Chapter 5 Guided Notes 1. Violence is 2. A conflict is 3. Factors that lead to conflicts between teens are: 4. Avoiding dangerous situations 5. Resolving conflict without violence Conflict resolution is a ___________________way to deal with arguments Negotiate- bargain or ______________ for a peaceful solution to the problem Peer mediation Be ________________, use “I” messages, don’t make _______________, don’t ____________ your voice 6. Making GREAT decisions Give thought to the __________________ Review your choices Evaluate the _____________________ of each choice Assess and choose the _________ choice Think it over afterward 7. What is abuse? Abuse is ______________ or emotional harm to someone Unfortunately, the most common forms of abuse come from people one should be able to ____________ Look for these characteristics in people: controlling, _________________, manipulative, selfish, aggressive, needy, jealous, scary temper, mean 8. Types of abuse: 9. Draw the cycle of domestic violence----------- 10. Effects of Abuse: ______________ Low self-esteem Poor ______________ or overeating Low energy or fatigue Poor ______________________ and difficulty making decisions Difficulty ________________ Feelings of worthlessness Feelings of guilt, shame, and ___________ 11. Protecting yourself from abuse 12. Help for the abused 13. Sexual abuse Any sexual act without _______________ ______________- sexual activity between family members who are not husband and wife Child abuse is common and children feel ashamed and are less likely to tell anyone what is happening 14. Sexual harassment ____________________________________________________________ Examples: telling unwanted jokes, making sexual remarks about a person’s clothing, touching a person inappropriately, staring at a person’s body parts, making sexual gestures, continuously asking a person out 15. Responding to sexual harassment There are two things you can do to stop the harassment: 1. 2. *Sexual harassment is illegal 16. Sexual assault and rape Sexual assault is any ____________________ in which force or the threat of force is used Date rape is sexual intercourse that is forced on a victim by someone the victim knows 80% of victims of sexual assault and rape know their ________________ Victims of sexual assault and rape suffer both _______________ and emotional _______________ 17. Protecting yourself from sexual abuse and violence Keep your doors and windows ______________ at home, do not answer the door for strangers Do not walk alone at night Keep your ______________ handy If you are being _______________, call out for help! 18. Make sure you are away from further harm Call for ________ Don’t change anything about your body or your environment Ask someone to take you to the _________________ Seek _______________ or counseling CHAPTER 4 REVIEW Stressor Distress Eustress 5 types of stressors Resiliency Fight-or-flight response Alarm, Resistance and Exhaustion stages Grieving 5 stages of the grieving process