Dating Rights 415 RESOURCES Sexual Assault I have the right to date or not to date. On Campus \ (415 area code) I have the right to choose my dating partner. University Police Department (Emergency) 911 The SAFE Place 338-2819 Counseling and Psychological Services 338-2208 Student Health Services 338-1719 Off Campus (24-hour) CASARC (under age 18) San Francisco General Hospital Emergency Dept. 206-8386 Trauma Recovery/ Rape Treatment Center S.F. General Hospital Emergency Dept. 437-3000 Suicide Prevention 781-0500 or 1-800-SUICIDE WOMAN Inc. (Domestic violence) 864-4277 OR 1-877-384-3578 I have the right to set limits. I have the right to be assertive. I have the right to be treated with respect. I have the right to be safe on dates and in relationships. San Francisco State University I have the right to say “No” and to have my “No” be believed and respected. I have the right to insist on safer sex practices. I have the right to refuse to have sex with anyone, anytime, anywhere. I have the right to know where I’m going on a date. I have the right to use my own transportation on a date. Sexual Harassment The SAFE Place at SFSU (415) 338-7233 San Francisco Commission on the Status of Women Sexual Harassment Hotline (415) 252-2570 Dept. of Education Office of Civil Rights (S.F.) (415) 486-5555 EEOC 1-800-669-4000 I have the right not to use alcohol or other drugs. I have the right to leave any date that feels dangerous. I have the right to seek help and safety. I have the right to ask for help. I understand that everyone else has these The SAFE Place San Francisco State University rights too. Student Services Bldg., Room 205 Web: http://www.sfsu.edu/~safe_plc/ Phone: 415.338.7233 or 415.338.1203 Email: karlac@sfsu.edu 11/9/09 By The SAFE Place Peer Educators 2002 May be reproduced for educational purposes. Tel: 415.338.7233 http://www.sfsu.edu/~safe_plc/ The SAFE Place is a resource center for SFSU students, staff, faculty and administrators who seek information, intervention and prevention services related to sexual assault, sexual harassment and domestic violence. We offer Rape prevention education & SAFE community-building events Peer education Crisis intervention, referrals and oncampus advocacy for survivors of sexual assault and battering Sexual harassment advising Volunteer & internship opportunities We serve SFSU Students Staff Faculty What is Domestic Violence? California Domestic Violence Prevention Act defines domestic violence as threatened or actual abuse from someone you have had a close relationship (i.e. spouse, former spouse, someone you date or have dated, someone whom you are related by blood, marriage or adoption). Abuse can be verbal, psychological or physical. Relationship Rights The right to be treated with respect The right to live without verbal, psychological and physical abuse, including sexual abuse The right to constructively express your feelings and opinions The right to pursue your own interests, education and goals The right to participate in decision making The right to privacy and time alone The right to maintain old friendships and make new ones The right to enjoy time with your family The right to say no or disagree The right to consensual & safer sex practices The right to change your mind The right to get help for yourself or a friend To contact us Phone: 415.338.7233 or 338-1203 Email: karlac@sfsu.edu Location: Student Services Building Room 205 The right to leave. FOR MORE INFORMATION: No one needs to injure another person for any reason. If you are concerned about your own or someone else’s behavior, please talk to someone you trust. You can be FREE of violence. WHAT IS SEXUAL ASSAULT? SEXUAL ASSAULT IS A CRIME IN WHICH A PERSON IS THREATENED , COERSED, FORCED, SUBDUED BY ALCHOL OR OTHER DRUGS , OR TRICKED INTO COMPLYING WITH A SEXUAL ACT AGAINST HER/ HIS WILL. THESE CRIMES MAY INCLUDE OBSCENE PHONE CALLS, INDECENT EXPOSURE, SEXUAL BATTERY, RAPE, ORAL COPULATION STALKING (INCLUDING ONLINE). SEXUAL ASSAULTS, INCLUDING THOSE COMMITTED BY “ACQUAINTENCES” OR “DATES” ARE CRIMES PUNISHABLE BY ARREST AND IMPRISONMENT, SUSPENSION OR EXPULSION FROM THE UNIVERSITY, AND/OR TERMINATION OF EMPLOYMENT. A CRIMINAL CONVICTION IS NOT REQUIRED BEFORE THE UNIVERSITY PURSUES STUDENT OR EMPLOYEE DISCIPLINE. WHAT IS SEXUAL HARASSMENT? SEXUAL HARASSMENT OCCURS WHEN A STUDENT, STAFF OR FACULTY MEMBER OF SFSU INTERFERES WITH ANOTHER’S ACCESS TO EDUCATION OR EMPLOYMENT BY GIVING THEM UNWANTED SEXUAL ATTENTION. SEXUAL HARASSMENT MAY INCLUDE UNWANTED REQUESTS OR DEMANDS FOR SEXUAL FAVORS REWARDS FOR ACCEPTING ADVANCES PUNISHMENT FOR REFUSING ADVANCES UNWELCOME SEXUALLY SUGGESTIVE REMARKS COMMENTS ABOUT YOUR BODY INTRUSIVE QUESTIONS ABOUT YOUR SEXUAL ACTIVITY OR ORIENTATION GAY-BAITING DISPLAY OF SEXUALLY EXPLICIT MATERIAL CRIMINAL ACTS SUCH AS STALKING OR SEXUAL ASSAULT