Infancy and Childhood Social Development Stranger Anxiety Attachment • An emotional tie with another person; shown in young children by their seeking closeness to the caregiver and showing distress in separation. Factors of Attachment • Body Contact • Familiarity • Responsive Parenting Body Contact • It was first assumed that infants became attached to those who satisfied their need for nourishment. Then this guy came along…….. Harry Harlow and his Discovered that monkeys preferred the soft body contact of a cloth mother, over the nourishment of a hard/wirily mother. Familiarity • Attachments based on familiarity are formed during our critical periods. Critical Periods: the optimal period shortly after birth when an organism’s exposure to certain stimuli or experiences produce proper development. Imprinting • The process by which certain animals form attachments during a critical period very early in life. Do human’s imprint? Secure Attachment Predicts Social Competence Deprivation of Attachment • Often withdrawn, frightened and in extreme cases speechless. •Harlow’s monkeys would either cower in fright or act extremely aggressive. Many could not mate and if they could, the mothers were unresponsive parents. •Is there a connection between crime and lack of childhood attachment? Daycare • High Quality daycare has shown no detrimental effects on children over the age of two. •The studies go both ways for children under the age of two- no clear answer yet. Self - Concept • A sense of one’s identity and self-worth. When does self-awareness start? Child Attachment Styles based on Mary Ainsworth’s (1971) “The Strange Situation” studies: • put a baby and mother into a room. Observe. • Take mother away. Observe. • Send mother back in. Observe. Ainsworth’s attachment styles • Secure Attachment(66%) – use mother as base to explore; distressed when mother leaves; • happy when she returns • Most common Ainsworth’s attachment styles • Insecure-avoidant (20%) – not distressed at mother leaving; cool response when mother returns • Probably caused by distant mothers • Maybe they don’t get love from anywhere else so they force it from their child in a controlling way. Ainsworth’s attachment styles • insecure- resistant (12%) – clingy to mother; traumatized by every stage of the experiment; distrustful of their mothers • Caused by over-bearing, controlling mothers General Parenting Styles • • • • • Based on Diana Baumrind’s studies They are: Permissive Authoritarian Authoritative Permissive Parents • Parents submit to their children’s desires, make few demands and use little punishment. Authoritarian Parents • Impose rules and expect obedience. •“Why, because I said so!!!!” Authoritative Parents • Parents are both demanding and responsive. • Exert control by setting rules, but explain reasoning behind the rules. • Encourage open discussion.