Case Study 2 Major Depression - Case of Janet Janet called the mental health centre to ask if someone could help her 5 years old son, Adam. He had been having trouble sleeping for the past several weeks, and Janet was becoming concerned about his health. Adam refused to go to sleep at his regular bedtime and also woke up at irregular intervals throughout the night. Whenever he woke up, Adam would come downstairs to be with Janet. Her initial reaction had been sympathetic; she would give him some water, talk to him, and rock him back to sleep. As the cycle came to repeat itself night after night, Janet's tolerance grew thin and she became more argumentative. She found herself engaged in repeated battles that usually ended when she agreed to let him sleep in her room. Janet felt guilt about giving in to a 5-year-old's demands, but it seemed like the only way they would ever get any sleep. The family physician was unable to identify a physical explanation for Adam's problem; he suggested that Janet contact a psychologist. The therapist began by asking several questions about Janet and her family. Janet was 30 years old and had been divorced from her husband, David, for a little more than one year. Adam was the youngest of Janet's three children; Jennifer was 10 and Claire was 8. Janet had resumed her college education on a part-time basis when Adam was 2 years old. She had hoped to finish her bachelor's degree at the end of the next semester and enter law school in the fall. Unfortunately, she had withdrawn from classes about a month ago. Her current plans were indefinite. She spent almost all of her time at home with Adam. Janet and the children lived in a large, comfortable house that she had received as part of her divorce settlement. Finances were a major concern to Janet, but she managed to make ends meet through the combination of student loans, a grant-in-aid from the university, and child-support payments from David. David lived in a nearby town with a Psychiatric Mental Health Nursing Clinical 1435 – 1436 – Lab Case-studies 1 younger woman whom he had married shortly after the divorce. He visited Janet and the children once or twice every month and took the children to spend weekends with him once a month. Having collected the necessary background information, the therapist asked for a description of the circumstances surrounding the development of Adam's sleep difficulties and the factors that currently affected the problem. This discussion covered the sequence of a typical evening's events, beginning with dinner and progressing through the following morning. It was clear during this discussion that Janet felt completely overwhelmed by the situation. She was frustrated and felt that she was completely unable to control her son. At several points during the interview, Janet seemed to be on the verge of crying. Her eyes were watery, and her voice broke as they discussed her response to David's occasional visits. The therapist, therefore, suggested that they put off a further analysis of Adam's problems and spend some time discussing Janet's situation in a broader perspective. In the subsequent conversation it became clear that Janet's mood had been depressed since her husband had asked for a divorce. She felt sad, discouraged, and lonely. This feeling seemed to become even more severe just prior to her withdrawal from classes at the university (one year after David's departure and two months before her first clinic appointment). When David left, she remembered feeling "down in the dumps," but she could usually cheer herself up by playing with the children or going for a walk. Now she was nearing desperation. She cried frequently and for long periods of time. Nothing seemed to cheer her up. She had lost interest in her friends, and the children seemed to be more of a burden than ever. Her depression was somewhat worse in the morning, when it seemed that she would never be able to make it through the day. Janet was preoccupied by her divorce from David and admitted that she spent hours each day brooding about the events that led to their separation. These worries interfered considerably with her ability to concentrate and seemed directly related to her withdrawal from the university. She had found that she was totally unable to study the assigned reading or concentrate on a 45-minute lecture. Withdrawing from school Psychiatric Mental Health Nursing Clinical 1435 – 1436 – Lab Case-studies 2 had precipitated further problems. She was no longer eligible for student aid and would have to begin paying back her loans within a few months. In short, one worry led to another, and her attitude became increasingly pessimistic. Janet blamed herself for the divorce, although she also had considerable resentment toward David and his new wife. Among other things, she believed that her return to school had placed additional strain on an already problematic relationship. She wondered whether she had acted selfishly. The therapist noted that Janet's reasoning about her marriage often seemed vague and illogical. She argued that she had been a poor marital partner and cited several examples of her own misconduct. These included events and circumstances that struck the therapist as being very common and perhaps expected differences between men and women. She spent more money than he did on clothes, did not share his enthusiasm for sports, and frequently tried to engage David in discussions about his personal habits that annoyed her and the imperfections of their relationship. Of course, one could easily argue that David had not been sufficiently concerned about his own appearance (spending too little effort on buying good clothes), that he had been too preoccupied with sports, and that he had avoided her sincere efforts to work on their marital difficulties. But Janet blamed herself. Rather than viewing these things as simple differences in their interests and personalities, Janet saw them as evidence of her own failures. She blew these matters totally out of proportion until they appeared to her to be terrible sins. Janet also generalized from her marriage to other relationships in her life. If her first marriage had failed, how could she ever expect to develop a satisfactory relationship with another man? Furthermore, Janet had begun to question her value as a friend and parent. The collapse of her marriage seemed to affect the manner in which she viewed all of her social relationships. The future looked bleak from her current perspective, but she had not given up all hope. Her interest in solving Adam's problem, for example, was an encouraging sign. Although she was not optimistic about the chances of success, she was willing to try to develop new skills that would help her become a more effective parent. Psychiatric Mental Health Nursing Clinical 1435 – 1436 – Lab Case-studies 3 Social History Janet's early childhood had been ordinary and boring. Not having any siblings, she spent most of her time with adults, particularly her mother. She remembered her parents' relationship as being warm and pleasant. The family took frequent outings together and, despite the usual number of quarrels and disagreements, everyone seemed to enjoy being together. When Janet was 10 years old, her mother died in an automobile accident. Janet could remember the events of that day with terrible clarity. When she arrived home from school, her mother's best friend was there to meet her. She explained that Janet's mother had been in an accident and that her father had gone to the hospital. He arrived home several hours later and told Janet that her mother had died. The following months were very difficult for Janet and her father. Janet's father was overcome with grief, but he managed to continue working and arranged for neighbourhood friends to care for Janet when he was not home. Janet struggled through her normal schedule of activities. Her performance at school was not markedly affected, and she continued to play with her small circle of friends. She did remember, however, that she often spent long hours sitting in her mother's room gazing at old photographs and crying softly to herself. On one occasion, her father found her wearing some of her mother's clothes and makeup. His response seemed to be appropriate and sympathetic. They had a long talk about how much they both missed Janet's mother and how they could help each other through this difficult time. Shortly after this incident, Janet's father donated her mother's clothes to the charity. Even prior to her mother's death, Janet had been reserved socially. She tended to have one or two special friends with whom she spent much of her time outside of school, but she felt awkward and self-conscious in larger groups of children. Although her friends were important to her and she enjoyed spending time with them, Janet usually waited for them to contact her. She did not initiate activities and hesitated to express her own preferences when they were trying to decide what to do. In retrospect, Janet attributed this lack of assertiveness to her fear that her friends would abandon her or ridicule her interests. She was also self-conscious about her weight. She was not really fat, but she Psychiatric Mental Health Nursing Clinical 1435 – 1436 – Lab Case-studies 4 tended to be a bit plump and was therefore afraid that the others would tease her if she drew attention to herself. This friendship pattern persisted throughout high school and into her college years. She was interested in boys and dated intermittently until her junior year in high school, when she began to date one boy on a regular basis. Janet was certain that she was in love with him and soon lost all contact with the few girlfriends with whom she had been close. She and her boyfriend, John, spent all of their time together, both after school and on the weekends. Janet remembered that the other kids seemed to make fun of her relationship with John and admitted that it did seem silly from her current perspective. Whether they were alone or in a group, Janet always sat next to John, holding his hand and giggling at his dreary jokes. The others teased Janet and John about acting as if they were married. This criticism troubled Janet, even though she fully expected that she and John would be married shortly after they graduated from high school. Her marriage plans did not work out, however. She and John broke up during Janet's first year in college. He announced suddenly that he wanted to date other women and that their relationship was over. Janet met David a few weeks afterward, and they were married the following summer. Janet later wondered whether she had rushed into her relationship with David primarily to avoid the vacuum created by John's sudden exit. Whatever her motivation might have been, her marriage was followed shortly by her first pregnancy, which precipitated her withdrawal from the university. For the next seven years, Janet was occupied as a fulltime mother and housekeeper. When Adam was two years old and able to attend a day-care centre, Janet decided to resume her college education. She and David had discussed her desire to complete her degree and pursue a profession on several occasions. He was less than excited about this prospect and preferred that Janet continue in her present role. She disagreed but admitted that the children were too young and they could not afford both tuition and day care. Now that Adam was older, the circumstances were finally in Janet's favour, and David agreed to take a more active role in various responsibilities that had Psychiatric Mental Health Nursing Clinical 1435 – 1436 – Lab Case-studies 5 previously been assumed by Janet alone. Adam was enrolled at a daycare centre on a half-time basis, and Janet began taking two courses each semester. Following Janet's return to school, her relationship with David became increasingly strained. They had even less time than usual to spend with each other. David resented his increased household responsibilities. Janet was no longer able to prepare meals for the family every night of the week, so David had to learn to cook. He also had to share the cleaning and drive the children to many of their lessons and social activities. A more balanced and stable relationship would have been able to withstand the stress associated with these changes, but Janet and David were unable to adjust. Instead of working to improve their communications, they bickered continuously. They found it impossible to negotiate a mutually acceptable exchange of responsibilities. The final blow came when David met another woman to whom he was attracted and who offered him an alternative to the escalating hostility with Janet. He asked for a divorce and moved to an apartment. Janet was shaken by David's departure, in spite of the fact that they had not been happy together. Fortunately, she did have a few friends to whom she could turn for support. The most important one was a neighbour who had children of approximately the same ages as Janet's daughters. There were also two couples with whom she and David had socialized. They were all helpful for the first few weeks, but she quickly lost contact with the couples. It was awkward to get together as a threesome, and Janet had never been close enough with the women to preserve their relationships on an individual basis. That left the neighbour, Susan, as her sole adviser and confidante. Susan was the only person with whom Janet felt she could discuss her feelings openly. They spent hours talking about the recent events in Janet's life and her plans for the coming months. For the next few months, Janet was able to continue her studies. With the children's help she managed the household chores and kept up with her work. She even found time for some brief social activities. She agreed to go out on two blind dates arranged by people with whom she and David had been friends. These were generally unpleasant encounters; one of her dates was boring and unattractive, and the other was Psychiatric Mental Health Nursing Clinical 1435 – 1436 – Lab Case-studies 6 obnoxiously aggressive. After the latter experience, she discontinued the minimal efforts she had made to develop new friendships. The process seemed too difficult and threatening. Janet referred to single-parent clubs as "meat markets" where people paired off for casual sexual encounters. She might have become acquainted with other people in her classes at the university, but she was uncomfortable initiating conversations with her classmates. As time wore on, Janet found herself brooding more and more about the divorce. She was gaining weight at the rate of three or four pounds a month. The first few pounds had been easy to ignore and were more a nuisance than anything else. But soon her clothes no longer fit, and the children began to comment on her appearance. To make matters worse, Claire developed a serious ear infection just prior to Janet's midterm exams. The added worry of Claire's health and her concern about missed classes and lost studying time contributed substantially to a decline in Janet's mood. She finally realized that she would have to withdraw from her classes to avoid receiving failing grades. By this point, one month prior to her appointment at the mental health centre, she had lost interest in most of her previous activities. Even casual reading had come to be a tedious chore. She did not have any hobbies because she never had enough time. She also found that her friend Susan was becoming markedly aloof. When Janet called, Susan seldom talked for more than a few minutes before finding an excuse to hang up. Their contacts gradually diminished to an occasional wave across the street or a quick, polite conversation when they picked up their children from school. It seemed that Susan had grown tired of Janet's company. This was Janet's situation when she contacted the mental health centre. Her mood was depressed and anxious. She was preoccupied with financial concerns and her lack of social relationships. Adam's sleeping problem, which had begun about one week after she withdrew from her classes, was the last straw. She felt that she could no longer control her difficult situation and recognized that she needed help. Psychiatric Mental Health Nursing Clinical 1435 – 1436 – Lab Case-studies 7