K-State Center for Child Development Pa r e nt New s le tte r PTO Points of Interest Hello Parents, *We design and offer activities to connect CCD Summer days are slipping families with one other. by, and school bells will *We work together to soon be ringing once build a positive again. Your Parent partnership between Teacher Organization parents and teachers. (PTO) has many things in the works for a great Our first meeting will be school year. We hope held on Tuesday, August that you can attend an 18 at NOON, in the activity or two, and lend a CCD Conference Room. hand to build a great The meeting will partnership with our conclude by 12:50 p.m. teachers and families. Bring your lunch, if you Here is a little bit about wish. We will discuss PTO: activities for fall. *Our mission is to build a network between families and teachers at the Center for Child Development (CCD). serving you. Questions? If so, please email Andrea Feldkamp at afeld@ksu.edu. Enjoy these final summer moments! Andrea Feldkamp CCD PTO President I am your PTO President this year. My husband, Larry, and I have three children attending the CCD. I look forward to Building Access and Security The safety of all who use the CCD is important to maintain. To gain access to the CCD, the keypad entry system is located in the vestibule at the left of the entrance to the CCD. Individuals that have access to the CCD will enter their assigned PIN on the keypad to gain access to the center. After access to the building is gained, make sure the door closes. If there is an individual waiting behind you to gain access to the CCD, close the door to allow that individual to enter their PIN for access. For safety reasons, under no circumstances, hold the door open for someone else. If, for any reason, someone gets into the CCD with you without entering a PIN, notify the receptionist immediately. August 2015 Inside this issue: PTO Points of Interest Building Access and Security 1 Signing Children In and Out 1 Important Dates 1 Communicating with 2 Children Early Childhood Screening On August 21st from 9am to 11am This free screening will take place at Peace Lutheran Church at 2500 Kimball Avenue Please call ahead on August 18th or 19th from 8 am to 4 pm in order to reserve a time. 785-776-6363 Important Dates: Signing Children In and Out of the Classroom Families, please sign your child in and out of the classroom daily. This is required for safety purposes, and is a regulation of both licensing and the federal food program. On the sign in and out sheet please check the appropriate box to notify staff if your child will be eating the next day’s lunch and snack. This information allows the center to order an accurate number of meals. We must fax our meal counts to our caterer by 8:30am. Please help us by notifying the center before that time if your child will be absent, or arriving late, and we will cancel that day’s meals for your child. 11 1 August 10th-14th Teacher In-Service CCD closed all week August 24th-First day of fall classes for Kansas State University Communicating with Children Children communicate from the Make sure you don’t feel rushed to very beginning and not always with move on to a different topic. words. Make eye contact: Look children Babies cry, coo, snuggle, arch their in the eyes when you speak to them. Get on their level by backs, make eye contact, or look stooping or sitting as often as you away. can. Speaking or yelling from Toddlers use a combination of across the room is ineffective with body language like pointing and gesturing before they learn to use young children––they’re usually focused on what they’re doing, so single words or short sentences. it’s important to get their attention Preschoolers begin to speak in complete sentences that are mostly first and then deliver the message. Brush up on your listening skills: grammatically correct. And they begin to connect the spoken word Effective listening is one of the best things parents can do to with the written word. improve communication. It takes School-age children speak much practice, but it’s a skill that can be like adults. They ask more mastered, and it’s worth it. When questions and begin to talk and children are listened to, they know play with peers more. When parents want to communicate with you’re interested and they tend to share more. Put down the their children effectively, they need to keep a few things in mind newspaper and turn off the such as the age of their child and television–– children know when your attention is focused communication styles. elsewhere. Researchers agree that lots of positive child-parent communica- Validate feelings: Don’t you feel better when someone says they tion and interaction builds a understand? It’s the same with foundation for effective communication that helps in all kids. If they say, “I’m afraid of the dog across the street,” say walks of life––from family to friends to colleagues. Why spend something like, “I know that dog has a very loud bark. Maybe we a lot of valuable time nagging, shouting, demanding, or threaten- can get to know him better.” ing when it doesn’t work? Practice Restate and clarify: It’s easy to misunderstand what another and incorporate a few of these person is saying. Young children communication tools into your need a little time to organize their daily life. Remember, timing is everything: thoughts and get all of the words When you have important things to line up and make sense. It’s often helpful to restate what you to discuss, choose a time when thought you heard them say. everyone is fed and well rested. Page 2 Communicating With Children Steps To Effective Communication: • Get on your child’s eye level when possible. • Provide a parent prompt. “Tell me more . . .” • Reduce noise and other distractions. • Use words that your child understands. Make Communication Fun Questions that allow for more than one answer help children feel confident. They encourage problem-solving and stimulate interesting discussions Open-ended Questions: Where do you think that bird is flying? What’s your favorite color? Why do you think the dog is barking? If you ran out of paper, what could you write on? 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