posterior cortical atrophy PCA SUPPORT GROUP www.pcasupport.ucl.ac.uk newsletter Welcome to the [PCA] Support Group Welcome to this PCA Support Group Newsletter. I hope that the content of the newsletter is of interest to all who read it; however, I am acutely aware of the difficulties in producing information which meets everyone’s needs and in a style which they are comfortable to embrace. Please do let me have any suggestions regarding the format of the newsletter and indeed any contributions you wish to make. On December 11th 2013 the first G8 Summit on dementia was held in London. The G8 Dementia Summit brought together, for the first time, health ministers from around the world [Canada, France, Germany, Italy Japan, Russia, United Kingdom, United States of America (with representation from the European Union) with the aim of stimulating investment in dementia research, improving the prevention and treatment of dementia, and improving quality of life for people with dementia. There was much media interest in the event and many powerful stories of how these conditions affect people’s lives (indeed you can still hear our very own Morag de Waele and Prof Newsletter Issue 18, Mar 2014 Martin Rossor speaking on Radio 4’s You and Yours programme at: http://www.bbc.co.uk/ iplayer/episode/b03ktz0h/You_and_Yours_ Diesel_Investigation/ (19:18-26:45). In preparation for the summit, Health Minister Jeremy Hunt MP visited the Dementia Research Centre here at UCL where Nick Fox, Martin Rossor and Seb Crutch were pleased to have an opportunity to describe the current state of dementia research. More coverage of the visit is included on page 6. At the time of the summit, one particular comment caught my attention as specifically significant to members of our groups. The comment was made by Igor Rudan, a professor of epidemiology at the University of Edinburgh in Scotland, who also works for the World Health Organisation. In explaining why the December 2013 revised predictions of the number of people affected by dementia was 17% above those previously published, Prof. Rudan made reference to various reasons for this increase in prevalence data. One of the reasons he listed identified that previous estimates had assumed all cases of dementia would be among people over 65 years of age, MEF MYRTLE ELLIS FUND supporting rare dementia The PCA Support Group is generously supported by the Myrtle Ellis Fund, as part of The National Brain Appeal (Charity number 290173). For more information on the work of the Fund or to make your own contribution to the running costs of the PCA Support Group, please contact the Foundation on 020 3448 4724. Alternatively visit www.pcasupport.ucl.ac.uk or www.justgiving. com/Myrtle-Ellis-Fund 1 intro cont’ and that by accounting for people below this age, the prevalence numbers were consequently pushed up. There were of course other influencing factors, but this heralded at least something of an appreciation that the numbers of people affected by young onset dementia are significant. which is led by Sebastian Crutch at the UCL Institute of Neurology’s Dementia Research Centre and referred to later in this newsletter. Fri June 27th 2014 in Wilkins Old Refectory at UCL, Gower St., WC1E 6BT. Coffee will be available from 10.30am. Meeting will finish by 2.30pm. Lunch provided. Since the November 2013 newsletter was circulated there has been another regional support group meeting; in January 2014 we were hosted in the beautiful home of Martina Wise in Oxford, to whom I am extremely grateful for her help in facilitating and organising that event. There has also been a full support group meeting, and more recently a carers meeting here at UCL. Minutes of the UCL meetings are published at the back of the newsletter. Carers Meeting Friday 26 September 2014 in the Seminar Room, Dementia Research Centre, 1st Floor, 8-11 Queen Square, London, WC1N 3AR. 11am -2pm.Coffee available from 10.30am and lunch provided. Regional Meetings Cambridge regional PCA Support Group Meeting: We are currently trying to organise a second meeting for a date in early May. May I take this opportunity to remind and invite you to the forthcoming meeting on Fri March 21 2014 . The venue will be Wilkins Old Refectory which is in the Wilkins Building, UCL, Gower St, London WC1E 6BT. Oxford regional PCA Support Group Meeting: Monday 24th March. The venue for this meeting will be confirmed by Martina Wise 48 hours beforehand and will be held at either Goring or Blewbury, in Oxfordshire. Individuals MUST therefore RSVP with email and/or mobile details to mrsmartinawise@gmail.com or 07958 668 035 (Martina Wise’s mobile).This will be an informal social gathering for people affected by PCA. Details of additional forthcoming meetings are listed over the page. I look forward to seeing you at one of these meetings or indeed being in contact with you in whatever capacity is most appropriate. Jill Walton Berkshire regional meeting: Forthcoming Meetings Monday 28 April 2014, 12.30pm – 2pm (tbc) at Barkham COAMHS, Wokingham Hospital . This meeting will be organised in conjunction with the ‘Young People With Dementia’ Berkshire West group. Full support group meetings are scheduled for: Please contact Jill for more information about any of these meetings. Fri March 21st 2014 in Wilkins Old Refectory at UCL, Gower St., WC1E 6BT. Coffee will be available from 10.30am. Meeting will start at 11am and finish by 2.30pm. Lunch provided. Agenda to include a visit by Andrew Palmer, from Action for Blind People, who will demonstrate some of the electronic gadgets and adaptations available for visually impaired people.There will also be a presentation by researchers involved with the ‘Seeing what they see’ project, 2 directions Directions for forthcoming meetings Wilkins Old Refectory, University College London, Gower Street, London WC1E 6BT Underground Warren Street station, about five minutes’ walk from UCL. The closest underground stations to UCL are Euston Square on the Circle, Metropolitan and Hammersmith and City Lines, Goodge Street on the Northern Line and Warren Street on the Northern and Victoria Lines. London Underground Infoline: 020 7222 1234. Services to these stops include route numbers: 10, 14, 24, 29, 73, 134, 390. London Buses Infoline: 020 7222 1234 British Rail London has many mainline rail stations. Most of these are a short journey away from UCL, with the stations at Euston, King’s Cross and St Pancras being within easy walking distance. London Underground - Did you know that you can ring London Underground Customer Services on 0845 330 9880 the day before you are due to use a service? They arrange for someone to meet you in the entrance area of the station at which your journey begins, accompany you down to the platform and onto your train. They then radio ahead to an official at the relevant station to assist with any required platform changes or take you up to ground level. British Rail Infoline: 0845 748 4950. Parking UCL Helpline 020 7974 4651 or 020 7974 4655 (Staffed Monday -Friday 9.00 am to 5.00pm) We are very conscious that travelling to and around London can seem a daunting prospect. Be aware that pre-booked travel is generally cheaper than tickets purchased on the day and that the Myrtle Ellis Fund provides help with travel costs where required. Contact Jill for further details. Buses UCL’s Gower Street site is served by many Transport for London bus routes. Buses travelling from north to south stop in Gower Street, immediately outside UCL’s main gate, while those travelling from south to north stop outside 3 your contributions Dennis Hotten is a longstanding member of the group, whose wife Jenny has a diagnosis of PCA. He writes: Jenny worked Her eldest daughter Jackie has been selected to run the London Marathon on the 13th April raising money for the Alzheimer’s Society. for Three Rivers in the Benefits Dept in 2000 and was diagnosed in 2006 with Alzheimer’s at the age of 55. She is currently in a nursing home with very little quality of life as we know it. Please look at the following website www.virginmoneygiving.com/jackiedownes for more information. One female carer writes: In my journey Jeff Solomons explains: at the last PCA through this illness there have been three things that have caused the most concern to me. meeting I mentioned that I had produced diagrams for using a Virgin Tivo box. The Tivo box is only available on Virgin TV and is not suitable for other TV companies such as Sky or BT. The Tivo remote is not particularly easy to use but Susan can just about manage some of the functions, although I have to explain nearly every time she watches TV!! I have attached these and if they are of benefit to anyone please pass them on. 1 Obtaining funding 2 Drug management of the more challenging symptoms. There seems to be no clear research into dealing with the condition now, with emphasis on finding a cure for the future. 3 Finding a suitable care home for my husband without a cohesive list to refer to. Do others agree? 4 your contributions cont’ Teresa and David Jefferey enjoyed being in London for a family concert at the Barbican. The concert is aimed at 8 to 12 year olds and is less formal and shorter than a normal classical concert. The Barbican are also very helpful regarding finding us seats on the end of the row near the sides where they have the handrail and we have their access membership which gives us concessions on tickets if we book early. Sunday’s tickets were £5 each, reduced from £10 each. We also use the lounge restaurant at the Barbican which is good now I need to feed David as they do small tapas style dishes which we can share and they have never had a problem with us needing to be seated side by side rather than opposite one another. The plates are a bit silly, like little ashtrays but they are happy to provide more suitable ones and a spoon. Also there is a good disabled loo just inside the door to the lounge restaurant which seems quite a well kept secret we have never needed to queue for this one although there is often a queue for the other disabled loos in the venue. Malcom Appleford shared information at a recent meeting about the Disabled Persons Railcard scheme. A person is eligible for the scheme either as a result of being registered as having a visual impairment or by virtue of being in receipt of attendance allowance or disability living allowance/personal independence payment. The railcard entitles the holder and a friend to 1/3 off train fares. Passenger assistance is also available to rail users. Visit www.disabledpersons-railcard.co.uk for more information. ‘Stages of PCA’ document The draft document outlining the different stages of PCA was originally discussed at the PCA Carers’ Meeting on 20th September 2013, and subsequently circulated for comments and feedback with the November newsletter. So far, we have received comments and contributions from 12 members of the group, but would be keen to push that number up to at least 20 in order to ensure that the document accurately captures as many of the experiences of different group members as possible. If you feel able to make a contribution to this project by looking through the text and seeing how well it describes your experience of PCA, please complete the forms attached at the end of this newsletter and return to Jill or Seb. 5 other news Health Secretary visits UCL Image: Professor Nick Fox (left) and Dr Selina Wray with health secretary Jeremy Hunt at of Alzheimer’s disease and other forms of dementia using stem cells as a model. the UCL Institute of Neurology. Dr Wray is researching the molecular basis of Alzheimer’s Disease and other forms of dementia using stem cells as a model. Mr Hunt examined at first hand the brains of people who had dementia in life and observed the damage caused to brain cells. He saw the effects of Alzheimer’s disease on the brain including the dramatically reduced hippocampus - a key structure that underpins our memory functions. He then visited the Dementia Research Centre, where he observed a routine assessment of memory, language, perceptual and other cognitive skills which relate directly to the progressive changes in the brain. Mr Hunt then saw how MRI brain scans can detect early change and track the progression of disease. With an ageing population, dementia is soon to become the biggest burden on healthcare systems around the world. In 2010, the global cost of dementia was around £400 billion and this figure will continues to rise as more people are diagnosed each year. Alzheimer’s Disease International estimates that about 135 million people will be living with dementia by 2050. The Prime Minister and Health Secretary are urging industrialised nations to come together to address the problem head on. This message was spelled out loud and clear at the G8 summit meeting on dementia. Health and science ministers, world-leading experts and senior industry figures came together to identify and agree on a new international approach for future dementia research. On the day of the G8 Summit, the Prime Minister called for a global effort to tackle one of the greatest challenges of our time: dementia. The UK is using its presidency of the G8 to spearhead a global effort to tackle dementia. To better understand the challenges that lie ahead, the Secretary of State for Health Jeremy Hunt recently visited a hub of scientists and clinicians leading dementia research projects at UCL. Mr Hunt was given a tour of facilities at the UCL Institute of Neurology and the National Hospital for Neurology and Neurosurgery (NHNN), part of University College London Hospitals NHS Foundation Trust. The NHNN and neuroscientists based at UCL are at the research epicentre. Clinical researchers are faced with several challenges: they must develop new treatments to prevent, slow or stop the disease – and identify as early as possible those who will benefit from these treatments and improve the treatment and care of those affected now. Mr Hunt observed ongoing research designed to better understand the causes of dementia and changes to the brain and met scientists working on understanding the molecular basis Countries involved in the event agreed to secure 6 other news a more coordinated and collaborative approach to the development of new dementia treatments and therapies. The full G8 Dementia Summit Declaration can be found at: https://www.gov. uk/government/uploads/system/uploads/ attachment_data/file/265869/2901668_G8_ DementiaSummitDeclaration_acc.pdf The project is entitled ‘Seeing what they see’ and is led by Sebastian Crutch at the UCL Institute of Neurology’s Dementia Research Centre. The work involves and is inspired by the experiences of people with PCA and their family and friends, and stems directly from the research that many of the support group members have participated in to date. Professor Nick Fox (UCL Institute of Neurology) whose research involves improving diagnosis and tracking the very earliest stages of the diseases said: “We desperately need to find better treatment for these devastating diseases and at the same time we must improve the care and support for the growing numbers of families that will be affected.” Dementia-related visual impairment (caused by degeneration of the brain rather than the eye) is a common but greatly under-recognised symptom that contributes to problems as diverse as visual hallucinations, falls and poor diet. The project aims to deliver interventions that compensate for dementia-related visual impairment in the home/care home environment, and to investigate the impact of dementia-related visual impairment upon health-related quality of life in people with dementia and their carers. Up to 400 new dementia patients are referred to the NHNN each year, many are in their 50s and 60s and some even younger. Professor Martin Rossor is director of the National Institute for Health Research (NIHR) dementia and neurodegenerative research network (DeNDRoN) which is hosted at UCL. He said: “Research into dementia requires investment across the whole spectrum from basic science to policy research. The research groups at the NHNN and the UCL Institute of Neurology are particularly focused on early phase research and experimental medicine. Research at the NHNN and UCL covers the whole spectrum from basic science to health service research. Two other UCL projects were also funded in the same call: ‘Promoting Independence in Dementia’ (PRIDE) led by Professor Martin Orrell (UCL Mental Health Sciences Unit) and ‘Managing Agitation and Raising Quality of Life’ (MARQUE) led by Professor Gill Livingston (UCL Mental Health Sciences Unit). The investments were announced at the G8 dementia summit and represent a significant proportion of the total £20 million funding awarded by the two organisations for research into dementia prevention and improvements in the quality of life for people with dementia. “We were pleased to welcome the health secretary to tell him more about our work.” The NHNN and UCL have benefited from considerable funding grants in the past 12 months which will accelerate the development of treatments and identify future therapeutic targets for neurodegenerative diseases, with the aim of earlier intervention for patients. There are currently 44 million people in the world living with dementia and by 2050 this number is set to treble to 135 million. Last year Prime Minister David Cameron announced plans to tackle the ‘national crisis’ posed by dementia and this week ministers, researchers, pharmaceutical companies and charities are gathering in London for the G8 dementia summit. Text: UCLH Communications Unit £2.6m funding for research into dementiarelated visual dysfunction “Dementia is a major challenge for our society,” says ESRC Chief Executive Paul Boyle. “It is imperative to develop an understanding of the needs of those with dementia, their families and the communities they live in.” UCL has been awarded more than £2.6 million by the Economic and Social Research Council (ESRC) and the National Institute for Health Research (NIHR) to help tackle the challenges associated with dementia-related visual dysfunction. 7 Research Opportunities BMJ Patient Partnership Strategy Recruiting Peer Reviewers Funding We are currently in discussion with the Homes and Communities Agency about grant funding. They won’t fund the whole cost of the project so we are also talking to Oxfordshire County Council and West Oxfordshire District Council about other grants. Grant funding will hopefully make up about a third of the £3 million we need to raise with the balance coming from banks and charitable trusts. We’ll be producing a summary business case soon which you’ll be The BMJ is currently inviting people to join its panel of patient reviewers, providing a perspective on the patient focussed aspect of particular manuscripts, drawing on your experience of a particular topic, condition or intervention. A key part of this process will involve peer reviewers being sent selected research papers, analysis and educational papers to review. The editorial team at the BMJ believe (and are setting up a research project to assess this) that your opinions on papers will add useful insights/ perspectives which will complement the much valued expert opinions we get from medical, scientific and methodological reviewers. able to view on the YDUK website. Jane Norman Director YDUKH Please right click on the text box below to open the link for more information, contact Jill for details of who to contact at the BMJ Young Dementia UK Homes Lots has happened over the last few months so what better time than the start of a new year to update you on our progress? Design We are still focusing on our original concept design of a 12 apartment extra care home with a mix of one and two bedrooms. One possible ground floor layout is shown here. All of the apartments will be self-contained with their own kitchen, bathroom, living room and bedroom. Each will have its own small garden as well as sharing the communal garden and they will be arranged in three wings that link to the communal areas—including the cafe, therapy and staff rooms. Site We have managed to narrow our site search down to one specific site in West Oxfordshire and we are currently talking to the owner about how much they want us to pay. The District Council have indicated their support for our project in this location, as have the planners so we’re hoping we’ll be able to go ahead with this one. 8 Action for Blind People Action for Blind People of emotions from shock, anger, sadness and frustration, to depression and grief. This is quite normal and understandably coping with these emotions can be very difficult.’ https://www.actionforblindpeople.org.uk/ Action for Blind People is a national charity, part of the RNIB group, but with 17 local action teams providing practical help and support to blind and partially sighted people of all ages. They offer visually impaired people a number of services, including help with finding a job, applying for benefits, housing issues, aids and adaptations, holiday breaks and information on local services. Action for Blind People has the time and the expertise to provide support. They are familiar with the life changes that people may need to make and can help guide people through this difficult time and provide essential information and advice that will help them adapt to changes in their life. Visit the website or call their central office on 020 7635 4800. Obviously, some areas of their expertise will be more relevant than others to people with PCA. A representative from the group will be visiting our March 21 Meeting, demonstrating some of the technological and daily living appliances they are able to provide. ‘Losing some or all of your sight can be very distressing and have a big effect on your life. People tell us that they struggle with a range 9 minutes Oxfordshire Regional Meeting The first Oxfordshire regional meeting took place at the home of Martina and Sephen Wise in Blewbury on Monday January 20th 2014.17 people were treated to a scrumptious lunch whilst benefiting from the opportunity to share experiences of PCA and exchange stories with others in similar circumstances. After a welcome and introduction from Jill Walton,who set the context of the meeting against a quote from a book written by Alexine Crawford… ‘telling our story, and hearing the story…is of enormous importance, both for the teller and the hearer. Without a sense of history our view of the present and of ourselves is limited and handicapped. The telling and the hearing bring healing and growth’, Martina Wise opened the meeting by sharing her desire to see a greater efficiency and awareness in decision making for legal, fiscal and financial aspects alongside dealing with PCA and medical needs. People in the group introduced themselves and shared as much of their story as they felt comfortable in doing. People at all stages of the diagnosis were represented at the meeting and at the end of our 2 hours together people voted in favour of a second meeting, a date was set for 24 March 2014, and an offer to help with the hosting was kindly accepted. Memorable comments from the day included one gentleman’s reference to the way a diagnosis of PCA had altered his plans for the future by summing up with the words ‘PCA somehow got in the way’ . A second encouraging outlook was provided in the comment ‘acknowledge the future, but live in the present!’. Details of the second Oxfordshire meeting are listed in the ‘Forthcoming Meetings’ section of this newsletter. Minutes PCA Support Meeting 8 November 2013 at UCL Minutes PCA Support Meeting 8 November 2013 at UCL Welcome by Jill This time we met in the smaller Haldane room at UCL, which served our 40 attendees and 4 Skype viewers well, with facilities near at hand, if not en suite. We hope that the 3 new members found their journeys across London and beyond manageable and we look forward to seeing you again next time. Jill has represented the Myrtle Ellis Fund Dementia Support Groups by giving a 20 minute talk on our work at a recent ARUK Conference on Fronto-Temporal Dementia. She has also broadcast on Radio 5 Live- live, of course, on our behalf. Well done Jill! The Cambridgeshire Group has launched with 20 members and the new Oxfordshire group is in the pipeline. Jill thanked Christina Ruse for her help in facilitating the Cambridge meeting. Mandy Haines asked for responses to the new Contact Details Card in the lunch break. The Scribe Project Our pre-Lunch slot was presented by its founders Lore Windemuth-Wolfsen and Linda Yue. 2.1 They are setting up a Writing Support Service for professional writers diagnosed with dementias which affect their ability to spell and organize written projects, so that ongoing projects can be completed, and so that the help of an amanuensis can thus enable them to operate for as long as possible. 2.2 When Lore’s husband Paul was diagnosed with PCA, she watched the effects of deteriorating keyboard, spelling and word-finding skills on his work. She felt the need to find an informed and sympathetic amanuensis, who could spread the load for sufferer and carer. 2.3 Linda was at first engaged to edit and organize Paul’s work: as the relationship developed, she became able to move from audio typing to challenging Paul and working alongside him. 10 minutes cont’ 2.4 Projects were very varied: newspaper articles, Paul’s outstanding projects and lectures, the reworking of other articles, a TV Documentary and the editing of a Royal College of Psychiatrists paper of which Paul was co-author. 3.4 Seb raised the need for help at lower levels of letter writing. Enquire via Age UK: alternatively local hospices and Mental Health Services do offer help. It is also worth enquiring for help with phone and on line problems. 2.5 The joint work was seen as a normal part of family life which enabled Paul to express himself for longer. For his wife it brought respite and renewed energy when she took over his care again. Action for Blind People Steven Franks (Area Operations Manager) lead our afternoon session. 4.1 Steven began with an overview. The RNIB runs Fundraising, Campaigning, Membership in UK and N Ireland along with the Legal Helpline. Action for Blind People deals with individuals and individual need. 2.6 Paul ultimately took the decision to end his own life while he felt he could still be a lively Dad for his children. After his death, Lore and Linda decided to turn their experience into a niche project in his memory. 4.2 360 000 people are registered blind or partially sighted. 2 000 000 live with sight loss (Estimates based on the frequency of commonly occurring eye conditions.) 2.7 They were mentored for one year by First Project with Jo Branson as Patron. They needed to be specific in what they offered: it was not simply to be letter writing. Therefore whole projects are offered, which can include the writing of books or chapters, or even complete new projects for professionals. A fee would be charged to allow clients to have their own space, for example, with 6 x 2 hour sessions. 4.3 100 people start to lose their sight every day. 50% of this loss is avoidable. 4.4 Common causes of sight loss. Diabetic retinopathy and Macular degeneration cause a loss of central vision. In Glaucoma, central vision is retained. Cataracts are operable. Retinitis pigmentosa caused by reflected light of snow or sun impairs vision. 2.8 The Scribe Project has been presented to the Innovation in Dementia Conference and there is an appeal for scribes and clients. 4.5 Benefits of registration as visually impaired (usually by an ophthalmologist) include 50% reduction in TV license fee, no postage on articles for the blind, Disabled bus /Rail Pass, London Taxi Card (0207 934 9791), Assistance with National Rail or TfL Travel. Questions 3.1 Question on-line, re cost. Answer: Charging is currently set at £12 per hour according to means. 3.2 Q: Is help available with managing numbers; e.g. when perception of shape is gone. 4.6 Other services available include: Assistance with independent living, Employment (via an Employment service involving employers), Accessing Technology (Courses offered plus demonstrations), Support and Social groups for Blind people to meet up, Sports and leisure activities for children, Information on travel and hotels, Housing information. A: This organization cannot help with this. Help may be available via an occupational therapist. 3.3 Q: Do you use audio recordings between sessions? A: No. The sessions are dedicated work. Work is not carried on outside of them. Word searching, for example, requires 1 to 1 negotiation. The service is directed largely at people who have experience of professional writing. 4.7 Since people cannot always take in the implications at the point of diagnosis, help is offered in the application and appeals processes for State Benefits. 11 minutes cont’ 4.8 Aids for daily life include, large print keys (for phone and typing) electronic magnifiers etc. etc. 5.2 A pen friend service is much valued. 4.9 RNIB does offer telephone support and information on practical and emotional needs. 5.4 Local sensory teams help with home improvements, e.g. lighting. Questions and Comments 5.1 Services for E2L speakers needed as English can be lost. Talking Newspapers and books are available in other languages. Cultural Institutes provide information. 5.3 Braille is not taught in UK Schools – it should be! A request from Seb. Please comment on the handout re the stages of PCA in the spaces provided and indicate how long it took you. Celia Heath December 2013. Joint Support Groups Meeting 13 February 2014 Minutes of Joint Carers Meeting at UCL Venue and Attendees: Once again UCL hosted our meeting in the Haldane room, which was ideal for the 59+ attendees. For this meeting the Frontotemporal Dementia Support Group. The Familial Alzheimer’s Disease Support Group, The PPA Support Group and the PCA Support Group Carers joined together. Welcome Jill welcomed the 4 groups with a brief description of how the 4 dementias manifest themselves and two ideas on long term friendship, by way of an introduction to Jane Youell’s talk on Intimate Relationships in Dementia. This included a quote from C S Lewis, “Friendship begins the moment you meet someone else and realize: What you too? I thought I was the only one!” She went on to develop another idea from Alexine Crawford, who speaks of the road to healing being transformed by the telling of our own story and listening to that of a partner. Jane Youell’s Talk, How do people living with dementia understand the differences in intimate relationships? 1.1 Jane began by reflecting on her own story and life journey into her many current roles as Carer, Psychologist, Activist and Campaigner, and finally PhD Student and Worker for the Institute of Health and Wellbeing. 1.2 Harry was born with a mental disability: it took time for Jane to accept the role of Carer/Mum. She learned how to connect with mental health workers in order to cope with Harry’s behaviours. As he got older, her husband also faced a 2 year depressive illness. 1.3 Her journey to researching Intimate Relationships within Dementia began during a BA in Psychology. Her final assignment was to be about the Role of Humour in Caring. As she worked with Age Concern, she saw the importance of intimacy and how it endures when one partner “is there but not there”. The topic of today’s talk developed from the undergraduate thesis on Intimacy in Dementia that replaced her first idea and then became the subject of her current Ph. D research. 1.4 The reality of Dementia dominates all areas of partnership just as intimacy affects all areas of physical contact. It endures over sex but as understanding distorts, touching for example may be misunderstood. 1.5 The carer is often left feeling they have no-one to talk to and are alone in coping with the myth that those over 65 and the sick do not need sexual intimacy. 2.1 During her degree, Jane spoke on the topic of her research for the Parent Carers Forum. They used government funding 12 minutes cont’ to sponsor her PhD at the University of Northampton 2.2 This allowed her to interview a wider sample of carers and some sufferers who felt more at ease talking about sex in their home space. Sex helped with their resilience to disease. 2.3 Why then is sex good for you? It keeps the immune function healthy, boosts libido, improves female bladder control, lowers blood pressure and eases stress. It is good exercise and hence good for the heart, it lessens pain and improves sleep. It generally increases our sense of wellbeing. 2.4 It is therefore important in living well with dementia. It improves the care for people living with dementia, helping carers in particular to stay healthy for longer- with appropriate breaks. 3.1 The significance of the marital bed: when this has been the centre of family routine as well as of marital intimacy, it can be devastating when one partner has to sleep separately on the lower floor, e.g. because they can no longer manage stairs. 3.2 The regularity of sex maintains resilience rather like keeping regular appointments. 4.6 Another interviewee felt that sex was just for men and was accomplished out of duty, not enjoyment. Disease can also erode performance: sex had become unpleasant for her, but she felt she had to do it. It appeared to give him pleasure and has become an aspect of caring. 5.1 On the positive side, love and dementia can co-exist. Another interviewee reported they still had cuddles and kisses, held hands, stroked each other. 5.2 The use of reminiscence is important. There is a need to be verbal. A final thought: Love is complex and messy. Happy Valentine’s Day! Love keeps you going. Individual discussion groups followed lunch with a chance to ask the speaker or the UCL staff further questions. Issues raised were: the speed of symptoms developing, the fact that carer and/or sufferer can go into denial, guilt around feelings of failure within the marriage relationship, delusions of people having sex (in Lewy Body dementia), a sudden change in sexual behaviour within the relationship can be due to disease. Celia Heath February 2014 3.3 Loss will always be a problem especially the lingering loss of a partner to dementia. 3.4 Mrs. C the survivor of a childless marriage still climbs into his bed for comfort in stress. 4.1 Sex, of course, is not exclusively heterosexual. Some carers postpone access to residential care for fear of staff non-acceptance of a partner’s sexual divergency e.g., cross dressing. Stone Wall offer guidance on such issues. 4.2 Issues over consent. All participants in the medium stage of dementia can consent. The Mental Health Act 2005 2005 deals with Mental Capacity and the Law. 4.5 A stage is reached when the subject may not understand what is happening. One partner may not understand or enjoy sexual contact. They may become childlike, so that sex is irrelevant. James had to take the decision to be a 100% carer, not a spouse. 13