Journal Research in Peace, Gender and Development (JRPGD) Vol. 4(5) pp. 80-93, August, 2014 DOI: http:/dx.doi.org/10.14303/jrpgd.2014.025 Available online http://www.interesjournals.org/ JRPGD Copyright © 2014 International Research Journals Full Length Research Paper Men and Women; an analysis of the difference status of Men and Women especially in the Asian Regions *Prashobh Karunakaran Senior Lecturer in Electrical Engineering Universiti Malaysia Sarawak (UNIMAS) Kuching, Sarawak, Malaysia *Corresponding author email: prashobh.karunakaran@gmail.com, kpkumar@feng.unimas.my, www.unimas.com.my ABSTRACT This paper aims at resolving the mass murder of female babies or fetuses in India, China and elsewhere. The number of female babies or children killed in India and China alone is running at over 220 million over this generation alone. The only thing humans at large can do about this appalling genocide (the killing of babies without the Y gene) is to foster equal status of men and women and bring about men of quality who respects women’s equality. This genocide has been covered up with names like infanticide but it is actually the worst genocide in the history of earth. The word genocide has been adopted by United Nations to have legal consequences in January 1951. Once a situation categorized as genocide, countries are compelled to take action. 140 nations have rectified this convention so far. This United Nations charter came about due to the vigorous campaign by a lawyer named Raphael Lemkin to prevent the horrors of the holocaust from ever happening again. Keywords: Female infanticide, genocide, status of women and men. INTRODUCTION The mother's lap is the school for all; it is everyone’s first place of worship. Therefore mothers should be conferred the highest respect. Fathers provide material wealth for the family while mother fosters the moral strength which is so critical to the smooth running of any society. But today this respect for women have dwindled to such an extent that they are murdered as soon as they are born. Instead of being adored, elderly mothers are sent to old folk homes. The realization by all, for the special role of women can help reduce divorce rates and other separation between parents which is deteriorating the status of women and therefore society as a whole. Leaders of the world are just not focusing on the terrible and huge genocide of women. It is easy to detect this killing because research have shown that if humans do not interfere with natural selection, a nation will always have 50% males and 50% female, plus minus a few percentage (CIA Fact Book, 2014). It is one of the miracles that God (or the all-powerful force) created to show His existence. For example, U.S.A has a slightly higher percentage of males but they tend to die off at a faster rate in wars and accidents. Therefore in India and China which has 70 and 150 million less female respectively, it is conclusive that a total of 220 million female babies or children were killed within this generation. This figure of 220 million in these two countries itself compares to the much hyped killing of 72 million people during the entire World War II (WWII). Some may argue that the economic consequence of WWII is greater. But given a proper administration, the lost opportunity cost 220 million females definitely greater. Some sociologist claim that extra population is a burden (Thane, 1987), which is just like saying because we cannot enter a door we need to cut off our heads. Any businessmen will state that it is easier to do business when population is higher. The higher population will provide markets as well as labor to run businesses. How many top scholars, scientist or mothers or wives of scientist are lost as all these females are killed? Then there is the 220 million men who will end up without wives and this will lead to social problems where everyone get effected; media reports of rapes in India brought down the tourism industry by 30% (Tiwari, 2012). The lack of extra guidance of 220 million mothers to the country’s population is immense. Mothers are the main guides for children. Karunakaran 81 Problem Definition and Solution The only way a society can truly progress is by allowing women to come up in society. Women can achieve anything they set their minds on. Women should be encouraged and given equal opportunities in all levels of society. Sadly today life have become so perverted that only evil violation of women triumphs. Humans must realize that for a country to be strong and stable, its women must be independent and have a spiritual culture. Mothers can rid the world of injustice, greed, falsehood and cruelty if they are trusted enough by men for the upbringing of their children. For this great responsibility, women must be provided a good education. It must be noted that in places where education is provided equally to man and women, the infanticide problem vanishes; this in can be observed in Kerala, India (Menon, 1979). The universal rule to treat females is to treat others in the same way one would like others to treat oneself. The problem with all genocides is that the victims are not taken as equal. The Nazis did not believe the Jews were as human as themselves. Similarly the aggressors in the killing of female babies do not perceive them as equal to themselves. We have to move to a new world where humans have to realize from DNA evidence that all human beings are of one species quite different from other human-like species like Neanderthals or Denisovan. Humans have to forget their violent past which only adds to grief. Evidences of successful economies where women are treated amicably are plenty. As these stories are propagated, humans will gain strength from them and make appropriate changes in their countries. Women tend to be considered ‘weak’ because they yield to anger and sorrow much more easily than men; so they need to take extra pains to overcome these two. After spending years in schools, all the way to universities, women should not shut themselves in homes. A married life is where they can set up ideal homes but they should also utilize all they have studied so meticulously at such great cost. Education and taking care of children has become big business as the prices in this fields increases it would be economical and natural for woman to opt to fully take up the service of educating their own children. Man needs woman as much as woman needs man. On average in the world (especially if the developing countries are included), women the world over turns little raw products, like wheat, rice, corn flour, vegetables or other merge raw materials into nourishment for entire families. But statistically families without the critical link of having both a man and woman bringing in and processing the raw food, tend to be the ones living in poverty or starving from malnutrition. In richer families the differentiation between wage earners and non-wage earners tend to be greater because luxuries are expensive and only the wage earner can purchase them. However there are cases in modern societies where women can successfully bring up children, especially with some help from parents (King CS 1969). The statistics of single mother taking care of families without any help from parents are not good. In UK for example, 47% of the single parent families live below the government defined poverty line (Risman and Park, 1988). A Swedish study stated that children from single parent families are three times more likely to kill themselves or end up in hospital after an attempted suicide (Quinlan, 2003). A US study showed that children of divorced parents are seven times more likely to suffer from depression in adult life. 30% of children from broken families have to spend some period of their lives with step parents (Shattuck and Kreider, 2012). Thus there is a need for all to appreciate the contributions of both females and males to households so that all can understand the ultimate aim of ensuring a decent future for children and therefore societies and the world at large. Women have been fighting for recognition in USA since 1872. In that year Susan B. Anthony was arrested and fined $100 for voting and she refused to pay. She went on to give an inspiring speech where she highlighted that the United States constitution stated that, "We, the people of the United States, in order to form a more perfect union, establish justice, insure domestic tranquility, provide for the common defense, promote the general welfare, and secure the blessings of liberty to ourselves and our posterity, do ordain and establish this Constitution for the United States of America." She argued that the constitution talked about, “We the people” and not the males or half of the population only (DuBois and Anthony, 1877). It is brave women like Susan Anthony who liberated women to the extent seen today. This is a far cry from the Roman times when men can have an affair with any woman who does not belong to another basically rendering woman as property. Therefore woman in USA are way ahead in their fight for equal rights and liberty especially after the big campaigns in the 1970s. The realization that they were free gave them assertive power in marriages but it also caused a sharp increase in divorces. Woman and children are often the victims of this. Single mother families are the poorest Americans. As an example of what is going on in single families headed by ladies, one lady said on the Opera show that to bring up her three children, she had a day job and at nights had to get involved in the prostitution trade. The current trend of boys and girls falling in love at too young an age is one of the major causes of the prevalence of single mothers which has proven to be detrimental to society. Once children are mature and capable of supporting a family, it is appropriate to “fall 82 J. Res. Peace Gend. Dev. in love and marry”. This will also reduce the cases of heart-broken boys and girls who commit suicide over failed love affairs. No doubt there are physical differences and woman tends to be physically weaker on the average, but women generally make it up with better health statistics. Basically humans, whether male or female are essentially the same inside; males were born with a bulge at the crotch while females get their bulge later in their lives on their chests. Humans have become so materialistic that the overwhelming majority of humans tend to judge woman physically, obscuring the innate spiritual powers within them. There is an interesting ancient scripture which states that males and females are not defined by their strength and beauty. They should be defined by how they practice differing but very powerful virtues of truth for man and love for woman. Strength and beauty are the outcome of practicing these virtues. The same ancient scripture states that girls are for peace and boys are for wisdom. This love should be differentiated from lust; the best definition of love being the affection of a mother for a child. As a sample of a situation to indicate how love is paramount for females compared to truth. This author was leading a charity initiative of building shelters for the poor. A far away village was reached to build a home. After the initial work, construction supplies had to be purchased from the closest town. Firstly a hardware store of a father and his sons (four sons) was approached. The father said that they cannot deliver because their truck was out and that the delivery can only be made at 1:00pm. So another hardware store was approached, which was run by a mother and her daughters. The mother said that delivery can be made immediately but it was only delivered at 2:00pm! This sample situation indicates that women can more easily tell lies than men because their main characteristic is not truth but love. Women can be excused for this because they more than compensate their ability to lie with their plentiful love which they always need to bind their families together. On the other hand, even ruthlessly bad gambling men tend not to be untruthful in a gambling game. Truth is one virtue men understands and tend to keep as a pillar even while doing bad things. It is easier for a woman to lie just as it is easier for a man to not love despite getting involved in actions which indicate that they are in love. This must be the reason why some women fall for worst among men who pretend to love them for ulterior motives. The physical form to which we are born informs us and also naturally guides our bodies to value the appropriate virtues of truth or love. Mother Theresa proved that by practicing pure love, she could move the masses to eradicate the poverty of millions of destitute people. She declared that the real poverty is the absence of love. She also said woman is neither meant to surpass man, nor to be trampled under his foot. She should stand as his equal, his companion in his joys and sorrows of life (Poplin, 2011). This innate virtue inherent in woman can also translate to physical strength as shown by Genevieve, a French lady who practiced loving spirituality to almost extreme extent (being a vegetarian who ate only twice a week), which gave her great spiritual powers. She depicted the best in womanhood in ancient Europe (419-512 AD). Her prayers was said to have saved Paris from Attila the Hun (Bentley, 1993). Then there was Joan of Arc, who in 1429, convinced the uncrowned King Charles VII of her divine vision from God, instructing her to go on a mission to save France from an almost unfathomable forces of the British. The sixteen year old Joan was sent by uncrowned king Charles VII at the head of a French army to fight at the siege at Orleans, where they won after a nine-day war. Joan led the French army for a few more victories which eventually freed France from English domination (Lucie-Smith, 1976). In India, one of the most highly regarded women is Meerabai. Meerabai propagated love all through the huge empire of Akbar. Akbar, the emperor who conquered most of old India (a land stretching from Afghanistan to near the bottom of south India.) went to see her and touched her feet in reverence. That is an indication of the power of love she acquired. According to the Indian belief and ideals of marriage, husband and wife form the right and left halves of the same body respectively; they are complementary parts of the same unit. Everyone has a mother as the source of their life and body. So mothers have to be strong in mind and body. They need to be steeped in culture and process good character which is sanctified by holy thoughts of love and dedication. Good mothers make a good nation. Most leaders of nations have not started to value this contribution of mothers, though it is far more powerful than all the weapons and other material needs nations seems to striving for (Flood, 1996). When this author asked her nine year daughter, while playing basketball, “If you got a 95% marks and was competing to get a job with a boy who got only 80%, and he got the job just because he is a boy, would you agree to this?” She said, “That’s cheating!” with an affirmative and raised voice. It is just not a natural for a female to accept differential treatment from males. But when grown up ladies are asked the same question, the answers are not so definite. Some answer that they are not sure and others just avoid the question and a few others reluctantly agree. One educated (with a degree in biology) and modern looking (short hair) lady stated that the place for a woman is at home. She continued that, it is just that Karunakaran 83 in these days, families cannot afford for her to stay at home. The answers are more definite when American ladies were asked, but even for them, there is a slight reluctance in their affirmation that woman are equal to man. The general feeling is that they are obviously different, just as every man is different from each other. But they must be treated equally just as a parent treats all babies equally. The love quality which was mentioned previously as woman’s characteristic is as powerful as the truth quality that man possess. But many ladies look at the physical level and subdue this powerful love they have in them. For example, many women in high positions tend to dress as men, even to the point of having mans’ hairs style. If a masculine look and physique drives the world’s economy why are not the most physically strong man ruling the world or even big corporations. Maybe the thousands of years of discrimination have moved into the consciousness of ladies as they grow older, causing them to believe they do not have the power. This is just like an elephant; when it is young, a chain around their legs will prevent their free movements, but as they get older, it’s belief that the chain will hold it in place is still within their consciousness, even though it has grown so huge and can easily break the chain. This author’s daughter is a human being exactly like her two brothers. She has a slightly different biological makeup, but she is going to clamor against injustice (due to her sex) against her. The differential treatment currently practiced by men or accepted by women in power (sometimes with vigor) is a learned behavior, it is not natural. Every single male on earth has a relationship with a female or many of them. This author for example was born to a family of five boys and no girls. Thus parental job was easy because all can be treated as soldiers, as numbers. But if this author was born with just one gene out of 23,000 different, the treatments and opportunities and ability to fend all throughout life would have been very different. And if this author was born in India or China as a girl there would have been a certain percentage chance of being killed at birth just because of that 1/23000 gene in that first cell within the womb. To change Russia from communism to democracy after 73 years was difficult. It was a massive “war” of thoughts to abolish slavery in Britain and America after 390 years of established practice. And this was done by brave legislators in Britain and Abraham Lincoln in USA. Thomas Jefferson was actually afraid of freeing the slaves because he felt the terrible treatment they received from the Whites will be etched in their memories and will not be able to forgive the Whites. Abraham Lincoln’s initiatives to finally free the slaves led to the Civil War in 1861, which resulted in the biggest per capita casualty of all wars fought by America. American deaths resulting from the Civil war stand at 750,000 compared to 405,399 for WWII, which in other words means America lost 2.5% of its’ population during the Civil War compared to 0.32% in WWII. This actually seems like a just emancipation for all the wrongs committed during the heights of slavery. The fight to abolish slavery actually started in England in 1783. It began when one slave trader threw overboard 132 sick slaves to their death and attempted to claim insurance for his loss. Of course the insurance companies did not want to pay so easily so they brought this news to the press and the whole England started debating about why slavery is wrong. In the British Parliament there was an argument about abolishing slavery. But slaves contributed 25% of British economy. Abolishing slavery means Britain will have to fend off France, Spain or Germany with a 25% weaker economy because those countries will keep their slaves. There were some politicians who argued that the slaves’ children can be freed first and abolishment can take time. But after a month’s argument the decision was made to immediately abolish slavery no matter what the consequence. But something else happened, British engineers and scientists had to invent machines to replace the slaves and the Industrial Revolution started which set-up Britain to have the biggest Empire in the recorded history of mankind; “The sun never set on the British Empire”. This decision within Britain took hold in America which ended up in the Civil War and emancipation of slaves there. Thus just as Britain and America made that critical decision based on morality alone, rocketed their economies, a correct moral decision regarding woman rights should promptly jump start a country’s economy (Litwack, 1979). But the episode of 390 years of slavery compares to thousands of years of discrimination against woman. The discrimination is so entrenched that even some women has over time seeped into their consciousness that they are not on the same side of the fight for their liberation. A large proportion of woman has come to accept their enslavement. These women have become what a modern army will categorize as traitors or deserters to the cause of liberating women. This fight for woman’s emancipation is such a major and drastic fight compared to the fight against slavery. There should be no traitors in this biggest battle of thoughts the world has ever fought, all woman should join in this battle against injustice because what is at stake is the murder of 220 million women in this current generation, in just India and China alone. That is not counting the billions of women who become slaves of sex, either directly or as slaves to their husbands. This fight needs an equally powerful weapon; love is that weapon. As mentioned earlier, women are more endowed with the Love characteristic than men so love is their most 84 J. Res. Peace Gend. Dev. powerful weapon which they must use. Great humans discover their advantages over others and develop it fully. A violent fight with negativity will not achieve anything. Gandhi’s principles need to be followed. If Gandhi’s principles of nonviolent fight can defeat the greatest empire in the history of mankind (the British Empire), women can use the same principles to fight the greatest injustice mankind has ever got involved in. It was so far the empirical strength that got males where there are. But empirical strength is not stable or lasting without the characteristics of truth and love. Women should use the power of love which is hidden within their frame. To nullify inner strengths or say it does not exist has been the downfall of many men so far in history. As an example, Hitler used lots of science to win a war, disregarding the finer qualities within humans therefore losing the war. The finer qualities of truth and love of the opposing side was superior to all the science of this ancient European civilization. Stories like Hitler are numerous all throughout history. Though the inequality between males and females of the human species have been going on for thousands of years and seems like perpetuity, it is just a small fraction of time over which the human race have existed. There was a longer period of time when no male will ever think of looking down upon a female. There was a time that the consciousness of men told them that every action they do or every thought has implications on their ability to survive in a dangerous world filled with wild animals. They knew they needed the inner strengths and never dared to go against their consciousness, lest they be killed. But as time went by material comfort increased thereby causing them to neglect their finer strengths which eventually led to the decline of society. Respect for the spiritual power latent in woman is obscured and might and materialistic power triumphed. In very ancient history, most of the spiritual powers were associated with females; they prayed to female Goddess. It is this strength that all children take for granted and depend on for their very survival. Children knew that the mother’s mystical power is what they depend on, just as they needed the umbilical cord while in their mother’s womb. Therefore great respect for women was the norm in ancient times. Countries even go to war because of the respect for a woman, as in the case of Helen of Troy, where the Greeks had a ferocious war with the Trojans. Another great battle was fought because of the love of the king of Spain for the queen of England. Then there is the battles fought by King Arthur for the love for Guinevere. Jared Diamond, a professor of the UCLA School of Medicine wrote an article where he stated if we had a clock of human civilization which lasted a full 24 hours and where each hour is a span of 100,000 years, we would have adopted agriculture at 11:54 pm (Diamond, 2008). The beginning of agriculture marked the beginning of power of the few men over others and also the beginning of discrimination against women. With the coming of agriculture came the need for more children and the stressing out of women’s bodies. Woman in hunters-gatherers tribes had babies only once in four years so their health was not impacted. In agricultural societies they were made baby production machines for the sake of the farms. And to add salt to these agricultural womens’ wounds, studies of ancient bones indicate that it is the women who did most of the work; thereby wearing out their bodies even more. There is hope at the end of this dark tunnel. One of the greatest scientists the world has ever known is Nikolai Tesla. Albert Einstein when asked how it felt like to be the smartest person on earth replied that it is Nikolai Tesla who should be asked that question. The whole electric power industry is based on Tesla’s original system. Tesla invented the induction motor which is the main driver of the appliances of homes all the way to the largest machines and cranes in industry. Some of his inventions were so far ahead of his time that scientist even today cannot replicate what he performed in the late 1800s and early 1900s. His inventions were just too good for the equal distribution of power and therefore wealth among humanity that the top businessmen of those days tried to blotch him out of science books so as to keep their status quo power over others. His inventions include “Radiant Energy” which is practically free energy for all mankind. He also managed to build a free energy machine which turns atmospheric nitrogen (70% of the atmosphere) into fertilizer thus providing free fertilizer for farmers. Imagine a Tesla world where one can drive from New York to London (assuming the Bering Strait Bridge is built) in an induction motor driven electric car which taps free radiant energy and as one stops somewhere in between, the food is very cheap because fertilizer is free. In a documentary by Al Gore called “Inconvenient Truth”, he stated that if a bore is made on the never frozen ice sheet of the Artic and taken out, there will be numerous layers of ice, one layer represent one year of snow. CO2 levels for thousands of years can therefore be measured. The plot shows an almost level CO2 level till somewhere around 1900 which is when Tesla was around. If Tesla had his way, the graph would have remained on its trajectory. But because of the ego of a few rich men (who knew they cannot keep their power over others as Tesla’s inventions came out), the graph is now shooting up causing severe global warming and putting the survival of humanity at stake. Natural disasters over the last few years are like a list of most disastrous in the history of mankind. There are some who claim that Tesla was actually Karunakaran 85 sent by God to guide mankind to take the appropriate step in science. Tesla once stated that the world is not ready for his inventions but one day all will use it. As far as the world-wide electric grid and usage of his induction motors is concerned, his prediction has come true. One of his predictions is that the future women will be like queen bees controlling the world. Current scientific projections concur with this prediction. A futurologist at British Telecoms, Ian Pearson predicted that sometime around 2020 intelligent machines will do most of the work currently performed by humans. The emotional and social skills that women have will be harder to program into robots. Thus there will be few jobs for humans and the only work which these machines cannot perform well, will be performed best by women. Ray Kurzweil also predicted that skills like getting close to customers will be the talent sought after most in the future; and these skills are found aptly in women. The knowledge workforce will be largely coordinated by computers and top managers who have skills which the robots do not have will be possessed mainly by women (Burgan, 2009). Women are now already doing most of the work that were till recently solely for men, like driving trucks, firefighting, being soldiers in wars and undertaking construction work. It will not be a smooth transition for women to take over. There will always be inertia to change. Spirituality will have to increase to enable the change. Spirituality means the propagation of love and through the realization that women cannot be inferior in any way by pure logic. Man and women will soon be working side by side as humans. Just as a man now works with another male colleague with respect, they will soon be working with a female colleague with respect. Males will work with female colleagues recognizing their individual limitations which are different for each and every female just as individual limitations are different for each and every male. No more will a man look upon a woman as a sexual object. They are just humans with a duty to perform so as to eventually achieve God realization. A woman will follow her conscience to live out her live as she sees fits. No man or woman should be telling her what to do based on her sex. The whole looking at opposite sex as sexual objects or wanting to be sexual objects is due to a misunderstanding that has caused a lot of problems to this world. Today many man and women simply catch on to this bandwagon of peer pressure and just follow fashion. Among the top females who exploded the myths that woman cannot achieve what men can achieve is Madame Curie. Her actual name is Maria Salomea SkÅ‚odowska and was born in Warsaw, Poland. Curie is the only human being who ever won two Nobel Prizes in different sciences (Physics and Chemistry). She and her family (husband and daughter and son in law) have won more Nobel Prizes than any family on earth so far. Curie was from an educated family but ended up poor because of her parents’ involvement in the independence struggle of Poland from Russia. So she worked as a governess (a live-in teacher for children of the rich) to support her education as well as her sister’s education. She fell in love with a resident of one of the homes she worked at. But the family did not agree to this union which broke Curie’s heart; she stayed back in Poland waiting for him. Eventually she moved to France to study at Sorbonne (the University of Paris). Curie studied chemistry, physics and mathematics. She did her study during the days and tutored during the nights to finance her education. Curie ended up with a degree in physics but continued studying till she got another degree in mathematics. She later met Pierre Curie, who French and married him. Among her contributions to science are: the theory of radioactivity (Curie coined the term), devising techniques for isolating radioactive isotopes. She also discovered two elements, namely polonium and radium (Redniss, 2010). Another great woman scientist is Stephanie Kwolek. She is the inventor of the material called Kevlar. She grew up in Pennsylvania and studied at a women’s college which is now part of Carnegie Mellon University in Pittsburg. She earned a Bachelor in Chemistry degree in 1946 with an aim to continue her studies to become a medical doctor. But because of lack of funds, she took up a research job at DuPont’s textile fibers laboratory in Buffalo, New York. She worked very hard and had a deep love for her work. She knew that hard work was the only way to not lose her laboratory position as many other women did after World War II ended. In the 1950s, she was transferred to a superior laboratory named the DuPont Pioneering Research Laboratory in Wilmington, Delawae. Stephanie had a number of successes in her search for new and better polymers. She specialized in the creation of long chain polymers out of petroleum at low temperatures which gave them a very high strength and rigidity. In the 1960s she discovered a new branch of synthetics materials called liquid crystalline polymers. She is therefore credited to having made the first monomers used to make polybenzamide. She eventually created an aramid polymer that most researchers would have rejected because it was fluid and cloudy. But her instinct told her to spring out the solution and the result was a synthetic fiber much stiffer and stronger than any created previously. This was called Kevlar which is five times stronger than steel but has a weighs 20 % less. Today Kevlar is used mainly in bullet proof vests and in tires replacing the steel netting frame within it. Other uses of Kevlar are in brake pads, spacecraft shells, suspension bridge cables, skis and helmets (Rossiter, 1998). 86 J. Res. Peace Gend. Dev. Females today are displayed in newspapers and magazines as objects. Just imagine when woman have all the power as predicted by Tesla, they will never tolerate this sacrilege of a woman’s body. A woman’s body just happened to look like it does because it is conducive to being mothers. The media is putting a false image of how a woman should look like. No two women look alike, just as no two men look alike. All humans have different physical traits some are thin, some fat and some just healthy. Depicting some healthy women’s pictures on the media is just like showing scantily clothed bodybuilders as a representative of men and most women will expect men to be as the mass media portrays them. Just as most men cannot achieve the level of fitness of a bodybuilder, most women also cannot achieve the level of fitness of a supermodel. One quite successful woman asked, is there a reason why the pictures in the media are all of women? Where are the pictures of the men? Many women are suffering and dying from anorexia and bulimia because men are designing ridiculous and absurd clothes as fashionable. Movies, magazines, newspapers and the other media portray the perfect woman as a slim form which few women can aspire to attain.A typical men will be offended, irritated and will most probably throw away a newspaper depicting scantily clothed men. When the opinion of the first lady was mentioned to another more educated (a lady with a Masters in Chemical engineering from a top university in Canada) and successful lady, she said people should be free to wear whatever they feel comfortable in; continuing that the type of clothes they wear represents their character. When mentioned that it may not be their character but she might be paid money to do this and this gives a bad impression of woman in general, she said the man should not buy into the impression that degrades women. She went on to state that businesses can come up with lots of gimmicks but consumers need to analyze whether they want the product or not (Lim, 2008). The overall conclusion is that women are not as irritated upon seeing a picture of a scantily clothed woman as men are upon seeing scantily clothed men. The second women, generally seem to state that men or women should not judge how a women dress, they should be free to wear as little clothes as they want as befitting their character. No criminal have the slightest right to claim little clothes on a women as a justification for rape. This author’s three children (two boys and a girl) were told of Nikolai Tesla’s prediction about woman acquiring most of the power in the world. The two boys were obviously angry and the girl was happy. Then the boys were informed of how Russia turned communist, where the oppressed Bolsheviks took revenge upon the royalty and killed them in anger. The boys were informed that if they treat woman just as the kings of Russia treated the oppressed, females will eventually take revenge on males. If oppression continues today, one day revengeful woman will create a women-power world, where magazines or newspapers will be full of semi-naked men’s pictures. Most men will be nauseated by this, but this is how women feel upon seeing the semi naked pictures of women in the media. If things are not set right now, when women hold all the top positions in the world, it will be revenge time and men will be the scared second class citizens. Women will call men for dates and everything will be totally reversed. Some men ask today how could this possibly happen? It is simple; the muscular strength that got men where they are today will have no more economic value in the upcoming robotic age. Brains and other soft skills will bring in the money. Muscular strength will be an economically valueless beautification of men’s body, just like the biologically needed softness of a woman’s body became less economically valued and are depicted in the media to please the lower urges of men. What should men who champion the open market today do to prevent or reduce this180 degrees turnaround is to ensure economic growth is more broadly shared with women. Men need to remind themselves of the olden days when having equal rights was the norm for most of human history. If the whole history of mankind is taken into account, humans were farming for just 0.3% of the span of time they have been on earth (Diamond, 2008). Men would bring home the roots, fruits or meat and women were the ones who cooked it so that all could consume. The very important function of processing the food into edible forms was vital for human survival. Even today man tends to be less willing to open up a fruit or cut off the outer layers especially of difficult fruits like pineapples. But if this is not done and served to children, the human species will not thrive. Also the important function of procreating was viewed as vital for the survival of the community. Therefore men of ancient times had a great respect for the women who performed the vital task of cooking and procreation. This explains why the very ancient Gods were mostly women. Thus woman had equal say in the collective decisions made by the communities of most of the span of human civilization. As far as cooking is concerned, if women continued developing recipes right through these scientific times, there, there will be no hunger in the world. All plant material can be consumed; if cows can consume grass with their extensive digestive system, why can’t humans with all our science and machines process grass and any vegetation till it becomes fit for human consumption? In other words, it is the lack of recipes which is the cause of the large number of humans dying of hunger. With the correct recipes, only crops Karunakaran 87 natural to a particular location will be grown, thus evading the need to have fertilizers and pesticides. As an example, a healthy vegetable called Sourpuss androgynous is natural to the island of Borneo and it grown without any need for fertilizer or pesticides. On the other hand, other vegetables sold in Borneo markets (which mostly originated from China or Europe) need chemicals to survive. If this machine is invented humans will not need to grow corn or soybean in the Amazon, destroying the rich natural vegetation there. Imagine a world where humans just have to go out to the nearest wild vegetation near their homes, put it in a machine within their kitchens and out comes the most tasty and nutritious food. The food output from the machine can be made to cater to the owner’s taste and do not need to be a “one-sizefits-all food item”. In that ancient and simple life of hunters and gathers, there was no buildup of ego which came about due to the ownership of properties like farms. Humans survived on the one or two meals a day which was a sustainable culture for earth. There was no subjugation of other humans as slaves to work large farms which enriched the owners who consequently had their ego even more entrenched in a belief system that they were as class superior. Thus slavery and women subjugation rooted from a learnt belief by some that they are superior to others due to their ownership of great wealth. Women who tend to be naturally more loving and humble were initially less affected by this learnt subjugating hierarchy but were gradually classified closer to the slaves. Rich farming communities started sending young girls to other villages to be married off as peace treaties or as seals to unify farming wealth. Thus female began to be considered as commodities rather than the embodiments of love that they are. The original culture of India held a high regard for women; many of the Gods in the temples are females. Women are referred to as the embodiment of the goddess of wealth (Lakshmi) in homes. One very ancient text stated that, everyone can understand the nature of truth irrespective of their caste, creed or sex. The holiness of the state of realization burns to ashes all such limitations. Religion places a high regard for people, irrespective of sex, all who love in equal measure, who are devoid of selfishness, who are engaged in the promotion of the welfare for all, who have dedicated themselves to the service of mankind and who are ready to sacrifice everything. The main cause of the killing of female babies of fetuses in India today is the dowry system, where the families of females need to pay the husband’s families a relatively huge sum of money to get their daughters married. The dowry system is not written in any Indian scriptures or legends. The government of India has officially banned dowry in any form but it prevails illegally. It is just the peer pressure that has built this culture of competition to fork out money by parents to get their daughters married. The competition among the rich to give more and more dowry have infiltrated to the lower statures of society. This evil culture is making parents unwilling to have female children. So much so that if a first child of a newlywed couple is a girl, some sections of India consider that couple cursed. Dowry has turned into a competition in the villages of India, the more money or other wealth (which can be gold, houses or vehicles) given in dowry, the better the status of the parents. Consequently parents who give a low dowry can even be looked upon as those who care less for their female children. Even a maid servant (the lowest strata of society) will have to come up with 50,000 rupees to get married while making only 12,000 rupees per year. Which means a typical maid will have to save five times her yearly wage to get married. It is this cruel culture that has caused the murder of 70 million baby girls in India within this generation alone. One saint stated that boys who collect dowries for their marriages are committing a sin. He continued that the problems which India is facing today are due to the dowry system. In one of the most revered scriptures, it is stated that women are endowed with seven kinds of powers while men have only three (Larson, 1981); despite this, husbands or their families have to be paid to take a precious daughter as his wife. In a related scriptural text; cowherd girls went to Krishna’s (a God of 5,000 years ago) home to meet Him but a watchman prevented them from going into the home, saying that woman cannot enter it. One of the girls questioned him, “How come you are there?” He replied, “I am a male.” She then remarked, “You cannot call yourself a male merely because you are wearing a male dress. The five elements and the five life principles are the same in you and us. Merely because you are wearing a male dress and we are wearing a female dress, we can be different from each other? The same divinity is present in you and us. In fact, Krishna alone is the male principle, all others are females”. A further scripture states that to be born as a woman is very fortunate. Only ignorant men think that they are superior to women. Ladies have pride (self-respect), wealth (noble and virtuous qualities), sweet talk, education, intelligence, strength (fortitude) and patience. Woman is the foundation on which a peaceful and happy world is to be raised. An era of peace and joy can be possible only when women are true and brave, kind and compassionate, virtuous and pious. The mother's lap is the first school and temple for every child; mother is his foremost God. Mother is every man's primary wealth. It is the duty of every person to recognize this truth. Everyone should 88 J. Res. Peace Gend. Dev. cherish their parents as embodiments of the Divine. The father and the mother are inseparable like the word and its meaning. The mother and father may be physically separate, but spiritually, they are one. A powerful story of how a woman used the power of love to win fame and overall well-being of everyone is the story of Savitri. She was the only daughter of a king. Thus the country did not have a son to carry on the line. The princes of the other kingdoms found her too educated and beautiful to marry. So her father sent her out with a contingent to find a suitable husband herself. The contingent passed a hermit in the jungle and she immediately felt in her heart that he was the one for her. The hermit turned out to be the son of a defeated king whose family now lives in the jungle. But later the seers of the time informed her father that this choice of hers was destined to die in a year’s time. But she insisted that she has already chosen the hermit in her heart and the marriage was duly conducted in the jungle. She gave up all her luxuries and moved to his small hut in the forest. She did not inform her husband or his family of the predictions of the seers. When the destined day came and her husband died, the God of death came for his soul. She said to the God that she was going to follow her husband wherever he went. The god of dead of course refused and persuaded her to go back and take care of the funeral of her husband. She said her husband’s body is useless without the soul. The God of death was pleased by the strength of her love and granted her some boons. She asked that her father-inlaw have his kingdom back and that her father have a son to be the heir to the Kingdom. She also asked for a 100 children. Once these boons were granted, Savitri asked the God of death, how will she have children without a husband? Laughing at her intelligence, the god of death sent her husband’s soul back to his body. Thus the true love of Savitri for her husband changed the destiny of two countries, (that of her parents and that of her parent’s in law) and also brought back her husband from the clutches of death. It is not known how a women can bear 100 children but this story is really ancient and it is possible human lifespan was much longer in those days. Despite all these guidance that India has, female babies are being killed. A common mode on how this is done is by feeding rice powder when they are just born. Another way is to drain out a poisonous juice from a weed and feed this to babies. One of the prime reasons why parents kill their female child is the culture of purchasing gold to give to their daughter when they get married. Gold price is sky rocketing so it is imperative that all females abandon the need to beautify themselves with this metal. This is a fashion which should be relegated to history books. Warren Buffett who made a huge financial empire via investment and who even gives financial advice to the President Obama stated that he has so far never invested in gold and never will. He called it non-productive asset which he terms as risky assets. Gold can be compared to tulips in Holland in the 1600s. Prices of Tulips ballooned to more than 10 times an average Dutch craftsman’s yearly wage and then busted to almost worthlessness. Buffett justified that if all the gold in the world was melted and turned into a cube, it would have sides of 68 feet. Assume a wealthy man A owns this cube and another wealthy man B owns all the farms and engineering companies of the world. Most of humanity will hope to be B who will have the power even to bring down the price of gold to nothingness. B would be doing a service to society causing whole earth’s population hoping and praying that his company survives and is run properly (NASDAQ, 2014). Richer females who “beautify themselves with gold” should realize that poorer women do look up to them as role models thereby emulating their waste of money. The eventual consequence is the murder of female babies. Maybe a tiny gold ear ring may enhance beauty but this male author cannot see beauty in a lady that puts on lots of gold. This author is an electrical engineer who took an oath upon graduating from university to never wear any gold on his body (due to the conductivity of gold); hence a probable bias against gold ownership. Even some educated woman today insists that they will give their daughter gold and other gifts for their marriage. Instead of showing this kind of familial connection to their daughters, they should show even truer love by promising to help their daughters with her children. That is a real love compared to a material lump sum of love (gold) that seems like a stamp on an envelope to send the daughter away from the home for good. A parent is always a parent to a daughter; this relationship should continue till one party dies. In addition to the Indian government’s banning of the dowry system, there are many religious organizations in India working on abolishing it. Currently sign board advertisements appear all over the country highlighting the preciousness of having a female baby (Srinivasan and Gary, 2004). After interviewing some women about how to solve this problem, the consensus is that men in India must refuse to accept any material gifts from the families of their wives. That should be propagated all over India. But both men and women must embark on bring in this culture. In India as well as in most countries, men do not understand the virtues of women and just take them to be weaker and incapable of doing important work. But actually the respect accorded to homes, communities or countries is due to the women living in them. A country is described as a Motherland and not Fatherland and our languages are called our Mothertongues. No cultures call their home country their Karunakaran 89 father land (Larson, 1981). In China the killing of female children is so prevalent that 150 million men (two and a quarter times the population of United Kingdom) will not be able to get married. Gangsters who will do anything for money are already engaged in capturing girls from neighboring countries to satisfy the demand of Chinese men for wives. In Chinese culture, there is a bias against females because they do not carry the family surname. Also in more traditional Chinese families, females must follow the husband’s family so parents do not see enough value in keeping a female child. In the previous generation, there was a higher chance of a female dying while giving birth so parents lowered the value of female babies because they expected these girls to die at age 15-20 anyway, when they gave birth. These cultural biases are hugely accentuated by the One-Child-Policy in China. A family has one chance to have a boy and if that fails, the baby is killed (Greenhalgh, 2003). As of 2014 the government of China has not decided to abandon this policy. A common way to kill female babies at birth is to place the placenta on top of the baby at birth. Upon making a survey, killing of female children is almost unheard of among Malaysian Chinese but it did exist a few generations ago in Malaysia. One 50 years old Chinese Malaysian man narrated of how his sisters were given away at birth by his father. He has no idea where the sisters are now as his father had passed away. He knew of people around him who have killed female babies. Today things have changed in Malaysia but one Chinese father said he sent his daughter for a diploma and did not want to spend on her degree because he was worried that she will not support him later in life. But her younger daughter managed to convince him to sponsor her all the way to finish her Masters degree. Mallika Sarabhai wrote an article that many women themselves are contributing to the lowering of women’s status in society. Thousands of years of patriarchy will have to be abolished in both the minds of women as well as men. She stated that women have to ask a few question themselves, like, have they the right to criticize or do they themselves secretly engage in thoughts that discriminate women? Do women themselves prefer male friends, children or colleagues? Do women themselves trust a man more than another woman? Do women themselves fall back to feminine tricks or charms or live as a human person? In the US only 20% of the engineering students are female and only 9% of American engineers are women. The statistics of women in engineering are less in most other countries. The reason for this is that engineering often requires long hours of travel, which is taxing to women and even for men. Often duty calls in the middle of the night or a sudden trip overseas for even months at a time. These might be too much for mothers who normally have to take care of children, housekeeping or even looking after aged parents. Thus women tend to find it hard to climb the corporate ladder in engineering. Thus the proverbial “glass ceiling” tend to keep woman away from the top positions of corporations. A survey of woman in the engineering profession gave the following wishes. Woman would like to be, treated with respect, given a chance to prove themselves, have their thinking accepted, treated as peers in teams, mentored by experienced seniors and encouraged (Hersh, 2000). The current statistics is that for every 140 woman graduates from college there are 100 men. At work woman get promoted at an average of 2.6 years after employment while men get promoted at an average of 3.6 years after employment. But men who are even learning disabled tend to on the average make more money over time compared to even intelligent ladies. This is because of the cultural peer pressure that puts man as the leader of household, thereby forcing them to earn money for the family whatever the situation may be. These numbers come from an illuminating new book called "The Sexual Paradox" by psychologist Susan Pinker. She studied a group of boys with various learning disorders and tracked them as they grew into adults; many of them highly successful ones. They took on competitive, higherpaying jobs requiring long hours. Pinker began noticing that the girls who had outscored them in classrooms turned out to be much more likely to drop out of the work force, downshift to less demanding jobs or avoid high-income and high-stress work (Pinker, 2008). This must be because of their biological and psychological makeup of valuing love while men strive for truth and building the periphery of their family units by being totally engrossed in their jobs. Men tend to be more mechanical in their familial relationship. They will provide the physical amenities required for a family unit but dealing with domestic relationships is stressful and therefore often avoided by them. But technology is slowly but surely changing the situation of females engineers, who are starting to contribute from their homes via computer and the internet. It is obvious that a woman will be better designers for products used by women who make up half of the world’s population. So such jobs should be solely reserved for women. The “female difference” is needed to solve many of the problems in engineering. In addition women have a different way to solve problems at work which male colleagues can observe and learn from. An engineer needs to be dedicated and disciplined, it is this characteristic that gets jobs done, it doesn’t matter if the engineer is a man or 90 J. Res. Peace Gend. Dev. woman. One cannot equate a lazy male engineer with a dedicated woman engineer. It is just like equating a drunkard and burnt out male with a highly evolved spiritual female person. The notion of equal rights (not equality) should be firmly entrenched in the minds of men. Equality often means the expectation that the women behave like men which is unnatural. Equal rights means men need to accept that woman have equal rights to thieve as human beings. Men and women excel in differing aspects of the life, we live here on earth but anyone should be given freedom to choose whatever profession he or she feels comfortable with. A woman may choose a profession normally performed by the toughest man or a man may choose to a profession previously only done by a woman. Each should be given the freedom to choose their profession and this freedom should never be curtailed by the sex they were born. Any learned economist will explain that curtailing freedom of economic activity is a sure way to kill the economy. Humans have experimented with curtailed freedom when half the world was communist; it was a failed experiment which is why the communist world turned back to freedom. One way for man or woman foster equality is to remind ourselves of our start as babies, male and female babies are so similar, it is illogical that their rights get diverged as they grow up. Parents at homes need to start making concerted efforts to ensure all duties are shared. Conventionally defined roles of husbands and wives have to be abandoned. The days when physical might is economically valued more are gone, the current world’s economy values attributes found in man as much as those found naturally in woman. Even the allocation of more status for physical might was not fairly done previously because some women are much stronger than men. Many women feel they need to act masculine to reach the top echelons of a company or society. Often feeling they would not be taken seriously in the board rooms if they act feminine. Hillary Clinton is one example of a lady who kept her feminine characteristics all through her run for president. She even shed tears at one point during the campaign which seemed to act for her benefit according to poll figures. Latest study has shown that women CEOs are motivated by love for their subordinates. This goes well with latest management theories where the old ways of forcing people to perform has now been discarded for loving persuasion. This is especially true in high technology factories where a disgruntled worker can bring in a grain of salt and damage a whole production line of silicon chip manufacturing. The current trend among women workers is that they tend to be more feminine upon joining the job but sheds their feminity for more masculine traits as they get older. In current boardrooms, women at the top are all assertive; only a few women who act feminine have made it to the top. One lady writer asserts that only females executive who act masculine makes it to the top. But this behavior is more due to outside pressure and expectations rather than how the woman decides to act themselves. But staff generally expects female executives to be more nurturing than men. Female managers tend to remember the children’s name of staff and not question why staffs are taking personal time off. One way a female executive can succeed is by shaking hands before and after meetings, giving their opinions sufficiently. Statistically woman leaders have a higher percentage of sharing credit of their achievements with their team than men. The few feminine women at the top of corporate ladders are forming a new culture. And this is good for the world because we need more women at the top who are feminine; it is just not natural to act contrary to one’s nature; being one-self will unleash power. It could be that women on the top are thinking that, having been discriminated against for thousands of years, they must be constantly on guard as militants to prevent the evil forces of discrimination sprouting and toppling them. It all goes back to fundamental values. Are these executives working for the money or giving up everything for the sake of the people under them? Having being paid millions, female CEOs should be free and concentrate on nobler values for the good of humanity and stake holders, disregarding fear of backlash from anyone. Top executives should be like the kings of ancient India who, after a certain age, gave up their kingdoms to their son and move to the jungle with their wife, wearing only simple clothes. Here they engage themselves in spiritual activities eating only roots and fruits until they die. Executive of today’s boardroom should have such self-sacrificing attitude. Women at the top are masculine, not because it is women’s nature to shed their feminity at the top but the peer pressure is to behave in such manner by the small group at the top echelons of the corporate world. The world will eventually realize that the most successful woman at the top will be feminine ones. An analogical situation is when Martina Navratilova was the first women tennis champion to be significantly better than the rest. Martina being a trail blazer in a man’s sporting world was probably pressured to feel the need to behave totally masculine. But once women’s tennis became popular because of her, the current women at the top of the game seem more feminine (Connor, March 19, 2010). On TV one a woman claimed that women in her area are discriminated against severely. Upon googling the treatment of woman in her area; web sites were filled with horror stories about being abused. Upon asking a highly educated woman about this, she said, “all women worldwide are being Karunakaran 91 discriminated against”. This statement eye-opening because she is an electrical engineer and came from a long line of people were woman were dominant in their homes and society. In that community in Southern India, property is always passed from parents to daughters and never to sons. The dowry was never practiced. For her to feel all women are discriminated against prompted further googling only to find horror stories. Stories like a single woman going out without a protector, namely a father or brother is guilty whatever the abuses against her were. Mothers should not be allowing their daughters alone in homes with their brothers or male cousins, due to the rape potential. Almost all of these go unreported because the authorities tend to be men and never seem to support the victims. One lady said that her culture forbids the talk about forced sex which is the big advantage for the predators. In cultures where woman are not allowed to voice up their concerns, the men appear as angels who never commit such crimes (Kappler, 2011). For a modern parent, it is a kind of a shock that their grown daughter needs her sibling’s or parents protection whenever she goes out. Most people point out to thousands of years of culture, but it must be noted that thousands of years is nothing compared to the span of time humans were around. One lady informed that she got a divorce from her husband because her parents in law wants her to give up her job in the town and live with them in the village. Her husband also does not have that great a job. So this woman’s grievance is the lack of financial freedom plus social freedom. She said she will not mind concentrating on taking care of her three children even if her spatial freedom is hampered, given that her husband can provide for the family properly, but her husband could not do so. Another single older lady when informed about the genocide going on in India and China asked, “why do the ladies get married if they know their babies will be killed?” She also proposed that the babies be given up for adoption even to other countries. A man interviewed mentioned that both sexes are endowed with divine characters namely the desire to do good for males and the compassionate heart for females. They display these characteristics mainly through their words. These characters complement each other. Another male mechanical engineer is more blunt, he said for pipes we have we have male fittings and female fittings, we cannot do the job with only one part we need both to get the job done. CONCLUSION Imagine a world where man and woman have totally equal rights, nobody considers the sex of a person as criteria for judging. Various humans have their own strength which can be economically viable. Among men, some use their extremely great intellect to gain financial resources and others use their muscular and technical skills to achieve economic success. Even some crippled men have stormed to the world and achieved great successes. An extreme example is Stephen Hawking. Now we must seamlessly move the hugely varied and profitable skillsets which women poses, fully into the economic arena and let them strive to capture niches which they were unable to develop due to draconian laws (which were either politically or religiously motivated). These laws were formulated by egoistic men who wanted to chain up the economic potential of women. The world of economics is different now; no longer can one define a job or group of jobs. This author is a professional electrical engineer with a PhD but is currently getting income from ten active niches markets (and a few passive ones) which he found over the years. Another example is a Mechanical engineer who used to work in Western Digital (WD) with this author. He was never a hands-on or technical engineer; he would just observe his technicians perform their jobs. But he was always the one organizing outing including lunch breaks. In 2009, over a thousand staff was retrenched because the WD factory was closing down. This mechanical engineer moved on to an oil and gas company with a lower salary than WD. His company’s projects were simple from an engineering stand point; the only issue being the securing of contracts from Shell and Petronas. Being social all his life, he excelled in this so much that they actually made him a 25% shareholder. Recently he became a 50% shareholder, thereby becoming the richest former WD staff. This mechanical engineer had a skillset which was not in his training as a mechanical engineer; he developed it and was rewarded profusely. Humans must be let totally free to find niches in the world market to survive. In the old days, humans were widely enslaved by country borders, racial borders and sexual borders. All a government needs to do is remove as much as possible these borders and the economy will automatically bloom. That is the basic mantra Adam Smith was professing in the 1700s. Much of the world did not fully understand the concept of this great mind which explains why big portions of humanity experimented with totalitarian communism the last few decades. Even today some religious extremists want to put more fences on humans’ ability to work out their niche markets. There is no need for a think-tank to find economic direction for a country, just form a think-tank on how to ensure every single citizen is totally free to find their own niche market. Niches markets for a particular human’s skills could be half way across the earth. The big 92 J. Res. Peace Gend. Dev. border this paper delves on is that of the restrictions to striving economically encountered by females, especially in the Asian countries. As these borders are totally removed prosperity of this half of the population will enrich all. At work each person contributes as varied people, some may be men and some may be women. Nobody should think that being a woman or being a man is a criterion for their appraisal. Man dress in one way which can be quite varied from one man to another, in the same way, each woman dress in quite varied ways. There are woman who dress squarely just as there are men who does so. But generally a woman will tend to dress a quanta level more fancily than men as a depiction of their innate characteristics of love. At home, woman bears the child but the work is equally shared. Most work at home is automated, the lack of automation these days is probably one of the main chains than enslave woman. Vacuuming and mopping can be automated; one only has to fill up the soap in the mopping robot or empty the dust in the robot vacuum cleaner. There are already on sale robot vacuuming and mopping machines which know when to do work as well as return back to the wall outlet to get charged. But these can also be automated further. There can be a soap dispenser which may need to be filled up only once in say three months and the purchase of this will be done automatically by the vacuum cleaner, online, delivered right to the exact station in the home where it need to be placed. Vacuum cleaners can be automated to empty the dust themselves and this will be combined with the house garbage which can automatically be emptied to the main house garbage bin. There can be automation in cleaning the dining table. Cooking is totally automated with “T.V Dinners” being ordered online delivered to refrigerators of homes. Upon pressing a button, the “T.V. Dinner moves out onto a conveyor belt and gets cooked in a microwave or other ovens and then moves onto the dining table.In other words the home will be free of work. Parents can spend quality time with their children; teaching them morality and helping them find their individual advantages which they should be encouraged to develop till they eventually find their niche market. Children will have school from 7:30am to 5:00pm or parents may choose to send their children to a school from 7:30am to 12:00pm. In the latter case one parent need to work half day or work online at home. If girls are left to their nature, they will grow up thinking that there are fully equal to their male siblings. It is only the external world which changes their views at around twelve years of age. 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