3 – Change Happens When We Work Together Lesson 4 – “You bite one, You bite us all” Lesson 5 – From One Story Comes Many 2007 Ukraine Project Kesher “Not In Our Town is not an American model, it’s a human model.” -Karyn Gershon, Project Kesher Not In Our Town Gathering Nalunknem.org • • • • • In Hungary, circles of tolerance Anti graffiti project Sports tolerance workshop at CEU Documentary of NIOT workshops New documentary of Hungary tolerance stories • Media working group What are the Issues In Your Country? What are the Warning Signs of Danger? How Can People Take Action Together? The Garda Follow Up Actions • Host a screening • Organize a Cross Community Discussion • Introduce Anti-Bullying Programs in Schools “ HOPE IS BEING ABLE TO SEE THERE IS LIGHT DESPITE ALL THE DARKNESS.” -- Bishop Desmond Tutu www.niot.org info@niot.org facebook.com/notinourtown @notinourtown